You are absolutely correct. Move forward and focus on the future. To the extent that your thinking about revenge or what their karma may be then you are still tied to them and they win. Put distance, space and time between you and the narc ASAP.
I wish you abundant happiness, Tom, as I wish it to myself. Let's make it happen on our own, never depending on darkness or validation. Sorry for my bad writing. Exactly because of narc BS, I ended up with triple nationality and multilingual, though I tend to mix languages up sometimes.
You said it all, you made my belief in how I handle a narcissist stronger. Have any suggestions on people who enjoy gaslighting and not necessarily a narcissist or sociopath tendencies.
Narcissists are always angry. Narcissists are unhappy, always offended, always seeking and planning revenge, always annoyed, always blaming, intimidating, threatening, and hurting others, always seeking to oppress and control others, always expecting others to cave and to submit to them and their tyranny. Narcissists must hurt, diminish, and erase others to get a sense of power. Narcissists are always seeking respect that they cannot earn. Narcissists are always seeking happiness, satisfaction, and joy that they can never have due to their extremely negative nature.
@Tim Rarick isn’t it obvious fyi their sole source of fuel is pathologically narcissistic supply which they are only able to extract from their poor unsuspecting victims &/or targets like the parasitic vampires that they each invariably & equally disturbingly are fyi ~ Hence their relentlessly & equally fiercely tireless albeit definitively negative energy & strength nearly all the time until & unless they are cut off from said pathologically narcissistic source of supply & thereby essentially left to starve with only their own vile overinflated egos to vainly & equally pathetically feast on.
this is stated well....'always.... ' never at peace; so thankful i am free from two of them and enjoying life and my walk with God! so very grateful and happy!!!
Karma for the Narcissist is when you move on with forgiveness and indifference . Focussing on your peace and happiness knowing you have your dignity and respect is their karma. They are left unhappy and unsettled because you were not broken but became stronger in spite of them.❤
Yes, people with behaviors on the dramatic spectrum have abandonment issues. They "need" other people in one way or another, but their manipulative behaviors pushes others away, so they leave.
My husband Said “the child can die” because I asked him to please stop being Violent and I have a baby in me. I Lost a baby 6 months ago. He wasnt there. Hes never there. I was Belgin help from Random people a week ago because I bled on the AirPort because he Was violencing me on the phone.
I was the victim of a covert narcissist. He lied to me, gas lighted me, abused me and stole from me. But I can’t find it in my heart to hate him or to wish him harm. I just feel intense sadness that he had to be like that and pity for whatever trauma caused it and because he’ll never know what it’s like to feel affection or love or to be really happy. For that reason I leave karma to God and I pray He will be merciful.
Some people who believe in God also believe that after death, the person as a soul is given a life review in which the person sees, feels and experiences the consequences of everything the person did and the resulting feelings of everyone the person interacted with in life. For a narcissist, this would be the ultimate accountability, to finally understand how he hurt everyone (or made them feel good) in his life.
Karl Nulty. I am much the same. I cant indulge in the hate.... it is poison to me. my father was a nasty crushing Narc. he put the family through 5 decades of suffering. and he died TERRIFIED. late in life I married a narc man. and after 10 months I ran... oh no!!!!!!! I was wasting my precious life on that negativity . the sooner I focused on good and let his Karma go... I am happy and fruitful as an artist. thank you for perspective
@@danielkaiser8971 I sure hope that happens in the next life. Kinda reminds me of that show I used to watrch back in the early 2000s I think it was called twice in a lifetime
For me, the best karma was getting back my $10,000 savings bond that my EX somehow stole and redeemed. This took me 19 months, over 4 states, and he still says I'm lying about that. I had to prove that I did NOT sign my bond. The bank didn't follow protocol, and it slipped through the system. I watched some murder show, and it gave me an idea. GPS! 😈 Everything you do and even pictures on your phone are being stored on Google locations. But, he did this while I had postpartum psychosis in 2011. Does GPS go back in time? YES! I typed in my bank and the date and it said "No Visited Places." This had to be done in the branch with a medallion signature which was blank. So, who signed it? I was NOT there! I sent that in, and the Treasury called. They direct deposited $15,000 and I think I damn near fainted! 😱 I did this in the middle of the pandemic and without an attorney. Damn! That felt SO GOOD! I think this was my highest achievement. Take that you evil asshole with no soul.... 😈
The Bible says: As ye reap, so shall ye sow. In other words, what goes around comes around. Live by the sword. Die by the sword. Laws of Physics also say this.
I watched your whole video, My daughter who is 54, is constantly in my face with situations which I, at 76, can't tolerate anymore. I have eye issues that might make me ultimately blind; I have skin condition that might be a cancer. In neither health condition has she shown any interest - IN - my well-being. Over the years, she explodes at me, with cussing and calling me names to where I can't relax around her anymore. My son, who is 2 years older than her, has given me an option to move - to where he lives, which is several states away from where I am. I have accepted his and his wife's offer. They have been ongoing wonderful, getting an apartment ready for me; setting up a primary doctor, getting so many things "ready" for me....I cannot discount that they mean to help me...as I age. I will finally feel safe, included and NOT judged all the time. So I am going, Now, at the D Day to me moving - she has developed a "non descript problem with her eyes...and wants me to stay here... which I am NOT going to do,.....for several reasons. My current residence has already been re-rented, my affairs have been set up at the new location, including my church, which is important because I am a Christian and am involved with church. It's important to me. She has NO faith, she never wants to hear it - even though she has survived cancer and should thank God above for that! so, that is the scenario and I am not staying.... I will try to remind her, and explain my situation, but I am going.. It's nearly 800 miles away, so it is permanent. I will visably hurt her.....but at 76 - I need to be safe, stable and LOVED......... so it will happen. My daughter fears aging too; it makes her do gym work excessively, keep's her weight down, eats the damndest things.... Her attitude has a basis in a lot of things............I'm tired of trying to figure them out.
