Elyse Murphy: Let God Carry Your Heartbreak | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

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  • This week on Better Together, Elyse Murphy opens up her heart as she shares her own story of heartbreak and how complaining did not change her situation. Join the conversation as Sheila Walsh, Dr. DeeDee Freeman, Holly Wagner and Meghan Robinson join Elyse Murphy to discuss the realties of complaining and how a heart of gratitude may not change your situation, but can change you.
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    00:00 Complaining Won't Change Your Situation
    6:31 Complaining Happens When You're Expectation Doesn't Meet Your Reality
    9:28 Complaining Makes Us Miserable and Affects Those Around Us
    16:43 Have a Heart of Gratitude
    17:15 Complaining is Entitlement
    19:44 How to Practically Begin to Give Thanks
    25:04 People Are Watching Your Reaction to Your Situation
    30:26 How to Look at the Positive Side
    33:54 Process Your Pain in the Presence of Jesus and Other Believers
    43:03 Let God Carry Your Baggage
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  • @trishchamplin7774
    @trishchamplin7774 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    My fiancé hurt me very badly, and I made a decision to love him and not get married and it has hurt me tremendously, but God’s healing power. It is restoring my life. I’m excited for what God has for me.

    • @valeriecoffman6161
      @valeriecoffman6161 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Omg...your comment made me fall into tears because your comment let me know I am not alone, but in a very similar situation. Trust God to turn ashes into beauty.

    • @cblw14
      @cblw14 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Amen. Praying for you both.

    • @Luks92
      @Luks92 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I seperated with my husband he had another lady immediately uuuuh that hurts to the core dealing with depression. I'm on my healing journey ain't easy with kids involved. I'm learning not to complain and drop all the bitterness and solely depend on God. So help me God 🙏

    • @em77775
      @em77775 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I wish I had the wisdom and courage to break up with the man I married who ended up betraying me and abusing me for many years. I should have listened to the Holy Spirit's warnings, but I didn't. Even still, He's a good father and He's restoring me too. Hugs.

    • @luphelelemavuso8594
      @luphelelemavuso8594 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank so much for helping us realize that loving someone doesn't mean staying in something you know has been unfair and has really hurt you❤

  • @infinitybeyond8417
    @infinitybeyond8417 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Complaining leads to more complaining. Praising leads to more Praising. We always have a choice so choose to Praise him in the storm 🎉🎉🎉

  • @AJventure13
    @AJventure13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    Praise God, for letting me see this Video as I'm about to feel frustrated for not having what others have. In Jesus name I'll be more grateful in every situation instead of complaining.

    • @marcio5583
      @marcio5583 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Psalm 16: 8 is my go to for comfort.

    • @marshawilliams252
      @marshawilliams252 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I so relate!! This was a mood and mind changer!

  • @lataschahutchen6915
    @lataschahutchen6915 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    GOD I TRUST YOU AND I AM CHOOSING YOU TODAY!!

  • @callyangieline
    @callyangieline 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "The timeline isn't going to change but your experience will"👏👏👏

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am thankful for my morning coffee and devotion time 😊and the phone I am watching this show from 😁😁😁I am grateful 🙌

  • @cordestineclifton9115
    @cordestineclifton9115 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Currently battling through a traumatic breakup and my friend sent me the link to this video. I really needed to hear this as I cried through the entire video. I am thankful that God is with me and covering me in his blood. I will not complain and instead become grateful that I am walking through his path and that he is removing unnecessary suffering from my life. ❤️❤️ thank you for this beautiful video!

    • @fionabarry4402
      @fionabarry4402 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I cried through the whole thing too if that helps!

    • @Mags765
      @Mags765 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blessings 🙌🏽

  • @Winifredbulus
    @Winifredbulus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This is such a blessing. A heart full of gratitude will see the hand of God regardless of the situation.

