This can trigger many especially those who have family or childhood problems as it mostly hit home. I hope we all heal from the pain as we grow older. 🙏 This is enlightening thank you!
Totally with you. I just completed my karma in taking care of my mom. It was a very difficult relationship and affected my life in so many ways but I needed to take care of her. She passed last Feb. RIP Mom.
Wow! This is so me. You nailed it. I take care of both my parents. I don’t worry though I’m more of the unattached type. But I will be happy to stay on my property and take care of my family. It’s no problem for me and it’s very much karmic.
My son has this placement. I’m trying to understand his chart the best I can so I can guide him the way he needs. He has Saturn 4° conjunct his moon 11° and his sun 21° in Scorpio. So, a tough placement. I believe it shows the relationship his father and I have and how it has effected him throughout his childhood. He doesn’t have the greatest relationship with his father, it is very conditional. His father doesn’t exactly support him and treats him as if he’s an adult and expects adult things from him. My son is 9. It’s more “stop crying” instead of “what can I do for you or how can I help”. Best way to explain it. As far as me as his mother I am very protective of him because of what I’ve been through in my own childhood. His emotions matter and I definitely encourage him to be open with and about everything in life. His feelings are valid and real. I can also see where he would feel restricted by me. I can’t help but think it’s because I feel restricted and that pours into him? Not sure. Lots of work to do there. (In my husband and I our synastry chart Saturn sits literally on my NN in Leo 11th house🥺 both Libra risings) The relationship he has with his father is very different. It’s hard like a rock and they but heads all day everyday. Constantly argue and my husband bullies him in a sense. I don’t stand for that so his father and I do argue a lot unfortunately. My son and I have a good relationship or id like to think anyway. When I ask him “when do you feel loved by me the most?” Or “what is your favorite thing about our relationship” He always says when we have our talks because I listen to him and I care about how he feels. I ask him about his father and he says “daddy, he’s just crabby and never smiles” My husband has Libra Pluto 1H/Aries Moon 7H opposition. Very moody Cancer Sun. My sons Saturn/moon make a trine to Neptune/Chiron in the 8th and his sun squares Neptune/Chiron in the 8th. Pisces. Anyway. Just wanted to share for others on how what you said appears to be true for me and tell the specifics as to how this relates in a child’s chart from a mothers point of view. I’m sure I’m missing something because I only see from my eyes of course. Hopefully my son won’t resent me when he’s older and will want a relationship with me. That’s of course if I live to be an old lady 😂 according to Vedic astrology I won’t. But my Saturn in the 1H tells me otherwise so I’m going with that one ❤️ If you read this whole thing thanks! Love to you Lada if you read this!
Lada, you described me 100%☺️I have this placement in Capricorn, square my Sun, Venus and Mercury in Aries in the 7th. During my childhood our country faced huge economic crisis, and there were periods where we didn't have enough to eat, so the feeling of deprivation definitely was there. My parents definitely were strict, plus I felt rejected in everything I was as a person and had to negate my natural passions and rather do what was expected of me. Only after my 1st Saturn return did I manage to fix my relationship with them. My Saturn return also enabled me to feel emotionally more secure within myself. During this transit I had to closely take care of a member of our family who fell seriously ill and needed 24/7 care for almost two years. Saturn in the 4th really got me disciplined and responsible. Taking care of the garden now and planning on acquiring a small home with a large piece of land in the mountains to create an abundant homestead.
I bought my first house at age 21, and own several properties now, but I have Venus in the 10th in Taurus. I do definitely drive my cars until the wheels fall off though, lol. I always felt this placement explained why I didn't meet my husband until I was in my 30's and why I've had delays in conceiving.
I have just watched your Saturn in the 8th video (because that is where mine is!) and thought I would look at this as well. My son has Capricorn in the 4th and also his moon with Cancer on the MC. His father last saw him on his 3rd birthday so I brought him up alone. A lot of what you say about Saturn in the 4th also applies to him, although his Saturn is in Libra.
