PREACH!! Girl, that’s right! Too many of us become dependent on wigs and buy the lie that we are not beautiful without a wig or some weave!! I agree! ❤️ Thank you for sharing!!!
Anyone remember the mid 1960'- mid 1970's where both African American blacks both men and women had afro's? Very natural and very pretty. But by the 1980's wigs and weaves were popular and that liquid gel for curls was also popular. And nothing wrong with wearing wigs or have a weave once in a while but natural is the way to go, just fix it to your style.
When u said “ I didn’t even know we had to deep condition our own hair” !!! U spoke volume with that one. I swear I felt like I was taking care of my wig more than my own hair. I’m tired of it !
I used to wear wigs all the time I stopped wearing wigs in 2016 when I started to embrace my natural hair and I don't feel ashamed anymore to show my natural hair
How so? I am absolutely in love with my natural hair and thank God for giving me such beautiful locks everyday, but I wear wigs often just so I can switch up my style. My natural hair is DEFINITELY good enough. Wearing wigs mean nothing.
Melissa Anthony ......WW and non-blk women ALSO wear wigs and extensions. The difference, the texture/color of the fake hair matches their natural hair texture and dye job. Get ur head out of ur ass.
@@melissaanthony2028 Always comparing and wondering about what the white woman does, that’s y’all problem 😂 Too just trying no to be like them to point wear you can’t even do what you wanna do
I don't understand My real hair looks like your crotchet but mine is longer. Just because u replace wigs doesnt mean anything when you're still using. Fake hair. If the point u are trying to make is dont wear fake hair then u need to include all aspects of fake hair. Wearing braids, crochet, sew ins too long or too often can damage anyone's hair. Proper install and proper care is the key. When i pull my hair down. I'm almost waist length. I really dont like the fact that you're trying to convince others to do what works for u. U do what works for you. Stop discouraging people from something that may be working for them.
she was talking to girls with scalp issues. I agree with her. If you have scalp issues you should be wearing styles that allow you to wash and care for your scalp weekly. A glued down lacefront wig is a recipe for disaster if you plan on leaving it on for months on end. ..
@@disneytoysr4fun975 thats fine if u agree with her. I still dont agree with her. Her message doesnt apply to her considering u cant preach all this natural guru nonsense but still wearing weaves and makeup etc like anyone else. Also anyone can develop scalp issues from improperly wearing wigs etc.
Same sis. She chose to neglect her hair and is trying to discourage others because of her own actions. My hair is bsl. And grew this long from shoulder length under wigs. She's saying don't wear wigs but has in synthetic braiding hair tied in over cornrows. Contradictions. What's the difference?
This video should get a million views. 😊➿ Well done. The kind of hair videos I love to watch. It's about time we stopped allowing the media to dictate to us and let us focus on what God gave us. Your scalp is alive and connected to your brain. You can't cover up your scalp and not expect repercussions. Dedicate your energies and money to NATURE. You will see a whole lot difference in your overall health. HEALTH 1ST always. You can't cheat nature. All the best Hun. 😘
Yes, this is one aspect of it. Women who have access to wigs, weaves, implants, make up, shape wear etc have already pronounced that their natural beauty is not of natural beauty. Your natural beauty is how God sees you and how you feel about yourself. Blame social media, TV, videos, negative influences or whomever you want to blame if any. At the end of the day, when you take those things off, do you love and accept yourself? God does.
