The ones that are sweet and friendly. The combative ones I don't want to be around. The tone of their voice and the words they use make me not wanna be near.
The stereotypes are crazy because I have lived in North East, Florida, and now California. All different types of Latino people inhabit those areas Mexicans, Colombians, Ricans, Dominican, Cuban, Argentine etc... Latino women are very ghetto, sassy, masculine, fight their man with words AND hands, a lot like scammers and criminals but you don't ever see them being stereotyped the same way BW are. People want to pretend that there's no personal racial bias and conditioning in this equation so hard man.
That woman is on another level... She is too dimwitted to realize that she is being contrarian with her own arguments!! I'll give her props for coming back to join the conversation but she is like that kid that is finally able to sit at the adult table and is trying to participate in the conversation.
They’re least desired because of their snappy, obnoxious, independent attitude…plain and simple. I actually prefer them minus what I previously mentioned.
@@mefilmmaking They truth hurts I don’t mind black girls I like girls of all races we would all take a black Rihanna over obese white women But we are comparing you’re average black girl vs other girls there is something called ideal Beatty in the world and the girls that are most desired by men are in shape, attractive, fertile, rating 8 and above Latino,Asian women from 20-35 That’s the ideal beauty standard
Yes of course she did because she wants to not answer the question honestly or does not have the ability but either way the question is not answered. Lastly people have to quit with the "Your White, so be quite" This is getting old stop being sensitive. As you see when you keep it in the group with the problem then you get no answer. You need outsiders to have an opinion. Even the white lady can understand if someone would leave her for an Asian.
Black women are strong and independent and don't need no men, so what the fuss about, y'all don't need us in the first place, you shouldn't be upset if you are not desired by people you don't need.
Yep they got that Black girl magic, they are magic! They are Queens. They are 10's no need for improvement. WHy would they need a silly scrub am i right?
The black woman mentioned that black women are, "strong and independent" and the black man said, "masculine" back to her. It was a huge hint as to why black women are least desirable. This diva mentality that they cherish so much is keeping them single. Heterosexual masculine men don't want masculine women. That's why Asian women are most desired. They are typically the most feminine.
It's because of black women that's why black men are desired. Where do you think black men get their looks from. From their black Mother's, and here you all are hating on the women that gave black men their looks and masculinity. Asian men are less desired. Why?? Because Asian women don't have that look of strength to pass onto their weak Asian Sons!
@@rossrose1534 A lot of emotional garbage and no actual facts. Since it takes two people to have a child, black men get their looks from their fathers just as much as their mothers obviously. I love that you said, "hating on women." That is revealing. A lot of modern women and especially modern black women perceive any and all criticism as hate. The truth is that the people who hate you the most are the ones that don't care to criticize your behavior. Black women are the most rapidly rising group in the US dying alone and becoming homeless. The primary reason for this is because we've reached a point where everyone's afraid to tell black women the truth for fear of being cancelled or hearing that intensely annoying attitude. The reason that black women are least desirable today is because they keep trying to be masculine. They don't understand that beauty doesn't get you a wedding ring. Kindness gets you a wedding ring.
My perception of lots of black woman is, that they have no feeling of inner strength. A quite calm strength that give them the self esteem to be caring and friendly but at the same time not a push over. I see a deeply insecurity (?) they try to cover up by being loud and argumentive. Although they should not have a reason for it.
@@rapsack7058 Well the negative psychological factors that plague the black community starts with family. Too many black families are broken and we champion single mothers and give them a status of nobility. Studies show that from single mother homes comes 63% of suicidal people, 90% of runaway children, 85% of behavioral disorders, 82% of rapists, 71% of high school dropouts, and 80% of prisoners. The breakdown of families lead to women who don't understand how to be women and men who don't understand how to be men. The amount of immaturity in the black community amongst adults is appalling and sadly this is a result of the breakdown of families.
I am black, and I will not date black women. When I was a lot younger, a lot of black women didn’t like me because I wasn’t “black enough. “. I tried dating black women later, but it never worked out. Their attitudes will get excessively mean and they have become super controlling. Not all black women are like this, but the ones that I happen to come across definitely were. So I stopped dating them. More peace that way.
Even though I've never been with BW'S I've witnessed on several occasions how so many of them are very controlling and in subtle ways talk down on BM, I've witnessed it in my own family of BW idk why they are like that.
THAT is exactly why i typically don’t date or pursue black women, Jasper.. people don’t get it but when you’re told for years and years “you’re not black (enough)”, it roughly translates to “you’re not good enough”… so yeah discouragement turned into resentment and to detachment for me - as far as dating black women goes.
Other races avoid black women because BW's can be very racist. By buddy who's half black half white has trouble dating black women, let alone a white dude.
They truth hurts I don’t mind black girls I like girls of all races we would all take a black Rihanna over a obese white women! But we are comparing you’re average black girl vs other girls there is something called ideal Beatty in the world and the girls that are most desired by men are are in shape, attractive, fertile white, Latino,Asian women from 20-35 That’s the ideal beauty standard
This tho 💯. It is easier for us BW to be highlighted for negative stereotype because so many BW are the stereotypes and it make hard for the ones who aren't a stereotype.
Black women, you’re loved. The best ex I have is a black woman. She was in her masculine when we met but when she submitted and felt comfortable in her true feminine essence she was amazing. To this day I could still call her up and she would meet up with me but different paths led us to break up. Black woman in their masculine can make moves most “men” can’t and these little boys get insecure but if she don’t feel safe and secure, she’ll never submit and she shouldn’t submit to a baby boy.
Yet you broke up. Hey man, have at it. You should play the black field more and come back and let us all know how it went. It's not like us black men haven't grown up and been raised by these women. I'm sure your failed 3 year relationship has given you far more knowledge of black women than us! 👌🏾
I love a black woman, never dated one because it’s very hard to find ones who carry themselves with a sense of class & civility. Too many ratchets & hood brats. I’m a model manager in Los Angeles & have a solid handful of black women i represent. But it seems harder every year for new black faces in the city due to the ugly trends of the hood.
@@phillygreekfeet dude i attended not one but 2 hbcus and i live in atl. You cannot tell me nothing bad about bkack women as a whole. Yall just hate black skin. Simple.
as a black man (6’3, 220lb, muscular) I’ll choose a cute white 6 that treats me like a 🤴🏾 over a beautiful black 8 who treats me like a trauma punching bag any day!
I'll Pass On Both 👌🏿! Too Many Watered "Mixed Up" People Being Created By Swirling. I'll Find A Woman That Bares My Mother And Grandmother's Likeness. I Want Children That Look Like My People 👊🏿.
Women are being lied to by the mainstream media by being told we want boss babes that are equal to us. When in truth, we just want something less damaged that brings in what we lack, feminine energy.
As someone who is married to a wonderful black woman, for me it has nothing to do with skin, it has everything to do with attitude. We generally don't want overweight, attitude or masculine traits regardless of your skin tone. You'll have better success if you keep your figure, have a good smile, and stop being argumentative, we get enough of that from other men.
Being overweight is not just a "black women" thing. This is coming from a black woman who is skinny. Also, many whites are overweight as well and morbidly obese. Have you not seen the show My 600 Pound Life? In fact, America is the world's fattest country. The majority of people in America are white. White women can also have bad attitudes too just like anybody can as a human. There are both positive and negative traits within every race and color. Thinking that the grass is greener on the opposite race's field and that the white race of women has no flaws and don't share negative traits that any human can have is very foolish to think and kind of immature. What a warped way to think... Also calling an entire group of women undesirable based on generalized sterotypes, propaganda and social media is also insane. The good black women do not deserve such hatred. It's disgusting. So many of us are amazing and kind hearted people, yet we all get labeled as one.
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them, so many of my indian friends dated them and these men were considered lucky in our group to date African girls. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls/Asian Indian men have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of black girls are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness is in other lands, Living in the west is only depression for us
This comment section is sad and if any black women passes by here just know that you are worth it and keep shining , no matter what this small minded men have to say You being strong doesn’t make you masculine , you being confondent and outspoken doesn’t make you loud and aggressive, if they don’t like it, it’s their issue not yours
Not my issue, I don't care bout them. If I was actively looking and was not married, then I would never ever date any of them and never did. So, how exactly is it my issue?
@Skinny.pretty.girl101 Black women are faff and the opposite of peng in my eyes. I just don't see the appeal personally. Still don't understand why original commenter said that it's "our/my' issue, when it's not? As for black men, they do for cool mates, nothing against them.
I have never ever commented on any platform before but the comments here are breaking my heart. The acidic, negative contruction of the black female in these comments and in the discussion is painful to watch and read. The women described do exist - we have all met them - but the fascination with the constant portrayal of black women as these loud, masculine, destructive creatures is disturbing to me, especially as it seems to be being voiced mostly by our own black men. There description does not describe me or my peers. I am all for self scrutiny and introspection, however I question the motivation and method. Is this meant to help black women? I raise this because since starting secondary school last year my beautiful, dark skinned black daughter has faced the most disgusting, crushing verbal assaults from who?... Her own people - black boys. She has repeatedly been called a gorilla, ugly, fat and a man. Constant taunts about her appearance, her hair, her lack of a bottom. My daughter is stunning but she doubts everything about herself and is now obsessed with make up, hair gel and changing her clothes to be acceptable because her natural self (which is beautiful) has been derided by peers who could be her cousins, brothers or friends. Then I look on this platform to see a repeated, vicious attack on black women. It breaks my heart. If my daughter saw these comments it would destroy her and reinforce her growing perception that black females are not desired, are not beautiful and can not find love. She believes (already) that she will not find a black boy/man in the future to love her because black are actually telling her black girls are no good. Where are they getting this from? Then I look here and see similar statements being voiced. My husband and I have been together 22 years and married for 15 years. My daughter sees black love everyday but sooo many of us have been poisoned with this self hate and as parents we can't compete with these destructive perceptions. The boys (black boys) at my daughter's school are winning. Their negative opinions of the black female are picking away at our child. I ask the black men who are commenting here to remember that their words can be swords. Think about who you are cutting.
Your daughter isn’t limited to black American males. Most of them are losers anyway and will never support their families. She should consider other ethnicities, and if she wants a black man, then consider a real African or Afro-Caribbean. They are better workers and support their families. Most black American men are prima donnas and mama’s boys.
This was very sad to read and I pray that your daughter realises how beautiful and wonderful she is. Unfortunately social media has become the echo chamber for a lot of these views and black men don’t realise that these sort of views trickle down to the next generation of boys and has an effect on how they treat girls in their communities. I pray these useless conversations end
@Dnpe but having bad experiences with a few black women doesnt justify the constant barrage black female receive e.g constant conversations Black women and preferences. People on general can have garbage attitudes it doesn’t pertain race at all and black men need to do a better job of being leaders and examples to the next generation of boys so things like this don’t keep happening to black girls
@@JK-sz1xy Thank you. I appreciate this. We are facing so many challenges with our daughter's self perception. It is so painful to see as a mother. It was such a shock to her to experience this degree of viciousness from black boys. The men and boys in our lives don't suffer from this self loathing so it has been very hard for her and us. I just think it's important that Sa Ra and these other black men are clear that the black women they describe are a type and not to generalise. Their sweeping statements are poisoning the men of the future.
