Love Knows No Religion: Antony & Asha Miano's Love Story (Full Eps)

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  • @clintonkhamati7831
    @clintonkhamati7831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I'm working as a watchman and any girl I approach turns me down because of the nature of my job but I thank God that this job has denied me love but i will soon graduate as a result of this job its just situations that pushes us to some of the jobs we do.

  • @cirushish5858
    @cirushish5858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Am a witness that even makangas and madere r also human beings like anybody else, I got married to amakanga who had nothing just a nomal life style but "me I was a bit stable since I had a photo studio though for me to have a studio I started being a githeri and porridge seller by the roadside and stages still where he was operating"and later he became a driver and due to his determination of getting a good job and knowing that being in stage was not his comfort zone he got a job in a very good company as a driver till today,i also got a good job too in a different company and we have moved on very well God blessed us with a family & we have done a lot in life,we have our own properties and in some few years to come I can see us in another level by God Grace

    • @karshamapesa7938
      @karshamapesa7938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nice..inspiring.

    • @cirushish5858
      @cirushish5858 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karshamapesa7938 thank u,

    • @SararaJoseph
      @SararaJoseph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing. God bless.

    • @cirushish5858
      @cirushish5858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SararaJoseph Amen, I do feel free to share coz av seen what God does to those who trust in him and also ican change someone's life who feels his/her companion is not the right person not knowing that only God who knows who and where is your right person.

    • @pensevnyos3845
      @pensevnyos3845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True love my dear

  • @sharona.9758
    @sharona.9758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Ebru tv spreads nothing but LOVE. Thank you Ebru

  • @dianaoginga7609
    @dianaoginga7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    19 years, while I can't even hold down a six month relationship 😇😇😇😇

    • @merdgecollection3043
      @merdgecollection3043 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂 usijali tuko wengi

    • @modesterongachi
      @modesterongachi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Akiii yawaa wats with us(this generation)

    • @joycekimuhu8426
      @joycekimuhu8426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      On the same boat mine to has never go more than 6mnths,, we need deliverance

    • @cirushish5858
      @cirushish5858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry God had a good plan for u

    • @harrietkemmy8062
      @harrietkemmy8062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tuko wengi😂😂😂

  • @phoebenyamwaya1931
    @phoebenyamwaya1931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your story has just given me a new hope. I am at a point where I do not really know what is going on, but watching your story, has encouraged me to hang on. Baraka tele

  • @puritydaudi9752
    @puritydaudi9752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Bring for us "Njungush na mama wa kavits" pliz .wanna hear their story

  • @nelkirkok
    @nelkirkok 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh my goodness! This is pure awesomeness. This is the love story I would want to narrate in future too. Love conquers all

  • @entertainingupdates6661
    @entertainingupdates6661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Married for 19years.... This is wonderful and you are growing young.....

  • @jonathanmwanja3994
    @jonathanmwanja3994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I agree with this man that 90% of fights in marriage are caused by outsiders.

  • @wambuigithiomi8686
    @wambuigithiomi8686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😁😁😁 Tonny!!! Never thought I'd ever see you on Tv. Best cab company and such a good friend too. Proud of you man.

  • @ellenkagunda3988
    @ellenkagunda3988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is inspiring and an eye opener to us "youth" who look at pockets. Just the perfect definition of finding your soulmate. Above all... Love conquers all. God bless you... 19 years sio mchezo plus you guys still look young. Thanks for sharing your story. 😄😄😄

  • @samsammy414
    @samsammy414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i thank God for my girlfriend of 3yrs she is a Godsent and a fighter at the age of 26 i still cant believe how humble she is but i guess nivile slay queens walinipeleka mbio God finally answered me so there are still Good women out there

    • @SararaJoseph
      @SararaJoseph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shikilia hapo brathee.

    • @kairetugashiruu1564
      @kairetugashiruu1564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sam laura.....4 sure no matter what...Kenye Sir.God has said is uaz..definitely itakua.Though nowadays love has become too much complicated.U find a broke guy nd love passionately that ua even rdy to marry him bt he turns to b a liar nd u gve up in love for good.Moyo c chuma mengine yauma jamani.