    • @cherieleon1668
      @cherieleon1668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh that's awesome I hope I never forget

  • @nadineellis7372
    @nadineellis7372 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Don't feel frustrated my sister for not having what others have, is sometimes we only knew how they get there and how they have what they have, it's a route we never want to take, it's the pain we will never want to go through to have what they have, trust god and he will give you your package he have for you, all is not lost, you been here is hope enough,

  • @Hillsong_music_best_playlist
    @Hillsong_music_best_playlist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I put this comment here so that everytime someone likes it, I'll be reminded of this song because it heals something in me❤❤❤

  • @HerGoodWorks
    @HerGoodWorks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Every time I am in traffic, I think over that verse. To not complain and it reminds me that every moment is meaningful even if it isn't desirous. Sitting in traffic is now my time to breathe deeply and pray and listen to the Lord without distraction. Loved this talk ladies.

    • @k92aida
      @k92aida 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I realized sitting traffic why am I even rushing anyways like I don't care anymore

  • @TJasmine-Akintaro
    @TJasmine-Akintaro 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I needed to hear this. I've been silently complaining that my mom who's been ill for a year is always complaining and need to hear this words as a wake up call.

    • @86Kera
      @86Kera 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Praying she gets well

  • @Mulaasa8905
    @Mulaasa8905 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Wow! This is for me. I know it's God who made me watch this so that I get encouraged. Thank you Jesus for this. Let your holy name be praised 🙏🙏

  • @Spirit-Truth-TKIR
    @Spirit-Truth-TKIR 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yes, this is why we need the Holy Spirit to guide and lead us is to walk in the truth of God’s word.

  • @yearinsolitude
    @yearinsolitude 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Intentionally expressing gratitude truly helped change my perspective on things. I remember there were days where it felt like everything went wrong and I'm thinking of what I should be grateful for. And the Holy Spirit whispered be grateful for what happened: the "bad" thing that had happened. Because even though it seemed so horrible in that moment, because God is in control and He works everything for our good, even this would be for a good, so be thankful for it. That truly changed my thoughts in a lot of ways.

  • @almathomas8325
    @almathomas8325 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The thankful jar is a Good idea. I think I may incorporate that with my family.

  • @zenandemhloli
    @zenandemhloli 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow! "The time frame won't change but the experience can".. Made me realize crying about it everyday won't move God to act promptly, I might as well Dance in my storm 🤭😆

  • @lyciamessersmith5348
    @lyciamessersmith5348 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The prayer at the end of this broadcast!! Wow...

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Holly, my dad died on Paul Mccartney's birthday after my brother had a stroke and it has been 2 years and the enemy can remind me of the pain and the Lord then comes in and brings comfort never in the way I think it is going to come but as always when I let him in and lead everything becomes better, God bless you and thank you

  • @4eveRFab
    @4eveRFab 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “I liked you before that comment”17:27 😂 I felt that! Who am I to think I deserve more or better?!! I don’t!!!That was humbling for me. I’m going to return to the posture of Thanksgivings! Ty!!!

  • @keionaamariee
    @keionaamariee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I needed to hear this, to be more humble and grateful. I thank God for letting the Holy Spirit speak in Jesus name.

  • @michellethomas4928
    @michellethomas4928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This was so, so, so good❤❤❤There were so many jewels of wisdom in this episode. This is by far one of my favorites. I have watched several times and taken notes.

  • @antionettelawrence191
    @antionettelawrence191 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    God is faithful 🙏❤️

    • @cherieleon1668
      @cherieleon1668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Won't He do it!

  • @shantechavis2489
    @shantechavis2489 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I came here bcz I wanted to hear something efifying... this video was at the top && exactly what I need!!! Glory to our Father who loves us so much, He gives us exactly what we need, exactly when we need it!!!! #SoGrateful ..I think I will start that grateful jar

  • @reneewalker9611
    @reneewalker9611 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Polly Anna is my favorite movie! Thank you for the reminder. God forgive me for grumbling and complaining!

