I feel for op in story 3. I had a similar ex, he broke up with me because I was too sick to pay attention to him yet when I was ok I got nothing from him, and I just wanted to hug that op. Like that's some controlling behavior. If you want a full story let me know
Story One: That thief deserved to get caught and humiliated. Story Two: Jail. That psycho should be in jail or a mental institution, especially if this happened before. Story Three: Dump that woman ASAP, preferably around people you can trust, and make sure you have means of recording evidence inconspicuously. Just in case she's a psycho that tries to spin this into a BS MeToo parade. Story Four: IF he's still helping his family, then she should learn to compromise (ignoring the fact that compromise is an essential part of ANY relationship, so long as it's not one-sided and toxic). But the fact that he seems to be dragging his feet on the issue over pride hurts his stance a bit. If he's not still helping his family, then he should buck up. Either way ultimatums should be a LAST resort. Story Five: Get him help and talk to the mother. Being upset is understandable, but to THAT degree? Yeah, no, he should get help. While I can understand the mother wanting to be better than how she was, I think a simple sit down and talk will do better than "telling her off" because that seems to have only spurred her into trying to "be better" even more.
I don’t like to be that one person in the reply section and on TH-cam video but did you need to type that all? EDIT : oh it was some help for the people that’s cool :d
For that second story, jail seriously will not rehabilitate or mentally help that man at all. He was clearly going through something mentally, perhaps a fugue, psychosis, a delusion, even a sickness, something of the sort. Jail time will only make that much worse. Him asking if he's going to jail genuinely sounds like he might have been confused in some way of what was even going on.
Story 3, if you are afraid to do anything you want to do because your partner will get mad, run for the hills. Story 4, NEVER give your partner a ultimatum, because that is a great way to lose them.
disagree with you on story for the Girlfriend has every right to do this. if my BoyFriend/Girlfriend acted like the OP and I was the same age of this GF in the story I would 100% give them a Ultimatum cus here's the thing OP is allowing his pride to cause this cus the GF wants to help him money wise but he told her not too.
@@YuriKaroki19 then they would dump you almost instantly. As the OP said, it killed his want to move in together. It doesnt matter if you have the right to do it, if you are trying to force something like that, that will kill all motivation to do it. Both have to want to move in together, and if one loses that want from a ultimatum, the other can only blame themselves.
@@FrostTheRedeemed ok then you're saying it's ok for OP to drag his feet and the GF has to live with it I'm hoping that's not what you're implying cus that stupid and I don't blame the GF and if that is what you are implying then you and OP don't understand y would a woman want to start her life in her 30s with someone who can't swallow his pride to ask for help you're also justifying how OP is acting which is Disguesting and tbh the OP only has himself to blame for not accepting help and expecting the GF to just deal with it she's not getting any younger and it's stupid that you and OP are thinking she's in the wrong but making it clear that she doesn't want watse her time in a relastionship that might not be going nowhere
story 3, first off this is a bad and controlling relation ship, second, even if you dont want to dude you either need to sit down and have a serious talk with her or dump her
Let me put it this way for all you watching. If a girlfriend or boyfriend threatens to end the relationship if they don't get their way, your immediate response should be "see ya."
Story 2: I remember my ex. she was controlling and manipulative. i remember as kids i helped her break that habit till we moved and i couldn't reinforce it. i came back to visit not only to find her married. but also have a side girlfriend and wanting me in it. which i almost stupidly did till i saw how she puppeteers the two poor souls (who both had schizophrenia and other mental issues) when i wanted out she called me a child when i was strong enough to see that what she was doing wasn't right and i wanted nothing to do with it ...
For the second to last one it seemed the guy was in the right, until it was revealed she offered to pay a higher amount and he refused lol he’s definitely dragging his feet over pride
yeah the GF is within her rights in this case to be this way OP needs to understand that his GF isn't getting any younger and she doesn't want to waste her time in a relationship going nowhere also the GF is being nice with her Ultimatum she could said "do this by the end of this month/week or we're through"
I think narrator got it 100% right, the guy is insecure about his finances and 'ability to provide'. That is why throughout the entire story he leaves out the very important detail that GF is willing to pay the difference and even says the the GF is unwilling to compromise on location.
The 3rd story honestly upset me since I’ve been in a similar relationship, I was dating a guy for about 2 and half years and any time we’d go out I’d ask him if there was anything he wanted to do or go and he would say no or idk, and when we decided on something and have a good time he would later text me complaining that we didn’t do what he wanted to do and I remember at one point asking ‘why didn’t you say anything?’ but I don’t remember what he said, it’s been about 3 years at this point, so yeah. There were other times I would go out with family to like a movie or the pool and he would ask we I was doing only to guilt trip me because I didn’t bring him along or if I didn’t respond in a certain amount of time to his text he would get upset. He wanted to me with me 24/7 and didn’t want me doing anything without him.
That is horrible, but I'm sorry, did you break up with him I didn't really understand, aside from that, relationships like that are disgusting personally I just cannot believe that there are people like that
@@comflex.. yeah, it’s been about 3 years since that relationship, but it’s relationships like theses that reminds that I need to be careful of who I like or who I hangout with and be wary of any red flags if there is any, since not everyone is like this.