I’m a black man married to a beautiful black woman, beautiful inside and out and she has given me beautiful children. As for me, black women are the ultimate woman. The most beautiful and desirable women are black. Respect to all women, but black women are a Godsend in my opinion.
Nobody believes you so quit with the crap. I am also married to a black woman who gave me beautiful kids, but with that being said is the video line or not? The video is absolutely correct.
@@IsmokeHiphopLive bro you shouldn’t call your wife, your mother, your daughters and your sisters the least desirable women. Why call your wife ugly. You shouldn’t have married her if you think that she is unattractive. That shows you are of little to no value when you voice such.
I agree. It's down to malice and envy why these demonic platforms try to underrate women of Afro-descent whether they be Afro-Caribbean, Afro-Hispanic, Afro-American, African who are modestly a top tier beauty not all but many are.
These are your opinion,a guy can choose just like Black women choose.If black women are so good why are they slandering and shaming Black men on youtube and constantly discussing Divestment from Black men
@@larryharris1370not a black woman before you come to attack me lol, but I see the videos of black men attacking black women. Not the other way around.
Anytime i hear someone use the 'media influence/stereotype' as an argument for why people have a certain preference in a partner, that argument loses its credibility for me. I ain't making any dating decisions based on what Sky news or This Morning tells me. If I think she's fit, she's fit or vice versa.
You know what's more harmful than any stereotype? The people who keep acting like them because they're the ones who make the stereotype true in the first place. They got no one to blame but themselves.
I know that's right that's why when I see black men I run for my life. The stereotype for black men is so dangerous and harmful as a black woman I simply stay away. I don't wish to be beat, raped nor killed. She said sarcastically. However in reality I simply respect others and they treat me with the same respect regardless of their race.
Talking trash about black women is a business now and black men opened the door for everyone to diss us Cynthia g is right stop giving birth to them since we so horrible let bread tf out
Blackwomen need to start engaging with other races of men. I mean marrying and dating blackwomen are desired but need to show interest in dating interracially in their every day life. There are attractive white and Asian men. The blackmen is a headache for blackwomen.
*the black female is the least sought after demographic in regards to dating/relationships and everything! it’s been that way for at least over a decade..* *..if you’re offended/triggered/feel-some-kinda-way, then it’s TRUE and it’s YOU*
Modern women don't work that way though. They don't want to accept reality and put in the work to change when they can just childishly try to keep forcing the world to accept them as they are. Then they get mad when the dudes just go elsewhere. They can't grasp the simple concept that men will simply go for the lower stress option where they can get what they want. So they just make it our fault for being "lazy." No accountability
@@rossrose1534 *yea, because they control that man! Marriage is not about “love” it’s all about: money, power & control!* *shell just make up some argument, say “I’m not happy anymore” and divorce em!* *get paid for divorce (alimony) and children (child support)*
Q: "Do you think men like masculine women?" A: "I think it's really sad how black women have been treated." You just disqualified yourself from any future adult conversation.
Why did this black man have to go and open up his mouth and mention black women at all, there are no black women in this group!! Least desired, but we stay in your mouth though 😤.
The first step is admitting you have a problem. Why are you and the men who share the same features on opposite ends of the spectrum of desirability. I'll give you a hint. There's nothing wrong with the way Black women look.
@@AWesker99 Why would I compare myself to a man, in regards to desirability? This whole conversation doesn't need to include black women at all, it has been made very clear to the whole wide world we are not wanted, but black men continue to just bring us down and find every way possible to dehumanise, make us feel sh*t and unloved, we get it already!!
BECAUSE THEY'RE THR LOWEST, MOST UNATTRACTIVE, LEAST RESPECTED AND LEAST DESIRED MALES. SO THEY TRY TO DEFLECT FROM THEIR SHORTCOMINGS BY COMPARING THEMSELVES TO WOMEN INSTEAD OF COMPARING THEMSELVES TO OTHER MEN, LIKE NORMAL, CAPABLE AND DESIRED MEN DO. LOL 😆
Why does this convo keep being replayed. The main reason for lack of attractionis because of western beauty standards and white supremacy. They dont like dark smooth skin, with noses, full lips and just the fact these women r black period. Only reason black men r even liked is because the western world dehumanises them bombarding them with BBC ‘blacked’ racialized fetishes . They aren’t respected lol
@@tropicalstormxox9444 hahhaha, what a load of BS! Nobody cares about skincolour. It is your damn attitude! Even loads of black american men now go to Phillippines to find a traditional wife. Black woman have ruined yourself! Everyone define their standard, but some are better liked then others. White Suprimacy and white privilige doesnt excist.
Over half of the relationships I’ve been in were interracial and in my experience there’s no “racial type” that’s going to cause more or less problems. It’s more about knowing what you’re willing to put up with and not tolerating boundary-crossing.
If no one likes us, I wonder why we're ALWAYS the topic of discussion. This video of his alone, has MORE views than his others. Bcuz people love to see bw get bashed. Interesting
Some people generate stereotypes but not everyone, if all black women was tarred with the same brush then that is a sorry state of affairs. All people regardless of race have their share of good and negative people at least we should have people who are calculated enough to see the differences in someone's personality.
Black western men from UK and USA in a majority aren’t known for intelligence. As simple as this is… This is too complex for them. They forget they are deemed the lowest by society but as they are men they have that 1 thing so they in turn, turn on their women to feel a sense of greatness. I don’t personally care for their Neanderthal opinions because I never chose them when single but they definitely always flap enough to show so many of us why them not in our lives is a blessing.
As a West African woman I'm honestly utterly shocked and disappointed on how black women are generalised. Of course there are "ghetto" and "ratchet" black women like in every race. I live in Germany and have never felt I was less desired because of my race or dark skin. I'm happily engaged to my Eastern European fiancé and before him, I never had trouble meeting high quality men. What's most bizarre to me how much black men seem to degrade black women on social media, its just sad at this point, I have no words left and just pray for this division, hate to end. It does more harm than good for our community. How do we black women and black men demand respect from others when we don't seem to treat each other with respect?
@@santanamille4224 That is so untrue...I never dated anyone before my fiancé and I actually saw myself with a West African future wise. We just happen to fall in love. Don't make up false assumptions based on your insecurity.
@@Jennifer-uh8th If that's true then I apologize. But my assumption was not based on insecurity, it was based on the utter self hate that I see from West African women.
@@carinnegbeke7414 I think African women are beautiful. But you all do suffer from self hate and worship yt men. You need to hear the uncomfortable truth.
Yes !! Because they talk to damn much.. A Black woman that knows when to shut up is kinda priceless in way. Shutting the hell up could get you to where you want to be.
@@boxxjumper82 I find that hard to believe when my brothers ex who’s Latina used to emasculate him to the point he became the submissive one in the relationship. She was very erratic, jealous and controlling. My mom would say to him damn this is who you chose? Plus her father is racist against Black people so he has never met my nephew because he doesn’t want to. But hey some black men enjoy the abuse from other cultures because they hate themselves that much.
That's why I said SOME. she sounds like she isn't included in that some that I spoke of. If a woman regardless of race etc. has a bunch of masculine energy then its a No period.
How would that change anything besides having a bunch of loud mouths who would only argue for the sake of spite rather than listening? All they would do is uselessly deny being undesirable as if it’s a lie.
It's pathetic! We're the only race that openly discuss our dirty laundry with the oppressors.. You'd never see an Asian man in a room full of blacks talking down about his women. Sa Harvey stop with the click bait for views and do better..
@@JelaniB28 Not sure where you are from? However, I am from the states and “we” as in American Blacks are represented by the ghetto! let’s be clear, every race has a poor/ghetto population. The difference is they’re not making that the face of their community! Another point is black men publicly bash black women because they cannot bash any other groups of men! So who can they bash and compete with….. their women! It’s sad but true. I pray for my community.But, sad to say I don’t see us making it as a collective group! No other group of men acts like this towards their women! You definitely do not have to date black women. Go where you’re loved. But, to sit with a white woman and bash black women together!? 😳 yeah it’s time for us to part ways as brothers and sisters! I watched a podcast the other day where a white man destroyed this black man about bashing his own women and that man said absolutely nothing to him just was sitting there submitting to his superior! The black community is the definition of self hate!
Yep serves them right, that's what happens when you turn your back on God's blessings, the black man. Choosing to marry feminism and divorcing your black husband leads to misery. I'm telling you these women are the architects of their own misery
I just want to acknowledge the blonde girl for a second. She's still coming back and participating. Being the foil. Putting aside any psychological alterior motives, I just want to applaud her resilience. Its not easy going into a space where you are outnumbered and underprepared. I hope she's getting more out of it than meets the eye.
At the end of the day, you're attracted to what you are attracted to. Media and marketing can only do so much. Attraction and your experiences shape who you gravitate to.
Least desired... I hear they are extremely miserable, fake (hair, makeup, nails, etc) man hating, brings a negative attitude, daddy issues (single parent) etc etc... It's highly sad because you hear the same things when this question comes up !!! How do we change this
@@empath-supernova9684 Translation: We will burn the whole race to the ground unless you just shut up and deal with us. Never negotiate with terrorists. Also, pretty sure black male sperm can merge with any human egg. BM would be fine. Kiki would be Dodo status. Hell I wouldn't mind never seeing some ostrich behind having female with 3ft of weave hanging off of her head ever again.
That's in the USA 🇺🇲. Most black girls around the world from different countries are so different. Not all black girls are miserable. What's wrong with having fake hair wigs or nails most girls of any race have that white girls have fake tan and fake lips.. are they not miserable too
As a black man it always confuses me to see black women say or talk about they struggle like black women have bitten that feminist movement so hard it’s blinded them they have no struggle that was any harder or worse then the we as black Americans have as a whole any struggle they have is simply by they choice black men never treated black women bad like how the feminists movement portrayed white women to there so called abusive husbands black women have always been praised by black men almost to a fault soon as black women were given the option of government assistance vs keeping a man in the home is when they so called started to have struggles. Seeing a black feminist absolutely disgusts me🙄
Uhm, this definitely isn’t true. Have you read any books from the 30th century? A lot of BW were getting abused by society and BM left and right. Hell, Malcolm X saw it himself. BW in the U.S have disproportionate homicide, SA and domestic violent rates. Your more likely to be be a victim of homicide if your a BW then a WW.
@@Shaiyino.thebraveonelike it’s a problem when BM say BW are loud, masculine, ratchet and it’s a problem. I just think BW want one sided aggression against BM with ZERO feedback on the behavior of BW
Just date a black woman, and dump her if she shows her true colors. That is true of any woman. Stop racially profiling people. If you like her as a person, the race does not matter. We need to treat people as individuals.
This is very true I don’t understand why more people don’t think like this. Only intelligent minds think like this and you’re right this goes for any race of women
I'm a black woman. I found my husband on a dating app. I married up and out to an insanely good man. If I'm the least desired, then it worked out insanely well! 💅 Anyway, at the end of the day society can say everything in the world about me as a black woman, I will thrive in this life and get the best out of it!
