Absolutely demeaning. You never hear a woman throw up in a “man” face. You ask to “marry” me. But I can imagine that men will throw this in a “woman” face during an argument💁🏽💯
She married him for all the wrong reasons. It sounds like she slept with him married him and produced her " trophy baby ". Then she woke up to reality. He didn't want her. I don't think she realized that she didn't know him. I'm glad she got out alive. Let this be a lesson learned for her and others. That's what happens when you value a person's skin tone above their character. ♥
She will find another racist white man. O well. She chose him. Says more about her. And blk females. The man has always been himself! She was the crazy one. And you blk females celebrated it.
She has been dealt with with colourism so bad. She’s not most black men’s preference as a choice for a mate. Thus pushed her to go for anything light bright and white that will show interest in her . Is sad and most black womenfolk in Europe and America goes through this.
Not only that, but he catcalled her across the room. I don't understand having a one-night stand with a man who has the audacity to do that to me so publicly. 🤮
I've gotta hear this. Because she was bragging over that baby. He must have cheated so badly that she couldn't get past it. The colonizers designed it all so that "skin color" has become an idol. It's made to look so beneficial that it provides a better life. Many have fallen for it. The devil validated this through the "house slave v field slave" dichotomy. It's a spiritual thing. Anything we look towards for enrichment , fulfillment, hope and salvation becomes a poor substitute for the true God. I've seen Jody in ONE movie and it was bad. She should have been developing her own brand and skill set, while she had that fallback. He might think she's wanting to collect his coins. In Hollywood, it's community property after 10 years (50/50).
@@candleofYah As long as the majority of black woman act like 14 year teenagers - wear weaves - are not family focused - they will continue to be self hating.
First of all Jodie said herself that, "Black men were not interested in her; " that's where the self hatred started. If we as Black people ourselves are so proud to be Black; then why do we in turn still hate on ourselves? Can anyone tell me? Come on Brothers and Sisters tell the TRUTH.
@rosejames5172 Not just BM marrying dark women, but BW loving and appreciating dark men. Yes everyone loves Lance Gross, Eldris Alba Terrell Owens now, but did we love ❤️ them when they were young.
So it was more than dark moods. This situation has been an incredible mess from the beginning. You have to treat yourself well before others can treat you well. I hope she has learned that.
Ya’ll sound stupid and desperate as hell. Keep riding that wave of jealous ignorance… it looks good on ya. You KNOW nothing, but stand 10 toes down on your ignorant speculation of it makes you feel some kind of way. 😂😂😂
People do not change. My guess is the "issue" existed from the beginning and Jodie ignored it until now. The way Jackson told on her when he was on talk shows said a lot. It is not rare to be intimate on the first date or for women to propose but respect and maturity keep people from blabbing those details.
Only desperate black women who loves white over their own men do desperate thin😮like this, jodie is from the UK and unfortunately you have so many like her in UK , they don't want a beautiful black child, they waiting for that white savour. They hate black men, the same white men who slept with them like to brag and tell you about what they say!
@imetaboyiusedtoknow8308 This is not an opinion it's a fact. All women were raised for men to propose, to ask them out on a date, to ask them for prom, etc. Now, there are a select few who goes against that, but even they know that's not how it goes. In Jodie's case, why do you think she was embarrassed by the fact her husband let the world know she proposed to him? She knew that she wasn't supposed to do that. She knew she looked desperate, asking a man for his hand in marriage. That's looks crazy more than it sounds. You can't convince me or anyone else that the standard.
@@zengreen7 Nothing leads tp single motherhood faster than being with black men. Facts. Even white women, Hispanics, Asians are finding out. Get a black buck and you end upna single mother most times. Black men are the dustiest of all men.
I hope the baby is okay. Joshua can take care of himself. Jodi, well, she's on her own. It's a cruel world out there. But honestly, who stays married in Hollywood anyway? It's an evil place.
Self hate is not generally in Black people, but it appears to be a part of MANY ignorant Black peoples lives.. Some well educated Black people have a "Superiority Complex", while the majority have a "Inferiority Complex", and feel that by hating people with lighter skin simply because they would being that skin color. I have witnessed many dark skin Black women who hates on light skin Black women who haven't done anything to them, other than being born with Light Skin.. Dark skin Black people need to start loving themselves for who they are, and not confuse that false pride with hating on other lighter skin people as if that prove that they have pride... By the way, this dark skin Black woman can marry any race of man she chooses, whether he is a white, Chinese, Eskimo, Navajo, South Sudanese, because it is no one else's business. As a Black person, I have noticed that we spend too much damn time consuming our minds with SKIN COLOR, when Black people regardless of skin color are still discriminated by our RACE, and not about our skin color.. Skin color seem to dominate many Black people WEAK A$$ minds more than the RACIST practices against us by all the other races of people on earth.. It seem like 0% of the videos on U-Tube always discuss things like PASSPORT BROTHERS SEEKING NON BLACK WOMEN, and DO Asian women like Black men, and do Black people prefer vacationing in Europe, rather than Africa.. No other race of people seem to appear on U-TUBE videos complaining about "WE DON'T NHAVE NO FRIENDS" as if we are still searching for people to be our friends... Many of us are so far behind, until it is quite sickening...
Jodi really needs some deep therapy, especially since she has to raise that child. She needs to heal her state of mind to raise a psychologically healthy child. That child's lighter hue will not be her saving grace. Joshua Jackson looks well into his 50's.
