Do Korean Men Want To Date Foreign Girls? | Koreans Answer
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- We asked Korean Men if they want to date Foreign Girls... and here's what they said!
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"It's more about compatibility, not nationality" thank you for saying this
nae mam forever yours EXACTLY. I find that MOST ppl, of the same/different race, when meeting that person....they just “clicked”...and the rest is history. Being in the right place at the right time and chemistry.
Absolutely right
Thanks u
Periodt
Was looking for this comment👏🏽
“It’s more about compatibility, not nationality”
So much respect for that sentence 😊
Yeah but most Asians aren’t compatible with foreigners lmfao. So the answer to him is basically no.
Blue Sky what ignorant comment? I don’t see any. My point is Asians (especially male Asians) do not find themselves compatible with foreigners. (Especially foreigners of darker race.)
A lot of the Asians I talk to that I’ve become used to have a different way of thinking, seeing, and treating others. They are different with romance (especially the males) may not have the same interest, and may be attracted to a different preference.
@@loopymomy2532 well, you don't need to be compatible with most asian guys, you just need one
@@loopymomy2532 If that's the conclusion you get from that, you missed the whole point. The nationality won't get into play once you're with a person, you talk about romance, not everyone is looking for the same things, for example, my cousin attracted his wife, because he's a very responsible person. Now from a story I read from a British girl and a Korean guy who were planning to get married, she liked he wasn't afraid to commit, something she claimed she was like that, too, unlike other guys she met before.
@@dazh686 I didn’t miss the point. Culture plays a huge role in dating. It’s why interracial dating has common breakups.
"We communicate by Google Translate"
Buddy Once The B Panda i cant💀💀
LMAOO💀💀💀
thats why they're no longer together sksksidbr
Google translate can cause misunderstandings!
i snorted
Perhaps you should do a video “do Korean men want to marry a foreigner?” as a follow up video.
Or asking parents what they think of the idea to have a foreigner enter their family (male or female). Bc isn't it a big fear of a couple that their families would dislike it/ would disagree with the relationship?
Also I think it is interesting that the answers often sound like an exchange program 😅 words like learning, cultural experience and memories (implying that the relationship will not last).
There is nothing wrong with all that but it seems they mostly think of it as a temporary idea.
I agree
Yeah good question but hmm
Agree - feel like it’s out of curiosity but for how long.
@@michellemckinney4678 I think it depends if you accept his family and love them and respect them and he does the same, marriage can succed. What's on paper doesn't matter more than love. I claim.
I Love the way Google translate kept a relationship going for 4 years. :]
Ikr 😂😂😂
joanne rose thats ridiculous, its nice when everything is starting but not for 4 years, during this time u both can learn each other languages 😁
IKR? I tried dating a Chinese guy for 2 months and believe me it was hard, most of the time the translation goes really wrong xD
Lol!!
I am Proud of Google Translater For the first Time...😂😂
I'm a Korean guy whos born and raised in Seoul, South Korea.
I still remember when I was about 16 or 17, There was one foreign girl named Maxine in my public high school.
She was a sweet white girl (you know.. quite typical American girl who is sweet, kind, pretty and has curvy figure) from Rhode Island, US.
Every students in my high were quite curious so they ran to her homeroom trying to talk to her in their broken English and body language every break time.
Luckily for me I once lived in UK for 7 years earlier in my childhood, so I had no problem communicating with her in English.
Since I was in the same classroom with her (we don't move to different classes everytime in Korean Secondary schools), I suddenly became an "Interpreter" that in need everytime those kids trying to deliver what they wanted to say.
So we naturally started to talk to each other and got quite friendly.
After that, Suddenly this question crossed my mind so one day I asked my parents, "Mother, Father, What would you say if I date and maybe marry a non-Korean girl in the future?".
They look quite surprised and quickly they started to emphasise their point in Korean-style Beating around the bush way, "Uhmm.. Son , well.. I know you what you mean sure sure I do unerstand
you are 17, maybe a fully grown man now but umm son still.. umm we want you to.. date .. yeah maybe dating alright but Maybe we want you to marry a Korean girl and have a Korean looking baby just like you and your future wife, just like your dad and myself".
for you who don't understand, that means they're fine with me *dating* a foreign girl but please don't *marry* a foreign girl.
So I planned to become a little rebellion to prove very clear point of mine to my parents that I am gonna live *MY LIFE* un-bothered by anyone.
Started to think how to ask Max out, Making some scenarios.
Next morning comes, I went to school, My heart was beating so fast concerning about my ass being rejected all the time...
In lunch break (I always ate lunch at the same table with her since she came), she asked me something with very nervous attitude that i can read from her face.
"So.... Seop? Do you maybe have a time this Saturday afternoon maybe? I am trying to go to River Han but I don't know how to go there.. I mean it is okey if you are busy I totally understand"
I said " Yes sure of course" right away. then she smiled big.
Later I noticed she was very tired waiting for me to ask her out first because apparently I was one hell of a senseless guy that had ignored all of her signs
And yes, After we became boyfriend and girlfriend, I introduced her to my parents.
They were super shocked and surprised, They were saying "Oh... You.. You guys are dating ohh haha what a lovely young couple in love haha"
However I can tell by their face that they were not that happy.
But soon after all, since I'd got asked out by one real fine young lady, so she changed all the stereotypes of foreign people in my parents head.
Later, Even my mom and dad asked me first "How's that cute American girl doing these days? You guys won't get back together anymore? not even a single chance? XD"
we had been together for like.. almost 3 years and then I broke up with her right after the highschool.
Because I decided to go to Military for 4 years ... professionally.. although she was crying and said she can wait for that.
I thought it would be the best for both of us at that time since she also needed to get back home in the US.. I still kinda regret that a bit XD.
Now I got discharged from the military not long ago, and recently found her on FB. she hasn't changed and she is in new love, damn she looked happy XD
So I left her a short message and she replied me back, we even did a little Facetime.
