I'm quiet because most of the things people talk about are just stupid and irrelevant to me. I talk when people discuss passionate things that I'm fascinated with, but that rarely happens so I just don't talk.
I hate being shy and quiet because everyone leaves me out and teachers always call on me and people always ask me why i don't talk, its soo annoying and everyone is suprised when i talk... anyone relates to me?
It's easier for me to observe people and see who will hurt me and who won't when I'm quiet. I'm not much of a conversation starter so if someone takes the time to talk to me on a day to day basis that means they actually want to get to know the real me.
it’s maia not miai I'm quiet like that but I always purposely scream in class like I force myself to so people actually listen to me and my throats hurts really bad afterward
my mom used to say that quite people are dangerus and look at me got in a fight with some kid he thought that since I'm quite I'm a punk and can't fight butt guess what I broke his nose
The biggest misconception about being shy is that you are snobby and don't want to talk to anyone. I always want to make conversations with people, but I can't do it..I end it up having it played out in my head..
Lol I'm a quiet girl who's in love with a quiet guy, we are slowly (very very very slowly) starting to get to know each other cuz we're both awkward AF. But I hate it when people call him emo and weird bec he's super duper quiet and wears black, and I'm just like WDF, literally EVERYONE wears black. Just cuz he wears a little more black than everyone else doesn't make him emo. If you actually got to now him instead being an asshole you'd see that he's very very kind and likes to play the guitar although he hates his voice, he still likes to preform and open mic night. Because of that I've fallen in love and admire him so much, he might not realize it or may even think no one likes him, but I'm always going to root for him. I don't give a damn if he's gay straight or bi, I love him and that's final...... Whoa, got off track, but anyway just know quiet people have feelings and a story to them so don't just assume there's something wrong. Stop trying to find all the wrong things and pay attention to the right things '~'
I've always been a quiet person, as well as an introvert. The reasons I am quiet are: 1) Most people want small talk, which I'm not good at and which doesn't feel honest to me. 2) I happen to have a quiet voice, and there are a lot of times when people don't hear me when I do talk. Like, they don't even notice that I said something. If I need to, sometimes, I'll repeat myself, but other times, I just don't want to bother. 3) My energy level - while I do like people (but not the general public), interacting with people can be very draining for me energetically. And sometimes talking to people is also draining. It's especially draining some days to think up what you're going to say, say it, and then have to repeat it. 4) There are some things - my passions - that I could talk for hours about. But most people don't want to hear me go on about my passions. People act weird when you are passionate about something. 5) Most people do not care about me, and don't care what I have to say. 6) My voice itself is just naturally quiet. Even when I feel I'm raising it, it's still quiet.
RedFeather FalconHawk but it's really hard to know most people. We can go in other areas, especially where we have interests, or not. Do some to be remembered and do something that helps others. You will feel real good inside because someone else who genuinely appreciated you did.
I always been the quiet ones at school because 1: i suffer from depression which causes me to be alone and to be antisocial. 2: im shy to new people. (im 21 btw) Ever since i moved to a new middle school ( i was 6th grade) i became shy to everyone so everyone just completely ignored me till i move on to high school.I still didn't have any friends till like my senior year. People started to see who i am and i was like surprised and don't care at the same time.So now im in college taking art classes and designs so i can be a video game designer in the future. Today, 10 minutes before the class starts, my classmates were talking, laughing, and having a great time until i walked in a some of them looked up at me like they seen a ghost. I was like in my head ( why are you guys staring at me?) So I walked in and sat in the back in the class putting my head down in shame. I was shy so i stay silent. When the teacher walked in the do role call , when she called my name she looked at me and say "you looked lonely back there.Are you ok?" I show one of those fake smiles like when people pulled to get things slide. Then when we did are art work in class she come over to my table saying " go around and talked to people" i didn't try to talk to no one, so i choose to work alone. When it was time to do critique, meaning it was time to present our project to anyone can see and tell their opinions on how well they did or needs to be improved. Our instructor want all of us to come in a group to discuss while i stay at my table because of my damn shyness. When it comes to my work, i said my work is garbage to be honest ( it's not bad at all, i was just saying that to see what they will say ) 4 different people saying " it's not bad, i seen things worst than this but it's not bad, i like it ( i think she was lying just to make me feel good lol) it's okay i guess". When it was time to go, everyone left and i was still trying to get things finished. My instructor tell me, "your really quiet and shy. You should try not be shy because everyone will walk all over you. You being shy effect you being less confident about yourself. Try putting a smile on so people might talk to you." i said ok i will try. Well i still feel depressed,shy and low self esteem. I don't have confidence and there's no such thing as confidence. Without any friends i can't survive in college alone.
don't worry about what other people think. just go, get your education, and do what you love! you'll meet people that you'll get along with and share the same interests with soon enough! :)
MetalSonicGamerX200 Matthew 1.23 • Deuteronomy 32.8 (Holy Bible, KJV Proverbs • Ecclesiastes • Psalms talks about what's in the head and heart of people. John...
I totally understand you. I am in college now. Maybe you are not anymore since you wrote this comment 3 years ago. It my 2nd year, I'm following my bachelor's degree. Last year, I made one friend, a girl like me. Well, I kinda knew I was going to be friend with her because she's black like me and I knew we could relate (I used to be the only black people in since my 6th grade, but I've always had friend fortunately) I am not the kind of person who choose friends based on skin color don't worry, its just that I knew we could understand each other on certain points. But my friend live in Paris I live in a city 4 hours from the capital. She decided to go back to Paris because she didn't like our college. So now I am alone. Everybody has their little squad. I can hear them talking about going to this event, this concert. Doing that thing on the weekend while i be staying at home. I feel like I didn't have a "normal" life. I mean a student life. I thought when I will be in college I will find my ssquad I will have a boyfriend, I will do what student do. I thought I would be happy, because I would have only my friends and life in front of me. Instead of that, I am scared when teachers say "lets do 7 groups of 4" because I don't where I will be. I just leave the class early to avoid everybody, I try to not be see alone. I am desperate because I feel like I need to have at least somebodY can talk too...I don't know how I will be doing, I am not sure I will be good, idk ... I forgot to mention that I have always been shy and quiet. Since high school I found that I was introverted as well. I don't think I am sociable. I understand you. There this girl who has been alone since last year, I've always wanted to talk to her cause I felt like we could get along and be friends, but we didn't have a lot of course together, and plus she always seemed angry (just like me, everybody assumes that I am always angry, I think I have bitchy resting face)now that I have common lectures with her, I try to speak to her, I think she's shy and maybe quiet, but also I feel like she might not want to be friend with me idk... maybe because in my head we already friends...I'm just trying but now I'm sick of it
Exactly with me bro And I love having friends but I can't, due to my personality of being so quiet which makes people to stay far from me. I can only manage to associate with people am so close to.
