What happens in vegas... | Growing Up Eileen Season 4 EP 5

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  • @chake2089
    @chake2089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2102

    A controlling boyfriend can lead to a toxic relationship. Be careful girliee

    • @melanieramos1814
      @melanieramos1814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Chake Khulyan if he’s already controlling what she wears, where she goes, and with who, it’s been toxic

    • @emmaibarra905
      @emmaibarra905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      they broke up, Ruben posted he was single on his Instagram story

    • @caamareyes3313
      @caamareyes3313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah I saw that! :0

    • @miadelossantos3350
      @miadelossantos3350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chake Khulyan he is not being controlling

    • @pjm7243
      @pjm7243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mia DeLosSantos my dad doesnt even act like that with HIS WIFE

  • @leslieruiz3804
    @leslieruiz3804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    i see why ruben would be upset but at the same time, Eileen is growing up and going to vegas give her the opportunity to show and prove her responsibilities

  • @dyanaabrego9337
    @dyanaabrego9337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +785

    airam: I’m an adult
    *asks parents if she can go to vegas*

    • @menaasiedu6670
      @menaasiedu6670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Dyana Abrego cause she’s in college and her parents are most likely paying for it, I would ask before I go as well

    • @dyanaabrego9337
      @dyanaabrego9337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mena Asiedu but it shouldn’t matter if your parents are paying for it or not. Paying for school & still having to ask to go out even though you’re an adult is different

    • @menaasiedu6670
      @menaasiedu6670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dyana Abrego she could miss school or time spent on studying or schoolwork so they’re losing small,
      yet valuable money

    • @dyanaabrego9337
      @dyanaabrego9337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mena Asiedu yeah but this was filmed during thanksgiving break cause that’s when Eileen had her tour so college students are on break.

    • @vanessaaguilera7464
      @vanessaaguilera7464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thats how it is when you're mexican

  • @leslievences4709
    @leslievences4709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    “You can’t publicize it” while filming an episode for everyone to see 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @keiraontiveros2806
    @keiraontiveros2806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1348

    To everyone saying “iTs nOt cOnTrOlLiNg” y’all are wrong, she is her own person, she can wear what she wants, and go out whenever she wants, as long as she knows she’s not cheating on him she’s fine, like let her live, life is too short to just let someone control you all the time, and it may seem like it’s not controlling but it can just get worse and then they can actually control you, it’s sad a lot of people think this is normal, he should be happy you’re having fun, not upset, he should be hyping you up saying your outfit is cute but no he’s telling you to go change, it’s just not okay

    • @caamareyes3313
      @caamareyes3313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It looks like he doesn’t trust her either, my boyfriend went to La Vegas with his older sister and mom. I totally trust him and I know he will stay safe and will be loyal where ever he goes.

    • @alagator809
      @alagator809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Keira Ontiveros right I agree he should be like I wish I was with you but I know you still have fun, just watch your drinks, and have fun!

    • @yoselynepineda7699
      @yoselynepineda7699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly !! My boyfriend always encourages me to wear tight stuff and hypes me up when I wear girly clothes !! He gets happy and he loves when I go out with confidence!!! I hope she finds someone who
      Will hype her up and not tell her to change !! Her outfit was cute af !! And it wasn’t even revealing 🙄

    • @aidenjessmedrano
      @aidenjessmedrano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keira Ontiveros yeah I strongly agree with you

    • @Jarith417
      @Jarith417 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      His attitude made it worse

  • @valeriaazua
    @valeriaazua 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Kinda sad but also glad they ended it, controlling partners can lead to a toxic relationship, I’m glad Eileen realizes she can be happy by herself 😊

  • @khakhjasvir1303
    @khakhjasvir1303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    why’s everyone attacking the hell outta Ruben, he was talkin about how it’s dangerous for them to be in Vegas alone. ok ima be honest the “go change” controlling part was like too much, he was acting insecure

    • @gabyrodriguez1019
      @gabyrodriguez1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      tteessaa05 fr and maybe it’s her fault he don’t let her go

    • @Person-oe7li
      @Person-oe7li 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      this!! they are painting him as the bad guy but he is just looking out for her.