Narcissist like to hurt and torture you.The Narcissist gets pleasure from you're stress and pain they inflict.Then the narcissist lies and says they didn't do anything or blames you.
One of the things she taught me is that you can Never be happy while trying to make someone else miserable. She has turned most of my family against me. So, I simply do something nice from someone else. Makes them feel good and makes me feel good.
Many narcissists do get their Karma when they must deal with another better Narcissist Nemesis who treats them as badly and painfully as they treat and have treated others. LOL.
My ex partner (very fresh case, 2 months old) covert narcissist, she got grandiose narcissist. Maybe this is her karma. There will not be a fairytale for her.
I don't wish anything bad on anyone including the Narcissists I've been in relationships with. I've come to terms that it's an evil energy that flows in an out of people. The strong empaths can notice and resist it but the weak will hunt for others; "Hurt people, hurt people." The worst thing you can do is dwell on what happened, you'll accidentally turn yourself into one by being so defensive towards others causing you to turn cold and then be in a trance of narcissism. Lacking trust and love in others causing you to do everything yourself and becoming selfish. lol it's a weird cycle but to make sure you break it is to always show up on time, be of your word, live in the moment and never snake others. Remember, a basic universal law is, you become what you think about. Mark 8:36, " What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?"
Beautiful way to express truth. I did get a bit violent due to my depression after being played by a narcissist, I was angry at everything and everyone including me...I am glad I am getting back to who I am and enjoy it fully and finally found the love of my life, the one I had always been dreaming of...God
I feel so free from the relationship that I was in I don't care about Karma.I find it very interesting though to study the behaviour of the narcissist that I chose to leave. I actually pity anyone that has to wake up to themselves every day and live in that frame of mind.He has tried emotional blackmail to make me go back to him and is still using different techniques to make me go back.I love my calm peaceful life without not having to tolerate his drama on a daily basis 🙏I am a super empath so I have the inner peace to overcome it all and live happily as a single person
The best karma would be for him to be put through everything he has put me through. Years of psychological abuse and a cruel discard. Someone to make him feel like nothing, worthless and hopeless. To become trauma bonded to someone who doesn't give one single shit about him.
I lived with a narcissist for many years but I didn't have much choice I gave birth to her.i was shocked by her whole demeanour as she got older she got worse and I'm an empath so I found her actions horrendous and her high and mighty attitude to me and others was so hurtful😢😢😢God came to my aid when she decided to start exploring the world and eventually settle in a different country.i still keep in touch with her but karma is hitting her hard she is finding things hard and these have been caused by her actions.i don't want fevenge I just want her to become a decent person and respect for others.as for me I've learned how to set boundaries and I have much more peace.my life is so much better because I have opened my heart to god,I know how much he loves me and I know he saw what was going on even if no one else knew what I was going through or what pain it caused.i pray for every person that has to deal with this behaviour ❤❤❤
@Truthseeker59 yes there may well be it could go back a long way I don't know much about my relatives I was brought up with just my mother and she never talked about them so I never got to know them.
@@hazeltillott944 My son is a 5 or 6th generation sociopathic narc. He was diagnosised at 14. Most mental health professionals says it runs on the father's side and boys are most often afflicted with it. However, it can run on both sides and either sex can inherit it. It is a mental disorder and this type is not caused by trauma abuse, over-indulgence, or neglect. It is bloodline... Maybe that is why your mom got away from them and never looked back. They make you do that to save your sanity.
My mother had to leave because of something that was happening to me and I started having dreams later in life in particular one of them left me in no doubt they weren't just dreams but events in my life.she left all my brothers and sisters.i don't know if any of them had behaviour problems.she didn't tell me I even had any until I was older but I'm a lot stronger now 🫠🫠🫠
Forgive them and let them go, go and continue to go with what they consider a merry life ! No contact is the BEST get back gives you a sence of self respect ! 🙏👍
@Tim Rarick Could be, but also could be many other medical reasons, as well. I suppose if one lives long enough, the brain breaks down, along with everything else. Likewise, we all have to be careful not to see narcissism in every behavior. Narcissism is a spectrum of behaviors with a track record to back them up.
I don't care whether my ex narc suffers or not. I already forgave him for all the manipulation I'd gone through. He's sick. All I want is for him to go on with his life, and to not mettle with my life.
I want him to know love. And live in the reality the rest of us live in. I want him to be able to feel emotion without hurting others. Ultimately I want him to heal
I don't wish my ex girlfriend any harm, her karma should be her dating someone just like her that treats her are bad as she treated me. That is all a dose of her own medicine.
Really good information This all played out in my life I have been a magnet for covert narcissists all my life Now at 77 I have healed and am dealing with my own karma
I’m happy that I figured out what he was early on and was able to detach and do my healing. I’m so much stronger learning my lessons and using these tools moving forward. I do get satisfaction that he is trying to Hoover me but it’s no longer working because I see it comimg a mile away. He doesn’t know that I know he is a narc. He is so confused as to why I’m not reacting to him anymore- I went gray rock. Im happy that I didn’t get stuck in this train wreck for years.
