Q&A with Gil and Kelly Bates | Sharing First Kiss Details🤭👀

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  • The last couple of weeks we’ve been doing premarital counseling with Mama B and Mr. Bates. We’ve been learning a lot and wanted to share some of it with you guys, but also ask a few fun questions to learn more about their early married life 😉
    Loved filming this for y’all and want to do a part 2 soon. Comment below what questions you would like to here Mr and Mrs. Bates answer and we’ll try to include it in the next video.
    Books mentioned in this video:
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    The 5 Love Languages - amzn.to/3DdZUPr
    The Language of Love - amzn.to/3xbKiIm
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    ▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬
    0:00 - Intro
    2:06 - How did you meet?
    7:08 - Communication advice
    11:03 - How did you decide who does what chores?
    16:37 - What was your first argument?
    17:57 - How did you decide which in-laws to visit for holidays?
    21:22 - Would you change anything about your wedding day?
    24:20 - Where did you have your first kiss?
    27:31 Who is yall's favorite child?
    #traceandlydia #bringingupbates #interview

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  • @DancingThunderbird1003
    @DancingThunderbird1003 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I absolutely love this Q n A with Mr and Mrs Bates. I wish they had a podcast. Love hearing them talk and share their advice.

    • @jaymielee1110
      @jaymielee1110 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sermons and hymns every sunday online friend! Bible baptist church east tennesee

    • @sadierose6018
      @sadierose6018 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agree!

    • @gailewing4080
      @gailewing4080 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Podcast would be awesome!

    • @taraadams5120
      @taraadams5120 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree love them

    • @rebekahcanova6403
      @rebekahcanova6403 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree 100%!!! I REALLY enjoyed hearing their wisdom on things! And also like there honeymoon advice!!! Excellent advice!!!! And a once in a lifetime experience so mine as well do it well and spend the time and money! You'll never regret the time spent with your new spouse!💕🙏

  • @susana6452
    @susana6452 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I would never get tired listening to your parents. Such a kind and inspirational couple!

    • @Kirdiegirl72
      @Kirdiegirl72 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

    • @fayecarney5968
      @fayecarney5968 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who led each one of Kelly Jo and Gil to saving knowledge of Jesus as Lord and Savior

  • @lindseyprice
    @lindseyprice ปีที่แล้ว +19

    They really need a TH-cam channel, they have so many encouraging words & help so many people ❤️

  • @anandaconstantino6302
    @anandaconstantino6302 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Trace was trying his best to ask more questions and I just wanted to hear the long version answers 😂 we needed a series to hear it all

    • @ashleyjo2881
      @ashleyjo2881 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! 😂 I love Mr. and Mrs. Bates

  • @mrschalk1226
    @mrschalk1226 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Loved this video! A question I have for Kelly & Gil is how did they decide on names for their children.

  • @JEC10612
    @JEC10612 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    It was so good to see your mom and dad again! I miss watching them on UP tv so much! I absolutely love listening to their love stories and advice for married couples! Very Godly and wise couple!

    • @Youngmom68
      @Youngmom68 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too!!

    • @user-mt7zw6xb3k
      @user-mt7zw6xb3k ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Miss this family so much. I wished they were still on TV.

  • @lornab2555
    @lornab2555 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love the Bates family & love the way they love our God! Kelly and Gil are just so adorable!

  • @sadierose6018
    @sadierose6018 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Trace- thank you for doing this with your parents! There are so many of us that never had the guidance or advice your parents can offer. I hope you will do a few more of these. I learn so much from your family. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @cindyheyman5452
    @cindyheyman5452 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Never go to bed with being angry and not saying I love you. Always be there for one another in time of need. Discuss how to raise your children and consequences when it comes to discipline

  • @michellepoe761
    @michellepoe761 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love seeing your parents and hearing all of their marital advice!! I can’t wait for part 2 of the Q & A. I’m also so excited to see the videos of your wedding!!

