14:48 did I just hear "why I LOVE Ross more than you" the smacking isn't the problem in this household the problem is that the parents are telling their kids how much they love them based on how well behaved they are 😱
"The" problem. It doesn't have to be restricted to just one problem. What you point out is an issue, but so is smacking. They are two fundamental issues.
I don't think that's what was going on here. I think Kelly was accusing him of loving Ross more (off camera) and he was responding to her by asking her why she thinks that. I think Kelly's part of the convo got cut off so it made it seem like he was TELLING her that, rather than responding to her accusation with an inquiring question. Like this: Kelly: You love Ross more than me! Dad: Why do I "love Ross more than you?" (as in: Why do you think I love Ross more than you? Why do you say that? What is your reasoning?) Kelly: Because you gave him gold stars. (as in: You love him more because you gave him gold stars, but didn't give me any.) Dad: Because he was being a good boy. (as in: The reason I gave him gold stars is because he was being a good boy. I didn't give you gold stars because you were not being a good girl.)
How about a behavior ladder have one for all or for each child. The best things on top and the wrose the bottom. Clip chart to reward the good and punish the bad.
Ugh. She told the kids no on taking his dads money and they did it and ran when she wasn't looking, and she REWARDED them by letting them all get snacks off the truck; she's an enabler!? She would have NO order if she had those kids all the time, not like there was much in the first place.
I'd have let them have the snacks anyway... which they did. You're only a child once, for 18 years. Enjoy it. I was a bit of a rebel, especially when the School nurses had the nerve, to put me on a diet of mixed salads for every meal, so that wouldn't fill me up to the point where I went back to the boarding house and raided the kitchen there.
The kids gave karen a run for her money 😂 little terrors. Who used to say that one phrase to their parents after a smack and RUN.... 'it didnt even hurt though' haha
Many, many times we don't get a reward in real life, so what does this teach them? They end up frustrated later on in life when they don't get a reward! Get real!
The kids conned Karen by letting the dog out , Karen couldn't handle kids for few hours never mind a day o year or life and above all else Karen told the kids she wouldn't tell so it's OK to lie , Karen couldn't have done worse if she tried
i think its a terrible idea to say there should be punishment for parents... it tells your kids youre on and equal playing feild ...thats not positive for them... some of these things were ridiculous
I got spanked growing up with a belt or wooden spoon and it didn't make ME afraid of my parents though it did make me respect my father and mother and I was WELL behaved! Even though it was my dad who did the punishment I was STILL and will ALWAYS be a daddy's girl! But like the Christian family I KNEW when I did wrong PERIOD and I EXPECTED to deal with the consequences! Plus it was NEVER out of anger! This has gone on to regular life where I DON'T break laws bc I KNOW there are consequences and I don't expect to NOT get caught and I know there is a cause and effect to my behaviors and choices!!! I sure as HELL turned out BETTER then my cousins who NEVER got punished until the LAW punished them! What's worse going to jail OR getting a spanking as a child?
Jasmine Jeanine I understand you... i used to get chased with a belt too 😅 but that made me very respectful and understand what’s wrong and whats right. I really don’t believe that a little harsh discipline is some kind of child abuse. Child abuse is a whole other story 🙂
You can discipline kids without spanking them. Million of kids never get spanked, it doesn't mean they never get punished, or that they'll end up in jail. Spanking a child teaches that child that it's ok to hit other kids, animals, and later in life other adults: unacceptable! The kids on this vid are a prime example: chaotic household, they get spanked, but there' no real structure or consistent discipline. Sad.
You’re reducing the options to 2: zero discipline or hitting children. There are many non violent ways to discipline! Also your story about your cousins is anecdotal evidence. Plenty of people who were hit as children go to jail as well.
@@nyx6937 Correct. The people who don't see it as a problem were conditioned to think it is okay, parents who use corporal punishment can and do get reported to CPS child services and then they can face the punishment of using violence to discipline their kids.
You're in denial if you think they're well behaved. The parents need to change their ways because smacking is a form of violence, and it's teaching the kids that violence is acceptable. It's disgusting and should be 100% outlawed.
Because they’re well-behaved out of fear, not out of respect. They fear their parents, and that’s not a good thing. There’s no such thing as healthy fear; all fear is bad.
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14:48 did I just hear "why I LOVE Ross more than you" the smacking isn't the problem in this household the problem is that the parents are telling their kids how much they love them based on how well behaved they are 😱
"The" problem. It doesn't have to be restricted to just one problem. What you point out is an issue, but so is smacking. They are two fundamental issues.
That was disgusting
I don't think that's what was going on here. I think Kelly was accusing him of loving Ross more (off camera) and he was responding to her by asking her why she thinks that. I think Kelly's part of the convo got cut off so it made it seem like he was TELLING her that, rather than responding to her accusation with an inquiring question. Like this:
Kelly: You love Ross more than me!
Dad: Why do I "love Ross more than you?" (as in: Why do you think I love Ross more than you? Why do you say that? What is your reasoning?)