She was a bit teary but still she looks happy and thats it for me (I am not a guy that crosses the line)
I hope she would be happy and wishes may great luck follows her after all.
SeopTheLittleGiant cute! There are 99 percent good looking guys but the rest go to my school 😅!
계속 연락이라도 하시지 그러셨어요
Oh...u text touched my heart so much. Its a lovley Story and I was smiling while I read, that she is happy now. Its so kind of u, that u wish her all the best.
I wish you all the best in 2021 (especially health these days). I hope u have found a new love or u will find it. Thanks for sharing us u story. :)
Many greetings from Berlin, Germany.
wow 😭 that was the sweetest story ever
This is so cute and heart-warming 😭💕
I‘m Korean but born and raised in Germany.
I‘ve been talking to my male cousins in Korea and one thing I have to tell y‘all is.
When they talk about dating “foreigners“they either think of Japanese , Chinese , Southeastern asian countries or blonde european girls tbh.
They are not that open-minded when it comes for example to a black girl
WE BEEN KNEW
김민수 thats sad
but i guess its everyones personal preference
It's true.
김민수 DEUTSCHLANDDDD
I hate how they treat it as an “experience”. Like either you genuinely love the person or not. Dating someone you don’t actually feel romantically attracted to is sick to me.
Asians including koreans use the term "experience" very loosely tho compared to westerners. For westerners saying "it would be an experience" is mostly referring to a short term relationship that's mostly physical but for us an experience isn't that at all, we usually refer it to being in a new environment and gaining from it, in this case dating a foreigner is that situation and that has nothing to do with being in a sort of short term thing or anything like that but more as in a life experience kinda thing.
Korean use the word about “experience” when they love each other through
the mutual sense of solidarity. Not just one night stand.
It’ s called “ride the white horse 🤠”: some of them think that foreigner girls are easy to get and try to do the nasties 🤭 with them... just for fun 😔🤚🏻
@@Thv_bss this is a realy sad reality that's quite prevalent in East Asia and even here in Southeast Asia. Some men sees white girls as liberated and easy to get type of women. Media is one of the reason for this kind of mindset, I blame them for this because they created this kind of stereotype towards girls from the West.
I think this is more about men being men ugh
I seriously would hate being called "an experience". If a man would even mention that dating me is an experience in a conversation, that would be the end of the convo whatsoever.
If a man - Korean or any other nationality - says something like that, it just means he's not serious about you and it's better to save yourself a heartbreak later on and just let him go.
I don't care for any of that bullsh*t. Some people need to just grow up.
But that's exactly what dating is, it's an experience. What to determine is if that experience will last as long as you want it to. It's not rude at all to say you want to experience dating someone, especially in this case when most of these men have never dated outside their race, because it's not you who is the experience but the relationship itself. They can still care for you afterward if things ended because they aren't used to it.
@YNKI That depends on what your expectations are. If you're a teen or in your early 20's and you're not looking for any sort of commitment, then it's all fine and dandy. Have fun "experiencing". But if you actually have proper feelings for that man and are a little bit older then it's a no no.
Periodt.
Could see that someone would mention it. The way they say it is pretty crude and more like rude in a way, that part cannot be denied. But they are pretty young and don't pay that much attention to the manner they say. Hope u don't feel offended.
Ola K OMG !! EXACTLY!!!! I was just about to post something like this!!
As a korean boy I always do what my father says to me and my father said 'you can date foreign girls, but not marry.'
But
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I am a Bad boy, father, sorry.
조창영 3dgy
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lol😂👑
Wow i like bad boys 😂😂
cool👍✨😊
I'm a Korean man so I can give you my reasonable view. I'm a poor to English so I hope it could be readable for the eng speakers. Recent Korean men don't or can't marry foreign girls even Korean girls too since most young Korean bois and girls are facing economic problems and having a hopeless future due to the lack of job opportunity but also overworking and underpaying as same as global issues. We mostly decide not to marry and not to have a baby since we assume that our child will be another slave for money-many people. Not able to afford to raise a child if you have insufficient money in Korea. Well, You can actually raise a child but your dream, favorites, decent cars and everything that would be disappeared but your life demands you unlimited sacrifice and responsibility for your child. We are keen to marry!! but this is a reality and young people are being more protective and cautious than the previous generation. I think other cultures are facing similar problems.
Oh plus, some mates think that when Koreans think foreign people they just think of whites. An excuse tells that Korea is and was geographically, diplomatically and historically isolated from the world. We had not enough chance to see the people from other soils but we've seen you just through media, movies, and music. Those were mostly from US coming up Caucasians. So I think we are psychologically operated by media and western culture domination to think only whites. It's just my personal excuse. I honestly love you all who love my country no matter what colors you are.
Very nice, realistic point of view 😊
Followmefellow aw we love you too!! 😍😘
Thank you for your input! You said it well ^^
Hey it ok no need to worry 👍👍
DE L I love South Korea, you guys are so hardworking and determined -from the U.S.A🇺🇸
"once in a lifetime opportunity"
"good experience"
ARE WE A FIELD TRIP FOR YOU?!
You're right. I'm disappointed. But as 2 of my aunt's got married to Koreans and are living happily I think it's not everyone like them.
Indeed!
Oh!!..you nailed it 🤣🤣
@@SkinTipsTalk omg I’m so happy for your aunts 💕 also, Tae and Yeontan 🥺
I mean most girls are head over heels for them because they are exotic. Keep in mind also that Korea is homogeneous, so dating outside your race is taboo.
the thing is i hate that they think of us as test subjects like they said yeh its a once in a lifetime opportunity but why would you?so you can say you've dated a foreigner? its like were on there to do list
xlola_bmx
You have to get a korean guy that doesn’t WORRY about what people think, and is OPEN MINEDED. They are hiding in korea you just gotta find that certain one .. that KNOWS what HE WANTS then you have struck gold!! :)
xlola_bmx I was thinking the same thing. Basically they just want to "experience it" and "learn" from it. We are like lab rats to them.
honestly. We’re like a goal on their bucket list lmao
@@oomfyes223 yeah but isnt it a goal on some girl´s bucket list too... i know girls who are into kpop and they must date asian guys to just stay cool...the fuck... so so weird
It’s called “riding the white horse” ;-;
The question now should be : Do korean guys want to MARRY foreign girls 😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo what ? That much person can relate to what I said, never imagined that aha
A B omg the whole video is gonna be like “hmmmm”
EXACTLLYY😂😂
J Kim don’t say « better »
Yeah maybe more open minded, but like don’t say « better » cause it’s discriminating
Some do.