    • @SararaJoseph
      @SararaJoseph 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kairetugashiruu1564 wooi sorry for that. Just trust in your ideas, have faith in your abilities and never doubt the power of your conscience. A real man will one day fall in love with that. I n my wisdom, or lack of the same, a man who falls in love with your dreams loves you much better than the joker who thinks that your worth is just but in the glow of your skin. Find peace with that break-up and appreciate that it thought you not to trust another man who does not value your worth. Just keep calm and one day a man will show up appreciating that you have all he needs to become a better man. That will be the one. He will say and express it and you'll just find ease in gluing onto him. I wish you well.

    • @kairetugashiruu1564
      @kairetugashiruu1564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maroa J. Am more than glad to here that coz actually it's so much encouraging.Despite the fact I have experienced so much ♥ breaks in the name of "love"bt am certain that maybe someone,somewhere genuine exits coz am a woman of a kind who takes challenges to Keep ME going.Being happy and kipping Positive is all that ave got to keep my head up.I honestly APPRECIATE and thanks again.God first

    • @angiemuthoni6058
      @angiemuthoni6058 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are u waiting for bro..marry that gal ama ushtukie amechukuliwa

  • @evansoduor9789
    @evansoduor9789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    19 years still living strong, love this so much, hope this will change the life of what people think about racial or religious background. Love this so much, may God guide this couple.

  • @wamamatu6294
    @wamamatu6294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I HAVE JUST FALLEN IN LOVE WITH THIS YOUNG COUPLE. THERE STORY IS SO INSPIRING, BE BLESSED

  • @pennystang6065
    @pennystang6065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Best marriage comes from GOD. Married for 7 years now and soo happy

  • @wairimumukuria959
    @wairimumukuria959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Asha"s mom is the hero of this story. Congratulations to you both. Many blessings.

  • @janteya8514
    @janteya8514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just awesome!! Kila la kheri as you continue your marital journey✨

  • @Movieconnect-fullmovies.
    @Movieconnect-fullmovies. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That's my auntie and uncle I'm proud of you

  • @prodigaldaughter8226
    @prodigaldaughter8226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Inspiring love story I admire their journey God help me too to have a love story to inspire others

  • @bw4423
    @bw4423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    19 years and u looking so young wow

    • @fabianmbatha2315
      @fabianmbatha2315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that happens when no one nags the other

  • @victoriarehemah7415
    @victoriarehemah7415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God's work... I have learn something. .. my huby is a muslim en am a christian. We were planning to get marriege but it was so challenges how could it be... wow!, be blessed a lot guys...

  • @kellyoketch2254
    @kellyoketch2254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    very good and kind hearted people. May God continue lifting and blessing you in everything as you grow in His ways.

  • @nancygathinji8408
    @nancygathinji8408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is now love, it's always beautiful and visible.
    am inspired

  • @blessedbea5451
    @blessedbea5451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank God for all his providence I just loved your story and you are blessed with a humbled girl she's a jewel😍😍😍

  • @kaka-mx6bl
    @kaka-mx6bl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is true love. Growing with your man/woman is the best feeling ever.

  • @kairitu100
    @kairitu100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A wonderful testimony! You are a wonderful couple. All the best and may the good Lord bless you and your Family

  • @rebeccaayallo4852
    @rebeccaayallo4852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woow. Thank you for sharing this is inspiring

  • @ritahkiziito6335
    @ritahkiziito6335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Prove when you met the right person you don't age..look how young this couple is. Am inspired how they trusted each another with finances..that's one another factor that has broken marriages apart from infidelity. And few men can remember their wives when they get breakthrough

  • @mercymunanie9220
    @mercymunanie9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is what I call from grass to grace...so inspired

  • @kanyieunice
    @kanyieunice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiring story Antony and Asha. May God continue blessing your lives.