Kelly: Because you gave him gold stars. (as in: You love him more because you gave him gold stars, but didn't give me any.)
Dad: Because he was being a good boy. (as in: The reason I gave him gold stars is because he was being a good boy. I didn't give you gold stars because you were not being a good girl.)
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Of course sweet and optimistic. She’s Canadian 🇨🇦❤️
Where is part 2
Where’s part 2?
How about a behavior ladder have one for all or for each child. The best things on top and the wrose the bottom. Clip chart to reward the good and punish the bad.
9:31 I’ve gone through stuff like that AND ‘regular’ smacking, it was all extreme violence
Ugh. She told the kids no on taking his dads money and they did it and ran when she wasn't looking, and she REWARDED them by letting them all get snacks off the truck; she's an enabler!? She would have NO order if she had those kids all the time, not like there was much in the first place.
totally agree.
I'd have let them have the snacks anyway... which they did. You're only a child once, for 18 years. Enjoy it. I was a bit of a rebel, especially when the School nurses had the nerve, to put me on a diet of mixed salads for every meal, so that wouldn't fill me up to the point where I went back to the boarding house and raided the kitchen there.
@@jenlfpotter3870 You're not anything for 18 years and you can have snacks at any point in life anyway.
The kids gave karen a run for her money 😂 little terrors. Who used to say that one phrase to their parents after a smack and RUN.... 'it didnt even hurt though' haha
Very true !
if they don't wanna be on TV y are they
Hitting kids is objectively wrong. Anyone who disagrees is incorrect.
Right
Karen is miles better than Supernanny.
Jo Frost just thinks a time out is good but is actually bad and this lady on this show is really relaxed.
I love her point blank about kids
@@ruthfoster6706 love who? Don’t say Supernanny.
Is this Glasgow or Coatbridge
Lol Ross just figured its u haha
Karen's a Karen who isn't a Karen.
It’s Jo Frost who’s a Karen
Which Karen is the karen? A karen is a common noun, the name Karen is a proper noun.
haha im famous :D i was the little shit back ;)
Many, many times we don't get a reward in real life, so what does this teach them? They end up frustrated later on in life when they don't get a reward! Get real!
ladies and gentleman welcome to early noughties uk 😏😏😒😒
Whats wrong with these kids ffs😮
The kids conned Karen by letting the dog out , Karen couldn't handle kids for few hours never mind a day o year or life and above all else Karen told the kids she wouldn't tell so it's OK to lie , Karen couldn't have done worse if she tried
i stole a star xD
I don’t get spank
Ur true?
Are you the same Jacky Wynn from the program ?
@@andrew80s55yeah, she had the original broadcast master
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i think its a terrible idea to say there should be punishment for parents... it tells your kids youre on and equal playing feild ...thats not positive for them... some of these things were ridiculous
I got spanked growing up with a belt or wooden spoon and it didn't make ME afraid of my parents though it did make me respect my father and mother and I was WELL behaved! Even though it was my dad who did the punishment I was STILL and will ALWAYS be a daddy's girl! But like the Christian family I KNEW when I did wrong PERIOD and I EXPECTED to deal with the consequences! Plus it was NEVER out of anger! This has gone on to regular life where I DON'T break laws bc I KNOW there are consequences and I don't expect to NOT get caught and I know there is a cause and effect to my behaviors and choices!!! I sure as HELL turned out BETTER then my cousins who NEVER got punished until the LAW punished them! What's worse going to jail OR getting a spanking as a child?
Jasmine Jeanine I understand you... i used to get chased with a belt too 😅 but that made me very respectful and understand what’s wrong and whats right. I really don’t believe that a little harsh discipline is some kind of child abuse. Child abuse is a whole other story 🙂
You can discipline kids without spanking them.
Million of kids never get spanked, it doesn't mean they never get punished, or that they'll end up in jail.
Spanking a child teaches that child that it's ok to hit other kids, animals, and later in life other adults: unacceptable!
The kids on this vid are a prime example: chaotic household, they get spanked, but there' no real structure or consistent discipline. Sad.
@@rannar3095 i agree
You’re reducing the options to 2: zero discipline or hitting children. There are many non violent ways to discipline!
Also your story about your cousins is anecdotal evidence. Plenty of people who were hit as children go to jail as well.
@@nyx6937 Correct. The people who don't see it as a problem were conditioned to think it is okay, parents who use corporal punishment can and do get reported to CPS child services and then they can face the punishment of using violence to discipline their kids.
Smacking or spanking is not beating
Yes it is beating. Don't deny it.
Their children are well behaved! Why do they need to change their methods?
Smacking corrupts
You're in denial if you think they're well behaved. The parents need to change their ways because smacking is a form of violence, and it's teaching the kids that violence is acceptable. It's disgusting and should be 100% outlawed.
Because they’re well-behaved out of fear, not out of respect. They fear their parents, and that’s not a good thing. There’s no such thing as healthy fear; all fear is bad.
@@calumobrien9234 Exactly. It’s a mild form of violence and abuse and it’ll mess the kid up!
Where’s part 2?