Funny how they act like they don't care about you in the relationship...when they know you're getting tired of them, they ignore you and continue on with their secret double life, messing around with a lot of other people. They don't think you will ever leave. When you discard them, it becomes WWIII to try to get you back, even to the point of trying to destroy you. So sick...leave them, heal your heart, and stay gone....they are not worth the headache and heartache...
Toni Williams You are speaking the absolute truth. When I tell you - very well stated! I mean that. Definitely all facts here in this comment. I appreciate you. Much Love.✨💖
This exact thing just happened. Caught him cheating, he left because I mentioned dating other men. He refused to have that so I was on silent treatment for two weeks. Now he’s trying to hoover and come back, I know he thought that I loved him so much that I’ll never leave him. I’m done with him and he’s stalking me everywhere. Knocking on my door, trying to break in my accounts, fake profiles on Facebook smh.
We need to be aware that being grade A supply is not to be taken as a compliment..it just means you were easily manipulated by narcs and this is something we empaths should work on..decernnent and trusting gut feeling to see beyound what meets the eye..being grade A supply,is not something we should take pride in..this is something we have to work on.. why you are that grade A supply who is so easily manipulated by toxic narcs..and start working on this guys!
If we are so easily manipulated, why has Mr. Demon DREAM HOOVERED me over 100 times since no contact? Someone easily manipulated would've picked up one of those phone calls, responded to an email or interacted with one of the fake social media accounts that he created right? Narcs don't work this hard and take this many narcissistic injuries just to manipulate an individual. They're lazy! "Grade A supply" is a compliment. Grade A supply and 100% NO CONTACT is show stoppa😁 It's embracing who you are and understanding that you're rare and irreplaceable. A narcissist made that statement about us being sought out because we're easily manipulated and many fell for it. Smh. Those who love us; honor and cherish us. Many people know that we're rare and we're different. If you ever discover who God created you to be, you'd be honored to be seen as "grade A supply." It's not about being easily manipulated, that's how dark hearted narcs see it. It's about how amazing and unique you were created to be!
It took him 2 weeks!! That was 30 yrs ago I told him “you don’t even know me” lol we dated for 2 years he went to prison, and 5 months later I met my husband (he’s deceased now miss him)
@@tellnolies8530 for me he took like 1 month, but it was over a text 😂 which is also weird. He said “l was shy to tell you in person” or “over the phone” ohhh please ! He is just a coward and a clown 🤡
You crack me up!😂🤣 The ex-fiancé narc still tries to hoover me after 15 years😳. They think they can put us on a shelf like an appliance & come back whenever & we’ll be waiting. Delusional individuals.
Lol! You know I have to me hunee. Yes you are absolutely correct - that is part of that delusion and grandiosity that they have going on in their sick minds. No one is an appliance over here. Much Love.✨💖
I am gone from one n half years. N she is stalking me on Instagram, got a proxy by hover. Still standing on my ground n on this 12th march one year of getting stalked will be completed. Lol. They are so delusional.
25 year Hoover rejected --two weeks later he Hoovers me by proxy by one of his flying monkeys. Three years after that him and his crime family steal my identity. Totally delusional-seriously what person In Their right mind would behave so badly!! No one would because it’s a demon!
Its true they don't sleep they rather look for suppy then sleep . The narcissist in my life didn't sleep for more than 4 hours a night and disappeared on me trew out the night.
Omgosh. He used to say he watched me while I slept. He also said the other day he's obsessed with me. Ugh. He's delusional. Was so mean to me. Abusive. Yet feels entitled to me. Awful
Unfortunately as I say an unwanted fan for life. They are delusional entitled and abusive. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
It’s been 2 years. When he EXTREMELY disrespectfully discarded me, I pulled the generator immediately!! I got flying monkeys, drive by’s, he use to sit outside my house 🏡 after church on Sundays all teary eyed, phone calls from his family, mutual friends trying to “reach out” etc. I mean, I totally pulled the rug out from under him. He absolutely underestimated me and NEVER EVER saw it coming. In the words of Cher “I’m simply the best. Better than all the rest. Better than anyone, anyone he’s ever met!” I did tell him and try to talk to him, but he just dismissed everything I said, but I MEANT WHAT I SAID! I cut him and his family off. I moved, changed our phone numbers, got a new completely different color/brand car, left the church ⛪️ we both attended. All of it. He has no idea 🤷🏽♀️ where I am.
That’s right he took a huge loss when he lost you. No contact and never going back. Stay strong and be encouraged. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
yes yes omg he was looking at me when i opened my eyes. creeped me out also his eyes were so dark it looked like a dark soul. im so thankful The Most High True GOD got me out of that situationship.
It is so creepy to be watched while you’re sleeping and they love to do it. I’m so happy you got away as well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Here is something to think about 💡💡💡 Fact : we know they have a new supply BUT they don’t know if WE have a New loving relationship. They know we deserve it 😜🔥🔥🔥
I never thought about him obsessing over my supply but it makes sense. I love how you keep it real!!!! Been no contact goin on 3 weeks since Sept 6th. Lol he says 6 is his lucky # not this time baybee!!! Sept 6th was my answered prayer. I been praying for God to remove him from my life! Yesssss!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes of course he obsesses over you. I have to sis I have to keep it all the way 💯. These clowns are nuts out here got to keep it real. I’m proud of you and your no contact!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yes indeed bayyy-bayyyy!! Won’t He Do It!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
I would need an hour to list all that he did with his obsession. Some of that stuff made me cry on plenty of days. I’m good now. I’m not even trying to understand that toxic mindset. Narcs are subhuman.
Adjustingmycrown I’m sure you would - they are ridiculous especially with their obsessions. Same here but at that final discard that I initiated I was done with the tears. Their mindset incomprehensible to the normal human being. You cannot rationalize crazy.✨💖
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Miss V Lol! You know I love me some Miss V. I appreciate your love and support of our Tribe. Bless you Queen - thank you! You you and this entire Tribe is the 💣.com baayyy-behhh!! Much Love.✨💖🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The watching you in the sleep is so true. I dream about him ALOT. I constantly run him out of my dreams and then I get hovered in reality. I think he's into darkness. I stay prayed up.
It’s been 5 years and the narc reached out to me. Soooo stupidly, I replied 🤦🏾♀️🥴. We talked a bit & caught up on life. They did majority of the talking about how wonderful they are now through character development 🙄 All their little success in life. They even tried to see if I would get jealous that they were engaged to their last partner..... then claimed “I didn’t even really like them”..... 🤔🙄🥴. Then the narc proceeded to ask me about my future and if I still wanted the same things we talked about when I was younger. As far as, do I still want marriage, kids, if I wanna move and go to the place we’ve decided too & I said nah to everything. I thought that was strange....... I, then, continued the lie to them because they said they were moving closer to my state (our relationship was long distance for 5 and a 1/2 years) so I lied & told them I’m moving to another state as well 🤦🏾♀️🥴. The convo ended. I told them please don’t contact me anymore, this is done, stop searching for me. They said okay..... now they proceed to post about how they’re moving now to the same state I lied about.......... 🙇🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️. Why?? Leave me alone. It’s my fault... I shouldn’t have replied but that need to know like why are you contacting me? Consumed me. Now here I am 😩🙇🏽♀️.....watching your videos to find guidance. Sorry for the long message.
Thank God I found this channel! I'm currently going through a breakup with a narc after 8 years of lies, future faking, emotional unavailability, etc. I'm 53 now, and it feels like a wasted time and energy which hurts, but I realized I had to do it. Thank you for helping me and people like me getting through the hard times. You are so bright and inspiring that I just want to give you a big long hug!