A lot of black chicks aren't in consideration because they don't meet the minimum physical requirements for me. And Im not asking for anything crazy... Just basic stuff. For me to approach someone all I need is an average face, in shape, real hair... It's damn near like seeing a unicorn to see a black chick that has the combination of in shape and real hair where I'm at. Personality only becomes a point of interest once you get past the physical
🤣 good, because you’re not right. Any woman who gets you.. gets ^^ this man. The man who calls women “chicks” and needs them to be white in order to see beauty. Smh. It is what it is tho
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of them are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness, Living in the west is only depression for us.
@@carinnegbeke7414 ok. It's a stereotype that i have seen and heard everywhere that black women are loud and aggressive type who sleep around and have babies from random men without marrying them. So that comment sounded sarcastic. I am not from western country so I might be wrong.
I'm sorry for your social skills and lack of experience. I can sincerely say I don't have your problems even though I do see the issue. Not a mountain to me just and adjustment.
Amen on the Africa part, and somewhat on the Caribbean, but feminism is starting to touch some of our sisters there. Don't forget about all of the black women in Latin America as well. They're more black women in Latin America and South America than anywhere else except the African continent. I don't understand why people keep forgetting that, or maybe a lot of people aren't aware.
Yup. When I was stationed in Germany all the Black soldiers would completely ignore the American Black women to snatch up the African women. They were from Uganda, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Somalia, and Kenya. They didn't last long at all. Quite a few of my old battle buddies married them. Hell I almost married a Kenyan woman 🤣🤣🤣
Generally people prefer genetically similar looking people for looks. Not always but in general it is true and has been shown in studies. Especially men have it as a preference since they tend to prefer looks. Nothing wrong with that, anymore or less then picking other races. It's personal taste.
I'm a french male 68 yrs old and never had problem dating since my younger days. Women seemed attracted to french men for some reason, at least where I lived, no complaints lol.
This rhetoric is mad. Imagine telling people that they aren’t desired. What does it do for their self esteem?! Thank the lord I haven’t experienced this.
Same. These pathetic lowlifes need to spread this propaganda as a way to gain temporary self-worth. They project their own insecurity and self-hate. And it is SO ugly 😙😙
If they were blonde-haired and blue-eyed with pale complexion everyone could love them regardless of thier behaviour proff me wrong the world worship European beauty
I’m a BW from the U.S and this hasn’t been experience at all! I get hit on, asked out and have been in relationships with men of many different ethnicities. My dating experience is from Jordanian/Syrian, Indian, Jamaican, Greek, Puerto Rican etc My current bf is biracial. When was on dating apps I had a ton of likes/responses from more non BM then BM but I think it’s because that’s who’s mostly on there. Non BM are not hard to get AT all! So I’m perplexed by these comments. However, I would say the “ghetto BW” archetype isn’t a myth, I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I only ran into these kind of women in the inner cities and poorer neighborhoods. A lot of them to do have poor attitudes and etiquette. Idk if it’s considered normal behavior there because the BW I grew up with are the ones that get told the “talk or act white”. I know plenty that were shy and quiet in school and are really polite.Most of them grew up in two parent households like me so… Also, how are BM creeping up on WM when those same studies showed that BM had the least responses from non BW? The OK Cupid study showed BM in the negatives except from BW.BM in the U.S also are the least married men in the U.S too…
Exactly, BM telling on themselves as usual. They are living in these hoods and poorer areas mad at their circumstances, not building anything, and confused as to why BW have poor attitudes towards laziness and dust smh
Y’all soo dense It’s sad attraction for sex and desire for relationships are two different things…. Us men told y’all for years now y’all the lowest married group because y’all listen to women over men about what men want. Y’all got to listen if you want a decent man because the man you want want something too 🤦🏾♂️
@@melissasimmons3222 the fact you dated all those types of men and not married is the proof… we know what we want from you day one, so if you dated that many you are failing with recognizing if somebody wants you for life or for fun until they get what they desire.
Literally 1 out of 1 million. So if 21 million black women live in this country next to the 19 million black men. You will quite literally find around 21 of them that are already taken most likely. If I'm being generous there's a couple hundred but who gives a damn. You could probably find the philosophers' stone before that
How do they feel now that every single commercial is an interracial couple, even though I've known probably three of those in my entire 46 years on this planet.
I’m 30 black male and I have never heard a single black dark skin woman ever in my life speak about not being desired. I seen these black women being wanted by so many black men and other men to. I think In today’s time the black women image is not desired because of how they carry themselves. I would also say the black community is also part of why they move the way they do to. I love my people but things do have to change for the better.
Thats cuz they have BLACK GIRL MAGIC, THEY ARE QUEENS, THEY ARE 10'S. There were even studies done that said how black women HAD AMAZING SELF ESTEEM, they accept their curves etc. It was other races who had the skinny ideal with lower self esteem. It wasnt black women at all. They are all 10's., lol
I’m with a Kenyan woman now for two years and she’s the best woman I’ve ever come across in my 42 years and I’m a white man btw. Absolute utter nonsense these children are talking on here. I’ve never listened to so much bollox in my natural.
Does not matter she will show her true colors because YOU got to pay for your people force colonization on Black and Africans and I see you still up to your old tricks
It’s partially to do with the fact that the loud catty and argumentative black women has been shown in pop culture a lot. So I think a lot of guys don’t want that or that is the image that comes to mind. The second hurtle to cross (especially if you’re a white guy in the west) has been just the general racial tension from the last 4 to 6 years. It seems like a lot of of the black community sees a white guy as an oppressive force. And I rather avoid those uncomfortable meetings with her family with that in the current cultural boat and climate. It’s a shame though.
Well if you first eliminate all the obese, then eliminate those that emulate hip hop, gangster and ratchet culture, eliminate those that believe they should live the life of a billionaire queen like Oprah, then you still have to cut through to those black women with... the attitude. And if you don't know what the attitude is then you don't know western black women.
That is exactly what it is. Notice even on these podcast they always get the most argumentative, ghetto loud usually dark skinned BW to represent us. It is sad fr but that is what pull in views and controversy so nothing will change.
I don't understand the same talking point that comes up in every TH-cam content creator especially black men like to bring this up all the time is this supposed to be a shaman tactic and this is done in front of two white women?
Have you seen black women content creator ?? They litteraly push for aborting black man babies. You can’t be for real if you tell me nlack women content creator don’t have disdain for black men.
"The beauty standards pushed by the media & society". No, men like what they like and marketing doesn't create these standards, they play to the standards to get the appeal of the market.
@@anubis8918 - rubbish, if sexual preference of a society could be manipulated by *marketing* then plus sized i.e fat women (which the media have been ramming down our throats as beautiful for the past decade) would be the most desirable. Newsflash...they are not. Like the opening poster said, it works the other way round. You do research to see what the market likes and responds to then use THAT ro appeal to use your audience. Unfortunately woke marketing works the other way around. #GetWokeGoBroke
@@guyverjay1289 fair enough. Billions is spent on advertising and marketing to get people to buy and want the products. If the demand was already there then you don't need to market and advertise,u simply need to meet the demand by supplying the product. Advertising and marketing is designed to create a demand where there isn't 1. Good manipulation works when u don't know you are being manipulated. It's quite clear and obvious that they are trying to get society accept and not shame fat. Being fat is also something that we know for a fact is unhealthy therefore it is easy to reject. What do you think happens to the mind of a black person who lives around nothing but black people but prey to a white image of god/Jesus and his mother?? What do you think would happen if that black person sees a white woman who looks like the woman who gave birth to his saviour?? When people think that black men like abandoning there children and having baby mothers all over the place was that due to what they where seeing on TV in the 80s n 90s or was it a fact?? When a black woman goes into a police station to report dv and a police officer tells her he's sure she will be fine n can handle it because she's a strong black Caribbean woman is thar because he naturally thinks that about black women or was he mentally manipulated to view black women that way??
I live in Canada and right now we are taking in a lot of immigrants from African countries and many of them work in health care as do I. I find these women are generally cool because they haven't grown up in 3rd generation welfare homes but have been raised in nuclear families, so they have respect for men. The black women from here generally scare the hell out of me so I just steer clear of them.
I have dated many ! Some black girls come across so angry and almost dating becomes a battle you so not want or need! Most have been superb! much love. I grew up in Islington N1!!
Black women may not be desirerous now, but they certainly were in great demand during slavery, considering the high number bi-racial (mixed) people in the world.
This part of the show is most unfortunate. How can black women be least desired? The negativity about black women has grown so far. If u r a black man and u fall for this craze, then u r part of the problem.
I'm a black man, I prefer Asian women. They're Stress free, feminine, less drama, simple. Black women (most) on the other hand are quite masculine, dramatic.
If you look at social media, black women are shown to be HIGHLY aggressive, even more so then men, violent, disrespectful and very entitled, qualities most men DO NOT WANT! look at regular media and you see basically the same thing, black women more aggressive, more violent tendencies, more loud, drama filled and very poor familiar ties. Again, most men DO NOT WANT those qualities in their woman. The visuals, the portrayal of black women needs to change, looking from the outside in, black women have shown almost NO redeeming qualities men would want in a wife, let alone a mother to be.
Yes, when I look at my wife application my top three requirements are always: Act like a gangster. Covet a gucci lifestyle. Have an obnoxious vape/weed addiction (vape as the minimum, it only gets worse from there) that my parents are guaranteed to despise. It's a complete mystery boys... -- A mostly unneeded disclaimer, but this isn't relegated to one race, literally anyone with those above three traits is considered undesirable; or at least should be. This includes men and women.
That is sad, I am Angolan and I live in Portugal, all my life the ones who call me ugly are black man, they literally tell me that everything but black women is beautiful , my African father is a “piece of shit”, my half brother father is also a piece of shit, i can notice that my hair ,my color my nose is not beautiful for a lot of people including black man, but you now what I don’t care anymore, just because I don’t care doesn’t mean I think i am ugly, I like me, when I stop caring about that😢, I get to know the most interesting man, I am talking all types of man,white, Asians….. they compliment me, ask for my hair, they say my nose is beautiful, my skin is sexy, in my tinder profile I put pictures with my afro, and the matches I get is 98% are white man, when is hair Day I tell them I can’t go because is hair day, and I explain that is a day where I like to enjoy my self, and explain the process, there is all type of woman, but for black women the ghetto black woman is as they seen us be, I am sorry the internet, the shows that involve rap culture , the American shows doesn’t help our reputation, i am not gonna wast my energy to prove that I am not like that, I am tired, learn to identify red flags in people, Chang your mentality, stop caring what people think so much, everybody has a type and I am fine with people that says black women is not their type, with I am not fine is disrespecting me
@1:00 The way they’re acting like black women can’t cook (Jamaicans, Nigerians, other African women in general) similar to how Asian women can. They can ALL cook. Generally, women of minorities that are NOT from America can cook & clean. It’s what they grew up learning.