@@mpv4372 I'm dead😂😂😂😂😂
I would definitely date an Asian man...
But not as an “experience”
that just makes me feel like something to try then move on to something else..
Sarah Chang I’ve seen even black with Korean, married and kids. You don’t speak for everyone.
Emily Franklin I discovered Asians were my type when I was 14 and went on a date with A Vietnamese guy tht was 18 or 19 at the time and for some reason I haven’t gotten out of that😐
Same here! I actually love other cultures and I think it would be super cool if they could teach me their language!
@@ramennoodles2500 You know what I think it is? It's that Korean men tend to look/dress and act a certain way and many women are attracted to that. It's like the young Leonardo Dicaprio era, you know what I mean? Boyish, cute look, I live for it. If western men did the same, they'd receive so much attention also. But most of them are more into a macho, look, and don't tend to care much for their appearance
Yeah they just wanna date a foreign but they’d never actually think of having a future with them it’s just more of an experience than anything else
"a good experience"
What are we a stage? Hahahah
Tyrone Catkiller Kang so you mean to tell me being fat is a flaw? Wth
Starmoon Plays MSP LMAOOOOOOOO WHAT IS HE SAYING
Tyrone Catkiller Kang how tf is wearing glasses a flaw? Ur just insecure
Aisha A Fr
Tyrone Catkiller Kang BLAHAHAHAHAHA the thing is that I ain’t fat 💀 and yes being fat is not a flaw. I will not curse you I just pray you find God and learn to love everyone. Please mind your words. I’m not someone who really cares what people say but what you said was horrifyingly mean. It can hurt someone. I really wanna cuss at you but I won’t but I will not cease to dox you and curse you out and put out that WiFi of yours if you say something again. Know have a good day.
why are there so many videos about 'do korean men date foreign girls?' like stop
Because it's well watched so they get a lot of money. And they delete the people that say that they don't want to date so the viewers will be happier and supporting the channel more causing them to have more money
Because we all click anyways ugh I hate the fact that I actually watched thus
I feel like kpop has something to do with it😂😂😂😂
Ikr
@@siomy05 AHAHAHAHAH
*koreaboos joined the channel*
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA omg trueeee
Yep....😅
EXPOSED
😂😂😂😂
Exposed
"Don't come to korea thinking that all the korean man looks like BTS"
a youtuber once said
(Oh my god when did this happened??? The amount of like!! )
The TH-camr is Rachel Kim😂
BTS who?
OMG IK WHO
See korean dramas first
honestly stop-
Uhh
You don’t know who bts is?
*me coming to Korea
want to find the love of my life and live a long life together loving each other
*koreans
“It’ll be just a good experience”
why would u go to Korea to find the love of ur live?
Wow are you racist or something? Hate how you said all Koreans.
@@petesampras3188 prob because her ideal type Is someone Korean.
Mayafudgeshy not all mens vibez
На тебя тут наехали
Can y'all Korean men just be honest and say that y'all want a one night stan with a foreigner woman and move on ugh .
Ikr😂😂
WhatUSeeIsWhatUGet Many would not SAY that bcz they DO NOT feel that way. There have been many who have married their black girlfriends. Raunchy videos like those of Beyonce, Rhianna, Normandi and Nikki Manaj doesn’t help either.
Well, Koreans are different with western people
LOVER B Not all. Just like we treat foreigners DIFFERENTLY too. This world seems like it is spiraling OUT OF CONTROL sometimes.
they just want bussy , they dont want no serious relationship tbh 😔😔
Usually when they mean "foreign" girl, they mean
"Foreign" = White
yepppp
wait nvm one specified his friend dating a chinese girl. so I think they mean other asians or whites
I cant really agree with that though. A lot korean men are interested into black girls and latinas, other asian countries. korean often have a bad opinion about white ones to be honest. ive met plenty with a stuck opinion about white people in general. though of course theres been others too, but usually those are the ones that study for example here in germany.
@@Amadare26 have you been to Korea? just wondering, I would like to go, but sometimes videos like this are disheartening.
@@srslee5966 to korea itself sadly not. im having friends there mixed internatiol couple actually a korean guy and american girl that are happily married. not all koreans are the same so dont be dishearted^^ the younger ppl are a lot more open minded. but also for them it isnt that long to get used to foreigners in their country like its in china for example for a longer time already. i know a lot koreans that are really nice, friendly and warmhearted. ♥
"It's more about compatibility, not nationality"
Thumbs up to this answer👍🏻👍🏻❤️❤️❤️
Very true👌🏻❤️
“it would be a good experience” wtf they basically just wanna test us, gross.
Ikr
100% true, unfortunately. I will say; however, that's it's not all Korean men. There are good guys and bad guys in every country. It all depends on how you meet the guy and how he interacts with you. You can always tell which type of guy is which. If you're up for an "experience" go for it, but if you're looking to be seen as potential for a future then pay attention to how the guy talks to you.
Ben Hakim ??
Well they had nicer things to say than Japanese men =/.