Inspiring story thank you so much this is a sign I need to stop too im experiencing the same im just glad to know I don't have to feel like this ab my hair
everything you said in this video was spot on. The part about taking better care of the wig than you care for you real hair and wigs becoming a burden really hit home
Wearing wigs is just like putting on makeup. If you don’t take care of your skin, your skin becomes problematic. What’s the difference between crochet, wigs, and weave? It’s all NOT your hair. I would appreciate the message more if it was geared toward taking care of ones natural hair than to disparage the use of wigs. Sounds like your issue with wigs runs way deeper than wigs. And 90% of black women do not wear wigs every day. And of the women who do, many take care of their hair. Protective styling is ONE reason. Others see wigs as an accessory just like jewelry. Just like you take time with your makeup, women do the same with wigs. This message is a problem. It’s judgmental, hypocritical and is drowning in self hate. 🤦🏽♀️ Side note: length does not equal beauty. Smh
The 90% idea of women not wearing wigs is a misrepresentation honestly. I say that because ever where I go at least more than half of the population of black women are wearing wigs or some form of weave. It amazes me how wigs became such a popular things considering, how wigs was usually for the dead, Hollywood, and prostitutes. Now society has told women that wigs are the thing to do or consider. I personally think wigs are for lazy people.
@@brendajones5895 do you know the work that goes into installing a wig? Those ladies could never be lazy. Trust. I’ll say it again, wigs are an accessory just like everything else you place on your body. You weren’t born with clothes on but you wear them. You weren’t born with fragranced lotions ans deodorant yet you use them. Let people live. It’s their entire prerogative. 90% of black women do NOT wear wigs every day. Maybe 90% of the people you see do. It’s trendy. It’s stylish. It’s expressIon. It’s. Their. Business. Why do people who don’t do care about people who do do? 🤦🏽♀️
Girl stop LYING to yourself. Y’all keep telling people you are wearing wigs for protective styling! Girl you are wearing wigs because you Like the look, length and texture of the other hair compared to your own. You are also wearing wigs because it’s takes a lot of time to care for your own. I’m a black women and I wish you/we would just admit that we like the texture of other races of women’s hair and stop lying and saying you are protecting it. From what. Cause trust and believe if half of y’all’s hair was down your back you’d be wearing yours. And if your hair was that texture you would be wearing yours. Those wigs are hella uncomfortable, they itch, you cannot wash your hair for periods of time. They smell, the lace irritates your forehead, the glue irritates the the forehead, the combs press into your scalp, the wigs wear and tears on your ears and the back of your neck. And you go through all that to say that you are wearing it cause you’re protecting your hair. Girl bye!
Great video, I feel that this is therapy for you and that you are working on yourself while aspiring others. Lead your own path and wear your own natural hair. I realize that maybe you do, but it's counterproductive to suggest to not wear a wig, when you have crochet hair in.
If you decide to not wear wigs just 🛑 stop don't try to get everyone to stop with you i like them and i do wash my hair black women are so self centered some women may have medical reasons they have to wear wigs
So much of what you say I relate to, but I have to tell you, cornrows can look super sexy too! There's a woman I knew who use to rock a simple, short cornrow style (straight back) which would really enhance her pretty face and bone structure. I've also seen some stunning females sporting buzz hair cuts. Length isn't everything, but i appreciate diversity and preference and that short hair isn't for everyone. It's just a refreshing change away from the frequent observation of women wearing wigs of a similar texture and length and looking the same, but that doesn't take away from the fact that wigs have really come up and females are looking fab!! Enjoyed. Thanks for sharing...
Yes recently I stopped wearing wigs and weaves. For one its too hot for that stuff right now lmao and also its sooo expensive, Keeping up with your natural hair is less expensive then buying wigs and weaves. Also most people wear wigs and weaves now a days not many of us are wearing our natural hair. Most people accept me more for my natural hair than me wearing wigs. And Its weird having someones hair on your own head. Its too much our own hair is our identity I just wouldn't want to hide it 🙏🏽
I feel you on that. People act like going natural is more expensive than wearing weave when we all know that ia a load of bull crap. Being natural does require patience, but whoever said that going natural is more expensive is a liar and don't know what they are talking about. Walmart, Amazon, Family Dollar, Target, ect. sells black hair products.
Having long, thick, healthy head of hair most of my life, I had to shave due to illness. I've bought two expensive units that I like, but I haven't wore them yet bc I trying to muster the strength to wear it. Right now, not comfortable exposing my shaved head, so maybe in time, I wear it just like it's another day! Stay safe.
