first date outfit ideas to make them instantly fall in love with you *call me cupid*

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  • @rababkhaifallah8140
    @rababkhaifallah8140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    I genuinely don't know why you're not a bigger channel . You are so beautiful and energetic and radiate such wholesome vibes .

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      OMG TOO KIND 😭

    • @michellie9610
      @michellie9610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      wait omg, in my head i truly thought she was at at least 500k
      definitely deserves more

  • @jessicacavero1575
    @jessicacavero1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    the bookstore date outfit was GORGEOUS 😭 that is my style goals right there!

    • @hhleannem5237
      @hhleannem5237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, my fav for sure

    • @thriftqueen1621
      @thriftqueen1621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine too!

    • @susanma4899
      @susanma4899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...and I want those loafers very badly.

    • @Hollaiz11
      @Hollaiz11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! Definitely a favorite

    • @checkeredapplehearts
      @checkeredapplehearts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it was my fav as well! I realized I have all those individual pieces too! I can’t wait to recreate it.

  • @maggieyuan3771
    @maggieyuan3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “If I don’t know the person, I don’t know if I want them to see my knees?!!” LOOOOL 🤣 these outfits were so cute Alexa!!! 💕

  • @ccw2613
    @ccw2613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    My husband of 16 1/2 years and I used to and pre 2020 still did do dates in bookstores. We learned a lot about each other's interests that way and further into our relationship, it was fun to go to the travel section and talk about places we wanted to visit

  • @aubreygivens5048
    @aubreygivens5048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I love how Salem is just passed out by the door.

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Haha he was like this is my place now lol

  • @suupanoova
    @suupanoova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Me already married: hmm let’s see what’s up

  • @sophiag612
    @sophiag612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The picnic date outfit... Nono I don’t think you understand, I’m obsessed

  • @reemamr299
    @reemamr299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    just wanted to say that as a hijabi, i enjoy and appreciate so much the options for modest fits, i know it’s not targeted for that but i’m grateful for them nonetheless🙌🏻♥️
    so thank you so much💛

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I got you love ☺️❤️

    • @EnoI539
      @EnoI539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good to see someone with value

  • @Emi.Leppien
    @Emi.Leppien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can honestly feel the comfort and confidence in this video and it’s so refreshing to see you speak organically- be silly and have fun. I loved this so much!!!! I hope you’re doing well, you deserve it!

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭 thank you emileigh! I’m always so nervous with voiceovers so I really appreciate it !!

  • @meganbrannen1891
    @meganbrannen1891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Literally the voiceover made the outfits 200 times better! One of my favorite videos!

  • @elainedoremus2688
    @elainedoremus2688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy moly! All these looks are so different and show such different presentations. They don't look like they all come from the same person!

  • @Ruby.D
    @Ruby.D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love "movie first , then food" dates because if you get nervous or don't really know what to talk about you can just talk about the movie you just watched, it will lead to talk about other common tastes, and as you talk you can perceive the other tastes and personality traits without forcing any personal information into the conversation, if it comes, it's naturally. Also, I love watching people talk about things they're passionate about, an "after movie" date is the perfect situation.

  • @YourDailyDoseofJillish
    @YourDailyDoseofJillish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Picnic dates are the best! My fiance and I ended up falling asleep on a picnic date once, lol. It was just perfect weather and we were watchin the clouds and then suddenly watching our eyelids

  • @Vivaceczko
    @Vivaceczko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I feel like this video has so much personality, like, it feels like you were genuinely beaming with happiness and having so much fun, it makes me wanna play dress up at home too lol More videos like this please!

  • @katebauer9150
    @katebauer9150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    dude your commentary had me cackling! I also love the message that if your date judges you based on the styles you love it is time to GTFO!

  • @emhen10emilyhenry35
    @emhen10emilyhenry35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Dying over “I am interested, bc look it, my arm pit” 😂😂😂 I need to go to a cat cafe Fr 🐱

    • @susanma4899
      @susanma4899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ikr, I GUFFAWED at that. Also I thought, when I retire and covid is just a bad memory, I should open a cat cafe.

    • @merppa9842
      @merppa9842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I came looking for this comment 😂.

