When The Narcissist Turns People Against You

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  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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    • @Ratgirl2
      @Ratgirl2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have to watch I'm in hell right now no car no money no lawyers will help me.😢😢😢

  • @elizabethbryan7601
    @elizabethbryan7601 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    FOR SURE! It sucks! I have walked away from my birth family. Estrangement is making me strong.

  • @tinanelson7612
    @tinanelson7612 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    For sure, I have been a victim of rewritten history being told. They expect you not to remember what exactly happened.

    • @kat-75
      @kat-75 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Certainly, since the laws were changed to put those adult bastards on the sex offenders list, they would not want to admit their wrong and destructive in my childhood.

    • @SherryTomlinson-r2y
      @SherryTomlinson-r2y หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m the elephant in the room.. elephants never forget.

  • @BàiHọcĐờiSống
    @BàiHọcĐờiSống หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    It’s one of the most painful betrayals-when someone manipulative, like a narcissist, turns others against you. They use charm and deceit to distort the truth, painting themselves as the victim while secretly casting you as the villain. It feels isolating, confusing, and deeply unfair.
    Stand tall. The storm will pass, and your integrity will speak louder than any false narrative.

    • @SherryTomlinson-r2y
      @SherryTomlinson-r2y หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes made me mentally ill , Cptsd. Thank goodness for these videos and the two year shut down!

  • @EnriqueMartiGonzalez-j7t
    @EnriqueMartiGonzalez-j7t หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For sure,I learned not to try to reverse the damage she has done criticizing me.I don't need to

  • @Thesaucywench
    @Thesaucywench หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Gut wrenching and heartbreaking when they do this as you thought this was a good friend, truth is they weren’t a great friend, if they were, they wouldn’t believe it. Thank the narcissist for taking the trash out of your life.

  • @wayneelliott1180
    @wayneelliott1180 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    FOR SURE - the smear campaign and slanders were absolutely brutal! It was mind-twisting to see how the narc reversed reality and limped around playing the 'broken' victim while those she poisoned against me glared, sneered and stared at her chosen target, completely stonewalling as if I didn't exist. The damage was earthquakish and inescapable, around me every day. It's taken some time, but i have learned to disregard the monkeys and completely relinquished any attempt to try and communicate the truth. It's very liberating, - though the narc will never cease the attacks, baits and provocations, and there are days when it can overwhelm. They are an evil, destructive, manipulative bunch, these narcs.

    • @lilyghassemzadeh
      @lilyghassemzadeh หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wish you peace of mind in this dreadful unfair journey ❤️

    • @wayneelliott1180
      @wayneelliott1180 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lilyghassemzadeh thank you so much for your support.

    • @wadesnyder6871
      @wadesnyder6871 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i can testify, karma knows there address. mine just went to his dirt nap.

    • @SherryTomlinson-r2y
      @SherryTomlinson-r2y หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    • @Beth00009
      @Beth00009 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is brutal! (you need a strong resolve to go through this) once you know what you're dealing with you can't unknow (mine started with my family and it had been going on for a really long time) when i figured things out other past things out started making sense)

  • @JankaLeucorrhinia
    @JankaLeucorrhinia หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are delivering a very important message Rebecca.
    Thank you for your support ❤
    In the past, I tried blindly and in vain to think about who is here for me and who is against me.
    It's great to hear that I'm on the right track .
    I don't do that anymore .

  • @michaeleckert5877
    @michaeleckert5877 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yes,for sure.They can not manipulate me.Its the end of their innocence ❤❤

  • @dumpmail-xz2qp
    @dumpmail-xz2qp หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    it is such a petty thing they do, they feel so proud of themselves when they can get other people side against you so you have no power to fight back because your reputation is smeared by these snakes. They really have a thing for isolating people

  • @TuerlingsTim
    @TuerlingsTim หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have been there several times. First with the family till the two narcissistic individuals died and the truth came out and after divorce a narcissistic partner and lost all friends

  • @D4rkm4rk97
    @D4rkm4rk97 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    There are people with such fragile egos that they'll smear you just for slightly offending them. These are people with God complexity issues everyone has to live according to their world view if not you're a terrible person.

  • @AngelPatrello
    @AngelPatrello หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    narcissists will make up lies about you and share with others to make you look like a bad person!!!!

    • @D4rkm4rk97
      @D4rkm4rk97 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They tend to lack evidence when they do.

