Embracing Insecurity: Living with A Stutter | Kevin Pudjiadi | TEDxYouth@SWA

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  • @MichaelMichaelJr
    @MichaelMichaelJr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I grew up with a stutter. I’ve learned to accept it and not let it stop me from achieving my goals. I teach, present, and do even perform music and poetry. Moses, one of the greatest men to live, had a speech impediment.

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Great for you! No one can get in your way but yourself

  • @toughlovestutter
    @toughlovestutter ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My stutter was severe until I realized half the stutter was me fighting the stutter. Its counterintuitive but real.

  • @derrickbannnor6247
    @derrickbannnor6247 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    As a fellow stutterer I'm very proud of you bro....

  • @anshumanpattnaik3604
    @anshumanpattnaik3604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    MAN I HAVE TO SAY , THIS VIDEO DESERVES MORE VIEWS

  • @Aseliah
    @Aseliah หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re not alone Kevin

  • @Whyteowll
    @Whyteowll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ok this is crazy. I’ve had a stutter my whole life and now being 23 it has become 1,000 times better and I have gotten over the fear of stuttering ..mostly. What he explained about not being able to say your name is spot on. The biggest thing I struggle with is Introducing myself. I’ve come to the conclusion that I need to say “first name is ….” And this helps. It allows me time to get everything ready to say my name. If anyone else has trouble saying their name try to add something in front of it like I did so it gives you time to

  • @tailoring3856
    @tailoring3856 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God bless you, Kevin. You're inspiring,

  • @shahariarhriday8966
    @shahariarhriday8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    4:48
    I know, there is a person inside me, who is able to talk well and I just need to find that person. ❤️

    • @vinaymirani1240
      @vinaymirani1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you stutter

    • @arifnizam3673
      @arifnizam3673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bangladeshi?

    • @shahariarhriday8966
      @shahariarhriday8966 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arifnizam3673 Yes

    • @shubhamyeole9077
      @shubhamyeole9077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no person inside me who can speak......
      It is worst issue in life

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Relatable, rarely I talk to someone and hardly stutter but it did happen

  • @jemmapope96
    @jemmapope96 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really relate on the introducing yourself part and being unable to say certain words. So inspiring ❤

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, phone calls are soooo horrible

  • @DMD96
    @DMD96 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man I feel how this guy felt….ESPECIALLY!!!!when he said when how Introduce my self, my starts with a “D” and I feel so embarrassed. Man it’s horrible. People think I am timid but it’s not that I just get worried about being awkward.

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same and that looks of anticipation they give makes it even harder

  • @ann12380
    @ann12380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for sharing this Kevin !

  • @kimchulyong
    @kimchulyong 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's very touching. Thanks.

  • @willprytz
    @willprytz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing Kevin! It's really brave to share your story and I know that by doing so you are helping a lot of people as well. I do recognize a lot of the things and feelings you are talking about. Keep going! 💪

  • @llllllll9921
    @llllllll9921 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:00 best solution ever❤

  • @saptarshitewari7095
    @saptarshitewari7095 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great speech brother!!

  • @DilshodaSobirjonova-wr4ec
    @DilshodaSobirjonova-wr4ec 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stutter being my friend

  • @bjhill4448
    @bjhill4448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great work Kevin

  • @markherron1407
    @markherron1407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The mind of the rash will know and understand and the stuttering tongue will be fluent and clear Isaiah 32 4 Blessings and Hugs 💜

  • @renewedbeautyxD
    @renewedbeautyxD ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for share your experience. I send you a big hug 🤗
    I have the same struggle and I know perfectly how you can feel.

  • @tukomujende744
    @tukomujende744 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am 21 years old and people repeating after me every time I stutter, is the reason why I don't know what career I want. I studied being a teacher and I quit after two months in the course.

    • @Tylerf962
      @Tylerf962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My history teacher in 10th grade was a stutterer , he stuttered on pretty much every other sentence but he was still a great teacher.

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never let anyone make you feel like you can't do what you feel called to do. I have a stutter too, I do gaming content where I tell jokes and be a goob because that's my calling

  • @Rafael-Bravo
    @Rafael-Bravo ปีที่แล้ว

    What has helped me tons is reading the book How To Run Your Own Life by Jut Meininger (as long as I apply it I eliminate it completely) (when you read it you'll realize that you have to turn off your Adapted Child state and little by little train your Parent state so your Adapted child doesn't intervene)... you can download it (they don't print it anymore)

    • @floreenjeyi6553
      @floreenjeyi6553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you mind sending me the pdf version of the book?

  • @abolacadernos7164
    @abolacadernos7164 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You don’t have to accept it! You can change it like I did by reading Lee Lovetts’ “How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking”. Lee’s book & program changed my life and countless others and can very well so do the same for you.

    • @vucious
      @vucious ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You gotta accept that first to even change that!

    • @abolacadernos7164
      @abolacadernos7164 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vucious Yes I accepted it, but wanted to change it. Never made any sense why alone, I would speak fluently, but in front of others, I would block. I did speech therapy for nearly a year, but never worked. I bought the aforementioned book earlier this year and saw improvement in 2-3 months. All it takes is to diligently immerse yourself in the methods and be persistent and patient with yourself.

    • @vucious
      @vucious ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abolacadernos7164 good to hear that you improved with your stutter. I can relate to the part where you said you speak fluently when alone, that's the same case for me too. I almost don't stutter when I speak to myself but that's not the case when I talk to other people. I'd love to read the book you mentioned.

    • @floreenjeyi6553
      @floreenjeyi6553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello ,Do you mind sending me the pdf version of the book?