Last story: Yeah, my mom does that too. It's actually a joke for my siblings and me to be scared whenever my mom says "I just thought that..." because she's about to butt in and do whatever she wants regardless of what we have said. It has taken YEARS of family therapy to get her to back off as much as she has. Whatever reason the OP's mom doesn't respect boundaries is, ignoring it will only have the mom continue to do what she thinks is best no matter what she's told. Good luck to OP; and yeah, the husband definitely needs some anger management from the sound of it.
No, the husband doesn't need anger management what he needs is for his wife to open her mouth. One reaction after dealing with something isn't anger issues it's a boiling point of frustration. If he had anger issues he wouldn't have waited for her to leave and I'm sure the wife would not have been surprised at his reaction. Ya'll need to pay attention to context clues.
He does have angry issues getting mad and destroyed the plants out said and the new one they just bought inside so what does destroying accomplish there isn't any point he took his anger out on stuff that's called anger issues stop defending unhealthy behavior and no I am not agreeing with the OP but still he needs anger management classes
Story 2: sleepwalkers can speak and do things but its usually limit to basic actions and things that are routine in their day so its almost muscle memory that guy was Not sleepwalking. Hes just crazy(I doubt medically he's just F*cked up)
Story 3: Op, I survived something similar, only the person was one I used to call Dad, your GF is only going to get worse, over time her mistreatment of you will become physical, get out while you can before that happens.
Story one : actually happened to me yesterday some guy stole my food and my dad was so mad at the employe that gave away our food to this guy and his wife
story 3 reminds me of my ex wife and I got so tred of her B/S so I left herand she was ps'd off but I did not care and was happy to be with out her. I never looked back and am better off
story one: "i believe food should be free" so...you believe farmers, ranchers, food shipping truckers, and grocery store/restaurant workers should be slaves not getting paid for their labor?
@@globaladdict Underpaying doesn't exist. If it did, nobody would work there. If you can't find a different job, then the job is not underpaid, you are just underqualified for better paying positions.
Story 5: OPs mother is extremely out of line and OP needs to make sure this stops, or her husband is gonna lose it. If I were the husband, I would have blown up a long time ago.
He did and he has he destroyed plants for no reason I mean that speaks for it's of how he is handling this but getting mad and saying he never wants to see her family is again is crossing the line idk how you don't see that my mom started crying because we had a fight and I didn't see her for almost two years so but if this happened to you if would be a different story try actually putting your self in this situation it makes the OP and the mother ver sad and depressed because I know I was
"he chased me all the way to the backrooms" good luck getting out bro imagine nocliping out of realitity In all seriousness this was funny I had to make this it's to funny to not make this comment
I feel like this is a thing that happens just in America , like in Morocco if you take someone's order in a fast food , you get hit right then in there.
Story 3- I was in a 3 year relationship & same here, I could go no where do nothing & after 3 years I was so isolated and depressed, ended up with severe migraine headaches. So I made up my mind and finally left and within a week no more headaches & I actually went out with friend's I hadn't seen in years! Get out now your too young to deal with this & again no 1 should tell you when you can or can't come and go!! Like the other guy said RUN!!!! Good Luck!!
4th story: OP has a pit of pride but also the girlfriend shouldn't have given an ultimatum, word of advice to people in a relationship don't give anyone an ultimatum regarding your it is one if the worst things you can do so i feel like both defiantly got some issues, also were was it said that the OP never had a job like seriously i don't remember every hearing that i remember except maybe him talking about finding some work in an area but that doesn't mean he isn't working. so in conclusion the narrator kinda overlooked a couple of things.
Listen to the story again... but this time, keep the fact that the GF is willing front and center. GF most likely ha brought up the issue multiple times in the past only for OP downlplay it and in the later part actually go out of the way to avoid it the conversation. GF probably got fed up and the ulitmatum was definitely not out of place. It wouldn't even be too out of left field had GF decided to end the relationship without an ultimatum.
Yea I don’t agree with the narrator on this one either. Didn’t the guy say he quit his job initially because his family had health issues and went to help? Also the girlfriend wasn’t willing to compromise either by finding a place closer to his price range that he could afford. I get that he needs to find a better paying job now but the narrator made it seem like he was some bum.
Like living together is the only way to prove that he loves her. Its not about pride its about what each individual wants. Just because shes willing to pay and OP isnt comfortable doesnt mean he is prideful. Its just about moving in with each other that suddenly turned out as giving ultimatums if her demands arent met. Lol
Even as a female I wouldn't just jump to that offer thinking that my partner will only consider being loved by me if I move in with him. Like those years together meant nothing as moving in together has more weight that everything theyve been through.
The story about the clingy girlfriend is unbelievable. The Op says he loves her but... BUT WHAT? Whe on earth could he live about her? They have nothing in common and she doesn't want him to do anything but what she wants. My advice, dump her. You have nothing in common anyhow.
Story 3: my gosh that girlfriend is such a bad one, she’s so manipulative to the point where it’s actually toxic, you should break up with her immediately
She's not clingy, she's a narcissist that's successfully emotionally abusing you, time abusing you, and isolating you from your friends and family. You said your parents live in the same city not even that far away. Call your parents and tell them everything, tell them you want out, call the police as a citizen stand-by while you move out since you won't be able to get her to go somewhere without you long enough to leave. You have options. Move back in with your parents.
For that second story, jail seriously will not rehabilitate or mentally help that man at all. He was clearly going through something mentally, perhaps a fugue, psychosis, a delusion, even a sickness, something of the sort. Jail time will only make that much worse. Him asking if he's going to jail genuinely sounds like he might have been confused in some way of what was even going on, and could have even been convinced that he was really sleepwalking. Maybe I'm reading into it too much, sure, but that behavior isn't prompted by JUST being drunk. And as he had stated, he had done something similar when he was younger. It really does sound like he had something psychological going on.
