why we broke up | Growing Up Eileen Season 4 EP 10

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  • @marisxoxo
    @marisxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2446

    I don’t think Rick got mad at the prank, more of getting mad that he has to take care of Lily’s kid when he has his own children and job to take care of, and getting told last minute

    • @juanitan4104
      @juanitan4104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      He has a full time job as a cop NO other job can compare to that, you have to give a weeks notice or more before you take a day off, it’s just rude that she got mad, his job is PROFESSIONAL and isn’t flexible like others jobs, if he’s bringing more money to the house there is NO need to be getting mad

    • @marisxoxo
      @marisxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      juanita N I agree sis❗️

    • @user-sx3lg5wd1m
      @user-sx3lg5wd1m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      The fact that she said “if I can do it, you can do it to” , she does not have a set schedule or a serious job, Rick has a very serious job that you just can’t be like “hey btw I’m taking the day off tomorrow”

    • @juanitan4104
      @juanitan4104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      T exactly you can’t compare government job to makeup artist I’m not trying to be rude but it’s clear knowledge

    • @lilianacastillo4576
      @lilianacastillo4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      T she really needs to grow up. she acts like a teenager

  • @lazarorodriguez338
    @lazarorodriguez338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2181

    She’s talking about her senior year and we all know that the Coronavirus had different plans for us 😭

    • @zainabimad3299
      @zainabimad3299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lazaro Rodriguez 100th like 💯

    • @danielagutierrez4403
      @danielagutierrez4403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I was so sad when they canceled school now I can’t see my amigas 🤬😭

    • @lisetterojas2753
      @lisetterojas2753 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daniela Gutierrez same 😔

    • @tamiahull-littlejohn8114
      @tamiahull-littlejohn8114 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lazaro Rodriguez no really 😩🤣 I’m so pissed

    • @liasheppard9903
      @liasheppard9903 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lazaro Rodriguez no seriously tho😭😭

  • @anikarose4315
    @anikarose4315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2676

    why does lily seem so nervous to tell her boyfriend about what she’s going to do with her family? that’s unsettling

    • @yasmined16
      @yasmined16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

      Cause her boyfriend is Toxic and Controlling he dont let his girl do whatever she whants he needs to let her to be herself and acting as a good trusting boyfriend with her and i understand her i was in the same situation as her i left the guy is been a year im single

    • @YasminLove09
      @YasminLove09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@yasmined16 BIG FACTS

    • @veronicaibarra2861
      @veronicaibarra2861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      100 GlamMakeupforgirls xox my bf too. He don’t even let me go to a pool with a friend .

    • @karinamontoya5533
      @karinamontoya5533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      anika rose yes literally at the end she said “I didn’t get his permission” like sis you don’t need it. You’re a grown women who can make choices on your own.

    • @anikarose4315
      @anikarose4315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Karina Montoya exactly!!!

  • @elyy8629
    @elyy8629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1928

    Like Avery seems a little controlling and “thot trip” was kinda rude, but I do understand that lily didn’t tell him before. Sooo like idkkk.........

    • @marilynh8085
      @marilynh8085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      ElyVlogzLife _ the mom is going too like how is that a “thot trip” 🤔

    • @fernandayarisel8968
      @fernandayarisel8968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She doesn't have to ask for permission, they aren't husband and wife

    • @JanaMalecke
      @JanaMalecke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ElyVlogzLife _ he seems hella controlling

    • @jazze.2729
      @jazze.2729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@fernandayarisel8968 You shouldn't even have to ask your husband for permission. I've been with my man for 9 years and if I told him at the last 5 mins hey I'm going on a girl's trip he'd say okay have fun I love you, send me pics! Like wth!!! That is just so weird and controlling. I hope she gets a wakeup call and leaves. Lily is my age, idk why she's acting as if she needs to hurry up and get married. She's gorgeous and young!!! She has time. Cuz Avery aint it.

    • @JA.x11
      @JA.x11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well maybe she didnt tell him cause she knew he was gonna react like that.