    • @kiwiguava1164
      @kiwiguava1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The girl wasn’t born yesterday, she has a friend along with her and her location on not only that she mentioned how controlling he is with the people she hangs out with and where she goes, that’s is not okay

    • @kiwiguava1164
      @kiwiguava1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Person-oe7li he is a bad guy! This wasn’t a one time thing!

    • @kiwiguava1164
      @kiwiguava1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gabyrodriguez1019 how is it her fault?

  • @jaquelinehernandez4370
    @jaquelinehernandez4370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    I don’t like the way Ruben was talking to her. His voice sounded so aggressive, that’s a no no

  • @mikaylaparks1693
    @mikaylaparks1693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    I think Ruben is insecure because Eileen is a pretty girl.. so I see why he wants her safe but when it came to the what to wear part that was wrong.

    • @judgejade2462
      @judgejade2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      but she knows what he reacts like yet she showed him ? lmao she’s childish when all ruben is trying to do is make sure she’s safe

    • @mikaylaparks1693
      @mikaylaparks1693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@judgejade2462 they broke up along time ago. Good for her.

    • @Person-oe7li
      @Person-oe7li 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judgejade2462 deadass

  • @crystalmanzo280
    @crystalmanzo280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    They had barely stepped out and the guy in red was checking them out🤣

  • @sashellecarter9047
    @sashellecarter9047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    I see why Ruben was upset because she’s a pretty girl in a place that she doesn’t know at night where people get drunk and high and act crazy. If he knew her mom was going with her he wouldn’t be upset. But at the same time he can’t tell you what to wear.

    • @user-sx3lg5wd1m
      @user-sx3lg5wd1m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sashelle Carter yeah and she still talks about guys being cute and stuf

    • @7912Mari
      @7912Mari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her mom wasn’t even gonna go. Meaning she trusts her to take care of herself. If her parents don’t say anything why should he. There’s a difference between saying okay have fun but take care of yourself and the way he responded. Her mom only joined cuz she over heard the conversation she’s only enabling him to act the way he does. We need to stop normalizing toxic relationships it is not okay. Eileen is her own person.

    • @sashellecarter9047
      @sashellecarter9047 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      7912Mari I see what your saying but I never said I agree with what he did, I just looking at it for a boyfriends perspective especially since he’s not there to protect the girl he loves

    • @sashellecarter9047
      @sashellecarter9047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      7912Mari also Eileen has a following, she’s an influencer, she’s not your everyday girl with 200 followers. Even during the episode people were coming up to her so imagine if she was by herself and all these crazy high and or drunk people were coming up to her. Influencers have very crazy fans, some would do anything to meet them so you also have to keep that in mind too.

    • @7912Mari
      @7912Mari 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sashelle Carter lol why are you acting like she’s famous she’s not yes she has fallowers but not that many and most under 20 years old

  • @chickennuggets9558
    @chickennuggets9558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Rubben could have told her or warn her to be careful and to watch out for other people that drunk or high

  • @GGCCcrew
    @GGCCcrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Ruben has such a good point about being out alone in Vegas. I don’t get why they’re villainizing him on the show when girls can straight up get taken advantage of.

    • @elenasoto2057
      @elenasoto2057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But he does not need to tell her what too where

    • @kiwiguava1164
      @kiwiguava1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But the girl wasn’t born yesterday, she isn’t gonna die and she has a friend and has her location on, he is a terrible person tbh

  • @leonitalugaric8811
    @leonitalugaric8811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I kinda half agree with Ruben, but Eileen can wear what she wants. I feel like if she will go more parties than she'll be like party girls like i have that feelin

  • @destinycarmona6896
    @destinycarmona6896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    Girl you better run from that guy trust me it's going to get worse

    • @arianamartinez6909
      @arianamartinez6909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Destiny Carmona his ig story he said he’s single...