Thank you for saying that
*ok but if this idea turns into a fetish then........sis no*
Your pic goes so well with the comment 😂✨🍒🌞
@@bruh-ri4cs actually, you're not wrong at all.it's called riding the white horse. Sorry to be inappropriate but you brought it up XD
If it’s fetish, Throw the whole relationship away!
i thought we don’t judge people for kinks and fetishes.
ivyy.wg it lowkey already is 😩
Why are there so many videos about this omg 🙄
일라 일라 ikr
To give koreaboos any sense of hope
Ikr
You’re a white girl with your name in asian characters eye-
THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING
So they just wanna test us out but not be serious about it?
That’s messed up.
wait give them some slack, generally ppl dont know what they like so they must try things out, and if they like they can get married, if not then its a good learning experience
What Korean guys say: "I want to date a foreigner".
What "Korean guys mean: I want to date a white foreigner".
Biohazardous Memeing and? I’ll never understand the jealousy.....
You do know the history of Korea right? Oh wait no you don't that's why your comment is unnecessary...
Haha no they mean a chinese girl
whit girls ain’t the way to go they just - yk
Alice Wong what jealousy?
when Koreans think of dating foreigners, they just think about a different type of asian (chinese/Japanese/filipino/vietnamese etc) or a White/Caucasian girl. it’s like they don’t even consider other girls like latinas or africans :(
I'm Latina and my boyfriend is Korean.
It's true that most of guys have that preference, but not all are like that.
Jhoselyn Cuadros That’s good to know :’) gives me a bit of hope to find someone some day
I rather date Latina than Korean girl, from a Korean guy.
Moses Yi the world needs more like you 😭😭
Koreans all love... Latina and African ♥♥
I’m dating Korean guy, and have been for a while. I’m meeting his parents in 4 months time.
In Korea, you only meet the parents if you plan on marrying that person, if not your parents don’t meet them.
My boyfriend has told me, he plans on proposing to me this December.
So yes some do want to marry or have proper relationship with foreigners. Some just want to experience/experiment with it.
But isn’t that the same with anyone?
At the end of the day, you fall in love with who you want to fall in love with
장민이 congrats!!!
true though!!!
It is a smarter way finding the eternal companion after many trials.
Congrats!
Congratulations!!! 👏🏾🌹🎉
장민이 1) congrats for the wedding and 2) make this comment go viral
0:52 honestly i came here for him
Same he maybe took my heart ahhaha
Can we date or something 😂😂 0:51
I believe his Instagram is @zeze_hi , I saw it in another comment but to me it didn't look like,him
@@taekookenthusiastandanalys2665 yeah u r right I don't think that he is that person
bangtan kookie
Handsome...
To handsome for me lol
there’s a lot of girls who fetishize
asians particularly Korean men and Koreaboos they will just like Korean men because they are Korean they don’t care about them or anything they just like them because they are Korean but it is the other way around as well Korean guys just only want us foreigners is because they have this dream or ideal type for hooking up with a foreigner they don’t actually like us but they just wanna hook up with us so just like with Koreaboos they don’t really care for the guy to watch they just like him because he is solely Korean. I don’t speak for all Korean men but mostly Korean men think this way about us foreigners so please just be careful if you date a korean guy I don’t judge you can do whatever you want but just be careful. make sure he likes you for the right reasons not because you’re just a foreigner
I was just about to comment this and then I saw you already said it.Koreaboos and other unrealistic Kpop lovers view Korean men in the same manner...so 🤷♀️its only logical
gucci tae Exactly, you took the words right out of my mouth... it’s like a knife that cuts on both sides. Nowadays, it‘s a hype, en vogue, a fashion trend and the absolute “it- thing”, Korean men looking for non- Asian women and vice versa. Looks like both men and women benefit from it equally! Whatever the reason may be. As long as it comes along naturally and based on real affection and love, it’s the most beautiful thing that can happen! But if it happens out of some weird thoughts like fetishism, curiosity, financial or social background, it’s definitely the wrong way... no matter what, 2 people building their life together and marrying should always be born out of the love they feel for each other, regardless their age, beauty, gender or origin. Real love doesn’t need a reason, it is the reason...
That's true it's both side not just korean men. Many black and Asian women also get fetishized very often.
Thanks
I agree with this.
I’m gay
GIRL I AGREE TOOOOOOO!
Agree👌💯
🙄
Strongly agree
Most korean guys think like this. So avoid them altogether lol
I have noticed by watching these type of videos that most korean males tend to want to date a foreinger only as a bucket list wish.And if you see the married international couples or just couples on youtube .They are are the same a korean boy with a white chick with blue eyes most of the time.If she doesn’t have blue eyes she is white as f.They can only picture a foreinger as a wife if is white bc you know we have those standards so if we are taking it to marriage lets marry that type because its “pretty “.So ,I think the chance of you marrying a korean is low and almost impossible if you are either black or tanned and not with blue eyes and thats the tea sis 🍵.
Marina
You have to get a korean guy that doesn’t WORRY about what people think including his family, and is OPEN MINEDED. They are hiding in korea you just gotta find that certain one .. that KNOWS what HE WANTS then you have struck gold!! :)
I agree with you but I'm an Indian and my boyfriend is Korean and we really love each other very much! So it's about finding the person who will truly love you regardless of your nationality and appearance! 💕
크리티kriti I hope you the best and only happiness but I was talking in general how these couples end up .💕
@@51844mj that's like a 0.1% chance
@@Marina-ek1ht Yeah! Thank you! ☺
0:52 congratulations you were gorgeous enough to be the thumbnail
I thought he was idol
Well congrats to that guy cause he just made it up to my crushes list
Yea he is my stranger crush hahaha
(Why I sound stupid?)
Looks like an idol indeed
"It would be a good experience"
Yeah, this is my line whenever I want to try a new job. A good experience. Dating a foreigner for them seems to be a training ground lol. Not speaking in general, but yeah it seems that most of them thinks like that.
Lol haha yeah it seems so. I guess people these days just date for fun of it, and everyone has their own agenda.