I love your video I'm also quiet like u.I'm proud of the quiet and introverted person that I am.You don't have to pretend to be something you're not.It's okay I see us as being very strong and bold because we can have people say the ugliest things to us and yet we still manage to control ourselves.I love your video by the way.
I've been that way most of my life. As I have gotten older I've become different. I don't have fear like I use to. I talk a lot. One thing I suggest is to find things to do. Draw, write your feelings or anything, study science and religion, buy project kits and finish them. Study the world, the galaxy as well, this will help you accomplish things witch will release feel good chemicals in the brain and will also give you knowledge. You have all the time on your hands to become better than those that do more talking and less studying. It's a fact that the quiet ones that take advantage of their time are the ones that help change the world. You will also have so much to talk about, and ppl will listen to knowledge.
Haha this is so me. It could be that I don't have anything to talk about or I have social anxiety or something. I am normal around my 2-3 closest friends or people that I know? but soon as It comes to strangers I am quiet. I like being a quiet person most of the time but sometimes it sucks. I just listen to music most of the day and I think music is what keeps me going.
this is so like me i am very quiet and only have a few friends i don't really trust anyone and people just hate me and bully me for no reason that why i started to build up hate but i kept it deep down inside of me and never show it and sometimes i feel like am very unstable and have a split personality
Royal Boss write your feelings out if you like to write, and you will see that the focus is not on them but should be on you, about how you can contribute to people and their situations to make them better, and, in process of time, in your heart you will feel very good. Love God. Love yourself and all others. Hatred breeds poison, arthritis and many other symptoms in the body. The body is made up of mind, soul and spirit, and all three need to be in harmony, or at least this is a path to pursue. There are ways to be kind to people, like writing letters to people at A21 who have been taken out of brothels, spirit spring a child with Children's international, and more. Don't give people power over your life. Don't give unclean spirits, or spirits that influence people over your life. (John 3 • 2 Corinthians 5.21...Proverbs • Ecclesiastes...Psalms is a good book to read, and is a book that reads the heart. These, for me are found in the Holy Bible, KJV) Live! Most other people are. Let bitterness go! It's not a pretty look on or in us. Take care of yourself, meaning too...deal with what is important, and the number one person, after God, is you!
I hate it when people call me shy. When I think of the word shy I think of it as an insult. It makes it seems like i'm only enclosed to myself and not open to other people, making me sound lame, boring, and having no personality at all. AHEM, it's fine to not talk. I'm always open to meeting new people, I don't talk on occasion because THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT, or I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TO. Shy is like being afraid of people. I just hate it so much, then it becomes a label, and everyone starts pointing you out as the shy girl in class. smh
Your funny! I was an extremely quiet girl but mostly because I was shy, not because I hated people. Just preferred to observe not participate. It wasn't until I got into my early thirties that I became a happy, funny, loving person. I love people! But still love my alone time in my room. Got to have that. I'm 60 now :) People say I don't look my age. Changing I believe is why. The real me evolved.
I'm quite and don't have a lot of friends and my best friend is like a popular girl and I'm always happy when she hangs out with me because I'm quite and don't really talk but she still hangs out with me
As a senior in highschool and can relate to in this in many aspects. I had always been that quiet person, not many want to acknowledge . I always found weakness itself as an escape from what is vital. Not many are aware of this as the issue they add in their own way into instead of stepping away from the quiet person. Always asking nonsensical questions like” Are you okay? ” ” What’s the matter?" Or ” What’s Wrong?” I find these questions unaccepting and kinda annoying. I can confirm this seeing I am the person who showed less emotion in classes and is rather secretive about her thoughts. But , ultimately must learn how to understand and adapt towards those types of people. Introverts are mostly misunderstood by the silent voice they keep inside. We are all special in our ways and unique with talents . Don’t let those people underestimate you for being yourself. You can overcome any upcoming challenge, by thinking you can . That’s all I gotta say.
warrior unknown then enjoy the good things of childhood that you still like: like coloring, playing jacks, logos, puzzles...whatever is good and will not hurt your present or future. "Live"!
I'm the same way because I'm a quiet individual who keeps to himself. I have one or two friends that I associate with. I'm always alone which is a good thing because it gives me the opportunity to find myself. #Introvertsareawesome
You'd be surprised by how much you can learn about from someone's first impression. Being quiet is not about being unwilling to talk or act out. Even quiet people express themselves passionately where they can feel comfortable. The real challenge is when others try to listen, but they keep "eating your words" if a quiet person does get to stand out for a moment. Some of you may know that struggle. Sometimes it's just fun watch it happen.
I'm quiet but I can converse with people in social situations unless a person makes me feel awkward, it can be a vibe, a comment or an action that triggers it, i don't know if I just have good instincts or not...x
For me I think I slowly became more mature and shy from middle school because of everything that has happened to me. Since I’ve had bad relationships with friends, it’s affected the way I interact with other people because I don’t want to get into more fights. I’m generally really kind but sensitive, and I tend to overthink things and observe my surroundings more than I take part in them. I can get trapped in my head, and I’ve noticed how mature I am compared to everyone else. It makes me sad that I can’t join in without feeling a little uncomfortable. I wish I acted more immature because people have said I’m too nice and good and quiet...basically too boring
Guys,you don't have to change yourself ,and ingore them and be who you are ,if they want to be friends with you they will,so be confident about who you are.