Story one "I think food should be free". You have got to be kidding me. There's entitlement right there. How do you think food gets to you? Do you have any idea of the vast amount of money, time and procedures it takes to get food to your table? smh
Story 4: I do believe he said he had a job since he mentioned how he feel while going to "WORK". Still i do believe in this case, both isn't for each other because the guy has the mental image of been a burden and don't want her to help with the paidment because he want to archive that for himself. But this is the case where he want to walk and the GF wants to run a marathon. They isn't made for each other either. The ultimatum was unnecessary if their communication and understatement is that piss poor. This is a BOTH sucks case, but for the reasons of neither is right or wrong in this situation. Mainly because he doesn't want her to paid her fair share too, but she want to progress in the relationship and he just stagnate it with that mentality.
The guy is in a poor financial situation and helping out his family due to health reasons and here she is all set in life that she has to force upon her idea of "being loved" whether or not the guy asked for it. The narrator just jumped into defending the girl just because she wanted to pay more? That's not how things work. Did she even consider how he would be feeling with everything that is happening to him before giving ultimatums? Like the years they spent together meant nothing should he choose not to move in immediately? He didnt say he didnt want to its just he couldnt pay for it now and is waiting for a job opportunity. He isnt jobless because he doesnt like going to work wtf. They all say its his pride, but you cant demand and empose things that you want to someone who isnt comfortable with it. What if it was her who was being forced to move in? I dont think things would be pretty
@@persephonegreen199x6 EXACTLY! this is why i think both aren't made for each other, because she wants to run the marathon but the guy just want to walk. Their idea of relationship, goals and commitment are so different from each other as well, plus she doesn't see the guy is struggling to much. But she said she wanted to paid it herself everything else, but the guy still want to make it himself too , making the situation even worse as well. Again, neither is right or wrong with it, as i only see 2 different way this goes and 2 different struggles.
If I were in charge I would have made sure he went to jail and he paid for all the damage he made he definitely would not have gotten away with this one
Story 5: No, the husband doesn't need anger management what he needs is for his wife to open her mouth. One reaction after dealing with something isn't anger issues it's a boiling point of frustration. If he had anger issues he wouldn't have waited for her to leave and I'm sure the wife would not have been surprised at his reaction. Ya'll need to pay attention to context clues.
Story 2: As a wife I can tell you from personal experience this CAN happen while sleep walking. My husband has done interesting things while sleep walking. Luckily we find some of them hilarious now.
I totally agree, a former roommate of mine usually mixed total crazy food combos while sleepwalking, another one once "used the bathroom"(weird american way to say he pissed...😁) right outside of our frontdoor instead of in said bathroom next to it, luckily in the middle of the night... There are even some cases where people got away with murder cuz of them proven to be sleepwalking, also "sexomnia" is a rare but more then weird desease that in fact exists!
Story 1: you would think that the employees of the McDonalds collectively would have recognized her and would be like "Nope, we have had too many issues with after you claim to have ordered food and taken it of the customer coming up and wondering where their food is, and we realized that you took it, leave or we will have you arrested," Story 3: This sound like my ex wife...don't know what to do? Let me give you a word of advice...RUN, want four more DO NOT LOOK BACK Story 4: Hey Am I the Jerk? maybe you missed the first part of the story but he had one (a job) which he had to quit due to helping out family, I am not saying OP was 100% right, but maybe take circumstances in to consideration before ripping people new ones Final Story: Yeah sounds like a pattern to me too, one that OP's wife is allowing to continue by not stepping up and while yes, destroying things may not be the best thing to do, at least it was plants and not oh say people or property (cars, windows, OP's Wife's Mother's house etc)
The second story... If you are epileptic and have grand mal seizures that very thing can happen during a seizure. Happened to a friend of mine, she didn't know her new husband was epileptic until the poop incident on their honeymoon. She called 9-1-1. Then his sister, that's when she found out he's got epilepsy. 👵☮️🖖
The needy girlfriend story...NOPE...big nope. I have zero time or patience for needy beaches like that. If she wants to play she knows where to find me other than that I have nothing for her. I never watch her shows (I tell her that's for HER to fill her brain with nonsense so I can later correct her....she loves it) with her, I never clean without her doing something and I definitely never let her take 4 hour naps...what in the actual fuck, bro?! 4 Hours....Jesus. The things I can make with my hands and some lumber in 4 hours. My God.
A long time friend of mine dated a girl like in S3. Against everyone's advice, he married her last year. I've had limited contact with him, but from what I hear, he is MISERABLE.
Story 3: does anyone else think of a cat when he describes how she acts? Like I was listening to this and paused for a second genuinely thinking this was a post about his cat. Especially pushing things off his desk and looking at him expectantly. Like... She's a freaking cat?!?!
I honestly cannot stand that the OP of the second story constantly calls that person a "psychopath," it made me physically cringe and recoil so many times that I had to skip to the next story.
Ok, narrator. You need to stop telling people to just suck it up and get a job just because they're a certain age. I'd agree if they were just lazy and irresponsible, but it seems the OP had his own circumstances. Yes, I agree that he shouldn't let his pride get in the way of his relationship. I also see the GF's reasoning, although I don't think an ultimatum was the best way to go about it. But I don't think the OP isn't looking for a full time job because he doesn't want to.
