How to be More Independent from Relationships Ven. Pomnyun’s Dharma Q&A

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Ven. Pomnyun's Answer to "How to be More Independent from Relationships”
Selection from a Dharma Q&A session at Busan City Hall, Busan (June 15, 2019)
Questioner : Five months ago my boyfriend broke up with me and I was originally going to ask how do I get over my ex. And then I thought some more, I ask myself why am I not over him, and then I thought because I’m way too attached. Because maybe I don’t want to get over this guy, because of all the past memories and then I hope for more. Well he knows I still like him and he knows. He told me that he doesn’t like me but I just felt really pathetic. And we still maintain a close relationship even now. So thus I tried getting over him in many ways and I tried surrounding myself with lots of things including my friends and other guys and that obviously didn’t work. So I thought to myself, wow, I seriously do depend on other people.
So now I want to ask you how do I get less attached, and I know you said before that this is a habit and I’m pretty young. So how do I break that habit and how do I become independent as in what I do and as in realize I don’t need a guy in my life for my needs and happiness?
제목 : 연애 (또는 사람 관계) 로부터 독립적이 되는 방법

[@TheGracenv]

스님 감사합니다. 번역해 주시는 분, 감사합니다~

[@peacefulworld8203]

Very inspiring, Thanks!

[@jamesshin4901]

This is a GREAT piece of advice!!

[@이현주-d3r]

감사합니다

[@mia9202]

Whenever I hear from you, I find I'm wiser and happier. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

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Thank you for sharing your wisdom with others. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@annlee2715]

thanks. I have respect on him as a spiritual Mentor. #pomnyun #jungtosociety

[@파랑새-n2h]

Thank you!

[@lotus5425]

great wisdom. #relationship #pomnyun

[@bdmbs589]

Thank you, Pomnyun sunim for the amazing answer. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@sunnypark2003]

very helpful and practical answer. thank you, sunim. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@ldavies787]

What a great insight! #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

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감사합니다🧎🧎‍♀️🧎‍♂️🙏🙏🙏

[@minjukim5680]

Enlightening. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@3MHappyTogether]

Thank you for your teaching! #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@MJKo-vk7yt]

I totally agree " This is a GREAT piece of advice!!
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[@geumyee]

Your saying is always impressive. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@hrhwang4446]

It’s a very funny but insightful lecture. Thanks for your teaching.
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스님 언제 내 님을 만날까요 흑흑 ❤

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❤🤘🏽

[@사랑-q6r]

영어로 고민을 얘기할때 통역하시는분이 스님께 귓속말로 통역해 주시고 자막도 영어로 나오는데 무순말인지 모르겠습니다
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유튜브 자막 켜시면 한글자막 떠요

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Enlightening. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety

[@hlee8544]

I really appreciate your teaching. #pomnyun, #JungtoSociety