Don't feel too bad! Sadly there are hateful people everywhere. If it helps, I don't hate you :) don't hesitate to reach out to me if you need someone to talk to! :)
Yesterday, I was starting to get really upset about only having two friends: One that texts her other friends when she stays the night 😞 and another who’s friends with literally everyone. I have horses, and without tons of friends bothering me all the time I can finally get better at riding. Animals are the best friend that you can have. I don’t have friends because I’m just quiet and don’t really know how to start talking to someone. The reason I’m their friend is because they started talking to me. I will have to work on it, but for now, I’m not going to worry about it. 😊
I've probably been like you. The more I have been quiet the more I started to realize, how I don't like people, and yeah I don't have lots of friends. Though, at first it was because I was shy, but that all changed
well i'm not that quiet of a person, like i get invited to parties (like to two or three)and its cause i'm the smartest at class, but i have fun, dance play, on the otherhand i dont talk alot like people think i'm irritated by them, when i just dont talk alot, people at class ask why i'm always quiet, but when they get to know me, they see how i really am, some people would like my real me, and some wont
I used to be quiet cause I couldn’t really think of anything to talk about but being put in a leadship position I started to speak more and the people i was around really rubbed off because most of them were decently social.
I’m quiet because I’m atheist and I’m stuck with my Saudi Muslim society. So i feel you. It is because of how much i hate them. Also I believe that it has to do with the fact that i was abused by my father as a child physically and still abused verbally by him. He drags my self esteem down all the time and that made me grow up shy...
I don’t even talk to my cousins anymore , cuz I say something and then I either get ignored or one of them makes fun of me , I’m depressed I use to talk to them a lot and laugh but now I’m just quite
i've been quiet all the time at my class. the only person that i talked to is my teacher and the person infront of me . i agree with yiu , because i hate everyone . and im not really that talkative type of guy , i dont really talk to someone in my class because what else will you guys talk about . but if im with my closest friends. i feel more comfortable .
not liking people isnt a reason to be quiet. you can even use it as a reason to act how you are when you are on your own, saying to yourself "i dont like these people anyway, so why should i act differently around them!"
I can relate to you so much. I have like very few friends and these friends talk to more people than me. For a while I thought its ok to be quiet. but then whenever I start talking to my friend, another person comes along and starts talking to my friend and thn im kinda left alone.
I don’t talk much because I don’t have anything to talk about my mind is just blank if somebody was talking to me in a conversation I wouldn’t be able to answer them back the only thing I would be able to do is say yeah and shake my head and stuff and agree with what they’re saying but I don’t have any feedback for what they’re talking about and even if I had a conversation to Talk about I wouldn’t be able to explain it well enough and I would mess up my words and they wouldn’t know what I’m talking about because I would confuse them all I do is watch TV that’s the only thing I have to Talk about and I wouldn’t be able to explain anything that I watch to someone because I have a bad memory and I only remember bits and pieces and when I try to explain it comes out messed up and they end up confused
Ohmahgod social events one.......i was invited to a birthday party and towards the end everyone went outside to take insta pics. I literally secertly stayed inside becuz im so frikin shy. When everyone came back inside they were like "oooooh you didnt come out with us??" To make matters worse i forgot to bring a birthday gift...
Most my school thinks I’m mute because I don’t talk and just keep to myself a lot. Every time I would say something everyone would be so shocked and even my teachers well get shocked. I also have anxiety and depression so I just don’t do much but sit in class and do my work.
you're not weird and bad you have a point and justice i know how it feels being around with people makes me not relieve myself talk about myself because i lost many times...and survived i only have 1 friend in class too hes quiet aswell whenever people would harrass me i didnt used to stand up for myself but now i do...because its unfair..i literly say nothing and be nice...its the people not us you have to know that extroverted people
People think I'm shy, I'm not... I enjoy listening to my imagination because usually it runs wild. Also, I'm tired of getting in trouble for other people's drama! I simply can't trust anyone in school, I'm completely uninterested now. I never really had friends before, now I have none and it feels great.
I remember when someone asked me why I'm so quiet.. then I reply because I just don't want to talk.. I never regret to reply in that such way.. There are a lot of positive questions, why need to ask that question.. It totally not helps..
My actions speak louder than my words. I just stay cool. I talk when I wanna talk especially about something interesting and fascinating. But if I don't wanna talk, don't push me hard. The time wasted in talking nonsense for me is time I would like to use learning or reading something that will help me a lot. Most of the time am best being on my own and just talking to my self and communicating with God.
I'm so shy that I'm afraid to ask for food from my parents because I think they'll think I'm weird or I'll say something wrong. Always when I speak my heart starts racing. And it's so lame when people ask me to talk louder it makes me uncomfortable
Im watching this to see how people who are the complete opposite of me live. My mom would rejoice if i were quieter. Im surprised parents complain. I wish I could be more calm and quiet.
I'm a quiet person mostly because I have no idea what people are talking about. I don't listen to today's "songs" (they're loud music and random words) or keep up with any trends and celebrities. I'm more of an observer and secretly listen to everyone's conversations.
You really reminds me when I'm with my friends(I don't have lot) I feel confident but when I'm with strangers I can't open my mouth that's really sucks but you know what my parents always told me something they said don't pretend someone that you don't thank you for uploading this video I was thinking that I'm the only one quite in this world!