  • @p.moreno2668
    @p.moreno2668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the all black outfit is SO GORGEOUS

  • @AnnieEvelyn
    @AnnieEvelyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love that you had an outfit for every scenario! You'd definitely be the first friend I'd facetime for outfit advice lol! I also love that you talked about how the clothes made you FEEL.. so many people just stick to outward aesthetics and don't talk about comfort and functionality and how empowering clothing can be!! So many great ideas :))

  • @alexishayward7992
    @alexishayward7992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    the guy who cooked alexa dinner in high school:😧

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Should of known then it wasn’t going to be a good relationship hahaha

  • @coffeebeansmeoww
    @coffeebeansmeoww 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That corset and skirt combo is to die for!! Also sweaty queens unite 😂

  • @ilian3199
    @ilian3199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's funny because even though you're style is almost the opposite of mine and I'm not into fashion vlogs or stuff like that, you're videos are so relaxing. You have such a positive atmosphere around you

  • @kayliegazura3883
    @kayliegazura3883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am obsessed with the lunch date outfit! The SHOES!

  • @kristinalindsey23
    @kristinalindsey23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    those cow print pants are everything

  • @PaytonFrances
    @PaytonFrances 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m OBSESSED with the car dinner date outfit! So cute!!

  • @rachelg9353
    @rachelg9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is my boyfriend and my’s first Valentine’s together, so this is great inspo!

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awwww! Hope you guys have an amazing time !

    • @rachelg9353
      @rachelg9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alexasunshine83 Thank you so much! We definitely will. And we’ll look stylish while doing it!

  • @MsSznur
    @MsSznur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your jeans jacket collection is just perfect!

  • @twinelle
    @twinelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMGG the picnic date gives MAD Zooey Deschanel vibes!!! 😍😍😍

  • @nadaaouine6899
    @nadaaouine6899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A thrifting date sounds PERFECT

  • @xswtmiseryx07
    @xswtmiseryx07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Cat Cafe Dates are the best especially going to different countries' cat cafes.

  • @CrystalRubio246
    @CrystalRubio246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    “If you do not know the person, I don’t know if I want them to see my knees!” mooooood! 😂😂😂

  • @shirleysong4480
    @shirleysong4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really enjoyed the specific scenarios that you portrayed throughout the video! Also your black floral see through tank top I just love😭

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha thanks loveeee ! ☺️☺️☺️

  • @tinymochi3094
    @tinymochi3094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And now I'm addicted to coffee, thanks John😂😂😂this is iconic

  • @hollywood9771
    @hollywood9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "coffee date" is literally my go-to every day! So cute and casual!

  • @ParkerB33
    @ParkerB33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    “We ended up falling in love and now I’m ADDICTED TO COFFEE.” Lol way to blame the spouse 😂💕

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Haha literally before him never had coffee and now I have two a day lol so I mean I guess also a thank you to him because I love coffee now

  • @Bloodhoundfostermom
    @Bloodhoundfostermom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Who else wants to play dress up in Alexa's closet ? everything is so pretty ! 😊❤️🌞😎

  • @kittikoko
    @kittikoko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The picnic date outfit is SO CUTE!!! I've actually been looking for some longer-length shorts like those, but they're always made of stretch denim and I want them kind of oversized like yours - the search continues!

    • @hayleymitchell6301
      @hayleymitchell6301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m looking for some too and I think I’ll end up thrifting some jeans and cutting them !

  • @adelejones9399
    @adelejones9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Woah you just teleported to each place you mentioned in 15 minutes, Great job! 💌

  • @loganlott9273
    @loganlott9273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I loved your commentary behind all the outfits on this video! I loved that it was half fashion advice but also relationship/date advice too...great job Alexa!! 😁❤️

  • @choijanelle
    @choijanelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    all the plants bring me joy ☘️🌿

  • @alyssakleinhans3190
    @alyssakleinhans3190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Starting a relationship off with cats always works”
    So many gems of lines in this video (and straight facts!) as well as some super fun outfits. 👌🏻 One of my fave videos of yours so far. I’ve been sick at home with tonsillitis for a week now and this has just brightened up my day a lot. Thanks for doing what you do!

  • @javierafigueroamoraga8316
    @javierafigueroamoraga8316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    3:25 lmaoo that windows background 😂😂 the editing in this is 10/10

  • @adelaidamorejon6617
    @adelaidamorejon6617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your cat in the back gives me life ❤️

  • @merle-k
    @merle-k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    And here I am, looking at all these cute outfits and feeling inspired... and then remembering the knee-high mountains of snow outside and our current temperature of -10 °C/ 14 °F outside... 😂

    • @mrs.hipster4365
      @mrs.hipster4365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah, we are burried in snow mountains as well:D
      No cute Outfits for me, you solely see a walking coat haha

  • @lauramckean2033
    @lauramckean2033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorites are the coffee date, thrifting, and dinner+movie date! Great video Alexa

  • @sophiaworst
    @sophiaworst 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I already thought this video was a great idea before I started it and then realized how specific and hilariously accurate all of your descriptions for why you picked what you did, so so fun to watch and I actually feel like I got some great ideas :)