  • @amandaamador5292
    @amandaamador5292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1605

    “In a way I didn’t ask for his permission”
    GIRLLLL, he is NOT your husband, he does not PAY your bills or anything, you are a single mom, you deserve to go out and have fun, you are your own woman and do not need his permission!
    Edit: I’m talking about Lily and her bf

  • @honeyj5058
    @honeyj5058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1632

    Lily's man gives me toxic vibes, but her whole family so stunning !

    • @Unknown-yw8xg
      @Unknown-yw8xg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Honey J deadass he does give toxic vibes

    • @arisbeltorres5347
      @arisbeltorres5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He doesn’t 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Monica-fc8bo
      @Monica-fc8bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thats probably why Rick doesn’t like him

    • @Monica-fc8bo
      @Monica-fc8bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💡

    • @rey.v8915
      @rey.v8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Ikr the fact that Lily's fam never got the chance to see her for a long ass time just bc of him is toxic. Your man gotta give some time for the fam as well. And be encouraging of you spending time with your family. He's upset because HE wont be able to spend time with her on that weekend. He should be more understanding. She wants to spend time with her mom, sisters, and niece... there's no need to go with name calling... he literally just called all of then thots bruh....

  • @angelical2188
    @angelical2188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1039

    Lily just chose the wrong man, kinda feel bad that she don’t see it.

    • @natalie.2p858
      @natalie.2p858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not really... I completely understand the way he reacted

    • @natalie.2p858
      @natalie.2p858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Helen G. Pitts ok scammer goodbye LMAOO

    • @RobbieStacks90
      @RobbieStacks90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You always "choose the wrong men". When are you women gonna learn your lessons? This is why I'll be leading the alpha uprising soon. We meat and potatoes MEN are sick of you dating these artsy, girly boys.

    • @Monica-fc8bo
      @Monica-fc8bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She should follow eileens footsteps

    • @shramanap7011
      @shramanap7011 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HelenGPitts y would anyone pay you 95 dollars for typing stuff

  • @jessicaramirez4417
    @jessicaramirez4417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    The fact that she went to public school to experience senior events, and now a lot of us seniors might not experience some events 🥺

    • @marielagonzalez1195
      @marielagonzalez1195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessi Herrera deadass tho ):

    • @keila9383
      @keila9383 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What! I’m like 24, but I wanna know more. I know cus of the virus but ...

    • @desfav2619
      @desfav2619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s still in senior year this is current

    • @judithvelasco8376
      @judithvelasco8376 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSSS i agree with you

  • @samantharodriguez4367
    @samantharodriguez4367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    bro lilys boyfriend is lowkey kinda annoying like if lily feels like that uncomfortable telling him &’ he gets mad that quick &’ takes all her excitement away like damn i dont like him as soon as lily started distancing herself i knew something was up

    • @jocy6570
      @jocy6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      samantha rodriguez righttttt!!!!! same thing I said! she has changed too

    • @descruz6827
      @descruz6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omg yes!!

    • @r.e.3397
      @r.e.3397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I never liked him tbh

    • @yasmined16
      @yasmined16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She should left him if i was her no Man will call my family Thots hell no boy bye

    • @notalkin111
      @notalkin111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      N hes a nigga

  • @evelyrianne
    @evelyrianne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    "You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world" - Billie Eilish

  • @angelahinojosa5338
    @angelahinojosa5338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Why does lily feel scared. That’s was so weird. His vibe is all wrong. And I don’t want this for lily. She needs to wake up and see that he isn’t good for her.

  • @HillsongFan1707
    @HillsongFan1707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    Yes Avery shouldn’t have called it a thot trip, that was very disrespectful towards her & her family. However, I also understand that he was caught by surprise because she told him last minute. I don’t think it’s about him controlling her & what she does with her life. I’m sure if she would have told him way ahead time like “hey babe my family & I are planning a trip to Cabo, it’s not confirmed yet but just letting you know that’s what I’ll most likely be doing this weekend” he would’ve been fine with it. He did say weekends are usually when they have their alone time so to me it’s understandable that he would be a little upset that he was told last minute. I see both of their view points.