  • @amevhieaffi9296
    @amevhieaffi9296 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This really helped me cast my care and trust God as a father more than ever before . I’ve let go of every insecurities and complaining always .

  • @theresahunton5141
    @theresahunton5141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for this word. It is awesome that we have to choose to be grateful! I notice every thing wirh God has to do with our choosing! He never forces any issue.He is so gentle!

  • @kgontsemadiba9785
    @kgontsemadiba9785 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I thank God for letting me see this Video , it was very much needed ❤

  • @PriscillaHernandez-ud4kc
    @PriscillaHernandez-ud4kc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you God 🙏🏼❤️ I trust you God 🙏🏼 in choosing you today

  • @puseletsomonne2112
    @puseletsomonne2112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Really, what I needed to hear, thank you for allowing God to speak through you. I praise God for you.❤

  • @christinastoudemire4100
    @christinastoudemire4100 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤thank you. Lost my mother. Really comforting word.

  • @kimbuntting9270
    @kimbuntting9270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Mighty God for leading me to this video, I'm so blessed and encouraged by these teachings, Ladies thank you all for sharing, may the good Lord continue to bless each and everyone of you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @natikawilliams2536
    @natikawilliams2536 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm grateful for knowing that my posture will determine how I look at things.
    Being on my knees bringing everything to God and letting him lead my way. And just sit there and listen to his words 🙌

    • @cherieleon1668
      @cherieleon1668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💪🏼✝️💥

  • @rlgrlg1672
    @rlgrlg1672 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My God...was having this discussion with ladies in a group i facilitate for the divorced a few hours ago and then this video appears soon after

  • @teresakennedy8664
    @teresakennedy8664 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was so good!!! So much truth. I will be rewatching this one Thank you ladies!❤❤❤❤

  • @joannbrown7678
    @joannbrown7678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for the reminder. Thank you Lord!

  • @jeriad7scott312
    @jeriad7scott312 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When she said we’re missing out on new memories and opportunities. I felt that I have complained and wished for a better outcome and life. I try to catch myself now and say something positive or make good of my situation. I’m 24 now and missed so much due to depression and complaining, but the grace of God is teaching me and forgive me and making a way within him. And I love him so much for opening my eyes.

  • @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
    @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Perfect timing wow.. thank you father God. 🙏🏼🥺🙏🏼💕❤️ blessings family

  • @jacquelinecapes562
    @jacquelinecapes562 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanku Abba Father for Loving Me 🦋💗💖

  • @kwalker8459
    @kwalker8459 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this day my daily bread Amen 🙏 thank you ladies right on time and I am doing a 30 day practicing learning and remembering scriptures and to be more consistent in prayer so I can quiet down my anger of this world pray for me!

  • @theresahunton5141
    @theresahunton5141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It always helps me not to complain, when I remember the Apostle Paul content and rejoicing in prison. And a sewer ran right next to him! And he encouraged others in the midst of his own physical bondage!

  • @chosenmjroyalty4917
    @chosenmjroyalty4917 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    God is sooo good to me. This episode answered my prayer this morning. Holy Spirit, if I ever doubted you love me, I know it more than ever today. Like one of the hosts, I feel I deserve much more salary at work. I WAS COMPLAINING to who would listen. It was disturbing my peace. This episode brought me peace. I have decided to let it go. I will have a grateful jar specifically for Work. God sees and hears everything. I Trust & Believe God, this is my commitment today Nov 9th, 2023. Amen 🙏🏽 🙏🏽 🙏🏽

  • @hello_jesus
    @hello_jesus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate to this testimony. I learned how to resist bitterness, unforgiveness and disappointments by choosing to be grateful instead.

  • @geovanniedyer6861
    @geovanniedyer6861 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Blessings my Lord. Thank u my Lord...

  • @Cheetarah12
    @Cheetarah12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Agreed I recently started keeping a gratitude journal.

