@@olukemiidowu5326and that's why his children also forbid him from marrying another wife? Is that part of reaping too? God help any man that never have plan B for his life.
For six children to "abandon " him at old age simply means that he abandoned them when they were very young. We see these types of men in our community all the time, I feel nothing for them.
Nobody should be able to turn SIX ADULTS against THEIR FATHER if there is nothing happening. There is no smoke without fire. KII BURU BURU, KO MA KU ENIKAN MONI That being said, what those children n their mother are doing is VERY VERY BAD. Saying it's bc they are females is not true, I know females who love their fathers to d moon n back.
Anyways, there's no smoke without fire. When Baba was a younger man, what was his relationship with his wife and children.? I know many men whom in their hair years were radicals who ignored their wife and vhildren and went the high Street with chick's and chickens. The woman stayed for the sake of her children and tolerated a lot. They forget that old age would come one day. His story is one-sided, until we hear from the wife, then we can have a stand. We wishhim goodhealth till God calls him home. Think of it, how can a woman leave her husband at that age when they already have their own home, yet she went ahead to build a house for herself? The man knows what he is not telling his host. Again , how old is the woman, is she a younger woman than the man?. Anyway it is what it is. Women endure a lot in certain marriage. Maybe tomorrow, Yul Edochie may narrate his story differently, those who hear will judge from his own narrative without the real gist.
I agree with u aunty adunni,we cant judge because we avnt heard from the wife.Something tells me the man is not telling the truth,the man must av hurt his wife terribly.She is paying him back nd the husband is doing pity party.Because all the children abandoned the father shows that the man has really fucked up.He is a bad man!!trust me.
We only hear one side of the story if it's possible let hear from the woman before we judge but I strongly believe that the Baba has skeleton in his Cupboard that is not ready to disclose
No, Aunty Aduni. Girls love their father. Boys love their mothers. There's more to this than to meet the eyes. Until you ask the woman, there is nothing to say. I have my own journey, thank God that I have witnesses, but to people who do not know the real story, he tells them different stories!! We have to be careful how we judge any matter, God knows everything.
That's not true, having boys or girls children have nothing to do with this matters. There's always two sides to a coin, maybe when they were younger papa didn't care because their girls, or maybe he was rubbing it in that they're nothing because they're all girls. How are we sure that papa is telling the truth? May The Lord forgive us, marriage business is a sensitive matter. Don't judge so you shall not be judged.
Please summarize this story and give your analysis in English for everyone to hear. You can put a link for the interest of your yoruba speaking audience. Playing and translating is time consuming and boring.
NO. I know a man with 6 children, 3 boys and 3 women, who did the same. The man is 80 years old. This man looked after his family, including his wife, who left him at the age of 78.
Regardless about marriage this days... Let parents be ready for anything unknown. Some marriages didn't fall apart and yet their children are no where to be found around them at Old age. Sickness and other stuff will happen later in life and that's when many will realize for better for worse is not working anymore Just a thought
Madam, i think your not fair in your perception when you say treating them (woman, in this case the wife). Please, if ANY Wife (woman) is not happy at any point in the journey of the marriage should leave the union immediately and not wait/hang-on till later to execute this evil and you say is proper?. One thing we human beings, particularly Women fail to reason is, the young men are listening and will adjust and let's see how future marriages will be. Very sad we use such platform to propagate blam game, of one gender against the other on such sensitive issue?.
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I learned a bitter truth from your platform today about managing my marriage. Now i understand where i got with my previous marriage . It is well.
100%, baba is reaping what he sowed. There could possibly be abuse all along.
@@olukemiidowu5326and that's why his children also forbid him from marrying another wife?
Is that part of reaping too?
God help any man that never have plan B for his life.
For six children to "abandon " him at old age simply means that he abandoned them when they were very young. We see these types of men in our community all the time, I feel nothing for them.
Nobody should be able to turn SIX ADULTS against THEIR FATHER if there is nothing happening. There is no smoke without fire. KII BURU BURU, KO MA KU ENIKAN MONI That being said, what those children n their mother are doing is VERY VERY BAD. Saying it's bc they are females is not true, I know females who love their fathers to d moon n back.
Excellent and truthful analysis . Men if you fail to take her advise seriously you are on your own that’s all I can say.
