My husband and I share a queen because we can't fit a bigger bed in our small room. Every night he complains about me sleeping in the middle of the bed and every night I complain that he steals the comforter. Can't wait for an upgrade lol!
30 years of marriage- I honestly can say we’ve had our fair share of storms but the key is how you both react to those storms, changes- do you pull together? Supporting and encouraging each other? Or do you pull away and each try your own way of overcoming the difficulties? I love where we’ve evolved to- The bed/sleeping arrangements is hilarious. We are both at the place where we are contemplating twin size beds for us.😂
That's actually so pretentious when parents think that they are the most busy in the world. Yes if you had a chill live before it's true, but don't assume everyone lives like that. It's always the slackers that say that. Probably the first time the actually had to have their shit together is when they had kids.
Do a video about the progression of sleeping arrangements/beds in a relationship! Dating:couch, twin bed, first "real" bed: double/full size, queen to king, to separate bedrooms.....
@@fergiefergie5759 Damn straight. You grow up with having your own bed as a child to an adult then suddenly society tells you to sleep with your SO in the same bed every night. No thanks. Ever since my boyfriend and I got a place big enough for it, we've had our own bedrooms and it's AMAZING. Don't have to worry about snoring, him being on his PC, and in general having personal space. People tell me I'm weird for it, but we sleep wayyy better this way so who cares. xD
@@zombieluka I honestly had to reconsider the crush I had on this guy when I realized that he's always wearing a jacket and scarf while I'm walking around in only jeans and a t-shirt in 35 F degrees weather. No way I'd be able to sleep with him if there'd be tons of blankets, and especially if he snored as well. 🤣 Running on hot and cold, and me with my sensitive hearing. I agree that the personal space is important, and good quality sleep is vital.
@@zombieluka I am such a picky sleeper and my husband has sleep apnea and CPAP doesn't work... It took me years to accept being ok with separate bedrooms but now that I do I am so happy and sleep amazing. I don't know why people hate on it so much! Our marriage is actually better now because we are happier people because we both sleep better!
@@GPS_DS yes, sorry I understood the first time, I just didn’t want to say “I agree” because I’m not married myself which is why I said 30s seemed better
@Martha H a 40’s marriage is the same as a 30’s marriage, but with more experience occasionally some elements of a 20’s marriage, such as a more active social life.
After a meesly 4 years of a committed relationship with house, pets, and a baby, I can confidently say that the secret to a happy "marriage" is separate blankets.
As a single person who has had to share beds with friends at sleepovers, college trips, etc...I only came to the conclusion of seperate blankets a couple of years ago. If I ever get married, 100% having my own blanket.
His laugh when he said you think you're busy right now, killed me!! As a man with wife and a 4 yr old I can safely say I have not had a no plans weekend in like 4 year's!
Wait till you are in your 40’s and those little babies are now teenagers and you need to drive them all over 😆…. the busiest I have been in my entire life.
All of life in your 30s is summed up in the laugh at the 3:10 scene. I’ve never seen a laugh express so much laugh, anger, hurt, and sadness all at one once. It’s deep.
I legit looked at VRBO houses for a family trip this fall and was excited I found a couple with enough beds that my husband and I could each have our own queen 😂😂 I mean I love him but it's either a king or separate beds.
I need to hear that laugh for an hour, I need it in my soul. Also, where do I buy the manual so my hubs will know what to say to end all our arguments?
I've been with my husband since we were 19, 34 now with two kids. This is the most truthful thing I have seen about 20s vs 30s marriage, literally crying 🤣
In our early marriage years I somehow smoked up the microwave cooking steel cut oats. Black smoke was coming out of the microwave. I got the bowl and put it outside and we went to work. He was mad because the microwave smelled bad and somehow we were mad for a week over the oatmeal 🤣. I haven’t bought steel cut oats since. Anyway, not a super big deal now if that happened. It’s funny now.
Hahahah. The out take. Yours has grown, as a women who’s been married 23 years that is exactly what my husband would have said and meant it the way it sounded!
How did you know I just hit the rear view mirror outside of my garage? 🤷♀️😆 My husband just windexed the “ color” off and I was the one saying, “ I know, I’m terrible.” 🙄 😆
I'd say these characters is pretty perfect husband material. One has less time and the other doesn't have enough but they love their wife...and kids. 😂
hilarious but I think this should be called 'marriage before kids and after kids' 😂
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Exactly! 🤣
That’s too unoriginal
Yes!! Definitely need to change the title !