I’m a 45 year old 6’4 230lb black man iv been with my girlfriend who is 32 years old for 3 years. I live in Texas with her and our sons one we created together and my oldest from a previous relationship. I say all that to explain it’s all about perception my women dresses sexy and modest I don’t try to control her but she knows her place and I know mine I didn’t have to change her and don’t try to change me it’s like we have a mutual understanding with talking about it I’m definitely the king of my castle and she’s the queen we communicate very well which is the KEY to a happy relationship we talk even about situations that make us uncomfortable but we get through it She wears her natural hair and body some times she wears wigs and makeup to switch up her look as she calls it it’s nothing wrong with a black women being a black women whether is an attitude here or there, because no relationship is perfect, or whether she’s very feminine I see a lot of black guys on here complaining about black women you cats are being manipulated into thinking that black women are least desirable because you don’t know how to hold people accountable individually so you look at them as a whole, the same thing the white men do to the entire black race you’re just doing it to you all women which is sad I watched my father and my mother have a beautiful relationship no cheating no arguing because they loved AND respected each other without one tryna control the other it’s called balance y’all
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them, so many of my indian friends dated them and these men were considered lucky in our group to date African girls. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls/Asian Indian men have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of black girls are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness is in other lands, Living in the west is only depression for us
Personally I stick to people from my own cultural background as I think that there will be the best chance of a "meeting of minds" and least chance of conflict. Race tends to indicate a difference in cultural upbringing.
Many men have come to the conclusion that majority of these modern women are too much trouble to make an attempt to get with women don't see any of this
Kevin Samuels told black women to make it work with black men because men (other races) aren’t lining up to marry them. Black women are the most overweight group of women in the US, men are visual so it would explain why they don’t get more swipes on the apps. Most men tend to lean towards traditional women which typically are conservative leaning from a political standpoint from my observation. Black women have more of a feminist ideology and it manifest itself on how they vote which is 92% democrats. For many men it’s a non starter so they aren’t interested. It explains why Asian women are the most desired in my opinion.
Bald is their way of saying they hate how your natural hair shrinks. Darker skin is viewed as masculine either way it goes. This is all colorism, racism, and texturism in the end.
I’ll say this again, as a latino, I would only date latina women only. Why? Because I want to keep it in the community. I’ve dated black women before but they’re not what I’m looking for. Having a preference is not being racist. I just like to keep it within the community🤷🏽♂️.
@@Zone_Intellectsthese people are too sensitive bro. it really wouldn't bother me if you did only date for racist purposes. black people have this sick desire to be loved by everyone & every damn thing. its low self esteem. I've had white girls tell me they only like Latins or Whites so we couldn't hook up. Never hurt me. But that is probably due to the fact that my options aren't dwindled just because a few people in the world don't find me attractive. I've never had problems getting girls from any race so im unbothered by the few who reject me. It's literally normal. But when it comes to our women- well you can gues how they will react.
Why would you date BW if you wanted to "keep it in the community??" I've NEVER been attracted to any man outside of race, especially Latino Men. So I never dated anyone outside of my race. I love masculine BM who love BW, nothing can compare. Even though it's becoming more rare. No one can compare to a good BM.
Advertising does not impact men nearly as much as it impacts women's choices. I have a strong conviction that this is the reason feminism was fanned out, funded properly and decidedly tries to knock the man off his control of the home.
It is black women from American or just western culture as awhole. Black women I have dated who are latina or from Africa are very different and value family much more.
@@kham7019 Nah bro listen if you are not loved or celebrated here you need to think. 95 percent of the population are almost out of bounds for us. That can't be healthy. Why should we have to live within bubbles? And operate like we are foreign tip toeing around society and noticing the body language that says we are not very welcome. We are british born?. To many people saying they don't care. You should care. This effects everything.
Maybe I'm wrong because I never lived the Asian man experience, but I don't think it has much to do with race. If you're hot, you're hot, whether you're Asian or not.
@@secretagent4610 Nah in england we are not desired. As a good looking Asian guy I do get Asian girls grudgingly telling me I am good looking. But white gals never even talk to us. Even in the work place they speak to us at arms length. Do you ever get white gals going around showing Asian mans that they fancy on their phone? Black guys get that here. Do white chicks like Asian guys photos on social media and leave positive comments? That then trickles back into our own Asian gals where many of them have lived life where Asian man was never promoted here in any way. Remember everyone loves an asian gal here but who can say they love Asian men? Many people never even come to this realisation. I have had a handful of pretty white gals tell me I am handsome but it is very rare. But I know 99 percent of the rest would never get that compliment like my own asian guy mates. No white gal ever bigged them up. It's because we live in a white society for real that's why I am stressing the point. Like imagine if it was the other way round here? As in the country was 95 percent asian and 5 percent black and white?😂 that's what I'm saying....
The black women that are desired are the ones that carry themselves well
The few and the proud
The ones that are sweet and friendly. The combative ones I don't want to be around. The tone of their voice and the words they use make me not wanna be near.
and where do they live?
The stereotypes are crazy because I have lived in North East, Florida, and now California. All different types of Latino people inhabit those areas Mexicans, Colombians, Ricans, Dominican, Cuban, Argentine etc... Latino women are very ghetto, sassy, masculine, fight their man with words AND hands, a lot like scammers and criminals but you don't ever see them being stereotyped the same way BW are. People want to pretend that there's no personal racial bias and conditioning in this equation so hard man.
Black women are desired in my opinion but a lot black women are difficult
"Everyone should have standards... except for the when it comes to standards I don't agree with." Lol they just make it up as they go.
That woman is on another level... She is too dimwitted to realize that she is being contrarian with her own arguments!! I'll give her props for coming back to join the conversation but she is like that kid that is finally able to sit at the adult table and is trying to participate in the conversation.
@@paramoose Haha good analogy.
There standards are just plain wrong and do not work at all.
They’re least desired because of their snappy, obnoxious, independent attitude…plain and simple. I actually prefer them minus what I previously mentioned.
Well said
That and their physical appearance
@@johnhawthorn5393 speak for yourself
@@mefilmmaking
They truth hurts
I don’t mind black girls I like girls of all races we would all take a black Rihanna over obese white women
But we are comparing you’re average black girl vs other girls
there is something called ideal Beatty in the world and the girls that are most desired by men are in shape, attractive, fertile,
rating 8 and above Latino,Asian women from 20-35
That’s the ideal beauty standard
🎯 sadly true
I like how she avoided answering the original question.
Accountability is the modern woman's kryptonite - KS
Yes of course she did because she wants to not answer the question honestly or does not have the ability but either way the question is not answered. Lastly people have to quit with the "Your White, so be quite" This is getting old stop being sensitive. As you see when you keep it in the group with the problem then you get no answer. You need outsiders to have an opinion. Even the white lady can understand if someone would leave her for an Asian.
It obviously would and will not work because you already have a disdain for them.
@@denton1232 who has distain for what exactly?
Black women are strong and independent and don't need no men, so what the fuss about, y'all don't need us in the first place, you shouldn't be upset if you are not desired by people you don't need.
Good comment.
Truth 🎯
😂😂😂solid!!
They'll never understand
Yep they got that Black girl magic, they are magic! They are Queens. They are 10's no need for improvement. WHy would they need a silly scrub am i right?
The gymnastics the mix woman is doing is unbelievable
The black woman mentioned that black women are, "strong and independent" and the black man said, "masculine" back to her. It was a huge hint as to why black women are least desirable. This diva mentality that they cherish so much is keeping them single. Heterosexual masculine men don't want masculine women. That's why Asian women are most desired. They are typically the most feminine.
It's because of black women that's why black men are desired. Where do you think black men get their looks from. From their black Mother's, and here you all are hating on the women that gave black men their looks and masculinity. Asian men are less desired. Why?? Because Asian women don't have that look of strength to pass onto their weak Asian Sons!
@@rossrose1534 A lot of emotional garbage and no actual facts. Since it takes two people to have a child, black men get their looks from their fathers just as much as their mothers obviously.
I love that you said, "hating on women." That is revealing. A lot of modern women and especially modern black women perceive any and all criticism as hate. The truth is that the people who hate you the most are the ones that don't care to criticize your behavior. Black women are the most rapidly rising group in the US dying alone and becoming homeless. The primary reason for this is because we've reached a point where everyone's afraid to tell black women the truth for fear of being cancelled or hearing that intensely annoying attitude. The reason that black women are least desirable today is because they keep trying to be masculine. They don't understand that beauty doesn't get you a wedding ring. Kindness gets you a wedding ring.
My perception of lots of black woman is, that they have no feeling of inner strength. A quite calm strength that give them the self esteem to be caring and friendly but at the same time not a push over. I see a deeply insecurity (?) they try to cover up by being loud and argumentive. Although they should not have a reason for it.
@@rapsack7058 Well the negative psychological factors that plague the black community starts with family. Too many black families are broken and we champion single mothers and give them a status of nobility. Studies show that from single mother homes comes 63% of suicidal people, 90% of runaway children, 85% of behavioral disorders, 82% of rapists, 71% of high school dropouts, and 80% of prisoners. The breakdown of families lead to women who don't understand how to be women and men who don't understand how to be men. The amount of immaturity in the black community amongst adults is appalling and sadly this is a result of the breakdown of families.
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I am black, and I will not date black women. When I was a lot younger, a lot of black women didn’t like me because I wasn’t “black enough. “. I tried dating black women later, but it never worked out. Their attitudes will get excessively mean and they have become super controlling. Not all black women are like this, but the ones that I happen to come across definitely were.
So I stopped dating them. More peace that way.
It’s fine dude, no judgment here
Even though I've never been with BW'S I've witnessed on several occasions how so many of them are very controlling and in subtle ways talk down on BM, I've witnessed it in my own family of BW idk why they are like that.
THAT is exactly why i typically don’t date or pursue black women, Jasper.. people don’t get it but when you’re told for years and years “you’re not black (enough)”, it roughly translates to “you’re not good enough”… so yeah discouragement turned into resentment and to detachment for me - as far as dating black women goes.
Other races avoid black women because BW's can be very racist. By buddy who's half black half white has trouble dating black women, let alone a white dude.
Facts.
Smh not all black women are the same. Just people like to highlight the negative stereotypes. Like white women got flat battys... Lol
They truth hurts
I don’t mind black girls I like girls of all races we would all take a black Rihanna over a obese white women!
But we are comparing you’re average black girl vs other girls
there is something called ideal Beatty in the world and the girls that are most desired by men are are in shape, attractive, fertile white, Latino,Asian women from 20-35
That’s the ideal beauty standard
White women in general have flatt batty
That part
This tho 💯. It is easier for us BW to be highlighted for negative stereotype because so many BW are the stereotypes and it make hard for the ones who aren't a stereotype.
Stereotypes are mostly true.
Black women, you’re loved.
The best ex I have is a black woman. She was in her masculine when we met but when she submitted and felt comfortable in her true feminine essence she was amazing. To this day I could still call her up and she would meet up with me but different paths led us to break up. Black woman in their masculine can make moves most “men” can’t and these little boys get insecure but if she don’t feel safe and secure, she’ll never submit and she shouldn’t submit to a baby boy.
This whole channel is anti black women and you can tell but I've stopped looking at content like this. No point in getting angry
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You sound like a woman bro.
Yet you broke up. Hey man, have at it. You should play the black field more and come back and let us all know how it went. It's not like us black men haven't grown up and been raised by these women. I'm sure your failed 3 year relationship has given you far more knowledge of black women than us! 👌🏾
@@Onikagyou never know the reason they broke up.. so idk why you judging
I love a black woman, never dated one because it’s very hard to find ones who carry themselves with a sense of class & civility. Too many ratchets & hood brats. I’m a model manager in Los Angeles & have a solid handful of black women i represent. But it seems harder every year for new black faces in the city due to the ugly trends of the hood.
black women are a joke...