She felt he was her "Prince Charming."So that what she expected of him overtook her.And before you jump into bed with somebody you have to consider many things like why should I be doing this?
Her childs lighter hue will be her saving grace . I guarantee you if jodi was biracial y'all would be here having sympathy for her, but since see is dark skinned nobody has any sympathy for her. y'all light skinned worshipping hypocrites never ceases to amuse me.
Great review Lady Boule! I think Lupita should be careful as well. According to the blogs she was at Janelle Monae's concert. It was rumored that she dated her as well. I mean Joshua was with his ex yt gf for i think 10 years and didn't propose. Jodie proposed to him and he just had to tell the world about it. You gotta be desperate to get with him.
I didn't think the marriage would last anyway. You have to be absolutely desperate to ask a man to marry you! Now you have a child that is born into this messy situation. Mother don't love herself and Dad playing the fields with every black actor that will have him. Everyone have a wonderful, blessed day!🤗
The real reason she’s divorcing him is because she thought it’d be peaches and cream with no issues but she soon discovered that all that glitters isn’t gold , I figure she had lots of self loathing going on and wanted him to validate her self worth , when she figured out he’s just like any other man with unstable personality and possibly anger issues , I believe it was a culture shock , she was probably raised to believe white is perfect and can do no wrong but found out the hard way , she acts like her daughter was just a gift in the heat of passion , NAH she knew she wanted a biracial child and didn’t have a problem giving up the cookie on the first date with him so she could achieve that goal , even risking her sexual health , if it was a blk man she’d definitely would have made him wait and prove himself
women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas... in race context, BW lower their dating or mating standards for WM all the while, demand higher standards for BM.
She didn't have "self-esteem" issues with her skin. She said black men were engaged in colorism towards her as a dark skinned woman and that wm were the only ones expressed an attraction to her. This is more common than you would think with dark skinned women. You are refusing to acknowledge black men's colorism and its effect on dark skinned women for some reason. Idk why.
Many Black men of every complexion cherish dark-skinned women. The same holds true for Black women. Yes colorism exists in basically all communities of color,, including the Black community. Still, that does not mean that "all" or "most" people in communities of color are colorists. A case in point is several of my light-skinned Black friends who believe dark-skinned people are the most attractive. They don't dislike themselves, but they realize that, in many instances, their light skin is a result of their slave ancestors being violated by the slave owners. Even in instances where one has a darker-hued parent, in this country, it's likely that their is some slave master blood running through the veins. Afterall, rape was an everyday occurrence on the plantations, and sad to say, it was a socially accepted practice. Looking at this beautiful actress' face, is a perfect example of having the recessive genes thst are not of Africa. More important, nobody will ever convince me that dark skin is not beautiful. It's outstanding and beyond beautiful. For example, when I first saw Reddy Pendergrass, I thought he was one of the most handsome men that I had ever seen. That was before I even heard him sing one note. His facial features, height, and physique were perfect. After he opened his mouth, I was totally floored. My opinion still stands to.this very day. Blessings ❤️🙏
@@sandraatkins2539 She looks like a Wolof. She would blend in perfectly in Dakar, Senegal, and the natives would speak to her in their language. You don't know what you are talking about when it comes to African features.
@@sandraatkins2539 Many black men of every complexion are colorist, which is why dark skinned _women_ have such a hard time in the black community. Yet, black women express their attraction to dark skinned men all the time. Let's stop pretending black men don't pedestalize light and wyte skinned women over darker skinned women.
She was on drugs when she proposed. She made it way too easy and he’s clearly an opportunist. Totally irresponsible to have a child considering the context.
Ms. Turner-Smith said that white people are the only ones who told her that she is beautiful; this is simply a way of letting us know that many people involved in her upbringing had issues with her darkness. Many of us have experienced as children being called "dark" or "black" in a derogatory tone {black as tar is what was said to me); told that our hair is "bad" or "nappy" in a derogatory tone; etc., by people who should have been on our side. I was never referred to as pretty or beautiful in childhood. Not once. At a certain point in time, I learned that just because another black person saw my blackness as ugly didn't mean I had to adopt the same viewpoint. I decided it was really stupid to pay money to try to look like somebody else. I refused the relaxers and weaves and chemicals, and decided to grow my dreds. I have never looked back. The next time I heard my aunt, who claimed credentials as a licensed minister, refer to the hair texture of somebody as "bad", I asked her if she believed Genesis chapter 1, in which God declares all the things he created as good. She said she did. I then told her that God created that hair texture, and if he says it is good, why would we describe it as something else? We're going to meet God face to face; are we going to tell him that a hair texture he created is bad? She wasn't sure what to say, but I've decided to base my self esteem and my views on skin shade and hair texture on Genesis 1: God created it, so it is good. Anyone who calls it otherwise can explain themselves to God when they meet him on Judgement Day. And non-African American men (largely Puerto Ricans) were the first ones to tell me that I was beautiful and treat me like I mattered. Ms. Turner-Smith may be speaking the truth about not having been called beautiful by blacks in her life. There are a lot of blacks who still have slave mentality/colonized mentality. It is quite shameful. I hope she learns to love her physical attributes, because in the eyes of God, her shade is beautiful. It can really do a number on a child's confidence and self esteem to receive so many spoken messages that they are ugly because of their color and hair texture, and to realize that people your shade are never the love interest in movies and never the desired lady in videos. I quit listening to certain artists and watching their videos over this issue. Moving into my own place and surrounding myself with people who didn't have that kind of baggage has made me a much happier person. Reminding myself of Genesis 1 has also done a lot for my own healing and growth.