I have Saturn in Scorpio in the fourth house. It is the only water in my entire chart. It has been extremely challenging and I would not wish it on anyone. Very hard to get totally healed but I am working on it.
Saturn conj. Pluto in Libra ♎ in 4th house by Whole sign system- no childhood, I grow up very fast with my poor grandparents. I work so harder from my early age,my parents never support me. It was a nightmare...still is so painful to think about that..
Me, with Saturn in 4: faulty relationship with mother, feeling of not being loved, old house, elderly parents, financial difficulties, emotional trauma. At the age of 28, both parents died within 2 weeks of each other.
Sooo accurate! My father is a 4H Saturn as well and he is an estate liquidator, very hard worker but very set in his routines/ways, I did feel he was controlling as a child because his home life was tough as a child himself. He’s coming up in his 2nd Saturn return and I’m hoping he can learn to regulate his emotions better (he has Saturn 4H Aries) because I know that Saturn disciplines if you’re not learning. I’m currently going through my Saturn return in 11H Aquarius and it really kicked my butt until I learned boundaries in friendships… well the ones that are left anyway. Saturn took most of them away, but I’m better off! Anyways, thank you for this! Your way of explaining astrology is so inspiring!
I have Saturn in the 4th, almost in the 5th, My mother was under stress when I was an infant, early child. BUT I have Aquarius rising, and I was, as mother said and her neighbors agreed, the easiest baby and child to take care of. I could play happily by myself yet gurgle and laugh when picked up (if not too long). Hence I was "neglected" in tne sense of preferring to be alone. When a little older I preferred to be outdoors, away from home, with friend or alone, even in storms (those were the days of free range parenting and I was cautious enough to vavaoid any injury) I was independent of family from the start, going off sfter college on endless adventures, in touch only with an occasional phone call for many years. But YES, I returned to home base as my widowed mother aged, wanting to be nearby so I could help when needed She too was an independent woman, making good new friends in her old age. And she was healthy if creaky. So, ironically, she was an easy "baby" to take care with regular but not all that frequent visits. My biggest help was to supply her with literary classics (she hated "stupid" books). ... She could get a ;perfectionistic when you helped her with house tasks. This drove my siblings crazy but not me. I would stop doing the tesk and tell her I would not do anything more unless she stayed in her bedroom and warned me when she had to come out to the bathroom. I also insisted that she make no comments when she did come out. And no comments on the ask until the task was finished. She found all this quite amusing and when i was done we had laughs about it. Don't forget that Saturn is the source of satiric humor, exaggerated humor., offbeat humor designed to undermine authority. My distance was from siblings, not my mother (once I returned to near home base). I never called them, visited them, and they never called me. Yet in old age my oldest brother asked me to visit as h recognized that he was approaching death. I did visit and I reconciled him with his dutiful and gay son. I insisted he treat his son civilly and learn to appreciate his many good qualities. As with my mother, I tolerated no nonsense on the rules of civility and appreciation.. They did reconcile. I had a similar reconnection with another brother (at his initiative) and his widow keeps telling me how our conversations (by phone) were a source of uplift and even joy for him. I prefer disconnection with people but when I connect I give them full attention. So, yes, responsibility to family and others even though I would prefer to be disconnected. One exception would be young people. My heart went out to their troubles but as a teacher I was both easy going and stern with them about standards. And again, the trick was to g give them full attention, to accept them as they were but within "as they were" were potentials they have not developed and it is a good thing to open those potentials to them. I have noticed that it is difficult for so many Americans to give full attention to other people. P.S, My model in dealing with others who are difficult was Barbara Wodehouse's formula of "Be firm, be fair, be fun." She trained doges or rather, as she said, she trained incompetent dog owners to be competent and thus the dogs and the owners became happily and lived together happily. I think my Saturn in the 4th made it easy for me to be firm, my Aquarius rising made it easy for me to be fair, and my Leo sun and Uranus and Jupiter in the fifth made it easy for me to be fun. Despite becoming the only relatively poor sibling I have felt blessed by te upbringing UI had. I became relatively low income because of my choices and priorities. This is not the case with most poor eople, so I am fortunate to end up prrety much OK despite being financially neglegentt, ven wehn I held a good paying job.
