Change of Heart (1998) | FULL MOVIE - Jean Smart, John Terry, Gretchen Corbett
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- Elaine Marshall (Jean Smart) seems to be living the American dream, until she discovers that her long-time husband (John Terry) has been having an affair-with a man.
Starring Jean Smart, John Terry, Gretchen Corbett, Phillip Geoffrey Hough, and Dorian Harewood.
Directed by Arvin Brown.
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0:24 Great movie🙏 I did exactly what she did. I'd gone into depression and divorced my then husband. Now having great friendship with him because that's the best for my 3 kids. I then had a bf for 12 years but now we are just friends because of our differences. At 61 I just wanna be alone taking great care of and loving myself. Thanks for every hurdle in life, I'm way much happier, stronger physically, emotionally and mentally, choose to stay away from negativities. Never knew I could live a wonderful life without any attachments like now.
Hope everyone who's facing difficult times will have better days soon🙏🙏🙏 1:30:40
HUMILITY, A MERCIFUL HEART AND GRATITUDE MAKE A MAN HAPPY.
I don't know how we got to the point where people recognize it as a flaw and something that is not appreciated but, on the contrary, is used for the purpose of dominating that person who is humble,merciful and grateful!?
How over time we replaced GOOD with BAD, and became like beasts that want everything do to get their hands on the loot!?
And we still hope that God's love will SAVE us from destruction!?
How arrogant and selfish we are!!!
INCREDIBLE, isn't it?
🌬️🌀🌌🙏
After a lot of heartbreak I like being alone
DITTO. Same here. Two divorces, wherein I did not file. If they don't want me, I will be by myself. Going on 5 years now. I just turned 61 also.
I loved my husband not for money fame glory I loved him the way he was when we met I was a good wife honest and true always putting him on top of the world when he had an affair I knew but kept it to myself but everyone else knew I cried alone sat alone put up with his abuse while he sent roses holiday and much more to his then girlfriend I lost my job my heath suffered but one day I got up held my son told him everything is gonna be ok I kept my word to him but I often wonder why would he give up so much for another woman who lived her life that way I wish you all great success and happiness 😢😢😢
@@romanasever At least you didn't add "submissive."
Having a good friend that takes out of the too much heaviness and drama from the situation is like having gold. A good friend ist precious
This movie shows that if you have a great script to work with and some A plus actors you can make a movie that has honesty in its excellence.
WOW….Jean Smart is FANTASTIC. I’ve never seen her in a role like this and her anguish was so real. As a woman whose been married for
39 yrs I can’t even imagine the hurt finding out the way she did. Truthfully though, there are more people experiencing this than we all realize. But I can’t even imagine it.
Yes it’s a devastating thing to learn especially the way she learnt it, but it’s great that everyone worked through this and became friends.
Humans spend too much time hating , being angry.
Thank you this movie great acting.
Have you looked at the percentage of men who cheat?
Amen if anything is more important than God to a person - this is not good. If a man does not want to be with you - so be it
I love that the family got through the trials and had a happy ending for everyone. I used to watch this movie as a child.
My college roommate's father did exactly that same thing. Freshman year, first few weeks of school I had 2 roomies: my roommate and her sobbing mother whom I frequently discovered sitting alone in our dorm room sobbing with inconsolable grief. I figured she'd been diagnosed terminal, but it took weeks for her to confide. Teenage son was left home with his mom, hubbie had left and moved in with his male lover then insisted on joint custody. Messy divorce. He'd always known he was gay but had wanted children. She'd been married to him 22 years without a single clue. She felt and thought it somehow was all her fault.
What a jerk he could’ve told her..then that’s left for her to go to a clinic to find out if she was Oky or in good health..
What confuses me is if he was gay how could he sleep with her for 22 years? I'm assuming he was at least bi but maybe just a stronger attraction to men? A very sad situation either way
@ it happens he loved her ..look at bruise Jenner..
It takes a fool to learn that love don’t love Nobody!
I might have to go watch this again later. "Watching" it and talking to my friend in Jamaica at the same time doesn't work too well! Lol
As a betrayed wife, this movie is enough to make me vomit. The pain of adultery is indescribable. If you lust outside of your marriage, please just show some honor and leave before betraying your spouse. The profound selfishness of adulterers is horrifying.
Exactly
He wanted children so he used her. That’s an assault on her uterus and her lady parts.