My reason is that..I cant strt a conversation..nor can end it...and I cant explain.anything ..my mind just gets blank everytime.so,i usually stay quite..and..listen other talking....its not that I dont like to..talk..cuz i cant. Due.to. these problem...thats all
I wanna be a quite person. I actually like quite people, because quiteness is the ocean of knowledge. i like to talk quite people. I am always the conversation starter between my friends. i don't know why i can't keep quite. i am a talkative person and i can bring smile easily on the face of every person i meet. i can surely bet that i can make quite people to talk not only talk, even start a conversation.
Socializing with others is like watching TH-cam videos if you see a video of a topic that A. You dislike. B. You know nothing about. C. Just don't care. then you don't have to watch it!
I’m really quiet naturally and for the same reasons as most people in the comments. I’ve tried to be outgoing in the past but my friends who know me say I just come off as fake. And it’s true I just can’t be outgoing. I don’t understand how people can just talk about pointless things. I do wish I could have lots of friends but I guess it’s just not me. I just don’t see a point in developing friendships with people who I have nothing in common with. I try to make friends with people but the conservation goes nowhere and it just feels so pointless to be friends with someone for the sake of being friends. Does that make sense?
I don't really like people either..you're reserved and observant... those are seen as "bad" traits.. you also come off or get asked if you're stuck up, right?did people joke about you shooting up the school??because those were the common things that I heard and was asked... being an introvert in an ignorant society is what makes it worse..
I'm a pretty shy person to and I hate the world. I have a ton of friends but they really don't talk to me. I have 1 friend that I talk to. But I'm used to talking to him but not anyone else. I'll be more social if you get me out of the quite zone.
I'm quite but not because i hate people, but i think sometimes i don't say anything because i think the words i say sometimes are to rude or are to directly.
Well I've seen many people sayi g their reason of being quiet so I am just going to say mine!There are actually 2 reasons why I am shy.First of all when people around are saying things I've never heard or something they did together and I wasn't included,dude what do you want me to say?Secondly when a teacher or someone else talks to me,I am like (in my mind) "Oh my god what should I say now?I am going to say something wrong and everyone will laugh at me!Where is the bell when you need it to ring?Come on why can't I just open my mouth like everyone else?Well of course I can open it BUT NOTHING COMES OUT OF IT!Just chill and keep quiet even if your head and you heart are like going to EXPLODE INTO A MILLION PIECES,saying something wrong its worse than keeping queit" See whats my problem?
Honestly I'm quiet cuz I dont have anything in common with people. Plus these days people are so self absorbed and just talk about themselves. I like being alone lol.
I'm quiet because most of the things people talk about are just stupid and irrelevant to me. I talk when people discuss passionate things that I'm fascinated with, but that rarely happens so I just don't talk.
Musclecore Y what are you fascinated with?
Sssaammmme
Musclecore Y pretty much 100 percent fact
Musclecore Y same with me
Same!
I don't talk because I can't think of anything important to say
+landon davies same
SAME! I just can't be that crazy awesome friend...
Me to people just talking about random stuff that I am not really interested in I just want deep conversations! I hate small talk
***** Jap like how the wheater is ... complaining about things and I also hate to listen to Smalltalk
landon davies same with me
I hate being shy and quiet because everyone leaves me out and teachers always call on me and people always ask me why i don't talk, its soo annoying and everyone is suprised when i talk... anyone relates to me?
Fashionstar990 msp Yes
Ill be your friend i love you
Jim Martinez okay, well just letting you know i'm 11. have a nice day!
+Fashionstar990 msp you are a beautifil person, it was just a compliment . Also being shy is a quality, not a flaw.
Jim Martinez Thankyou :)
I hate when my parents talk to other people about how quiet I am -.-
I feel your pain
ikr i feel like saying u got a life talk about your life not mines
same here!
yass
Exactly like stfu
I'm simply quiet because most people around me act stupid and loud and it jus makes me feel like I have some logic in me.
Tyneesha Bon 💯💯
I have the same situation
People around me are some times are most irritating and stupid
So true
im quiet because im insecure about my own thoughts
but yeah same
It's easier for me to observe people and see who will hurt me and who won't when I'm quiet. I'm not much of a conversation starter so if someone takes the time to talk to me on a day to day basis that means they actually want to get to know the real me.
Kimberlyn McMurray omg literally me too
i hope i can get that kind of friend one day :)
I'm pretty much like you
Classmate: 'Just speak a bit louder'
My mind: I PHYSICALLY CAN'T. SO SHUSH
Me: *nods head and blushes and goes away to cry*
it’s maia not miai I'm quiet like that but I always purposely scream in class like I force myself to so people actually listen to me and my throats hurts really bad afterward
@Lili Ruby lmfao nooo 😂😂
my mom used to say that quite people are dangerus and look at me got in a fight with some kid he thought that since I'm quite I'm a punk and can't fight butt guess what I broke his nose
Sour Gamma You remind me of forest gump
@Syaoran be a shook boi like Like: lol
The biggest misconception about being shy is that you are snobby and don't want to talk to anyone. I always want to make conversations with people, but I can't do it..I end it up having it played out in my head..
Lol I'm a quiet girl who's in love with a quiet guy, we are slowly (very very very slowly) starting to get to know each other cuz we're both awkward AF. But I hate it when people call him emo and weird bec he's super duper quiet and wears black, and I'm just like WDF, literally EVERYONE wears black. Just cuz he wears a little more black than everyone else doesn't make him emo. If you actually got to now him instead being an asshole you'd see that he's very very kind and likes to play the guitar although he hates his voice, he still likes to preform and open mic night. Because of that I've fallen in love and admire him so much, he might not realize it or may even think no one likes him, but I'm always going to root for him. I don't give a damn if he's gay straight or bi, I love him and that's final......
Whoa, got off track, but anyway just know quiet people have feelings and a story to them so don't just assume there's something wrong. Stop trying to find all the wrong things and pay attention to the right things '~'
I've always been a quiet person, as well as an introvert. The reasons I am quiet are:
1) Most people want small talk, which I'm not good at and which doesn't feel honest to me.
