Imagine having a funny psychologist like Benjamin,...as a patient I would leave the consultation healed... I am loving the sabbatical leave....Thanks Benjamin...very realistic yet funny. You were born for this!!!
Hahaha 🤣 lol Benjamin you guys are killing me!🤣🤣 I have used them all before sabbatical in my recent relationship 🤣 I communicated my intentions after I was away 🙌😆 and a Slow fade was actually fun 😂😂 . I have used a clean cut too before....😂😂😂🙌 fled to the islands first, to Bahrain next and Emirates lastly 😆😆😆
I broke up with my ex of 15 years and my sisters and friends were indeed happy!! 😄😄They used to tell me that the relationship was clearly toxic... Finally, both me and my ex applied the clear cut method and we're currently peacefully co-parenting our kids 🙏🙏...my ex actually remarried in afew months after our breakup...we had tried the slow fade method for so long and kept on reconciling...what Benjamin is advising is is pure truth from my own experience...how I wish I never wasted so much time on a relationship that wasn't meant to be!!! But I'm grateful for the children and all the life lessons/experiences I've gained this far...#there is no wastage in God's economy..🙏🙏
Mine was clean cut but the reaction was HUGELY negative. She went to the police and claimed I had beaten her. We ended up in court because I chose go defend myself out of principle. What she had not counted on was my preparations. I had a relative lawyer on speed dial, receipts for all the significant assets and everything else. It took 4 years to recover and I am only emerging now. What shocked me throughout the whole ordeal is how accurately I was able to predict her behaviour. Later on when I spoke to my friends they all saw her for who she was but did not want to say anything. Healing now, closer to God and thankful for my family.
Mine was a slow fade. That guy was a master manipulator. Had i told him I'm leaving him, he'd put on a show and make me stay. I started with getting a transfer, then took kids to a boarding school. It took him 2 years to know aliachwa
Ending things decently must be intentional and mature but where the other party is unwillingly because their intention from the word go was not about love but exploitation or using you, imagining losing those privileges spells doom and bitterness hence the reason many relationships end uglier than civil.
But on his facebook page he said the slow fade is a coward's exit. The people who have been on the receiving end of it have said it is more cruel than ghosting.It is dishonest.Unless the person is a threat to your life,then the clean cut is best.
This slow fade is kinda questionable @Zulu and @Bram 🤔🤔...then it is more time wasting coz the other party sees every move as sincere and apologetic. Especially the work trips to "Moshi" and you post pics✌️✌️✌️
Ok good. Choose your next partner carefully. Go out, make new friends and build high quality relationships. Let me introduce you to someone special who loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. His name is Jesus Christ. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
Great. I wish I can drag the whole nation to listen this show. Long live Benjamin Zulu. I am empowered.
Me too. It pains me his show has very few views. But vitu zinatrend....wacha tu
You're correct 👏
I love these two together. May God keep them alive for long!😭❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Imagine having a funny psychologist like Benjamin,...as a patient I would leave the consultation healed...
I am loving the sabbatical leave....Thanks Benjamin...very realistic yet funny. You were born for this!!!
I agree
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Happily divorced and ready for my Mr Right, this time I will make a good choice Benjamin you will be proud. All the way from the UK- Zimbabwe
Very insightful. Sometimes silence before the answer, is the answer. So true
Aki i love you both,the chemistry and laughter makes wisdom you're oozing sink and never forgotten.May the Lord bless you.Thank you
Wow , the wisdom in this guy Benjamin Zulu is on another level, thanks for the info
Hahaha 🤣 lol Benjamin you guys are killing me!🤣🤣 I have used them all before sabbatical in my recent relationship 🤣 I communicated my intentions after I was away 🙌😆 and a Slow fade was actually fun 😂😂 . I have used a clean cut too before....😂😂😂🙌 fled to the islands first, to Bahrain next and Emirates lastly 😆😆😆
So what's your next method 😹😂🤣
@@phyleswambua3942 eyeing a slow fade 🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️😂
Thank you Zulu...the SLOW FADE methods helped me a lot. Good job, people!
Thumbs up for the wise man Mr Zulu
Zulu I have not finished watching the show and I have laughed 🤣🤣🤣 yangu yote 👍👍
Slow fade..... The best, thank you guys
But I think it can heart someone. It has been used on me and I didn't like it. 😂
Pole....... But Situation forces one to do this.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
hahaah so very right, hurling insults. Some People have a PhD in insults. It's not okay to verbally abuse someone if they decide to leave.
Wow what a knowledge!!!!!!