  • @noobierblx8374
    @noobierblx8374 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am a stutterer and iam 16 rn and i stutter every time i want to talk with other people also when ever in class its my turn to read something even tho that i know the word i just cant say that word its like my mouth has been locked or something it just wont come out and i get sad that i couldn't talk normally like others but i have such great friends who wont get annoyed when i stutter and tell me to try speak slowly and because of that i cant socialize with other people and i would just become disappointed and sad about my stutter i wished i didn't have stutter problem .Also sorry if my english is bad

  • @aakashpatel9916
    @aakashpatel9916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Splendid video. Properly explained. Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @mana-nikasilla5757
    @mana-nikasilla5757 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stutter is painful. I am suffering from it

    • @shubhamyeole9077
      @shubhamyeole9077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

    • @abolacadernos7164
      @abolacadernos7164 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shubhamyeole9077 I know the feeling all to well. For what it's worth, I suggest checking out Lee Lovett's WSSA program and Stop Stuttering Short Course: How to Break the Stuttering Code book. It's helped me immensely after diligently immersing myself in the authors methods. Hope it can help you too.

    • @bharathireddy1711
      @bharathireddy1711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here but remember one thing never let others judge you when someone makes fun of me I was sad at first but now I answer right back at them the way they should be

    • @bharathireddy1711
      @bharathireddy1711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think that will help you much

  • @andreanavarra8780
    @andreanavarra8780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're very inspiring.
    However, as you know there are people who stutter a lot more than you and that can be very challenging when you'd get a promotion, do a public speech and so on..
    In that case would you still just accept it or trying to mitigate it?

    • @Spydrrr
      @Spydrrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is a comedian that had/has a very bad stutter due to a baseball accident. He worked on it for a long time and it's gotten WAY better. I'm pretty sure this guy even won America's Got Talent. Either way he proved that even with an injury caused stutter. He was able to reverse it in a way. There is many stuttering types out there. Me personally, I was never born with a stutter, but from me Streaming video games on Twitch my talking got very wild and off tracks. I noticed it last year and now I'm reversing it as of this month mainly. It's already improved a lot. Again I wasn't born with it... I actually developed it on accident by myself and now I can go back to reverse it. It's not bad at all. I can talk fine. just at times for sure it can get annoying

    • @Justin-st5xv
      @Justin-st5xv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Spydrrr people who are born with a stutter not have a cure. You can improve but it will never go away. The way I talk now compared to before is night and day but it's still there and always will be.

    • @Spydrrr
      @Spydrrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Justin-st5xv My stutter isn't really a stutter its more of a "speaking too fast" issue that I have. I do have a small stutter, but thats like a normal conversation stutter that happens. But from my twitch streaming it became really bad bceause I would speak so fast on stream and cram it all, which then carried into my real life a bit more. It has been getting better just within the last few weeks, but I still wanna "reverse" it to get back to what I was before the last 3 years. Everyone is different with it and I've talked to many people who had major stutters and now speak perfectly fine and some are even ACTORS now lol.

    • @you-ry2bh
      @you-ry2bh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Spydrrr even me.. compared to before ..i have learnt how to control it while speaking to strangers..any day ...but if have to present something in front of audience i become anxious..idk why it happens automatically sweat comes.. I try to not think ..but still it's not controlled.. is there any thing or techniques to stop that kind of anxiety 😭?

    • @Spydrrr
      @Spydrrr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@you-ry2bh One thing that I try to is to imagine im in a room by myself or with a friend. Or as well is I stream on Twitch/youtube. Now it's not infront of MANY people, but I have built a way bigger confidence with speaking infront of groups, because in a way I do it already.

  • @saywhatnow5789
    @saywhatnow5789 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Hope_729
    @Hope_729 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:27 great example 😂😂

  • @sunflaree5092
    @sunflaree5092 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stuttering destroyed my life

    • @yuhkuh29
      @yuhkuh29 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old are you?

    • @sunflaree5092
      @sunflaree5092 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yuhkuh29 21

    • @yuhkuh29
      @yuhkuh29 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sunflaree5092 dang wth me too lol

    • @yuhkuh29
      @yuhkuh29 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sunflaree5092 i stammer tho my words get stuck and I can’t say the things I want to say

    • @sunflaree5092
      @sunflaree5092 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yuhkuh29 what does it mean "dang wth me"? I'm sorry I don't know english well, I'm belarusian

  • @gervasiusfranky9351
    @gervasiusfranky9351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👏👏

  • @navirsingh2600
    @navirsingh2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❣️❣️

  • @Jerkseasoning2002
    @Jerkseasoning2002 ปีที่แล้ว

    If the Scatman can do it so can you

  • @NandoWonsong_
    @NandoWonsong_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wish I didn't stutter :(

    • @hritikgahlot19
      @hritikgahlot19 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't worry it gets better with time ♥️♥️

    • @kennethchristopher2213
      @kennethchristopher2213 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey man, i do have a STUTTER, it's just you have you have to analyse what's exactly causing your stutter and work on those aspects such as, being more loud or being more expressive, what worked even better was using a kind of musical accent, if you've noticed few people who talk very expressively moving all of their facial muscles and using they're arms for gestures, etc. Anyway, if you read this reply, feel free to reply back, it'd be nice to speak to a person of the same "Genre" is what I put it as, it would actually be helpful,. All the best BTW 👍😀

    • @shubhamyeole9077
      @shubhamyeole9077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hritikgahlot19
      It worst with time also
      It happened with me
      Whatever practice you do, it comes again

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, but it only holds you back if you let it. It's so easy to do, but you'll become stronger because you overcame it

  • @emmanuelameyaw9735
    @emmanuelameyaw9735 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So why is he not stuttering in this video? Is he faking stuttering?

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He said he used to stutter worse. I have one and I know a lot, depending on the cause, can be mindset. The anticipation and fear of stuttering can make it worse, he said he's accepted it, so it seems he's more relaxed and doesn't stutter so hard now