Haven’t wore fake hair in 5 years taking care of my natural hair makes me feel good I installed braidlocs 5 years ago never looked back wigs are a crutch for most blk women
I have trauma from middle school and high school of people making fun of my hair. Texture and length. So until my hair is as long as I want it, I don’t feel comfortable wearing my hair.
Learnt a new word with regards to hair - crochet! I love my wigs - I've got thin, fine hair with lots of crowns, I can do nothing with it, and with fibromyalgia and aging, it's become even worse. I wear my wigs loose, and only when I go out. It's sort of sad, but shop assistants call me susta and not mama when I wear a wig, that's how much they improve my appearance 😉😉 Mine are all Chinese cheapies, one day I'll treat myself to a bespoke , personally fitted one!
I started my locs and my hair was short twa, your wearing other peoples energy with weave wigs etc, ppl are sacrificing there hair and its been sold to mainly black women, my hair is growing nicely now.
I relate to wearing somthing so much and hating it after awhile. it happened to me with braids . I wore them for 5 years straight back to back and i just got up one day and hated braids so much i just cudnt do it anymore
Omg someone said it. Like how are u preaching all this natural nonsense with a full face of cakey makeup as if you look this way without enhancements. Its astonishing. Most would rather see a wig and bare face then weave and full face.
@@THEFINESTINTROVERTS naw, a wig looks unnatural, especially if it has a lacefront. Maybe a half wig or a wig with a bang would be a better example. I'll put it this way. A wig is like wearing a mask and a weave/braids/extensions is like wearing makeup.
crochet or wig I didn't get it. Just wear what makes you feel beautiful and keeps your confidence on 100. Makeup isn't no difference anything to break black women and we just feed into it. too much energy wasted. All cultures use hair extensions, makeup to enhance. When we wore natural hair and figured out how to wear, we were forced to wear rags on our head. We are just beautiful creatures. It's not what we wear, it's to make us question ourselves. The power we stand in is unmatchable.
Isaiah 3:16-24 The LORD says✏️, “The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes, strutting along with swaying hips, with ornaments jingling on their ankles. 17 Therefore the Lord will bring sores and baldness~ We as black people are God's chosen people. This hair curse is spiritual.
You don't know that God doesn't like makeup and your telling people stop wearing wigs. Make it make sense sis. Anyway God likes when you come as you are but its up to those that listen everyone has thier own view point but as for me no more fake hair, makeup, jewellery
Why do you care what someone’s else is putting on their head.. everyone’s reason for wearing fake hair is different.. some don’t have a choice. Just worry about you 🙄🙄🙄
PREACH!! Girl, that’s right! Too many of us become dependent on wigs and buy the lie that we are not beautiful without a wig or some weave!! I agree! ❤️ Thank you for sharing!!!
Foreeeal hunnie amen
Snatch a woman's wig off and watch how fast her self esteem just VANISH AWAY hiding HER HAIR like she got alopecia 💯
Anyone remember the mid 1960'- mid 1970's where both African American blacks both men and women had afro's? Very natural and very pretty. But by the 1980's wigs and weaves were popular and that liquid gel for curls was also popular. And nothing wrong with wearing wigs or have a weave once in a while but natural is the way to go, just fix it to your style.
When u said “ I didn’t even know we had to deep condition our own hair” !!! U spoke volume with that one. I swear I felt like I was taking care of my wig more than my own hair. I’m tired of it !
I used to wear wigs all the time I stopped wearing wigs in 2016 when I started to embrace my natural hair and I don't feel ashamed anymore to show my natural hair
Wigs are asserting that your hair isnt good enough
How so? I am absolutely in love with my natural hair and thank God for giving me such beautiful locks everyday, but I wear wigs often just so I can switch up my style. My natural hair is DEFINITELY good enough. Wearing wigs mean nothing.
Right, like do white woman go around wearing Afro weaves...no because they are proud of their natural hair and so should we
Melissa Anthony ......WW and non-blk women ALSO wear wigs and extensions. The difference, the texture/color of the fake hair matches their natural hair texture and dye job. Get ur head out of ur ass.