It's even a sin making a movie out of this unGodly life!!!!
The least he could do is wait until the kids were raised and out of the house. Share the responsiblity but no his life came first. Very sad.
yup true, the adulterer only worries about expressing he has swapped camps with no remorse of his betrayal to his boy and family - this is such a crap as its based all on the cheating then trying to shock his family so he doesnt have to experience his own shame guilt or remorse....just a narcisist.
Oh, what a good movie! As a big plus, no pesky commercials. Thanks so much for posting.
a very sad movie. I would not have handled that situation like she did, but it worked for her. Real life can be very difficult, especially when you've been betrayed.
Sometimes we tend to respod/ct wisely when things are big but lose our cool when sipler thkngs happen. 😅 Many would relate to that. It’s all about how we manage our emotions. When it’s serious and threatening we act cautiously and try to be or solve things positively but when lighter things happen we let it all out openly. Just a thought so, please no roasting. 😅
@@hana.the.writer5074adultery is a bitter pill for the spouse who was faithful, loving and honest. It's so destructive to the moral fabric in society. But with courage and the help of God, life goes on and hope does spring eternal.
Oh , my God ! It is devastating to find out that someone you’re committed to in a loving relationship, and then find out it was all a lie !! 😢😮
Adultery (in any form) is devastating on so many levels - also impacting future generations. Doubt anyone can ever truly recover from wounds resulting from a shattered marriage...
“The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.”
That is powerfull statement. We sleep with our enemies look at all the murder cases.
Well I don't think it was all a lie. He loved her.
@@bethr8756I have to agree with that
This type of condition is all over the world! It’s destroying families everywhere and their children. I’m a 77 yr. old single woman and this is how I feel, I would never accept that senario, I would never sleep with my husband again, if I was put in that position. “Marriage over”! I would be entitled to my opinion and what I believe in!
I agree with every word you said.
Selfish men who know they’re gay yet marry and have children to keep up a facade deserve no sympathy or respect whatsoever.
How very Christian of you!
I agree and I think as a Christian, you can think no other way. We can forgive sin but sin can be and should be called out. God does not accept or ignore sin, He offers forgiveness to believers who ask for forgiveness and turn away from their sin.
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He told you this personally?
@ I imagine he’s relieved as he keeps referring to himself as a suspect.
@@adrianashilling2573 If you read a Bible, he will personally tell you as well. God speaks to us through His Holy Word. If you do not have a Bible, please get one and read God's Words to you.
Very good movie- depicts the complex layers of humans emotions perfectly in a less than perfect situation. We can all learn from it. Yes I cried 😅
A movie about tolerance, forgiveness, understanding and empathy.
Jean smart is AMAZING
A complicated and sensitive story, and because of love they handled everything well
When a person stopped loving you, let her/him go!!! It’s better than to be with a person that plays with you!!!
As my mother used to advise us girls growing up (and crying over a "failed romance"): "Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?" Pretty sensible. Move on.
It's easy to say ,it's hard to do it.
@ True, but what for to be with somebody that doesn’t want to be with you!!! I see a lot of people that they are lost souls because they want to be loved or they are lost because they want to be with the wrong person!!!
Thank you for posting this movie 😅😅😅😅😅😅
Her best friend (Gretchen Corbett) is a gem!! ❤❤❤
She surely is pure gold! ❤️ I wish I had a friend like that 🥹
@@PetflixChill-v1l I thought the same
Jean Smart is so pretty and a good actress.
I Haven't Seen This In a Long Time Thanks For Putting This On TH-cam
Good movie glad you presented it to all of us, thank you
What super, wonderful, loving movie. Terrible emotional problems can lead to wonderful decisions. Healthy, love and communication are so important for real life. Thank you.
Great uplifting movie for this dreary day. ❤ Jean Smart
Awful situations after so many years of marriage 😿
Brilliant movie with a Brilliantly loving outcome
If only the ending could be as happily for all divorcing couples. Great story depicting family truths
Thank you kindly for sharing the movie
Thank you for posting the movie
He made the situation impossible not her!! Why cant men take responsibility or blame for anything they do??