    • @Beth00009
      @Beth00009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AngelPatrello yeah they make out you've said things you've never said about people so they dislike you (keep you isolated so they look like the popular liked one and you the pariah)

  • @kknewman2626
    @kknewman2626 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FOR SURE!!!My ex Mark, was gathering his minions my family was the most painful. To prove his lies and emotional abuse a family member listened in on a conversation. Turned the tables in one conversation and I was protected by my family in a millisecond. I lived far away from my family and removed myself from contact in order to be able to get help with an educated mental health professional that understood the programming I had been under with him. One's mind confused by the manipulation that I was unaware of until what my therapist called a RAGE. The mask fell. Knowledge is power. I educated myself on this personality and can spot a Narc in a second. Grateful for all the humans that educated me. I appreciate you, Rebecca!

  • @paulinetayen9559
    @paulinetayen9559 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    FOR SURE! 👍

  • @SebastianKomor
    @SebastianKomor หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's interesting how universal and predictable their behaviour can be.
    Currently dealing with this, where my son is now her weapon. It is disturbing to say the least. The mirroring and deflection is astounding. I worry deeply about my sons wellbeing due to this.

  • @ralphramirez1979
    @ralphramirez1979 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Had a group of friends in my younger times. One particular person thought he ran the group. I never followed his demands or control tactics. He eventually couldn't handle my independence from his bazzar behavior.
    He eventually turned the grouo against me tell lies and gossip. Someone on the group told me he's telling everyone not to talk to because he's mad at me. Unbelievable ground ass men. Been twenty yrs.😊

  • @juliesnuffin9807
    @juliesnuffin9807 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It sucks even more when its your sister doing this.

    • @GhoatFocker
      @GhoatFocker 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awful I'm sorry, siblings can act terrible especially when they're feeling insecure and steeped in defenses. Hurts deep, shatters trust if there was any to begin with.
      Really makes us realize that, maybe we never had a family on our side at all. Hurts.

  • @TruthandJustice-hz9nv
    @TruthandJustice-hz9nv หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was absolutely pure gold Rebecca, Thank you so much for this, Speaks volumes, These two can't wriggle out from this and the truth, I'm holding them accountable, I won't let them undermine my intelligence, Gaslight, manipulate, Distort reality, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory power praise and smiles to the most high :-) :-) :-)

  • @jbsfishingstuffnmore7387
    @jbsfishingstuffnmore7387 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have been getting done like this for almost 2 years and it's very difficult

  • @sherricoffman
    @sherricoffman หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ThankYou Beautiful Sis!!! ❤ 🕊 MuchLove

  • @carolnahigian9518
    @carolnahigian9518 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had 1 cup of coffee-IN PUBLIC- with a guy. My Ex said " she is guilty of a SERIES OF INFIDELITIES!" ( yeesh!)

  • @AllisonShoemaker-ny8pv
    @AllisonShoemaker-ny8pv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    most definitely For Sure!

  • @johnmoirano5221
    @johnmoirano5221 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    she wins I have completely lost my will to live or do anything its been a long 50 year fight I'm 66 now ======================= never go against the family ===============================

  • @JosephGarcia-zr3qk
    @JosephGarcia-zr3qk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For sure ...my case manager is doing just that w/ other patrons that stay here...
    Have a 3
    separate page power point.
    County funded.
    Taking it to the providers ..

  • @lilyghassemzadeh
    @lilyghassemzadeh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks a lot for educating us ❤️

  • @amyrobins7917
    @amyrobins7917 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For Sure!!!

  • @einnockate
    @einnockate หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've got 2 of them tag teaming me...owner and landlord of my mom's sec 8 subsidy apt

  • @daysleepnightread6905
    @daysleepnightread6905 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great content! Also you have *the best* captions for hearing impaired! Thank you!!! 🙏🏽

  • @randanew2275
    @randanew2275 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For sure.

  • @sandywatts2649
    @sandywatts2649 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For sure!!

  • @jeancassup8878
    @jeancassup8878 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in a shelter and a guy out of prison is telling people that I am a thief and threatening me and my car/ stuff. TELLING LIES ABOUT ME. He has others twisted thinking he is their "friend" and for some reason staff IS NOT doing what they need to. I need your help( he is very ENTITLED)

  • @The_Silent_One93
    @The_Silent_One93 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For sure!

  • @smohammed2821
    @smohammed2821 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How do you show your innocent ti tbe Judge or childrens lawyer?

