AWKWARD WEDDING NIGHT || YOUR FIRST TIME TIPS || WAITED TILL MARRIAGE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Hi guys!
Welcome back to my channel, I am so excited to have you here again! Today we will be going into the details of what happens during the wedding night and how to prepare yourself especially if it's your first time or if it's been a while.
Please note that this video is only for people who are 18 and above.
Thank you and enjoy!
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Okay, thank you ❤️❤️
Victoria tell us how you enjoyed that night on a scale of 1 to 10. I am looking forward to inviting you to my TH-cam channel.
@@KateTriumph 0.5 😄
Hmmmm now you are talking. Victoria you are spoilt, good girl, your husband made a good choice.
A minute? Say 5 seconds.
I’m a 31 year old male-virgin and I’m not ashamed to say that, although waiting till marriage is deemed old-school nowadays but our society have fallen short of the benefits and virtues of waiting till marriage. Anyways, I’ve sometimes imagined, or rather fantasized on how my first time would be. Glad you broke it down for it to be assimilated. You just gained a sub!
I'm really glad to hear this from a guy!!!! Weldone sir! 🥰
Good for you! You won’t regret it.
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Do you have a girlfriend
@@liliankaylee 😅😅😅
I love your modesty. It made it so easy to watch and learn. As a Christian this is not a topic that one would hear often yet we have so much media spreading fantasy around the whole issue. Beautiful work... I salute you 👏🏼🙌🏻
Exactly! Thanks for watching sis!
Exactly!!!
Yes oo. My sister
I am glad you kept your bed honourable. Trusting the goal was to honour God, kudos!!!! May Jesus be pleased.
😃😃😃😃🤣🤣I just love this lady, the way she is explaining and laughing 🤣she is really saying it from experience, but thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching 🥰
Yea 😂.....She's really funny
The first time for everyone is not the same and it does not have to be painful. My husband is far from being mini mouse but he took his time and I already made up in my mind that God made me for him and him for me so its going to be the perfect fit. I kept that mindset because before that I was terrified and I think that mindset and his patience made it a beautiful experience.
Love your perspective...
Wow
If you're tense and nervous, it might well hurt. But if you take time together first to explore each other, turn each other on etc, it might not hurt at all. If a woman is turned on , sex is a totally different experience to if she is not. And force/lube is not necessary!
I know someone who was a virgin on her wedding night.....she and her husband waited a few months .....they spent time just getting used to sharing life, home and bed with another human being. They also spent time getting used to cuddling, caressing, being naked etc.
When they did eventually have sex, it just happened naturally with no emotional pressure, or tension..
This is the most honest wedding night video I’ve watched. Thank you!!
Me too
Ikr...you can literally know this is the fact
"Sister, it's not a matter of ouch!" Scared me and made me laugh at the same time 🤣🤣🤣
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Thank you Sis 🥰
Not me laughing like that when she said this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@thatoolga 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men pls take it easy with your wife esp if she's a Virgin. Never force your way through, its a gradual process.. The hymen is stretched every time you try... It might take you up to a week to achieve full entry.. Patience is key. For the Bride, Lubricant is your best friend.. Pls apply generously... Buy it in bulk (not just one or 2 per time)
Couples.. PLAN YOUR HONEYMOON. It's too important that you do
Thanks for this!
exactly what we'll said
If a man loves his wife, why would he want to force his way through? The act of sexual intercourse is also known as making love. How is forcing your way through even an act of making love? It is better to go slowly and ensure your wife is getting the pleasure.
@Valencia Saintilus I think you should know he meant the Vjay stretches... not Hymen.
@Valencia Saintilus THANK YOU.
Gosh I'm cringing 😭😭😭.... I'm just praying cos I hate pain!!! Holy spirit will see us through... This was so informative!!! I've started to prepare my mind! Thank you so much❤️
Awww... don't worry, you'll be fine. Just don't over think it. Our body is made for this, just relax and you'll be amazed at the wonders your body can do 😉
There doesn’t need to be pain if you are treated right and your body ready.
I'm getting really scared oh
The pain is what I don't want😢
@@fatherhoodgist_with_favour please watch the new video I uploaded to give you tips to reduce the pain
@@fatherhoodgist_with_favour it's not always painful oooo each person and their own body my friend told me she didn't feel any pain for her own and I understand cause everyone has their own body
I am a 27 year old female virgin trusting the Lord for the appointed time to do the do in the right way (in wedlock). Thank you ma'am. This piece is quite edifying.