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy you found this channel as well. Oh wow after eight years that’s a long time to suffer this abuse bless you. You’re so welcome. understand. However I don’t believe it was not of waste of time. I can assure you that the Almighty Creator more than likely used this situation to awaken you so you will be never taken like that again. Be encouraged. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis - I promise it is what they do and you’ve seen it for yourself. It will definitely creep you out. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@Tea on NPD, your energy is absolutely amazing, I Love it. You are so on point, with everything you put in these videos. Your videos are fuel for me to keep the NARC blocked. There's nothing he can say, no Grand lie he can tell me, to ever make me look back. Yes he Hoovers, and I ignore, he calls through video chat, I don't answer. I'll get private calls, calls from app phone numbers, no answer. It's done, whether he can accept it or not. Good luck with the next one. #Snatchedthegenerator
Lord have mercy! I woke up in the middle of the night and caught the narc watching me many times in my sleep. The narc response was, "oh I'm just watching you." Another response was that I got alot was , "oh, you look like you stopped breathing. "
I was the Bentley in the supply group. I set the bar very high over all the other supplies. No one will ever compare or even come close to the person that I am not in this life time.lol!!!!!!
Woooooooow!!! When you said they watch you when you sleep. I thought I was the only one. He even recorded me while I slept. I think he even had cameras around the house.
Welcome to the Tribe. No Sis they do I’ve witnessed it. Oh wow he recorded you sleeping. Probably because he wanted to watch someone do something he couldn’t do. They are evil. Bless you I’m glad you got out. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes they watch as you sleep because their mind is telling them that you must be doing something wrong to them like cheating or talking to other men they feel you life belongs to them.
eva mcinnis Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you Queen. Yay now stay strong - bless you. Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
He very much obsessed over good pictures of me, esp when I was younger. But when I was sick, more & more - as he knocked out what was left of my failing immune system - then I wasn’t so appealing. He was horrible to me...uncaring, mocking... then pouting with a huge narcissistic injury when I told him he was a mean, whiny, bully & a coward! He could never support me, he was in so much debt, & stole what was in our savings account after I walked out on him for good. Divorced him, got healthy & took a travel nurse job far away. New job, fun rental homes, new car, (he always wanted a new car but had poor credit), new friends, new LIFE. At 64!!! HA! I said it & I mean it!!! Love your videos, keep preaching sistah!
Testify Sis! That is a blessing in the Discard. That’s right I said it and I mean it. Thank you so much I’m happy you love the videos. Thank you for being here with us my sister.✨💖
I know everything you said in this video is spot-on true, Miss Tea. Thank you for the reassurance that they’ll never find another supply like us, no matter how many they will go through. My ex ghosted/discarded me 9 months ago, and I haven’t heard another word from him. I remain in solid No Contact, prepared to not respond to any attempted hoover. But it is puzzling he hasn’t even tried, especially because he discarded me over such a minor incident. It involved a strong boundary of mine, though, and they sure don’t like that. So it’s good to hear you say they don’t forget our grade A supply! His very foolish loss of me is indeed part of his karma. You said it, and I love it! 💜
He’s so obsessed. We work at the same place on different shifts. I had to start parking where he didn’t see me arrive. Yesterday he made sure to stand where he could see me arrive. He gave me time to get inside and get changed and then followed me to a breakroom and was eavesdropping. Trying to get my attention six weeks later. Three weeks ago he was apologizing and said he doesn’t think we should be friends but we could tell each other we don’t hate the other. I didn’t reply. Nothing he does works. It’s sad they can’t try a nice gesture rather than their games
Have literally watched a couple hundred of these videos. But wow! This one made me feel really good, like some kind of relief. You seem to speak the same way I feel,and for that reason, i definitely respect what you have to say. Keep it up.✈
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m happy this content resonated with you and the feeling it brought about in you. Thank you - I’m here to help. Bless you. thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Every single video you post resonates with me to where my entire body is covered in goosebumps on some of them!!! I tell you my narcissist used to talk him self up along with the love bombing stage but at the end of the relationship, he used to tell me how he has demons in his body and darkness. I am an empath so I think he only started to tell me this because of the addiction to me, he had to tell me something to scare me off because he knew, he needed me and that I didn’t need him and he hated it!!! He constantly told me to raise my vibration and the new car I got had to have been bought by my parents. Any accomplishment I had he always had to bring me down!! Everyday he would tell me he wasn’t up to going to war in the mind, when really, he was going to war in the mind EVERY single day with me!!!!
Wow - bless you and thank you sis. I can only create from my experiences. I keep it 💯 straight no chaser. Thank you so much and you’re so welcome. Yes they hate the fact that they need people and we don’t. He was telling you the absolute truth too - that wasn’t a lie. I’m so happy you got away. Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
To be honest you have the best video and love your channel,, always on point,you say it how it is plus keeping it real and you always make it understandable with your point of view,,Great work Queen and God bless your heart ❤️.
General Ramzy Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much King - I appreciate you. I have to give you all my straight no chaser keeping it all the way💯. May the Creator bless you too. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Oh. My. Gosh. I can’t tell you how many times I caught my stbnx watching me, especially while I was sleeping!!! And now that he has discarded me, that fool has tried to invade my social media pages repeatedly!!!!! I can assure you that he has been blocked at every turn. BIRD!!!!
They Provoke you, NOT FOR FUEL, but to CAUSE YOU TO SIN. That’s what the real agenda is is to CORRUPT YOUR RIGHTEOUSNESS to prove to God that man isn’t worthy, and to condemn your souls to HIM. (Provoke to prove you wrong in this reality)That’s why they love everything NEGATIVE and hate love. The host is totally unaware that’s why they ACT clueless THEY ARE.
Wow! And we call it fuel because they become satisfied when they can cause us to sin. I get it. Another huge spiritual eye-opener for me. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Unfortunatly true, he wanted me to sin with him. Raised with christian values, meaning no sex before marriage, but he constantly wanted me to have sex with him before. Thank god I didnt give in. Because he didnt get what he wanted, his obsession over me grew and grew. Discarded him finally after 8 mnths. Now I think how can I even kissed him, the thought of kissing with someone so demonic, no respect for my values. Gross.
Yes he would always throw my relationship with God up in my face especially when he would get me upset intentionally and then say "that's not God like behavior" ugggh! I use to tell him I hate him now I know that was a demonic entity living in the flesh impersonating a human! Get out from that demonic stronghold there's witches and warlocks that live amongst us and they are on assignment for your soul 🙏🙏🙏
@@theresabowman1155 true!! its the devil. He was also saying, god wants you to be happy, gos wants you to love, unconditional love...blablabla. No Karen!!
Oh how he obsessed over me. Must have been exhausting kept his mind on whatever I was doing. Couldn't relax and just roll with a win win situation in that I didn't ride him or try to check up on much. I own my home etc we didn't live together. That saved me from his being too overly nesting on. But then turn around and be nick picky, to argumentive, and petty. Would try punish kick up issues if I did too much of what didn't like. We're over for good I stayed away an year he came back in jan 2022 I didn't hardly visit had puppy liter and had disk replacement surgery on back so put self and pets first. You know that made upset I knew we was over but I'm never dealing with because he's older will never change.
OMG ... I woke up one night because I felt something. My ex narc worked graveyard so I should've been alone but when I opened my eyes my ex was just standing in the dark ... watching me. That one episode freaked me out for years.
Hahahaha🤣🤣🤣 you are so on point with the fake profiles. I knew from your voice you was a child of God, God bless you, you have a great gift in speaking
Queen😩😭When you said they watch you as you sleep. I had a long distance relationship with a Narcissist ex... Found out this guy was astral projecting on me twice during my sleep- 1,000 miles away. No one has ever did that to me. I was shocked by it & didn't know, he was involved in occultic practices. Realized months later after the discard he was part of an elite group...😩😱😱 I didn't realize people really did stuff like that. Their obsession with us is serious😩
It’s gonna be a whole lot of bad memories I’m sure now that they can’t get back. Lol. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I don’t friend anyone that I am not positive 100% that it’s who they say they are. I’ll quiz that friend request, how do I know you? Crickets…. Means block!