2) I happen to have a quiet voice, and there are a lot of times when people don't hear me when I do talk. Like, they don't even notice that I said something. If I need to, sometimes, I'll repeat myself, but other times, I just don't want to bother.
3) My energy level - while I do like people (but not the general public), interacting with people can be very draining for me energetically. And sometimes talking to people is also draining. It's especially draining some days to think up what you're going to say, say it, and then have to repeat it.
4) There are some things - my passions - that I could talk for hours about. But most people don't want to hear me go on about my passions. People act weird when you are passionate about something.
5) Most people do not care about me, and don't care what I have to say.
6) My voice itself is just naturally quiet. Even when I feel I'm raising it, it's still quiet.
it's weird for me because I agree with what you said except I have a loud voice and am a ambivert so I confuse people alot at times
RedFeather FalconHawk but it's really hard to know most people. We can go in other areas, especially where we have interests, or not. Do some to be remembered and do something that helps others. You will feel real good inside because someone else who genuinely appreciated you did.
can we build an organization of the loners? I also is a quiet person like you.
I'll join I never speak
+A.J. Angelico Velasco I volunteer, only speak when I need to :D
+MrTropicHD I got social anxiety and mild autism maybe... I have 0 conversation in school per month...
... That means I'm in
count me in
People suck but introverts are awesome!!!! HA HA loved this!!!
+AmericanWoman1964 Hahah I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thank you so much for watching!
+callmequeenvi you have a personality, that is admired by intelligent minds .
Finally I'm not the only one who is so quiet
Right? Not many people get is quiet people lol
you stole my words
im rlly quiet :/
When my reports say something like "she's so quiet", it's like tell me something I don't already know -.-
Same..
SquishyPanda19 same here
Too true...
"Why are you so quiet?"
"Oh my gosh why are you so shy?"
"Do you talk?"
"Are you deaf?"
I've gotten these ;-;
I'm loving this comment section. they are explaining that are related to me.
that I try to explain.
+JakeyStar 2014 so am I! I'm really glad you could relate. It's nice to find more quiet people like me lol. Thanks for taking the time to watch! :)
+callmequeenvi
ur welcome and it was worth watching too.
+callmequeenvi. like balls
I'm studying top cure for shyness and found a fantastic website at Seans Shy Program (look it up on google)
really dude u have no idea how I have been treated cause I'm quite
To be quiet is powerful
Im always the quiet one in school
There's nothing wrong to be quiet and TH-cam have make me have confidence somehow
Been quiet is actually the best thing in the world :D not having to put up with nonsense and stupid conversations yay!
true
Celeste Krizzes quiet people can be trusted exspecially with a secret
I always been the quiet ones at school because 1: i suffer from depression which causes me to be alone and to be antisocial. 2: im shy to new people. (im 21 btw) Ever since i moved to a new middle school ( i was 6th grade) i became shy to everyone so everyone just completely ignored me till i move on to high school.I still didn't have any friends till like my senior year. People started to see who i am and i was like surprised and don't care at the same time.So now im in college taking art classes and designs so i can be a video game designer in the future. Today, 10 minutes before the class starts, my classmates were talking, laughing, and having a great time until i walked in a some of them looked up at me like they seen a ghost. I was like in my head ( why are you guys staring at me?) So I walked in and sat in the back in the class putting my head down in shame. I was shy so i stay silent. When the teacher walked in the do role call , when she called my name she looked at me and say "you looked lonely back there.Are you ok?" I show one of those fake smiles like when people pulled to get things slide. Then when we did are art work in class she come over to my table saying " go around and talked to people" i didn't try to talk to no one, so i choose to work alone. When it was time to do critique, meaning it was time to present our project to anyone can see and tell their opinions on how well they did or needs to be improved. Our instructor want all of us to come in a group to discuss while i stay at my table because of my damn shyness. When it comes to my work, i said my work is garbage to be honest ( it's not bad at all, i was just saying that to see what they will say ) 4 different people saying " it's not bad, i seen things worst than this but it's not bad, i like it ( i think she was lying just to make me feel good lol) it's okay i guess". When it was time to go, everyone left and i was still trying to get things finished. My instructor tell me, "your really quiet and shy. You should try not be shy because everyone will walk all over you. You being shy effect you being less confident about yourself. Try putting a smile on so people might talk to you." i said ok i will try. Well i still feel depressed,shy and low self esteem. I don't have confidence and there's no such thing as confidence. Without any friends i can't survive in college alone.
don't worry about what other people think. just go, get your education, and do what you love! you'll meet people that you'll get along with and share the same interests with soon enough! :)
MetalSonicGamerX200 Matthew 1.23 • Deuteronomy 32.8 (Holy Bible, KJV Proverbs • Ecclesiastes • Psalms talks about what's in the head and heart of people. John...
If we lived near each other I would want to definitely earn ur friendship.
I totally understand you. I am in college now. Maybe you are not anymore since you wrote this comment 3 years ago. It my 2nd year, I'm following my bachelor's degree. Last year, I made one friend, a girl like me. Well, I kinda knew I was going to be friend with her because she's black like me and I knew we could relate (I used to be the only black people in since my 6th grade, but I've always had friend fortunately) I am not the kind of person who choose friends based on skin color don't worry, its just that I knew we could understand each other on certain points. But my friend live in Paris I live in a city 4 hours from the capital. She decided to go back to Paris because she didn't like our college. So now I am alone. Everybody has their little squad. I can hear them talking about going to this event, this concert. Doing that thing on the weekend while i be staying at home. I feel like I didn't have a "normal" life. I mean a student life. I thought when I will be in college I will find my ssquad I will have a boyfriend, I will do what student do. I thought I would be happy, because I would have only my friends and life in front of me. Instead of that, I am scared when teachers say "lets do 7 groups of 4" because I don't where I will be. I just leave the class early to avoid everybody, I try to not be see alone. I am desperate because I feel like I need to have at least somebodY can talk too...I don't know how I will be doing, I am not sure I will be good, idk ... I forgot to mention that I have always been shy and quiet. Since high school I found that I was introverted as well. I don't think I am sociable. I understand you. There this girl who has been alone since last year, I've always wanted to talk to her cause I felt like we could get along and be friends, but we didn't have a lot of course together, and plus she always seemed angry (just like me, everybody assumes that I am always angry, I think I have bitchy resting face)now that I have common lectures with her, I try to speak to her, I think she's shy and maybe quiet, but also I feel like she might not want to be friend with me idk... maybe because in my head we already friends...I'm just trying but now I'm sick of it
the reason why I am quiet i hate to talk to stangers and I hate talking also i am NOT comfortable
Exactly with me bro
And I love having friends but I can't, due to my personality of being so quiet which makes people to stay far from me.