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She calls it that why can’t he

    • @YoBoiLost9
      @YoBoiLost9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LizVlogz thots will always be thots 🤦‍♂️

    • @YoBoiLost9
      @YoBoiLost9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LizVlogz thots will always be thots 🤦‍♂️

    • @hillybilly2260
      @hillybilly2260 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      facts

    • @valeriabustamante1827
      @valeriabustamante1827 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YoBoiLost9 periodt.

  • @montssanchez
    @montssanchez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Why is Avery upset? They’re dating not married there’s no reason for her to ask permission if she’s going w family.. And then says “The weekends are OUR time” but like that is so controlling....

    • @miadelossantos3350
      @miadelossantos3350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Monts' Life how is that being controlling he is just saying that the weekends are our time where we spend time together just alone without no one interrupting and she did tell him at the last minute so he does have a right cause what if he did plan sum

    • @montssanchez
      @montssanchez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mia DeLosSantos but they’re not married! Yes it would’ve been nice to give a heads up but he should be happy. Like I said she’s w her FAMILY not just with her friends. If they had plans he would’ve said something a head of time not just last minute so she didn’t ruin anything and that is just guilt tripping

    • @jennaaq1
      @jennaaq1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Monts' Life exactly and there’s other weekends like it’s just one weekend they’re not gonna hang out and she’s going with family it’s not like she’s going with friends

    • @v4vendetta6
      @v4vendetta6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Real quick I’ll point out he said “weekends are MY time.” Not “our”.

  • @isabelgarcia4886
    @isabelgarcia4886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I would’ve got mad too, Lourdes doesn’t know the struggles because she’s not a full time worker, I’m with ricky on this one sis😬

    • @sanahsafi8307
      @sanahsafi8307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She just wanted to help her sister

    • @ThatPaliRN
      @ThatPaliRN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol Ricky does do alot and lets alot slide. He could've atleast just got a heads up bout the babysitting.

    • @normagallegos7462
      @normagallegos7462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree so al least she should of tell him ahead of time.

  • @sarelasotamba6175
    @sarelasotamba6175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    eileen is a strong ass fem like she’s trying so hard not to cry like honestly she’s so strong

  • @n.delgado3189
    @n.delgado3189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Oh hell no sis you did not just say you didn’t get his permission 😒 you need someone who supports you doesn’t just judge you

  • @khadijaarafa5865
    @khadijaarafa5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    why is lourdes so mad like she should have told him beforehand that he had to take care of zeke, and why is she mad that rick didn't approve of the dress when the whole point of the prank was that the dress was way to provocative

    • @yanirecillas3791
      @yanirecillas3791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Khadija Arafa cuz she a real one and doesn’t let a man control her and treat her bad like the rest of the girls

    • @khadijaarafa5865
      @khadijaarafa5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YANI Recillas bro he didnt say anything like you wanna compare what rick said to what Avery said

    • @khadijaarafa5865
      @khadijaarafa5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      plus tbh Lourdes just expects Rick to obey her like why can’t lily just go on vacation on a week where zeke is with his dad

    • @khadijaarafa5865
      @khadijaarafa5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      being a strong women doesn’t mean that you have to control your man

  • @selinalandeross
    @selinalandeross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I hope I get a husband like rick some day because even when they have arguments he’s still more calm/ grounded and logical then just screaming and getting mad

  • @rebeccasamuela505
    @rebeccasamuela505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Breakups are hard, stay strong. Even if the breakup was mutual its not having constant messages, someone checking on you, I guess a space to feel the void. Hope your good girl 🖤

    • @AM-lz2jr
      @AM-lz2jr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cool story single mom

  • @samanthamelo258
    @samanthamelo258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    i didn’t like averys reaction to him hearing abt the trip, he seems controlling...