I have an Exalted Saturn 👑in the 4th and I live in a Beautiful Art Deco High rise with all the Amenities. So that's true. I Love Classic Grand Architecture! All my Neighbors are Old people. too and I am young. And My Mother was a Cold Bitch! And I do need lots and lots lots of alone time. 😳
I lived with a man who has his Saturn in Capricorn in the 4th house. We were surrounded by mountains and there was a prison down the street. Living with him was like being in prison….I have my Saturn is retrograde in Taurus in the 4th so it was difficult for us to stay together 🤦🏽♀️
I have Saturn retrograde in Aries the 4th with Chiron and north node. Mother was very violent and abusive and the relationship with her has been the toughest in my life but has gotten better with age. Obviously I have some karmic tie to her with n node and Chiron. Taught me a lot about myself and how NOT to be!
I grew up without father from 1 to 15. Now I have a daddy issue and couldn’t be secured in a relationship. I’m looking for way to improve myself so I can be secure.
Please, could you give me an advice in few sentences. I have a son, 3 year old. He has Jupiter, Pluto and Saturn in Capricorn in 4th house with Jupiter on the lowest degree of 3. Jupiter squares Asc and Mars squares Pluto and Saturn. Please..please could you give me an advice or opinion? Thank you so, so much. ❤
Oh I remember that configuration from 2020… both Saturn and Mars are very strong in the signs they rule, which gives them dignity, the hard aspect means there will be some big inner and outer tensions he will be confronting especially on the front of family and relationships but the good dignity of the planets means he will cope with tremendous strength of character…I would advice you to get him into some kind of sport which is more demanding, like weight lifting, marathons, martial sports (so he can learn to control the will power and channel this strong Mars and Saturn) later on this will turn into a very strong control and ability to direct his will
Saturn is in the 4th house for Scorpios but until when?? So many Scorpios i know are either moving, relocating, separating or getting a divorced and the single ones are finding partners out of nowhere its interesting
Saturn in the 4th for scorpios up to March 2023 will be affecting home( moving out of home or even going back home). And uranus in the 7th might be the fact of the married getting divorced ( for marriages that were no longer working) or where one of the partners was feeling with no freedom in a way. And the singles are falling in love out of the blue for maybe their different type of people. I fell in love for a white foreign man we did not stay together though 😅
My fourth house Saturn is in Aqua and yes I'm working on paying this karma by helping mom out so I can finally break free and make a new home with my kids elsewhere🥲
This can trigger many especially those who have family or childhood problems as it mostly hit home. I hope we all heal from the pain as we grow older. 🙏 This is enlightening thank you!
Totally with you. I just completed my karma in taking care of my mom. It was a very difficult relationship and affected my life in so many ways but I needed to take care of her. She passed last Feb. RIP Mom.
Wow! This is so me. You nailed it. I take care of both my parents. I don’t worry though I’m more of the unattached type. But I will be happy to stay on my property and take care of my family. It’s no problem for me and it’s very much karmic.