I can only manage to associate with people am so close to.
I love your video I'm also quiet like u.I'm proud of the quiet and introverted person that I am.You don't have to pretend to be something you're not.It's okay I see us as being very strong and bold because we can have people say the ugliest things to us and yet we still manage to control ourselves.I love your video by the way.
I've been that way most of my life. As I have gotten older I've become different. I don't have fear like I use to. I talk a lot. One thing I suggest is to find things to do. Draw, write your feelings or anything, study science and religion, buy project kits and finish them. Study the world, the galaxy as well, this will help you accomplish things witch will release feel good chemicals in the brain and will also give you knowledge. You have all the time on your hands to become better than those that do more talking and less studying. It's a fact that the quiet ones that take advantage of their time are the ones that help change the world. You will also have so much to talk about, and ppl will listen to knowledge.
Haha this is so me. It could be that I don't have anything to talk about or I have social anxiety or something. I am normal around my 2-3 closest friends or people that I know? but soon as It comes to strangers I am quiet. I like being a quiet person most of the time but sometimes it sucks. I just listen to music most of the day and I think music is what keeps me going.
***** I know exactly how you feel!! Your comment is me 100% lol. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch I'm glad you could relate haha :)
Man you steal my words that's what I am the part with the music is really what's make me keep on going good to know that I'm not the only one
are you me
same here
Not the only one.
I stay quiet cause no one cares what I have to say
rachel183321 don't worry bae I do
Same. What's the point?
Nothing here... off to the next comment 😁
@@charleswallace1123 same. One time I said something at a wrong time then one of my friends told me, "Shut up Janelle" but it isn't a big deal.
And me because everytime i talk someone just talks before i even get to finish what i was saying
I'm just not friendly and if it's a pointless boring conversation I usually tune it out on accident
Asking an introvert why they're so quiet is like asking an extrovert why they never shut up
Being a quiet person and trying to get into youtube... The struggle is real haha but worth it!
this is so like me i am very quiet and only have a few friends i don't really trust anyone and people just hate me and bully me for no reason that why i started to build up hate but i kept it deep down inside of me and never show it and sometimes i feel like am very unstable and have a split personality
same here. stay true to yourself. don't change who you're for nobody. god created everyone differently.
Royal Boss write your feelings out if you like to write, and you will see that the focus is not on them but should be on you, about how you can contribute to people and their situations to make them better, and, in process of time, in your heart you will feel very good.
Love God. Love yourself and all others. Hatred breeds poison, arthritis and many other symptoms in the body.
The body is made up of mind, soul and spirit, and all three need to be in harmony, or at least this is a path to pursue.
There are ways to be kind to people, like writing letters to people at A21 who have been taken out of brothels, spirit spring a child with Children's international, and more.
Don't give people power over your life. Don't give unclean spirits, or spirits that influence people over your life.
(John 3 • 2 Corinthians 5.21...Proverbs • Ecclesiastes...Psalms is a good book to read, and is a book that reads the heart. These, for me are found in the Holy Bible, KJV)
Live!
Most other people are.
Let bitterness go! It's not a pretty look on or in us.
Take care of yourself, meaning too...deal with what is important, and the number one person, after God, is you!
Certain people make me feel offended when they say I'm quiet, as if implying I'm sneaky... LOL
i'm also a quiet person because for me the more the talk, the more the mistake.
i totally see where you're coming from. sometimes it's just easier staying quiet :p thanks for watching!!
callmequeenvi “To avoid criticism say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.”
― Aristotle :)
Gotta keep on growing, and experience is the teacher.
The more people talk more bull shit they come out with
I hate it when people call me shy. When I think of the word shy I think of it as an insult. It makes it seems like i'm only enclosed to myself and not open to other people, making me sound lame, boring, and having no personality at all. AHEM, it's fine to not talk. I'm always open to meeting new people, I don't talk on occasion because THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT, or I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TO. Shy is like being afraid of people. I just hate it so much, then it becomes a label, and everyone starts pointing you out as the shy girl in class. smh
omg i thought i was alone i feel so relieved
Your funny! I was an extremely quiet girl but mostly because I was shy, not because I hated people. Just preferred to observe not participate. It wasn't until I got into my early thirties that I became a happy, funny, loving person. I love people! But still love my alone time in my room. Got to have that. I'm 60 now :) People say I don't look my age. Changing I believe is why. The real me evolved.
This is the first video I've watched from your channel and I've got to say you pretty much summarized my entire life. You remind me of my little sis.
theres not much vid on quiet people sometimes wonder why im like that... thats how i got here thanks for explaining.
same here
I'm quite and don't have a lot of friends and my best friend is like a popular girl and I'm always happy when she hangs out with me because I'm quite and don't really talk but she still hangs out with me
This is so me... I'm seriously quiet in school
I'm glad I'm not the only one. Thank you so much for watching!!
callmequeenvi yeah anytime
Omg I remember commenting this
As a senior in highschool and can relate to in this in many aspects. I had always been that quiet person, not many want to acknowledge . I always found weakness itself as an escape from what is vital. Not many are aware of this as the issue they add in their own way into instead of stepping away from the quiet person. Always asking nonsensical questions like” Are you okay? ” ” What’s the matter?" Or ” What’s Wrong?” I find these questions unaccepting and kinda annoying. I can confirm this seeing I am the person who showed less emotion in classes and is rather secretive about her thoughts. But , ultimately must learn how to understand and adapt towards those types of people. Introverts are mostly misunderstood by the silent voice they keep inside. We are all special in our ways and unique with talents . Don’t let those people underestimate you for being yourself.