  • @rachelpouvave2705
    @rachelpouvave2705 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love listening to your parents talk. They’re full of so much wisdom. I would never tire of hearing them. You should definitely do more Q & A’s. ♥️

  • @gingerlong4157
    @gingerlong4157 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y’all are so wise to get advice from your parents. It’s so very obvious they are so love with each other after 35 years. First and foremost is the fact that God has guided them on decisions that had to be made. I wish you both a life of love, devotion and happiness.

  • @joanparro5777
    @joanparro5777 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This was fun. Gil & Kelly Jo are hilarious. I'm looking forward to part 2.

  • @tinaturk819
    @tinaturk819 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Momma and Poppa B, and what they stand for! They’re such an inspiration!

  • @marybrasier1180
    @marybrasier1180 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mr. Bates is a great preacher! Mrs. Bates is such a joy to listen to her sweet words!

  • @darlenelamountain2831
    @darlenelamountain2831 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great advice! I always celebrated Christmas on another day other then the actual day...when my single sons worked as correction officers and they offered to work for other officers who had kids, I felt that was the best gift they could of given me and we've done that ever since.

  • @HakobPartyOf6
    @HakobPartyOf6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Don’t let there ever be anything you’re not willing to talk to each other about .. have faith in each other not fear ❤️. Good luck y’all seem like a great couple !

  • @jaymielee1110
    @jaymielee1110 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So sweet having miss kelly jo and pastor gill on the video with yall. They still have so much joy and grace shine through their marriage. Hreat advice and books for newlyweds. Congrats on your upcoming marriage and hawaii! PS enjoy pastor gills sermons and old hymns every week from toronto.. What a blessing

  • @hollyborton4077
    @hollyborton4077 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Love watching your parents! Looking forward to part 2. Miss your family’s show! Congratulations on your wedding day coming up soon!

  • @colleenstump116
    @colleenstump116 ปีที่แล้ว

    This. Was. The. Best! Your parents have so much wisdom, are so transparent, so honest, and fun! Loved this!

  • @sallysmith155
    @sallysmith155 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always love the video. And it was lovely seeing your parents answering questions.so looking forward to the next video.🙏🙏

  • @erikahope8928
    @erikahope8928 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So enjoy hearing them speak. Such wisdom and love in their relationship. You all are so blessed to have them as examples. God bless you all as you obey Him. ❤️✝️

  • @monicajohnson5601
    @monicajohnson5601 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What a great video! I love listening to your parents. Do you know what would be a really great video? The same Q&A format with Papa Bill and Mama Jane. They are so fantastic, and really funny.

  • @stephaniehale2721
    @stephaniehale2721 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s always so good to see your parents. They are so beloved and such inspirations!! Thank you for this. ❤️

  • @sandrawyrick8538
    @sandrawyrick8538 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this! Your parents have so much wisdom. I miss the show so much. It was like an episode! Please continue to do more of these with your parents!

  • @SuperBocaraton
    @SuperBocaraton ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this so much😍❤ More, please!!!

  • @mariekastigar2294
    @mariekastigar2294 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it! What a fine example Mr. and Mrs. Gil Bates are for you two and your entire family. I do miss seeing them on UPtv. I look forward to part two. ❤️🙏🏻 to you all.

  • @war10editz
    @war10editz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love, love, love this!!! Miss seeing Kelly & Gil on BUB sooooo much! Thank you for doing this! Can’t wait to see the next! 💗 - Kelly from Wilmington, NC

  • @jenniferfitzgerald8970
    @jenniferfitzgerald8970 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This Q and A brought me so much joy! I love, love, love your parents, Trace!!!

  • @cindyhildebran1680
    @cindyhildebran1680 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this! I enjoy hearing them talk and give great advice for couples. Good role models.

  • @ElizasGrammy
    @ElizasGrammy ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this so much! Thank you for these kinds of videos. It's like the show is still on! ♥

  • @dorothypapst4846
    @dorothypapst4846 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for doing this Q&A with your parents, I loved hearing their advice. You are truly blessed with such wise parents.