Well done 👍 ma, fantastic analysis.Respect ❤❤❤❤
For the kids and wife to have abandoned him, it means he was frolicking with other women when he was younger. There is no smoke without fire
Vey deep…please be good in all you do..your Children & Partner should be a Blessing to you.
Anyways, there's no smoke without fire. When Baba was a younger man, what was his relationship with his wife and children.?
I know many men whom in their hair years were radicals who ignored their wife and vhildren and went the high Street with chick's and chickens. The woman stayed for the sake of her children and tolerated a lot. They forget that old age would come one day.
His story is one-sided, until we hear from the wife, then we can have a stand. We wishhim goodhealth till God calls him home.
Think of it, how can a woman leave her husband at that age when they already have their own home, yet she went ahead to build a house for herself? The man knows what he is not telling his host. Again , how old is the woman, is she a younger woman than the man?.
Anyway it is what it is. Women endure a lot in certain marriage. Maybe tomorrow, Yul Edochie may narrate his story differently, those who hear will judge from his own narrative without the real gist.
I agree with u aunty adunni,we cant judge because we avnt heard from the wife.Something tells me the man is not telling the truth,the man must av hurt his wife terribly.She is paying him back nd the husband is doing pity party.Because all the children abandoned the father shows that the man has really fucked up.He is a bad man!!trust me.
Good morning Auntie Adunni, greetings from Nigeria ❤
He must have done something to his wife and believe you me, women don't forget and am sure karma is a bitch
We only hear one side of the story if it's possible let hear from the woman before we judge but I strongly believe that the Baba has skeleton in his Cupboard that is not ready to disclose
No, Aunty Aduni. Girls love their father. Boys love their mothers. There's more to this than to meet the eyes. Until you ask the woman, there is nothing to say. I have my own journey, thank God that I have witnesses, but to people who do not know the real story, he tells them different stories!! We have to be careful how we judge any matter, God knows everything.
Exactly girl children love their fathers
That's not true, having boys or girls children have nothing to do with this matters. There's always two sides to a coin, maybe when they were younger papa didn't care because their girls, or maybe he was rubbing it in that they're nothing because they're all girls. How are we sure that papa is telling the truth? May The Lord forgive us, marriage business is a sensitive matter. Don't judge so you shall not be judged.
Please summarize this story and give your analysis in English for everyone to hear. You can put a link for the interest of your yoruba speaking audience. Playing and translating is time consuming and boring.
Weldone Aunty Adunni, more power to ur 💪 ❤
NO. I know a man with 6 children, 3 boys and 3 women, who did the same. The man is 80 years old. This man looked after his family, including his wife, who left him at the age of 78.
Good evening aunty Aduni
From Nigeria
The irony is that the ones that don’t take care of their family well that goes after other chicks and hens
Iyan odun meta ma ngbona. The issue is just not now, the woman must have being enduring some things and planned to leave at the appropriate time.
The GZ Generation are quite different ❤❤❤
Regardless about marriage this days... Let parents be ready for anything unknown. Some marriages didn't fall apart and yet their children are no where to be found around them at Old age. Sickness and other stuff will happen later in life and that's when many will realize for better for worse is not working anymore Just a thought
You are making sense ma. There must be something that baba did not mention
Tell yinka TnT to supply BABA with iyawo
Lol no bring wahala come o 😂
Adunni and kerewa.
Lol na part of life 😂😂😂
Is she talking about Galaria in Atlanta abi?
Yes
Because you are an ijebu that is why the battery dey run out. I hope the kerewa battery is always changed. I trust you are ok
Madam, i think your not fair in your perception when you say treating them (woman, in this case the wife). Please, if ANY Wife (woman) is not happy at any point in the journey of the marriage should leave the union immediately and not wait/hang-on till later to execute this evil and you say is proper?.
One thing we human beings, particularly Women fail to reason is, the young men are listening and will adjust and let's see how future marriages will be.
Very sad we use such platform to propagate blam game, of one gender against the other on such sensitive issue?.
Did you watch to the end bec this is what I summarized with
Please people should learn to be nice to each other when they are young
Men should have plan B for their lives.
Train ur children well, but they should not be your plan B.