The more time he takes to process his emotions or feelings, does push her away. It allows her more time to give her attention to someone else. If he ignores, she will eventually grow bored and lose interest. She will stop giving him what his heart actually seeks. But his pride is what's controlling his actions.
True love is sent by God everything else is lust… lean not into your own understanding IT IS WRITTEN!! Denzel speaking facts and experience been married forever and you never hear about any drama in his household 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
IF, I am ever Blessed with True Love again, I promise myself and wear a ring to remind me that I must stay True to Myself n GOD and I no longer have time for fun n games. I am at a Ride or Die space in Time. If He knows Me and My Rock Solid Core, then he needs to take a chance before it is too late to experience My Kind of Love, Just sayin!!!
I met a 38-year-old who is well put together and a great man. But he doesn’t know how to show emotions or communicate as well. It's like when he shows he like me I allow him but when I show him it’s like he gets scared and back off and say let’s take our time. I been friends with him for years just friends. But now I have met a 20 something year old and he’s well put together and communicate effectively and like to talk and listen when I talk he text me everyday and check on me all the time. He’s a great guy and I like our friendship now. Of course I’m going to talk to the one who shows more attention. I’m not committed and I don’t have time to wait on someone to figure things out I’m 36 and I’m going to continue to do me.
The 20 something has less experience with heartache and rejection. I'm almost sure the 38 year old is doing that as a defense mechanism from hurt that he experienced in the past.
@@MsHunnyLove82i can understand that, but the 20 something year has been hurt from what I heard certainly. We just friends and talking that’s all. You know people meet for many reasons maybe he needs someone to talk to. But he’s such a gentleman for his age. I have met men older than him that act like kids. He’s not expressing his emotions to me but I like how he engages in conversation and listen and give great feedback. Conversations is my love language. This guy is very wise for his age and very mature. But if the 38 year old can’t get together then ol well. 🤷🏽♀️
How can any woman be pacient ,when there is no communication ? When "the person" uses " no contact", as a punishment? Poor thing, he is suffering, and the woman,as allways,has to be strong, and wait, months, and years, and în the end she understands that he Will NEVER MAKE THE FIRST STEP!
There is only So much silence a woman can take. Or Sarcastic talk. 30 years, I've been waiting being Patient For him to make up his mind . I will be the one who will leave Keeping a distant does not work tryed for 6 years.
I have been warned to be still, silent n Hushed and I have had enough silence. Crows, Doves and Geese are speaking to me and it is about Time for me to fly...with my Sacred Birds!!!
With all due respect how in the world are women supposed to trust manipulative tactics like these and see them as healthy. There are alot of game players out there ladies. My motto is prove yourself or go away and play games with someone else. My rose colored glasses are off now. No more blind trust in anyone coming from me. And if that keeps people away from me - oh well.
The man needs to be saved. He needs God to show him how to love her. If man goes on his own journey without God, he will lose out every time. He will never get those questions answered. He will never know if he will be enough.
@@abrown7860 big facts .. until God come in the man and woman life it’s nothing because patience and endurance is love joy peace and happiness.. I know❣️❣️❣️ and I did what these last did was in 18 yr no growth relationship and. Turned 45 and said No sirrrr , stayed single 3 years focused on me , stepped in Faith last year round this same time and Boom!!! Look at God a Divine Intervention is all I can say ❣️❣️❣️🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏾Our God is good and faithful he will send the right one with lessons and blessings you just have to do a whole of praying and asking for clarity and discernment and asking God to search both yall heart💯🙏🏾💪🏾🙌🏾
Thank you Danziel, I really enjoy your psychology on men , being newly Persued and having him go somewhat silent , this gives me the perspective on what my thoughts are, thank you , Thank you so much.
My ex cheated on me. I cried, begged, forgave him. He told me he isn’t happy with the new woman, but, yet he is still there living with her. He still has my messages and pictures, and says in the future we might get back together… I don’t want to wait around forever. I don’t want him back after he had slept with this woman, shared his body with her. I’m deeply hurt.
No, he doesn't want her or you. He wants a woman that doesn't challenge him, and that sounds like the other woman. Allow yourself to hurt and cry and go to God. Look up this sermon by Sarah Jakes Roberts called Broken Open.