  • @jessicabroeske4523
    @jessicabroeske4523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw this was such a sweet video. I could listen to Mama B and Gil all day, their stories are great and filled with so much knowledge. Their marriage is such an inspiration, I love how honest they are too.

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is excellent! We need these regularly, so many people don’t have such good mentors and wisdom spoken into their life. We’ve had the opposite unfortunately. Really grateful for this interview. Makes me teary 🥹

  • @kathyeberly
    @kathyeberly ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this Q&A time! Such wisdom! Very excited to learn more and excited for your wedding!

  • @traciebarrera1299
    @traciebarrera1299 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We loved this & can't wait for part 2 !!!!!!! It would be really neat if Gil and Kelly would have a "premarital counseling series". A list of all the recommended books would also be great❗❗❗❗❗❗ 🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @marthashellman1973
    @marthashellman1973 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this! Lots of wisdom and good advice from your parents!

  • @Ksue1969
    @Ksue1969 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kelly and Gill are so amazing to listen to and share advice. Very appreciative of their words of wisdom.

  • @kellegaus6457
    @kellegaus6457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guy’s actually did ask some great questions that are not normally asked. It was great hearing them remanence and go down memory lane!!

  • @cherylrhone3407
    @cherylrhone3407 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was epic!! You guys asked some great question. Kelly Jo & Gil are so cute. Looking forward to part 2, and especially the wedding. ♥️🔔

  • @savedbygracesavedbygrace8308
    @savedbygracesavedbygrace8308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh how I miss Kelly and Gil. Thanks so much for this Q&A with your lovely parents. What great mentor and support system y’all have. Wisdom, grace and devotion. A great start to marriage. Miss bringing up the bates.

  • @righteousnessofGodinChrist555
    @righteousnessofGodinChrist555 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    💖💖💖Great stuff....Thank you for sharing!! Kelli and Gil are always so positive and loved!! We so appreciate ya'll and Really miss seeing the Whole family every week.....Thank you Trace and Lydia...looking forward to all wedding footage.

  • @connieploeger3704
    @connieploeger3704 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved this, can’t wait to hear more from Gil and Kelly! They seem like such a wonderful couple.

  • @sandandsparrow
    @sandandsparrow ปีที่แล้ว

    They really are so wise! Their natural affection for each other is so sweet and the joy they have is contagious.

  • @tlynn7043
    @tlynn7043 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was one of my all time favorite videos ever from anyone in your family. Getting wise advice from your parents can help a lot of people. They are great people who did a great job raising their children and they still laugh and enjoy each other.

  • @laraaleman2597
    @laraaleman2597 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love listening to your parents, what a blessing and inspiration they are!! Please do more Q&As with them! 😁

  • @jodikugler7823
    @jodikugler7823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this Trace and Lydia. I really miss seeing your parents and hearing their words of wisdom. 🥰

  • @savedbyjesus2145
    @savedbyjesus2145 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this interview with your parents ❤️!!! Looking forward to the wedding!!!

  • @me_lissa1026
    @me_lissa1026 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! I love listening to your parents talk. They are such wise and fun loving people.

  • @kelleysigler9759
    @kelleysigler9759 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really really enjoyed this !!! Please do a part 2 !!! I love Kelly and Gil. 2 super special people. ❤️

  • @Amy-vo9rb
    @Amy-vo9rb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your parents so much!! They are a breath of fresh air!!

  • @danielleelias685
    @danielleelias685 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband and I binged watched all the seasons "Bringing up Bates", in only about 2 almost 3 weeks recently. We love how they raised all you kids and how close your family is. You have such a beautiful family and we love your sense of humor. You all have so much fun together. Your mom & dad are wise and such real down to earth people. Trace ya sure turned out to be a real handsome young man. So happy you found someone to share your life with. We love all of your family. We live in Canada and have been married 39 years.