Or women
@@whatwillbem6825 but mostly men
I completely agree with you. Actually women have been abused for centuries. I don't recall when they were free and peaceful to be themselves. I do however think women should be wiser and who they choose to be with. I understand romance is wonderful. Too much trust too quick. Slowing it down a little bit and watching things can't hurt. It's a very important thing to do. Be very careful. Men not all, but most are designed to be aggressive with relationships. Sometimes attracted to the wrong kind of person. That's very difficult to learn not to do. The media doesn't help they show romantic stuff all the time. It's not love it's something else. Example, I'm sure every married couple has said I love you to one another. Yet there's a 50% divorce rate. Love? Maybe if something else.
Because the women in their lives enable them.
No he didn’t! You’re seeing this thru a biased, heteronormative filter.
Such a wonderful movie. I enjoyed watching immensely. Thank you for sharing, much appreciated❤️
Thank you for posting this great film ❤
Lose ur husband in a moment, he crossed the line & destroyed his 20 year relationship with his lovely Loyal wife who gave him a son& a daughter. ?
Excellent movie. Loved it and very eye opening. You can’t help being the true who you are.
Such a great movie ❤❤thank you
i went through this same thing, but, If you can believe it, much worse!!
This is a really good film to watch 😊
The husband has the autacity to blame his wife. He literally destroyed her life and her children.
YEAH !!!! He's an
@ZZ HOLE..😂..
Agree. That part made me so angry!
Satan comes to beak the family
@@bobbieleland7687 Funny not too many can see this…destroying one family at a time…😔
* audacity
I wasn't sure if I would watch this and I didn't even read the comments but it's a good movie. I can't give my opinion without going through it but I'd be very hurt and maybe not as forgiving. ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🇦🇺🇦🇺
What a fiercely brave woman. ❤
What a great movie! Thanks ~ a definitely a tearjerker. Loved the honesty and healing in the end. A lesson in compassion. 👍
How could you trust again a man that have done that? How can you sleep with him and not think about or visualized what he was doing with the other guy? That’s horrible! Once trust is gone, it is nearly impossible to get it back, plus in his case, he has urges. What guarantees that he won’t slip again?
I would have told the kids immediately.
And asked the so-called husband to move out immediately.
And tell him I need time to analyze and figure out a way to move on.
Kids, adults whoever need to deal with this within family space and leave others out of it until everything with the family has been resolved.
This anger needs to be addressed in a better way.
And take responsibility for everyones own actions. Everyone is dealing with the same issue. Keep it in the family and work it out.
Be respectful, kind, and considerate. And the kids need to decide on their own how they want to address and deal with the issue. Unless they decide to involve the mother and father.
But, if they choose not to accept it, and respect their choice and vice versa.
Free choice always comes with consequences, good or bad.
The choice is always yours.
I can’t believe she slept with him after she caught him! So he wasn’t fully gay..:. He still likes women too!
So he was bisexual because right after she found out i can remember him telling the man he was having a affair with his for her never changed
OMG I can't believe this woman. I wouldn't let him near me, and he would be out of the house from that "131" moment onwards.
Seeing your parner with other woman is shock, but seeing him with other man is even a greater shock
I read the comments be fore I watched the movie the turned it off. I have been betrayed twice in my married life and just couldn’t watch some one else to through the pain .
The daughter Sara in this movie is Shawna Waldron (Becky O'Shea) in The Little Giants. The father is Kate's dad in The Big Green. The mom is Laura's friend Kate in the country who kept the animals while her friend and their family was out of town in Homeward Bound.
Thanks for sharing this movie
How could she have sex with him again 🤮
Beyond disgusting! Once thing is to not know, another is to know and still do it.
Just gross and nasty and disgusting and sick.
Desperate , afraid to loss him , afraid to ne alone , understandable.🤔
@@cbluejay2499 she didn’t seem desperate, nor afraid to lose him, or afraid to be alone. She loved her husband. 🤷🏽♀️. They eventually divorced. Amicably.
Father is Nothing but Selfish !!! We All make Choices His was Bad which Effected His Loving Family 😢😢 Needed to Get Counseling !!! What he did was EVIl 👿
For your husband to cheat on u is one thing but to cheat with a man that's so unbearable
It’s more common then u think
@@KirstinKoppenhaverso true!!! This world is falling APART!!! 😭😭😭
@@KirstinKoppenhaverOr women with women!!!
So what!!!!!!
I dunno. This happened to a close friend of mine. But she handled it better than if her husband cheated on her with a woman. Because she couldn't compete with a man so a woman would be a threat. He was a great father, provider, and a good husband so she stuck with it. It actually brought them closer together in a few ways. Friends, partners, parents raising kids. Different things work for different people and situations.