My son has this placement. I’m trying to understand his chart the best I can so I can guide him the way he needs. He has Saturn 4° conjunct his moon 11° and his sun 21° in Scorpio. So, a tough placement. I believe it shows the relationship his father and I have and how it has effected him throughout his childhood. He doesn’t have the greatest relationship with his father, it is very conditional. His father doesn’t exactly support him and treats him as if he’s an adult and expects adult things from him. My son is 9. It’s more “stop crying” instead of “what can I do for you or how can I help”. Best way to explain it. As far as me as his mother I am very protective of him because of what I’ve been through in my own childhood. His emotions matter and I definitely encourage him to be open with and about everything in life. His feelings are valid and real. I can also see where he would feel restricted by me. I can’t help but think it’s because I feel restricted and that pours into him? Not sure. Lots of work to do there. (In my husband and I our synastry chart Saturn sits literally on my NN in Leo 11th house🥺 both Libra risings)
The relationship he has with his father is very different. It’s hard like a rock and they but heads all day everyday. Constantly argue and my husband bullies him in a sense. I don’t stand for that so his father and I do argue a lot unfortunately. My son and I have a good relationship or id like to think anyway. When I ask him “when do you feel loved by me the most?” Or “what is your favorite thing about our relationship”
He always says when we have our talks because I listen to him and I care about how he feels. I ask him about his father and he says “daddy, he’s just crabby and never smiles” My husband has Libra Pluto 1H/Aries Moon 7H opposition. Very moody Cancer Sun.
My sons Saturn/moon make a trine to Neptune/Chiron in the 8th and his sun squares Neptune/Chiron in the 8th. Pisces. Anyway. Just wanted to share for others on how what you said appears to be true for me and tell the specifics as to how this relates in a child’s chart from a mothers point of view. I’m sure I’m missing something because I only see from my eyes of course. Hopefully my son won’t resent me when he’s older and will want a relationship with me. That’s of course if I live to be an old lady 😂 according to Vedic astrology I won’t. But my Saturn in the 1H tells me otherwise so I’m going with that one ❤️
If you read this whole thing thanks! Love to you Lada if you read this!
WHY YIU WONT DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND???
Lada, you described me 100%☺️I have this placement in Capricorn, square my Sun, Venus and Mercury in Aries in the 7th. During my childhood our country faced huge economic crisis, and there were periods where we didn't have enough to eat, so the feeling of deprivation definitely was there. My parents definitely were strict, plus I felt rejected in everything I was as a person and had to negate my natural passions and rather do what was expected of me. Only after my 1st Saturn return did I manage to fix my relationship with them. My Saturn return also enabled me to feel emotionally more secure within myself. During this transit I had to closely take care of a member of our family who fell seriously ill and needed 24/7 care for almost two years. Saturn in the 4th really got me disciplined and responsible. Taking care of the garden now and planning on acquiring a small home with a large piece of land in the mountains to create an abundant homestead.
I bought my first house at age 21, and own several properties now, but I have Venus in the 10th in Taurus. I do definitely drive my cars until the wheels fall off though, lol. I always felt this placement explained why I didn't meet my husband until I was in my 30's and why I've had delays in conceiving.
Same here for Saturn.. I believe near future you will become a great astrologer ❤
Thank you so much lada you’re always right on point ❤
I have just watched your Saturn in the 8th video (because that is where mine is!) and thought I would look at this as well. My son has Capricorn in the 4th and also his moon with Cancer on the MC. His father last saw him on his 3rd birthday so I brought him up alone. A lot of what you say about Saturn in the 4th also applies to him, although his Saturn is in Libra.
I have Saturn in Scorpio in the fourth house. It is the only water in my entire chart. It has been extremely challenging and I would not wish it on anyone. Very hard to get totally healed but I am working on it.
I have Saturn scorpio in 4H. I feel you.
Saturn conj. Pluto in Libra ♎ in 4th house by Whole sign system- no childhood, I grow up very fast with my poor grandparents. I work so harder from my early age,my parents never support me. It was a nightmare...still is so painful to think about that..
Me, with Saturn in 4: faulty relationship with mother, feeling of not being loved, old house, elderly parents, financial difficulties, emotional trauma. At the age of 28, both parents died within 2 weeks of each other.
My mom, myself , and oldest daughter all have Saturn in the 4th house 🥹 mine is in Scorpio… the struggle is real.