Damn. You must cone from the worst of the worst or you just full of bias or self hate. The black women I know are top tier.
@@rocar38 You must not be from the U.S.
Don't be so shallow. That's Black American women. Black women around the world are so different
@@phillygreekfeet dude i attended not one but 2 hbcus and i live in atl. You cannot tell me nothing bad about bkack women as a whole. Yall just hate black skin. Simple.
as a black man (6’3, 220lb, muscular) I’ll choose a cute white 6 that treats me like a 🤴🏾 over a beautiful black 8 who treats me like a trauma punching bag any day!
Same here
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Same herr
I'll Pass On Both 👌🏿! Too Many Watered "Mixed Up" People Being Created By Swirling. I'll Find A Woman That Bares My Mother And Grandmother's Likeness. I Want Children That Look Like My People 👊🏿.
Women are being lied to by the mainstream media by being told we want boss babes that are equal to us. When in truth, we just want something less damaged that brings in what we lack, feminine energy.
As someone who is married to a wonderful black woman, for me it has nothing to do with skin, it has everything to do with attitude.
We generally don't want overweight, attitude or masculine traits regardless of your skin tone.
You'll have better success if you keep your figure, have a good smile, and stop being argumentative, we get enough of that from other men.
What’s wrong with strong , physically big and masculine women ? 😮
They are good
@@bobfaam5215 Nah... they really aren't.
Thanks for your wise words , we will try to smile through the pain of all of this comments and we will try to stay fragile to help with your ego
@@eliyah2402 and this is why, thanks for reminding us 😅
Being overweight is not just a "black women" thing. This is coming from a black woman who is skinny. Also, many whites are overweight as well and morbidly obese. Have you not seen the show My 600 Pound Life? In fact, America is the world's fattest country. The majority of people in America are white. White women can also have bad attitudes too just like anybody can as a human. There are both positive and negative traits within every race and color. Thinking that the grass is greener on the opposite race's field and that the white race of women has no flaws and don't share negative traits that any human can have is very foolish to think and kind of immature. What a warped way to think... Also calling an entire group of women undesirable based on generalized sterotypes, propaganda and social media is also insane. The good black women do not deserve such hatred. It's disgusting. So many of us are amazing and kind hearted people, yet we all get labeled as one.
Black Women are not a Monolith. And that's coming from a Black Man who loves Black Women, who love and respect Black Men.
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them, so many of my indian friends dated them and these men were considered lucky in our group to date African girls. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls/Asian Indian men have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of black girls are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness is in other lands, Living in the west is only depression for us
This video is a trigger for many hate comments.
Yeah they love the hate
I’m an archaeologist in search of a woman answering a yes or no question with yes or no…still haven’t found it.
Damn you have my dream job ❤
This comment section is sad and if any black women passes by here just know that you are worth it and keep shining , no matter what this small minded men have to say You being strong doesn’t make you masculine , you being confondent and outspoken doesn’t make you loud and aggressive, if they don’t like it, it’s their issue not yours
Finally some positivity ❤
Not my issue, I don't care bout them. If I was actively looking and was not married, then I would never ever date any of them and never did. So, how exactly is it my issue?
@@iamerror1699 this message was for young single black girls but go off i guess🤷
@Skinny.pretty.girl101 Black women are faff and the opposite of peng in my eyes. I just don't see the appeal personally.
Still don't understand why original commenter said that it's "our/my' issue, when it's not?
As for black men, they do for cool mates, nothing against them.
Your cute 🥰 and I like the positivity ❤
I have never ever commented on any platform before but the comments here are breaking my heart. The acidic, negative contruction of the black female in these comments and in the discussion is painful to watch and read. The women described do exist - we have all met them - but the fascination with the constant portrayal of black women as these loud, masculine, destructive creatures is disturbing to me, especially as it seems to be being voiced mostly by our own black men. There description does not describe me or my peers. I am all for self scrutiny and introspection, however I question the motivation and method. Is this meant to help black women?
I raise this because since starting secondary school last year my beautiful, dark skinned black daughter has faced the most disgusting, crushing verbal assaults from who?... Her own people - black boys. She has repeatedly been called a gorilla, ugly, fat and a man. Constant taunts about her appearance, her hair, her lack of a bottom. My daughter is stunning but she doubts everything about herself and is now obsessed with make up, hair gel and changing her clothes to be acceptable because her natural self (which is beautiful) has been derided by peers who could be her cousins, brothers or friends. Then I look on this platform to see a repeated, vicious attack on black women. It breaks my heart. If my daughter saw these comments it would destroy her and reinforce her growing perception that black females are not desired, are not beautiful and can not find love. She believes (already) that she will not find a black boy/man in the future to love her because black are actually telling her black girls are no good. Where are they getting this from?
Then I look here and see similar statements being voiced. My husband and I have been together 22 years and married for 15 years. My daughter sees black love everyday but sooo many of us have been poisoned with this self hate and as parents we can't compete with these destructive perceptions. The boys (black boys) at my daughter's school are winning. Their negative opinions of the black female are picking away at our child.
I ask the black men who are commenting here to remember that their words can be swords. Think about who you are cutting.
Your daughter isn’t limited to black American males. Most of them are losers anyway and will never support their families. She should consider other ethnicities, and if she wants a black man, then consider a real African or Afro-Caribbean. They are better workers and support their families. Most black American men are prima donnas and mama’s boys.
Couldn't agree more! You think with all the talk about racism nowadays people would remember that stereotyping is bad.
This was very sad to read and I pray that your daughter realises how beautiful and wonderful she is. Unfortunately social media has become the echo chamber for a lot of these views and black men don’t realise that these sort of views trickle down to the next generation of boys and has an effect on how they treat girls in their communities. I pray these useless conversations end
@Dnpe but having bad experiences with a few black women doesnt justify the constant barrage black female receive e.g constant conversations Black women and preferences.
People on general can have garbage attitudes it doesn’t pertain race at all and black men need to do a better job of being leaders and examples to the next generation of boys so things like this don’t keep happening to black girls
@@JK-sz1xy Thank you. I appreciate this. We are facing so many challenges with our daughter's self perception. It is so painful to see as a mother. It was such a shock to her to experience this degree of viciousness from black boys. The men and boys in our lives don't suffer from this self loathing so it has been very hard for her and us. I just think it's important that Sa Ra and these other black men are clear that the black women they describe are a type and not to generalise. Their sweeping statements are poisoning the men of the future.
Least desired with the most attitude
I’m a black man married to a beautiful black woman, beautiful inside and out and she has given me beautiful children. As for me, black women are the ultimate woman. The most beautiful and desirable women are black. Respect to all women, but black women are a Godsend in my opinion.
Nobody believes you so quit with the crap. I am also married to a black woman who gave me beautiful kids, but with that being said is the video line or not? The video is absolutely correct.
@@IsmokeHiphopLive bro you shouldn’t call your wife, your mother, your daughters and your sisters the least desirable women. Why call your wife ugly. You shouldn’t have married her if you think that she is unattractive. That shows you are of little to no value when you voice such.
@@IsmokeHiphopLive forgive your parents
@@Thatiswhatitismadefor 🤡🤡 you weirdo be saying anything i told you 🤣😅
@@IsmokeHiphopLive especially your mother, forgive her. It will change your outlook on bw.
Black women are very desirable. I think they are more desireable than people want to admit for whatever reason that may be.
I agree. It's down to malice and envy why these demonic platforms try to underrate women of Afro-descent whether they be Afro-Caribbean, Afro-Hispanic, Afro-American, African who are modestly a top tier beauty not all but many are.
For real, it’s the work of the devil
These are your opinion,a guy can choose just like Black women choose.If black women are so good why are they slandering and shaming Black men on youtube and constantly discussing Divestment from Black men
@@larryharris1370not a black woman before you come to attack me lol, but I see the videos of black men attacking black women. Not the other way around.
@@larryharris1370seriously…I only see and feel respected by BW once they find out my financial standing since I don’t wear my money
Anytime i hear someone use the 'media influence/stereotype' as an argument for why people have a certain preference in a partner, that argument loses its credibility for me. I ain't making any dating decisions based on what Sky news or This Morning tells me. If I think she's fit, she's fit or vice versa.
False
I don't think they mean News. I think they mean movies and shows and magazines
My wife is black. My two kids are black. I am black. I love black woman. Never wanted to marry or have kids with a white or non black woman
💯✊🏿
Your experience doesn't justify everyone else's
You can have em tiger, all of them.
@@D.Star01 Dont wanna em all. Only need my beautiful black wife and black kids and will have black grandkids and black great grandkids.
You’re alone unc!
Stereotypes are often harmful, but often accurate.
You know what's more harmful than any stereotype? The people who keep acting like them because they're the ones who make the stereotype true in the first place. They got no one to blame but themselves.
Oh wow it seems that truth is what the populus percieves it to be
I know that's right that's why when I see black men I run for my life. The stereotype for black men is so dangerous and harmful as a black woman I simply stay away. I don't wish to be beat, raped nor killed. She said sarcastically. However in reality I simply respect others and they treat me with the same respect regardless of their race.
@@mobates89 wah
@@abanfrancis6400 black man k*ll rApe,abuse,harm black women/children every 5 hours I wouldn’t want to be around y’all
Talking trash about black women is a business now and black men opened the door for everyone to diss us Cynthia g is right stop giving birth to them since we so horrible let bread tf out
Blackwomen need to start engaging with other races of men. I mean marrying and dating blackwomen are desired but need to show interest in dating interracially in their every day life. There are attractive white and Asian men. The blackmen is a headache for blackwomen.
good luck. For that to happen, you'd have to stop accidentally getting pregnant by pookie and rayray
Well easily just birth more with WW and AW
Y'all started this gender war.
@@DrakeMeatRiderAbortions are free in America if she calling the right numbers
*the black female is the least sought after demographic in regards to dating/relationships and everything! it’s been that way for at least over a decade..*
*..if you’re offended/triggered/feel-some-kinda-way, then it’s TRUE and it’s YOU*
Modern women don't work that way though. They don't want to accept reality and put in the work to change when they can just childishly try to keep forcing the world to accept them as they are. Then they get mad when the dudes just go elsewhere. They can't grasp the simple concept that men will simply go for the lower stress option where they can get what they want. So they just make it our fault for being "lazy." No accountability
Sure maybe back in the 70's good sir but not now.
It's changed a lot now. A lot of black women are marrying outside their race and doing pretty well
@@rossrose1534
*yea, because they control that man! Marriage is not about “love” it’s all about: money, power & control!*
*shell just make up some argument, say “I’m not happy anymore” and divorce em!*
*get paid for divorce (alimony) and children (child support)*
@@rossrose1534 cap other rces of women are married out more than bw, bw marry out at 7%
Q: "Do you think men like masculine women?"
A: "I think it's really sad how black women have been treated."
You just disqualified yourself from any future adult conversation.
She’s the daughter of a black man and white woman.
Why did this black man have to go and open up his mouth and mention black women at all, there are no black women in this group!!