@ hello, Queen. I know for a fact that he doesn’t want me. The way he treated me, cheated on me, the way things went. It is crystal clear how he feels about me. But, he does want the other woman. She is older than him. She cooks for him, she cleans for him, washes his clothes,etc. He is still living with woman as we speak. I prayed to God to remove the hurt and resentment from my heart. I think he is falling for this other woman. He isn’t leaving her anytime soon. He claims she loves him more than I ever did in the 3 years we were together.
@brendahstarr1349 I'm sorry to hear you are going thru this pain, but that's not love. I don't know your husband or what he's been through, but he's searching for something, and she won't satisfy him either. That's a deep-rooted issue within him. Sometimes, we as people try to hold on to the very thing that God himself is trying to remove. If you go back to him, he will cheat again on you, and he will cheat on her, too. She's not exempt. Focus on your healing. Read, exercise, go to church, volunteer, vacation, go on girlfriend dates, and go on solo dates. Concentrate on yourself, and your energy will draw the right people. The universe doesn't lie. You attract what you put out.
I have loved the content in several of this videos! There's just one thing that consistently bothers me regarding most of the posted videos. Please get someone to QA your content as 95% of the videos possess grammatical errors (in the video's title).
love must be confusing. It is either I am delusional that he wants me or he really does but is being cold as he navigates his feelings. Am confused and don't want to wait too late!@@magicalindigoadult3838
@ceyciemateo9411 well he put himself in a position to lose me. If he actually thinks I'd be sticking around waiting for him he's got another thing coming.
@@hellonheels91069 Unfortunately they do think that. We have to start taking accountability for giving people the impression that they can take advantage of us. Only the weak get attacked
All I kept hearing was him, him, him…and who is going to support the woman? If she is supporting him all the time? Protect yourself because if you don't, you will regret it
How long are you supposed to wait on a man to realize that he loves you? It's kind of messed up to have someone waiting on you for you to decide wether or not you want to love them.
Thank u my favorite Actor I agree with everything u are saying it's true an very interesting very educational all women really need lessons because no u know where I'm coming from keep talking cause I'm learning more God Bless
What about a man that you thought loved you but then you wind up getting watched by him I guess in a way stalled by him or his friends or family to see how you interact with others especially other men because he believes you will get with another man based on what someone you turned down said. I'm like you know what I m not going to sexily be involved with another man but since you to scared to be normal with me Im going to talk to a normal guy who can talk and control his emotions at the same time. I have to hide my face in part because well I won't say here. People are insane for no reason and sometimes when people think more of you then you think of yourself you have to walk alone. Sometimes I wish I was normal to others but I have to be a stigma female because they are so unfair to me. I'm a nobody except to God. That's who loves me because I can't except the weird behavior
My husband has cheated on me throughout the years i just didnt know it. 5 years ago he was seeing s prostitute. I would love to move out but I have no where to go and i can't afford a place on my own. I believe he still is cheating. We don't have there's no kissing, touching and no i love you. Why it took me so long yet I'm pretty sure he has some one in my home, in my bed when im working. How can I make him leave?
i don't agree with you,, it happened to me and that was the time of him preparing for his future life in ignorance process something was taking place 🤔🏃🏃🏃
The more time he takes to process his emotions or feelings, does push her away. It allows her more time to give her attention to someone else. If he ignores, she will eventually grow bored and lose interest. She will stop giving him what his heart actually seeks. But his pride is what's controlling his actions.
True.
PREACH!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
💯🙏🏽
Wow! I like that.
True
True love is sent by God everything else is lust… lean not into your own understanding IT IS WRITTEN!! Denzel speaking facts and experience been married forever and you never hear about any drama in his household 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
That's fine, but I refuse to wait forever. Get it together.
Same!
Ya, this is bs. Excuse for not being real
He hurts me all the time with this behavior. Narcissist.
This is great… there is a difference between a person deciding if you’re worth it or if they can be a good man for you vs he’s just playing games
IF, I am ever Blessed with True Love again, I promise myself and wear a ring to remind me that I must stay True to Myself n GOD and I no longer have time for fun n games. I am at a Ride or Die space in Time. If He knows Me and My Rock Solid Core, then he needs to take a chance before it is too late to experience My Kind of Love, Just sayin!!!