You can overcome any upcoming challenge, by thinking you can .
That’s all I gotta say.
I love being quiet😄 Like a bird in the mist seeing everything and hearing everything collecting all the tea🐸
I regert being a quiet and afraid . I just feel i missed out my childhood
warrior unknown then enjoy the good things of childhood that you still like: like coloring, playing jacks, logos, puzzles...whatever is good and will not hurt your present or future.
"Live"!
I'm quiet because I don't want to waste my breath on people's bullsht
I'm the same way because I'm a quiet individual who keeps to himself. I have one or two friends that I associate with. I'm always alone which is a good thing because it gives me the opportunity to find myself. #Introvertsareawesome
You'd be surprised by how much you can learn about from someone's first impression.
Being quiet is not about being unwilling to talk or act out. Even quiet people express themselves passionately where they can feel comfortable. The real challenge is when others try to listen, but they keep "eating your words" if a quiet person does get to stand out for a moment.
Some of you may know that struggle. Sometimes it's just fun watch it happen.
I'm quiet but I can converse with people in social situations unless a person makes me feel awkward, it can be a vibe, a comment or an action that triggers it, i don't know if I just have good instincts or not...x
For me I think I slowly became more mature and shy from middle school because of everything that has happened to me. Since I’ve had bad relationships with friends, it’s affected the way I interact with other people because I don’t want to get into more fights. I’m generally really kind but sensitive, and I tend to overthink things and observe my surroundings more than I take part in them. I can get trapped in my head, and I’ve noticed how mature I am compared to everyone else. It makes me sad that I can’t join in without feeling a little uncomfortable. I wish I acted more immature because people have said I’m too nice and good and quiet...basically too boring
Guys,you don't have to change yourself ,and ingore them and be who you are ,if they want to be friends with you they will,so be confident about who you are.
Same but i dont hate everyone...they hate me......so i just stay silent.i only talk to my friends and i do sit alone at the corner the room
Don't feel too bad! Sadly there are hateful people everywhere. If it helps, I don't hate you :) don't hesitate to reach out to me if you need someone to talk to! :)
Yesterday, I was starting to get really upset about only having two friends: One that texts her other friends when she stays the night 😞 and another who’s friends with literally everyone. I have horses, and without tons of friends bothering me all the time I can finally get better at riding. Animals are the best friend that you can have. I don’t have friends because I’m just quiet and don’t really know how to start talking to someone. The reason I’m their friend is because they started talking to me. I will have to work on it, but for now, I’m not going to worry about it. 😊
my room is my life
I've probably been like you. The more I have been quiet the more I started to realize, how I don't like people, and yeah I don't have lots of friends. Though, at first it was because I was shy, but that all changed
dominant side privilege. we are in the world full of extroverts. it's common to ask "why are you quiet" but it's not when it's "why are you loud"
well i'm not that quiet of a person, like i get invited to parties (like to two or three)and its cause i'm the smartest at class, but i have fun, dance play, on the otherhand i dont talk alot like people think i'm irritated by them, when i just dont talk alot, people at class ask why i'm always quiet, but when they get to know me, they see how i really am, some people would like my real me, and some wont
I used to be quiet cause I couldn’t really think of anything to talk about but being put in a leadship position I started to speak more and the people i was around really rubbed off because most of them were decently social.
I’m quiet because I’m atheist and I’m stuck with my Saudi Muslim society. So i feel you. It is because of how much i hate them. Also I believe that it has to do with the fact that i was abused by my father as a child physically and still abused verbally by him. He drags my self esteem down all the time and that made me grow up shy...
I don’t even talk to my cousins anymore , cuz I say something and then I either get ignored or one of them makes fun of me , I’m depressed I use to talk to them a lot and laugh but now I’m just quite
I'm a very shy person and till today I have never talked with any girls
i've been quiet all the time at my class. the only person that i talked to is my teacher and the person infront of me . i agree with yiu , because i hate everyone . and im not really that talkative type of guy , i dont really talk to someone in my class because what else will you guys talk about . but if im with my closest friends. i feel more comfortable .
not liking people isnt a reason to be quiet. you can even use it as a reason to act how you are when you are on your own, saying to yourself "i dont like these people anyway, so why should i act differently around them!"
I can relate to you so much. I have like very few friends and these friends talk to more people than me. For a while I thought its ok to be quiet. but then whenever I start talking to my friend, another person comes along and starts talking to my friend and thn im kinda left alone.
I don’t talk much because I don’t have anything to talk about my mind is just blank if somebody was talking to me in a conversation I wouldn’t be able to answer them back the only thing I would be able to do is say yeah and shake my head and stuff and agree with what they’re saying but I don’t have any feedback for what they’re talking about and even if I had a conversation to Talk about I wouldn’t be able to explain it well enough and I would mess up my words and they wouldn’t know what I’m talking about because I would confuse them all I do is watch TV that’s the only thing I have to Talk about and I wouldn’t be able to explain anything that I watch to someone because I have a bad memory and I only remember bits and pieces and when I try to explain it comes out messed up and they end up confused
Ohmahgod social events one.......i was invited to a birthday party and towards the end everyone went outside to take insta pics. I literally secertly stayed inside becuz im so frikin shy. When everyone came back inside they were like "oooooh you didnt come out with us??"
To make matters worse i forgot to bring a birthday gift...
Who's here in 2017 🙋🙋🙋
"Im so quiet in school because "normal people scare me"
you are not weird.... there are many people how are like you in this world...
you are sweet....stay with confidence and keep smiling☺
You're so authentic. I love it, subscribed!