You're correct, but I think the part you're referring to is where he says, "they might not die alone, but they'll be lonely because they'll never experience true happiness."
I have filled for divorce after 14 years together. I pray everyday for God to open her heart and her mind and for her salvation. Short of a miracle I doubt that we happen. I wish her well even after all the cr**t she has put me through. Forgiveness gives me serenity and power. Maybe me divorcing her will wake her up. As for me I'm a healthy 67 year with lots of life ahead of me. Hopefully with someone but I'm better off alone than staying. I have family and friends.
I wish them well. Don’t want harm to come to anyone. I live my own life snd I really don’t care what the narcissists do. They are their own worst enemy. No love or peace for them. Nice video. Thank you
It's true that Narcissistic people actually destroy the lives of those nearest to them and they never improve no matter how those wanting them live a happier life. But they are not made like that by the almighty. They surely are sick in their minds. Should revenge be wished to visit on them. Having suffered that situation for more than half a century I believe that the best thing is to leave them alone and get away to give oneself peace and let the narcissist be what they are.
i met my kharma when i was humiliated by a guy that i was stalking and abusing with words when he refused to be in a relationship with me he told his mother and she called me telling me to leave her son alone this was the biggest embarrasment of my life and everyone knew about it but i soldiered on and continued to go to church i decided i would never chase a man again
A narcissist is always living their carma everyday. Not only do they destroy others lives but their own as well. They are self destructive and that is their carma.
Yes!! Just asked him yesterday what exactly are you angry about? Deer in the headlight look, he didn’t know! But it’s Damn something! He will always find something
Never will happen!! Forget it!! they think we are dumb for being kind,and we need to give our love to people who need it!!! Get away from the destruction that could come on you!
In my case i don't want suffering or lack of hapinness or remorse or any shit.....for me karma would be exposure....truth on my name ....and.also My money....i couldnt care less about their life...
Wow! Really great video!🙏🏼💯💯 Thanks for your awesome insight. Yes, Narcissists completely lack remorse and empathy. They deserve the Karma they get. NARCS never had compassion or sympathy on their victims. Just utter ruthlessness, cruelty, unbelievable amounts of abusive control and poisonous behavior. Now NARCS get to reap "some" of the pain & suffering they inflicted & sowed upon their usually defenseless victims. Thanks also for the warning about not throwing boomerangs, im trying so hard not to. Excellent video Brother! 🔥🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤜🏼💔🤛🏼⚖️⚖️⚖️
If I were given the task of designing and delivering a karma type of punishment to the person who's cruelty ended my sons life, severed/ended all family and lifelong relationships took everything I had worked for over my 30 years and left me for dead, I would ignite the dormant or nonexistent emotional component in him, allowing him to experience emotionally, psychologically and physically the exact same level, length of time and in the same manner what he force on me. If this were possible knowing your responsible for this kind of cruelty and having to experience it would likley end the life of the Narcisit.
Have faith There is a God, and he hates a narcissist Let God deal with them,and believe me he will. Meanwhile have a good look at yourself. What attracted you? Why did you stay? Get out and start undoing the damage. God is with you. Take it from me😊
I think God understands narcissists in ways humans cannot fathom and He loves them too, though He surely does not like any evil behaviors from anyone. I think God would rather have us understand the origins of narcissism, such as severe ongoing lasting trauma to the infant/toddler/child such that the young developing brain is too psychologically damaged to mature correctly beyond that vulnerable point in a human's life (although occasionally narcissism occurs without any obvious cause). I think God would want us to use our devastating experiences from a narcissist to learn how to heal ourselves and eventually evolve more authentically and wise beyond what would have happened without the experience, to strive to be more like Him, for the benefit of ourselves and others. We have to give a positive meaning to our suffering, somehow, someway, or else the suffering will always hold us back.
Well, there are twelve of Karma, And I don't focus so much on Karma as much as I do rehabilitation the lesson can it be learned by the Narcissist? It's doubtful, So to wish bad Karma on another I don't feel as the answer. I think it's about forgiving yourself and forgiving the narcissist and letting it go for good. Sending blessings 🙏💜🪶
Once I knew what he was and realized my marriage was all a big con, I no longer care about my ex Narcissist. Stay in the present and enjoy your own life.
“God’s got karma in his backpack and He’s coming for those narcissists with a full load of “karma”; for Christians, it’s retribution. 2 Thess”. I will trouble those who trouble you ~ 2 Thess.
They are better at being a narcissist than a non-narcissist is. A narcissist may see mirroring as a challenge that needs to be destroyed. It is a lot better if the non-narcissist discontinues any and all interactions with the narcissist (such as mirroring), and simply leave the narcissist first.
Narcissists are continually attempting to escape the universal law of karma but unfortunately they are miserable, psychologically disordered individuals that are not consciously aware of how they create it for themselves. They are dead inside. Everything is about winning, not realizing who is really doing the discard. The empathy is karma of the highest power. No need to exact revenge on an empty souless entity...nothing there. Just pack up you lessons and move on to the happiness of your own creation. There is no joy in that little karmic ghost called revenge. Take back your oxygen!
Absolutely correct, karhma should not be wielded by the hand of a human being. The universes will take care of that. We have to let go and let karhma go to work. You gave me an answer about the narcissist's chase of happiness is eternal. No rest because happiness and pure joy are never fully scieved and appreciated. So long before this trauma bond love bombed ordeal, the unrest was already in existence.