Do you know what I will never understand? The idea that they were not on a date. They found themselves seated next to each other, struck up a conversation, and were photographed together. It happens.
I hope she learns to ignore self hay-ting, colourist BM and the bc and truly learns to love herself in every way, not just her physical. I’m not surprised at yt supremacy mind controlling blk people into hay-ting themselves, but it’s super sick and twisted when the bc do it!! Championed by the men and then have the nerve to criticise and condemn her for choices made in reaction to the colourist abuse all dark skin BW have in endure from birth!
"A wyte person should NEVER be the first person to tell a Black person they are beautiful!!!" Point blank period!!! That's profound LB!!! She's still of that self dericating belief 😮😮😮. Roles for these actors are realistic. "What is a dark mood???" Irreconcilable differences are almost always"cheating" WITH MULTIPLE partners by at least one of the parties. Pitiful self loathing...
Self-hating Black people have an issue with worshipping White people because I don’t celebrate White men. I actually don’t trust majority of them like that, so I remain respectful and move out the way.
There have been many reports that method acting can open a person to demonic activity. Joaquin phoenix in playing the role of joker, and Jack Nicholson who also played joker has said many times playing those types of "dark" roles are not healthy. However, I agree that she thought "her love" will heal him and conquer his demons within him. Most women regardless of race mistakenly believe this.
Heath Ledger said that he had trouble sleeping 💤 after he played the Joker 🃏 too. Some speculate that his dark roles stemmed from him being unwell and misusing medication 💊 to help him sleep.
And l wish you all would acknowledge this,when black males end up divorced ,and failed so called relationship with Caucasian females, and other races of females,you all love to make fun of, and humiliate black women ,when they get their wake up call,l wish our black people would love themselves and each other, l feel it's counter productive and,non beneficial for black people to marry and procreate with Caucasian and other races of people,the black people in these unions always get embarrassed,or worse, murdered,or locked up.
That's why I don't believe the whole facade of Bw/wm marriages last longer, many of these bw are being abused and can't speak up to them being afraid of being called the N word
Always said things about how blacks had the most issues with their interractial relationship; in particular black americans..was foolishness.. she definitely has issues
By the way. Selema cheated on Lupita. I do not think she would hook herself up to another cheater. A man who does not believe in monogamy. I think Jody just got tired of turning her face. Enough is enough.
I have told plenty of dark skin women they were pretty and gorgeous and they didn't believe me and im a Black man. So sisters just have deep issues and never get help
It is a disgrace and a abomination to self hate your self. You love yourself, God created black people, that's beauty of the melanin. Different shades of it. LOVE IT!
WMBW relationships are weird. Getting through one is very complicated.l don't trust Jodie's version to be accurate. But, l am too tired to write a comment or explain fully. 😢😢😢😢
I saw her on a show and she said, they had sex a lot when they first met. Now most women know having sex is not going to keep a man. Plus if this man has a dark-side, why would you want joint custody?
I really wish you had held back on this commentary. I’ve you‘very done is give a green light to ignorance and speculation as well as a thumbs up to people who are champing at the bit for a reason to tear down a BW. This woman has issues to contend with and this comment section just highlights the lack of logical reasoning and hatred that will continue to destroy relations in the BC. It’s really sad and based AH!
I agree! Wow! This comment section makes me want to vomit. However, I really think it is representative of the way a lot of us think. Also, literally, just the fact that people think they know so much about people who they have not even met gives me such a nasty, spiteful vibe. Also, as if the folks commenting don’t need help themselves. Whether wrong or right, at the end of the day who are we to judge? Dang! 🙏🏾💜🤦🏾♀️
@@78vette11 I don’t feel as though it’s irrelevant. I do get recognizing patterns. So many times Black people are taken advantage of by white people, especially, Black women. However, the manner in which too many of the comments are stated is why I take issue with it. Like this whole anti-divesting thing, etc.
The comment section is healthy, if don't like the truth go elsewhere, go where the racist comment on black women and you will be happy, that's the problem with black women and men who love to sleep around, they justify everything for their preferences.
NAW Lupita is not str8‼️ I'm a Black Woman and on this one I can't blame Joshua Jodie was kinda anti-Black American and arrogant. She wanted a YT man by any means necessary ‼️ Now she's running without trying to cure the problem. Serves her right I thought Lupita was only intimate with the same sex. I actually feel sorry for Joshua. These two women are tricky
So she's divorcing her husband for what again? If y'all still love each other, do not let anyone come between y'all. Get some help, communicate and if it's possible to fix it, fix it.
@@rbellot11you mean… “you’re right, my bad”… Just all kinds of stupid sitting up here make base judgements. Is it any wonder BW are seeking ANYTHING that isn’t you? You’ve added nothing but dust to the convo.
She'd rather act thirsty and propose not once but twice to a man that didn't want to get married, had a kid first chance she got than any other alternatives such as her own people.
Boyce Watkins used dog Black Women who may have a different opinion from him. Now that he’s married he wants to tell Black men how they should treat Black women or queens as he would put it. I stopped listening to him, such a big hypocrite.