Girlfriend, video #2 and I am so relating to everything you are saying. I was in the dark and confused for so long, not understanding who my husband was or what he is. I appreciate people like you who come on here and tell it like it is! Blessings on you dear heart ♥️
Welcome to the Tribe. Awesome thank you so much. Now you have the knowledge thank goodness. You’re so welcome. Peace and blessings to you. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Miss Telsha - Lawd - were you in my relationship because, you be tellin the truth. One night I was sleeping and The narcissist was watching -Chile I dont do that mess. Scared the crap out of me, I told them they almost would’ve gotten hit 🤣
Wow i am subscribing right now . Preach lady! He use to stand over me watching me sleep. In his corner for 13 long yeArs. Will never find me in anyone else. I thank you for giving me such strength. Nice to meet you, i am cathy.
Thank you so much for subscribing. Yes indeed I can only share my experiences and the knowledge I have. I must say that being watched while sleeping was very creepy. You are correct he will look for you in others and will never find you again. You’re so welcome. We are much stronger than we think. Nice to meet you as well Kathy - I’m Telsha. I am happy I appreciate the gift of your time and leaving a comment with us. Much Love.✨💖to have you as a part of our tribe. Bless you.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen Sis. Yes this is how they think it’s the absolute truth. Thank you for the gift of your time and this comment you have left for us. Much Love.✨💖
My ex narc was obsessed with LV, Gucci and couldn’t afford any of it. Gave me a bunch of LV Bags and they were all fakes. Lives in 280 rent controlled apt and wants to wear Gucci and Fendi..no common sense to save or build for the future. My first warning sign was that she noticed the car I drove and was very verbal about my car..RED FLAG
Hello Grade A here and I wish I wasn't goshhh the obsession is real and the stalking is real - Idk why people are waiting for a narc to return when I'm here waiting for them to get out of my life for good.
This is so inspirational & so educational.This explains sooooooo Much,for a 51yr old man to say you don't turn them on but CONTINUOUSLY keep calling you back for more & more|& I'm sixty,babae}!
Yes indeed and I know you write about it but they love like you said that low hanging fruit they don’t want to elevate. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. We will all be known forever is that one that got away I’m sure. And never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@ Telsha: awesome video as always! You bring up a great point, the ex narc was very obsessive about no phone calls during football games involving his teams or nightly news, etc. Over time he became more obsessive of my time. As I would not give him that control and was figuring out who he was, he started the devalue stage and I caused narcisstic injuries (not knowing that at the time) then the discard came and it was evil!! Knowing that the memories of me may haunt him gives me some solace 🙂. My goal now is to get stronger every day and forget about him. It was just a lesson I had to learn, not a death sentence to endure forever ❤
Sister such wisdom you spoke “ it was a lesson that you had to learn and not a death sentence you had to endure forever” - wow so true. Thank you so much. See that - they are naturally obsessed it is ingrained in the disorder. Thank you for sharing those beautiful words of wisdom and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
Im deeply highly empathic. So kind loving compassion understanding and patient. So up and down with this female covert narc, I was no contact, this profile on social media I’ve been suspect of , hit me up right after. That profile flipped on me and threatened my life. So I investigated our every interaction, and scarey as it is, this profile has been interacting with me weeks before my narc ever reached out and introduced herself to me! She was studying me before I ever knew she existed!! That’s spooky
I have to tell you that you are doing a great job! You were born for this, sister! Ever think about being a christain comedian? Well, you are already doing that also! I'm sure you are giving your viewers alot of laughs! Me included! I like how you talk about thoughs peg leg devils w/ no class! This encourages alot of people! No body does it like you, sister! You keep it going! Any way, this is the brother that got clean away! I don't know why this narcissist is still obsessed over me! I never really gave her no real supply! She still gazes at me with some times a smile, but more often with that puppy dog look on her face! She should know by now there is going to be no chance! She keeps poping up unexpectedly! This has been going on for years! At least 7 years! She seems to keep coming back off and on after she tried me some years ago and i got away with out getting burnt! She did once pick me up for church one time and she did some thing stupid and unexpected to get a reaction! But, i never gave her another chance! Once was enough for me to know that some thing was terribly wrong! I surely let her know that she wasn't my style or cup of tea! And she also tried to get over 300. dollars worth of merchandise at the mall one time and she should have known church was out! Because, i refused to do any thing and that let her know she definitely had the wrong one! So, why is she always coming back? I am not a good supply obviously , because i refuse to be any body's fool! Especially, a clown like that! She got a better chance at a circus than with me! I seem to keep humiliating her when i turn her down! But, it does no good! She even tried the friend thing with me! I think, sister, you hit the nail on the head when you said they are just stupid! I didn't think no one could be that stupid! But, now i am sold on thoughs zombies with wigs and lipstick! That seems to be the right call for these long leg chiwawas! I seriously can not think of any thing else that makes sense! Thank you, my sister! And may GOD bless you richly! 👍💯🙏
Yep i wake and he was watching me😁 but that didnt made him change. He had nightmares about me leaving him but even thought he kept on doing shit. Everytime asking new opportunities and more the same. I never imagine that could be so many people not abble to love. Its human to love. What a freak nature they have. My damages are becoming smaller as time goes by. Almost 6 months finally free of that. Now i prefer to be allone i dont want no one yet. I love the way you talk
After I discarded the narcissist I prayed to God that the narc would focus and obsess with another woman. Because these devils obsess and keep them energetic chords strong when you go no contact, you can literally feel their pull. Its like they are psychic or something, they feel when you have a weak moment, also with no contact, and. I had to make my energetic field whole again, with chordcutting, praying to god, elevate higher spiritually, and heal my inner wounds( working on that on a daily basis). Btw the narc admitted he meditated on me😭 I said, pray for yourself!!!!! I dont need your prayers, I have God and beloved angels. He was meditating on me to hoover me back.....these damn devils...
Welcome to the Tribe. This comment from beginning to end was a wow wow wow. All I can say is thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate you sharing. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you for what you do and commenting back. So important for people to get validation foe what theyve been through❤❤❤ youre a blessing🙂
You are so right. I fortunately discarded my narc before I knew what narcissism was mistakenly I stayed in touch. The narc still calls and constantly reminisces over the many experiences we had via my introducing the narc to my world. Plus my imprint is all over the narcs house I repaired and replaced many items small and large wish I'd known better. Needless to say as you've said I was grade A supply.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes and day they never get over a great day supply you will always be seen as the one that got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
This video is SO on POINT! I KNOW the ex narc is obsessed anytime I kicked his ASS out of my House & LIFE over 2 yrs ago & This CRAZY FOOL Still Riding By My House! Its Crazy, Sad & Pure Comedy All @ The Same Time SMH
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much. Yes indeed - see that still riding by your place. They are just insane. I agree it can be comical once you figure them out and heal lol. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Never caught my narc watching me in my sleep. But sometimes I catch them just sitting staring at me. When she sleeps it seems like a deep sleep. But I've woken up at odd times and she's up smoking or something
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes you will catch them at odd hours doing things like that they don’t sleep very well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You aren’t lying about the fake profiles! I’ve received so many of them and they always request me around the hours that he gets off work. He’s trying to break into my accounts now because he knows my email address. I’m always alerted about a security reason and it makes my accounts lock. While we together he told me he would lurk on my page and constantly stare at my pictures. I’m scared he’s so creepy.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this is what they do it’s a form of harassment and stalking. It is very creepy. Make sure you keep secure passwords on all of your things and change the passwords too. They are thieves as well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much Sis.. I have been through it with a narcissist I can tell you about these clowns. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
OMG! I FELT EVERY SINGLE WORD THAT U SAID N THE VIDEO 8-30-2020 MADE ONE YEAR SINCE I DISCARDED THE X NARC I NEVER ONCE LOOKED BACK ALTHOUGH I WAS HOOVERED MULTIPLE TIMES I'M STILL HEALING & LEARNING ABOUT NARCISSISM & NARCISSIST MARRIAGES/ RELATIONSHIPS I SO LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! PLEASE KEEP EM COMING N JOY YOUR WEEKEND
Welcome to the Tribe. Congratulations on the anniversary of your discard and never looking back. Thank you so much I’m happy you love my videos. Thank you enjoy your weekend as well and be safe. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He’s writing the new supply love poems using my writing format, to try to sabotage her new relationship with someone else. The new supply is his ex of years and years
Narcs are comprised of 3 things: Inner child: the true self/unshaped identity The persona: false self/ the soulless body or shell or host The EGO: SATAN While the Satan is tormenting the inner child, the host acts out that torment on the world. It’s totally disassociated from reality cuz it’s never EXPERIENCED IT. Satan needs his OWN ARMY so he’s hijacking Gods to create his own. The same as they try to steal qualities from us that they should just acquire on they’re own. He traumatizes them at a very early age and that’s when the illusionist takes over. They slowly grow into his EXTENSIONS. That’s why they view US as their EXTENSIONS.