I don't really know how karma looks like because honestly I never wish karma on anyone in my life even if they have mistreated me. What's important to me is that I get free from the situation or individual who mistreated me. I know I'm not perfect and so there are things that I may have done that have hurt them also but they are unintentionally. My belief about loving someone is, when you do. You are supposed to make them and their life better. So hurting them is the last thing you should do. That's why I never understood people who say they love someone but do things that hurt the person they love. If being with them has become toxic then the two of you have a problem. Either the love is gone or there never was real love to begin with. My parents always say to think before you act or say something. When it has hurt someone. You can't take it back. I'm someone who likes to joke because I want to see people laughing and having a good time. It's not to show off or get attention. I'm not one for attention. My kiddo is the same way. I was never comfortable with people watching me draw when growing up. I've always been pretty good in art and creative in what I do. I do for my own enjoyment. I don't wish karma or vengeance on people. I leave that to God and the Universe. So, I guess me walking away is the closest thing to karma because I still wish them well and just stay away from them.
Karma is to realize what a monster they are and leave us alone . To go live their miserable life without wanting to punish us . Wake up and admit some responsibility for who they are and how they treat others. Karma is fir them to leave a miserable lonely life , have no money to buy people with , and to abuse people , to reel victims into their toxic life with their money . I don’t wish death upon anyone . I just want him to leave me & my family alone 🙏
You know all I want for the narcissist in my life is to realize all his actions had a huge effect on his life. I want him to change and actuality feel what its like to really be hurt so he will understand what lying and cheating really feels like. And for the narcissist woman who he cheated on his family with I want the same thing for her as well. I want them both to be exposed and really be seen for who they are. In the past I wanted to physically hurt the both of them because I was so hurt and damaged that I thought it was vindication but it is not. I just want them to actually feel what its like to actually be blindsided and heartbroken and no one be there for them when they really need it. Then let that karma chnage their hearts and minds so they can have a real life.
I was with my x Nark..She was my world.I don't want her to be punished I would just like her to understand how very wicked she was, and thinks of all the unkind things she said to me, and all the things she did to me
Thank You for this video. It is a very important topic in todays world. Your responsable way of handling this topic, I like it very much. Good luck, and may God be with You further on also!
As long as you think about their karma, you're still stuck with them. Forget them. Be indifferente. They are nobodies, literally.
You are absolutely correct.
Move forward and focus on the future. To the extent that your thinking about revenge or what their karma may be then you are still tied to them and they win. Put distance, space and time between you and the narc ASAP.
I wish you abundant happiness, Tom, as I wish it to myself. Let's make it happen on our own, never depending on darkness or validation.
Sorry for my bad writing. Exactly because of narc BS, I ended up with triple nationality and multilingual, though I tend to mix languages up sometimes.
Yes moving on from them almost comes naturally .
You said it all, you made my belief in how I handle a narcissist stronger. Have any suggestions on people who enjoy gaslighting and not necessarily a narcissist or sociopath tendencies.
Yea called trauma bonding
Narcissists are always angry. Narcissists are unhappy, always offended, always seeking and planning revenge, always annoyed, always blaming, intimidating, threatening, and hurting others, always seeking to oppress and control others, always expecting others to cave and to submit to them and their tyranny. Narcissists must hurt, diminish, and erase others to get a sense of power. Narcissists are always seeking respect that they cannot earn. Narcissists are always seeking happiness, satisfaction, and joy that they can never have due to their extremely negative nature.
Impossible to live with and ruin any chance of having a good relationship
@Tim Rarick isn’t it obvious fyi their sole source of fuel is pathologically narcissistic supply which they are only able to extract from their poor unsuspecting victims &/or targets like the parasitic vampires that they each invariably & equally disturbingly are fyi ~ Hence their relentlessly & equally fiercely tireless albeit definitively negative energy & strength nearly all the time until & unless they are cut off from said pathologically narcissistic source of supply & thereby essentially left to starve with only their own vile overinflated egos to vainly & equally pathetically feast on.
Mine died early. You don't get to destroy so many lives and live a long fruitful life!
Lucky you Wanda, mine and his family live to a real ripe old age of 100 to late 90’s
this is stated well....'always.... ' never at peace; so thankful i am free from two of them and enjoying life and my walk with God! so very grateful and happy!!!
God will handle them accordingly 🙏
Yes I saw it with my exhusband and now can feel sorry for him in the distance. He is one tormented soul...more than what he did to others.
Yes ❤️🙌🦋🙏
GOD Absolutely ADORES NARCISSISTS. Don't You See
@@mlmarsicocan you pls specifically what happened to him if you don't mind?
There is no proof that God exists.
Karma is never in our hands, but in the hands of time. When it's time, it's inevitable.
Karma for the Narcissist is when you move on with forgiveness and indifference . Focussing on your peace and happiness knowing you have your dignity and respect is their karma. They are left unhappy and unsettled because you were not broken but became stronger in spite of them.❤
The best part of it all is he didn't take my peace. That's lasting happiness.
Amen. I am at peace I refuse to let them steal my positive energy
I agree. A cerebral narcissist I knew once told me in a moment of weakness “ everyone leaves me”. I left her too.
Maybe that person is Not a Narcissist, don't Ever make fun of another person's Pain.
Yes, people with behaviors on the dramatic spectrum have abandonment issues. They "need" other people in one way or another, but their manipulative behaviors pushes others away, so they leave.