You're very welcome ☺️
I am an African Am. and I was raised with the same aversion to the body. So I genuinely appreciated this video. I felt like I was listening to my big sister. Thank you. May God bless, keep, protect and prosper your family 🤗❤️💐.
I'm really glad. Thanks for watching dear
I wish I could have give you a heart but, it not an option on my screen so❤️❤️❤️🤗. Take care.
Thank you so much!!! As a young christian woman who is choosing to wait for marriage, this completely changed my outlook and I actually feel so much more secure and happy with the idea of resting on the wedding night and waiting to chill out, instead of forcing ourselves to do it right away that same day! This really made me feel more secure and confident on what to do to prepare, in ways I didn't know I needed to know until I heard them. Thank you sister 💜💙
I'm really happy to hear this! Thanks for watching ❤
I just love to listen to u..though i have been married for 11years i still refresh my memory with your lectures....you are a real gift..u make it so simple ❤❤❤
Aww... thank you 🥰
If every parent could speak to their own children like this, the world would be a more sensible happy place!
I'm scared oooooooo😱😱😱
I love the bluntness, truthfulness and Openness. Thank you.
Me too
Wow! I'm not yet married and hope to get married. OMG. Thank u for this talk. It's very enlightening and important. I usually shy away from such talks but I'm glad I listened till the end
Thanks for watching ❤
I'm 21m waiting for marriage its really hard with modern hookup culture but i know it will be worth it one day to only have that intimate experience with my wife and say i learned everything from her and her learning from me.
I wish I came across this before I got married. The pain ehn. Let's thank God anyway for the journey after😁
Lovely video. Thanks for sharing
Woman, you can talk o😂. She literally kept my company to and fro throughout my journey and I couldn't stop laughing. The whole video is just full of positive energy🤣.
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Thank you! 😊
Love love love this! Thank you so much. It was truly informative, so humorous, educational and to be honest it was really freeing for virgins who don’t know these things and can be apprehensive towards the wedding night. Not many people are able to teach this with such purity as you did here. I learnt so much. Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
I'm really glad! There's a new video on this, be sure to watch that too 🥰
Her smile is so refreshing 🥰💜
Thank you 😊
Her smile is contagious, beautiful,blessed and cute 🤩❤️
Thank you!!
Girl I ain’t gonna lie! This was the realest video I ever watched on this!!! I really learned something today!
Thank you so much!
The level of confidence is on another level.
You smiling and laughing 🤣😂, that's refreshing.
Thank you 🥰
HE was bruise for our iniquities.... so no bruises for my love in Jesus name. Amen 😂😂😂
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I am so done!!! hahahah
Epic
I'm finished 😂😂😂😂it's the scriptural reference for me 😭
Hahhahhahahahhaa 😂😂😂
New subbie, seconds in!! Thank you, I am 28 and looking forward to meeting the right one to share this moment with, taking notes cause I know the day will catch me sooner or later. haha, thanks for the laughs. God bless you and your hubby!
Amen!! Thanks so much! All the best!
My comment is only this; that I ask blessing for your wonderful husband for the loving environment you two have created around you.
God bless you two and blessed your home.
Amen. Thank you so much 💓
😀😀😀 thank you for sharing,this is really educative...
God bless your home with happiness,love and peace
Love the way you served the truth in a flexible way with the dash of humor 😂... New subbie✌😚
Thank you Sis 🥰
Jesus! Marriage sweet o... Look at that "I'll beat you o" , and "fish" comment. It felt like you were saying I love you instead. Ah! God when! 🥺🥺🥳🥳🥳
I am So Proud of the male virgin who commented here is Not ashamed of admitting that he is a virgin and who places value on himself enough to want to wait until marriage.
Absolutely!
I love this Victoria. Kudos and congratulations to my brother for having a lovely lady. Your home is blessed and you will continue to be relevant.
Thank you sis, we need to talk about this topic, is soo important! I'm not married yet and I'm celibate, but I'm taking notes. Thank you for keeping it real with us 🥰😊
You're welcome 😊
This is the MOST honest s*x discussion I have heard. That L*be part got me. Im so PROUD U are able to discuss this openly. Thank u Mrs Wole
I like the fact that you use humor. It is also good to see the awkwardness for couples from other cultures.