I met a 38-year-old who is well put together and a great man. But he doesn’t know how to show emotions or communicate as well. It's like when he shows he like me I allow him but when I show him it’s like he gets scared and back off and say let’s take our time. I been friends with him for years just friends.
But now I have met a 20 something year old and he’s well put together and communicate effectively and like to talk and listen when I talk he text me everyday and check on me all the time. He’s a great guy and I like our friendship now. Of course I’m going to talk to the one who shows more attention. I’m not committed and I don’t have time to wait on someone to figure things out I’m 36 and I’m going to continue to do me.
The 20 something has less experience with heartache and rejection. I'm almost sure the 38 year old is doing that as a defense mechanism from hurt that he experienced in the past.
@@MsHunnyLove82i can understand that, but the 20 something year has been hurt from what I heard certainly. We just friends and talking that’s all. You know people meet for many reasons maybe he needs someone to talk to. But he’s such a gentleman for his age. I have met men older than him that act like kids. He’s not expressing his emotions to me but I like how he engages in conversation and listen and give great feedback. Conversations is my love language. This guy is very wise for his age and very mature.
But if the 38 year old can’t get together then ol well. 🤷🏽♀️
You just answered your own question?? ❤😅
@@doniquelouise687😮😅
Patience is a virtue
How can any woman be pacient ,when there is no communication ?
When "the person"
uses " no contact", as a punishment?
Poor thing, he is suffering, and the woman,as allways,has to be strong, and wait,
months, and years,
and în the end she understands that he Will NEVER MAKE THE FIRST STEP!
Finally confirmation. I know this is everything that the Lord has been teaching me for the last 4 yrs. ❤
Me too. Met my man in 2021
Denzel this is on point....
There is only So much
silence a woman can take.
Or Sarcastic talk.
30 years, I've been waiting being Patient
For him to make up his mind .
I will be the one who will leave
Keeping a distant does not work tryed for 6 years.
I have been warned to be still, silent n Hushed and I have had enough silence. Crows, Doves and Geese are speaking to me and it is about Time for me to fly...with my Sacred Birds!!!
Because he never lost you
You are strong and I pray GOD takes your pain away and sends you true love and happiness.
With all due respect how in the world are women supposed to trust manipulative tactics like these and see them as healthy. There are alot of game players out there ladies. My motto is prove yourself or go away and play games with someone else. My rose colored glasses are off now. No more blind trust in anyone coming from me. And if that keeps people away from me - oh well.
AMEN!!!!
Amen
Thank You Denzel
I wasn’t waiting anymore..six plus yrs of nothing but toxicity n heartache. I’m done!
I know patience is important but sometimes, "young heart, run free..." I feel you girl, I feel you!
The man needs to be saved. He needs God to show him how to love her. If man goes on his own journey without God, he will lose out every time. He will never get those questions answered. He will never know if he will be enough.
@@abrown7860 big facts .. until God come in the man and woman life it’s nothing because patience and endurance is love joy peace and happiness.. I know❣️❣️❣️ and I did what these last did was in 18 yr no growth relationship and. Turned 45 and said No sirrrr , stayed single 3 years focused on me , stepped in Faith last year round this same time and Boom!!! Look at God a Divine Intervention is all I can say ❣️❣️❣️🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏾Our God is good and faithful he will send the right one with lessons and blessings you just have to do a whole of praying and asking for clarity and discernment and asking God to search both yall heart💯🙏🏾💪🏾🙌🏾
Thank you Danziel, I really enjoy your psychology on men , being newly Persued and having him go somewhat silent , this gives me the perspective on what my thoughts are, thank you , Thank you so much.
It is a voice over its not denzel
WoW, and at the end of the day, he loses her ..
You are a wise man Denzel❤
It’s ai
AI Washington 😅
I need to hear this message. This is confirmation for me.🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
I wish this was true, but ive never met a man who thinks this deep.... Never.
My ex cheated on me. I cried, begged, forgave him. He told me he isn’t happy with the new woman, but, yet he is still there living with her. He still has my messages and pictures, and says in the future we might get back together… I don’t want to wait around forever. I don’t want him back after he had slept with this woman, shared his body with her. I’m deeply hurt.
No, he doesn't want her or you. He wants a woman that doesn't challenge him, and that sounds like the other woman. Allow yourself to hurt and cry and go to God. Look up this sermon by Sarah Jakes Roberts called Broken Open.