  • @mal8481
    @mal8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love ALL these looks so much.
    I was looking at some cow print pants myself and I showed them to my boyfriend and was like “do you think these are stupid?” And he just paused and avoided eye contact and very very quietly was like “.....kind of.” Didn’t stop me and he told me I looked great in them. 😜

  • @kelseystone3
    @kelseystone3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was so much fun, thank you for sharing your outfit ideas for each scenario. This type of video is one of my favorites from you. It showcases your style, personality and sense of humor and also gives style inspo so what more could we ask for? And I agree, cats make life better... forever my Valentine 💜

  • @pjarae
    @pjarae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CAR DINNER DATE IS GIVING ME LIFE!!!! I need that exact outfit in my life

  • @LaLaChole8714
    @LaLaChole8714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am LIV👏🏼ING👏🏼 for this commentary 😂

  • @crescent_dawn
    @crescent_dawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These outfits are so cute! It's hard to have one favourite.

  • @irenehuh8214
    @irenehuh8214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i can't even put in words how much i liked this video alexa. watching this genuinely made my day SO much better

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you !!!! I’m always so nervous about voiceovers so I really appreciate it 😭

  • @baileeperdue533
    @baileeperdue533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the cute little backstories you put on each outfit! 💕

  • @cerditoalien4708
    @cerditoalien4708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me watching this, even when i'm lonely, and probably satay like this for ever :)

  • @wijdaneessabry6628
    @wijdaneessabry6628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's always not sunny here 😂😂😂 but when watching your videos I feel the sun shining from my phone 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

  • @tinbernas5947
    @tinbernas5947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that picnic date outfit is so cute!!!

  • @clara4236
    @clara4236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That corset dress OMG

  • @rebeccajones9757
    @rebeccajones9757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am amused listening to a married lady talk about first dates. You are adorable.
    I am digging these outfits not just for dates, but just for picnicking with a friend or even going places by myself.
    I miss actually going places.

  • @traciewest1846
    @traciewest1846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your voice over is awesome. I love your personality ❤️

  • @wlammy4ever
    @wlammy4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The title alone made me lol! Will watch it now but I’m sure I’ll love it!!

  • @Lifeofanniesilva
    @Lifeofanniesilva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk if I’m just giggly but your commentary was so funny. Made my day

  • @mandyhuey5810
    @mandyhuey5810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uhhhm... definitely your funniest video. The commentary 😂 and also appreciation for the fact that you are also a sweaty gal who always drops stuff on herself. I feel understood 😭❤

  • @Rachellese
    @Rachellese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the comments. Made me smile the whole video.

  • @zuzas.5278
    @zuzas.5278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the outfits but I loved the voiceover even more, it was so funny and relatable, thank you girl I almost feel like I just had a chat with a friend

  • @YourDailyDoseofJillish
    @YourDailyDoseofJillish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your explanation of the outfits, you're so adorable in all of it!

  • @jostewart3192
    @jostewart3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You talking about John a lot makes me happy! Have you/would you be willing to make a video about your ~love story~

  • @cindymeS2
    @cindymeS2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alexa!!!!! You are speaking to my anxious/avoidant attachment self with all your comments of ur relationship with your husband at the start 😂 SAME!!
    This is by far my favorite vid from you. The outfits. The commentary. Everything was perfect!!!!!!

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg seriously thank you so much !!!! 🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️

  • @calebmoore1121
    @calebmoore1121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG!!! The flea market/target outfit is sooo cuteee!!! The plant shirt love love love it💛💛💛

  • @lionsmile247
    @lionsmile247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "What if I end up sitting on the grass because my date completely forgot to bring a blanket? Thanks a lot, Date! 😠" HAHAHA 😂😂😂

    • @malkiadebbie
      @malkiadebbie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That cracked me up😂😭

  • @zoejaint9488
    @zoejaint9488 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg i clicked on the video like "hmm i like fashion" and the i heard the intro i was like "omg that sounds fimiliar" and then i realized i watched you frequently a few years ago!!! wow-

  • @catherinelopez7238
    @catherinelopez7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    LMAO why did the “consent to see your butt” monologue make me die. I think about that all the time, so they deserve to see it?!!!

  • @nicolesentosa13
    @nicolesentosa13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ok i'm in loveee with the idea of this video and all of the outfits are amazing, but the library date outfit is just SO PERFECT ON YOU. The collar and the PANTSSS. I hope you keep doing these type of videos im OBSESSED 🤩

  • @AlyssaRubio
    @AlyssaRubio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love all these looks but omg the one shoulder top and also the black lace tank look so good on you!!! 🔥🔥

  • @j14girl235
    @j14girl235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is like one of my favorite videos you've ever done omg the voiceover was so genuine and funny!!! i hope your 2021 is going well you're so beautiful and talented

  • @bums009
    @bums009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this video, the gorgeous outfits, the witty commentary, it's giving me life 😆
    Also that gold button up with the cool ass collar is AMAZING!