The couple at university, I know a couple like that only in reverse. Fast forward 36 years and the woman is completely under his control. He controls the tv and even on Christmas Day it’s what he wants to watch. They have a grandchild and he doesn’t even have kids stuff on when she’s over. I promise leave
About story 3: that sounds like a toxic relationship if the woman is acting that badly if things don't go her way and the OP should break it off, a relationship like that requires compromise on both sides yet the woman obviously thinks that only the OP should sacrifice the things he likes for it
For that third story I've done that with my boyfriend but it's a joke and we both know it's a joke. If my boyfriend wants to watch a show I try to watch it with him because it makes him happy and he does the same for me. ( for context I only text him "I miss you" when he's at my house while he's upstairs getting snacks)
I'm trying to watch this video but can't pay attention because I'm lost as to the point of the game in the background. Not because it's the in the video, but because the game has absolutely no point. lol
Story three is very manipulative and childish. Op needs to break up with her, and as uncomfortable it qould be till the lease is up, op needs someone who is going to respect him
The gf in 3rd story sound fking annoying ngl. I would break up with her in like a month. This girl should talk to a therapist and fixes her problems before going to be in a relationship.
@@YuriKaroki19 Nah, he's always "fair" or harsh to male OPs. If this was a woman, he'd have a more reasonable view on things. We don't even know who has health problems in that story. Him? Then OBVIOUSLY he shouldn't get a new job, if he needed to quit the old one because of them.
The last story I been in a similar situation and it's not fun and depressing not seeing you're family not talking or anything i didn't see my family for almost two years and I was with my boyfriend family and seeing them happy and being all together made me sad and break down crying and his family is nice and I really care about them but it wasn't the same because it wasn't my family I missed them and I just felt sad and depressed when I can't see them no one wants to he away from there family it's the same thing with the OP the husband is being to much he doesn't have a right to tell her. she can't see her family and I am just confused how people aren't see that
The third section laugh laugh laugh it is so ridiculous that he has to go for that my brother had to go for that when he was in a relationship and I'm actually going to use her name her actual name Karen yes her actual name is Karen laugh laugh ing emoji 😂 😂
First story isnt possible in belgium bcoz our order way is they deliver the food to you Or You have to give your order number to get your food so u cant steal it
the guy who make diskusting rampage i remeber like 5 years ago i was sleep walking wake uping ot peeing in to trash i was scared but i was a kid so its understandable
S3: Bro, she's clingy (in a bad way) and manipulative... RUN
Yea she is, run.
Use the dad move on her
Red flags for sure! Soon he can make a sweater if he doesn’t run
GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!!
she is like a cat
I feel for op in story 3. I had a similar ex, he broke up with me because I was too sick to pay attention to him yet when I was ok I got nothing from him, and I just wanted to hug that op. Like that's some controlling behavior. If you want a full story let me know
story one: that thief needs to get a life
story 3: WHO THE HAIL DOES YOU'RE GF THINKS SHE IS? BRUH, ITS NOT WORTH IT, JUST DUMP HER
Dude pooped on the chair???
Break up with your girlfriend she is toxic
First story; Imagine a man did this. He wouldn't even be given a second thought and get arrested the first time.
Well ye
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Yeah, but since it was a woman they took forever for it ._.
Story One: That thief deserved to get caught and humiliated.
Story Two: Jail. That psycho should be in jail or a mental institution, especially if this happened before.
Story Three: Dump that woman ASAP, preferably around people you can trust, and make sure you have means of recording evidence inconspicuously. Just in case she's a psycho that tries to spin this into a BS MeToo parade.
Story Four: IF he's still helping his family, then she should learn to compromise (ignoring the fact that compromise is an essential part of ANY relationship, so long as it's not one-sided and toxic). But the fact that he seems to be dragging his feet on the issue over pride hurts his stance a bit. If he's not still helping his family, then he should buck up. Either way ultimatums should be a LAST resort.
Story Five: Get him help and talk to the mother. Being upset is understandable, but to THAT degree? Yeah, no, he should get help. While I can understand the mother wanting to be better than how she was, I think a simple sit down and talk will do better than "telling her off" because that seems to have only spurred her into trying to "be better" even more.
I don’t like to be that one person in the reply section and on TH-cam video but did you need to type that all?
EDIT : oh it was some help for the people that’s cool :d
For that second story, jail seriously will not rehabilitate or mentally help that man at all. He was clearly going through something mentally, perhaps a fugue, psychosis, a delusion, even a sickness, something of the sort. Jail time will only make that much worse. Him asking if he's going to jail genuinely sounds like he might have been confused in some way of what was even going on.
Guy in second story, LOCK THAT MFR AWAY.
@@GanondorfsWife Sounds like he really needed mental help and rehabilitation imo.
@@fishbonesxxthere therapy in jail it think
Story 3. Dude. RUN. Do not look back, do not pass go, do not collect $200. EFFING BOLT.
Story 3, if you are afraid to do anything you want to do because your partner will get mad, run for the hills. Story 4, NEVER give your partner a ultimatum, because that is a great way to lose them.
I want to do cocaine and get hookers in Vegas at least once every decade.
disagree with you on story for the Girlfriend has every right to do this.
if my BoyFriend/Girlfriend acted like the OP and I was the same age of this GF in the story I would 100% give them a Ultimatum
cus here's the thing OP is allowing his pride to cause this cus the GF wants to help him money wise but he told her not too.