I’ve blocked this same narc, 6 times, in 6 different ways, thank GOD he doesn’t know where I stay, now my most recent ex narc won’t go away either, neither know where I stay though.
They STARTED out harassing me on account of people who never saw any worth in me when I was involved with them which is why they had no proof of connection besides the things they stole from me. People are really gassing up losers to feel entitled to a person's GLOW UP. The potential that they're hell bent on interfering with now could've been accomplished if they had actually believed in me so I don't want to hear any war stories ✌🏽 I'm not interested in anyone acting like I'm a teenager who just discovered a passion. The truth is that I was a diamond in the rough & less attractive back then, just ask my bd 🙃. What's funny is that I WAS much more passionate then I am now so what suddenly makes them appear out of nowhere to claim ownership over me? Knock it off & go find some other regret to taunt in life. I'm not available
Omg you know your business this IT had 2 rooms full of clothes and sneakers but had dust in iTS pockets and the love making had me twisted iT was sweating like a runaway slave and cheesin I was confused what did I miss during those 6 min . I just love you energy you plays no games .
LOL I’m trying to tell y’all I have been through it with a narcissist I can tell you how to get down. Your right I plays no games. Thank you so much I’m glad that you can appreciate my energy. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They keep momentos I think. Thank you for helping. I love your videos. You've helped me to accept it. I'm beginning to see the light at end of tunnel. Thank u
I was interested in this girl and she knew that. She knew I was a professional massage therapist and she asked me if I can massage her. I did a couple of massage with nothing in return $$$. She told me how she appreciated me. I said wait this girl is taking advantage of me and stealing all my energy. I stop talking her completely but I know she will reach out again. I have what she wants 🙌 I woke up to her games.
I blocked him on every cell phone number that he has and on all social media. I am essentially a ghost now, stealth. There are no current pictures of me anywhere on social media. He hardly slept. It’s his conscience.
What I had to tolerate was loud blarting music in middle of night woke me up big time but she hated noise if I was making it like even switching kettle on when she was asleep unbelievable!!!
So true that Narcs don’t sleep well. My ex was a sex addict. His weird obsession was that every night he would wake up around 2 am to use the bathroom and brush his teeth, and not so quietly shut the drawer. It was becoming my nightly routine of disterbia. I’m single now and sleeping way better .
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow yes they don’t sleep well too much anxiety from all of the chaos they perpetuate. I’m happy you were able to get away and sleeping much better. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
What differenciates me and replacement the most is she is obssessed with him. Drive around collecting insurance money off car accidents she causes but flips it onto other driver. Just to win him over. I may not have much but I was grade a outta love. And they don't go away lol nope. So like my guy friend said, I must have something she don't, something he likes. Ughhh it's called a soul...ya know. A heart. I held him down while he was awaiting disability. Two weeks before he got it discarded. But karma was patient. And I'm not stopping their karma cause of what they did to me. I could have him back but I'm more than supply. She obviously don't mind it. No souls. Empty and superficial relationship
He was watching me when I didn't even realize that's what was going on , he would have these moments I would catch him just looking at me in a dead stare , even with other people in the room. Very odd I would always wonder "what is he thinking" & it probably was just future ways he was going to torture my soul.
Welcome to the Tribe. He sure was I love to watch you and stalk you creepy. I mean try to torture your soul to the max these people are evil. I’m happy you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Funny how they act like they don't care about you in the relationship...when they know you're getting tired of them, they ignore you and continue on with their secret double life, messing around with a lot of other people. They don't think you will ever leave. When you discard them, it becomes WWIII to try to get you back, even to the point of trying to destroy you. So sick...leave them, heal your heart, and stay gone....they are not worth the headache and heartache...
Toni Williams You are speaking the absolute truth. When I tell you - very well stated! I mean that. Definitely all facts here in this comment. I appreciate you. Much Love.✨💖
These are my exact words to how i feel . Thankyou . God bless and healings.
The Tea on NPD and Relationships thank u! Blessings and love ❤️
Cathy McDonald Female thank you! God bless you 🥰
This exact thing just happened. Caught him cheating, he left because I mentioned dating other men. He refused to have that so I was on silent treatment for two weeks. Now he’s trying to hoover and come back, I know he thought that I loved him so much that I’ll never leave him. I’m done with him and he’s stalking me everywhere. Knocking on my door, trying to break in my accounts, fake profiles on Facebook smh.
We need to be aware that being grade A supply is not to be taken as a compliment..it just means you were easily manipulated by narcs and this is something we empaths should work on..decernnent and trusting gut feeling to see beyound what meets the eye..being grade A supply,is not something we should take pride in..this is something we have to work on.. why you are that grade A supply who is so easily manipulated by toxic narcs..and start working on this guys!
If we are so easily manipulated, why has Mr. Demon DREAM HOOVERED me over 100 times since no contact? Someone easily manipulated would've picked up one of those phone calls, responded to an email or interacted with one of the fake social media accounts that he created right? Narcs don't work this hard and take this many narcissistic injuries just to manipulate an individual. They're lazy!
"Grade A supply" is a compliment. Grade A supply and 100% NO CONTACT is show stoppa😁 It's embracing who you are and understanding that you're rare and irreplaceable.
A narcissist made that statement about us being sought out because we're easily manipulated and many fell for it. Smh.
Those who love us; honor and cherish us. Many people know that we're rare and we're different. If you ever discover who God created you to be, you'd be honored to be seen as "grade A supply." It's not about being easily manipulated, that's how dark hearted narcs see it. It's about how amazing and unique you were created to be!
You know it’s a narc when they say I love you in the first week ... a normal guy is shy even at year saying he loves you .
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes!!! That is so true. The move really fast. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
That’s so true !!!! That happened to me and l believed him, but l thought it was too soon. Something just felt very weird about it.
It took him 2 weeks!! That was 30 yrs ago I told him “you don’t even know me” lol we dated for 2 years he went to prison, and 5 months later I met my husband (he’s deceased now miss him)
@@tellnolies8530 for me he took like 1 month, but it was over a text 😂 which is also weird. He said “l was shy to tell you in person” or “over the phone” ohhh please ! He is just a coward and a clown 🤡
Right
You crack me up!😂🤣 The ex-fiancé narc still tries to hoover me after 15 years😳. They think they can put us on a shelf like an appliance & come back whenever & we’ll be waiting. Delusional individuals.
Lol! You know I have to me hunee. Yes you are absolutely correct - that is part of that delusion and grandiosity that they have going on in their sick minds. No one is an appliance over here. Much Love.✨💖
😂😂🤡🥳
I am gone from one n half years. N she is stalking me on Instagram, got a proxy by hover. Still standing on my ground n on this 12th march one year of getting stalked will be completed. Lol. They are so delusional.