  • @sineadbaker2407
    @sineadbaker2407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly they are the sweetest!! Please do another soon 😊 Have a wonderful day on Saturday!! Sending love from the UK ❤

  • @leslienavinsky
    @leslienavinsky ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was excellent. I love your entire family. The Q and A’s are the best with all the families.

  • @lynn7854
    @lynn7854 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your channel. I'm glad you are doing this. I also like your time stamp Alot of people dont do it but so glad you do

  • @hanneloreromeike1096
    @hanneloreromeike1096 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this Q&A episode. So fun but also so much wisdom. I Love Trace’s parents ❤️

  • @lindaremillard2604
    @lindaremillard2604 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved the chat with the 4 of you. Love your family. Congrats on your up coming marriage.

  • @girlmeetshomestead
    @girlmeetshomestead ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so fun! They are a wonderful couple and are so full of wisdom. ♥️

  • @Ldeb54
    @Ldeb54 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was great! I just love and respect Kelly Jo and Gil so much! I look forward to part two!! They always have great advice!!❤️❤️

  • @josietellez6773
    @josietellez6773 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. I miss seeing Kelly and Gil. Wish ya'll had the show come back. Keep up with the beautiful messages 💕

  • @2156cynthia
    @2156cynthia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love when you and your siblings have your parents on! They are indeed wise. HAve a great wedding!

  • @annejones4186
    @annejones4186 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so great! Love your parents!! I would love to hear Lydia’s parent’s story too!

  • @maddyk8505
    @maddyk8505 ปีที่แล้ว

    by far your best video 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @koenadventures
    @koenadventures ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please do part two! I love listening to your parents.

  • @christymeez
    @christymeez ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯 💯 💯 the best ever!! I could listen to them forever!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @patriciaboychuk2994
    @patriciaboychuk2994 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking forward to part 2!!

  • @pinkywilliams8063
    @pinkywilliams8063 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I Love you guys so much, the family I always wanted back in the 60's.... I miss the show too... Great advice from Gil & Kelly... Thanks Trace & Lydia

  • @christinecastro3608
    @christinecastro3608 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love seeing Gil and Kelly I miss Bringing up Bates! Thanks for having this channel ❤

  • @macimccoy9271
    @macimccoy9271 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a cute video! I love the idea of reading together to facilitate conversations.

  • @amandabrown1948
    @amandabrown1948 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video y'all please do a part 2 soon your parents are absolutely great wonderful people

  • @cindyworley9694
    @cindyworley9694 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great. Such wonderful examples for you two to follow.

  • @aprilbridgman2073
    @aprilbridgman2073 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sweet that ya’ll want to take the time to sit down and ask them fun questions. They’re such sweet people!🥰 Excited for the wedding soon!

  • @laurilance5986
    @laurilance5986 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Kelly and Gil!! Great content. Can't wait for your wedding!!

  • @darlabingham6023
    @darlabingham6023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video and HOPEFULLY ,,,there will be more soon !! Congrats ,,, Trace and Lydia !!

  • @ajatracy1299
    @ajatracy1299 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hands down my favorite q&A with your parents! I love your mom❤

  • @totallifehacker1781
    @totallifehacker1781 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this. Your parents are awesome!

  • @marissajohnson6366
    @marissajohnson6366 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such good advice! Love this

  • @gloriabritton1866
    @gloriabritton1866 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Q&A session. Love to hear Kelly Jo and Gil’s advice and answers. The Bates kids have special parents it must have been wonderful to grow up in the Bates house. 👍❤️

  • @cjohnson3550
    @cjohnson3550 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was fun! Thank you🌞

  • @anniefong8023
    @anniefong8023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love, love, love your parents. Miss watching you all on TV.
    Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and looking forwarding to part 2 of q&a.