@@YuriKaroki19 then they would dump you almost instantly. As the OP said, it killed his want to move in together. It doesnt matter if you have the right to do it, if you are trying to force something like that, that will kill all motivation to do it. Both have to want to move in together, and if one loses that want from a ultimatum, the other can only blame themselves.
@@YuriKaroki19 I think on Story 4 there is a lot of background missing and stuff is unclear. Like..WHOSE health problems caused him to quit his job?
@@FrostTheRedeemed ok then you're saying it's ok for OP to drag his feet and the GF has to live with it
I'm hoping that's not what you're implying cus that stupid and I don't blame the GF and if that is what you are implying then you and OP don't understand
y would a woman want to start her life in her 30s with someone who can't swallow his pride to ask for help
you're also justifying how OP is acting which is Disguesting
and tbh the OP only has himself to blame for not accepting help and expecting the GF to just deal with it
she's not getting any younger and it's stupid that you and OP are thinking she's in the wrong but making it clear that she doesn't want watse her time in a relastionship that might not be going nowhere
Story number 3, she's a control freak. And he should leave immediately.
story 3, first off this is a bad and controlling relation ship, second, even if you dont want to dude you either need to sit down and have a serious talk with her or dump her
Let me put it this way for all you watching. If a girlfriend or boyfriend threatens to end the relationship if they don't get their way, your immediate response should be "see ya."
+ womp womp if they start yapping
Story 2: I remember my ex. she was controlling and manipulative. i remember as kids i helped her break that habit till we moved and i couldn't reinforce it. i came back to visit not only to find her married. but also have a side girlfriend and wanting me in it. which i almost stupidly did till i saw how she puppeteers the two poor souls (who both had schizophrenia and other mental issues) when i wanted out she called me a child when i was strong enough to see that what she was doing wasn't right and i wanted nothing to do with it ...
Call the cops on that animal
Story 2 is the creepy man acting poopy
For the second to last one it seemed the guy was in the right, until it was revealed she offered to pay a higher amount and he refused lol he’s definitely dragging his feet over pride
yeah the GF is within her rights in this case to be this way
OP needs to understand that his GF isn't getting any younger and she doesn't want to waste her time in a relationship going nowhere
also the GF is being nice with her Ultimatum
she could said "do this by the end of this month/week or we're through"
I think narrator got it 100% right, the guy is insecure about his finances and 'ability to provide'.
That is why throughout the entire story he leaves out the very important detail that GF is willing to pay the difference and even says the the GF is unwilling to compromise on location.
@@frosthounded yeah and it is 100% disguesting that people are defending the OP and saying the GF has no rights
The 3rd story honestly upset me since I’ve been in a similar relationship, I was dating a guy for about 2 and half years and any time we’d go out I’d ask him if there was anything he wanted to do or go and he would say no or idk, and when we decided on something and have a good time he would later text me complaining that we didn’t do what he wanted to do and I remember at one point asking ‘why didn’t you say anything?’ but I don’t remember what he said, it’s been about 3 years at this point, so yeah. There were other times I would go out with family to like a movie or the pool and he would ask we I was doing only to guilt trip me because I didn’t bring him along or if I didn’t respond in a certain amount of time to his text he would get upset. He wanted to me with me 24/7 and didn’t want me doing anything without him.
That is horrible, but I'm sorry, did you break up with him I didn't really understand, aside from that, relationships like that are disgusting personally I just cannot believe that there are people like that
@@comflex.. yeah, it’s been about 3 years since that relationship, but it’s relationships like theses that reminds that I need to be careful of who I like or who I hangout with and be wary of any red flags if there is any, since not everyone is like this.
@@makey-pool you can't trust everybody but sometimes you have to give people a chance, I'm no therapist, but I can imagine your situation
Last story: Yeah, my mom does that too. It's actually a joke for my siblings and me to be scared whenever my mom says "I just thought that..." because she's about to butt in and do whatever she wants regardless of what we have said. It has taken YEARS of family therapy to get her to back off as much as she has. Whatever reason the OP's mom doesn't respect boundaries is, ignoring it will only have the mom continue to do what she thinks is best no matter what she's told. Good luck to OP; and yeah, the husband definitely needs some anger management from the sound of it.
No, the husband doesn't need anger management what he needs is for his wife to open her mouth. One reaction after dealing with something isn't anger issues it's a boiling point of frustration. If he had anger issues he wouldn't have waited for her to leave and I'm sure the wife would not have been surprised at his reaction. Ya'll need to pay attention to context clues.
He does have angry issues getting mad and destroyed the plants out said and the new one they just bought inside so what does destroying accomplish there isn't any point he took his anger out on stuff that's called anger issues stop defending unhealthy behavior and no I am not agreeing with the OP but still he needs anger management classes
I would say I do agree with what you're saying
Story 2: sleepwalkers can speak and do things but its usually limit to basic actions and things that are routine in their day so its almost muscle memory that guy was Not sleepwalking. Hes just crazy(I doubt medically he's just F*cked up)
Story 3: Op, I survived something similar, only the person was one I used to call Dad, your GF is only going to get worse, over time her mistreatment of you will become physical, get out while you can before that happens.
Story one : actually happened to me yesterday some guy stole my food and my dad was so mad at the employe that gave away our food to this guy and his wife
story 3 reminds me of my ex wife and I got so tred of her B/S so I left herand she was ps'd off but I did not care and was happy to be with out her. I never looked back and am better off
story one:
"i believe food should be free"
so...you believe farmers, ranchers, food shipping truckers, and grocery store/restaurant workers should be slaves not getting paid for their labor?
