Saturn in the 4th House Natal 🛋 Hestia Leaves Home //Saturn in Cancer//
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Saturn in the 4th House Natal 🛋 Hestia Leaves Home //Saturn in Cancer//
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In this video, you will meet someone who has Saturn in the 3rd house (all acting ofcourse):
Saturn in the third house karmic cycles include:
Stage 1 of Saturn in the 4th house: Insecurity about one's security, feeling stable inside and at home
Stage 2 of Saturn in the 4th house: Overcompensate by attaching to objects; romance, food, career, friends for nourishment
Stage 3 of Saturn in the 4th house: Either smothers loved ones to mask neediness or pull back to mask neediness for fear of invalidation
Stage 4 of Saturn in the 4th house: Deep loneliness surfaces
And in the video I tell you how to break out of the cycle 💟💘
Saturn in the 4th House Natal 🛋 Hestia Leaves Home //Saturn in Cancer//
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This is not a real story of my life but an example of the life of someone who has this Saturn placement. Don't forget to check out the Saturn introduction video (as usual) ! 😘 th-cam.com/video/hoiqEgdQI3A/w-d-xo.html
I feel all satrun in 4 th house have messed up families on both sides 😑which ultimately messes you up as a kid. Trust me loneliness and emptiness you feel is just....bad
Tip: meditate ,you will feel better ❤️
Here is 🏆 for all satrun in 4 th house who are still fighting through all this ❤️
My childhood was also very lonely. I was raised by my grandparents until school age. Childhood was lonely, my parents were both destroyed people who couldn't give me the support I needed. Both very critical, unhealthy, co-dependent broken people. Dad also was al alcoholic. I've dealt with depression, eating issues, relationships that were dead-ends, never really being financially stable. I'm 37 now, and after years of therapy and healing, I'm feeling more able to go outside, and be the TRUE me that I am now discovering. 37 years of jail - and I'm finally free. I never want to look back ever again. - Saturn and Pluto in 4H
I also went through an obsession with my ancestry and am the family historian basically. I've travelled around and met relatives, got pictures, stories and am really into honoring and being connected to them. But definitely relating so much to this. I am still working through being a very private person (I think that is my Pluto placement more than anything). I have a difficult time opening up but that also has to do with my Saturn opposing my Mars. I often don't try because I'm so afraid of failing. If anyone discourages me I take it to heart so it's easier to keep it to myself which makes me blocked off emotionally. I basically have no close friends. I probably need to get my butt into therapy. 😑
The acting is so convincing (i didn't know it was a skit until i read the comments😄)and it really painted a realistic fourth house experience.
It's so crazy how the cries from the little animal truly fits this video.
Watching this was like seeing my life in action. I drew so many parallels from this and at one point I started coming up with questions for my therapist when we meet next. The void and the feeling of emptiness is real and so is family history, which is pretty jacked up on both sides of my family. I'm in my Saturn return right now and have seen so many patterns re-emerge only to be healed once and for all and once my Return is completed I'm definitely not going to be the same person I was growing up. I've learned it's okay to show my emotions and to not be so tough all of the time; to have my own voice and speak out even if I end up looking insane to some people. I'm also embracing my creative side that I've hidden away for over 14 years. Like the character in the wonderfully written monologue, I too want to move out of my mom's house (and my hometown) so I can have a sense of inner peace and calm. Prayerfully, that will happen this year.
I also have my Saturn in the 4th house and can relate very much to your story. I too benefited from talk therapy for many years. But it was when I connected to my ancestors that I truly from peace, self love and understand. Stay well.
Don’t blame yourself - you really wanted to belong, somewhere good and safe. You have to find it in yourself the strength to be. Otherwise the people will feel it from afar. You are beautiful and I wish you much good luck and happiness 🐨🥰
Relate to your story immensely...not an easy journey. Not having a healthy parental relationship to learn from makes it difficult. Lots of patterns to break...Thank you for sharing. ❤
It gets really crazy when you have Saturn, Mars, Neptune and Uranus in the 4th house.......