Least desired, but we stay in your mouth though 😤.
The first step is admitting you have a problem. Why are you and the men who share the same features on opposite ends of the spectrum of desirability.
I'll give you a hint. There's nothing wrong with the way Black women look.
@@AWesker99 Why would I compare myself to a man, in regards to desirability?
This whole conversation doesn't need to include black women at all, it has been made very clear to the whole wide world we are not wanted, but black men continue to just bring us down and find every way possible to dehumanise, make us feel sh*t and unloved, we get it already!!
BECAUSE THEY'RE THR LOWEST, MOST UNATTRACTIVE, LEAST RESPECTED AND LEAST DESIRED MALES. SO THEY TRY TO DEFLECT FROM THEIR SHORTCOMINGS BY COMPARING THEMSELVES TO WOMEN INSTEAD OF COMPARING THEMSELVES TO OTHER MEN, LIKE NORMAL, CAPABLE AND DESIRED MEN DO. LOL 😆
To make you mad and it worked.
@@effyutubeagain1099 I wasn't mad, I was exasperated and embarrassed.
As a black man... I have a serious problem talking about black women around white ppl
Why? Dont you dare to speak up?
Why?
Why does this convo keep being replayed. The main reason for lack of attractionis because of western beauty standards and white supremacy. They dont like dark smooth skin, with noses, full lips and just the fact these women r black period. Only reason black men r even liked is because the western world dehumanises them bombarding them with BBC ‘blacked’ racialized fetishes . They aren’t respected lol
@@tropicalstormxox9444 hahhaha, what a load of BS! Nobody cares about skincolour. It is your damn attitude!
Even loads of black american men now go to Phillippines to find a traditional wife.
Black woman have ruined yourself!
Everyone define their standard, but some are better liked then others.
White Suprimacy and white privilige doesnt excist.
Black people talk about white people behind their backs all the time. Get over it.
Over half of the relationships I’ve been in were interracial and in my experience there’s no “racial type” that’s going to cause more or less problems. It’s more about knowing what you’re willing to put up with and not tolerating boundary-crossing.
I assure you, African-American women do cause more problems (I'll put in the obligatory "in general").
Exactly
I agree all groups of people have their issues but there are differences
That is your opinion remember that.
If no one likes us, I wonder why we're ALWAYS the topic of discussion. This video of his alone, has MORE views than his others. Bcuz people love to see bw get bashed. Interesting
Facts
They never ever talk about white women…trash white women and you get banned 😂
Facts
@@anastasiassecret3837 oh I've knew years ago that BM, non BM and non BW love to see BW get bashed.
Facts
Some people generate stereotypes but not everyone, if all black women was tarred with the same brush then that is a sorry state of affairs. All people regardless of race have their share of good and negative people at least we should have people who are calculated enough to see the differences in someone's personality.
You look damn good sorry for being masculine but I needed to holler at you
Black western men from UK and USA in a majority aren’t known for intelligence. As simple as this is… This is too complex for them. They forget they are deemed the lowest by society but as they are men they have that 1 thing so they in turn, turn on their women to feel a sense of greatness. I don’t personally care for their Neanderthal opinions because I never chose them when single but they definitely always flap enough to show so many of us why them not in our lives is a blessing.
Very true. I said the same thing.
@@heavenking2065 I'd like to hope as long as there's people around who realise then all is not lost.
@@allenwood9967❤
As a West African woman I'm honestly utterly shocked and disappointed on how black women are generalised. Of course there are "ghetto" and "ratchet" black women like in every race.
I live in Germany and have never felt I was less desired because of my race or dark skin. I'm happily engaged to my Eastern European fiancé and before him, I never had trouble meeting high quality men.
What's most bizarre to me how much black men seem to degrade black women on social media, its just sad at this point, I have no words left and just pray for this division, hate to end. It does more harm than good for our community. How do we black women and black men demand respect from others when we don't seem to treat each other with respect?
And you probably saved all your attitude for black men, and was pleasant and gentile for your white fiancée simply because he was white.
@@santanamille4224 That is so untrue...I never dated anyone before my fiancé and I actually saw myself with a West African future wise. We just happen to fall in love. Don't make up false assumptions based on your insecurity.
@@Jennifer-uh8th If that's true then I apologize. But my assumption was not based on insecurity, it was based on the utter self hate that I see from West African women.
@@santanamille4224 and you all african women?
@@carinnegbeke7414 I think African women are beautiful. But you all do suffer from self hate and worship yt men. You need to hear the uncomfortable truth.
I’m not even black but I only date black women ….a black women is loyalty
Start a harem and take more of them so they can stop whining please
@@Onikagwow
@@Onikagok thug
@@TES-qf7du wow what?
Just take them all.
Yes !! Because they talk to damn much.. A Black woman that knows when to shut up is kinda priceless in way. Shutting the hell up could get you to where you want to be.
Preach brotha
So why y’all love feisty Latinas so much ?
@@lovelyk2647 Because some of them know when and how to be quiet when asked. That's very refreshing these days
@@boxxjumper82 I find that hard to believe when my brothers ex who’s Latina used to emasculate him to the point he became the submissive one in the relationship. She was very erratic, jealous and controlling. My mom would say to him damn this is who you chose? Plus her father is racist against Black people so he has never met my nephew because he doesn’t want to. But hey some black men enjoy the abuse from other cultures because they hate themselves that much.
That's why I said SOME. she sounds like she isn't included in that some that I spoke of. If a woman regardless of race etc. has a bunch of masculine energy then its a No period.
Talking about black women with no black women in the room😮💨😮💨
How would that change anything besides having a bunch of loud mouths who would only argue for the sake of spite rather than listening? All they would do is uselessly deny being undesirable as if it’s a lie.
Yall talk about black men with no black men in the room all the time, once again yall are hypocrites.
It's pathetic! We're the only race that openly discuss our dirty laundry with the oppressors.. You'd never see an Asian man in a room full of blacks talking down about his women. Sa Harvey stop with the click bait for views and do better..
The obsession with black women is real. Lol
@@JelaniB28 Not sure where you are from? However, I am from the states and “we” as in American Blacks are represented by the ghetto! let’s be clear, every race has a poor/ghetto population. The difference is they’re not making that the face of their community!
Another point is black men publicly bash black women because they cannot bash any other groups of men! So who can they bash and compete with….. their women! It’s sad but true.
I pray for my community.But, sad to say I don’t see us making it as a collective group! No other group of men acts like this towards their women! You definitely do not have to date black women. Go where you’re loved. But, to sit with a white woman and bash black women together!? 😳 yeah it’s time for us to part ways as brothers and sisters!
I watched a podcast the other day where a white man destroyed this black man about bashing his own women and that man said absolutely nothing to him just was sitting there submitting to his superior!
The black community is the definition of self hate!
Yep serves them right, that's what happens when you turn your back on God's blessings, the black man. Choosing to marry feminism and divorcing your black husband leads to misery. I'm telling you these women are the architects of their own misery
Immediately tells pearl to sit this one out. Great call😁😁🤣🤣
She’s not going to sit this one out black men are her preference.
Having the white girl speak on why bw are unloved would be too triggering
@@thehoodservative Maybe so, but maybe it will help spot light the real issues in our community.
@@empath-supernova9684 they won't, they'll just take it personal, spin the conversation around and act like everyone hates them.
@@empath-supernova9684 what community
I just want to acknowledge the blonde girl for a second. She's still coming back and participating. Being the foil. Putting aside any psychological alterior motives, I just want to applaud her resilience. Its not easy going into a space where you are outnumbered and underprepared. I hope she's getting more out of it than meets the eye.
They do it to themselves.
Yeah they just don’t wanna change n play victim
Who does that?
@@andrewevans7992 yeah blck men
Why would we change for a bunch scumbags that criticize the way we breath 24h7 ? Y’all God or something ? Don’t care.
Yeah, American society SMH
At the end of the day, you're attracted to what you are attracted to. Media and marketing can only do so much. Attraction and your experiences shape who you gravitate to.
Media has a lot of influence
@Warren Feagins couldn’t said it better myself!
Huh? So media can have an influence on the day way you dress, your interests but not who you find desirable. Be honest with yourselves
@@o.f.m8265 If the media are swaying your sexual preference than you are too impressionable by far.
@@Shadow-nz1dm ever seen bw twerking on social media? they bring the negativity on themselves at times they lose their jobs over the ish they put out
Dated every kind of women. Black women have a specific personality that would turn off a lot of men. I'm also not white...
The issue is they place All black women in one box
Least desired... I hear they are extremely miserable, fake (hair, makeup, nails, etc) man hating, brings a negative attitude, daddy issues (single parent) etc etc... It's highly sad because you hear the same things when this question comes up !!! How do we change this
Stop engaging with them so they adapt or die out.
Pookie and Ray-Ray: No!
If black women die out so will black men! Wtf is wrong with you.
Humility, for starters...
@@empath-supernova9684 Translation: We will burn the whole race to the ground unless you just shut up and deal with us.
Never negotiate with terrorists. Also, pretty sure black male sperm can merge with any human egg. BM would be fine. Kiki would be Dodo status. Hell I wouldn't mind never seeing some ostrich behind having female with 3ft of weave hanging off of her head ever again.
That's in the USA 🇺🇲. Most black girls around the world from different countries are so different. Not all black girls are miserable. What's wrong with having fake hair wigs or nails most girls of any race have that white girls have fake tan and fake lips.. are they not miserable too
I'm not black, but one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen is black.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
That's the thing it's not so much that they don't think black woman are pretty it's the attitude
redbones and lightskins or european facial features don't count lmao. neither does any girl with wig/weave
Same here, but on the other hand, the most disrespectful, spiteful, hateful, arrogant woman I’ve ever seen were BW as well
As a black man it always confuses me to see black women say or talk about they struggle like black women have bitten that feminist movement so hard it’s blinded them they have no struggle that was any harder or worse then the we as black Americans have as a whole any struggle they have is simply by they choice black men never treated black women bad like how the feminists movement portrayed white women to there so called abusive husbands black women have always been praised by black men almost to a fault soon as black women were given the option of government assistance vs keeping a man in the home is when they so called started to have struggles. Seeing a black feminist absolutely disgusts me🙄
all facts
Uhm, this definitely isn’t true. Have you read any books from the 30th century? A lot of BW were getting abused by society and BM left and right. Hell, Malcolm X saw it himself.
BW in the U.S have disproportionate homicide, SA and domestic violent rates. Your more likely to be be a victim of homicide if your a BW then a WW.
Read the comment section and look at the open racism black women have to deal with not just from other but also from black men
Why are black peoples as a race struggling?
@@sdneytaco2226 you deal with no more racism than black men. Have you heard the stuff you say about black men?
I’m a black woman and never dated a black man, they weren’t handsome and usually are broke,I’ve dated wm and that’s my preference
You're right white men are more educated
Family oriented.
Smart and handsome
Something many blk men don't have
And this is how Black men see unattractive and broke along with file body oder
If more black women start saying this thn others will say it’s a problem 😂
Say that to more people like bw so they can leave us alone and tell us how they really feel and stay away from us !