Fax
First story:
Well she ain’t wrong if the lifehack to get into prison
Story #1: Working the system is just what rich people do. They don't like paying for anything even though they can afford it.
That's kind of the deal for lots of rich ppl. They steal from others in the form of underpaying fir labor. Not all, but many
It is a game to them. When I worked retail we had several customers like this.
@@globaladdict Underpaying doesn't exist. If it did, nobody would work there. If you can't find a different job, then the job is not underpaid, you are just underqualified for better paying positions.
Greedy rich people
Story 5: OPs mother is extremely out of line and OP needs to make sure this stops, or her husband is gonna lose it. If I were the husband, I would have blown up a long time ago.
He did and he has he destroyed plants for no reason I mean that speaks for it's of how he is handling this but getting mad and saying he never wants to see her family is again is crossing the line idk how you don't see that my mom started crying because we had a fight and I didn't see her for almost two years so but if this happened to you if would be a different story try actually putting your self in this situation it makes the OP and the mother ver sad and depressed because I know I was
3rd
"he chased me all the way to the backrooms" good luck getting out bro imagine nocliping out of realitity
In all seriousness this was funny I had to make this it's to funny to not make this comment
Story 3: Tell her that her behavior is not okay and that she has to stop. If she doesn't, break up, and kick her out.
She's on the lease
5:25 always be aware of entities after noclipping 👍
I feel like this is a thing that happens just in America , like in Morocco if you take someone's order in a fast food , you get hit right then in there.
No in morroco if u take someone's order no-one will ever find your corpse lol
@@jenniekham5838 what corpse , all i see is a big Mac on the floor.
Story 3- I was in a 3 year relationship & same here, I could go no where do nothing & after 3 years I was so isolated and depressed, ended up with severe migraine headaches. So I made up my mind and finally left and within a week no more headaches & I actually went out with friend's I hadn't seen in years! Get out now your too young to deal with this & again no 1 should tell you when you can or can't come and go!! Like the other guy said RUN!!!! Good Luck!!
4th story: OP has a pit of pride but also the girlfriend shouldn't have given an ultimatum, word of advice to people in a relationship don't give anyone an ultimatum regarding your it is one if the worst things you can do so i feel like both defiantly got some issues, also were was it said that the OP never had a job like seriously i don't remember every hearing that i remember except maybe him talking about finding some work in an area but that doesn't mean he isn't working. so in conclusion the narrator kinda overlooked a couple of things.
Listen to the story again... but this time, keep the fact that the GF is willing front and center.
GF most likely ha brought up the issue multiple times in the past only for OP downlplay it and in the later part actually go out of the way to avoid it the conversation. GF probably got fed up and the ulitmatum was definitely not out of place. It wouldn't even be too out of left field had GF decided to end the relationship without an ultimatum.
Yea I don’t agree with the narrator on this one either. Didn’t the guy say he quit his job initially because his family had health issues and went to help? Also the girlfriend wasn’t willing to compromise either by finding a place closer to his price range that he could afford. I get that he needs to find a better paying job now but the narrator made it seem like he was some bum.
Like living together is the only way to prove that he loves her. Its not about pride its about what each individual wants. Just because shes willing to pay and OP isnt comfortable doesnt mean he is prideful. Its just about moving in with each other that suddenly turned out as giving ultimatums if her demands arent met. Lol
Even as a female I wouldn't just jump to that offer thinking that my partner will only consider being loved by me if I move in with him. Like those years together meant nothing as moving in together has more weight that everything theyve been through.
Story 2 person needs to learn the fucking definition of "psychopath" and how it differs from "psychotic".
Yes. Wrong terminology.
Food should be free? lmao
Yeah the people making the food don't deserve to be paid. That should be obvious
Story 3: RUN!! RUNN! DON'T LOOK BACK. That woman is a control freak.
The story about the clingy girlfriend is unbelievable. The Op says he loves her but... BUT WHAT? Whe on earth could he live about her? They have nothing in common and she doesn't want him to do anything but what she wants. My advice, dump her. You have nothing in common anyhow.
Story 3: my gosh that girlfriend is such a bad one, she’s so manipulative to the point where it’s actually toxic, you should break up with her immediately
She's not clingy, she's a narcissist that's successfully emotionally abusing you, time abusing you, and isolating you from your friends and family. You said your parents live in the same city not even that far away. Call your parents and tell them everything, tell them you want out, call the police as a citizen stand-by while you move out since you won't be able to get her to go somewhere without you long enough to leave. You have options. Move back in with your parents.
"Food should be free". Food does not fall from the sky, needs to be produced. Some has to put work and money to produce it. Who?
the last time people got free food was plantation owners forcing their slaves to grow it for them.
i guess op wants mcdonalds employees to be slaves
For that second story, jail seriously will not rehabilitate or mentally help that man at all. He was clearly going through something mentally, perhaps a fugue, psychosis, a delusion, even a sickness, something of the sort. Jail time will only make that much worse. Him asking if he's going to jail genuinely sounds like he might have been confused in some way of what was even going on, and could have even been convinced that he was really sleepwalking.
Maybe I'm reading into it too much, sure, but that behavior isn't prompted by JUST being drunk. And as he had stated, he had done something similar when he was younger. It really does sound like he had something psychological going on.