😂 I thoroughly enjoyed watching this! Definitely sending this video to the hubby!
Thank you 🥰
Mrs fash...I'm so blessed subscribing...I'm 23years, although I'm still single and nt in any relationship(virgin by God's grace) but I must say dat all dis u are saying ba will really prepare me ahead of time...God bless u..no with all dis ur teaching ba I can't make mistake...I thank God for u be a blessing to me and world at large..love u ma..💝💝
Awww.. thanks so much ❤
I love your originality. Thank you for putting Nigerian content out there ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. Proudly 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
Thank you!
After all the pain you said don't be afraid 😭🤣🤣🤣
Yes nau... pain will come and go, enjoyment is for a life time 😅😅
Lol
This was well said, I love the honesty and playfulness and the points were well articulated. Kudos 👍
Girl you are funny😂😂😂. Thank you for sharing this for young Christian women. It's important to be real.
Thank you! 😁
I am just seeing this.. I love the fact that you are real.. Its all absolutely true. I have been married 5yrs plus and u made it real... Good to know people are now talking about it now. I never really heard many people talk about it except my pastor during counselling. But I made sure I counselled my friends to be very well prepared. Especially the hurt part, people never come clean about it. Thanks for been real. New member on your channel. Kudos to u... Keep it up.
Thank you so much! I love hearing from people who have actually experienced it 🥰
You covered all the points, and it was well explained.I think the only other thing I would add is to have fun with it. This area of marriage can be very enjoyable but if it turns into a chore/ task it will become a nightmare. So ladies set dates,cook those nice meals, watch those movies that get you excited together with your husband, research positions together, mood light the house. What ever makes you comfortable try it. 😊. On my sixth year of marriage now
Thanks so much for this!! ❤
Feels like i'm listening to my older sister giving me first wedding night tips lol
I'm glad 🥰
Omoooo, I enjoyed this video oooo, unfortunately I didn't get to see it until like 3 weeks after my wedding but most of the things you talked about were and still is my experience, you're so real and modest in your presentation.......
Well done sis, I'm definitely subscribing to this channel
Aww... thanks so much!!
I just love the genuinty and humour...I am a photographer and I tell my clients to relax as well that night and enjoy the next day....
Great!!! Thanks Sis ❤
And i was there waiting for a fairytale honeymoon. Thank you, this was so informative
You're welcome dear
I’m not surprised this came on my feed lol I’m excited to watch
Thank you! 😁
I love this video and I have learned a lot but I will like to say that couples should learn to do it in their home the first night then they can move to the hotel thereafter cause we don't know the type of people and the spirits they carry that have slept on that bed
This is a good point.
Thank you
Thank you so much for your honesty. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this as a Christian woman. Thank you
You're welcome @
Super informative. All my assumptions have been debunked😅. Thank you for keeping it real.
Ahswear 😂😂😂
Ya smile n laughter is contagious 😂.
Thank u for this
Anytime! 😁
Well done Victoria Fash. Very useful tips .
Wanna mention that your wedding day doesn't have to be so stressful.. We make things a lot complicated for ourselves as regards wedding celebration... Keep the wedding simple (especially for you as the couple ) your focus should be your marriage(which is for life) not the just the wedding (which is one day)
True this!
Many couples spend a lot of money for the wedding day which only lasts for that day itself. Marriage should be about the union of two individuals to become one and to be able to fully enjoy life together till death.
First timer here and I'm loving it. Great lesson
I love it that your husband was interfering. I learnt a lot. Thank you ma
Thank you ❤
just three weeks to my wedding as a virgin and am happy to know the truth different from what i knew
I really appreciate ur courage to enlighten people on this tooic
I never comment But I just had to say I LOVE YOUR ENERGY AND CONFIDENCE. Thank you for making my day!
Aww... thanks so much for watching! ❤
"You'll cry" , me .. ehhh 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i’m learning oh
First of all let’s talk about her beauty she is pretty no cap 🧢 and her content is mad 🔥 I truly love your channel please keep the energy going because am definitely here to stay 👏👍
Awww, thanks so much
TH-cam has been popping up this video to me again and again and I finally fell for it, here I am!!!