    • @samanthamelo258
      @samanthamelo258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      which would explain why she stopped hanging out with her family once they started dating

    • @katherinep2797
      @katherinep2797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      and he called it a thot trip as well

  • @em-yk9pd
    @em-yk9pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    She really said "didn't get his permission" girl WHAT

  • @noemirodriguez881
    @noemirodriguez881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    LILY THOW HIM AWAYYYYYY YOU DONT NEED HIM

    • @_itsalexa11
      @_itsalexa11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noemi Rodriguez PERIODDD!!!!

    • @rosiematias5197
      @rosiematias5197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m dead 💀 but fr he seem so toxic

    • @1224yungwayne
      @1224yungwayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      PERIODDDDDDDDD

    • @lindsaycarrion5208
      @lindsaycarrion5208 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik but it’s to late because she’s pregnant with his baby

    • @aniyaaj3464
      @aniyaaj3464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      she has a kid with him

  • @lizzybaby1352
    @lizzybaby1352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Lily’s man is so controlling instead of saying “go be safe and have fun” but instead he’s only thinking about himself he’s so selfish

  • @ariannajimenez76
    @ariannajimenez76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    okay but like why did all the girls go thru it with there boo’s this video 😭😭😭

  • @fernandayarisel8968
    @fernandayarisel8968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Lily you don't need to have his permission, he isn't even your husband, look, if he is like that when you are in a relationship, imagine how is going to treat you In marriage, girl he is not for you

  • @patinosmartinez2308
    @patinosmartinez2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Lily men is so controlling saying “oh this is my weekend and I had a surprised for you “ lies using excuses for you to cancel the trip don’t let him control you sweetie if not cut him off PERIODDD✊🏻

    • @jazze.2729
      @jazze.2729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. He didn't even say he had a surprise...he made her feel guilty by saying what if I had something planned? What a weirdo!! I can't stand him

    • @jazminn02
      @jazminn02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He said what if not that he did have a surprise plan. You guys are overreacting you have to see it from his point of view as well. He was upset because she didn’t let him know before so he feels as if he was not important enough for her to tell him about it with time. He wasn’t necessarily upset because she was going on a trip.

  • @steph3168
    @steph3168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    You know what I learned was when the time is right the right man will come. I've been through hell and back with relationships and right when i put my hands up and was like I'm done. My AMAZING fiancee came into my life and you know not every relationship is perfect but it's also not fighting majority of the time! Hopefully everything works out for you girl! And enjoy that single life!

    • @Ashley10056
      @Ashley10056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Amiga!!! Exactly the same thing happened to me when I let go of the control!

    • @frankp8763
      @frankp8763 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Steph
      Serious question. What makes your fiancé amazing? What sets him apart from previous relationships?

    • @karid.4371
      @karid.4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SO True! Soon as I said I was going to be single forever and was happy with myself that's when I found an amazing guy. Realized you gotta be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

  • @cecimartinez506
    @cecimartinez506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    No wonder lily doesn’t go with the amigas anywhere..lol

  • @jocy6570
    @jocy6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    I don’t like Lily’s man, he seems so controlling 🤬🤬

    • @jocy6570
      @jocy6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      “Next time you ask me” wtffff, are they married??? Then she said “I’m scared” I feel like she is getting hit or something

    • @elizabeth-mr6nk
      @elizabeth-mr6nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jocy I thought the same thing .....

    • @elizabeth-mr6nk
      @elizabeth-mr6nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The fact that he said a thot trip when it’s like her whole family of GIRLS is going ...

    • @jocy6570
      @jocy6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Lizzz: Exactly!! He made me feel uncomfortable since the beginning she seems scared to tell him. I was like thottt trip?? their mom is going what the hell? hopefully they dont last, i can feel lilys spirit draining ☹️

    • @zenis787
      @zenis787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Jocy especially when he did everything to make her feel guilty, my heart literally broke for her :(

  • @kristinagonzalez6652
    @kristinagonzalez6652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    bruh how tf lourdes gonna get mad at him when her whole intentions were to make him mad about the dress😂🤦‍♀️ rick seems so understanding he took the news well. lourdes needs to grow up lmao.

    • @kenyaperez1179
      @kenyaperez1179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She does

    • @ThaoNguyen-fm5gd
      @ThaoNguyen-fm5gd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      rick is the one who got upset first..