I don't take non these celebs moves seriously, they make money or clot moves. So what you expect it's all hollyweird, they got it like that or do it like that...😊
@@anewx Do you call the 25% of black men who marry interracially sell outs? Do you call the other 70% of black men who don't date dark skinned women and worship light skinned women sell outs? A black man worth millions like joshua would never marry a dark skinned woman like Jodi . Like I said leave Jodi alone.
They weren't the first to tell her that and they rn't the first to tell u. Ur parents r but later u believe it bc we r taught white is right. Why not ask for full custody?. She would ask for joint custody w a guy who has dark moods. She want get .uch from that divorce either. Lupita is known for being gay by many in Hollywood or thats the rumor. So if she is, so is he imo. I would say he did unhealthy things if he is w Lupita according to the rumors. So we now have a clearer pic.
Tyrone or Brad… don’t matter. When Keisha gets comfortable, Keisha gonna be Keisha: quick tempered and living her life outside the order of natural law. Unfortunately, Keisha can’t destroy Brads character like she can Tyrone’s. And she is gonna pay Brad for his time, while he keeps hiking up and down Swirl Mountain.
He doesn’t love her, so possibly he resents her and it presents itself as “dark moods “.🔹ladies don’t ask a man to marry you. It’s demeaning
Absolutely demeaning. You never hear a woman throw up in a “man” face. You ask to “marry” me. But I can imagine that men will throw this in a “woman” face during an argument💁🏽💯
@@bigvalley4987 Women shouldn’t ask men to marry them. If the guy wants to marry them, he’ll ask
She married him for all the wrong reasons. It sounds like she slept with him married him and produced her " trophy baby ". Then she woke up to reality. He didn't want her. I don't think she realized that she didn't know him. I'm glad she got out alive. Let this be a lesson learned for her and others. That's what happens when you value a person's skin tone above their character. ♥
Race.....bw must stop valuing Race over everything.
They fetishize each other, plain & simple. Apparently, she is very shallow. He probably called her all types of ninjas in private..
You better preach!!!!
She will find another racist white man. O well. She chose him. Says more about her. And blk females. The man has always been himself! She was the crazy one. And you blk females celebrated it.
She has been dealt with with colourism so bad. She’s not most black men’s preference as a choice for a mate. Thus pushed her to go for anything light bright and white that will show interest in her . Is sad and most black womenfolk in Europe and America goes through this.
Wait a minute! She met a man at a party and slept with him on the first night then asked him to marry her?
That does sound like low self-esteem.
Non bw sleep wit bm the 1st night and nobody says anything. That's double standards
Not only that, but he catcalled her across the room. I don't understand having a one-night stand with a man who has the audacity to do that to me so publicly. 🤮
low self-esteem was a part of it. She also saw her opportunity to be with a caucasian (which is in line with her low self-esteem).
@justme2272 Just shut up and open your legs for zaddy and stop comparing a man to woman have some pride in yourself.
That also tells us that she had low emotional intelligence
There's a saying you can't hide who you really are :
I've gotta hear this. Because she was bragging over that baby. He must have cheated so badly that she couldn't get past it. The colonizers designed it all so that "skin color" has become an idol. It's made to look so beneficial that it provides a better life. Many have fallen for it. The devil validated this through the "house slave v field slave" dichotomy. It's a spiritual thing. Anything we look towards for enrichment , fulfillment, hope and salvation becomes a poor substitute for the true God. I've seen Jody in ONE movie and it was bad. She should have been developing her own brand and skill set, while she had that fallback. He might think she's wanting to collect his coins. In Hollywood, it's community property after 10 years (50/50).
So very well said 👏🏽
Bm don't think about nothing you said.
The only ones obsessed with skin color are blacks…let’s get real, white people don’t give a flip over ‘shades’.
When did she brag?
Spot on…it’s spiritual!
Not only to take time to know someone but to first know thy self
When will this self hatred ever end.
God has to erase it. We can’t do it by ourselves
@@candleofYah As long as the majority of black woman act like 14 year teenagers - wear weaves - are not family focused - they will continue to be self hating.
First of all Jodie said herself that, "Black men were not interested in her; " that's where the self hatred started. If we as Black people ourselves are so proud to be Black; then why do we in turn still hate on ourselves? Can anyone tell me? Come on Brothers and Sisters tell the TRUTH.
When rich black men start marrying women of jodi's skin tone.
@rosejames5172 Not just BM marrying dark women, but BW loving and appreciating dark men. Yes everyone loves Lance Gross, Eldris Alba Terrell Owens now, but did we love ❤️ them when they were young.
So it was more than dark moods. This situation has been an incredible mess from the beginning. You have to treat yourself well before others can treat you well. I hope she has learned that.
She got her N-word moment,I bet that's what happened
Correct correct and correct. Good evening.
You know it.
Ya’ll sound stupid and desperate as hell. Keep riding that wave of jealous ignorance… it looks good on ya.
You KNOW nothing, but stand 10 toes down on your ignorant speculation of it makes you feel some kind of way. 😂😂😂
It's too late she let all you blk females no the kkk likes blk girl magic. Now look at all the blk girls running over.
Oh yes!
She slept with him on the first night and proposed to him. She has no self respect. Hopefully she'll gain some
ww do this often.
@@rosejames5172oh that is not true😂😂
@@khadyadjisall5708 yes it is.
