Kristi McLelland: It's OK to Grieve Your Loss | Better Together on TBN

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  • @tiae1543
    @tiae1543 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    My uncle just passed this evening. My brother passed this May and his birthday is 10/31. This message has come right on time. It's so painful and I feel like my heart is being torn on two. Jesus, hold my hand as I walk through this valley and help me to never forget that you are good, your promises are true and you love me.

    • @ldamal8728
      @ldamal8728 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I lost my dad & baby brother too. And it does feel like your heart will not stop breaking...especially coming up on the holidays. But we have to remember "...it is [not your strength, but it is] God who is effectively at work in you, both to will and to work..." It is our Father's strength & we just lean & give into that-the rest He provides is overwhelming. I standing in agreement with you for your healing. 🙏🏾💕

    • @aprayerawaywpastorshon9429
      @aprayerawaywpastorshon9429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Praying fervently for you! 🛐💜🛐

    • @tiae1543
      @tiae1543 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the beautiful encouragement

    • @Natural_Nuturer
      @Natural_Nuturer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May our Abba heal your heart ❤️

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @gabbybaxter214
    @gabbybaxter214 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I have been waiting for yall to make one about grief!!! Just in time my bestie just died a month and a half ago and it’s really really hard!!💗✝️💗 She’s in heaven but I still really miss her!!!

    • @claudettedavis9842
      @claudettedavis9842 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Praying for you! God does heal ❤️‍🩹 give God your heart, pain, and sorrow!

    • @slm2021
      @slm2021 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May the strength of Jesus carry you through these hard days. ❤ Amen 🙏

    • @ldamal8728
      @ldamal8728 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I stand in agreement with you for continued comfort & peace from Holy Spirit 🙏🏾❤️

    • @ericadavis2043
      @ericadavis2043 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've also been waiting on a grief episode. It's unfortunate so many are in pain/grief but I'm happy knowing we have this beautiful community

  • @patriciajean4308
    @patriciajean4308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I’m grieving from the passing of my oldest sister,she passed away of this year “2023 it’s so painful but I know GOD! will take care of me and give me strength through this tremendous pain.

    • @slm2021
      @slm2021 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Prayers for your healing. ❤ Amen 🙏 God is with you. Cling to Him.

    • @Cairo21
      @Cairo21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May the lord heal your heart ❤

  • @jimmieleejackson4237
    @jimmieleejackson4237 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Really needed to hear this message 😢I lost my son and only child to a drunk driver in 2020 I'm still dealing with it the best I can with God's help I'll get through it one day at a time 🙏🏼....... Sho'nuff
    Justice for Jillian and Robert in Bridge City Texas 💔

  • @maureenschambers
    @maureenschambers 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The place of gratitude in grief. Gratitude gives room for us to see hope amidst a storm.

  • @claudettedavis9842
    @claudettedavis9842 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Brandon Lake’s “Palm of His hand”!!!
    Father will have seen Your miracles so we know You can….give us the grace to hold on to the truth that Your love will carry us through our valleys when You choose not to! Your kingdom come, YOUR WILL BE DONE! 🕊️❤️‍🩹
    We trust You. Comfort my community of faithful believers! Amen

  • @emmamacgregor731
    @emmamacgregor731 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Was caregiver to my folks 7 years. Lost both within 6 weeks. Alone. Broke. Devastated. Hard to not give up right now. Lost

    • @stephaniebryant5037
      @stephaniebryant5037 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Allow God to take the sting out of the pain and heal the wound and fill the void, you've to trust God with your deepest pain, God has called us to be made Whole, brokenness in grief is ammunition for the enemy to keep us in a dark place be set free and trust God

    • @emmamacgregor731
      @emmamacgregor731 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stephaniebryant5037 Thank you

    • @shirleylynn323
      @shirleylynn323 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My Dear, God knew this is how you would feel in your grief. It is in your brokenness that God is so there for you. Do you remember Mary lost Jesus, her precious son, she raised from her baby son. Can you imagine her pain of his slaughter like an animal & his crucifixion. So, can you understand that Jesus feels your grief of your precious parents 💔 as you do.God does gives & he does take away. But, when he takes away, he also heals & restores the soul with the broken heart. Whatever your circumstance now whether "broke or devastated" he will walk you through your journey. He will never leave or forsake you, just believe. Thank him for the joy & time you did have with your parents. Pray 🙏 everyday dear from your heart for guidance. God is there with open arms for you. You are not alone. As you heal, your heart will fill with gratitude. He is real!! ✝️

    • @ldamal8728
      @ldamal8728 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I get it-when you're so devastated you don't know what to do-been there. But I promise you as soon as you just start to say the few words you can say; e.g., "thank you," or "help me," & you say them every time you cry or everytime you remember to...you will start getting that peace that passes all understanding. The Comforter is here for you & He will strengthen you day by day. I'm so sorry for your loss & I stand in agreement with you that God will bring you through this to fulfill your purpose for His good pleasure. 🙏🏾💗

    • @ashleyluna1735
      @ashleyluna1735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Restore her for l Ioss in faith in pressures of pain in loss and griefs Lord. Amen

  • @guguzulu1836
    @guguzulu1836 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    God is the Father of All comfort really...some people that you trust can break your heart in this trying time... heartless words.But I forgave them.Thank you for the touching topic... God Bless you All.... South Africa

  • @niagay711
    @niagay711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    i think it is more intentional than us just trusting God. or remembering that Heaven is true home. i think everything is meant to reflect God's love for us. He experienced the loss of His son and suffered because of His love for us... and in doing His perfect work in us, everything we go through is designed to get us to transform into children of God who love the way He loves. and how can we understand love or to love in that way unless we endure the things that He has endured? ei. loss, healing, etc. .... how else are we to understand Him? and a part of *that* perfect work being done in us does require us to trust Him. and His character before we see the full picture

  • @trenesed5546
    @trenesed5546 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I lost my mom a year ago very unexpectedly and my heart remains shattered in pieces.