  • @kristincassano6339
    @kristincassano6339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lydia I love how you listening and your so respectful 🙏🏻 ❤ love you all

  • @mariatheodoropoulos6783
    @mariatheodoropoulos6783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's was a cute couple Q&A video of your parents.. They are giving good advise .. In marriage and life living ! I can't wait for part 2 to come out .. ☺

  • @MPGRAY84
    @MPGRAY84 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve watched this before. But, I really feel like your parents are so genuine and make the time to love and care for all of y’all!!! It can’t be easy! But, they really do a great job loving and taking care of their family!!!

  • @elizabethjohnston5247
    @elizabethjohnston5247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good video.Loved to see.all of you.Oct 1 another Mr&Mrs Bates.I saw old vid the other day Trace was mabey 8yrs buying a bday gift for his sister.Hair bow ,necklace, fancy water cup.Someone must show Lydia.Ty for your special guests. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @jenisecoronado5555
    @jenisecoronado5555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was an awesome video - the best of all! You two are precious and beautiful together and I wish you ALL the best in your future life!
    I have to say that "Bringing Up Bates" has been my best program of all time! I never grew up in a Godly family, so being able to watch one is more precious than gold to me! I wish the Bates program would continue in some form!

  • @Youngmom68
    @Youngmom68 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Gil's example! The Bates fam is so precious!

  • @vickiperales-rodriguez9360
    @vickiperales-rodriguez9360 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love hearing your parents talk, they are kind and real and it shows. All of you that have youtube channels should have them on. Love your family. Best wishes and congratulations on your wedding.

  • @cindykeith1266
    @cindykeith1266 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I Love this video your parents are so much fun to watch thay did a grate job with the Q&A can't wait to see part 2 !!!! it would be so much fun to watch you guy's do a Q&A with Lydia's parents looking forward to the wedding video hope y'all have a wonderful weekend God bless you guy's stay safe an health from Harlan Kentucky see y'all next video God bless byyyy.

  • @valc2313
    @valc2313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed this, thanks!!!

  • @letthewordspeakministries888
    @letthewordspeakministries888 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! I miss the T.V. show so much! I miss seeing Gile and Kelly Joe! What a great video to help couples. Looking forward to Part 2. God Bless you guys and your wedding and future together!

  • @janedoeacerpcemail995
    @janedoeacerpcemail995 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good to see Mama B and Mr. Bates!!! Love you both! So much wisdom you both have! I can tell, Trace, you are so willing to listen to them. You are going to make an amazing husband. God's blessings. Thank you for sharing Trace and Lydia!

  • @cherylvelasquez3220
    @cherylvelasquez3220 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such helpful advice, even though my husband and I have been married for almost 17 years. Thank you so much for sharing this!! Looking forward to your next video!! I would find your parents doing some kind of couple videos very beneficial and think it would bless many other marriages!!

  • @rondastothers472
    @rondastothers472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was just too sweet to hear.

  • @deloresmyers5930
    @deloresmyers5930 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I enjoyed this video with your parents. They are a great couple with a nice since of humor.

  • @beautifullychaoticfamily
    @beautifullychaoticfamily ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this idea of reading together! Noted! Love it! ❤

  • @carmthisis8265
    @carmthisis8265 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've watched some of your family members here on TH-cam but I had no idea you had a channel!! Best to the two of you. I've watched a few of your videos now & they're great. :)

  • @lindatawera8013
    @lindatawera8013 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mama B and Gil such good value with advice, sharing funny times how they each saw something. Yay a part 2🥳. Trace & Lydia that looked awkward for you guys at times😉🙉🙊😄.

  • @carolwhisenhunt7504
    @carolwhisenhunt7504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so fun. I'm
    Sure their favorite child is trace. Lol. I love Gil and Kelly so much. I love when y'all have them. It's hard to believe your wedding day is so soon. I pray Gods richest blessing for you both. Can't wait till next video. Be blessed. Love the Bates.

  • @Grace-wf4ix
    @Grace-wf4ix ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank y'all for sharing! Blessings!

  • @patriciabiolchini7850
    @patriciabiolchini7850 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice Mama B and Dady B. I wish Bringing Up Bates never stopped. Lydia u r so beautiful. 🥰