    • @ThatPaliRN
      @ThatPaliRN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ThaoNguyen-fm5gd he's the one getting pranked. Plus has to baby sit last minute. Lol I'd be mad to

    • @idaliapineda4650
      @idaliapineda4650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was acting so childish she totally needs to grow up

  • @danielacamacho2222
    @danielacamacho2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    He literally called her trip a “thot” trip like wtf her mom is going

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She calls it that why can’t he

    • @zoenoy1
      @zoenoy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      T sassy12 because 1.they don’t know him and 2. That’s not his family to talk about

    • @huda8388
      @huda8388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally! That’s so disrespectful that he says she’s gonna thot. Doesn’t matter if she called it that, she know what she gonna do! I’m sure her mom raised her well and he basically saying she didn’t raise her to be a smart women that respects herself

  • @iwantaririalbum
    @iwantaririalbum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    How is Lourdes getting mad at her own prank 😂😂😂

  • @angelamiranda9670
    @angelamiranda9670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    How is he gonna call it a thot trip when your mom and sisters are going with you how disrespectful 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      cuz she called it that first lmao

  • @jasminledo9792
    @jasminledo9792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    LILY shouldn’t have to change her way if she wants to have fun she can have fun like her man is so controlling if her mans trust her then she should’ve let her I’m sorry lily I don’t want him to abuse you and make him control you 🤬

  • @namjoonskokkies744
    @namjoonskokkies744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Honestly, I feel like lily is really going through it with her mans. He seems really manipulative,controlling , and like if he has anger issues and can’t control them . If you really love her and care about her you’d respect that she would want to go spend time with her OWN FAMILY, now excuses. And calling it a “thot trip” , your calling Eileen ,Lourdes, Lily, their sisters and mom a thot?? How rude is that to the family of your girlfriend . If the weekend was your time with her , you could’ve still supported her going and if you really missed her you could’ve planned something for you two to do when she gets back . It’s really not that hard to show compassion and be supportive through everything.

    • @rosaTorres-wq1io
      @rosaTorres-wq1io 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You perfectly said it 🤝🤝I totally agree

    • @namjoonskokkies744
      @namjoonskokkies744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      rosa Torres 🤝

    • @elizabethnicole2231
      @elizabethnicole2231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly im sure he's toxic af i can tell I've delt with men like thia before

  • @salmaortega5219
    @salmaortega5219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    oh HELL no Lilly’s boyfriend is so toxic and that’s disgusting how he acts with her. She seems so scared around him. What, is he her father?

    • @1224yungwayne
      @1224yungwayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Salma Ortega PERIOD!!!

  • @j.g.c23
    @j.g.c23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I hope the baby sister doesn’t goes through the same thing as eileen with bullying and everything

  • @Mini444-27
    @Mini444-27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love how Eileen parents are, their bond is so adorable

  • @tyreebracey9345
    @tyreebracey9345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Lily”s man should have been like “ be safe and call me when you get there”.
    How is lily planning something on your time?
    What about letting her have her alone time ?

    • @liiinduhhh
      @liiinduhhh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      not even necessarily “alone time” more of “family time” but i 100% agree with you

    • @tyreebracey9345
      @tyreebracey9345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lin I agree with the family time I forgot about that also

    • @user-ht3xb7rz7o
      @user-ht3xb7rz7o 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      tyree bracey okay but she did tell him last min like how u in a relationship when u don’t even communicate with the person u with

    • @tyreebracey9345
      @tyreebracey9345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sophy Cruz well she was unsure if the trip was gonna happen or not in the first place

    • @user-ht3xb7rz7o
      @user-ht3xb7rz7o 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      tyree bracey well she still should’ve told him that they were planning it

  • @lolacherrycola5250
    @lolacherrycola5250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Girl you never need permission from a man to go on a trip with your family or wear a dress or any clothing 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @allycarranza4686
    @allycarranza4686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    to be honest it seems disrespectful that lily's boyfriend called it a thot trip because that's like disrespect to lily's sisters, niece and mom

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She called it that why can’t he

    • @marissa7037
      @marissa7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@camille98tt because it’s different cuz they’re family and act like that but that’s her boyfriend and him and the family aren’t close like that 😭

    • @tparchment2097
      @tparchment2097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He called it that bc it’s all women, which is incredibly sexist and disgusting

  • @iwantaririalbum
    @iwantaririalbum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I don’t know why but i get this weird feeling from Lourdes. Like she is more of a teenager than a mom to me.