@@melissaanthony2028 Always comparing and wondering about what the white woman does, that’s y’all problem 😂 Too just trying no to be like them to point wear you can’t even do what you wanna do
Exactly!
Relatable when you said you felt like it was a hat. That’s how I felt, your video is exactly why I stopped wearing them. You are beautiful ❤️
I don't understand My real hair looks like your crotchet but mine is longer. Just because u replace wigs doesnt mean anything when you're still using. Fake hair. If the point u are trying to make is dont wear fake hair then u need to include all aspects of fake hair. Wearing braids, crochet, sew ins too long or too often can damage anyone's hair. Proper install and proper care is the key. When i pull my hair down. I'm almost waist length. I really dont like the fact that you're trying to convince others to do what works for u. U do what works for you. Stop discouraging people from something that may be working for them.
she was talking to girls with scalp issues. I agree with her. If you have scalp issues you should be wearing styles that allow you to wash and care for your scalp weekly. A glued down lacefront wig is a recipe for disaster if you plan on leaving it on for months on end. ..
@@disneytoysr4fun975 thats fine if u agree with her. I still dont agree with her. Her message doesnt apply to her considering u cant preach all this natural guru nonsense but still wearing weaves and makeup etc like anyone else. Also anyone can develop scalp issues from improperly wearing wigs etc.
Same sis. She chose to neglect her hair and is trying to discourage others because of her own actions. My hair is bsl. And grew this long from shoulder length under wigs. She's saying don't wear wigs but has in synthetic braiding hair tied in over cornrows. Contradictions. What's the difference?
Girl this! I will wear my wigs to protect my real hair. I take excellent care of my real hair, so I'm keeping my wigs
Why you getting upset about not wearing fake hair? This is a disease like crack addiction
This video should get a million views. 😊➿ Well done. The kind of hair videos I love to watch. It's about time we stopped allowing the media to dictate to us and let us focus on what God gave us. Your scalp is alive and connected to your brain. You can't cover up your scalp and not expect repercussions. Dedicate your energies and money to NATURE. You will see a whole lot difference in your overall health. HEALTH 1ST always. You can't cheat nature. All the best Hun. 😘
Yes, this is one aspect of it. Women who have access to wigs, weaves, implants, make up, shape wear etc have already pronounced that their natural beauty is not of natural beauty. Your natural beauty is how God sees you and how you feel about yourself. Blame social media, TV, videos, negative influences or whomever you want to blame if any. At the end of the day, when you take those things off, do you love and accept yourself? God does.
It’s good you realized to take care of your hair. I had this issue as well for a long time until I started to do my own hair
Inspiring story thank you so much this is a sign I need to stop too im experiencing the same im just glad to know I don't have to feel like this ab my hair
This is the one!! I get sick of wearing wigs!
There is an indescribable freedom that comes with caring for and wearing your own hair as it grows out of you head.
everything you said in this video was spot on. The part about taking better care of the wig than you care for you real hair and wigs becoming a burden really hit home
Cornrows to tight at edges pulls your hair out. Any style to tight at edges. To long of extensions on edges, can pull edges.
Wearing wigs is just like putting on makeup. If you don’t take care of your skin, your skin becomes problematic. What’s the difference between crochet, wigs, and weave? It’s all NOT your hair. I would appreciate the message more if it was geared toward taking care of ones natural hair than to disparage the use of wigs. Sounds like your issue with wigs runs way deeper than wigs. And 90% of black women do not wear wigs every day. And of the women who do, many take care of their hair. Protective styling is ONE reason. Others see wigs as an accessory just like jewelry. Just like you take time with your makeup, women do the same with wigs.
This message is a problem. It’s judgmental, hypocritical and is drowning in self hate. 🤦🏽♀️
Side note: length does not equal beauty. Smh
The 90% idea of women not wearing wigs is a misrepresentation honestly. I say that because ever where I go at least more than half of the population of black women are wearing wigs or some form of weave. It amazes me how wigs became such a popular things considering, how wigs was usually for the dead, Hollywood, and prostitutes. Now society has told women that wigs are the thing to do or consider. I personally think wigs are for lazy people.