Most my school thinks I’m mute because I don’t talk and just keep to myself a lot. Every time I would say something everyone would be so shocked and even my teachers well get shocked. I also have anxiety and depression so I just don’t do much but sit in class and do my work.
you're not weird and bad you have a point and justice i know how it feels being around with people makes me not relieve myself talk about myself because i lost many times...and survived i only have 1 friend in class too hes quiet aswell whenever people would harrass me i didnt used to stand up for myself but now i do...because its unfair..i literly say nothing and be nice...its the people not us you have to know that extroverted people
People think I'm shy, I'm not... I enjoy listening to my imagination because usually it runs wild. Also, I'm tired of getting in trouble for other people's drama! I simply can't trust anyone in school, I'm completely uninterested now. I never really had friends before, now I have none and it feels great.
I remember when someone asked me why I'm so quiet.. then I reply because I just don't want to talk.. I never regret to reply in that such way.. There are a lot of positive questions, why need to ask that question.. It totally not helps..
My actions speak louder than my words. I just stay cool. I talk when I wanna talk especially about something interesting and fascinating. But if I don't wanna talk, don't push me hard. The time wasted in talking nonsense for me is time I would like to use learning or reading something that will help me a lot. Most of the time am best being on my own and just talking to my self and communicating with God.
being quiet is due to a wisdom you acquire that most people are fake, have a sense of self importance and mentally unstable
I'm so shy that I'm afraid to ask for food from my parents because I think they'll think I'm weird or I'll say something wrong. Always when I speak my heart starts racing. And it's so lame when people ask me to talk louder it makes me uncomfortable
I'm quiet because i don't really have anything to talk about. And sometimes when i talk about something it turns into a some kind of a fight…
Im watching this to see how people who are the complete opposite of me live. My mom would rejoice if i were quieter. Im surprised parents complain. I wish I could be more calm and quiet.
+HiChris10
shut up and stay quiet
I'm a quiet person mostly because I have no idea what people are talking about. I don't listen to today's "songs" (they're loud music and random words) or keep up with any trends and celebrities. I'm more of an observer and secretly listen to everyone's conversations.
You really reminds me when I'm with my friends(I don't have lot) I feel confident but when I'm with strangers I can't open my mouth that's really sucks but you know what my parents always told me something they said don't pretend someone that you don't thank you for uploading this video I was thinking that I'm the only one quite in this world!
My reason is that..I cant strt a conversation..nor can end it...and I cant explain.anything ..my mind just gets blank everytime.so,i usually stay quite..and..listen other talking....its not that I dont like to..talk..cuz i cant. Due.to. these problem...thats all
I wanna be a quite person. I actually like quite people, because quiteness is the ocean of knowledge. i like to talk quite people. I am always the conversation starter between my friends. i don't know why i can't keep quite. i am a talkative person and i can bring smile easily on the face of every person i meet. i can surely bet that i can make quite people to talk not only talk, even start a conversation.
im a quiet person but when it comes to business presentations or presenting in front of a class im not shy at all...... i just kill it.
😂I am quiet until 'Snoopy' walks by.... Then I am just a statue.
I can relate to this alot.i dont have things to say because its not easy to finde something to talk about.
I love every thing you said about yourself , I thought I'm the only one like that
Socializing with others is like watching TH-cam videos
if you see a video of a topic that
A. You dislike.
B. You know nothing about.
C. Just don't care.
then you don't have to watch it!
neck no nothing. im quite cuz im lazy
for some reason, I was jamming to the background music and I don't even know the name of it
I’m really quiet naturally and for the same reasons as most people in the comments. I’ve tried to be outgoing in the past but my friends who know me say I just come off as fake. And it’s true I just can’t be outgoing. I don’t understand how people can just talk about pointless things. I do wish I could have lots of friends but I guess it’s just not me. I just don’t see a point in developing friendships with people who I have nothing in common with. I try to make friends with people but the conservation goes nowhere and it just feels so pointless to be friends with someone for the sake of being friends. Does that make sense?
But unfortunately people have labeled me as boring and personality-less because of this trait
When ever I start taking people give me the side eye
Omg like I understand your pain because I am the same way
I don't really like people either..you're reserved and observant... those are seen as "bad" traits.. you also come off or get asked if you're stuck up, right?did people joke about you shooting up the school??because those were the common things that I heard and was asked... being an introvert in an ignorant society is what makes it worse..
where is that nusic thing I'm your intro from cause I swear I've heard it somewhere before
I'm a pretty shy person to and I hate the world. I have a ton of friends but they really don't talk to me. I have 1 friend that I talk to. But I'm used to talking to him but not anyone else. I'll be more social if you get me out of the quite zone.
I'm quite but not because i hate people, but i think sometimes i don't say anything because i think the words i say sometimes are to rude or are to directly.
I'm quiet and shy
Well I've seen many people sayi g their reason of being quiet so I am just going to say mine!There are actually 2 reasons why I am shy.First of all when people around are saying things I've never heard or something they did together and I wasn't included,dude what do you want me to say?Secondly when a teacher or someone else talks to me,I am like (in my mind) "Oh my god what should I say now?I am going to say something wrong and everyone will laugh at me!Where is the bell when you need it to ring?Come on why can't I just open my mouth like everyone else?Well of course I can open it BUT NOTHING COMES OUT OF IT!Just chill and keep quiet even if your head and you heart are like going to EXPLODE INTO A MILLION PIECES,saying something wrong its worse than keeping queit" See whats my problem?
I'm so quiet that my existence is unknown to some of my peers
Honestly I'm quiet cuz I dont have anything in common with people. Plus these days people are so self absorbed and just talk about themselves. I like being alone lol.
Im quiet in school but not at stores or anywhere else only school
I absolutely understand Vianna. More Respect Blessings and Love to You for being so Real👊😎👊 Have a great one Ms. Garcia!!!! God Bless