  • @katherinegarcia7718
    @katherinegarcia7718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Rick was communicating with lourdes in a good way so she could understand his point of how it was a unfiar to tell him last minute to do things, he was respectful even tho she was wearing that dress. Avery had the same point of why he was told last minute but was disrespectful in calling them thots. Wording is very important

  • @lizzyveraa5989
    @lizzyveraa5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    If you can’t have someone watch your kid then plan it on a weekend when you don’t have them instead of pushing them on someone else

  • @r.e.3397
    @r.e.3397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Ruben was not cute by the way

  • @original0489
    @original0489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Lilly's mans hella a narcissist.. smh he already got her trying to change herself..

  • @madelyn5059
    @madelyn5059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can relate to Eileen so much, like I stayed in school for my senior activities, yet everything got postponed 🥺💗 hopefully everything ends up good

  • @nnayaa4474
    @nnayaa4474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Lily’s man has a point because since they’re together she should tell him when she’s gonna leave the country ,, but he was being a little controlling and he was being rude when he said “thot trip”🤦🏾‍♀️.

  • @r.e.3397
    @r.e.3397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    y'all need to leave these toxic men 😣😣

  • @yanirecillas3791
    @yanirecillas3791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    If I was lily and Avery pulled that crap on me I would have said “ ok I won’t go and will do what you have planned for me for the weekend “ just to see what face this man makes because we know dang well he had nothing planned

  • @marisolmartinez4569
    @marisolmartinez4569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I think lily should have mention the trip to her man even if it wasn’t confirmed yet so he would at least know to make plans or whatever but when he said “thot trip” that’s just nooo😶 Also Lourdes with Ricky so he would have time to rearrange things with work.

  • @LuceroGuzmanMusic
    @LuceroGuzmanMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I understand that Lily should have told Avery about the trip when it was in the making, but he got real defensive and controlling real quick.. there was no reason to leave her sitting there like that 😕

  • @original0489
    @original0489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Lilly's man seem abusive. He gives me creep vibes

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah she literally told him last min that’s disrespectful

    • @americaaaa71
      @americaaaa71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Original S eaither way he would've been understanding Bcs it's Eileen's bday week

    • @original0489
      @original0489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@camille98tt who cares no women should fear telling their man anything she was literally scared. I understand it was last min but the way he responded was narcissistic!! If he was upset because it was last min he could of just said that but he went on to bash an make her feel less then almost in a punishing way.. that's abusive

  • @bee.saalll
    @bee.saalll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Let it go” sometimes it’s for the best and better things will come your way. Your young girl! And beautiful.

  • @nathalieortega2604
    @nathalieortega2604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I’m sorry boo you don’t need him there is literally so many goood respectful people that want you and care about you

  • @daisytito2000
    @daisytito2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love seeing a close brother and sister relationship at any age, so sweet :)

  • @marieandbryan1291
    @marieandbryan1291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    yall do notice that he called it a "thot trip" to her family aka sisters & MOM🙁

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They said it before so who cares

    • @luvelydoll
      @luvelydoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      T sassy12 damn girl how many ppl did you respond to lmfao

  • @melanimarie3088
    @melanimarie3088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Damn everyone's mans got mad 🥺

  • @melanierivera7841
    @melanierivera7841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I think Lily’s boyfriend did have a right to get a little mad just because Lily told him the week of the trip but I don’t think it was right for him to call it a “thot trip”

    • @suziewdauzi1631
      @suziewdauzi1631 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But its a family trip w her sissters, mom & niece