  • @sublimebadam9671
    @sublimebadam9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    He’s just worried about her safety tbh , and Eileen knows what’s good or bad for her but she’s too sweet and innocent

    • @sublimebadam9671
      @sublimebadam9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Like I get that u need trust but certain situations should be avoided, safety is involved and u never know what something can lead to even if you have no bad intentions..the clothes part tho he shouldn’t tell u what to wear but the other I understand...there should be compromises on both parts b

    • @miagarcia5995
      @miagarcia5995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it’s like more about safety too

    • @keiraontiveros2806
      @keiraontiveros2806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get what you’re saying but sometimes guys use safety as an excuse to stop them from going anywhere, and honestly in any situation you are not safe you never know what can happen you can make promises that you’re gonna be back home safe from going to the movies with your friends like you never know, things happen and at the end of the day she was with her mom

    • @sublimebadam9671
      @sublimebadam9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keira Ontiveros yea that’s true that u can never be safe , and she could’ve told him she’s with her mom , but I get what you’re saying but it’s always safe than sorry

    • @sublimebadam9671
      @sublimebadam9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Amal Chamchaoui yea that telling her what to wear part is wrong but no matter what u can wear it’s dangerous for women out here regardless.. she could’ve let him know her mom was coming with .... but he shouldn’t tell her what to do unless it’s wrong

  • @glockfany
    @glockfany 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “ nothing major, just a college major” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @korinaperea2626
    @korinaperea2626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I understand him in the part of them being out alone but the clothes no!!! Girl never let a guy tell you what to wear

    • @Roberto-rp5ib
      @Roberto-rp5ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh why yall girls pressed

    • @andreagarcia4217
      @andreagarcia4217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Roberto-rp5ib because it's wrong

    • @Roberto-rp5ib
      @Roberto-rp5ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andreagarcia4217 I know but then all the guys will stare at yall, and then yall gonna complain about guys staring at yall ass 😑

    • @estefannymaldonado3365
      @estefannymaldonado3365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      roberto heredia just cause a girl wears something revealing doesn’t meant y’all gotta stare lol

  • @heysenrenteria5699
    @heysenrenteria5699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Low key never thought I would be missing Armando but I am 💀

  • @valeriemedina3401
    @valeriemedina3401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Eileen and Ruben broke up already he posted it on his insta story

    • @YO-mc1nj
      @YO-mc1nj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What’s his insta?

    • @soriyahcasiano7458
      @soriyahcasiano7458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WSU Cougar pinche.ruben

    • @mariagutierrez5694
      @mariagutierrez5694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Valerie Prado Good for him

    • @babygurl_jai2625
      @babygurl_jai2625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Valerie Prado you seen it too ?🤣

    • @menaasiedu6670
      @menaasiedu6670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah but this was filmed before they broke up

  • @jazmined1333
    @jazmined1333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Lourdes trying to convince her husband: “but it’s cute babe cause it’s like cute”😂😂

  • @soniaibarra3003
    @soniaibarra3003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Jajaj.... I feel like she's just trying to make him mad... Like she likes to provoke him but then she's going to play the victim to say he likes to control me.... Like huhhhh!

  • @Abby-mu1ib
    @Abby-mu1ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg airiam (her friend) is so sweet and not fake , when she said we could stay cus she didn’t wanna be a bad influence :,) I love them

  • @coleworld4056
    @coleworld4056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    she said “VEGAS” 0:24😂

  • @ceiarrahutchins3828
    @ceiarrahutchins3828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yoooo.... Awesomeness TV and their shows seasons, and episodes are the best especially “My Dream Quincenerra” and “Growing up Eileen”

  • @mariela0175
    @mariela0175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I don’t think Ruben was being controlling he was just worried for her safety because they are two young pretty girls and Eileen was just being petty and annoying

    • @lolababyy
      @lolababyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mariela 01 AGREEE

    • @destinym7960
      @destinym7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      so telling her to change her outfit when she is HER OWN PERSON and can wear whatever she wants unless her parents tell her something is not controlling?

    • @mariela0175
      @mariela0175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      destiny m that is correct. It’s Vegas there’s a lot creeps and she’s under age so yea it not controlling to be worried about creeps trying to come after your girl

    • @kaylachoeun3729
      @kaylachoeun3729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But her mom was with them

    • @destinym7960
      @destinym7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mariela 01 i get that he’s trying to protect her i understand that part but it still doesn’t give him the right to tell her what to wear! & what she wore wasn’t even revealing.