Right like it would look good on resume lol
actully im a korean men. and i have never thought that ‘A good expression’ is discomfort expression for dating. and after i watched this video and read some comments, i really understand the discomfort that many guys feel from the expression.
in korea, like any other nations, dating is big and important part of life. it is related not only to sincere love, but to imporving the outlook that should be aquired to find like-minded spouse and to be better self for the partner. so many parents, including my, tell their child to have many dating experince as possible before marriage.
so yes, like you said, most of koreans think dating kind of training.. and i cant deny this is not a instrumental mindset.
but i hoplly want you to know that kind of mindset is not generated by selfish desire, but even by sincerity about love affair.
and lastly i really hope you understend my pool english which learned from korean SAT😂😂
I WANT SOMEONE TO MAKE A VIDEO ASKING KOREAN MEN IF THEY WANT TO MARRY A FOREIGNER NOT DATE (Sorry for all the caps sksksk)
민수가 yes there are many korean men married to foreign girls,check out anwf videos
They have.
I do not.
“Compatibility not nationality”
that’s it, that’s the tweet.
Someone drop the instagram account of the guy at 0:51 I need it for umm a science project
Uuhm me too😂
Me too its our major project it will affect my grades really bad. Someone knows his ig? Hahaha
Saammmmmmeeeeeee
someone come in clutch .. our grades matter
zeze_hi
(sorry 😅)
me: i think they mean foreign as in white , black, hispanic, etc.
them: *basically other asians* (filipino, chinese, japanese, etc.)
me: *cri*
arc. edits Lol i don't even know what flatter means and I don't understand your comment either
K-popper love 😐how old are- wow you are uneducated
K-popper love jesus okay umm when you get older you’ll understand that koreans are just like everyone else and they don’t act like kpop idols. just remember not to single a race out and be open minded
One of them mentioned France. I think they're thinking of both Asian and non-Asian foreigners. Don't worry. 😂😂
I think what you should be worried about, though, is that while they're open to dating, it kind of sounds like they'd only appreciate it because they're experiencing something new. :( I kind of get the vibe that they're good with dating, but settling down isn't exactly on the table; like maybe it's not expected to be long term.
Asia also consists of other nations like Afghanistan,India,Pakistan but people usually just think of it as Chinese Japanese Korean. And nationality doesn't matter. It's that you and the other person should be able to understand each other in everyway
So why are we not talking about the guy at 2:28? IG account is needed
He looks like the actor kang ha- neul
I came down here to say the exact same thing! I'd date him!
Are you all being sarcastic I can't tell?
Edit: oh wrong person you ment...2:29
..
he's a whole meal
This video changed my mindset of Korean guys.
In a bad way
GOT7 is omg omg my heartu ...Imagine seeing a video with only 0.00000000001 percent of a race giving their opinion, and changing your mindset (in a bad way) on millions of people. Do what ya wanna do, but couldn’t be me..
Qhahhahahah
I already had bad mindset of Korean men lmfao.
Im a huge fan of Korea and everything Korean but I never idolise men.Of any nationality-they're all just men after all👌
I already had a bad mindset about korean man x2
To be polite, I think (most of) koreans see dating foreigners as an experience, but not like a project of life, if ya know what I mean
Yeah, I think they just want to try it out to see what it's like dating a foreign girl but don't actually want to marry then or have a long lasting serious relationship
Not all the time 😊
My boyfriend is korean and we've been together for a long time. And we are moving together in May. C:
Emese Pados congraats 😊 any advice aha ?
Yep that’s what I said « most of » aha 😌
The USA yeah of course
But I personally don’t want to date someone who straight up sees me as an « experience »..
A B
Be yourself girl 🌸 Korean men are just like every men around the world. :)
A little bit different culture wise , but man is a man everywhere. 💁🏻
“It would be good to learn a different language or culture.” Then take an effin class
Man y'all out here outraged about anything
Lmao that’s a bit harsh. Because if you’re going to be with a foreigner you’re undoubtedly going to learn about each others cultures
@@jinphany. As commentary based on the question, that's fine, point is, the way some of them say it, it sounds like they don't care about the person at all. As usual, it'll depend on the person and no everyone thinks the same, but, people who shared their own experiences, Koreans and non-Koreans, they say that sometimes they're only interested on the exotic factor of a foreigner and once they have satisfied that curiosity, they just leave, it was never about the person from the beginning.
@@dazh686 yes that case is obviously different but I feel many of them are curious by a foreigner as I am, and if I were to date a foreigner whether I loved them or not it would still be a new experience and for learning. But in the cases where they only go out with you for their curiosity is just wrong and insensitive I agree!
@@dazh686 isn't everyone watching this video because these men are exotic?? They're Korean and that's what makes you wanna click on this video?? Lmao you're shaming them for being curious about dating foreigners but you're literally watching a video about some random strangers' dating preferences just cause they're Korean. Hypocrisy much??
I once met a Korean man on facetime, he said i was pretty and then put the call down. wtf was he shy or what
omfg im laughing
@@TALYJIMMY i still dont understand the probpem
On drugs maybe........🤣
Maybe he find you ugly
@@ainarrania443 Shut up
As a foreigner living in Korea, yes most of them don’t mind dating a foreign girl. But sometimes their parents are against it
Bcs their parent love plastic
They don't like blk based on TV over there, not experience.
The fact that he use the term "try" like if we are meat is very hard...
one love ik..:|
i’m seeing a lot of people misinterpreting the way they used the word “experience”.....i think what they meant by that is, they would step out of their cultural background to try something new. they never said that we were an “experiment” for them. just like us, you obviously 1) want to date a korean guy/girl or 2) you were just curious about what they had to say. they’re obviously open to the idea if they had a chance, they never meant to offend anyone, they were just speaking what they felt. i personally do think it would be a good experience for me to date a korean man if i had the chance, a lot can come out of that experience. learning a new language, learning about their culture, learning more about their country, trying new foods, and so much more! and if it doesn’t work out you take what you liked about him/her and see if you can find it in someone else. 😊
Love your words!