  • @tawannapollock8856
    @tawannapollock8856 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing this. I As well am also going through a divorce. It is a heartache. I need to see this, and it encourages me. Thank you, Jesus, for being faithful

  • @l.a.d.liveauthenticallydiv5525
    @l.a.d.liveauthenticallydiv5525 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Choices lead & feelings follow" - Freedom

  • @ayantubogale3497
    @ayantubogale3497 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a timely message for me.

  • @kirahg9442
    @kirahg9442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Elyse for sharing!!! ❤

  • @mvz777
    @mvz777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this! Phew. 😅 the fruit in these talks! 💕

  • @Maryboufflers-nj8ci
    @Maryboufflers-nj8ci 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much God bless all❤❤❤

  • @jeanettlobeko3978
    @jeanettlobeko3978 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for saying, God I did not see this coming but you did 🙌🙌

  • @biblicaldimensionsofwellne9025
    @biblicaldimensionsofwellne9025 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank You Ladies. This Was Refreshing And Timely‼️😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so helpful and good. Thank you

  • @visualblessings
    @visualblessings 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i appreciated seeing that visual picture of the father carrying baggage at the end. it held so much weight ❤

  • @mistyherrera7097
    @mistyherrera7097 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow this was such a blessing to me to hear everyone’s story & encouragement to find things to be grateful for. Thank you for sharing!

  • @donnableen1502
    @donnableen1502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Holy Spirit prompt me to listen and my spirit has received such a blessing. I am so grateful to work of the Holy Spirit for the truth of Gods word. Amen

  • @chiamakachukwumaeze7658
    @chiamakachukwumaeze7658 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this session. God bless all the speakers

  • @kimberlyanderson1013
    @kimberlyanderson1013 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Luv this-

  • @MyQueendom8
    @MyQueendom8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so good and necessary for me to hear, thank you!

  • @user-dw6dz4ob1j
    @user-dw6dz4ob1j 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Kingdom women. Big help!

  • @LS-cr2ek
    @LS-cr2ek 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is good. I needed this

  • @luphelelemavuso8594
    @luphelelemavuso8594 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤thank you so much to these ladies❤

  • @mnwilliams386
    @mnwilliams386 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, this is so powerful xx

  • @Jking685
    @Jking685 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was soooo powerful, thank you for sharing!

  • @keddrickgatson5177
    @keddrickgatson5177 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is really good!!!

  • @marynyhof6916
    @marynyhof6916 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a blessing! Thank you!

  • @Jompiheyholetsgo
    @Jompiheyholetsgo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless ❤

  • @user-xv9cn1sv1w
    @user-xv9cn1sv1w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you!❤

  • @kutlombeha5080
    @kutlombeha5080 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing your story and picture Elyse. It did something for me, it administered and broke something I didn't even know was there. Actually it reminded me of Who God was,and His heart,and His relationship with us. I appreciate it.Thank you.

  • @marisamarino7596
    @marisamarino7596 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good word!!!

  • @theoyoqueen2809
    @theoyoqueen2809 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This episode is so good❤🥺

  • @driveraduran4377
    @driveraduran4377 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for share this powerful word that came on time! I needed this word! 🙏🙌 God bless you all!

  • @rlgrlg1672
    @rlgrlg1672 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is sooooo good ❤

  • @headym5995
    @headym5995 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen!Thank you for this ladies!

  • @jennyalvarado9108
    @jennyalvarado9108 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today I'm thankful for finding this video... it's helping me so so much right now! Thank you Jesus and thank you Ladies!! God Bless!

  • @cherieleon1668
    @cherieleon1668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such great wisdom from God. Thank you ladies, everyone looks absolutely beautiful so young and vibrant. I feel as if we're sitting at his Royal round table and we're a bunch of beautiful ambassadors living out His will getting ready for eternity with the Father. 💪🏼🙏✝️💥

  • @leeshc5952
    @leeshc5952 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Pollyanna with Hayley Mills. It was such a great movie and I highly suggest it as well. My mom and I watched it when I was a little girl, one of my all-time favorite movies!