  • @huertalizett99
    @huertalizett99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Does anyone else laugh when lily says “lourtz”?😂

  • @nicole4480
    @nicole4480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    okay but how is eileen going out not respectful to the relationship? does he not trust her? she’s growing up. i agree with her saying that if her dad doesn’t have a problem with what she wears, ruben shouldn’t either🤷‍♀️

    • @nicole4480
      @nicole4480 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      - Alexandra - LMFAOO

  • @natalata1435
    @natalata1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lourdes coming to the rescue, trying to be that supportive, concerned and respectful mom.
    Remember this Eileen, remember how your mama be having your back with everything and everyone. When you feel like you're losing patience with her, remember this.
    As far as Ruben, I feel his concern. He's right, it's dangerous and they're young. However, if her parents gave her permission entonces he needs to back up. Also, she's dressed very descent, she's not a thotty, she doesn't have a history of acting stupid and she's family girl. But ofcourse, Lourdes joined the girls at the end. Wish my mama would ❤ a mother's love is definitely selfless.

  • @lizz_crossing
    @lizz_crossing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so happy you and Airam went out! Strong boss ladies, don’t let any man control you!

  • @wendymendez9104
    @wendymendez9104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Good for u for doing what you wanted, you guys aren’t married and he’s trying to control you now imagine later on! He didn’t try to have a calm conversation just went to raising his voice red flag!!

  • @laiwash9073
    @laiwash9073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The part about being alone in Vegas was understandable and Eileen was right to say thats what he gets when her mom went. I'm just glad that she knows she's her own person AND she doesn't depend on anyone for her own happiness. Yes Eileen is very beautiful, but like she said if her dad doesn't say anything then he shouldn't be telling her what to do or wear. She also mentioned in prior episodes he didn't like what she was wearing and I'm soooo glad she never did. Thats the beginning stages of controlling. She can go where she wants, when she wants, and whenever she pleases; she already has two parents.

  • @Babyashlyy
    @Babyashlyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Your outfit was so classy
    Omg my boyfriend lets me wear whatever I want. He shouldn't tell you to change thats a big no.

  • @dayzlovesyu1998
    @dayzlovesyu1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Lourdes was wrong for saying that they we're going to get the tattoo even if Rick would've said no.

    • @elsagarcia4218
      @elsagarcia4218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why? They're their own people. Maybe Eileen because she isnt of age but Lourdes and Lilly are.

    • @dayzlovesyu1998
      @dayzlovesyu1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elsagarcia4218 I meant eileen

  • @tpwkxemily
    @tpwkxemily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Honestly I see why Ruben is getting mad. he’s not being controlling he’s being cautious. Vegas is a crazy area where there’s people who could care less. Eileen just wants to live life but sometimes takes it to another level. she needs to be cautious

    • @22n1ko
      @22n1ko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Vero G every story has 2 sides

    • @kiwiguava1164
      @kiwiguava1164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is controlling! He is being aggressive! Yes Vegas is crazy but he can give her tips to be safe

  • @amelievargas2274
    @amelievargas2274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Im confuses he just posted on Instagram he was sungle

    • @mkaarenn5505
      @mkaarenn5505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      they arent together anymore these were filmed way back.

    • @valerienevarez
      @valerienevarez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amelie Vargas oh this TEA sis lmao 😂

  • @joselyn8216
    @joselyn8216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I kinda get Ruben getting mad at her going out bc he actually knows her and knows what she will do if she goes out. But the only thing is he shouldn’t be controlling of her wearing stuff

  • @daisym5139
    @daisym5139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Lordues is that embarrassing mom that tries to act young lol

  • @karinamoncayo241
    @karinamoncayo241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I literally love this series 💘😅

  • @daniellavelasquez6650
    @daniellavelasquez6650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Ruben wasn’t wrong at all. Eileen was being petty. Ruben wasn’t being controlling he was just caring and protective like any other boyfriend would 🤷🏽‍♀️ I kno what controlling is 😂