@Inw TH-cam I second that!!!!
Also want to say if it is an "experience or experiment " well then I lucked out in Chemistry because I will be married to my beautiful husband for one year next month! So people please put the misinterpretation away!
@@liuxianglee1433 ahhhhhhh congratulations 😭how exciting i wish you both the best❤️
@@danicamendoza9373 thank you so much you are so sweet🤗🤗💛💛💜
*40% of the comments are about how Korean men would like to date a foreign girl as a experience. The other 60% are koreaboos and fans going crazy about how most of the guys are cute*
“But it would be a good experience”
This ain’t it boo
omg this is the kinda comment i was about to type
"it's about compatibility, not nationality" that hit me 👏🏼👏🏼
I’m skeptical of Korean men bc of the whole “흰 암말을 타다” fetish. At the same time can we really be mad about it? Look at all the girls fetishizing them because of BTS/kpop.
soooo true m8 😔
What does 흰암말을 타다 mean?
One of them is my EX omg 😂
I tried to learn how to speak korean because of him, but we broke up because of Distance... wait no! We broke up because he Cheated on me 😂 .. that was long time ago. Im happy to see him here 😂
Lol
Damn which one?
Which one?
Really, you're trippin right? 😂😂
really? what a son of a bi, boys shouldnt cheat like this
:They communicated through google translate for 3 years
Weverse: am I a joke to you ?
The guy at 0:51 literally came out of a KDrama!!! And his voice omg!!
His voice sounded like chanyeol
But his opinion so raw and not respectful...
I thought it was all in my mind till I came across this comment 😅💔
I know righttttt!!!!!😍😍🔥❤️
I was really admiring him until he said "it would be a good experience"
Guys just remember,
“Love yourself. Our insecurities aren’t real insecurities. “Self hate is our insecurities manifesting into fake flaws. The only thing flawed is our confidence.” (Credits to writer)
Every one of us has their own preferences, mistakes. We can’t possibly change. But we have to accept ourselves first before learning to accept them.
yeah most korean guys are just looking for the experience and won't be serious about your relationship, but there will always be those who are too.
I met my fiance in 2015 in Seoul and we are getting married in Spring. He comes from a conservative family, I was the first foreigner he'd spoken to besides his English teachers, and he had never even left Korea before. So it doesnt matter their background, it just matters if hes a good guy and you guys match well. Love is love.
Awh that’s adorable I hope everything is well with you guys!
Aaaw cute
They talk like they're renting a horse.
i invite u to google baekma tada ...........................u'll c
"It'd be a good experience"
@@weamabbas7802 what about all the girls who just want to date Koreans because of Kpop? We’re just as guilty as they are and we know it.
HAHAHAHAHHA
What Ive learned from this video(and some others) is be hyper aware of Korean men only interested in you for the “experience” rather than genuine liking. I think it might be a bit surprising to them that not all us western girls are “liberal”. And we don’t all just date for fun.
Yes! I have learned this and now know to ask early on like within the first 3 dates if they are just looking for someone to date for fun not be serious or are they looking for something that has the potential to be longterm. Also another question is are your parents against marrying a foreigner if so how do you feel about that?
From not even a handful of Korean men.
Please don't generalize us like that
"Only wanting you for the experience" Is true for some Korean men but just like the girls interested we have preferences too. No doubt a majority of the girls only want the experience as well especially since we're as close to a kpop idol they'll ever get. That same generalization is what makes everything an 'experience' on both ends
That's true of all men tbh. Especially if you are different from them/not a white person.
I honestly dislike how people compare other Koreans to Kpop groups.
My boyfriend is korean - we are now dating for 8 months and even living together by now. We never had any issues regarding cultural differences- even his parents send me presents from korea (We live in Berlin, he moved here 1 year ago.) I couldn’t be happier. 💕
M L Well, it was under my recommendations- I see nothing wrong with it?
es que estás bien buena, como no se va a enamorar de ti no mames
thindarella und wie läuft es bei euch jetzt,wenn ich fragen darf
CUTE 😭❤️
Because You are white. Not the same standard with Black or latinos.
A lot of videos I've watched : aLL kOreAn guys ArEnTttT KPOP STARS
Videos interviewing koreans : they all hot af
wait are you blind?!
That's just called having lowing standards and an East Asian fetish, honey.
@@haruzanfuucha Well, I won't say the guys in this video are ugly but yeah...I won't say they are hot af either. They just look normal which is not bad.
RIGHT ?
@@yamatonadeshiko567 0:52 and 1:48 are really handsome though
I feel like when Koreans think of foreign ppl they just think of whites from the US or Europe
@*ALienTaeTae* facts
If you go to Korea, the advertisements; if it isn’t a korean woman or man, best believe it’s a white woman or man, last on the list would be Latina’s or Indian, they would have blacks up there sometimes.
It’s just we have to remember it’s their country still. They have a right on who they want to marry or date, in their own country.
Who they want to advertise in their own country, if they want to get married too a foreigner or not.
We as people need to adapt to their culture, it’s respectful. Just like if they come to America, they have to adapt to American standards.
Qu AudioReact I agree with everything you said. Well stated
Ikr they wouldn't know of course but natives of U.S. aren't white 🤷🏾♀️😐😶
Of course white is pure for them
I support Koreans saying "This would be a good experience" and most of the comments who are offended by this are just girls being simps , they don't love Korean as a human they love Korean as a K drama . STOP simping , Koreans can have their choice .
0:56 me thinking about dating korean men 365 days a year
HAHAHA LITERALLY
@morocco saram absolutely 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@realboahancock 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s me thinking about Korean women lol
@@jonahrodriguez1101 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"It's not about nationality but compatibility" ❤️
This guy at 0:51 is so handsome.. I actually dropped my croissant
i think u have a korean men fetish :D
@@petesampras3188 They just said that one of those guys is handsome, that doesnt mean they automatically have a fetish.