@@Shaiyino.thebraveonelike it’s a problem when BM say BW are loud, masculine, ratchet and it’s a problem. I just think BW want one sided aggression against BM with ZERO feedback on the behavior of BW
Just date a black woman, and dump her if she shows her true colors. That is true of any woman.
Stop racially profiling people. If you like her as a person, the race does not matter.
We need to treat people as individuals.
This is very true I don’t understand why more people don’t think like this. Only intelligent minds think like this and you’re right this goes for any race of women
Black man love to talk about how badly they are stereotyped and perceived then turn around and do this ??
@@Thegreatest342stop whining when they get shot let their black brothers fight
I'm a black woman. I found my husband on a dating app. I married up and out to an insanely good man. If I'm the least desired, then it worked out insanely well! 💅 Anyway, at the end of the day society can say everything in the world about me as a black woman, I will thrive in this life and get the best out of it!
A lot of black chicks aren't in consideration because they don't meet the minimum physical requirements for me. And Im not asking for anything crazy... Just basic stuff. For me to approach someone all I need is an average face, in shape, real hair... It's damn near like seeing a unicorn to see a black chick that has the combination of in shape and real hair where I'm at. Personality only becomes a point of interest once you get past the physical
🤣 good, because you’re not right. Any woman who gets you.. gets ^^ this man. The man who calls women “chicks” and needs them to be white in order to see beauty. Smh. It is what it is tho
Not one prize has been lost
Where are you 😂
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of them are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness, Living in the west is only depression for us.
I’m a black Woman and I don’t give a damn about what none of them talking about I have a black man who desires me and love me deeply ❤
You have a ex-convict, convicted felon.💀
@@Rhatid-mon if you say so 😂😂
Yell for how long
Black women are the most loyal to black men and will treat you like a King. You just have to find the right one.
Lol
@@onepunchman7407 what’s so funny?
@@carinnegbeke7414 ''Black women are the most loyal'' part
@@onepunchman7407 I’m a black woman, I’m loyal . What’s so funny?
@@carinnegbeke7414 ok. It's a stereotype that i have seen and heard everywhere that black women are loud and aggressive type who sleep around and have babies from random men without marrying them. So that comment sounded sarcastic. I am not from western country so I might be wrong.
It all depends on were they are from? Compare a girl form Manchester to a girl from Africa or SouthAmerica? And they are a world apart
That's always the mistake that is made. The word "black" is used when they really mean "black women from lower-class western areas, usually ghettoes."
That's very true.
Just like a black girl from Birmingham is different to a black girl from Manchester
@@anubis8918 In the United States, African-American women tend to be the same from the Pacific Ocean to the Atlantic Ocean.
@@anubis8918 no difference you fool.....
@@anubis8918 they are the same to be honest. Not much difference. And that's talking from experience
The only guys I know who specifically want black women are guys with zero real life experience with them.
So you must think your God's gift to women?
😂😂😂😂 sick and self hating
I'm sorry for your social skills and lack of experience. I can sincerely say I don't have your problems even though I do see the issue. Not a mountain to me just and adjustment.
How can you prove that?
Been with my black woman 13 years.
Is that enough experience??
Black women from Africa and from the Caribbean are very desired.
Amen on the Africa part, and somewhat on the Caribbean, but feminism is starting to touch some of our sisters there. Don't forget about all of the black women in Latin America as well. They're more black women in Latin America and South America than anywhere else except the African continent. I don't understand why people keep forgetting that, or maybe a lot of people aren't aware.
@@CharlieBIV I've found that they usually get bunched in with Latinas.
Yup. When I was stationed in Germany all the Black soldiers would completely ignore the American Black women to snatch up the African women. They were from Uganda, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Somalia, and Kenya.
They didn't last long at all. Quite a few of my old battle buddies married them. Hell I almost married a Kenyan woman 🤣🤣🤣
Black women for the most part come across as masculine and confrontational and most Asian women are sweet and kind like my friend for Korea.
Generally people prefer genetically similar looking people for looks. Not always but in general it is true and has been shown in studies. Especially men have it as a preference since they tend to prefer looks. Nothing wrong with that, anymore or less then picking other races. It's personal taste.
Black women are so misunderstood. This comment sections breaks my heart.
I'm a french male 68 yrs old and never had problem dating since my younger days. Women seemed attracted to french men for some reason, at least where I lived, no complaints lol.
This rhetoric is mad. Imagine telling people that they aren’t desired. What does it do for their self esteem?!
Thank the lord I haven’t experienced this.
Same. These pathetic lowlifes need to spread this propaganda as a way to gain temporary self-worth. They project their own insecurity and self-hate. And it is SO ugly 😙😙
If they were blonde-haired and blue-eyed with pale complexion everyone could love them regardless of thier behaviour proff me wrong the world worship European beauty
I’m a BW from the U.S and this hasn’t been experience at all! I get hit on, asked out and have been in relationships with men of many different ethnicities. My dating experience is from Jordanian/Syrian, Indian, Jamaican, Greek, Puerto Rican etc My current bf is biracial. When was on dating apps I had a ton of likes/responses from more non BM then BM but I think it’s because that’s who’s mostly on there. Non BM are not hard to get AT all! So I’m perplexed by these comments.
However, I would say the “ghetto BW” archetype isn’t a myth, I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I only ran into these kind of women in the inner cities and poorer neighborhoods. A lot of them to do have poor attitudes and etiquette. Idk if it’s considered normal behavior there because the BW I grew up with are the ones that get told the “talk or act white”. I know plenty that were shy and quiet in school and are really polite.Most of them grew up in two parent households like me so…
Also, how are BM creeping up on WM when those same studies showed that BM had the least responses from non BW? The OK Cupid study showed BM in the negatives except from BW.BM in the U.S also are the least married men in the U.S too…
Also, if you guys actually at the stats, the WORST female rate was actually double the male response rate.
Exactly, BM telling on themselves as usual. They are living in these hoods and poorer areas mad at their circumstances, not building anything, and confused as to why BW have poor attitudes towards laziness and dust smh
Y’all soo dense It’s sad attraction for sex and desire for relationships are two different things…. Us men told y’all for years now y’all the lowest married group because y’all listen to women over men about what men want. Y’all got to listen if you want a decent man because the man you want want something too 🤦🏾♂️
@@melissasimmons3222 the fact you dated all those types of men and not married is the proof… we know what we want from you day one, so if you dated that many you are failing with recognizing if somebody wants you for life or for fun until they get what they desire.
And being not married in these times is a bad thing why again?….
I love black women, as long as they're feminine, fit, friendly, gentle, mild mannered and raised by both her parents.
Well, I hope you find one of the 15 or 16 that exist with those positive qualities.
@@Icecat21 Yo... 💀 😂
ha. good luck finding that. you have a better chance winning the lottery.
Literally 1 out of 1 million. So if 21 million black women live in this country next to the 19 million black men. You will quite literally find around 21 of them that are already taken most likely. If I'm being generous there's a couple hundred but who gives a damn. You could probably find the philosophers' stone before that
yeah as if people choose whether or not their parents are separated..
How do they feel now that every single commercial is an interracial couple, even though I've known probably three of those in my entire 46 years on this planet.
I’m 30 black male and I have never heard a single black dark skin woman ever in my life speak about not being desired. I seen these black women being wanted by so many black men and other men to. I think In today’s time the black women image is not desired because of how they carry themselves. I would also say the black community is also part of why they move the way they do to. I love my people but things do have to change for the better.
Desired for sex but not relationships.
What do you mean by that?
Thats cuz they have BLACK GIRL MAGIC, THEY ARE QUEENS, THEY ARE 10'S. There were even studies done that said how black women HAD AMAZING SELF ESTEEM, they accept their curves etc. It was other races who had the skinny ideal with lower self esteem. It wasnt black women at all. They are all 10's., lol
It does matter....
@Josh Wesley - MAX LEVEL PHYSIQUES same for other race of women. You think nonblack women don't cry about being uses.
I’m with a Kenyan woman now for two years and she’s the best woman I’ve ever come across in my 42 years and I’m a white man btw. Absolute utter nonsense these children are talking on here. I’ve never listened to so much bollox in my natural.
Keyword: Kenyan. Now if she was from Detroit, Chicago, NYC, Baltimore, etc., you'd be singing a different tune. Exceptions don't disprove the rule.
Does not matter she will show her true colors because YOU got to pay for your people force colonization on Black and Africans and I see you still up to your old tricks
@secretagent4610 black women are very alluring you guys are just colonized.
I like white women for their openness and ability to respect other cultures.
Black women come off as angry and loud for no reason.
True.
It’s partially to do with the fact that the loud catty and argumentative black women has been shown in pop culture a lot. So I think a lot of guys don’t want that or that is the image that comes to mind.
The second hurtle to cross (especially if you’re a white guy in the west) has been just the general racial tension from the last 4 to 6 years. It seems like a lot of of the black community sees a white guy as an oppressive force. And I rather avoid those uncomfortable meetings with her family with that in the current cultural boat and climate.
It’s a shame though.
Well if you first eliminate all the obese, then eliminate those that emulate hip hop, gangster and ratchet culture, eliminate those that believe they should live the life of a billionaire queen like Oprah, then you still have to cut through to those black women with... the attitude. And if you don't know what the attitude is then you don't know western black women.
That is exactly what it is.
Notice even on these podcast they always get the most argumentative, ghetto loud usually dark skinned BW to represent us. It is sad fr but that is what pull in views and controversy so nothing will change.
In real life black women are desired
I don't understand the same talking point that comes up in every TH-cam content creator especially black men like to bring this up all the time is this supposed to be a shaman tactic and this is done in front of two white women?
@@nanayaa.5325 I think it’s just how some ppl grew up that shapes their outlook on life
Have you seen black women content creator ?? They litteraly push for aborting black man babies. You can’t be for real if you tell me nlack women content creator don’t have disdain for black men.
@@Mbaye77 I said in real life
@@410Phonso desired yes but not as wives.
"The beauty standards pushed by the media & society". No, men like what they like and marketing doesn't create these standards, they play to the standards to get the appeal of the market.
Yes it does.....do you think billions is spent on marketing because it doesn't work??
@@anubis8918 - rubbish, if sexual preference of a society could be manipulated by *marketing* then plus sized i.e fat women (which the media have been ramming down our throats as beautiful for the past decade) would be the most desirable. Newsflash...they are not. Like the opening poster said, it works the other way round. You do research to see what the market likes and responds to then use THAT ro appeal to use your audience. Unfortunately woke marketing works the other way around. #GetWokeGoBroke
@@guyverjay1289 I can see you only have a surface level of thinking.
@@anubis8918 - I can see that what you think about me personally means zero to me. Stick to the topic if you can 🙄
@@guyverjay1289 fair enough.
Billions is spent on advertising and marketing to get people to buy and want the products.
If the demand was already there then you don't need to market and advertise,u simply need to meet the demand by supplying the product.
Advertising and marketing is designed to create a demand where there isn't 1.
Good manipulation works when u don't know you are being manipulated.
It's quite clear and obvious that they are trying to get society accept and not shame fat.
Being fat is also something that we know for a fact is unhealthy therefore it is easy to reject.
What do you think happens to the mind of a black person who lives around nothing but black people but prey to a white image of god/Jesus and his mother??