People do not change. My guess is the "issue" existed from the beginning and Jodie ignored it until now. The way Jackson told on her when he was on talk shows said a lot. It is not rare to be intimate on the first date or for women to propose but respect and maturity keep people from blabbing those details.
You're wrong it's rare for women to propose to men. That's not the norm
Only desperate black women who loves white over their own men do desperate thin😮like this, jodie is from the UK and unfortunately you have so many like her in UK , they don't want a beautiful black child, they waiting for that white savour. They hate black men, the same white men who slept with them like to brag and tell you about what they say!
I agree 100%. All she saw was Brad. She was blinded by her desire to be with caucasian.
@@monay200123 You do n't know that I am wrong, you just have a different opinion.
@imetaboyiusedtoknow8308 This is not an opinion it's a fact. All women were raised for men to propose, to ask them out on a date, to ask them for prom, etc. Now, there are a select few who goes against that, but even they know that's not how it goes. In Jodie's case, why do you think she was embarrassed by the fact her husband let the world know she proposed to him? She knew that she wasn't supposed to do that. She knew she looked desperate, asking a man for his hand in marriage. That's looks crazy more than it sounds. You can't convince me or anyone else that the standard.
Look, Jodi threw herself at the man, proposed to him and trapped him with a baby. The guy was never feeling her like that. The end
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Nope, he was only slumming. And now he is yelling NEXT!😅
Bedwenching leads to single parent hood.😢
@@zengreen7 Nothing leads tp single motherhood faster than being with black men. Facts. Even white women, Hispanics, Asians are finding out. Get a black buck and you end upna single mother most times. Black men are the dustiest of all men.
he could have said no to the marriage if he did not want her. black women beg black men to marry them everyday and these black men say no.
I hope the baby is okay. Joshua can take care of himself. Jodi, well, she's on her own. It's a cruel world out there. But honestly, who stays married in Hollywood anyway? It's an evil place.
why is Jodi on her own? She has her parents. she will be fine
Self-hate issues within us blackFolk is crazy!!!
Self hate is not generally in Black people, but it appears to be a part of MANY ignorant Black peoples lives.. Some well educated Black people have a "Superiority Complex", while the majority have a "Inferiority Complex", and feel that by hating people with lighter skin simply because they would being that skin color. I have witnessed many dark skin Black women who hates on light skin Black women who haven't done anything to them, other than being born with Light Skin.. Dark skin Black people need to start loving themselves for who they are, and not confuse that false pride with hating on other lighter skin people as if that prove that they have pride... By the way, this dark skin Black woman can marry any race of man she chooses, whether he is a white, Chinese, Eskimo, Navajo, South Sudanese, because it is no one else's business. As a Black person, I have noticed that we spend too much damn time consuming our minds with SKIN COLOR, when Black people regardless of skin color are still discriminated by our RACE, and not about our skin color.. Skin color seem to dominate many Black people WEAK A$$ minds more than the RACIST practices against us by all the other races of people on earth.. It seem like 0% of the videos on U-Tube always discuss things like PASSPORT BROTHERS SEEKING NON BLACK WOMEN, and DO Asian women like Black men, and do Black people prefer vacationing in Europe, rather than Africa.. No other race of people seem to appear on U-TUBE videos complaining about "WE DON'T NHAVE NO FRIENDS" as if we are still searching for people to be our friends... Many of us are so far behind, until it is quite sickening...
Dr. Death & Fatal Attraction were extremely dark tv shows he stared in...watch them and you'll understand what she's saying more.
She's learned white not gold after all.
Jodi really needs some deep therapy, especially since she has to raise that child. She needs to heal her state of mind to raise a psychologically healthy child. That child's lighter hue will not be her saving grace.
Joshua Jackson looks well into his 50's.
She felt he was her "Prince Charming."So that what she expected of him overtook her.And before you jump into bed with somebody you have to consider many things like why should I be doing this?
Her childs lighter hue will be her saving grace . I guarantee you if jodi was biracial y'all would be here having sympathy for her, but since see is dark skinned nobody has any sympathy for her. y'all light skinned worshipping hypocrites never ceases to amuse me.
Great review Lady Boule! I think Lupita should be careful as well. According to the blogs she was at Janelle Monae's concert. It was rumored that she dated her as well. I mean Joshua was with his ex yt gf for i think 10 years and didn't propose. Jodie proposed to him and he just had to tell the world about it. You gotta be desperate to get with him.
He probably called her the N-word
I was waiting for your commentary on the subject. 🙂
Lady Boule be having me smiling with joy at the good points she makes plus her voice is great for narration
why? 🙄 y'all need to leave jodi alone.
I didn't think the marriage would last anyway. You have to be absolutely desperate to ask a man to marry you! Now you have a child that is born into this messy situation. Mother don't love herself and Dad playing the fields with every black actor that will have him. Everyone have a wonderful, blessed day!🤗
bw beg bm to marry them everyday to which black men say no. at least josh said yes.
The real reason she’s divorcing him is because she thought it’d be peaches and cream with no issues but she soon discovered that all that glitters isn’t gold , I figure she had lots of self loathing going on and wanted him to validate her self worth , when she figured out he’s just like any other man with unstable personality and possibly anger issues , I believe it was a culture shock , she was probably raised to believe white is perfect and can do no wrong but found out the hard way , she acts like her daughter was just a gift in the heat of passion , NAH she knew she wanted a biracial child and didn’t have a problem giving up the cookie on the first date with him so she could achieve that goal , even risking her sexual health , if it was a blk man she’d definitely would have made him wait and prove himself
BRAVA !!!!