25 year Hoover rejected --two weeks later he Hoovers me by proxy by one of his flying monkeys. Three years after that him and his crime family steal my identity. Totally delusional-seriously what person In Their right mind would behave so badly!! No one would because it’s a demon!
Its true they don't sleep they rather look for suppy then sleep . The narcissist in my life didn't sleep for more than 4 hours a night and disappeared on me trew out the night.
Wow see that - they are just absolutely insane. Nothing that they do makes sense to normal people only to them and they are insane.✨💖
Mine too! Turns out he’s a druggy too smdh
Omgosh. He used to say he watched me while I slept. He also said the other day he's obsessed with me. Ugh. He's delusional. Was so mean to me. Abusive. Yet feels entitled to me. Awful
Unfortunately as I say an unwanted fan for life. They are delusional entitled and abusive. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
It’s been 2 years. When he EXTREMELY disrespectfully discarded me, I pulled the generator immediately!! I got flying monkeys, drive by’s, he use to sit outside my house 🏡 after church on Sundays all teary eyed, phone calls from his family, mutual friends trying to “reach out” etc. I mean, I totally pulled the rug out from under him. He absolutely underestimated me and NEVER EVER saw it coming. In the words of Cher
“I’m simply the best. Better than all the rest. Better than anyone, anyone he’s ever met!”
I did tell him and try to talk to him, but he just dismissed everything I said, but I MEANT WHAT I SAID!
I cut him and his family off. I moved, changed our phone numbers, got a new completely different color/brand car, left the church ⛪️ we both attended. All of it. He has no idea 🤷🏽♀️ where I am.
I AM GRADE A SUPPLY!!!! Too bad for them. no more supply from this babe,
That’s right he took a huge loss when he lost you. No contact and never going back. Stay strong and be encouraged. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The obsession and lack of control is mind blowing. The “need” for me and the memories is mind blowing!! On, freakin, point!
yes yes omg he was looking at me when i opened my eyes. creeped me out also his eyes were so dark it looked like a dark soul. im so thankful The Most High True GOD got me out of that situationship.
It is so creepy to be watched while you’re sleeping and they love to do it. I’m so happy you got away as well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Me tooooo! They do that often I read!!
The narc must be so sorry he messed up with you because you are exceptionally gorgeous in every way, wisdom, godly, and beautiful.
Thank you Family God bless you.💗💯🙏🏽
Here is something to think about 💡💡💡
Fact : we know they have a new supply BUT they don’t know if WE have a New loving relationship. They know we deserve it 😜🔥🔥🔥
I never thought about him obsessing over my supply but it makes sense. I love how you keep it real!!!! Been no contact goin on 3 weeks since Sept 6th. Lol he says 6 is his lucky # not this time baybee!!! Sept 6th was my answered prayer. I been praying for God to remove him from my life! Yesssss!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes of course he obsesses over you. I have to sis I have to keep it all the way 💯. These clowns are nuts out here got to keep it real. I’m proud of you and your no contact!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yes indeed bayyy-bayyyy!! Won’t He Do It!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
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He had an obsession with hearing himself talk.
Yes they all pretty much have that same character flaw.✨💖
I’m cracking up!
Haha yup
You are spot on
Mine did too, but little did he know I like talking too lollllz
Love u!!!! They only use abuse lie manipulate devalue!!!! N discard on their time
Jacob Romero Thank you! Thank you also for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love right back✨💖
I would need an hour to list all that he did with his obsession. Some of that stuff made me cry on plenty of days. I’m good now. I’m not even trying to understand that toxic mindset. Narcs are subhuman.
Adjustingmycrown I’m sure you would - they are ridiculous especially with their obsessions. Same here but at that final discard that I initiated I was done with the tears. Their mindset incomprehensible to the normal human being. You cannot rationalize crazy.✨💖
Amen to that!!
You know the content is 🔥🔥🔥🔥when you have to set your alarm clock ⏰ and is so sleepy but is able to stay awake to hear the entire premiere. Yesss The Tea on NPD and Relationships is the 💣. Com Bae- Behhhhhh. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Miss V Lol! You know I love me some Miss V. I appreciate your love and support of our Tribe. Bless you Queen - thank you! You you and this entire Tribe is the 💣.com baayyy-behhh!! Much Love.✨💖🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The Tea on NPD and Relationships ✨💖🙏🏾✨💖🙏🏾✨💖🙏🏾
The watching you in the sleep is so true. I dream about him ALOT. I constantly run him out of my dreams and then I get hovered in reality. I think he's into darkness. I stay prayed up.
That’s all we can do Sis stayed prayed up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Same thing. I know when hoover is coming my hearth ache and ruminate him 😥😓
It’s been 5 years and the narc reached out to me. Soooo stupidly, I replied 🤦🏾♀️🥴. We talked a bit & caught up on life. They did majority of the talking about how wonderful they are now through character development 🙄 All their little success in life. They even tried to see if I would get jealous that they were engaged to their last partner..... then claimed “I didn’t even really like them”..... 🤔🙄🥴. Then the narc proceeded to ask me about my future and if I still wanted the same things we talked about when I was younger. As far as, do I still want marriage, kids, if I wanna move and go to the place we’ve decided too & I said nah to everything. I thought that was strange....... I, then, continued the lie to them because they said they were moving closer to my state (our relationship was long distance for 5 and a 1/2 years) so I lied & told them I’m moving to another state as well 🤦🏾♀️🥴. The convo ended. I told them please don’t contact me anymore, this is done, stop searching for me. They said okay..... now they proceed to post about how they’re moving now to the same state I lied about.......... 🙇🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️. Why?? Leave me alone. It’s my fault... I shouldn’t have replied but that need to know like why are you contacting me? Consumed me. Now here I am 😩🙇🏽♀️.....watching your videos to find guidance.
Sorry for the long message.
Thank God I found this channel! I'm currently going through a breakup with a narc after 8 years of lies, future faking, emotional unavailability, etc. I'm 53 now, and it feels like a wasted time and energy which hurts, but I realized I had to do it. Thank you for helping me and people like me getting through the hard times. You are so bright and inspiring that I just want to give you a big long hug!
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I’m happy you found this channel as well. Oh wow after eight years that’s a long time to suffer this abuse bless you. You’re so welcome. understand. However I don’t believe it was not of waste of time. I can assure you that the Almighty Creator more than likely used this situation to awaken you so you will be never taken like that again. Be encouraged. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you and God Bless You!!
Yup woke up in the early hours of the morning to 👁👁 I was soooo shook! Like why aren't you asleep creep!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis - I promise it is what they do and you’ve seen it for yourself. It will definitely creep you out. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@Tea on NPD, your energy is absolutely amazing, I Love it. You are so on point, with everything you put in these videos. Your videos are fuel for me to keep the NARC blocked. There's nothing he can say, no Grand lie he can tell me, to ever make me look back. Yes he Hoovers, and I ignore, he calls through video chat, I don't answer. I'll get private calls, calls from app phone numbers, no answer. It's done, whether he can accept it or not. Good luck with the next one.
#Snatchedthegenerator
Ms. P. Lol!😂 But that # tho! I am hollering right now.😂😂😂. Thank you so much. Thank you for sharing your time in this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Lord have mercy! I woke up in the middle of the night and caught the narc watching me many times in my sleep. The narc response was, "oh I'm just watching you." Another response was that I got alot was , "oh, you look like you stopped breathing. "
Cheating never works!
Thank you Queen for your service to the real creator!
They appoint flying monkeys to monitor your every move.
I remember my first time at his house !! He tried to get into my phone while I was in the shower, my phone snapped a picture of him .