  • @mercymungai812
    @mercymungai812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such an amazing story, very humble and down to earth couple,looking very you, 19yrs of marriage is not a joe, God bless your union.

  • @nelsonkagema3964
    @nelsonkagema3964 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like it i have learnt something from this thanks EBRU TV

  • @tessylovingjesus3151
    @tessylovingjesus3151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow and wow
    Beautiful and great.
    Many super blessings with good health. Congratulations. To God be all the praises.
    Love and peace always

  • @catekariuki3567
    @catekariuki3567 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank God for you guys. Your discipline, focus and principle got you this far

  • @xtaticgraphics3848
    @xtaticgraphics3848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This story has got me emotional...This lady is awesome...

  • @susanyoungrace3265
    @susanyoungrace3265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Kusema ukweli kuna ka kitu nime learn kutoka kwenu ...na nimeacha iyo tabia ya kwangalia mfuko nitashutia watu wshapanda Car umefika safarini nami uko nsubiri bus ....na iyo bus aijawahai kuja stage ...19 yrs c mchezo .....b blessed kwa kushare nasi .....wacha Mungu wape afya nzuri ni maisha marefu mwendelee kupendana zaidi..💞💞

    • @susanyoungrace3265
      @susanyoungrace3265 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      kushutukia

    • @TiktokKenya
      @TiktokKenya 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      +susan youngrace it is kushtukia though....

    • @susanyoungrace3265
      @susanyoungrace3265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      la gat Najifunza Swahili cjajua vizuri

    • @TiktokKenya
      @TiktokKenya 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      +susan youngrace nice.

    • @susanyoungrace3265
      @susanyoungrace3265 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      la gat Lkn cnimejaribu kidogo ama.....Nataka nikienda kwetu nipate nshajua kabisa

  • @josephmwaura9497
    @josephmwaura9497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Good couple, I remember the man by then year 2000 akiwa makanga wa mat ilikuwa inaitwa Hotwax na ilikuwa nganya.God bless you en keep it up cz 18 years of marriage si mchezo.

  • @anniekahuho5029
    @anniekahuho5029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very beautiful love story, may God continue increasing you the Miano's.

  • @samiramohammed9116
    @samiramohammed9116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations to both I'm so impressed love is blind really fighting alone it' will make you so weak but fighting together you will actually win the battle

  • @salmamuchene3761
    @salmamuchene3761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony wa Hotwax congratulations my bro 19yrs sio mchezo

  • @cynthiaavoga5353
    @cynthiaavoga5353 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oooooh mai! I admire your marriage..... I declare mine in Jesus name

  • @annejames1945
    @annejames1945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice story wish my ex hubby trusted me though he left with my money when I tried to help... Thanks you followed your hearts not your parents suggestion

    • @enarmi17
      @enarmi17 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am sorry Anne.. God rewards

  • @trizahnjehia2677
    @trizahnjehia2677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so encouraging

  • @georgegichuki5559
    @georgegichuki5559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Iam so humbled i will never despise anyone

  • @annewanjiku52
    @annewanjiku52 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This story it inspired everyone you wake up my mind so you know l love Muslim but their religion keep me off may God continue to strengthen you both you bless my soul

  • @nyamburamacharia5810
    @nyamburamacharia5810 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this story...khai their love and patience, their blessings are directly from Heaven.

  • @slizanya
    @slizanya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow 19 years is a blessing. Keeping God first

  • @calvincemark8733
    @calvincemark8733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ,am learning something here

  • @challengel5675
    @challengel5675 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are both so beautiful, I am so proud of you, so humble and down to earth, money nor religion kept you apart, keep your love going, we need more people in the world like you.