Exactly
women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas... in race context, BW lower their dating or mating standards for WM all the while, demand higher standards for BM.
No one talks about John Legends non bw who gave it up on site ...so ppl can be quiet about this bw. Double standards.
@@nathankenny9278that's a dam lie.
She didn't have "self-esteem" issues with her skin. She said black men were engaged in colorism towards her as a dark skinned woman and that wm were the only ones expressed an attraction to her. This is more common than you would think with dark skinned women. You are refusing to acknowledge black men's colorism and its effect on dark skinned women for some reason. Idk why.
Many Black men of every complexion cherish dark-skinned women. The same holds true for Black women. Yes colorism exists in basically all communities of color,, including the Black community. Still, that does not mean that "all" or "most" people in communities of color are colorists. A case in point is several of my light-skinned Black friends who believe dark-skinned people are the most attractive. They don't dislike themselves, but they realize that, in many instances, their light skin is a result of their slave ancestors being violated by the slave owners. Even in instances where one has a darker-hued parent, in this country, it's likely that their is some slave master blood running through the veins. Afterall, rape was an everyday occurrence on the plantations, and sad to say, it was a socially accepted practice. Looking at this beautiful actress' face, is a perfect example of having the recessive genes thst are not of Africa. More important, nobody will ever convince me that dark skin is not beautiful. It's outstanding and beyond beautiful. For example, when I first saw Reddy Pendergrass, I thought he was one of the most handsome men that I had ever seen. That was before I even heard him sing one note. His facial features, height, and physique were perfect. After he opened his mouth, I was totally floored. My opinion still stands to.this very day. Blessings ❤️🙏
@@sandraatkins2539 She looks like a Wolof. She would blend in perfectly in Dakar, Senegal, and the natives would speak to her in their language. You don't know what you are talking about when it comes to African features.
Not all black men.
@@sandraatkins2539 Many black men of every complexion are colorist, which is why dark skinned _women_ have such a hard time in the black community. Yet, black women express their attraction to dark skinned men all the time. Let's stop pretending black men don't pedestalize light and wyte skinned women over darker skinned women.
@@buffalosoldier585 I never said _all_ black men.
She was on drugs when she proposed. She made it way too easy and he’s clearly an opportunist. Totally irresponsible to have a child considering the context.
How do you know she was on drugs?
A handsome couple.
Don't blame this on him. She suffers from a bad case of white man worship. The key to getting over it is to admit it and own up to it.
She needed validation?
She was pregnant!
Ms. Turner-Smith said that white people are the only ones who told her that she is beautiful; this is simply a way of letting us know that many people involved in her upbringing had issues with her darkness. Many of us have experienced as children being called "dark" or "black" in a derogatory tone {black as tar is what was said to me); told that our hair is "bad" or "nappy" in a derogatory tone; etc., by people who should have been on our side. I was never referred to as pretty or beautiful in childhood. Not once. At a certain point in time, I learned that just because another black person saw my blackness as ugly didn't mean I had to adopt the same viewpoint. I decided it was really stupid to pay money to try to look like somebody else. I refused the relaxers and weaves and chemicals, and decided to grow my dreds. I have never looked back. The next time I heard my aunt, who claimed credentials as a licensed minister, refer to the hair texture of somebody as "bad", I asked her if she believed Genesis chapter 1, in which God declares all the things he created as good. She said she did. I then told her that God created that hair texture, and if he says it is good, why would we describe it as something else? We're going to meet God face to face; are we going to tell him that a hair texture he created is bad? She wasn't sure what to say, but I've decided to base my self esteem and my views on skin shade and hair texture on Genesis 1: God created it, so it is good. Anyone who calls it otherwise can explain themselves to God when they meet him on Judgement Day. And non-African American men (largely Puerto Ricans) were the first ones to tell me that I was beautiful and treat me like I mattered.
Ms. Turner-Smith may be speaking the truth about not having been called beautiful by blacks in her life. There are a lot of blacks who still have slave mentality/colonized mentality. It is quite shameful. I hope she learns to love her physical attributes, because in the eyes of God, her shade is beautiful. It can really do a number on a child's confidence and self esteem to receive so many spoken messages that they are ugly because of their color and hair texture, and to realize that people your shade are never the love interest in movies and never the desired lady in videos. I quit listening to certain artists and watching their videos over this issue. Moving into my own place and surrounding myself with people who didn't have that kind of baggage has made me a much happier person. Reminding myself of Genesis 1 has also done a lot for my own healing and growth.
Thank you for this video.
My pleasure!
She probably watched Dawson's Creek a lot then got excited when she saw Pacy at a party.
Thank you Lyn I was just sitting here trying to remember the name of the TV show “Dawson Creek” that Joshua played in and I loved him in it.
she did. she had said he was her celebrity crush.
She got what she wanted. Light skinned baby. I have met Black women like her. There are more like her than you might expect.
Now Lupita in pictures with this guy. Lupita stay away from him!
Another race trader. You call yourselves loyal
Thanks for posting! 😊
She fine🌹
Do you know what I will never understand? The idea that they were not on a date. They found themselves seated next to each other, struck up a conversation, and were photographed together. It happens.