    • @keiraontiveros2806
      @keiraontiveros2806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      But there’s limits, he was getting upset about it, you should trust your girlfriend and let her wear what she wants and what makes her feel beautiful, no guy should have a say they there for be apart of your life not control it, i just think he was making excuses

    • @lene8135
      @lene8135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She’s literally wearing and skirt and and he’s telling her to change but that’s not controlling? 🥴

    • @kaylachoeun3729
      @kaylachoeun3729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like she wears a cute outfit and Ruben basically told her to change

  • @diamondlarios242
    @diamondlarios242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    " okay bye " WEAKK ASF yas girl 😭🤣🤣

  • @FelixAshleyy
    @FelixAshleyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In my opinion he is trying to be controlling. She should wear and do whatever she desires! It’s her life she knows what’s wrong and right. He is trying to threaten her by saying they will break up if she goes out. At the end of the day she will be there for herself. I been through this once but much love and support ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kendaljenner1003
    @kendaljenner1003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Eileen is so pretty!😍

  • @tiffanyamberr
    @tiffanyamberr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    if a guy is controlling then he’s INSECURE, let him go sis

  • @cynthiarodriguez366
    @cynthiarodriguez366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I die every time Lily calls Lourdes Lourds 💀

  • @bbyfrida333
    @bbyfrida333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love please consider the relationship. A controlling boyfriend is the start of a toxic relationship. I wish nothing but all the love in the world for you. All the love from AZ ❤️

  • @elisam.7588
    @elisam.7588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    i don’t think its controlling at all. you might think its controlling but its all about having a little self respect for yourself first and second for the relationship and your boyfriend. men are men and im not saying they are all the same but men love a woman’s physique and i dont blame Ruben for trying to do the right thing. just an opinion.

    • @estefannymaldonado3365
      @estefannymaldonado3365 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Endless Dreamz this is what a typical controlling man would say 🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @lol-bn7zn
    @lol-bn7zn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    they are bestie goals Iram and Eileen

  • @Jennifer3lizabeth
    @Jennifer3lizabeth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can understand him being concerned about their safety but not him telling her to change. A controlling jealous man never changes. Cus if you value what you got u shuldnt be worried. Honestly Eileen is too young for that toxic stuff

  • @emilychicas2784
    @emilychicas2784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nobody: The Amigas: Byeeeee!

  • @aileenhernandez8262
    @aileenhernandez8262 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like how Lourdes decided to go with them. you never know what could happen especially if your alone and go to a place you don’t know well

  • @nqtys
    @nqtys 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I admired the way she took that sm

  • @yazzym2951
    @yazzym2951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it’s one thing to worry and be protective for safety reasons, but it’s another to be controlling and mad over things like an outfit.

  • @victorianino3189
    @victorianino3189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    smh he should’ve said “you look so cute bae! be safe i trust you ! call me when your back, love you “

    • @anaislopez749
      @anaislopez749 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah he should've did that

  • @dianac7450
    @dianac7450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    F Ruben for trying to ruin their night. Honestly shout out to Lourdes for being cool and chill that night, you can tell that she tried making Eileen feel better.

  • @ernestinalopez4384
    @ernestinalopez4384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yess girl dont let no boy control you
    Be you and be happy❤❤💥

  • @jacky_dusdus450
    @jacky_dusdus450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you Eileen! I know that I am not in yalls life but I kinda agree with Ruben... it may be controlling but you are famous so he feels insecure about you being on those "things"... I mean I know that you want to have an adventure but its kinda hard for him for you to be doing amazing things and be out there having an amazing style. Like I said I may not be in y'alls life but I do get him. Love the amigas!

  • @destinycorona92
    @destinycorona92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The sunlight was blessing them

  • @andreagonzalez1429
    @andreagonzalez1429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Airam is 19 years old and already living her own life in college in Arizona. She shouldn’t have to ask her parents if she can go to Vegas she is literally an Adult .