When a narcissist receives their karma. They blame you. Nothing is ever their fault. 😂
When the devil can’t show up to get you .. he sends a narcissist 😊
Their punishment is that they are already damaged. They are never happy as is. Every moment is punishment for them.
it's true
I almost lost my life. He said, "It's not my problem you couldn't kill yourself right." Even the police officer was disgusted...
Really Sick Ones!! They hate themselves..that's why they are like they are!!
I know what u are saying, they are truly demonic.
I'm so sorry to know I'm not alone
That is horrible they have no empathy they are sick individuals
My husband Said “the child can die” because I asked him to please stop being Violent and I have a baby in me. I Lost a baby 6 months ago. He wasnt there. Hes never there. I was Belgin help from Random people a week ago because I bled on the AirPort because he Was violencing me on the phone.
I was the victim of a covert narcissist. He lied to me, gas lighted me, abused me and stole from me. But I can’t find it in my heart to hate him or to wish him harm. I just feel intense sadness that he had to be like that and pity for whatever trauma caused it and because he’ll never know what it’s like to feel affection or love or to be really happy. For that reason I leave karma to God and I pray He will be merciful.
Some people who believe in God also believe that after death, the person as a soul is given a life review in which the person sees, feels and experiences the consequences of everything the person did and the resulting feelings of everyone the person interacted with in life. For a narcissist, this would be the ultimate accountability, to finally understand how he hurt everyone (or made them feel good) in his life.
Karl Nulty. I am much the same. I cant indulge in the hate.... it is poison to me. my father was a nasty crushing Narc. he put the family through 5 decades of suffering. and he died TERRIFIED. late in life I married a narc man. and after 10 months I ran... oh no!!!!!!! I was wasting my precious life on that negativity . the sooner I focused on good and let his Karma go... I am happy and fruitful as an artist. thank you for perspective
Just try to delete as much as possible and looking forward. Thinking back gives them energy what they don’t deserve
@@danielkaiser8971 I sure hope that happens in the next life. Kinda reminds me of that show I used to watrch back in the early 2000s I think it was called twice in a lifetime
Absolutely true. No peace at all for narcissists 🙏
For me, the best karma was getting back my $10,000 savings bond that my EX somehow stole and redeemed.
This took me 19 months, over 4 states, and he still says I'm lying about that.
I had to prove that I did NOT sign my bond. The bank didn't follow protocol, and it slipped through the system.
I watched some murder show, and it gave me an idea. GPS! 😈 Everything you do and even pictures on your phone are being stored on Google locations. But, he did this while I had postpartum psychosis in 2011.
Does GPS go back in time? YES! I typed in my bank and the date and it said "No Visited Places." This had to be done in the branch with a medallion signature which was blank. So, who signed it? I was NOT there!
I sent that in, and the Treasury called. They direct deposited $15,000 and I think I damn near fainted! 😱
I did this in the middle of the pandemic and without an attorney. Damn! That felt SO GOOD! I think this was my highest achievement.
Take that you evil asshole with no soul.... 😈
They will fall in the PIT they dug for You!!
The Bible says: As ye reap, so shall ye sow. In other words, what goes around comes around. Live by the sword. Die by the sword. Laws of Physics also say this.
Amen! live by the sword, die by the sword!
I watched your whole video, My daughter who is 54, is constantly in my face with situations which I, at 76, can't tolerate anymore. I have eye issues that might make me ultimately blind; I have skin condition that might be a cancer. In neither health condition has she shown any interest - IN - my well-being. Over the years, she explodes at me, with cussing and calling me names to where I can't relax around her anymore. My son, who is 2 years older than her, has given me an option to move - to where he lives, which is several states away from where I am. I have accepted his and his wife's offer. They have been ongoing wonderful, getting an apartment ready for me; setting up a primary doctor, getting so many things "ready" for me....I cannot discount that they mean to help me...as I age. I will finally feel safe, included and NOT judged all the time. So I am going, Now, at the D Day to me moving - she has developed a "non descript problem with her eyes...and wants me to stay here... which I am NOT going to do,.....for several reasons. My current residence has already been re-rented, my affairs have been set up at the new location, including my church, which is important because I am a Christian and am involved with church. It's important to me. She has NO faith, she never wants to hear it - even though she has survived cancer and should thank God above for that! so, that is the scenario and I am not staying.... I will try to remind her, and explain my situation, but I am going.. It's nearly 800 miles away, so it is permanent. I will visably hurt her.....but at 76 - I need to be safe, stable and LOVED......... so it will happen. My daughter fears aging too; it makes her do gym work excessively, keep's her weight down, eats the damndest things.... Her attitude has a basis in a lot of things............I'm tired of trying to figure them out.
SO LET LOSING YOU BE THEIR KARMA
Narcissist like to hurt and torture you.The Narcissist gets pleasure from you're stress and pain they inflict.Then the narcissist lies and says they didn't do anything or blames you.
Well said God will take care of it Divine Justice🙌🏼🤍✨
🙌🏼💯💯🔥🔥🔥
Yes
One of the things she taught me is that you can Never be happy while trying to make someone else miserable.
She has turned most of my family against me. So, I simply do something nice from someone else. Makes them feel good and makes me feel good.
Many narcissists do get their Karma when they must deal with another better Narcissist Nemesis who treats them as badly and painfully as they treat and have treated others. LOL.