During slow fade ..take a trip to Moshi , Tanzania🤣🤣🤣Thanks for your valuable advice Benjamin
Clean cut the best so far 😂
🤣 I am here for Zulu’s laugh lol 😂 😂😂😂 anyone?
🙋♀️😂😂😂😂
Ooh my Best show ever
I've liked the slow fade, thanks Mr Benjamin for the effort
I broke up with my ex of 15 years and my sisters and friends were indeed happy!! 😄😄They used to tell me that the relationship was clearly toxic... Finally, both me and my ex applied the clear cut method and we're currently peacefully co-parenting our kids 🙏🙏...my ex actually remarried in afew months after our breakup...we had tried the slow fade method for so long and kept on reconciling...what Benjamin is advising is is pure truth from my own experience...how I wish I never wasted so much time on a relationship that wasn't meant to be!!! But I'm grateful for the children and all the life lessons/experiences I've gained this far...#there is no wastage in God's economy..🙏🙏
Your suits are always on point.
I feel like there is no need to waste someone's time just drop the bomb
The clean cut is the best for me it really helped me
Wise words there 👏👌🙌👍
"Stop Selling short"-K.u talk brought me here,how many are we? Gonga like
Thank you for empowering this generation.
1,salbatical.
2. Slow fade
3 clean cut
Mine was clean cut but the reaction was HUGELY negative. She went to the police and claimed I had beaten her. We ended up in court because I chose go defend myself out of principle. What she had not counted on was my preparations. I had a relative lawyer on speed dial, receipts for all the significant assets and everything else. It took 4 years to recover and I am only emerging now. What shocked me throughout the whole ordeal is how accurately I was able to predict her behaviour. Later on when I spoke to my friends they all saw her for who she was but did not want to say anything. Healing now, closer to God and thankful for my family.
Mine was a slow fade. That guy was a master manipulator. Had i told him I'm leaving him, he'd put on a show and make me stay. I started with getting a transfer, then took kids to a boarding school. It took him 2 years to know aliachwa
Beatiful and amazing show.my thankz,appreciation and respect
Those humble beings you are talking about...some are pretenders...especially wakiona ukona kaitu..they will wait you get married...
Ending things decently must be intentional and mature but where the other party is unwillingly because their intention from the word go was not about love but exploitation or using you, imagining losing those privileges spells doom and bitterness hence the reason many relationships end uglier than civil.
I am that type of a friend, that can save somebody's life. My friends are very lucky.
Oi I want to be your friend oshili😆
Me too
Slow Fade actually is a gud tactics
But you guys why are you doing this to our ribs? Hahahhahahahaha. Thank you for nuggets
Yes you are right. It worked for me. We divorced and went for dinner together.
I swear u awalys describe my life,
Are narcissists aware that they hurt do their victims need to always remind their oppressors of how they feel about the abuse?
" That is why Jesus said my children perish due to lack of knowledge."
People who are drowning cannot choose thier saviors.
But on his facebook page he said the slow fade is a coward's exit. The people who have been on the receiving end of it have said it is more cruel than ghosting.It is dishonest.Unless the person is a threat to your life,then the clean cut is best.
😂😂😂😂😂 No, cos please show me a better dating coach/ psychologist than Mr.Zulu
Great
Mine was sabbatical 😂😂😂
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Haha 😄
This slow fade is kinda questionable @Zulu and @Bram 🤔🤔...then it is more time wasting coz the other party sees every move as sincere and apologetic. Especially the work trips to "Moshi" and you post pics✌️✌️✌️
True I am Happly divorced.
Ok good. Choose your next partner carefully. Go out, make new friends and build high quality relationships. Let me introduce you to someone special who loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. His name is Jesus Christ. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
Hello guys am loving your show and watching from Saudi. Please Benjamin how about long distance relationship...please help😔
You want to end it or?
Long distance...same country different cities, Same continent different countries or across oceans different continents?
My sister long distance .....so simple atte just cut communication
@@Lisa-bc1qe hi dear, I want to keep it going aki🥲
@@ladysafari01 different countries. Man its so hard 😪
Heheee I need to visit Moshi
Slow fade you change from romance to courtesy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Me currently
thats true
😂😂😂 sabaticals are for the feared
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Hahahaha am in the same thing but am using the second tec
crisis mode
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Haaaa haaaaaa haaaaà nice
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For me I will let you know I don't want anything from you .
After I will block you and the blacklist follows.
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I will deal with anyone trying to waste my time and hoping to go scot free, no senor 💥💔😁
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