  • @winfredngugi6299
    @winfredngugi6299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So far this best story .not that the rest were not but it entails people who have a decade in marriage at least in those 19 years they know what they are saying

  • @eunicenthenya8180
    @eunicenthenya8180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the best and real love stories. ☺️

  • @spinsylz6088
    @spinsylz6088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When am feeling lonely i jst come hea n watch and am so hopeful n patient one day God will hear my prayers,nice couple

  • @pheonahmarie
    @pheonahmarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wuehhh this is the first positive makanga story iv heard.... I dated a makanga, plying one of the famous routes in Nairobi and my experience is pathetic, he left me a single mum and he is a bad womaniser....but life goes on. Inspiring story though

  • @elizabethisrael4256
    @elizabethisrael4256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kwani u married at 10yrs old. 19yrs oh my! This is true love! Haki your mom resembles Sarah Obama!

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Love love your story❤️👌🙏 really amazing

  • @adembesa05
    @adembesa05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are amazing, be blessed.

  • @FelixKimanthi101
    @FelixKimanthi101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thumbs up bro, and fellow facilitator at #ManEnough .

  • @manallove1
    @manallove1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is true love;wow Anto please advice other men out there on how to HOLD ON TO LOVE most hawajui hio wanajua tu COMPANIONSHIP (yaani wanasemaga niko na mwanamke)

  • @Hilirion
    @Hilirion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real love in itself is worth celebrating. What a lovely couple.

  • @marthaontere5667
    @marthaontere5667 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God bless your union,thanks for your inspiring message.

  • @dominicat3
    @dominicat3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Inspiring, i am also at that point where i am deep in debt, i invested in a business that flopped badly i am struggling even to feed my family, paying rent and what not, but i leave it all to God and continue working hard, Thanks for giving me hope

    • @daniels9835
      @daniels9835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omba na usikufe moyo.

    • @SupergirlLizz
      @SupergirlLizz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God make a way for you

    • @corazonw.7526
      @corazonw.7526 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Continue to listen to inspiring videos to lift your spirit. Your breakthrough is close and is specifically for you. Without knowing, you are raising your children to have the character of valor. Children, learn from watching not what they are being told. You are building the family you want already. Each day you wake up is a testimony that your work on earth is not finished. Keep pushing.

  • @aishaazalea937
    @aishaazalea937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so beautiful❤

  • @kokimutinda5825
    @kokimutinda5825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congratulations......God continue blessing this union.

  • @johnmwaniki2031
    @johnmwaniki2031 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God bless you and continue guiding you through your successful marriage

  • @faithoversight6888
    @faithoversight6888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am so inspired. One thing I didn't like though, she said don't take advice from single people. I felt you've judged too harshly. Someone might be single following divorce due to domestic violence. She sure has a lot to advise and maybe it can help your marriage. Not everyone who is single spiteful or has ill motives towards marriage. Many of them would do anything to save their marriages.

    • @faithoversight6888
      @faithoversight6888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you wanna tell me a single person due to domestic violence can't advise someone who is going through abuse/ domestic violence?
      I'm a single by the way bs.....we've used to these type of justification.....
      Btwn, I am a domestic violence survivor and single for that matter and I got lots to advise about toxic
      Relationships.

    • @MrDee-rk2qn
      @MrDee-rk2qn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is right. Very right. Single people will tell you what they feel is right... Married will tell you what they have tried and has or hasn't worked

    • @ibrahimndungu2301
      @ibrahimndungu2301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EL GIE
      For a person experiencing domestic abuse, You are the best to advise on matters of domestic violence but not marriage.

    • @rourinishein
      @rourinishein 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ibrahimndungu2301 wrong again. They are equally able to advise on marriage because they've BEEN married before. They will tell you why it never worked from their experience. Maybe someone can learn from their experience. If you're going to single them out then nobody has the right to advise anybody concerning their life. Marriage/ relationship is what you make it anyway. How somebody chooses to live their life is not how you will live. It might not work for somebody else. Periodt!

    • @lydiafrancis8855
      @lydiafrancis8855 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paul the apostle was single and the way you quote him wooooi

  • @marywanjiru8441
    @marywanjiru8441 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wao such a story mine is close to this

  • @elizabethwairimu2337
    @elizabethwairimu2337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats am inspired

  • @praizband
    @praizband 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Incredible story! 19 years in marriage but you both look under 30. One thing that is evident - but you're not telling us- is that you're two nice, good-natured , focused and humble characters. So it hasn't just happened on its own, lots of work has gone into it! Everyone wants a loving mate without being loving themselves!