    • @melanierivera7841
      @melanierivera7841 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Azusena galvez I know it’s a family trip and I get that he should be ok with it but lily should have told him early so that he would have known and not have nothing planned because what if he planned something for her and now it’s ruined

  • @kellycummings8991
    @kellycummings8991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The fact that lily thought she needed permission from a man to be with family is honestly crazy

  • @valeriahernandez9631
    @valeriahernandez9631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Avery is extra asf he is making her feel bad Bc she’s going out to have fun like don’t brainwash her

  • @abigailaguilar2501
    @abigailaguilar2501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Damn leave something to the imagination”😂lol that was so cute haha

  • @mayswithyou
    @mayswithyou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    lily and her boyfriend: he shouldn’t have called it a “thot trip” that was disrespectful but lily should have mentioned before hand
    lourdes and rick: i get rick got mad because he got told last minute about taking care of Zeke but i also get lourdes point of view it’s not easy to do it everyday either
    eileen and ruben: don’t worry eileen the right man will come to you and respect you keep doing you 💗

  • @becca7848
    @becca7848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i know we only are seeing this glimpse in their lives but lilly's relationship seems a bit toxic. i feel like he is isolating her and notice how she was scared to tell him her plans? when lilly said "i need to be more open with him"... she is putting the blame on herself bc of his actions but tbh she doesn't need his "approval" to go anywhere like...

  • @maritzaponce8345
    @maritzaponce8345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I started crying when she started talking about her breakup

  • @XoxDelilah
    @XoxDelilah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how close their family is 🥺💖

  • @deborahcamacho7917
    @deborahcamacho7917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Should never have to ask ! You let them know where you’re going and that’s it ! Period sis

  • @Emilkkuma
    @Emilkkuma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    i feel like this show is just gonna end up ruining relationships 😳

  • @jeanettebadillo2428
    @jeanettebadillo2428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Elinnas makeup though 😅😅

  • @giannanavarro3744
    @giannanavarro3744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I’ve never been this early in my life- even in my birth I was late

  • @leslietalamante4013
    @leslietalamante4013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear every saturday this is what I look forward too ! I love this season especially.

  • @desireevargas5103
    @desireevargas5103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 Rick “how are you gonna keep the twins from falling out” Lourdes like this *holds boobs and whispers* “stay there” TOOK ME OUT

  • @stacya3481
    @stacya3481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    definitely should’ve told the dad that he had to babysit ahead of time 😂

  • @taylorespinola7231
    @taylorespinola7231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless your whole family it is so amazing how you guys bond together like that. That stuff is so rare

  • @GetOutRnHo
    @GetOutRnHo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Avery is so immature he needs to chill out he's just a boyfriend he is not married to lily. he just started dating lily not long ago and he's already telling her what she can and can not do like lily does not deserve that shes a single mother and needs time for herself and she DOES NOT need his permission to go out with her own family. AND THAS ON PERIODTTT

  • @monicaaxo383
    @monicaaxo383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Eileens mom and dad are funny asf🤣👏
    "Whats a twerking dress? Does it dance itself"🤣👏

  • @Jayleen_Martinez_
    @Jayleen_Martinez_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Omg ricks reaction to the dress has me dead bishh 💀 😂

  • @chake2089
    @chake2089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve been waiting all week for this🤩

  • @ailed6531
    @ailed6531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bro okay but seeing elieen mature into the women she is from her dream quinceañera is amazing, so proud of her 💕💕

  • @karlarodriguez9158
    @karlarodriguez9158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can hear the hurt in eileens voice when she was crying...her voice cracked too🥺

  • @nancypaz6498
    @nancypaz6498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is why I actually plan out my stuff & never do any planning last minute . My bf says I shouldn’t do that but this is why because things happen last minute

  • @GM-ff1my
    @GM-ff1my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lourdes is my mom goals!! I love how she is with her kids and the advice she gives!