She wanted him to want her so bad. He didn't want her no more. I can't believe she slept with him knowing he was putting a man in the DAMN BUCK!!!
Great movie, thank you
This movie tries to normalize perversity and its devastation to families and society.
I couldn’t stand to finish it as I could see they were going to try to downplay his vile acts
"I'm not trying to hurt you." Oh really?!
"His name is Phil...Phil McCrackin. I told him my name is Ben Dover."
I appreciate the uploads. Please don’t forget to include subtitles from now on. Some of us like reading the dialogue as well.
Use your c caption, some of us don't like subtitles. Vary distracting.
Subtitles are not available for this movie
Wow what a shocker.
I wonder how this movie will end😮
A great story which showed a very intelligent and compassionate side of America. Acting was exceptional. Thanks for uploading.
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Excellent Movie. They don't make actresses like Jean Smart anymore.
Selfishness, perversion, foolishness and all kinds of deplorable things.
Honesty is the best policy!
An amazing movie on many levels of great human understanding, tolerance, love and true, emotional human growth!
An absolutely wonderful and mature movie with extraordinary acting and well directed and clearly well written ! A movie really worth seeing!
Moving beyond conventional judgements , embracing all!
Excellent !
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It's a propaganda film from the 90s to make people accept being gay is normal. And of course you fell for it hook line and sinker. This is not real life. It's a movie.
To hide is painful
for the one who
loves you
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I had to quit watching...he. was so gross in thinking he could be gay and married to the mother of his children.
.thats despicable, horribly sinful, and wrong!!!!!!
Same I can’t finish this. Too disgusting and the movie is downplaying it
I always loved this movie.
this man is very selfish ....he knew before he married that he loved Men...the Father is to blame for all
I have zero sympathy for that man.
Who can have?😢
I could throw Up !!!! A married man,with Family. Why ????? did he get married????? Why ????did he not live, like he already felt,in His younger age . Nothing against homosexuales, but WHY ???? JUST TO HIDE.....!!!! GETTING MARRIED ???
My ex husband!
Just nasty 🤢🤮
This can happen to any man or women. Lovely to have a good ending ❤
A difficult subject very well written and acted I would say time to move on try to maintain a friendly relationship And try to maintain a relationship with The kids
❤️🖤💚The Acting Is Great...But The Script Is Horrible...1990's Hollywood...Sad...🇺🇸
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soooo devestating - soooo many lives damaged -
EXCEPT
for the one who gets to have his cake AND eat it too❗️❗️❗️
so selfish -
the innocent ALWAYS pay the price,
have to bend,
accomadate,
compromise,
adjust,
accept, etc - whilst the perpetrator of such damage just gains all that they want .
The wife really wanted to save the marriage but the husband did not. I enjoyed the movie.
What a jerk this guy is.He's deep in Sin, against his wife,and asking his wife," what about me.".
I found the husband to be an insufferable bore.He acts like an ass and wants her to approve.
Jean Smart reminds me of Kim Cattrall and John Terry reminds me of Brian Cranston.😆
She reminds me of Patricia Richardson from Home Improvement... she even sounds like her.😊
How disgusting! What a selfish man and for him to say he loves her? He thinks he gets a pass for adultery bc he decided to lust after men? Sick!
Unfortunately this is a real problem & it’s really dangerous. There is no way I would touch a man that did that. Absolutely despicable & cowardice.
I watch crime shows when the husband is exposed by his wife he goes off the deep end and takes his wife life.
Not easy issue.
He didn' t intend to cause pain to the love ones
Unhapyness to all family and only love forguiveness to contrusted a New life.
@@MariaAparecidaValladares Wrong answer. Since when does being gay get a free pass for cheating on your spouse? "Intentions" has nothing to do w/it.
First time I have seen this movie; really good, sad at times but; at least it ended good for all of them
this is what marriage and family therapists are for. They should’ve immediately gone individually and as a family to counseling to figure out a way to handle it. Everybody each reacting and making decisions independent of each other for intelligent people they’re not acting intelligently at all. Well, I haven’t finished the movie yet. I’m just a little disappointed at the way they’re handling it. Now that I finish the movie I’m glad it worked out in the end. This was back in 1998. They actually could’ve fired a man for being gay? Is it only that recently that that could have been well we sure have come along way and thank goodness for that.