@@brendajones5895 do you know the work that goes into installing a wig? Those ladies could never be lazy. Trust. I’ll say it again, wigs are an accessory just like everything else you place on your body. You weren’t born with clothes on but you wear them. You weren’t born with fragranced lotions ans deodorant yet you use them. Let people live. It’s their entire prerogative. 90% of black women do NOT wear wigs every day. Maybe 90% of the people you see do. It’s trendy. It’s stylish. It’s expressIon. It’s. Their. Business.
Why do people who don’t do care about people who do do? 🤦🏽♀️
Girl stop LYING to yourself. Y’all keep telling people you are wearing wigs for protective styling! Girl you are wearing wigs because you Like the look, length and texture of the other hair compared to your own. You are also wearing wigs because it’s takes a lot of time to care for your own. I’m a black women and I wish you/we would just admit that we like the texture of other races of women’s hair and stop lying and saying you are protecting it. From what. Cause trust and believe if half of y’all’s hair was down your back you’d be wearing yours. And if your hair was that texture you would be wearing yours. Those wigs are hella uncomfortable, they itch, you cannot wash your hair for periods of time. They smell, the lace irritates your forehead, the glue irritates the the forehead, the combs press into your scalp, the wigs wear and tears on your ears and the back of your neck. And you go through all that to say that you are wearing it cause you’re protecting your hair. Girl bye!
@@sirensongstress1059 wow at least somebody can tell the truth.
@EC - 05BC 805270 Castlebridge PS you don’t owe anybody an explanation about why you do or don’t wear whatever you do or don’t wear.
Great video, I feel that this is therapy for you and that you are working on yourself while aspiring others. Lead your own path and wear your own natural hair. I realize that maybe you do, but it's counterproductive to suggest to not wear a wig, when you have crochet hair in.
If you decide to not wear wigs just 🛑 stop don't try to get everyone to stop with you i like them and i do wash my hair black women are so self centered some women may have medical reasons they have to wear wigs
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You dont have to wear a wig because you have a or several medical conditions. Just say the statment offends YOU.
Oh Chile let it go she not forcing to stop wearing your wigs
So much of what you say I relate to, but I have to tell you, cornrows can look super sexy too! There's a woman I knew who use to rock a simple, short cornrow style (straight back) which would really enhance her pretty face and bone structure. I've also seen some stunning females sporting buzz hair cuts. Length isn't everything, but i appreciate diversity and preference and that short hair isn't for everyone. It's just a refreshing change away from the frequent observation of women wearing wigs of a similar texture and length and looking the same, but that doesn't take away from the fact that wigs have really come up and females are looking fab!! Enjoyed. Thanks for sharing...
Thanks for watching
Why don’t you just wear your own hair natural with no crotchet or braids? Won’t that make it grow?
Yes my hair would grow on it’s own. I wear my hair out often, but when I stretch it due to its shortness I do crochet
Yes recently I stopped wearing wigs and weaves. For one its too hot for that stuff right now lmao and also its sooo expensive, Keeping up with your natural hair is less expensive then buying wigs and weaves. Also most people wear wigs and weaves now a days not many of us are wearing our natural hair. Most people accept me more for my natural hair than me wearing wigs. And Its weird having someones hair on your own head. Its too much our own hair is our identity I just wouldn't want to hide it 🙏🏽
I feel you on that. People act like going natural is more expensive than wearing weave when we all know that ia a load of bull crap. Being natural does require patience, but whoever said that going natural is more expensive is a liar and don't know what they are talking about. Walmart, Amazon, Family Dollar, Target, ect. sells black hair products.