Hopefully it is his rich widow he dumped me for!! I hope she gets the best of him before he completely annihilates her!!!
My ex partner (very fresh case, 2 months old) covert narcissist, she got grandiose narcissist.
Maybe this is her karma. There will not be a fairytale for her.
My horrible Narc boss has her own Narc boss who will hopefully take her down.
I don't wish anything bad on anyone including the Narcissists I've been in relationships with. I've come to terms that it's an evil energy that flows in an out of people. The strong empaths can notice and resist it but the weak will hunt for others; "Hurt people, hurt people."
The worst thing you can do is dwell on what happened, you'll accidentally turn yourself into one by being so defensive towards others causing you to turn cold and then be in a trance of narcissism. Lacking trust and love in others causing you to do everything yourself and becoming selfish.
lol it's a weird cycle but to make sure you break it is to always show up on time, be of your word, live in the moment and never snake others. Remember, a basic universal law is, you become what you think about.
Mark 8:36, " What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?"
Beautiful way to express truth. I did get a bit violent due to my depression after being played by a narcissist, I was angry at everything and everyone including me...I am glad I am getting back to who I am and enjoy it fully and finally found the love of my life, the one I had always been dreaming of...God
I feel so free from the relationship that I was in I don't care about Karma.I find it very interesting though to study the behaviour of the narcissist that I chose to leave. I actually pity anyone that has to wake up to themselves every day and live in that frame of mind.He has tried emotional blackmail to make me go back to him and is still using different techniques to make me go back.I love my calm peaceful life without not having to tolerate his drama on a daily basis 🙏I am a super empath so I have the inner peace to overcome it all and live happily as a single person
The best karma would be for him to be put through everything he has put me through. Years of psychological abuse and a cruel discard. Someone to make him feel like nothing, worthless and hopeless. To become trauma bonded to someone who doesn't give one single shit about him.
It's me moving on and not giving what I have them,my time, attention,love and security. She'll never find me in anybody.
The ex narc......his health will be the only thing that he will not be able to lie , cheat or hide from.
Amen! i can attest to this!
I lived with a narcissist for many years but I didn't have much choice I gave birth to her.i was shocked by her whole demeanour as she got older she got worse and I'm an empath so I found her actions horrendous and her high and mighty attitude to me and others was so hurtful😢😢😢God came to my aid when she decided to start exploring the world and eventually settle in a different country.i still keep in touch with her but karma is hitting her hard she is finding things hard and these have been caused by her actions.i don't want fevenge I just want her to become a decent person and respect for others.as for me I've learned how to set boundaries and I have much more peace.my life is so much better because I have opened my heart to god,I know how much he loves me and I know he saw what was going on even if no one else knew what I was going through or what pain it caused.i pray for every person that has to deal with this behaviour ❤❤❤
Hazel, there was some type of narcissism in her bloodline somewhere.
@Truthseeker59 yes there may well be it could go back a long way I don't know much about my relatives I was brought up with just my mother and she never talked about them so I never got to know them.
@@hazeltillott944 My son is a 5 or 6th generation sociopathic narc. He was diagnosised at 14. Most mental health professionals says it runs on the father's side and boys are most often afflicted with it. However, it can run on both sides and either sex can inherit it. It is a mental disorder and this type is not caused by trauma abuse, over-indulgence, or neglect. It is bloodline... Maybe that is why your mom got away from them and never looked back. They make you do that to save your sanity.
My mother had to leave because of something that was happening to me and I started having dreams later in life in particular one of them left me in no doubt they weren't just dreams but events in my life.she left all my brothers and sisters.i don't know if any of them had behaviour problems.she didn't tell me I even had any until I was older but I'm a lot stronger now 🫠🫠🫠
@@hazeltillott944 Wow...I am glad you are stronger now. Do you want to try to reconnect with your siblings?
They wake up feeling empty everyday. They can't connect to people!
Forgive them and let them go, go and continue to go with what they consider a merry life ! No contact is the BEST get back gives you a sence of self respect ! 🙏👍
Narcissist's experience their karma all throughout their lives and die in it.
@Tim Rarick Could be, but also could be many other medical reasons, as well. I suppose if one lives long enough, the brain breaks down, along with everything else. Likewise, we all have to be careful not to see narcissism in every behavior. Narcissism is a spectrum of behaviors with a track record to back them up.
A narcissist is already suffering..That's karma right there.
@@joannecollins1818 Precisely.
@@joannecollins1818 exactly
Karma is Narcissists end up alone.
They can often purchase new supply or force their kids into the caregiver role.
Lonely death, lose everything they thought would buy happiness.
I don't care whether my ex narc suffers or not. I already forgave him for all the manipulation I'd gone through. He's sick. All I want is for him to go on with his life, and to not mettle with my life.
Karma is them realising reality. That they lost.
For them to fade away into obscurity
I want him to know love. And live in the reality the rest of us live in. I want him to be able to feel emotion without hurting others. Ultimately I want him to heal
I pray for you
Right I pray for you
If narcissists are able to heal over time, then they weren't narcissists to begin with.
good luck with that.
I don't wish my ex girlfriend any harm, her karma should be her dating someone just like her that treats her are bad as she treated me. That is all a dose of her own medicine.