This is what happens when Zaddys cape gets caught in the phone booth
Eww
I hope she learns to ignore self hay-ting, colourist BM and the bc and truly learns to love herself in every way, not just her physical. I’m not surprised at yt supremacy mind controlling blk people into hay-ting themselves, but it’s super sick and twisted when the bc do it!! Championed by the men and then have the nerve to criticise and condemn her for choices made in reaction to the colourist abuse all dark skin BW have in endure from birth!
"A wyte person should NEVER be the first person to tell a Black person they are beautiful!!!"
Point blank period!!!
That's profound LB!!!
She's still of that self dericating belief 😮😮😮.
Roles for these actors are realistic.
"What is a dark mood???"
Irreconcilable differences are almost always"cheating" WITH MULTIPLE partners by at least one of the parties.
Pitiful self loathing...
"Never", have a black man said to me that "your beautiful'💕💎🥰
It was her agenda, not mine. Her heaven or hell,not mine. So now it’s time to GET OUT. Good evening.
Fringe was from like 10yrs ago and his moods showed up after the marriage?
She lowered her standards for a White man. He's a party animal and a White Pookie and Ray Ray with money.
black women were celebrating that man like he was jesus keep the same energy or you are a hypocrite
Self-hating Black people have an issue with worshipping White people because I don’t celebrate White men. I actually don’t trust majority of them like that, so I remain respectful and move out the way.
There have been many reports that method acting can open a person to demonic activity. Joaquin phoenix in playing the role of joker, and Jack Nicholson who also played joker has said many times playing those types of "dark" roles are not healthy. However, I agree that she thought "her love" will heal him and conquer his demons within him. Most women regardless of race mistakenly believe this.
Heath Ledger said that he had trouble sleeping 💤 after he played the Joker 🃏 too. Some speculate that his dark roles stemmed from him being unwell and misusing medication 💊 to help him sleep.
Only if you have demonic activity within your DNA. Most of them are predisposed antisocial personality disorders.
Let me guess Jodi Turner-smith got tired of being called the N-word and other racial slurs!
Probably
And l wish you all would acknowledge this,when black males end up divorced ,and failed so called relationship with Caucasian females, and other races of females,you all love to make fun of, and humiliate black women ,when they get their wake up call,l wish our black people would love themselves and each other, l feel it's counter productive and,non beneficial for black people to marry and procreate with Caucasian and other races of people,the black people in these unions always get embarrassed,or worse, murdered,or locked up.
That's why I don't believe the whole facade of Bw/wm marriages last longer, many of these bw are being abused and can't speak up to them being afraid of being called the N word
If you give it up on the first night. Well…
There are a lot of bw out there asking bm to marry them.
She got out and got out fast. Next time:
*keep your business to yourself
*don't propose to a man
* pay attention to red flags
Jodie will be fine.
She is a beautiful dark woman I never Hurd or seen her before in any movie
Once a cheater nearly always a cheater sad but true
Always said things about how blacks had the most issues with their interractial relationship; in particular black americans..was foolishness.. she definitely has issues
Well even after all of this. Lupita has now picked up Joshua. I also believe Lupita is a Brad chaser with the base being her low self-esteem also.
maybe it's the brads chasing her. Ask any black man who their celebrity crush is. i guarantee lupita is not on their list.
clicked quickly 😂
At least JJ, has great taste in women. Brothers would bite your hand off to be with one of those women.
The darkness was already there nothing to do with acting its real
Well keep in mind they all are actors. Take that for what you want.
By the way. Selema cheated on Lupita. I do not think she would hook herself up to another cheater. A man who does not believe in monogamy. I think Jody just got tired of turning her face. Enough is enough.
I have told plenty of dark skin women they were pretty and gorgeous and they didn't believe me and im a Black man. So sisters just have deep issues and never get help
Great commentary
I'm very surprise about them divorcing, this is the first I'm hearing of this!
Good luck dealing with the oppressors and their dark mood.
She said in an interview. He was the first man to say she was beautiful. I knew then it wouldn't last.
Queen Boule . You speak so eloquent and with wisdom
It is a disgrace and a abomination to self hate your self. You love yourself, God created black people, that's beauty of the melanin. Different shades of it. LOVE IT!
Most of these black women ignore the racism that they deal with from his family and friends sad
Those African women have No problem, dating nor marrying zaddy💥💥💥💥😱😱😱😱
Yep❤️🔥
Jodi is Jamaican but they have the same viewpoints as many Africans.
The guy probably had depression or some mental illness.
Why did they have a child?
🙊🙉🙈
Eye truly trust that Lupita is Not repeating the fukery of Jodie🤔🤔🤔🤔
WMBW relationships are weird. Getting through one is very complicated.l don't trust Jodie's version to be accurate. But, l am too tired to write a comment or explain fully. 😢😢😢😢
It says, I am somebody 😞😭 Look ! I have a child from a W man. I must be somebody 😞😭
They live vicariously through the biracial child
They're no more "weird" than bmww relationships. Let's establish _that._
@@jesuswilljudge7296 absolutely true. It's a LOT FOR THE KIDS TO MANAGE.
Tell them, Lady Boule! Preach!
Unfortunately, those with low self-esteem requires you to treat them like shit, especially once they bow!
I saw her on a show and she said, they had sex a lot when they first met. Now most women know having sex is not going to keep a man. Plus if this man has a dark-side, why would you want joint custody?
Who cares, leave her with those people she thinks is better than her. Brothers take note, she hates herself but she will hate you more. Run!!!