  • @G_Galore
    @G_Galore 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I lost my baby brother this year 3/25/2023 and this message brought me to tears 🥺🙏🏾

  • @aishasmith7841
    @aishasmith7841 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you all for this. I lost my dad in 2018 unexpectedly and my mom this passed May from brain and lung cancer. She was healed in 2016 from uterine cancer but it came back in 2022 spreading to her lungs and brain. After that I lost the home my mom and I stayed in from a house fire 3 days after her memorial. I have loss jobs. I been grieving tremendously plus after a job made an offer then gave it to someone that previously worked there. I don't understand but Im still trusting God. Thank you for letting us know its alright to grieve even Jesus wept.

  • @shaylam42
    @shaylam42 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve been through the grieving, at one point during that time. I had to pray 🙏🏽 like never before, because I wasn’t able to see. That god made rainbows after bad weather that this to shall pass🙌🏽Amen. But not knowing how to grow and heal through the situation. I sought after, God with my whole heart. I take things sec by sec min by min hr by hr day by day just thanking and praising him🙏🏽💜🙌🏽Amen.

  • @ashleyluna1735
    @ashleyluna1735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Learning how to grieve in pains of trials while praying truthfully anyway during the storm. Trusting that what I say God hears. Learning to be short and to the point with my prayers.. Finding myself reconfirming my love for Him for Him. Telling Jesus helps me and trusting He hears when
    I do. Now, all I have to do is be thankful in the pain to draw near to Him more daily and consistently. Amen.❤

  • @butterflyfrancis
    @butterflyfrancis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m having cancer. I’m actually grieving My old self.

    • @ldamal8728
      @ldamal8728 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I pray for your strength & healing. I'm trusting God for your youth, renewed like the eagle's-Strong, Overcoming, Soaring! Now that's an SOS for you. 😊🙏🏾💖

  • @esthertarin793
    @esthertarin793 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your video. I lost my 28 year old son, Randy. He was born with a serious heart defect in 1988. Randy went through major heart surgery at 1 day old and many more throughout his entire life. Randy died 7 years ago during major open heart surgery. The surgeon accidently nicked his aorta and my son bled to death. The surgeon did not want to call his death in the OR, so we got to see him in his bed all day the day after. His chest was open, he was connected to a heart/lung machine, a ventalator, plus hoses everywhere. They kept giving him 3units of blood by the hour. Just as they gave him blood, it was coming out. We saw this all day and Randy until they determined he was brain dead. I feel that I dealt with Randy's death by myself. I still cry and just miss him so much. The pain I feel, was seeing him suffer all his life and I couldn't do anything but watch. He never complained. Never. He was always smiling. I know my son is with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ and no longer suffering, but my heart aches and is so broken. I still grieve him. I dont know how to deal with these memories. Please pray for me. I know God is with me, I just wish he'd take those hard memories away.

    • @oaitch
      @oaitch 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for you

  • @ericadavis2043
    @ericadavis2043 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you ladies for this, we are all Grieving and this helps get through the process 🙏

  • @antionettelawrence191
    @antionettelawrence191 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God is sovereign 🙏❤️

  • @z.njomba2226
    @z.njomba2226 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We just lost my nephew, who was like a brother to me. Buried him a week ago, he was missing for 2 months & found him a dead body, died in a very mysterious & tragic way. We prayed in faith, when i received the news i couldn't blv it, there's no prayer I've made that God had never answered. My heart is soo broken & God is so intentional for the fact that He chose this topic to be spoken about especially during this time.

  • @virginiakivuva5144
    @virginiakivuva5144 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow,this came at the right time,just Lost my Dad this week

  • @onewomansjourney760
    @onewomansjourney760 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Beautiful thing is, The Bible is full of Scriptures that tells us God DOES want us to understand. He is not a Father who leaves us in the dark, bewildered, confused, wondering. In all your getting get understanding. He is willing to reveal to us if we just ask. God will never leave us in state where we aren't seeing how He's working ALL things together for our good. So many Christians accept the statement "we just won't understand certain things". But if you ask The Lord for understanding, clarity, His Wisdom.....He is faithful to do it. In God's timing He will show us the answer those "why" questions. The reasons aren't just one thing but many combined things. Trusting The Lord in the process is what I keep in the forefront of my thoughts.

  • @sultanabutt2564
    @sultanabutt2564 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very few people have the gift of sympathy.

  • @astairwaytosurvival1729
    @astairwaytosurvival1729 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How awful that the hospital kept families away from each other

  • @Crownliving
    @Crownliving 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grieve but don’t stay there. Should be over it in a few weeks