  • @christinaleonard7619
    @christinaleonard7619 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For Sure!

  • @moniqueteal7153
    @moniqueteal7153 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For Sure 💯‼️

  • @MrYou-n4f
    @MrYou-n4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All 👍🏼 true

  • @JosephGarcia-zr3qk
    @JosephGarcia-zr3qk หลายเดือนก่อน

    Leaving Minneapolis January 1st to
    pay you a visit.
    I believe this time
    We're going to be a success...😂

  • @margaretmacintyre-vr9we
    @margaretmacintyre-vr9we หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    For sure Australia 🇦🇺 ❤

  • @notaclue822
    @notaclue822 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you find your supportive people, should you tell them about It? I mean people don't know what the sneaky covert narc is all about and it's subtle enough to go under the radar that its smearing /manipulative, controlling behaviour.

  • @LevonJames_5150
    @LevonJames_5150 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guess whos back 🔥❤️🔥

  • @sheri6089
    @sheri6089 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely!

  • @belindamurone5516
    @belindamurone5516 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    FOR SURE 😅

  • @gretgirl6750
    @gretgirl6750 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For sure;!!!

  • @desmondmarshall7384
    @desmondmarshall7384 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    FOR SURE

  • @twoothemoon
    @twoothemoon หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My narcissist likes to tell lies and get pity from our son’s teachers and doctors.

  • @genevievehawkins9856
    @genevievehawkins9856 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    FOR Sure

  • @GhoatFocker
    @GhoatFocker 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don't sit with slanderers.

  • @WestleyKirton
    @WestleyKirton หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Dad does this every time I get a girlfriend, or if there are any women around.

  • @terryyoung6244
    @terryyoung6244 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yep

  • @johnmaggiorino4493
    @johnmaggiorino4493 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wife tried to put my children against me😢

  • @sreach93
    @sreach93 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I usually listen up to the hard sell, then l switch off and try to find a professional with constructive advice, not with ad ons $$$

  • @galiabar-kochva3807
    @galiabar-kochva3807 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For sure👍

  • @MrYou-n4f
    @MrYou-n4f หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thoroughly examined and questioned my ex.About her bogus allegations against an innocent Person like she never expected and I called her lying without any shred of proof evidence or logical explan asian and she was likely jealous of the girl I'd like to make the girl look bad to
    appeared to be something she was not

  • @patriciafeeney1616
    @patriciafeeney1616 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "FOR SURE"

  • @MichelleG-y9p
    @MichelleG-y9p หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For sure

  • @keithvowell9687
    @keithvowell9687 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you available for hire for my case?

  • @paulinetayen9559
    @paulinetayen9559 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    FOR SURE 👍

  • @rebeccacruse7777
    @rebeccacruse7777 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rebecca why do they do that? Flo we had a big meeting with my boss Rhonda the one I liked!!! Funny Flo is white and Rhonda is black and i got along better with Rhonda!!! But why do they do that try to turn people against you? She was all over the map with this!!! And it was hurtful I wasn't going to post on lunch but this topic interested me my meed to learn!!! Flo didn't want me to be friends with anyonelse but her it was funny she would smear others to me like "oh you won't like her and you know Rebecca what I hate I really hate is this you repeat to me what another person said about me Flo did that all the time and when you ask the other person they are like no i had a woman crying she was like "Becky i like you i would never talk against you!!! But you know i am not as weak as people might think Flo was mad at me because I wouldn't stay for the halloween DJ party i had a big assignment for school and I refused!!! FOR SURE REBECCA!!! I refused she was mad she smeared me all over the place!!! I can stand up and she was like "oh well i guess i will have to do all the work!!! No she had help another woman!!! My new job is better i am at a desk by myself and i do basically coding for insurance!! I wanted to be a social worker for the elderly but that took to long MY job is tedious but you know the best part REBECCA NO MORE FLO!!! Dave was good at that too he always said " i loved that girl so much and look how she treats me she just is so mean to me and I love her!!!

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    @breezyvibe หลายเดือนก่อน

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    @myopinion8551 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    @MrYou-n4f หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fe real

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    @CobraAsset หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @soniakhanna1940 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @cassiesteele6554 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    @TommyMorton-vz1hz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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    @RoB-dp1cm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @bari1199 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @edwarddailo4415 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @randedede2061 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    @citizenearth1656 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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    @RobertJohnson-vj9lj 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For sure

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    @michelle-howdoyou หลายเดือนก่อน

    For sure!