It seems he likes dark-skinned women. Please don't jump on me for saying this, I think its a good thing, as long as he's not crazy.
He's a devil by nature. Culture Shock.
I may just stop clicking on videos about interracial celebrity marriages. Having fame and money does not make a person wise.
Good luck, good luck. Black, wake up, call, just say it.
Dark mood White zaddy jumping from sister to sister 😂
Big mistake the woman proposing. And they were “FWB” first
Poor woman!!
I really wish you had held back on this commentary. I’ve you‘very done is give a green light to ignorance and speculation as well as a thumbs up to people who are champing at the bit for a reason to tear down a BW. This woman has issues to contend with and this comment section just highlights the lack of logical reasoning and hatred that will continue to destroy relations in the BC. It’s really sad and based AH!
It’s clear you’re not American lol
I agree! Wow! This comment section makes me want to vomit. However, I really think it is representative of the way a lot of us think. Also, literally, just the fact that people think they know so much about people who they have not even met gives me such a nasty, spiteful vibe. Also, as if the folks commenting don’t need help themselves. Whether wrong or right, at the end of the day who are we to judge? Dang!
🙏🏾💜🤦🏾♀️
@@HappyMomma412 it’s not about knowing people, that’s irrelevant. We recognize patterns and it’s the same thing over and over and over again
@@78vette11 I don’t feel as though it’s irrelevant. I do get recognizing patterns. So many times Black people are taken advantage of by white people, especially, Black women. However, the manner in which too many of the comments are stated is why I take issue with it. Like this whole anti-divesting thing, etc.
The comment section is healthy, if don't like the truth go elsewhere, go where the racist comment on black women and you will be happy, that's the problem with black women and men who love to sleep around, they justify everything for their preferences.
NAW
Lupita is not str8‼️
I'm a Black Woman and on this one I can't blame Joshua
Jodie was kinda anti-Black American and arrogant. She wanted a YT man by any means necessary ‼️
Now she's running without trying to cure the problem. Serves her right
I thought Lupita
was only intimate with the same sex.
I actually feel sorry for Joshua. These two women are tricky
But why was all blk female celebrity her????
@@Rubrick23.
What❓❓😳
You're not a black woman. And if by some small chance you are, you're the worst "Pickmeisha" ever.
You're not a black woman. And if by some small chance you are, you're a "Pickmeisha".
So she's divorcing her husband for what again? If y'all still love each other, do not let anyone come between y'all. Get some help, communicate and if it's possible to fix it, fix it.
He can't make her feel good anymore
His pee pee is to small…
You mean "wee wee"..."too" small.
How do you know?👀
@@joedoe6251your right my bad
@@rbellot11you mean… “you’re right, my bad”…
Just all kinds of stupid sitting up here make base judgements. Is it any wonder BW are seeking ANYTHING that isn’t you?
You’ve added nothing but dust to the convo.
@@loves2run855Why do you care. O let me guess you love master no mater what???
She'd rather act thirsty and propose not once but twice to a man that didn't want to get married, had a kid first chance she got than any other alternatives such as her own people.
No shocker there
No perfect match there...She is lost in the Troglodyte Sauce
..that blond lady is a shade lighter. Thats not really her. Shes been duplicated.
Lady Boule, I think you know a thing or two about a thing or two and it would behave Lapeta to look 👀 very close.
Look good before she 🐸 leap 👀!
Black Americas self hate is a terrible issue
They're still kadia/kadesh though...nobody should be taking them seriously...
Boyce Watkins used dog Black Women who may have a different opinion from him. Now that he’s married he wants to tell Black men how they should treat Black women or queens as he would put it. I stopped listening to him, such a big hypocrite.
Now he’s dating fine ass Lupita and I think he loves her more than she’s into him 🤭
Poor soul...
Right ? Who knows what THAT means? Still black people KNOWS BY EXPERIENCE.
I don't take non these celebs moves seriously, they make money or clot moves. So what you expect it's all hollyweird, they got it like that or do it like that...😊
y' all need to leave jodi alone. I am almost sure if she did not propose to joshua she would not have gotten married.
@@anewx Do you call the 25% of black men who marry interracially sell outs? Do you call the other 70% of black men who don't date dark skinned women and worship light skinned women sell outs? A black man worth millions like joshua would never marry a dark skinned woman like Jodi . Like I said leave Jodi alone.
WHY DO SHE HAVE ISSUES WITH HER DARK SKIN? WHY WOULD SHE (A Beauty) HAVE SELF ESTEEM ISSUES?
A Husband
You are living in America and trying to play dumb?
She is absolutely stunning.
They weren't the first to tell her that and they rn't the first to tell u. Ur parents r but later u believe it bc we r taught white is right. Why not ask for full custody?. She would ask for joint custody w a guy who has dark moods. She want get .uch from that divorce either. Lupita is known for being gay by many in Hollywood or thats the rumor. So if she is, so is he imo. I would say he did unhealthy things if he is w Lupita according to the rumors. So we now have a clearer pic.
But Lady Boule we in our community has what you call "Colorist" issues.
Tyrone or Brad… don’t matter. When Keisha gets comfortable, Keisha gonna be Keisha: quick tempered and living her life outside the order of natural law. Unfortunately, Keisha can’t destroy Brads character like she can Tyrone’s. And she is gonna pay Brad for his time, while he keeps hiking up and down Swirl Mountain.