Very creative! Thank you ❤️
It resonated so much....I really feel sometimes that my family is restricting me and they don't wanna hear out my feelings and so I turn to my friends to share my feelings but I do think that it won't work as they won't even feel the same way as me. I like to live in solitude but at the same time I wanna stay in touch with my family ....and guess what my grandma's like me....she wanna live in solitude but also with her children....I mean she want her personal space and nurturing from family at the same time....and that's what I want too....but I think that the only way to solve all this problem is to realise one's worth and just nurish yourself and love yourself and let others love you....even though there's no one to hear u out or understand u....u truly know your feelings and only u can do something about it ideally
I have this placement along with my two year old daughter. Thank you for sharing. I love you Tan!
I'm still listening, so I might comment some more, but I also have this placement. Similar type of energy. My parents also divorced and at first my dad had me (he actually stole me and had taken me out of state), which I hated, although I loved him, because I had wanted to be with my Mom. Eventually at around 8 my dad and his wife decided to let me live with her and basically traded my sister and I because I was quite depressed and started talking about suicide. My mom's husband adopted me and my sister was adopted by my stepmom. Not too long after that I had gone to visit my dad and it went terrible and I asked to go home early because I missed my mom and had PTSD I guess. He let me, but called me up after I got home to tell me I was bad and I couldn't see him or my siblings anymore. They changed their phone number and I didn't hear from them for quite a few years until my sister almost died and they wanted to give me a chance to say goodbye. She made it though luckily! When she saw us she completely turned around and the doctors thought it was seeing us that helped her fight. My mom though was loving, but very strict also. She was so paranoid about losing me and she was always the type to want me to do what she wanted me to do and if I wanted something else she wasn't supportive. She could be so strict she even controlled the music I listened to during certain periods and she eventually homeschooled me. I also have Pluto in the 4th 0 degrees on my IC and it opposes my Sun in the 9th. I actually moved out of the country when I was 18 (9th house stellium with my Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Aries) and have lived away most of my life. I never lived anywhere longer than 4 years throughout my life. I guess Pluto always wants me to transform in that way. Okay, going back to listening! 😁
Thanks for making this video. I've always struggled to get along with my family, my mom & my sister have passed away. My dad is extremely toxic & emotionally unavailable. He does the same thing, gives me the silent treatment & never offers any advice or empathy. My life has been a constant struggle but I have no choice, I have to deal with it as long as he's alive.
My son has this. And when I gave birth to him I got sick. Now im scared I'll pass away and not see him grow up . cuz I read this placement with mars in the 4th house is bad for mothers health and can cause death.
Can I ask when your mum passed away, how old were u ? Im so sorry for your loss :(
Saturn and my sun are conjuncted in Pisces. 80% of what you described was my dad I assume because of the suns influence. My parents have been married for almost 40 years now. However my dad was/is a drunk, he was verbally and emotionally abusive. My mother stood back and allowed it. My dad was crazy strict and my mom was too. I literally had a 11pm curfew until I was 21.........I moved out at 23 and before that I felt like I’d never get away from my family. I literally forced moving out. I saved so much money and moved to a new state because rent was way cheaper here than where I was from. I wasn’t taking no for an answer. The amount of peace and happiness I’ve found living alone is astronomical. It’s interesting because when I did cry as a child my mother would just stare at me, not saying anything. Then as an adult I wonder why I feel like I have to deal with emotional hardships alone and I’m terrified of people seeing me cry. Never really felt important to her especially because she clearly favored my brother over me. She made that super clear
Wow this is so hard. You poor thing x
Wowwww…this was eye-opening and mind blowing to me, to finally understand so much of what I’ve been struggling through in life. It’s also funny that it took delving into my draconic chart to find this (5th house natal Saturn, which is definitely problematic too). Thank you so much for sharing of your wisdom, Tan/Penny, and giving us a way out of this darkness. ❤
My heart just hurt knowing that my son has this placement. I'm recently divorced from the addict father and I just want to do right by my children more than anything. I have moon in the 5th. I remember looking at a video of him and my heart breaking so much for him because I had put too much Saturn energy on him at a young age. I wept. He's such a beautiful soul. I can only find comfort in knowing that Saturn will reward him generously as he gets older. I'm only doing the best that I can under the trying circumstances we've endured and I'm working on my own wounding so I can break these cycles 💔😭
Bless you mama. We got this. Our babies have the ability to transcend this energy into something great. We will always be doing our best.
Hey...this really helped me.