He's a chump with issues
@ hello, Queen. I know for a fact that he doesn’t want me. The way he treated me, cheated on me, the way things went. It is crystal clear how he feels about me. But, he does want the other woman. She is older than him. She cooks for him, she cleans for him, washes his clothes,etc. He is still living with woman as we speak. I prayed to God to remove the hurt and resentment from my heart. I think he is falling for this other woman. He isn’t leaving her anytime soon. He claims she loves him more than I ever did in the 3 years we were together.
@brendahstarr1349 I'm sorry to hear you are going thru this pain, but that's not love. I don't know your husband or what he's been through, but he's searching for something, and she won't satisfy him either. That's a deep-rooted issue within him. Sometimes, we as people try to hold on to the very thing that God himself is trying to remove. If you go back to him, he will cheat again on you, and he will cheat on her, too. She's not exempt. Focus on your healing. Read, exercise, go to church, volunteer, vacation, go on girlfriend dates, and go on solo dates. Concentrate on yourself, and your energy will draw the right people. The universe doesn't lie. You attract what you put out.
He sounds like a narcissist
One day a princess the next day no one
I have loved the content in several of this videos! There's just one thing that consistently bothers me regarding most of the posted videos. Please get someone to QA your content as 95% of the videos possess grammatical errors (in the video's title).
The mistake is " not communicating with me".
Yes then u meet someone else then he wants to be with u or says oh im happy for u
love must be confusing. It is either I am delusional that he wants me or he really does but is being cold as he navigates his feelings. Am confused and don't want to wait too late!@@magicalindigoadult3838
That's exactly true.
Stop with the BS lies!! A person who values you, would never put themselves in a position to lose you. IM DONE with his ass!!
Unless they don’t believe they will actually lose you
@ceyciemateo9411 well he put himself in a position to lose me. If he actually thinks I'd be sticking around waiting for him he's got another thing coming.
@@hellonheels91069
Unfortunately they do think that. We have to start taking accountability for giving people the impression that they can take advantage of us. Only the weak get attacked
All I kept hearing was him, him, him…and who is going to support the woman? If she is supporting him all the time? Protect yourself because if you don't, you will regret it
These videos repeat ???
How long are you supposed to wait on a man to realize that he loves you? It's kind of messed up to have someone waiting on you for you to decide wether or not you want to love them.
Cut communication and move on. It's all you can do. Move on with your life. And live your life for you.
That’s what I’m
Doing. :(
Thank u my favorite Actor I agree with everything u are saying it's true an very interesting very educational all women really need lessons because no u know where I'm coming from keep talking cause I'm learning more God Bless
It doesn't matter anymore. He disted me too many times
Cancelled dinner. Blew me off. Screw him. Emotionally inept.
Veste,še kako je res,Več let opazovanja,pri ljudeh ki so bili najbolj odmaknjeni-v tem primeru moških-sem zaznala majhno ampak prijazno energijo.
Some of these comments missed the point.
What about a man that you thought loved you but then you wind up getting watched by him I guess in a way stalled by him or his friends or family to see how you interact with others especially other men because he believes you will get with another man based on what someone you turned down said. I'm like you know what I m not going to sexily be involved with another man but since you to scared to be normal with me Im going to talk to a normal guy who can talk and control his emotions at the same time. I have to hide my face in part because well I won't say here. People are insane for no reason and sometimes when people think more of you then you think of yourself you have to walk alone. Sometimes I wish I was normal to others but I have to be a stigma female because they are so unfair to me. I'm a nobody except to God. That's who loves me because I can't except the weird behavior
Lol taking time to think? Seriously? It's been almost six years lol
You right it don’t take 6 yrs… let it go and Let God bring you a MAN
Sounds like me, and I'm a woman
But 10 years ans he starts to want space wow
My husband has cheated on me throughout the years i just didnt know it. 5 years ago he was seeing s prostitute. I would love to move out but I have no where to go and i can't afford a place on my own. I believe he still is cheating. We don't have there's no kissing, touching and no i love you. Why it took me so long yet I'm pretty sure he has some one in my home, in my bed when im working. How can I make him leave?
i don't agree with you,, it happened to me and that was the time of him preparing for his future life in ignorance process something was taking place 🤔🏃🏃🏃