That's the next one!
"I can get through any argument in 10 seconds...honey, I'm sorry, I suck." Listen, after 33 years? THAT is 100% accurate!
that got me laughing real good :)
I confirm!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL 🙌🏽
That part was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
18 years married with 4 kids. I laughed my head off at “you think you’re busy?” 🤣
Same lol.
I laughed so much , this was the best!
Yesssss! There’s little kid busy, & then there is teenagers busy-all of it so much more than no kids. What did we even do before kids…
@@joannejohnson3628 SLEEP 😴😭🤣!!!
Absolutely!! Completely agree!! So funny! “You think you’re busy?”
The hysterical laugh about 20's being busy is perfect.
And accurate.
Brad was dyyyyiiing a slow death 🤣🤣
That was me laughing at my sons reaction to his first big paycheck🤣😂😁🤣 I think I'm still laughing
I was looking for a comment about this 😂😂😂😂😂
@@kj7792 what about his reaction to paying taxes for the first time😂 i got my first check like “wth they took how much?”
You really can’t overstate how amazing a king size bed is though. LIFE CHANGING.
To be honest, can’t get down with the king size bed (married & in my 30’s) I guess I’m the exception to the rule here 🤣
My husband and I share a queen because we can't fit a bigger bed in our small room. Every night he complains about me sleeping in the middle of the bed and every night I complain that he steals the comforter. Can't wait for an upgrade lol!
With each decade you need a bigger bed! 😅
“You think you’re busy right now?” 😂😂😂 Also, I’ve scratched the side mirror backing out of the garage… twice.
I totally agree with the sleeping arrangements especially 7 years into marriage XD this one was a GEM!
Lol my husband and I are happier since we got two separate beds!
My husband and I have been married a year, and I happily pop off to the guest room whenever I want to go to bed early. ☺️
King bed and separate blankets. Yes 🙌
After 15 years of marriage, we are very happy with our split top king which is basically two different beds that are just near each other.
King bed and splurge on the mattress!
“Honey I’m sorry, I suck.” Yep, that’ll do it 😂
"Honey I'm sorry I suck!" Pure genius😂
30 years of marriage- I honestly can say we’ve had our fair share of storms but the key is how you both react to those storms, changes- do you pull together? Supporting and encouraging each other? Or do you pull away and each try your own way of overcoming the difficulties? I love where we’ve evolved to- The bed/sleeping arrangements is hilarious. We are both at the place where we are contemplating twin size beds for us.😂
Yes dude, same on the bed situation at 19 years
Same, except since we dropped our youngest off at college a few weeks ago we have been going to bed at the same time 😉
I am 26 and am already contemplating this. Might as well do it now after your comment and not lost 10 more years of sleep 😂
Brad laughing about being stressed… 😂😂😂 SO accurate! Love it!
Married 7 years = King size bed and separate King size blankets.
Ain't no cold toes getting me.
😂🤣
Legit the funniest comment I’ve seen 😂
Same here. 11 years in and separate blankets (his idea) and king bed has assured us undisturbed sleep!
Married 6 years but can’t do the king size bed thing. I know I’m the minority here 😆
Wait a couple years and make it separate rooms because of snoring. Sleep is precious.
My husband and I are in our 40s, childless, and just got married last year. It’s kind of funny that both sides of this video resonate!
ooh congratulations!
@@jcqwater8713 Thank you 😊
Aww that is really cute! Wish you a happy and long marriage :)
@@soulsofwar8985 Thanks so much!
so your clamshell closed for good huh?
Single as a pringle..but I still laughed at so many points. That's how you know it's quality stuff
I love the huge laugh over “you’re busy?” So true!
That's actually so pretentious when parents think that they are the most busy in the world. Yes if you had a chill live before it's true, but don't assume everyone lives like that. It's always the slackers that say that. Probably the first time the actually had to have their shit together is when they had kids.
Petition for brads wife to film a reaction of her watching this vid for the first time.
Fantastic comedy here! This even works for your 40s if you had a kid late in life. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Do a video about the progression of sleeping arrangements/beds in a relationship! Dating:couch, twin bed, first "real" bed: double/full size, queen to king, to separate bedrooms.....
Separate bedrooms😔...