I was the Bentley in the supply group. I set the bar very high over all the other supplies. No one will ever compare or even come close to the person that I am not in this life time.lol!!!!!!
Woooooooow!!! When you said they watch you when you sleep. I thought I was the only one. He even recorded me while I slept. I think he even had cameras around the house.
Welcome to the Tribe. No Sis they do I’ve witnessed it. Oh wow he recorded you sleeping. Probably because he wanted to watch someone do something he couldn’t do. They are evil. Bless you I’m glad you got out. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you for your videos
Yes they watch as you sleep because their mind is telling them that you must be doing something wrong to them like cheating or talking to other men they feel you life belongs to them.
Sister Queen!! You are so spot on!! Blessings stay safe!!💕💓👣👣🎉🇺🇸💞🙏💖I blocked No Contact!!
eva mcinnis Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you Queen. Yay now stay strong - bless you.
Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
He very much obsessed over good pictures of me, esp when I was younger. But when I was sick, more & more - as he knocked out what was left of my failing immune system - then I wasn’t so appealing. He was horrible to me...uncaring, mocking... then pouting with a huge narcissistic injury when I told him he was a mean, whiny, bully & a coward! He could never support me, he was in so much debt, & stole what was in our savings account after I walked out on him for good. Divorced him, got healthy & took a travel nurse job far away. New job, fun rental homes, new car, (he always wanted a new car but had poor credit), new friends, new LIFE. At 64!!! HA! I said it & I mean it!!! Love your videos, keep preaching sistah!
Testify Sis! That is a blessing in the Discard. That’s right I said it and I mean it. Thank you so much I’m happy you love the videos. Thank you for being here with us my sister.✨💖
I know everything you said in this video is
spot-on true, Miss Tea. Thank you for the reassurance that they’ll never find another supply like us, no matter how many they will go through.
My ex ghosted/discarded me 9 months ago, and I haven’t heard another word from him.
I remain in solid No Contact, prepared to not respond to any attempted hoover. But it is puzzling he hasn’t even tried, especially because he discarded me over such a minor incident. It involved a strong boundary of mine, though, and they sure don’t like that.
So it’s good to hear you say they don’t forget our grade A supply! His very foolish loss of me is indeed part of his karma.
You said it, and I love it! 💜
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He’s so obsessed. We work at the same place on different shifts. I had to start parking where he didn’t see me arrive. Yesterday he made sure to stand where he could see me arrive. He gave me time to get inside and get changed and then followed me to a breakroom and was eavesdropping. Trying to get my attention six weeks later. Three weeks ago he was apologizing and said he doesn’t think we should be friends but we could tell each other we don’t hate the other. I didn’t reply. Nothing he does works. It’s sad they can’t try a nice gesture rather than their games
Yes my Ex Narcissist use to watch me many times laying there with his face half covered up😭 freaked me out many nights
Have literally watched a couple hundred of these videos. But wow! This one made me feel really good, like some kind of relief. You seem to speak the same way I feel,and for that reason, i definitely respect what you have to say. Keep it up.✈
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m happy this content resonated with you and the feeling it brought about in you. Thank you - I’m here to help. Bless you. thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Aunty I’m watching this video, I got to the 6:54 mark and the phone rang ... Annnnd guess Who ?? 😂 you hit it right on the head 💜
Every single video you post resonates with me to where my entire body is covered in goosebumps on some of them!!! I tell you my narcissist used to talk him self up along with the love bombing stage but at the end of the relationship, he used to tell me how he has demons in his body and darkness. I am an empath so I think he only started to tell me this because of the addiction to me, he had to tell me something to scare me off because he knew, he needed me and that I didn’t need him and he hated it!!! He constantly told me to raise my vibration and the new car I got had to have been bought by my parents. Any accomplishment I had he always had to bring me down!! Everyday he would tell me he wasn’t up to going to war in the mind, when really, he was going to war in the mind EVERY single day with me!!!!
Wow - bless you and thank you sis. I can only create from my experiences. I keep it 💯 straight no chaser. Thank you so much and you’re so welcome. Yes they hate the fact that they need people and we don’t. He was telling you the absolute truth too - that wasn’t a lie. I’m so happy you got away. Thank you for sharing this comment and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
really out here doing God's word!! I needed to hear this!
He cheated on his ex with me, tried to connect with her after 2 years of discarding her. Now I am discarded regardless if we have 3 kids
I said it and I mean it!! God lead me to you, girl!!
And I am happy you are here Sis!🙌🏽✨💖💎💯
To be honest you have the best video and love your channel,, always on point,you say it how it is plus keeping it real and you always make it understandable with your point of view,,Great work Queen and God bless your heart ❤️.
General Ramzy Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much King - I appreciate you. I have to give you all my straight no chaser keeping it all the way💯. May the Creator bless you too. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Oh. My. Gosh. I can’t tell you how many times I caught my stbnx watching me, especially while I was sleeping!!! And now that he has discarded me, that fool has tried to invade my social media pages repeatedly!!!!! I can assure you that he has been blocked at every turn. BIRD!!!!
Thank you 🙏🏽 I have a question will you ever make hoodies/shirts that say “I said it and I mean it..bird” 😂 love it
They Provoke you, NOT FOR FUEL, but to CAUSE YOU TO SIN. That’s what the real agenda is is to CORRUPT YOUR RIGHTEOUSNESS to prove to God that man isn’t worthy, and to condemn your souls to HIM. (Provoke to prove you wrong in this reality)That’s why they love everything NEGATIVE and hate love. The host is totally unaware that’s why they ACT clueless THEY ARE.
Wow! And we call it fuel because they become satisfied when they can cause us to sin. I get it. Another huge spiritual eye-opener for me. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I've never thought of it like this but you are absolutely right!
Unfortunatly true, he wanted me to sin with him. Raised with christian values, meaning no sex before marriage, but he constantly wanted me to have sex with him before. Thank god I didnt give in. Because he didnt get what he wanted, his obsession over me grew and grew. Discarded him finally after 8 mnths. Now I think how can I even kissed him, the thought of kissing with someone so demonic, no respect for my values. Gross.
Yes he would always throw my relationship with God up in my face especially when he would get me upset intentionally and then say "that's not God like behavior" ugggh! I use to tell him I hate him now I know that was a demonic entity living in the flesh impersonating a human! Get out from that demonic stronghold there's witches and warlocks that live amongst us and they are on assignment for your soul 🙏🙏🙏
@@theresabowman1155 true!! its the devil. He was also saying, god wants you to be happy, gos wants you to love, unconditional love...blablabla. No Karen!!
He has always said I watch your pictures and videos and night which I thought was very strange. Your right sis
Welcome to the Tribe. Absolutely it is very weird and eerie. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Oh how he obsessed over me. Must have been exhausting kept his mind on whatever I was doing. Couldn't relax and just roll with a win win situation in that I didn't ride him or try to check up on much. I own my home etc we didn't live together. That saved me from his being too overly nesting on.
But then turn around and be nick picky, to argumentive, and petty. Would try punish kick up issues if I did too much of what didn't like. We're over for good I stayed away an year he came back in jan 2022 I didn't hardly visit had puppy liter and had disk replacement surgery on back so put self and pets first.
You know that made upset I knew we was over but I'm never dealing with because he's older will never change.
OMG ... I woke up one night because I felt something. My ex narc worked graveyard so I should've been alone but when I opened my eyes my ex was just standing in the dark ... watching me. That one episode freaked me out for years.
I also told him you will never meet another woman like me ever again! Grade A babybby lol! Let him go with those crusty back burner supplies! Hahahaha
Hahahaha🤣🤣🤣 you are so on point with the fake profiles. I knew from your voice you was a child of God, God bless you, you have a great gift in speaking
Queen😩😭When you said they watch you as you sleep. I had a long distance relationship with a Narcissist ex... Found out this guy was astral projecting on me twice during my sleep- 1,000 miles away. No one has ever did that to me. I was shocked by it & didn't know, he was involved in occultic practices. Realized months later after the discard he was part of an elite group...😩😱😱 I didn't realize people really did stuff like that. Their obsession with us is serious😩
Tria OMG 👀👀 WOW! That is crazy! I just really have no words. Wow!! Be blessed and safe Sis. ✨💖
Astral projection?