Wait, if someone is rich, then they shouldn't have a problem with paying for McDonald's
Story one "I think food should be free". You have got to be kidding me. There's entitlement right there. How do you think food gets to you? Do you have any idea of the vast amount of money, time and procedures it takes to get food to your table? smh
Dude in story #3 needs to grow a pair and either kick her out or leave himself.
Story 4: I do believe he said he had a job since he mentioned how he feel while going to "WORK".
Still i do believe in this case, both isn't for each other because the guy has the mental image of been a burden and don't want her to help with the paidment because he want to archive that for himself. But this is the case where he want to walk and the GF wants to run a marathon. They isn't made for each other either. The ultimatum was unnecessary if their communication and understatement is that piss poor. This is a BOTH sucks case, but for the reasons of neither is right or wrong in this situation. Mainly because he doesn't want her to paid her fair share too, but she want to progress in the relationship and he just stagnate it with that mentality.
The guy is in a poor financial situation and helping out his family due to health reasons and here she is all set in life that she has to force upon her idea of "being loved" whether or not the guy asked for it. The narrator just jumped into defending the girl just because she wanted to pay more? That's not how things work. Did she even consider how he would be feeling with everything that is happening to him before giving ultimatums? Like the years they spent together meant nothing should he choose not to move in immediately? He didnt say he didnt want to its just he couldnt pay for it now and is waiting for a job opportunity. He isnt jobless because he doesnt like going to work wtf. They all say its his pride, but you cant demand and empose things that you want to someone who isnt comfortable with it. What if it was her who was being forced to move in? I dont think things would be pretty
@@persephonegreen199x6 EXACTLY! this is why i think both aren't made for each other, because she wants to run the marathon but the guy just want to walk. Their idea of relationship, goals and commitment are so different from each other as well, plus she doesn't see the guy is struggling to much. But she said she wanted to paid it herself everything else, but the guy still want to make it himself too , making the situation even worse as well. Again, neither is right or wrong with it, as i only see 2 different way this goes and 2 different struggles.
In story 3 if you really don’t want to break up with her try getting a dog or cat she’ll most likely spend most of her time with it
If I were in charge I would have made sure he went to jail and he paid for all the damage he made he definitely would not have gotten away with this one
He really just said food should be free 💀(story 1)
Yeah I'm gonna disagree with that too.
5:26 He straight up noclipped into The Backrooms.
Story 5: No, the husband doesn't need anger management what he needs is for his wife to open her mouth. One reaction after dealing with something isn't anger issues it's a boiling point of frustration. If he had anger issues he wouldn't have waited for her to leave and I'm sure the wife would not have been surprised at his reaction. Ya'll need to pay attention to context clues.
Story 2: As a wife I can tell you from personal experience this CAN happen while sleep walking. My husband has done interesting things while sleep walking. Luckily we find some of them hilarious now.
I totally agree, a former roommate of mine usually mixed total crazy food combos while sleepwalking, another one once "used the bathroom"(weird american way to say he pissed...😁) right outside of our frontdoor instead of in said bathroom next to it, luckily in the middle of the night...
There are even some cases where people got away with murder cuz of them proven to be sleepwalking, also "sexomnia" is a rare but more then weird desease that in fact exists!
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Story 3 bro you don't got a girlfriend you got a needy cat
S3 you should just break up with her.
heeeey I'm early
Story #3: Leave. Her. Run fast, run far
Story 3 dump that Karen
Is the dude’s girlfriend a cat?
I love his Karen voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣
#1 story. Food should be free? JFC this kid is delusional 😂😂😂
In an ideal Star Trek utopia yeah. :P
6 minutes early, nice
I just can't stop looking at the girls forehead in the thumbnail 😆😆😆 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Story one I would of kicked that Karen car as hard as I could Evan if I broke my foot
Then she would've sued you for damaging her property. Better not
Story 1: you would think that the employees of the McDonalds collectively would have recognized her and would be like "Nope, we have had too many issues with after you claim to have ordered food and taken it of the customer coming up and wondering where their food is, and we realized that you took it, leave or we will have you arrested,"
Story 3: This sound like my ex wife...don't know what to do? Let me give you a word of advice...RUN, want four more DO NOT LOOK BACK
Story 4: Hey Am I the Jerk? maybe you missed the first part of the story but he had one (a job) which he had to quit due to helping out family, I am not saying OP was 100% right, but maybe take circumstances in to consideration before ripping people new ones
Final Story: Yeah sounds like a pattern to me too, one that OP's wife is allowing to continue by not stepping up and while yes, destroying things may not be the best thing to do, at least it was plants and not oh say people or property (cars, windows, OP's Wife's Mother's house etc)
The second story... If you are epileptic and have grand mal seizures that very thing can happen during a seizure. Happened to a friend of mine, she didn't know her new husband was epileptic until the poop incident on their honeymoon. She called 9-1-1. Then his sister, that's when she found out he's got epilepsy.
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The needy girlfriend story...NOPE...big nope. I have zero time or patience for needy beaches like that. If she wants to play she knows where to find me other than that I have nothing for her. I never watch her shows (I tell her that's for HER to fill her brain with nonsense so I can later correct her....she loves it) with her, I never clean without her doing something and I definitely never let her take 4 hour naps...what in the actual fuck, bro?! 4 Hours....Jesus. The things I can make with my hands and some lumber in 4 hours. My God.