    • @sparkylie
      @sparkylie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought the same thing. However, she’s 19. Def not an adult. But she’s on her own she doesn’t need her parents permission for sure

    • @mariagomez3207
      @mariagomez3207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Andrea Gonzalez Im 19 live with my boyfriend and whenever I go out by myself I always tell my mom, my mother in law and my boyfriend where I’m going because you never know what could happened. So for her to ask/tell her parents where she’s going is a good thing.

    • @andreagonzalez1429
      @andreagonzalez1429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maria Gomez well I mean that is you . And it is true it’s for safety but she is on her own and lives in another state . She could tell them of course but shouldn’t have to ask permission to go .

    • @meeyou5306
      @meeyou5306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s a Hispanic thing.

    • @Jackiefloresbaby
      @Jackiefloresbaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They are still her parents and she is HISPANIC. Just cause your parents raised you differently doesn’t mean Airam shouldn’t ask her parents lmao

  • @aaperezz16
    @aaperezz16 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk why but the fact that Airam is wearing a Seattle Washington sweatshirt makes me so proud!! 😂😭

  • @tasnimk8692
    @tasnimk8692 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i agree about ruben being worried about her getting hurt in an unknown area but he cannot control her decisions and life. she is her own person

  • @stephaniedz
    @stephaniedz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My friend was going through the same thing with her boyfriend and it eventually got worse and he started controlling EVERYTHING she did and he started getting abusive whenever she did something he didn't like and he would get so mad whenever she wanted to go out with her mom and not him

  • @jackiedelaluz4356
    @jackiedelaluz4356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i understand he was just tryna care for your safety .. but no guy should ever feel like he has the power to control what u wear or where u go . that was just toxic .

  • @hiyouugogirl2115
    @hiyouugogirl2115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how they get al along not like me and my sister

  • @Llauraa001
    @Llauraa001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ruben is insecure, because she’s so pretty and she’s way out of his lead. And for him telling her to change is toxic like she’s obviously isn’t that type of girl to cheat and I’m sure he thinks that way

  • @karlanguiano22
    @karlanguiano22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I feel like airam is such a bad influencer for Eileen , Ruben wasn’t at no wrong and i feel like Eileen feels powerful when she’s around airam

  • @Horrormovielover007
    @Horrormovielover007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so they went to college party, “didn’t” drink& were wallflowers😂😂 ok!!!

  • @biancajimenez6006
    @biancajimenez6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    eileen you don't have to listen to what I say or anyone else, but from experience once he starts telling you what you can or cannot do that's a red flag. I tell you that from experience. Be a strong independent woman and make yourself happy!☺️

  • @caitlinfrancis6
    @caitlinfrancis6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rueben likes get mad for what she wears , going out with friends and basically anything . Literally I understand he is concerned about being in Vegas but he’s controlling of what she wears , friends and going out

  • @mariafajardo7148
    @mariafajardo7148 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Eileen👏🏻 you do you girl ! 😍 at least you being honest with him!. At the end of da day you only have yourself .

  • @itzelbibiano1375
    @itzelbibiano1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Imagine she would have moved in with him omg 🤦‍♀️

  • @elizabeth-mr6nk
    @elizabeth-mr6nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    they are me scared of the dad LMAOO

  • @marydelsol7005
    @marydelsol7005 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl ily, and Ruben has no room to control, but doing those things also doesn’t help, if you love him and he loves you, talk it out , we growing

  • @stephenielisea873
    @stephenielisea873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't think he trust her, he seems insecure. that's why he is controlling& that's not good😭

  • @amaraohams5765
    @amaraohams5765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Speaking of season" 😂

  • @alittlebitofglam4319
    @alittlebitofglam4319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For everyone saying “hE’s NoT bEiNg CoNtRoLliNg HeS jUsT LoOkInG OuT fOr HeR cAuSe ShEs iN vEgAs” she clearly said thats why they broke up in the first place cause thats how he is! Regardless where shes at. She said he trys being controlling, she does good not listening to him! If her dad doesnt trip on her why should her “boyfriend”?! Thats a big NO NO. You go nene 💕💕💕

  • @babygurl_jai2625
    @babygurl_jai2625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said they done .finished ✔️😭😂

  • @andrearamirez614
    @andrearamirez614 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    He said that’s not showing respect like BABYBOY you ain’t her Dad 🤭💀😂

  • @melisacambera8510
    @melisacambera8510 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    lilly is my favorite she's very funny &'chill &'sm more .what she said at 7:20 💀 .