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J love your authenticness and openness in this video,I enjoyed watching you.Please keep them coming✌🏾.
Thank you so much!
Thumbs up woman! You got all points quite well and your energy is top notch.
Thank you 😊
The way your husband appeared to greet us after the serious talk ehnn 🤣🤣🤣
I struggle to film my videos seriously when my sisters are close by so I don’t know how you made this video seriously in front of him 🤣 I feel like I would have laughed throughout and it wouldn’t have allowed me film well 🤣
It was informative 👍🏽
Trust me, I chased him out of the room more than twice 🤣🤣
Thanks so much for watching!
I loved this.. so beautifully delivered. thank you. the fact that you were laughing all through made it non-awkward and fun for me
Aww... thanks so much 🥰
Wow.. so real and honestly delivered. Thanks for sharing. God bless you.
Your laugh is so infectious. This was really informative. Thank you sis.
grateful to youtube for recommending this channel.
thank you for being so honest.
You're welcome
Oh my God I’m so glued to your channel, hahah it’s the up Nepa for me 😂😂😂
Thank you 😊
Thanks God for keeping me a virgin for 30years it's not easy all the stigma and co... Ur video is a source of encouragement to me. One day I will share my own testimony
Amen! Thank you for sharing
I'm happy to be here, new subbie from Kenya
Yaay!! Thank you 🥰
"It's not a matter of ouch" 😂you so funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh my😂🤣This lady almost finished my ribs! But you scared me when insisted it's gonna hurt.
Awww.. I ment to 😄😄
Just kidding, don't think too much of it. I have videos to show you how to make it easier.
The laugh makes me laugh. Thank you sis, Learnt a lot. More grace.
Thank you 😄
Your laughter followed by "sister it not the matter of ouch" 😂😂😂
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I love the humour in this video 🤣🤣
And it was truly informative 😭
Thank you!
Kwkwkkwkw keep it "missionary "🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thank you for this
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You're welcome love
You are hilarious! ……“ properly prepared before the intrusion”😂😂😂
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Not me smiling throughout the video😍😂😂
Awww 😁😁
When you introduced yourself with your maiden name again I started laughing. You’ll get used to it with time. Don’t stress yourself 😁
I'm actually now used to it!!! Glory to God 😁
Like I've written my name on an attendance with my maiden name over and over weeks after my wedding 😅😅😅
@@Temiladeiye I still do that 😄
It's the OUCH 4 me tho🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God will help me 🙌
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My God this powerfully my first night it gonna be crazy jesus 😢
My wedding night was quite memorable, we weren't too tired... Had a great time together.. It was my first time and painful.. We couldn't pull through that night ... But we did subsequently.
Aww... glad to hear that 🥰
Yet to watch to the end,but you just gain a new subscriber 💃💃💃
Awww Thank you Sis 🥰
There's gonna be a ministration this night*😂😂 you are the best 😂❤️
i love your energy, humor 😅 and humility ♥️
Fantastic video, I know say you and oga go knack immediately after doing this video.
This is really helpful. You're literally so real. You gained a subscriber🤣💖. I wasn't even looking when I bumped into this. Thank you 💕
Aww.. thanks ❤
I really enjoyed this video. Can you please do a series on the traditional wedding and the cultural meaning and the beauty of the whole process. Thank you.
I will look into this
I'm glad came across this content. I'm 28 and this scares the shit out of me! The pain alone will make me stay clear of it 😂
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You'll be fine 😁
Just seeing this video though- you really tried with the discussion😀 , I laffed as you said your husband turned.
Thank you!
Key concept, give yourself time.
Just got here and I love you already! Thanks for the insight 😊 New subscriber here 🙋♀️😁
Yaaay!!! Thank you so much!! 💓
First of let's talk about your beauty. You're so stunning sis Great video btw
Thank you so much 🤗
I must say it is really informative.
Keep up the good job 😍
Thank you for your excellent presentation! God bless you!🙏❤️🙏
Amen! Thanks for watching 🥰
Oh my! Gotten to the end. This is super helpful and amazing!
I stan mehn! You were so diplomatic and very insightful. Well done! 💛💛💛💛💛💛
Lmao! When he came to introduce himself and the post credits too. You're amazing, Damola. You've always been💛💛 thank God for you and your home🥳🥳🥳🥳
Great job! Much love from South Africa ❤️🇿🇦