Sooo accurate! My father is a 4H Saturn as well and he is an estate liquidator, very hard worker but very set in his routines/ways, I did feel he was controlling as a child because his home life was tough as a child himself. He’s coming up in his 2nd Saturn return and I’m hoping he can learn to regulate his emotions better (he has Saturn 4H Aries) because I know that Saturn disciplines if you’re not learning. I’m currently going through my Saturn return in 11H Aquarius and it really kicked my butt until I learned boundaries in friendships… well the ones that are left anyway. Saturn took most of them away, but I’m better off!
Anyways, thank you for this! Your way of explaining astrology is so inspiring!
I dont feel any responsibility to my family, or deep connection! I always hear this with Saturn 4th. Not me. Saturn Libra 4th
I have Saturn in the 4th, almost in the 5th, My mother was under stress when I was an infant, early child. BUT I have Aquarius rising, and I was, as mother said and her neighbors agreed, the easiest baby and child to take care of. I could play happily by myself yet gurgle and laugh when picked up (if not too long). Hence I was "neglected" in tne sense of preferring to be alone. When a little older I preferred to be outdoors, away from home, with friend or alone, even in storms (those were the days of free range parenting and I was cautious enough to vavaoid any injury) I was independent of family from the start, going off sfter college on endless adventures, in touch only with an occasional phone call for many years. But YES, I returned to home base as my widowed mother aged, wanting to be nearby so I could help when needed She too was an independent woman, making good new friends in her old age. And she was healthy if creaky. So, ironically, she was an easy "baby" to take care with regular but not all that frequent visits. My biggest help was to supply her with literary classics (she hated "stupid" books). ... She could get a ;perfectionistic when you helped her with house tasks. This drove my siblings crazy but not me. I would stop doing the tesk and tell her I would not do anything more unless she stayed in her bedroom and warned me when she had to come out to the bathroom. I also insisted that she make no comments when she did come out. And no comments on the ask until the task was finished. She found all this quite amusing and when i was done we had laughs about it. Don't forget that Saturn is the source of satiric humor, exaggerated humor., offbeat humor designed to undermine authority. My distance was from siblings, not my mother (once I returned to near home base). I never called them, visited them, and they never called me. Yet in old age my oldest brother asked me to visit as h recognized that he was approaching death. I did visit and I reconciled him with his dutiful and gay son. I insisted he treat his son civilly and learn to appreciate his many good qualities. As with my mother, I tolerated no nonsense on the rules of civility and appreciation.. They did reconcile. I had a similar reconnection with another brother (at his initiative) and his widow keeps telling me how our conversations (by phone) were a source of uplift and even joy for him. I prefer disconnection with people but when I connect I give them full attention. So, yes, responsibility to family and others even though I would prefer to be disconnected. One exception would be young people. My heart went out to their troubles but as a teacher I was both easy going and stern with them about standards. And again, the trick was to g give them full attention, to accept them as they were but within "as they were" were potentials they have not developed and it is a good thing to open those potentials to them. I have noticed that it is difficult for so many Americans to give full attention to other people. P.S, My model in dealing with others who are difficult was Barbara Wodehouse's formula of "Be firm, be fair, be fun." She trained doges or rather, as she said, she trained incompetent dog owners to be competent and thus the dogs and the owners became happily and lived together happily. I think my Saturn in the 4th made it easy for me to be firm, my Aquarius rising made it easy for me to be fair, and my Leo sun and Uranus and Jupiter in the fifth made it easy for me to be fun. Despite becoming the only relatively poor sibling I have felt blessed by te upbringing UI had. I became relatively low income because of my choices and priorities. This is not the case with most poor eople, so I am fortunate to end up prrety much OK despite being financially neglegentt, ven wehn I held a good paying job.
I have an Exalted Saturn 👑in the 4th and I live in a Beautiful Art Deco High rise with all the Amenities. So that's true. I Love Classic Grand Architecture!
All my Neighbors are Old people. too and I am young.
And My Mother was a Cold Bitch!
And I do need lots and lots lots of alone time. 😳
What’s Saturn exalted in the 4th, what does that mean?