@@idontreallyknowagoodname4191 trust me they have fetish here in chat, read all the comments, most of the them like the guy at 0:51 and he is the only one of them who looks plastic and uses a lot of make up
@@petesampras3188 I know that a lot of the people in the Comments have a fetish, Im just saying that not every person that thinks one of the guys is beautiful/handsome is automatically a fetishist.
I totally agree , he’s just so beautiful
It only depends of personality and character compatibility,from my perspective the only thing that could be a barrier its the language. My boyfriend its Korean,and no i didn't search or been obsessed to date a korean it just happened out of suddently. I think the fact that he is open minded about alot of stuffs make us work so well together,and trust me he do care alot of his culture,but we both try to embrace the differences, and try to enjoy it. I could say that maybe the fact that we both in our 30's made it even more easier for us to find a common ground even if we come from different backgrounds. I would not change him for anything,what started as a funny friendship will soon end as a interacial family. What im trying to say is that its not ok to fetishize a race,and that a relationship should come natural, and based on character,personality compatibility and NOT on a skin/race fetish.
As a Korean male myself, I think most Korean men don't care dating or for marriage in the outside of our culture as long as foreign girlfriend has a certain degree of willingness and courtesy accepting Korean manners as a daughter in law.
Since marriage is not only the personal tie still in Korea, having a Korean vibes or courtesy is the very concern most Korean males consider before jumping to the international relationship.
That's why we have more international couple from Japanese (most similar culture), China, Vietnam which are strongly originated from Confucianism and their marriage tend to be fitter than the other nations.
I had many international female friends when I studied overseas and many of them were interested in me getting to be serious relationship rather than staying the casual ones. But I wasn't sure if they may willing to accept the Korean social courtesy and manner especially to the elderly. So it is one of things most Korean males are cautious for the serious relationship and they tend to take the foreign girl friend as a date mate.
Paying respect to elderly is really not that hard tbh. I think all cultures in the world gives so much respect to elders. Courtesy to be given is an innate nature of humans. I think it goes down more on keeping the lineage pure. I think Koreans take pride in keeping the bloodline purely korean just because it had been that way for thousands of years. Your culture and your tradition is a treasure to you guys. It's your way of life. Foreigners (at least westerners) tend to portray a bad impression to asians because of oppressions and colonizations and wars, they see them as barbaric, oppresors, and liberated people. That's probably why most (not all) korean families are not open to interracial/foreign relationships 'cause they fear there might be drastic changes in the way of living as a whole and it might change the principles of their family member/s. But IDK tho 'cause we love who we love. As long as you're not going to consider dating foreigners for "experience" only then others' opinions don't really matter. Including your family's. They might resent you for a while, but family will always accept you and love you and support you no matter what. Important thing is you give genuinely love without a hidden agenda. Date to marry. Not date to bang. LOL 😅
@@introverttaciturn4133 Well rounded insights over the Korean culture.
We have 150.000 international marriage in Korea according to the Chosun Newspaper article in 2016, and 500.000 children from them and 300 millions of foreigners residents in Korea.
2 out 10 marriages are international marriage in Korea in 2017.
Statistically Korea is no longer homogenous society but still xenophobic for many of whom are old in Korea afraiding of the mixture of culture or eventually vanishing its cultural practice.
I think it is a natural alternative these days for Korean men that dating or international marriage is a smart option in replacement of marriage to Korean women who are extremely materialistic, demanding, and hardly satisfactory to their spouse. That's what the marriage phenomenon tells in the stats.
Korean govt even has put tremendous amount of efforts on the intercultural family and provided various social benefits and welfares. If you marry Korean and have children, monthly cash, free learnings, discounted transportation, medical service, education, nurturing, nursing, child labor cares, college entrance, optional military service, job seeking, on and on are provided to you.
Exact same thing in he Pakistani culture. I do think most places are more open to it now though. But yeah, same feels.
I respect my elders idc what culture they are from and it's just me but I'm willing to learn the correct language and body language of showing respect I have always been interested in the Korean and Japanese cultures it's something as an American Female I prefer Korean and Japanese culture
Plastic
1:00 i love this guy LOL HES SO HONEST
Most are just saying yes because of the “experience” lol that sure would make a girl feel special
Asians including koreans use the term "experience" very loosely tho compared to westerners. For westerners saying "it would be an experience" is mostly referring to a short term relationship that's mostly physical but for us an experience isn't that at all, we usually refer it to being in a new environment and gaining from it, in this case dating a foreigner is that situation and that has nothing to do with being in a sort of short term thing or anything like that but more as in a life experience kinda thing.
me (has no interest in going to korea, probably never will, doesn’t know korean, doesn’t even listen to kpop) : wow this is so useful!
The real question is would we want to marry them ? And a experience child please🤦🏽♀️
Asians including koreans use the term "experience" very loosely tho compared to westerners. For westerners saying "it would be an experience" is mostly referring to a short term relationship that's mostly physical but for us an experience isn't that at all, we usually refer it to being in a new environment and gaining from it, in this case dating a foreigner is that situation and that has nothing to do with being in a sort of short term thing or anything like that but more as in a life experience kinda thing.
@@potato_nyin_6448 yeah like something new that they would love to try
They are all talking about ''trying'' and ''experiencing'', not marrying. One comment said if a guy says something about you being a great experience, you better just leave. Totally agree! Like they probably don't feel anything, just want to try it and in the end, when they get bored dump you
Exactly.
it's messed up that foreigners are just "experiences"
Being open to learn from each other
This is absolutely amazing and POWERFUL for both to be willing to share each other roots
I THOUGHT THE TITLE SAID "DO KOREAN MEN WANT TO FIGHT FOREIGN GIRLS" SJSKKSSK IM SCREAMING
I had a Korean boyfriend and he’s my husband now. He’s so loving and caring like her mom. My mom in law treats me like her own daughter ever since and even more now since my mom died 3months ago. Btw, my husband is a year younger than me. I’m 26 now he’s 25. Gonna have our little one this April too.