Takashi Pulsts Meaning he projected spiritually out of his body. It is a out of body experience. It’s demonic.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I experienced that more than once.
Takashi Pulsts With you or the narcissist?
KARMA WILL BE ALL THOSE MEMORIES...GOD BLESS
It’s gonna be a whole lot of bad memories I’m sure now that they can’t get back. Lol. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I don’t friend anyone that I am not positive 100% that it’s who they say they are. I’ll quiz that friend request, how do I know you? Crickets…. Means block!
Girlfriend, video #2 and I am so relating to everything you are saying. I was in the dark and confused for so long, not understanding who my husband was or what he is. I appreciate people like you who come on here and tell it like it is! Blessings on you dear heart ♥️
Welcome to the Tribe. Awesome thank you so much. Now you have the knowledge thank goodness. You’re so welcome. Peace and blessings to you. I appreciate you sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Miss Telsha - Lawd - were you in my relationship because, you be tellin the truth. One night I was sleeping and The narcissist was watching -Chile I dont do that mess. Scared the crap out of me, I told them they almost would’ve gotten hit 🤣
Ma’am you are speaking some truth in this video.
Dear Beloved Thank you so much. I’m happy that you gained something from this video. I appreciate your time and this comment. Much Love.✨💖
Wow i am subscribing right now . Preach lady! He use to stand over me watching me sleep. In his corner for 13 long yeArs. Will never find me in anyone else. I thank you for giving me such strength. Nice to meet you, i am cathy.
Thank you so much for subscribing. Yes indeed I can only share my experiences and the knowledge I have. I must say that being watched while sleeping was very creepy. You are correct he will look for you in others and will never find you again. You’re so welcome. We are much stronger than we think. Nice to meet you as well Kathy - I’m Telsha. I am happy I appreciate the gift of your time and leaving a comment with us. Much Love.✨💖to have you as a part of our tribe. Bless you.
Ok I wasn’t ready for this tea. Black and white thinking. So true
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen Sis. Yes this is how they think it’s the absolute truth. Thank you for the gift of your time and this comment you have left for us. Much Love.✨💖
My ex narc was obsessed with LV, Gucci and couldn’t afford any of it. Gave me a bunch of LV Bags and they were all fakes. Lives in 280 rent controlled apt and wants to wear Gucci and Fendi..no common sense to save or build for the future. My first warning sign was that she noticed the car I drove and was very verbal about my car..RED FLAG
Hello Grade A here and I wish I wasn't goshhh the obsession is real and the stalking is real - Idk why people are waiting for a narc to return when I'm here waiting for them to get out of my life for good.
Yes the stalking is real especially if you are the one that discard it not the narcissist. Just be safe.✨💖
This is such revelation. I do recall waking up and he was staring at me. Lord Jesus.
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This is so inspirational & so educational.This explains sooooooo
Much,for a 51yr old man to say you don't turn them on but CONTINUOUSLY keep calling you back
for more & more|& I'm sixty,babae}!
I’m so happy to hear that. Just keep glowing up beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yess him & his babymomma are obsessed with me low hanging fruit ... they know how I come he never did it better after or before me Periodt ‼️
Yes indeed and I know you write about it but they love like you said that low hanging fruit they don’t want to elevate. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
This is so real! He had 7 FB profiles on my FB before he even left!
I kept it moving without looking back! No contact babbbyy!
I have memories of you all somtime when didnt catch each other a the right or wrong time they say its always the one that got away
Welcome to the Tribe. We will all be known forever is that one that got away I’m sure. And never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Wow. Got a Hoover call as I'm watching this. Omg.
I heard him talking to someone and he brought that pidgeion over to his garage harem! She was lower supply but she ended up leaving him too hahahaha!
Love the professional intro then drop it like it’s hot!!!
@ Telsha: awesome video as always! You bring up a great point, the ex narc was very obsessive about no phone calls during football games involving his teams or nightly news, etc. Over time he became more obsessive of my time. As I would not give him that control and was figuring out who he was, he started the devalue stage and I caused narcisstic injuries (not knowing that at the time) then the discard came and it was evil!! Knowing that the memories of me may haunt him gives me some solace 🙂. My goal now is to get stronger every day and forget about him. It was just a lesson I had to learn, not a death sentence to endure forever ❤
Sister such wisdom you spoke “ it was a lesson that you had to learn and not a death sentence you had to endure forever” - wow so true. Thank you so much. See that - they are naturally obsessed it is ingrained in the disorder. Thank you for sharing those beautiful words of wisdom and your time with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships i hope I didn't come off vengeful - lesson learned 💪
Eileen Dennehy Not at all.✨💖
Im deeply highly empathic. So kind loving compassion understanding and patient. So up and down with this female covert narc, I was no contact, this profile on social media I’ve been suspect of , hit me up right after. That profile flipped on me and threatened my life. So I investigated our every interaction, and scarey as it is, this profile has been interacting with me weeks before my narc ever reached out and introduced herself to me! She was studying me before I ever knew she existed!! That’s spooky
I have to tell you that you are doing a great job! You were born for this, sister! Ever think about being a christain comedian? Well, you are
already doing that also! I'm sure you are giving your viewers alot of laughs! Me included! I like how you talk about thoughs peg leg devils w/ no class! This encourages alot of people! No body does it like you, sister! You keep it going!
Any way, this is the brother that got
clean away! I don't know why this
narcissist is still obsessed over me!
I never really gave her no real supply! She still gazes at me with
some times a smile, but more often
with that puppy dog look on her face! She should know by now there is going to be no chance! She keeps poping up unexpectedly! This has been going on for years! At least 7
years! She seems to keep coming back off and on after she tried me some years ago and i got away with out getting burnt! She did once pick
me up for church one time and she did some thing stupid and unexpected to get a reaction! But, i never gave her another chance! Once was enough for me to know
that some thing was terribly wrong!
I surely let her know that she wasn't
my style or cup of tea! And she also tried to get over 300. dollars worth of merchandise at the mall one time
and she should have known church
was out! Because, i refused to do any
thing and that let her know she definitely had the wrong one! So, why is she always coming back? I am not a good supply obviously , because i refuse to be any body's
fool! Especially, a clown like that!
She got a better chance at a circus
than with me! I seem to keep humiliating her when i turn her
down! But, it does no good! She even tried the friend thing with
me! I think, sister, you hit the nail
on the head when you said they
are just stupid! I didn't think no one could be that stupid! But, now i am
sold on thoughs zombies with wigs
and lipstick! That seems to be the right call for these long leg chiwawas! I seriously can not think of any thing else that makes sense!
Thank you, my sister! And may GOD
bless you richly! 👍💯🙏
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Literally just got a Hoover from him and his new supply! Wow! They both sat outside of my home for 2 mins! 🤯
You are Amazing.tell them sis.they deserve Karma.
How creepy they are!
Yep i wake and he was watching me😁 but that didnt made him change. He had nightmares about me leaving him but even thought he kept on doing shit. Everytime asking new opportunities and more the same. I never imagine that could be so many people not abble to love. Its human to love. What a freak nature they have. My damages are becoming smaller as time goes by. Almost 6 months finally free of that. Now i prefer to be allone i dont want no one yet. I love the way you talk
After I discarded the narcissist I prayed to God that the narc would focus and obsess with another woman. Because these devils obsess and keep them energetic chords strong when you go no contact, you can literally feel their pull. Its like they are psychic or something, they feel when you have a weak moment, also with no contact, and. I had to make my energetic field whole again, with chordcutting, praying to god, elevate higher spiritually, and heal my inner wounds( working on that on a daily basis). Btw the narc admitted he meditated on me😭 I said, pray for yourself!!!!! I dont need your prayers, I have God and beloved angels. He was meditating on me to hoover me back.....these damn devils...