  • @humphreyfrizy8436
    @humphreyfrizy8436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Wow! I can get hope on getting wife material when listening to this couples.

  • @benson6814
    @benson6814 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a example of a true love God bless you forever and when our time come God to remember us also

  • @khadijahtumna2016
    @khadijahtumna2016 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Living testimony 🙏... More Blessings from the almighty

  • @elizabethwangui9793
    @elizabethwangui9793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best I have watched

  • @mutemisimon7446
    @mutemisimon7446 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Someone start from far it's a matter of patience and commitment, nothing comes easy in life... love you guys

  • @maxiediera8114
    @maxiediera8114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aaaaaw,, 19years. Congratulations guys

  • @Godsinceday1
    @Godsinceday1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    honestly am encouraged

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When one puts God first everything will run Smooth

  • @evansluvita9567
    @evansluvita9567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring

  • @andersonpyaban8042
    @andersonpyaban8042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    quite inspiring

  • @joekabbz82kambo26
    @joekabbz82kambo26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really inspiring to me

  • @246Violin
    @246Violin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovely story

  • @lydiafrancis8855
    @lydiafrancis8855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People are here correcting gramma....woooooi

  • @jacintahotieno4560
    @jacintahotieno4560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    surely Antony you look humble

  • @JudeMarchisio
    @JudeMarchisio 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're such lively people. I really like them.

  • @iminzaiminza5813
    @iminzaiminza5813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So interesting 👍👍👍

  • @mwaramaggie3875
    @mwaramaggie3875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow I love this patient pays.true love.

  • @kevinogwang7318
    @kevinogwang7318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this couples and mostly this lady she is an angle from heaven.GOD'S NAME BE PRAISED

  • @suekamau6525
    @suekamau6525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hope God will answer my prayer and bless me with a good husband

    • @josphatmacharia6676
      @josphatmacharia6676 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can we try out plz. a humble request please

    • @charitymnyazi2633
      @charitymnyazi2633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josphatmacharia6676 hahaha...can we try also me & u

    • @josphatmacharia6676
      @josphatmacharia6676 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charitymnyazi2633 yes why not dear

    • @charitymnyazi2633
      @charitymnyazi2633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josphatmacharia6676 can I have your watsup number if you don't mind

    • @josphatmacharia6676
      @josphatmacharia6676 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charitymnyazi2633 yes sure

  • @akellomiduri9110
    @akellomiduri9110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Lord for these couples

  • @marykeria200
    @marykeria200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a sweet couple! God bless you guys!

  • @agieulerohojuu3238
    @agieulerohojuu3238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    19 yrs slaying couple 😘😘😍😍

  • @nanjalavivien138
    @nanjalavivien138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we talk about their quick fire answers 😍😍😍

  • @marywaithirawaithe6990
    @marywaithirawaithe6990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow,, this is Awesome,, May God lead someone's into my life

  • @drkatendifwalanga410
    @drkatendifwalanga410 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your love story is a Living proof of God's Abundant Goodness...

  • @MrFrank1121000
    @MrFrank1121000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such amazing story ...

  • @johnkarani4109
    @johnkarani4109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first couple on this program that knows each other very well, they gotten all the questions right

  • @Ms.TasteBuds
    @Ms.TasteBuds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a heartfelt story

  • @marthawaweru1028
    @marthawaweru1028 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats ma friends !! May GOD bless your marriage. This far is GOD.

  • @bettymwangi7446
    @bettymwangi7446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    20 more business cars
    In Jesus name

  • @magdawakiniofficial9562
    @magdawakiniofficial9562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What of saying I know them personally cos I do😁😀😀

  • @isaacokumu7535
    @isaacokumu7535 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woow..great love story may God bless your family, how I wish all Muslim girls could be watching this they stop ignoring & rejecting us wen we really love them