Thank you JESUS❤✝️🙏🏽
Really good information
This all played out in my life
I have been a magnet for covert narcissists all my life
Now at 77 I have healed and am dealing with my own karma
I’m happy that I figured out what he was early on and was able to detach and do my healing. I’m so much stronger learning my lessons and using these tools moving forward. I do get satisfaction that he is trying to Hoover me but it’s no longer working because I see it comimg a mile away. He doesn’t know that I know he is a narc. He is so confused as to why I’m not reacting to him anymore- I went gray rock. Im happy that I didn’t get stuck in this train wreck for years.
Well said, I think. Best for us to leave vengence to the divine.
The narcissist's Karma will come around at the right time and not because you will it. It will be self inflicted and not come from another person.
I have dictators and tyrants in this genre. Who usually die in their sleep at 90 to 100.
Contrary to what you said about them not or seldom ever dying, I have witnessed them die. I have even witnessed them taking their own lives.
You're correct, but I think the part you're referring to is where he says, "they might not die alone, but they'll be lonely because they'll never experience true happiness."
I agree step back and watch 👀
Yep😅
You Need to Expose them call them out and make them
Leave you alone
I have filled for divorce after 14 years together. I pray everyday for God to open her heart and her mind and for her salvation. Short of a miracle I doubt that we happen. I wish her well even after all the cr**t she has put me through. Forgiveness gives me serenity and power. Maybe me divorcing her will wake her up. As for me I'm a healthy 67 year with lots of life ahead of me. Hopefully with someone but I'm better off alone than staying. I have family and friends.
I wish them well. Don’t want harm to come to anyone. I live my own life snd I really don’t care what the narcissists do. They are their own worst enemy. No love or peace for them. Nice video. Thank you
I have seen karma do his thing, it is ruthless.
Wuld love to know ur story!
The narcissist already got their karma.
THEY ARE NARCISSISTS!
When they get theirs they're the victim. And the truth is sometimes being their self is their karma
It's true that Narcissistic people actually destroy the lives of those nearest to them and they never improve no matter how those wanting them live a happier life. But they are not made like that by the almighty. They surely are sick in their minds. Should revenge be wished to visit on them. Having suffered that situation for more than half a century I believe that the best thing is to leave them alone and get away to give oneself peace and let the narcissist be what they are.
People get what they get it's not on me to do that plus they don't have empathy I COULDN'T IMAGINE
My narcissist karma will be handled by Jesus... I am set boundaries and maintaining it...
Karma is showing folks that cannot appreciate a damn thing in life - the happy, successful, loving , care free , grateful person you are !
i met my kharma when i was humiliated by a guy that i was stalking and abusing with words when he refused to be in a relationship with me he told his mother and she called me telling me to leave her son alone this was the biggest embarrasment of my life and everyone knew about it but i soldiered on and continued to go to church i decided i would never chase a man again
Its a guts wrenching process and its worth it. You will find freedom.
⚖️✨🙏🏼Give it to God.🙏🏼✨⚖️
A narcissist is always living their carma everyday. Not only do they destroy others lives but their own as well. They are self destructive and that is their carma.
Well, I guess I'm a "no go!" Life is sweet but revenge is sweeter. Don't be bitter, reconsider.
Yes!! Just asked him yesterday what exactly are you angry about? Deer in the headlight look, he didn’t know! But it’s Damn something! He will always find something
All I wanted was an apology and him to admit what he did
Never going to happen. Sorry, but they are not equipped to do that 😢
Never will happen!! Forget it!! they think we are dumb for being kind,and we need to give our love to people who need it!!! Get away from the destruction that could come on you!
Do good things and good things happen.
Earl hickey
In my case i don't want suffering or lack of hapinness or remorse or any shit.....for me karma would be exposure....truth on my name ....and.also My money....i couldnt care less about their life...
Truth would be nice but I don't think it will ever happen from a narc.! God knows the truth!
Karma should be a wake up call. That’s all!
Wow! Really great video!🙏🏼💯💯 Thanks for your awesome insight. Yes, Narcissists completely lack remorse and empathy. They deserve the Karma they get. NARCS never had compassion or sympathy on their victims. Just utter ruthlessness, cruelty, unbelievable amounts of abusive control and poisonous behavior. Now NARCS get to reap "some" of the pain & suffering they inflicted & sowed upon their usually defenseless victims. Thanks also for the warning about not throwing boomerangs, im trying so hard not to. Excellent video Brother! 🔥🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤜🏼💔🤛🏼⚖️⚖️⚖️
If I were given the task of designing and delivering a karma type of punishment to the person who's cruelty ended my sons life, severed/ended all family and lifelong relationships took everything I had worked for over my 30 years and left me for dead, I would ignite the dormant or nonexistent emotional component in him, allowing him to experience emotionally, psychologically and physically the exact same level, length of time and in the same manner what he force on me. If this were possible knowing your responsible for this kind of cruelty and having to experience it would likley end the life of the Narcisit.
Narcissists also date narcissists and thats the core of their karma.
I often don’t feel they “feel” the punishment, or they enjoy it in some twisted way.
Have faith
There is a God, and he hates a narcissist
Let God deal with them,and believe me he will.
Meanwhile have a good look at yourself. What attracted you? Why did you stay?
Get out and start undoing the damage. God is with you.
Take it from me😊
I think God understands narcissists in ways humans cannot fathom and He loves them too, though He surely does not like any evil behaviors from anyone. I think God would rather have us understand the origins of narcissism, such as severe ongoing lasting trauma to the infant/toddler/child such that the young developing brain is too psychologically damaged to mature correctly beyond that vulnerable point in a human's life (although occasionally narcissism occurs without any obvious cause). I think God would want us to use our devastating experiences from a narcissist to learn how to heal ourselves and eventually evolve more authentically and wise beyond what would have happened without the experience, to strive to be more like Him, for the benefit of ourselves and others. We have to give a positive meaning to our suffering, somehow, someway, or else the suffering will always hold us back.