You should see if Korean Woman want to date foriegn men.
Traveling Asia Asian women are more likely to date outside their race. You would more than likely not have a problem getting a Korean woman.
Tianeptine - yeah most of Asia is homogenous, however, many Koreans are people and people like to experiment and dating doesn’t mean marrying. It would not be hard to go over there and date around or fool around. It’s not different in most countries. Lots of people will do it to see what it’s like or for bragging rights.
@@lexiebee5018 How do you know this about Korea? (that it's not hard to go over there and date around or fool around). Have you been there? (and done that)
@Teringventje May I ask, what ethnicity are you/ what country are you from?
99% no unless they are blond with supermodel feature
0:56 me when someone asks me about bts
Same same😂
What a FAT mood 😂
Omg same 😂 we really do share the same brain cells lmao
Me too
this is gonna be the video to unite all the koreaboos
😂
I seriously thought this was going to be a straight up “no”.
0:51 Handsome. He looks like an actor.
And remember: when you mention ‘foreigners’ to Koreans the image they have is mainly white skin, blond, blue eyes so 😂
I'm in love with my korean boyfriend! He speaks English well enough to have conversation and he understands most of what i say! We had a connection instantly! I'm so happy with him!
lololol you really need to ask whether he play league of legend. if he do so, play it together! much funny relationship in classic korean male style
1:58 “but my ex-girlfriend was from the Philippines” hsjshjshs
honestly a lot of people want to go the japan/korea to date east asian people and honestly i’m going to tell you now it’s not like the k/j dramas some of the men in these countries will just see you as an experience and not actually want something serious with you, they just want to try it out and probably end up cheating on you with a girl with the same ethnicity because they got tired of you. honestly just go to these countries to enjoy the culture, food, the traditions, make new friends, appreciate the language, and honestly just have fun! (also i’m not generalizing all korean men)
seems like they have some sort of fetish tbh. :/
Wunderlust and they call people who like their culture koreaboos lol... what about them then ?? Foreigner fetish
What does fetish mean ?
@@lexicon9599 Koreans aren't the ones that call people Koreaboos though.. it's a Western term. Also from this video I wouldn't say any of them have a fetish. They were asked if they would be open to dating girls who aren't Korean and, living in a very homogeneous country, they all said they'd be open to it and would like the experience of learning about another culture- so where is the issue? it's not like they said they wouldn't date Korean girls.
@@JL-vw6gj Actually that guy at 1:03 was borderline fetishizing, but it can also just be viewed as overexaggerated enthusiasm for meeting foreign people in general.
@@JL-vw6gj you do know what homogenous means right?.. it's the opposite of difference basically, they're similar is what you kind of said.. which they're not, which is why they said 'foreigner.'
The sad fact is this is how most people everywhere think. People want all these experiences but they never want to commit. If you truly love someone race or what your parents say should not matter. All that matters is how someone treats you.
Don't believe in fairy tales woman!! The world is colder than you know.
I remember my first meeting to a korean guy, which is my husband now.☺️ how do we communicate? Google translate! 😅
Just learn the language wtf
@@CanopusLux frr tho
@@CanopusLux yes beacuse Google translate sometimes always doesn't get everything right but it's hard to learn a new language but I agree
EWWWWW
DATE UR OWN RACE
KOREANS DONT LIKE U
HE IS ONLY THERE WITH U CAUSE OF "ExPeRiEnCE"🤮
@Fatima Zahraa or maybe she shouldnt have married him
i def would want to be in a relationship but like google translating all the time? my laziness could never haha😅
Do foreigner girls want to date Korean men?
Well koreaboos would well I'm not korean/Asian but i think kpop fans or people who like kdramas would like to but for me it would be quite impossible to date a korean
@@onceuponaquokka9764 Yes. You are right. I am an Asian. I love kpop and kdrama, but I don't want to date Korean men just for an 'experience'. I only want to date any guy because of the likability and compatibility factor.
Foreign girls do want to date Korean men and there is a absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as the girl is not only limiting herself to Korean men. There are so many different men in this world and one should never pass up the chance to date one of them for the simple fact that the one will only look at one specific race.
No thank you
We are happy with our blond beautiful mans thank u next👌
2:39 So nobody is talking about him? He gives gentle and calm vibes and he's attractive too
0:51 "It would be a good experience " guy, looking like a good experience, if only his IG would be known.. 😯
Girls commenting "Koreans only mean white girls when they say foreigner , we should not date someone by their ethnicities " at the same time these girls simping behind a particular race "korean" by themselves 💀
Just because in this video the korean men say that they would only like to try etc (nothing serious) does not mean that all Koreans think the same, I mean they say that because they have not met a foreigner yet, they are not in love with a foreigner etc so don’t worry about that bc I’m sure they would like to marry us.....FIGHTING!
@@aliyyah3770 come on its not the end of the world if you didn't marry a Korean or asian boy, I mean don't show them that you would die to marry a koran boy,
I feel like ppl need to understand that Korean Men (in general) being asked if they'd date a foreigner is behaviour that we left behind in 2018. PERIOD.
This is because dating a foreigner us seen as a "once in a lifetime opportunity" and a "an experience". Foreign girls aren't test subjects. We arent pix 'n' mix sweets for you to choose as you like. Nobody deserves to be objectified like that and so thats why I personally left this typa b.s. behind in 2018.
Sorry for the rant, I just felt like it had to be said
You left it behind in 2018 yet here you are in 2019 commenting on it. If you truly left it behind you would have passed this right up and not stopped in😂🤣😂
@@krystalrayne5235 Gurl bye. I comment in 2019 about shit i left behind in 2018 because its 2019 and yall need to get your act together
@@teemae3789 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Tee Mae tell em off
I‘m a German girl actually and I would say it depends just on the person, no matter if they‘re another nationality or something like that. If you’re in love, nothing stops you
It's about your heart and personality that counts...looks are secondary!!