And omg my mission since my 20s has been to reconnect with the land by farming or gardening! 😳
Thanks Lada for sharing. Would you have other videos with remedies for this hard placed Saturn?
I lived with a man who has his Saturn in Capricorn in the 4th house. We were surrounded by mountains and there was a prison down the street. Living with him was like being in prison….I have my Saturn is retrograde in Taurus in the 4th so it was difficult for us to stay together 🤦🏽♀️
How did it feel like a prison?
My mom passed away last year - saturn has been transiting my 4th house.
I have Saturn retrograde in Aries the 4th with Chiron and north node. Mother was very violent and abusive and the relationship with her has been the toughest in my life but has gotten better with age. Obviously I have some karmic tie to her with n node and Chiron. Taught me a lot about myself and how NOT to be!
Thank you so much
You are a wealth of wisdom
My Saturn is in Pisces 4th house and my parents were neglectful. Funny how it manifested on the opposite end of the spectrum.
Me too. Do you live near water? I’ve been told that would be good for this placement.
What if the Saturn 4th house is in retrograde in the birth chart?
They say its actually better to have à rétrograde saturn than à normal saturn. It slows down thé restrictions
Well, this nailed it! Wow.
Could someone explain what it means when Saturn in aquarius 4th house squares your Pluto Scorpio in the 1st house?
I grew up without father from 1 to 15. Now I have a daddy issue and couldn’t be secured in a relationship. I’m looking for way to improve myself so I can be secure.
I have Saturn in my 4h in Taurus
Saturn Uranus and Neptune 4th house capicorn
What if it's retrograde? Same? How about conjunct Uranus?
I have it at 29 Sagittarius right on top of Uranus, both retrograde
I wonder what happens when you get Uranus AND Saturn at around the same degree in this house...
4th house 26°libra (Saturn, Mars, Pluto)
Thxxxxx Lada!! I have it in Leo 😊
Please, could you give me an advice in few sentences. I have a son, 3 year old. He has Jupiter, Pluto and Saturn in Capricorn in 4th house with Jupiter on the lowest degree of 3. Jupiter squares Asc and Mars squares Pluto and Saturn.
Please..please could you give me an advice or opinion? Thank you so, so much. ❤
Oh I remember that configuration from 2020… both Saturn and Mars are very strong in the signs they rule, which gives them dignity, the hard aspect means there will be some big inner and outer tensions he will be confronting especially on the front of family and relationships but the good dignity of the planets means he will cope with tremendous strength of character…I would advice you to get him into some kind of sport which is more demanding, like weight lifting, marathons, martial sports (so he can learn to control the will power and channel this strong Mars and Saturn) later on this will turn into a very strong control and ability to direct his will
Saturn is in the 4th house for Scorpios but until when?? So many Scorpios i know are either moving, relocating, separating or getting a divorced and the single ones are finding partners out of nowhere its interesting
Saturn in the 4th for scorpios up to March 2023 will be affecting home( moving out of home or even going back home). And uranus in the 7th might be the fact of the married getting divorced ( for marriages that were no longer working) or where one of the partners was feeling with no freedom in a way. And the singles are falling in love out of the blue for maybe their different type of people. I fell in love for a white foreign man we did not stay together though 😅
It's the 1 opposing planet that forms my chart
Saturn conjunct Jupiter 4th house libra. ❤️
What happen if mars with saturn in 4th house in libra ??? Plz explain🙏🙏🙏
Me: This Saturn energy is ruining my day.
Meanwhile Saturn: Bro who TF are you
LMAOOOOOOOO
Can this placement indicate abuse/trauma?
I have it at 10 degrees Scorpio
I have it at 10 degrees Scorpio. 🥴
I have it at 10 degrees Scorpio 🥴
Thank you
You're welcome
My fourth house Saturn is in Aqua and yes I'm working on paying this karma by helping mom out so I can finally break free and make a new home with my kids elsewhere🥲