Welcome to the Tribe. This comment from beginning to end was a wow wow wow. All I can say is thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate you sharing. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you for what you do and commenting back. So important for people to get validation foe what theyve been through❤❤❤ youre a blessing🙂
You are so right. I fortunately discarded my narc before I knew what narcissism was mistakenly I stayed in touch. The narc still calls and constantly reminisces over the many experiences we had via my introducing the narc to my world. Plus my imprint is all over the narcs house I repaired and replaced many items small and large wish I'd known better. Needless to say as you've said I was grade A supply.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes and day they never get over a great day supply you will always be seen as the one that got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
This video is SO on POINT! I KNOW the ex narc is obsessed anytime I kicked his ASS out of my House & LIFE over 2 yrs ago & This CRAZY FOOL Still Riding By My House! Its Crazy, Sad & Pure Comedy All @ The Same Time SMH
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much. Yes indeed - see that still riding by your place. They are just insane. I agree it can be comical once you figure them out and heal lol. Thank you for sharing your time and this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Never caught my narc watching me in my sleep. But sometimes I catch them just sitting staring at me. When she sleeps it seems like a deep sleep. But I've woken up at odd times and she's up smoking or something
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes you will catch them at odd hours doing things like that they don’t sleep very well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I’ve had that state and I’ve asked them why u looking at me like that? He say I’m in deep thought, nawwwe you thinking why can’t I kill her lolllz
Yeah, i would catch her out of the corner of my eye just staring at me. I think they are studying you like a predator does it's prey.
You aren’t lying about the fake profiles! I’ve received so many of them and they always request me around the hours that he gets off work. He’s trying to break into my accounts now because he knows my email address. I’m always alerted about a security reason and it makes my accounts lock. While we together he told me he would lurk on my page and constantly stare at my pictures. I’m scared he’s so creepy.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this is what they do it’s a form of harassment and stalking. It is very creepy. Make sure you keep secure passwords on all of your things and change the passwords too. They are thieves as well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are absolutely beautiful, and wise. You know your stuff on these narcissist.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much Sis.. I have been through it with a narcissist I can tell you about these clowns. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Well said , cheered me right up ❤️. I hope KARMA does it job
OMG! I FELT EVERY SINGLE WORD THAT U SAID N THE VIDEO 8-30-2020 MADE ONE YEAR SINCE I DISCARDED THE X NARC I NEVER ONCE LOOKED BACK ALTHOUGH I WAS HOOVERED MULTIPLE TIMES I'M STILL HEALING & LEARNING ABOUT NARCISSISM & NARCISSIST MARRIAGES/ RELATIONSHIPS
I SO LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! PLEASE KEEP EM COMING
N JOY YOUR WEEKEND
Welcome to the Tribe. Congratulations on the anniversary of your discard and never looking back. Thank you so much I’m happy you love my videos. Thank you enjoy your weekend as well and be safe. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He’s writing the new supply love poems using my writing format, to try to sabotage her new relationship with someone else. The new supply is his ex of years and years
Whoahhhh I did catch him watching me several times sleeping.😬😳
Narcs are comprised of 3 things:
Inner child: the true self/unshaped identity
The persona: false self/ the soulless body or shell or host
The EGO: SATAN
While the Satan is tormenting the inner child, the host acts out that torment on the world.
It’s totally disassociated from reality cuz it’s never EXPERIENCED IT.
Satan needs his OWN ARMY so he’s hijacking Gods to create his own. The same as they try to steal qualities from us that they should just acquire on they’re own. He traumatizes them at a very early age and that’s when the illusionist takes over. They slowly grow into his EXTENSIONS. That’s why they view US as their EXTENSIONS.
Omggggggg wow! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The tree of life?
I’ve blocked this same narc, 6 times, in 6 different ways, thank GOD he doesn’t know where I stay, now my most recent ex narc won’t go away either, neither know where I stay though.
They STARTED out harassing me on account of people who never saw any worth in me when I was involved with them which is why they had no proof of connection besides the things they stole from me. People are really gassing up losers to feel entitled to a person's GLOW UP. The potential that they're hell bent on interfering with now could've been accomplished if they had actually believed in me so I don't want to hear any war stories ✌🏽
I'm not interested in anyone acting like I'm a teenager who just discovered a passion. The truth is that I was a diamond in the rough & less attractive back then, just ask my bd 🙃. What's funny is that I WAS much more passionate then I am now so what suddenly makes them appear out of nowhere to claim ownership over me?
Knock it off & go find some other regret to taunt in life. I'm not available
Omg you know your business this IT had 2 rooms full of clothes and sneakers but had dust in iTS pockets and the love making had me twisted iT was sweating like a runaway slave and cheesin I was confused what did I miss during those 6 min . I just love you energy you plays no games .
LOL I’m trying to tell y’all I have been through it with a narcissist I can tell you how to get down. Your right I plays no games. Thank you so much I’m glad that you can appreciate my energy. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They keep momentos I think. Thank you for helping. I love your videos. You've helped me to accept it. I'm beginning to see the light at end of tunnel. Thank u
You’re so welcome. I’m happy you enjoyed the videos and they are helping you gain a better understanding of what happened with you and the narc.✨💖
😘🖤THANK U FOR ALL YOUR WORDZ OF ENCOURAGEMENT MY SISTA IT IZ DEEPLY APPRECIATED💯
I was interested in this girl and she knew that. She knew I was a professional massage therapist and she asked me if I can massage her. I did a couple of massage with nothing in return $$$. She told me how she appreciated me. I said wait this girl is taking advantage of me and stealing all my energy. I stop talking her completely but I know she will reach out again. I have what she wants 🙌 I woke up to her games.
I blocked him on every cell phone number that he has and on all social media. I am essentially a ghost now, stealth. There are no current pictures of me anywhere on social media. He hardly slept. It’s his conscience.
What I had to tolerate was loud blarting music in middle of night woke me up big time but she hated noise if I was making it like even switching kettle on when she was asleep unbelievable!!!
So true that Narcs don’t sleep well. My ex was a sex addict. His weird obsession was that every night he would wake up around 2 am to use the bathroom and brush his teeth, and not so quietly shut the drawer. It was becoming my nightly routine of disterbia. I’m single now and sleeping way better .
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow yes they don’t sleep well too much anxiety from all of the chaos they perpetuate. I’m happy you were able to get away and sleeping much better. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
What differenciates me and replacement the most is she is obssessed with him. Drive around collecting insurance money off car accidents she causes but flips it onto other driver. Just to win him over. I may not have much but I was grade a outta love. And they don't go away lol nope. So like my guy friend said, I must have something she don't, something he likes. Ughhh it's called a soul...ya know. A heart. I held him down while he was awaiting disability. Two weeks before he got it discarded. But karma was patient. And I'm not stopping their karma cause of what they did to me. I could have him back but I'm more than supply. She obviously don't mind it. No souls. Empty and superficial relationship
Yes she was watching me when I woke up 🤣
He was watching me when I didn't even realize that's what was going on , he would have these moments I would catch him just looking at me in a dead stare , even with other people in the room. Very odd I would always wonder "what is he thinking" & it probably was just future ways he was going to torture my soul.
Welcome to the Tribe. He sure was I love to watch you and stalk you creepy. I mean try to torture your soul to the max these people are evil. I’m happy you got away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships and thank you as well for enlightening us on so much information, it helps a lot .
I'm waiting on my tea for d tea Queen come on!
Thank you.
Not only watched but took photos of me sleeping.... narc also told me he had photos of exes sleeping