I want to know who ever mandated sleeping in same bed anyway 🤦♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️😅
Separate rooms is vital for a lasting marriage 😅🤪😂
@@fergiefergie5759 Damn straight. You grow up with having your own bed as a child to an adult then suddenly society tells you to sleep with your SO in the same bed every night. No thanks. Ever since my boyfriend and I got a place big enough for it, we've had our own bedrooms and it's AMAZING. Don't have to worry about snoring, him being on his PC, and in general having personal space. People tell me I'm weird for it, but we sleep wayyy better this way so who cares. xD
@@zombieluka I honestly had to reconsider the crush I had on this guy when I realized that he's always wearing a jacket and scarf while I'm walking around in only jeans and a t-shirt in 35 F degrees weather. No way I'd be able to sleep with him if there'd be tons of blankets, and especially if he snored as well. 🤣 Running on hot and cold, and me with my sensitive hearing. I agree that the personal space is important, and good quality sleep is vital.
@@zombieluka I am such a picky sleeper and my husband has sleep apnea and CPAP doesn't work... It took me years to accept being ok with separate bedrooms but now that I do I am so happy and sleep amazing. I don't know why people hate on it so much! Our marriage is actually better now because we are happier people because we both sleep better!
20’s is fantasy marriage, 30’s is reality marriage.(the superior life.)
Frankly the 30’s seems better
@@beccag2758 I was referring to the 30’s when I said the superior life.
@@GPS_DS yes, sorry I understood the first time, I just didn’t want to say “I agree” because I’m not married myself which is why I said 30s seemed better
@Martha H a 40’s marriage is the same as a 30’s marriage, but with more experience occasionally some elements of a 20’s marriage, such as a more active social life.
@Martha H Ha! Good one.
The writing is top notch! So many gems packed into this one! You guys put out such consistently clever content, and the execution is brilliant! 😂😂
You thought I was in love with you yesterday, wait until you get home today 😂 classic!!!
“I can get through any argument in 10 seconds…‘honey I’m sorry, I suck.’” 🤣
Married for over 20 years and this was completely accurate 🤣🤣 love y'all 💜
The laughing at 3.20 had me in hysterics. The accuracy is on point 🤣
After a meesly 4 years of a committed relationship with house, pets, and a baby, I can confidently say that the secret to a happy "marriage" is separate blankets.
As a single person who has had to share beds with friends at sleepovers, college trips, etc...I only came to the conclusion of seperate blankets a couple of years ago. If I ever get married, 100% having my own blanket.
LOL yes 🤣
Yes to this!! We have avoided a lot of arguments by doing this.
We were joking about having a seamstress sew something a sheet on one side plus like 3 blankets on the other side haha
Same here! Separate blankets from the beginning (his idea) and 11 years later it’s still the best decision ever!
My husband and I have been like Brad's character since we got married, in our 20s
Yep, ten years later (25-35) and this resonates STRONGLY! Looking forward to marriage in the 40’s 🤔😳
"Honey, I'm sorry. I suck!" Writing that one down to use later.
Great!! 👏🏻👏🏻 Brad laughing at Jake was THE BEST! 🤣🤣🤣
"This weekend's going to be great - no plans whatsoever." - This is me for sure.
The being constant tired where its part of your personality...I feel that deep
His laugh when he said you think you're busy right now, killed me!! As a man with wife and a 4 yr old I can safely say I have not had a no plans weekend in like 4 year's!
I love the overwhelming sense of tiredness by the guy in 30s. Very very accurate. Lol
“We’re SO close to 10-million subscribers...” 🤣🤣
We became parents at 23 so we pretty much skipped Jake's version 🤣 But here we are 32 living our best exhausted lives. Hope you make it to 10 mil!!
I think I said “I do” already in the 30s stage 😂 but each day is still great 😍
The laugh on the “you’re so busy and stressed now”.😂
@2:35 "Hey what's up? 2%. 🆗. Deal."
I'm not even married but why do I relate to this on a spiritual level? 🤣🤣
This is definitely one of my favorites. 😂😂😂 The ACCURACY
The different levels of energy & enthusiasm is so true. 😂😭
Dying about the dog lmao
"Honey, I'm sorry, I suck" had me lolling
Ha you need to do 20’s vs 60s. That would be real. Get your parents involved 🤪🤪
That he mocks the dog's frightened barking to make his point is when I broke out laughing!
Wait till you are in your 40’s and those little babies are now teenagers and you need to drive them all over 😆…. the busiest I have been in my entire life.
Brad’s extended laugh was the best part!
All of life in your 30s is summed up in the laugh at the 3:10 scene. I’ve never seen a laugh express so much laugh, anger, hurt, and sadness all at one once. It’s deep.