  • @Jaybbvv
    @Jaybbvv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her outfit was so cute !!!

  • @ailed6531
    @ailed6531 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    “ okay, bye “ lmaoooo meee

  • @jacks8802
    @jacks8802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    A good boyfriend would say stay safe have fun text me when you back...

    • @Roberto-rp5ib
      @Roberto-rp5ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao that's how the guy gets cheated on

    • @Roberto-rp5ib
      @Roberto-rp5ib 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @- Alexandra - lol okay 😂

  • @dancingdivas1019
    @dancingdivas1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Cause it’s cute cause it’s like cute” me tryna get my mom to agree 💀

  • @dinaortiz2765
    @dinaortiz2765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t think Ruben trying to come off too strong
    He just legit seems concerned for them going out alone. (Note:lots of people go missing in Vegas)
    BUTTTTTTTTT I do think he was being extra at the end when they hung up cause he can’t stop her the girls are only together for a little so let them have fun 💕

  • @xitlalyreyes8076
    @xitlalyreyes8076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Airam has a lot of patience with Ruben...if he would’ve talked to me like that I would’ve snapped back

  • @melhernandez02
    @melhernandez02 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That boy has to GO LIKE BYEEEEEE FELICIA 🤨✌️

  • @meloddygomez9007
    @meloddygomez9007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rick is gonna get more canas 😂😂

  • @kareenamohan5437
    @kareenamohan5437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like Eileen should’ve approached the call differently. They should’ve said that they were going bowling and walk around. Ofc they’re gonna be careful but Lou or Lily should’ve went with them since the beginning and she should’ve told Ruben so the situation aren’t as awkward

  • @manuelaj6304
    @manuelaj6304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anhhh I’ve been waiting!😆

  • @mireyaaxo
    @mireyaaxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tia Lilly in the intro 😍

  • @CarolinaMartinez-wt9xo
    @CarolinaMartinez-wt9xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many of you talk about Ruben having the power of telling Aileen what to wear or what to do, but no, they’re not married, she can do whatever she wants, just with respecting she’s relationship. I think if he should trust her, that’s the key of a relationship.

  • @rosaolea6944
    @rosaolea6944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But how would she feel about Ruben in vegas?

  • @isabelnicole429
    @isabelnicole429 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m dead at the fact that they always look at each other every-time there abt to say something just to see if it’s alright, and I think it’s wrong for Ruben to be acting like that but at the same time he was also worried for her safety

  • @soniaibarra3003
    @soniaibarra3003 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im not gonna tell my man, but he can watch the show!😂😂😂

  • @a.p.3742
    @a.p.3742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eileen Ur 17!If It Was Him U Wouldn't Like It. .Just Stay Single! Leave Ruben To Find Someone Better

    • @karyordonez9664
      @karyordonez9664 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A. P. He pretty much is controlling her lmao

    • @a.p.3742
      @a.p.3742 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karyordonez9664 If It Was The Only Way Around She Wouldn't Like It.

  • @giselleenriquez3873
    @giselleenriquez3873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RUBEN SHOULDNT BE UPSET THEY ARENT MARRIED IF HER PARENTS LET HER OK WHATS HIS PROBLEM?

  • @dessiireignn
    @dessiireignn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m glad Eileen mom decided to go because if she didnt go with them something couldve probably happened to them and Elieen would’ve regretted the way she did Ruben ...I think she should’ve told him that her mom ended up going because he was concerned about her safety

  • @jakelynlopez5115
    @jakelynlopez5115 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all post on the day of my birthday 🤪🤪

  • @tiffanysosa7549
    @tiffanysosa7549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Ruben gives off a toxic type of vibe. Eileen has every right to dress the way she wants. Be an independent woman period !

  • @Maria-qw6hb
    @Maria-qw6hb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ruben looks like that hamster meme on the ft call 18:03