It's crazy how similar my story is and how different. I'm in the saving-but-still-home stage. And I just want to SCREAM....but....funny enough....I'm moving in with my grandma....soooooooo yeah let the ancestral healing begin.
Thank you so much for sharing vulnerability. You don't know how much better I feel.
Your face in this cover just describes how I feel having a 4H Saturn
Excellent example 🙌❤️
Spot on!!!
Thanks for opening up and sharing your story. It seems to me you have narcissistic parents which can be really damaging to ones self esteem. I have this placement and a cancer moon. I totally feel you, and finding your home within is what saturn in this position teaches us, breaking codependency and learning to build ourselves our own security and nourishment then is when we can share that inner love with other loved ones. :)
This is not my own story.
@@TanAstrology Oh I see, wow, it was so realistic and on point. I have this placement and is pretty much how I felt growing up so you were on point with the example.
You are right on point about narcissistic parents. My mom is a Narc and this was my life growing up. Constant judgment and criticism with no regard to boundaries. But I’ve learned over time to rebuild my self esteem, reparent myself and love myself. Thanks for the validation, much appreciated. ❤️
The father is narcissistic, that's why the mom has to play both the mother and father role
as fellow saturn in the fourth house I relate to some mayor lines on your video but specially when you talk about your own independence and the weight out of your shoulders as you move out your mother's house
This is not my own story. Sending you much success with your saturn 💫
Powerful! Thank you💗!! This made me cry, very reliable.
Hello Tan.☺️ Thank you, the share you gave was so moving & honest. I truly vibe with your Coping skills by giving compassion & nurturing your self & finding your inner home. I too have 🪐 in the 4th 🏡 in ♏️. I fully understand this place now to flow, feminine energy & the 🌙.
I didn't even read your comment, and I was like oh my goodness me too girl!
Kinda my story and saturn in the 4house
I can feel you .I have somewhat same bad experience ❤
This is my daughters Saturn placement. I am feeling so helpless to know that I am going to be a constant source of discomfort in her life. Is there anything that I can do to reduce it?
Just knowing this helps a lot! 💖I would say....allow her to express her emotions, spend a lot of quality time with her, support her in all that she does, let her be a child without the burdens of adult responsibilities.. 🥰
@@TanAstrology thank you so much for your feedback. I will keep focussing on that
Thank you for this , this is my son’s Saturn placement he’s only almost 5 months and I’m worried that I might be a bad mom . But I’ll follow ur tips.
Can't wait for Saturn 10th house! :)
I have this placement but my situation is totally different. Both my grandparents and my parents & their siblings, none of them got divorced. My grandparents and my parents have happy marriages. I just realized that I am the first one got divorced on my dad's side. Some tough time dealing with my Mom when I was a teenager during her menopause. I'm the only kid in my family and my parents are stuck with me, so I never felt insecure with them.
saturn in cancer in the 9th house, wow... this is hard. i had a lot of suicide attempts because of her. my dad saved me.
Are you clingy? I have saturn in the 4th and live a solitary life and draw boundaries with family. My relarionship with family is a partnership and no longer a sense of duty.
Very similar story on family line with this placement if not worse I have pluto in conjunction there. But home hasn't found it yet.
Nice and true ♡
Hi Tan, I love your channel.
So I don't have my exact birth time, and my Saturn changes depending on that. I either have my Saturn in the 4th or the 3rd house. Can you clarify the difference? Thanks and great job!
Go whole signs
Most of it is true for me
Saturn in cancer in 12th house
Please, could you give me an advice in few sentences. I have a son, 3 year old. He has Jupiter, Pluto and Saturn in Capricorn in 4th house with Jupiter on the lowest degree of 3. Jupiter squares Asc and Mars squares Pluto and Saturn.
Please..please could you give me an advice or opinion? Thank you so, so much. ❤
I wonder how this would play out if Saturn in Libra in 4
4th house Scorpio, Pluto conj Venus, S. Node, Sun, and Saturn conj moon.
I don't want this kind of stellium 😭😭😭
It will make you stronger 😊
This must be hard
Scorpio in 4 house with Saturn
This story sounds a lot like mine too..
I have this placement Saturn in 4th house in Leo and was hell living with highly Narrcistic Abusive mother very emotinally dissregulated and controlling 😤