Ahh that is so sweet.🥹
Narcissists don’t change. Sorry
Well, there are twelve of Karma,
And I don't focus so much on Karma as much as I do rehabilitation the lesson can it be learned by the Narcissist?
It's doubtful,
So to wish bad Karma on another I don't feel as the answer.
I think it's about forgiving yourself and forgiving the narcissist and letting it go for good.
Sending blessings 🙏💜🪶
REVENGE AND JUSTICE ARE TWO VERY DEFERENT THINGS
Revenge is justice served right.
My favorite line in this..."It's God for crying out loud". AMEN!!!
Karma for my ex wife the narc is not ever having me in her life ever again...
Once I knew what he was and realized my marriage was all a big con, I no longer care about my ex Narcissist. Stay in the present and enjoy your own life.
“God’s got karma in his backpack and He’s coming for those narcissists with a full load of “karma”; for Christians, it’s retribution. 2 Thess”. I will trouble those who trouble you ~ 2 Thess.
Your right you dont need revenge on narcissists they do karma all by themselves eventually god punishes them my ex is getting punished now
Karma never forgets an address
Mirror them , they will leave 😊
They are better at being a narcissist than a non-narcissist is. A narcissist may see mirroring as a challenge that needs to be destroyed. It is a lot better if the non-narcissist discontinues any and all interactions with the narcissist (such as mirroring), and simply leave the narcissist first.
It's a tough call. People have emotional resilience. Let's hope they come to their senses.
It's called reap what you sew.
That I no longer have to deal with her gas lighting and constant complaining. I’m at peace.
Thanks Be to God it is different now. What comes around goes around.🏄🏽♀️🌊🕊
Narcissists are continually attempting to escape the universal law of karma but unfortunately they are miserable, psychologically disordered individuals that are not consciously aware of how they create it for themselves. They are dead inside. Everything is about winning, not realizing who is really doing the discard. The empathy is karma of the highest power. No need to exact revenge on an empty souless entity...nothing there. Just pack up you lessons and move on to the happiness of your own creation. There is no joy in that little karmic ghost called revenge. Take back your oxygen!
Spot on!
Absolutely correct, karhma should not be wielded by the hand of a human being. The universes will take care of that. We have to let go and let karhma go to work.
You gave me an answer about the narcissist's chase of happiness is eternal. No rest because happiness and pure joy are never fully scieved and appreciated.
So long before this trauma bond love bombed ordeal, the unrest was already in existence.
Thank you for this video👁 no contact is the narcissist Karma😂
I protected myself and cut all ties with the narcissist and walked away and let God deal with them
Karma never forgets an address!
There is only shame. 0 guilt.
I don't really know how karma looks like because honestly I never wish karma on anyone in my life even if they have mistreated me. What's important to me is that I get free from the situation or individual who mistreated me. I know I'm not perfect and so there are things that I may have done that have hurt them also but they are unintentionally. My belief about loving someone is, when you do. You are supposed to make them and their life better. So hurting them is the last thing you should do. That's why I never understood people who say they love someone but do things that hurt the person they love. If being with them has become toxic then the two of you have a problem. Either the love is gone or there never was real love to begin with. My parents always say to think before you act or say something. When it has hurt someone. You can't take it back. I'm someone who likes to joke because I want to see people laughing and having a good time. It's not to show off or get attention. I'm not one for attention. My kiddo is the same way. I was never comfortable with people watching me draw when growing up. I've always been pretty good in art and creative in what I do. I do for my own enjoyment. I don't wish karma or vengeance on people. I leave that to God and the Universe. So, I guess me walking away is the closest thing to karma because I still wish them well and just stay away from them.
Karma is to realize what a monster they are and leave us alone . To go live their miserable life without wanting to punish us . Wake up and admit some responsibility for who they are and how they treat others. Karma is fir them to leave a miserable lonely life , have no money to buy people with , and to abuse people , to reel victims into their toxic life with their money . I don’t wish death upon anyone . I just want him to leave me & my family alone 🙏
You know all I want for the narcissist in my life is to realize all his actions had a huge effect on his life. I want him to change and actuality feel what its like to really be hurt so he will understand what lying and cheating really feels like. And for the narcissist woman who he cheated on his family with I want the same thing for her as well. I want them both to be exposed and really be seen for who they are. In the past I wanted to physically hurt the both of them because I was so hurt and damaged that I thought it was vindication but it is not. I just want them to actually feel what its like to actually be blindsided and heartbroken and no one be there for them when they really need it. Then let that karma chnage their hearts and minds so they can have a real life.
Good shit brotha
❤thank you. This video opened my eyes.
I was with my x Nark..She was my world.I don't want her to be punished I would just like her to understand how very wicked she was, and thinks of all the unkind things she said to me, and all the things she did to me
Now I no what a narcissist is and what they do,I'm confident karma is on its way to them all
MamiSoTrue 🥰 says you must treat the Narcissist like they are dead
Thank You for this video. It is a very important topic in todays world. Your responsable way of handling this topic, I like it very much. Good luck, and may God be with You further on also!
If you would like to wish them anything bad, wish them eternal life, though this would hit your own karma like a freight train, since it's very cruel.