  • @gabrielayamii
    @gabrielayamii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're get thruu it like you have gon thruu a break before mija , you'll be okay . Stay strong and believe in yourself 💕 we love supporting you & just know that you're not alone cus look how many people love you elieen, youu deserve soo much better ! Ruben was just a waste of time and was controlling you, his just blind pero one day he will realize what he has done 💘. Be safe & stay happy , positive vibes and have funn elieen :)!

  • @jenniferrios6180
    @jenniferrios6180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your senior is the best year of your life you need to experience all of it bc you WILL MISS IT

  • @jasminpariona7689
    @jasminpariona7689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Notice how all 3 of their own mans got mad at them for leaving to the trip

  • @houstonbluntslili3259
    @houstonbluntslili3259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    there dad is so freaking funny , i love this family !! He said
    Its your bday Btch * 🤣🤣🤣

  • @josypalomares8299
    @josypalomares8299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lily’s man give me a bad vibe I feel that lily deserves way better

  • @selinalandeross
    @selinalandeross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yo lourdes really said “look it has glitter! It says like you’re dreaming” 😂💀

  • @anaa5813
    @anaa5813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “how are you gonna keep the twins from coming out” LMFAO💀

  • @bellaj2179
    @bellaj2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Every one is talking about Eileen's breakup and the failed prank and Avery getting mad and here I am wondering if Eileen drives 😂😂😭

  • @caamareyes3313
    @caamareyes3313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a break up too. I can relate to Eileen even though the situation was different. I broke up with my bf because he was acting rude to me and different. He was actin toxic and it was affecting me. I tried hard to work things out but he basically gave up on me and revealed who he really was. It’s been couples weeks ago and I’m actually happier now. Giving all that love to myself!

  • @kaylie7294
    @kaylie7294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eileen you don't need no man! If he "loves" you he would of fought for you no matter what instead of giving up.

  • @rachelsmith7371
    @rachelsmith7371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    SHE. DOESNT. NEED. HIS. PERMISSION. To go on the damn trip!

  • @user-ly5tz3sz5f
    @user-ly5tz3sz5f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Damn. Lily’s man is manipulating af.

  • @sabellachajal6507
    @sabellachajal6507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lily’s boyfriend is to much like damn understand it’s a girls/family trip. I understand that he wants to be with lily , and spend time with her but it looks like lily don’t go out or spend time with her own family.

  • @tparchment2097
    @tparchment2097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “See it has glitter so it’s like you’re dreaming” Lourdes is awesome😂😂😂😂

  • @ellanaangel3996
    @ellanaangel3996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    So weird seeing couples arguing on here

  • @vanessa-ru2hl
    @vanessa-ru2hl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her boo was like “youu donnttt neeeddd nooo freee timeeee thaattsss youu andd meee timeee!!”

  • @jazze.2729
    @jazze.2729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Avery is TOXIC. He doesn't seem it, he is! Acting as if he could've had something planned. Guys like that love isolating women from their friends and family, just saying. It has been so many red flags since he first entered the show and nobody is saying this to be rude but because as fans we genuinely care for Lily, and what he has demonstrated is that he considers her to be his subordinate. I am the same age as Lily and have been with my man for 9 years. If I were to go on a trip with my mom and sister...I could be telling him the day of...he would make sure we're safe, get excited for me, tell us to have fun and to call him as soon as we land, check-in, etc to make sure I'm safe. After that, he wouldn't bombard me and allow me to enjoy myself. This dude has been with her for not even a minute and is calling a trip with her MOTHER, SISTERS, AND NIECE A THOT TRIP! And she feels as though she should have asked permission. To a man who hasn't put a ring on your finger?? You can talk about marriage with someone until u are blue in the face, a real man will PROVE he's even worthy of your love...to not just you but your family! Someone toxic will try and isolate you from them and make you feel guilty. I've witnessed this first hand with friends and loved ones and Avery has many red flags. I truly hope Lily realizes this sooner than later because she's way too beautiful, kind, and smart to be with someone like that. When I saw he didn't take the time to shake Rick's hand and introduce himself when he first met him that was all that I needed to hear to know he was a scrub.

  • @lelymacias8380
    @lelymacias8380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is so blessed , her mom is so understanding 🥺