@@ArtistV-zz9ql sooo true people spend thousands of dollars on wigs when hair products be 2-5 dollars
Praise God beloved
Having long, thick, healthy head of hair most of my life, I had to shave due to illness. I've bought two expensive units that I like, but I haven't wore them yet bc I trying to muster the strength to wear it. Right now, not comfortable exposing my shaved head, so maybe in time, I wear it just like it's another day! Stay safe.
I understand your condition do what you think it’s best for you ❤️
Haven’t wore fake hair in 5 years taking care of my natural hair makes me feel good I installed braidlocs 5 years ago never looked back wigs are a crutch for most blk women
*RESPECT* 2 U 4 that *MAJOR* improvement !!!!
I have trauma from middle school and high school of people making fun of my hair. Texture and length. So until my hair is as long as I want it, I don’t feel comfortable wearing my hair.
You could be waiting a long time & wasting time accepting yourself
Goodness the comments. She's just speaking from her experience and honestly most of it is true for a lot of people we just don't want to realize it.
Your hair is beautiful!! 😍You’re gorgeous!!!! God bless you love!!!
Learnt a new word with regards to hair - crochet! I love my wigs - I've got thin, fine hair with lots of crowns, I can do nothing with it, and with fibromyalgia and aging, it's become even worse. I wear my wigs loose, and only when I go out. It's sort of sad, but shop assistants call me susta and not mama when I wear a wig, that's how much they improve my appearance 😉😉 Mine are all Chinese cheapies, one day I'll treat myself to a bespoke , personally fitted one!
This is sad
I’m preparing a video about it so thank you for inspiration
I started my locs and my hair was short twa, your wearing other peoples energy with weave wigs etc, ppl are sacrificing there hair and its been sold to mainly black women, my hair is growing nicely now.
Leave extensions alone all together and learn how to love the skin you in. Your hair is your glory.
You look stunning girl
I relate to wearing somthing so much and hating it after awhile. it happened to me with braids . I wore them for 5 years straight back to back and i just got up one day and hated braids so much i just cudnt do it anymore
I'll stop wearing wigs if you stop wearing make-up
Preach
Omg someone said it. Like how are u preaching all this natural nonsense with a full face of cakey makeup as if you look this way without enhancements. Its astonishing. Most would rather see a wig and bare face then weave and full face.
Makeup should enhance beauty. Not change everything
Wigs bw wear are nothing sort of their length or texture
@@THEFINESTINTROVERTS naw, a wig looks unnatural, especially if it has a lacefront. Maybe a half wig or a wig with a bang would be a better example. I'll put it this way. A wig is like wearing a mask and a weave/braids/extensions is like wearing makeup.
crochet or wig I didn't get it. Just wear what makes you feel beautiful and keeps your confidence on 100. Makeup isn't no difference anything to break black women and we just feed into it. too much energy wasted. All cultures use hair extensions, makeup to enhance. When we wore natural hair and figured out how to wear, we were forced to wear rags on our head. We are just beautiful creatures. It's not what we wear, it's to make us question ourselves. The power we stand in is unmatchable.
To each her own. If you don't like them, don't wear them. Let others choose for themselves
Very true!
Isaiah 3:16-24 The LORD says✏️, “The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes, strutting along with swaying hips, with ornaments jingling on their ankles.
17 Therefore the Lord will bring sores and baldness~ We as black people are God's chosen people. This hair curse is spiritual.
Girl bye😂😅
Your hair is beautiful
I thought it was your hair
I love your lipstick here :)
LORD Deliver me from
wigs 🙏🏾😭
I love this
I’m going bald then wearing wigs
Thanks for the video
You don't know that God doesn't like makeup and your telling people stop wearing wigs. Make it make sense sis. Anyway God likes when you come as you are but its up to those that listen everyone has thier own view point but as for me no more fake hair, makeup, jewellery
You clearly do not read the Bible…
Ask Jesus more💕
Amen
I quite like the 'village girl' look :)
Why do you care what someone’s else is putting on their head.. everyone’s reason for wearing fake hair is different.. some don’t have a choice. Just worry about you 🙄🙄🙄
Because its bad