What do you think would happen if that black person sees a white woman who looks like the woman who gave birth to his saviour??
When people think that black men like abandoning there children and having baby mothers all over the place was that due to what they where seeing on TV in the 80s n 90s or was it a fact??
When a black woman goes into a police station to report dv and a police officer tells her he's sure she will be fine n can handle it because she's a strong black Caribbean woman is thar because he naturally thinks that about black women or was he mentally manipulated to view black women that way??
I live in Canada and right now we are taking in a lot of immigrants from African countries and many of them work in health care as do I. I find these women are generally cool because they haven't grown up in 3rd generation welfare homes but have been raised in nuclear families, so they have respect for men. The black women from here generally scare the hell out of me so I just steer clear of them.
Lol we're only talking about western city blacks. It's an evil white supremacist self-hating culture.
For sure. You can tell if a black man /woman from Africa. We're just different
Africans are so much more civilized
@@DaileyThrifts Carribbean and South America too.
Thanks for being open minded
I have dated many ! Some black girls come across so angry and almost dating becomes a battle you so not want or need! Most have been superb!
much love.
I grew up in Islington N1!!
Black women may not be desirerous now, but they certainly were in great demand during slavery, considering the high number bi-racial (mixed) people in the world.
No they were sex slaves nothing moren
This part of the show is most unfortunate. How can black women be least desired? The negativity about black women has grown so far. If u r a black man and u fall for this craze, then u r part of the problem.
Facts
I'm a black man, I prefer Asian women. They're Stress free, feminine, less drama, simple. Black women (most) on the other hand are quite masculine, dramatic.
You don't know most bw. Stop the foolishness
If you look at social media, black women are shown to be HIGHLY aggressive, even more so then men, violent, disrespectful and very entitled, qualities most men DO NOT WANT!
look at regular media and you see basically the same thing, black women more aggressive, more violent tendencies, more loud, drama filled and very poor familiar ties.
Again, most men DO NOT WANT those qualities in their woman.
The visuals, the portrayal of black women needs to change, looking from the outside in, black women have shown almost NO redeeming qualities men would want in a wife, let alone a mother to be.
She said adverts show white looking people but black men don't have issues having any woman
Yes, when I look at my wife application my top three requirements are always:
Act like a gangster.
Covet a gucci lifestyle.
Have an obnoxious vape/weed addiction (vape as the minimum, it only gets worse from there) that my parents are guaranteed to despise.
It's a complete mystery boys...
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A mostly unneeded disclaimer, but this isn't relegated to one race, literally anyone with those above three traits is considered undesirable; or at least should be. This includes men and women.
Exactly. Black chicks are like that creepy guy that doesn't get why he pulls zero bitches
I love black women. Always have. Always will💖
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Why not imvite a black woman on the show for this convo smh
That is sad, I am Angolan and I live in Portugal, all my life the ones who call me ugly are black man, they literally tell me that everything but black women is beautiful , my African father is a “piece of shit”, my half brother father is also a piece of shit, i can notice that my hair ,my color my nose is not beautiful for a lot of people including black man, but you now what I don’t care anymore, just because I don’t care doesn’t mean I think i am ugly, I like me, when I stop caring about that😢, I get to know the most interesting man, I am talking all types of man,white, Asians….. they compliment me, ask for my hair, they say my nose is beautiful, my skin is sexy, in my tinder profile I put pictures with my afro, and the matches I get is 98% are white man, when is hair Day I tell them I can’t go because is hair day, and I explain that is a day where I like to enjoy my self, and explain the process, there is all type of woman, but for black women the ghetto black woman is as they seen us be, I am sorry the internet, the shows that involve rap culture , the American shows doesn’t help our reputation, i am not gonna wast my energy to prove that I am not like that, I am tired, learn to identify red flags in people, Chang your mentality, stop caring what people think so much, everybody has a type and I am fine with people that says black women is not their type, with I am not fine is disrespecting me
America 😂
@1:00 The way they’re acting like black women can’t cook (Jamaicans, Nigerians, other African women in general) similar to how Asian women can. They can ALL cook. Generally, women of minorities that are NOT from America can cook & clean. It’s what they grew up learning.
I’m a 45 year old 6’4 230lb black man iv been with my girlfriend who is 32 years old for 3 years. I live in Texas with her and our sons one we created together and my oldest from a previous relationship. I say all that to explain it’s all about perception my women dresses sexy and modest I don’t try to control her but she knows her place and I know mine I didn’t have to change her and don’t try to change me it’s like we have a mutual understanding with talking about it I’m definitely the king of my castle and she’s the queen we communicate very well which is the KEY to a happy relationship we talk even about situations that make us uncomfortable but we get through it
She wears her natural hair and body some times she wears wigs and makeup to switch up her look as she calls it it’s nothing wrong with a black women being a black women whether is an attitude here or there, because no relationship is perfect, or whether she’s very feminine I see a lot of black guys on here complaining about black women you cats are being manipulated into thinking that black women are least desirable because you don’t know how to hold people accountable individually so you look at them as a whole, the same thing the white men do to the entire black race you’re just doing it to you all women which is sad I watched my father and my mother have a beautiful relationship no cheating no arguing because they loved AND respected each other without one tryna control the other it’s called balance y’all
I’m a black man & I love black women lol I have 2 beautiful daughters, everyone should just seek love and forget about skin color
Western world is so cruel to people like Black girls, Indian and Asian men, it is sickening, when I was living in Africa (Kenya) as a Indian man, there was no such discussion, black girls in Africa were wanted by everyone, almost all indian men in Africa wanted them, so many of my indian friends dated them and these men were considered lucky in our group to date African girls. Overhere though in the west (America/Canada/Europe) it seems black girls/Asian Indian men have been reduced to updateable beings, I heard 75% of black girls are single here. Really some times I think Black women, Indian men and Asian men should just move out of here and go back to where happiness is in other lands, Living in the west is only depression for us
Let them marry a white man Black men got enough problems
Personally I stick to people from my own cultural background as I think that there will be the best chance of a "meeting of minds" and least chance of conflict. Race tends to indicate a difference in cultural upbringing.
I'm with you on this one 100%
CULTure can be the PROBlem
Many men have come to the conclusion that majority of these modern women are too much trouble to make an attempt to get with women don't see any of this
These titles racist as hell.
Least desired....nah, we DESIRE them but they are the least TOLERABLE for the long term
BM as well. That's why that divorce rate is high
Finally a video that points the obvious out! Loud MOUF, rude, irresponsible, bad choice making, etc etc. it’s no wonder they are least wanted.
Black men are almost least desired too, just above Asian men. Why?
@@cjojay yet if u look at most interracial couples they have bm more than bw
@@MsDesiree39 yes, i agree that black men date out more than bw. It's changing though.
@@cjojay not as much as u think
@@cjojay black men are above asian, indian, arab and latino what crack are you smoking lol?
Most Black women by default are "War Ready" .
That extends to their attitude & outward appearance more time.
Simple as that.
Kevin Samuels told black women to make it work with black men because men (other races) aren’t lining up to marry them. Black women are the most overweight group of women in the US, men are visual so it would explain why they don’t get more swipes on the apps. Most men tend to lean towards traditional women which typically are conservative leaning from a political standpoint from my observation. Black women have more of a feminist ideology and it manifest itself on how they vote which is 92% democrats. For many men it’s a non starter so they aren’t interested. It explains why Asian women are the most desired in my opinion.
i'm just gonna be honest, i'm not into aggressive bald women, sorry
Aggressive and bald 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wow keep the hate coming
Bald is their way of saying they hate how your natural hair shrinks. Darker skin is viewed as masculine either way it goes. This is all colorism, racism, and texturism in the end.
i get it, how is your male pattern balding going?
BALD? All of us are bald
Lmao! & even if we were bald… what in the hell does that have to do with being a woman ?
People have standards....The best women are Asian, then spanish, then white, then black. This is based on femineity, weight, and agreeability.
I’ll say this again, as a latino, I would only date latina women only. Why? Because I want to keep it in the community. I’ve dated black women before but they’re not what I’m looking for. Having a preference is not being racist. I just like to keep it within the community🤷🏽♂️.
Okay!
@@aquarius-woman5364 It’s okay horoscope lady. Jesus still loves you and your sign.
@@Zone_Intellectsthese people are too sensitive bro. it really wouldn't bother me if you did only date for racist purposes. black people have this sick desire to be loved by everyone & every damn thing. its low self esteem. I've had white girls tell me they only like Latins or Whites so we couldn't hook up. Never hurt me. But that is probably due to the fact that my options aren't dwindled just because a few people in the world don't find me attractive. I've never had problems getting girls from any race so im unbothered by the few who reject me. It's literally normal. But when it comes to our women- well you can gues how they will react.
Why would you date BW if you wanted to "keep it in the community??" I've NEVER been attracted to any man outside of race, especially Latino Men. So I never dated anyone outside of my race. I love masculine BM who love BW, nothing can compare. Even though it's becoming more rare. No one can compare to a good BM.
Advertising does not impact men nearly as much as it impacts women's choices. I have a strong conviction that this is the reason feminism was fanned out, funded properly and decidedly tries to knock the man off his control of the home.
This video is am advertisement it surely creates impact
Nah it's the modern 👹 black 🖤 woman ♀️👠 that's least desired.
It is black women from American or just western culture as awhole. Black women I have dated who are latina or from Africa are very different and value family much more.
You can be a modern woman but still hold traditional traits it's all about balance.
@@nanayaa.5325 But now a days 😭😢 they don't wanna balance ⚖️♎. Too busy being "outside."
I'll stay tuned in to this podcast forsure
Also with men it has to be us Asian men that are the least desired but no one says it openly. You never see white women chatting us up.
Who cares what this twisted, overly obese society desires, we'll focus on ourselves regardless.
@@kham7019
Nah bro listen if you are not loved or celebrated here you need to think. 95 percent of the population are almost out of bounds for us. That can't be healthy. Why should we have to live within bubbles? And operate like we are foreign tip toeing around society and noticing the body language that says we are not very welcome. We are british born?.
To many people saying they don't care. You should care. This effects everything.
I care about my own focus, where I'm headed on my path, not on this delusional society but you do you. Period, out.
Maybe I'm wrong because I never lived the Asian man experience, but I don't think it has much to do with race. If you're hot, you're hot, whether you're Asian or not.
@@secretagent4610
Nah in england we are not desired.
As a good looking Asian guy I do get Asian girls grudgingly telling me I am good looking. But white gals never even talk to us. Even in the work place they speak to us at arms length.
Do you ever get white gals going around showing Asian mans that they fancy on their phone? Black guys get that here.
Do white chicks like Asian guys photos on social media and leave positive comments?
That then trickles back into our own Asian gals where many of them have lived life where Asian man was never promoted here in any way. Remember everyone loves an asian gal here but who can say they love Asian men? Many people never even come to this realisation. I have had a handful of pretty white gals tell me I am handsome but it is very rare. But I know 99 percent of the rest would never get that compliment like my own asian guy mates. No white gal ever bigged them up. It's because we live in a white society for real that's why I am stressing the point. Like imagine if it was the other way round here? As in the country was 95 percent asian and 5 percent black and white?😂 that's what I'm saying....