  • @madelinegonzalez9637
    @madelinegonzalez9637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love your energy in this video. you made me smile/chuckle a lot with your witty comments! 😂

  • @caitlinhughes55
    @caitlinhughes55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the Lunch Date outfit. Very cute! Puffy headband included ❤

    • @caitlinhughes55
      @caitlinhughes55 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha I like the concept of consent for butt peeping.

  • @janaelloyd4182
    @janaelloyd4182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The energy in the video is golden😂❤

  • @addiecarlson8989
    @addiecarlson8989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video just kept getting better and better and better. This is gold. Here's to hopes for a first date soon XD

  • @SherbetLemonMate
    @SherbetLemonMate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of my favourite ever videos you've done. Honestly every outfit is just fabulous ♥️♥️

  • @mentaloreo
    @mentaloreo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was the funniest most unexpected commentary I've ever listened to on a outfit video lol

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😹 thank you love !!!! It means a lot because I’m always so nervous with voiceovers !!

  • @averypearl
    @averypearl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    okay yes the fits are gorg but ur COMMENTARY i love it smmm ur so underrated!!
    - avery pearl films

  • @darajohnson4617
    @darajohnson4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I may not pay that much attention to you because there are cats around me, but I am interested, because lookit, my armpit" 😂

  • @thriftqueen1621
    @thriftqueen1621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Definitely single on this Valentines Day, but still enjoyed this video all the same! Also, those gingham pants you wore for the library date outfit are my DREAM pants😍

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are so flippin’ comfy!!!! 🙌🏼💕

  • @lusianamartinez4513
    @lusianamartinez4513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those lunch date shoes are gorgeous !!!

  • @sharmaine9223
    @sharmaine9223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Um I was really out here thinking you were a teen living in your parents' house and you're actually a grown married woman !! Love it

    • @alexasunshine83
      @alexasunshine83  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😹 26 year old gal 🤘🏼 although I still feel like a 15 year old sometimes haha

  • @ambermccready1806
    @ambermccready1806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey girl! Your outfits are all so fully realized! You had a reason for every item of clothing along with making it stylish and comfortable! Thank youuuuu ❤️ so glad I subscribed

  • @misscat089
    @misscat089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really like your style right now! it’s so versatile but still has some reaccuring elements, if that makes sense.. ☺️ also: your voiceover was so funny!

  • @creativityinspireddaily
    @creativityinspireddaily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband and I do picnic dates in our backyard at least once a month (perk of living in southern california). That picnic outfit was so cute!

  • @amandamacneil1683
    @amandamacneil1683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OHHHH to go on a book store date. You killed EVERY single outfit!

  • @BN-qh7fm
    @BN-qh7fm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best video to ever exist on the topic of dates !!! Genius being u are!!!!

  • @byancaarely7834
    @byancaarely7834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loveeeeeee the picnic outfit 😍😍 you look so cute!!!!

  • @robindaylemaser391
    @robindaylemaser391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powell’s dates are my FAVORITE first dates!

  • @Noble3781
    @Noble3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this thank you for fixing the camera angle! Please stay with it like this you can see the whole outfits now, Thank you for another amazing video! :)

  • @UniceLiu
    @UniceLiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    i love this video sm even though i’m not going on a date anytime soon lol these outfits are gorgeous!

  • @theGLITTERbit
    @theGLITTERbit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why does EVERYTHING look good on you??

  • @ossaobscura
    @ossaobscura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powell's in Portland is the best bookstore for a date! And they have a little coffeehouse inside with big windows for great street view people watching. Looking forward to being able to do that again someday. Also agree...if your date doesn't like how you dress...run away!

  • @pyjamabottoms670
    @pyjamabottoms670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "I don't know if I want them to see my knees!" - a whole mood

  • @Hollaiz11
    @Hollaiz11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lunch date and bookstore date outfits were my favorite. Both fit the occasion. Dinner date outfit is super cute too. The boots pull it all together. Dinner date #2 is classy. Love it.

  • @Jabski11
    @Jabski11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d love to see a video Alexa of you Disney bounding with items in your closet already 😊💕

  • @virginiabrayton7362
    @virginiabrayton7362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When did you start to realize you loved fashion and when did you realize you had that "thing" it takes to put outfits together? All these outfits were cute and so put together but that book store look was off the charts. I also think pastel blue is one of your colors. You look beautiful in blue. ❤