Lmao 🤣 the laugh when he’s like u think u stressed and busy right now
"you think you're busy???" Uncontrollable laughter... I AM DEEEAAADD!
I legit looked at VRBO houses for a family trip this fall and was excited I found a couple with enough beds that my husband and I could each have our own queen 😂😂 I mean I love him but it's either a king or separate beds.
Ok the “Call of duttttyyy” got me 😂
Brad’s laugh at being busy was great, but I was anticipating the Jonah Hill War Dogs laugh to start to come through 😂
🤣 "Hey, what's up? 2 percent?" Lol. That's about right!
Hahah awesome skit! Very funny when Jake said he's stressed and Brad just laughed xD
3:40 I feel attacked 😆 🤣 😂
I loved the Stranger things finale too 😂
the busy laugh got me lol. truth
I need to hear that laugh for an hour, I need it in my soul. Also, where do I buy the manual so my hubs will know what to say to end all our arguments?
I've been with my husband since we were 19, 34 now with two kids. This is the most truthful thing I have seen about 20s vs 30s marriage, literally crying 🤣
Love the-snuggle up in the twin 🤣
It’s the hysterical laughing at you think you’re busy? For me 🤣
OH MY GOSH. Dead at the "blowout" part. Hysterical.
"What's up -2%" Classic😊
"honey I'm sorry, I suck" 😂😂😂
In our early marriage years I somehow smoked up the microwave cooking steel cut oats. Black smoke was coming out of the microwave. I got the bowl and put it outside and we went to work. He was mad because the microwave smelled bad and somehow we were mad for a week over the oatmeal 🤣. I haven’t bought steel cut oats since. Anyway, not a super big deal now if that happened. It’s funny now.
That's comedy gold, right there!
0:15 “Prison Guard sounds fun!”
Brad was definitely cry-laughing about being stressed and busy 😅🤣
“ you think your busy right now” FACTS!!!
You nailed it about the king sized bed 😂
Brad laughing at Jake because he thinks he's busy😂😂
This is my favorite Jeans Shorts video yet!
"Honey I'm sorry, I suck." lmfao 😭😂
Omg! Love it! Omg! “Because it’s you and your a woman” omg! I lost it 😂😂😂
We haven't gone to bed together in the last...pshhh 5 years?
Hahaha amazingly accurate
The laugh..crying..I get it,lol!
Costco on Friday nights, it's a vibe. Lol
Brad, I love that long laugh hahaha
“Prison guard sounds fun.” 😂😂
The dishwasher, definitely had this argument so did my brother and his wife. These things are serious business!
You got me at Facebark.
😂 king size bed it's like we're in 2 different zip codes!
🤣🤣🤣 The twenty's comment about Sparky.. oh my goodness.
bahahaha love this!! New parents and currently transitioning from marriage in our twenties to marriage in our thirties. 😂
I can't imagine being married for ten years. After watching this, I can't imagine being married for one.
From personal experience, year ten has been way easier than year 1 haha.
Coming up on 15. It really flies by...
Fixing to be 36 for us and he’s still my best friends. It’s true that the first 5 years are the hardest.
I can get through any conversation in 10 seconds:
"Honey, I'm sorry. I suck." 🤣🤣🤣
"Call of DUTY" 🤣
“Ooookayyy” 😂😂😂
“This weekend’s going to be amazing, no plans whatsoever” 2:40
You think you’re busy now? _long laughter_ (with a hint of sadness and tears)
Here’s to your millie fellas 🍻
Brad cracking up when Jake thinks he’s busy… 😂 I’ve got 3 kids. I know.
“Love you too. We don’t needa kiss, it’s fine”. Hahahah
My Wife and I are married for a year but the 30s Marriage is literally us lol
Hahahah. The out take. Yours has grown, as a women who’s been married 23 years that is exactly what my husband would have said and meant it the way it sounded!
Aye!!! Thanx for the Memphis cameo.
Hey Jake, remember me from college? Awesome stuff man! New subscriber here. I'm turning 31 this year and been married 8 years. Everything was so true!
Wow, this is SO true and hilarious!! Great job!
You guys are hilarious! And i love the clean sense of humor!😇😂
How did you know I just hit the rear view mirror outside of my garage? 🤷♀️😆 My husband just windexed the “ color” off and I was the one saying, “ I know, I’m terrible.” 🙄 😆
I'd say these characters is pretty perfect husband material. One has less time and the other doesn't have enough but they love their wife...and kids. 😂
I had 2 tik toks to my self😂😂