A long time friend of mine dated a girl like in S3. Against everyone's advice, he married her last year. I've had limited contact with him, but from what I hear, he is MISERABLE.
Story 2 summary: weird guy poops on stuff breaks into hotel locks guy in office and claims he’s sleepwalking
Story 3: does anyone else think of a cat when he describes how she acts? Like I was listening to this and paused for a second genuinely thinking this was a post about his cat. Especially pushing things off his desk and looking at him expectantly. Like... She's a freaking cat?!?!
I honestly cannot stand that the OP of the second story constantly calls that person a "psychopath," it made me physically cringe and recoil so many times that I had to skip to the next story.
Hehe, that's fun
Knowing the terminology and watching a noob use it is bound for cringe
@@thenexttangle8568 Frfr
@@fishbonesxx i mean, I don't use the terms that much, but I just use "Insane Guy" or something else kinda dumb like that
Ok, narrator. You need to stop telling people to just suck it up and get a job just because they're a certain age. I'd agree if they were just lazy and irresponsible, but it seems the OP had his own circumstances. Yes, I agree that he shouldn't let his pride get in the way of his relationship. I also see the GF's reasoning, although I don't think an ultimatum was the best way to go about it. But I don't think the OP isn't looking for a full time job because he doesn't want to.
The couple at university, I know a couple like that only in reverse. Fast forward 36 years and the woman is completely under his control. He controls the tv and even on Christmas Day it’s what he wants to watch. They have a grandchild and he doesn’t even have kids stuff on when she’s over. I promise leave
Nice vid
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About story 3: that sounds like a toxic relationship if the woman is acting that badly if things don't go her way and the OP should break it off, a relationship like that requires compromise on both sides yet the woman obviously thinks that only the OP should sacrifice the things he likes for it
For that third story I've done that with my boyfriend but it's a joke and we both know it's a joke. If my boyfriend wants to watch a show I try to watch it with him because it makes him happy and he does the same for me.
( for context I only text him "I miss you" when he's at my house while he's upstairs getting snacks)
Question: How do you become a voice actor for this show?
I'm trying to watch this video but can't pay attention because I'm lost as to the point of the game in the background. Not because it's the in the video, but because the game has absolutely no point. lol
Story three is very manipulative and childish. Op needs to break up with her, and as uncomfortable it qould be till the lease is up, op needs someone who is going to respect him
The gf in 3rd story sound fking annoying ngl. I would break up with her in like a month. This girl should talk to a therapist and fixes her problems before going to be in a relationship.
5:30 he chased me all the way to the backrooms 💀💀💀 bro noclipped out of reality to run from this guy and he just kept chasing
I REALLY wish you included the game names, some of these look like fun time wasters
I've noticed this channel tends to have a bit of a bias at times depending on the narrator. I'm glad that in this video that didn't happen.
nope this time this Narrator is being fair to the male OP
i guess all our comments of him being a smip got through to him XD
@@YuriKaroki19 sometimes you just gotta call out the bs
@@zibix4562 yup
@@YuriKaroki19 Nah, he's always "fair" or harsh to male OPs. If this was a woman, he'd have a more reasonable view on things. We don't even know who has health problems in that story. Him? Then OBVIOUSLY he shouldn't get a new job, if he needed to quit the old one because of them.
“Chased me all the way to the backrooms” -fluorescent light sounds intensifies-
The last story I been in a similar situation and it's not fun and depressing not seeing you're family not talking or anything i didn't see my family for almost two years and I was with my boyfriend family and seeing them happy and being all together made me sad and break down crying and his family is nice and I really care about them but it wasn't the same because it wasn't my family I missed them and I just felt sad and depressed when I can't see them no one wants to he away from there family it's the same thing with the OP the husband is being to much he doesn't have a right to tell her. she can't see her family and I am just confused how people aren't see that
Psycho girlfriend needs to be ejected from the relationship to many head games. And it won’t get any better.
Yeah I'm gonna disagree with the free food comment on post 1.thats a ridiculous comment.
5:26 uhh u good? U tripped? But yeah,S2 jail, asylum, even the void for him
Story 1 Did I hear correctly that the OP said the food should be free? Hoping that was a typo or a misread
For Le 3rd one
RUN SHES CONTROLLING!
CALL THE FBI!!!
In the 2nd story wen he sed the back rooms I instantly thought of, well, the backrooms
$8 for a hamburger and a shake at McDonald's is expensive
The third section laugh laugh laugh it is so ridiculous that he has to go for that my brother had to go for that when he was in a relationship and I'm actually going to use her name her actual name Karen yes her actual name is Karen laugh laugh ing emoji 😂 😂
I think food should be free ? People have no concept of production of anything now adays
5:24 i wasnt paying attention and when i heard the back rooms i was like:
*WHAT*
Story 3: Dump her, she is too needy and selfish. The OP need to find a GF that is more independent.
Story 3 bro's in a relationship with a cat in human skin 😂😹😻😼😾
First story isnt possible in belgium bcoz our order way is they deliver the food to you Or You have to give your order number to get your food so u cant steal it
Sorry to sound like I'm not serious but the girl on the thumbnail she got the megamind head ☠️
he chased me into the backrooms
i was thinking of the bacteria screaming from Kane's backrooms series as soon as he started chasing
the guy who make diskusting rampage i remeber like 5 years ago i was sleep walking wake uping ot peeing in to trash i was scared but i was a kid so its understandable
he chased you to the backrooms like that yellow strange dimension thingy?