  • @SandraHenson-mj3ce
    @SandraHenson-mj3ce 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my God! Help me tp choose you over all. Stay focused on you and not my circumstances. I need you God to help me. Im crying out to you😢. Help me to turn back to my first love.

  • @casschoeller4395
    @casschoeller4395 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved this so much & will be sharing it!!❤️🙏🏻
    Also wanted to share that I had the exact thing happen to me that Dr Dee Dee mentioned. I went to bed mad at my husband but in the morning I couldn’t remember why! Haha ~ silly thing is, I was racking my brain trying to remember!! But the thing that came to my mind instead, was the verse, “love keeps no record of wrongs”!! 🙏🏻I was blown away by how the Holy Spirit brought that to my mind instead of what I was mad at the night before! He took that memory away & replaced it with His Word!🙏🏻❤️

    • @desireealicea593
      @desireealicea593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow God bless. Holy Spirit is so sweet

  • @jeanettlobeko3978
    @jeanettlobeko3978 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Some things I can't see until I am on my knees

  • @DevotedLady53
    @DevotedLady53 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen❤❤❤🙏

  • @donnableen1502
    @donnableen1502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @SandraHenson-mj3ce
    @SandraHenson-mj3ce 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is for me. I have been betrayed by my own family and have complained and harbored unforgiveness in my heart. Lord God help me to forgive like you forgive me.

  • @sethcele2065
    @sethcele2065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i too like to complain but i took Hailey's statement whe she said "how is that going for you "lol i just wrote and i am still writing what i am grateful for rather. thank you

  • @user-ds8fq8cp2f
    @user-ds8fq8cp2f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm stuck,bc I do not want to be stuck in a marriage that is not working,but God does not like divorce and this is my 2nd marriage.
    Tried counceling

  • @jacquelinecapes562
    @jacquelinecapes562 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @PatienceShayamano-dr5um
    @PatienceShayamano-dr5um 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Elyse,what a powerful testimony you gave ....thank you.Take it to the Lord in prayer

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ok good thing

  • @josevasquez-ju8rb
    @josevasquez-ju8rb 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    12 STONE HELLO!!!

  • @elizabethlane8690
    @elizabethlane8690 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some things are only meant to be seen on your knees….wow.

  • @Eng4555
    @Eng4555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is Grace grante to everyone however the weight of it may be different which probably the same to all , some people can not wear shoes of other people specially when one meant your problem is small nothing!! Let’s pray for each other

  • @cblw14
    @cblw14 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    25:16

  • @sheriyando8039
    @sheriyando8039 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤🎉❤❤❤❤❤🎉❤❤❤🎉 This show helps us to grow in our walk with Jesus. You will definitely grow in The Lord watching Better Together ❤️ 🙏 ❤🎉❤👐🫶🙏❤❤❤❤

  • @katydid6920
    @katydid6920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God doesnt seem to care about me. Im completely alone and he lets people do anything they want to me. Thats not love!

  • @ML-rh7lv
    @ML-rh7lv 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Complain re mine.

  • @tania0070
    @tania0070 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fed him some crab legs ... the bible clearly calls this an abominable food and not to eat it.

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This isn't it

  • @kelseyfisher6759
    @kelseyfisher6759 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tell me why I burst into tears when that photo came up???!
    I think when you don’t have a good human father example it’s still hard to believe that anyone would carry your baggage or hold your hand in times of great sorrow ❤️‍🩹 and the work is relentlessly trusting that Gods fatherly love has no limits

  • @ApollyonDestroyer
    @ApollyonDestroyer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a 147 I.Q. thanks for the advise but your wrong. Pls dont give me any advise. If i need it ill ask