Who didn't react when the lady asked her to dance? Her face expression was priceless. I do believe it should stay behind closed doors, its their choice who they want to be with. I've been in places where they do know how to dance.
How sad that this has happened to people in real life.
Wow, definitely was heart felt. As difficult as it was for them they managed to get through it. Such a wonderful story❤
It's a propaganda film from the 90s to make being gay acceptable. It's not real life.
It’s not about excepting the gay life. The reality of it all sometimes ends in murder. It’s dangerous hiv/aids is making a comeback. Poor we women
It’s a terrible story
So far this movie is fantastic! But so incredibly sad. I would be devastated if my husband cheated on me let alone with a man! How horrible she must feel after all those years!
She’s such a good actress..I loved her way back since designing woman.
My Lord, I am not sure how she handled it. However you look at it is a betrayal. To me is discusting. It is actually more devastating. Soooo many man are gay and to think they live a double life because they know society will never see them the same, especially if the have a successful career. One thing is to come out when you are young and another thing to marry someone and live a lie. I do not know how she could stand looking at him. This movie is totally nuts. She is not well to accept that betrayal.
It's not real!!! Just a movie!!!
In real life you can't move on like she did.... it's BS
It’s propaganda to normalize the gay lifestyle.
There is not always an easy answer towards what to expect from your spouse.
We all deal different with things and out of love we sometimes try to make the best of it but we have to try and see it from the others position and then work out what makes it best
And I have not seen this movie before from Sharon to and it looks amazing movie to watch from Sharon to
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The Mother is 100% CORRECT!!!
At least the little punk didn't just roll up and honk the horn - like most bums!
So is this supposed to make the guy as a victim because he cheated with another guy? Amazing.
There is another film similar to this one - think the actress was Judith Light ,but cannot remember the name of it.
Things always work out,just have to find the right path. Thank you.
Just seeing them make love while he’s gay is just so hard to watch 😔
Just nasty 🤮
High risk. I lost a friend to aids. Its selfish to keep several lovers. no integrity Just Very sad.
My first son’s father was bisexual and he wouldn’t admit he was! He kept trying to hide this from his family and me. It was the most traumatic experience of my life when I found out.
holy family pray for the purity, sanctity and protection of the families and healing of broken families.
So sad how his sexual sin ruined his children and wife. The home their identiy and hopes and dreams.
So would it have been better if he had an affair with a woman?
If my husband is going to cheat, you bet I prefer it's aw woman. I can't compete with a man. Noticed he said those feelings never went away, hence why he eventually acted on it. She doesn't have what a man has to offer him futile tht she tried to make it work. Sick on her part actually... I would never!!! @@BeautyIsHerName27
@@BeautyIsHerName27nooo - if the society was open minded and allowed him to be who he needs to be- then he could appeared as he wished
But he was forced like so many people to do hushed living and sure - truth would come - it’s hush hush from all the judgmental eyes 👀- limit people. Thank god we getting much better our past generations- and hope one day we can understand man and woman’s sexuality is their rights- with law . And no one should cross it - cause we learnt from past mistakes and I wish and hope we did . Sad to see these families suffered over their own sexuality ( had to change the way they were . It’s a shame expectations sometimes do damages more than anything else .
It would had been if he ,HAD NOT had an affair at all.@BeautyIsHerName27
No affair is better than another. That’s what God says. It’s not what I say. Does anyone love God anymore?
cool
Human beings and their complexities! Who’s to judge and throw the first stone? Great movie, great acting. Life is sad - mostly.
God judges and homosexuality is a sin. You’re using the verse way out of context
BUMMER!
Wanted to watch, but there is No CC and volume too low to hear😕
A lesson quite learned !!! Can’t have sausage and cake and expect to eat them both in prominent society. No one has judged the ills of society more so than the offenders. They judge themselves with their own action. So, is God (or the upright society) evil for executing punishment for sinning against morality??? God forbid continuous grace for sinning: at one point He will call for justice and wisdom is never wrong. Peace !!! Thank God it ended well for the family and the society - when evil cause havoc.
The man choose to be immoral and the wife and children are forced to accept it and see how best to move on. Everyone has to go through a mental breakdown and ostracism first before they find how to move forward. Comfort ye my people with the Holy Spirit.