First thing kisi ko kuch dikhane ke liye mat bano , Jo chhod ke Chala gaya just forget about them , na nafrat rakho na pyar rakho bas apne goal par focus Karo . Feelings he mat rakho life mein kisi ke liye except parents
Ohh app bol rahe ho ki parents bohot ascha hain ... parents ke liye vi kai bar , musibat ho jate hain , ... khud ke liye parents bohot ascha hain ... lekin dusre ke liya , kabhi kavar bura vi ho sakta hain .... app aisa bolo ki selfish logo se dur banaye rakho ...
Bahut ro Liya hai , bahut kuch khoya vi hai , kuch baki nahi hai, bas ab aur nahi .... Ab to mujhe wo din Lana hai jis din mere liye uske akhno mei ashnu na aye Sahi Lekin pachtana jarur hoga use mere liye . Fir vi khus rakhe khuda usko.
I cannot defeat in my life in any stage bcoz I feel very blessed that I have a mentor like you... U r my real hero Sir...Lots of love and respect to u Sir❤️
There is no one sitting there with an IAS tag to offer you with sympathy for you just because you had a mess in your life ....You have to earn everything ...Thats why world is ruthless.
Awasome sir, thank you so much for much needed motivation The point is... Be like Sattu (Satyendra) of Shaadi me zarur aana.... All the Aarti Shuklas will surely regret Later... ;) All the best everyone
Ma'am sorry to say this, but arthi Shukla did a right thing.. she is marring to a person who's mother asking dowry 4lack... It's better to leave such person.. but yes, she took this decision in very bad movement only this thing is acceptable.. but she did right thing.. Another one thing is I'm definitely agreed to you in sattu's matter..better to being sattu instead of devdass.. But if any girl who is arthi then she never going to have regration but any girl who is gold digger then surly she will regrate for what she did to a innocence decent person.😊
Depression is not a choice. It is not temporary sadness that happens for a week and then go away. Depression is the State of mind when someone has lost his control over his mind. It needs medical and psychological help to recover. Taking advice and listening to someone only help when a person is not really depressed, instead he or she is just sad because of something. There is a thin line between sanity and insanity, and when you are depressed you have crossed that line long ago. Now you need help because you can't do much on your own. So, I think people should see a doctor. if they need medication, they should get it. Along with medication, they must also acknowledge it deeply that their inner most is not strong enough, so they should work on that with help of spirituality, meditation and yoga. Even I have cured my depression with the help of meditation, I learnt it from a reputed place, but I believe if your condition is very bad then you should see a doctor first.
Sir aapki ye line dil ko chhu gyi,,""ye yaad rkhna agr aap unsuccessfull hue ya fir kuchh ni kr paye to aap us insaan ko sahi feel kra rhe h jo aapko ek wqt me chhorkr chala gya".
Guys both break up and start up during any exams are equally dangerous .....😂😂 one breaks up mentally in that moment while other will break u after some time mentally and physically...avoid these during any exam
Mera jo bhi time bechta hai wo to aapki video ur mahan gyan se mujhe mental fitness milti ur physical fitness to aapne bol bol ke kerwa diya sir. Main aap ke guidance me kai sari habits change kiye aur modify kiya.thank u .ur rehi baat life partner ki to mujhe koi saadi hi nahi kerni.
Last line is osm sir,, aapne sahi kaha chhd k jaane k baad toh aur zazba paid hona chaiye ke kuch krk dikhaye,,aaj k time pe aankh bnd krk kisi p bharosa maat kro na depends raho love me b ,be focus on ur careers banjaoge toh wahi banda aage se sochega mene kia khodia, khus raho storng raho,
Thank you sir .... I was going through anxiety, loneliness due to this coz my 6 year relationship was over ,...in next 4 months I have my examination .... I want to change this feeling of guilt pain sadness and anger so that I can focus on my goal and u helped alot ...♥️
My dear friends, i want you to know that none wants to be around or in a relationship with hard workers...people only want a successful person. So it's not your fault, it's their problem and their lost. I lost mine just recently for i couldn't give much time for romance... there'll be lots just like me. I pray we'll get through this together.
Whosoever u r i connected with you babes, since so long i was mad about my relationship it affected me a lot, and i think he got overwhelmed when i used to share what i wanna do in my life.. he didnt wanna motivate me more.. or support me more i could sense that. I did breakup, todsy i met him to return his books n stuffs, and its just hard.. but thanks for ur comment 🙃
Tqsm sir for this video.. Due to the break up, I quit this year's prelims... which is held next month... But I will definitely sit n plan for the next year... I worked very hard for the last 10 months ...but these 3 months...I quit studying...I tried my best to study..but i couldn't..
you know main aaj jo phase m hoon I wish koi aise situation apne life m kbhi face na kare. I feel hopeless and helpless. Bachpan se chubby bcchi thi lai g mazak bnate the school m college m mera highest weight 100kg tak pohoch gya tha. Roz roti thi koshti thi apne aap ko ki mere saath hi aisa kiyu ho rha hain. Main kbhi ess waja se frnds nhi bna payi log mujhe bully krte the. Lekin phir ek aisa ladka aya mere life m jo mere weight ko lekr kbhi judge nhi kara. Mujhe laga etne saal lonely rehne ke baad finally koi mere life m aya jo shayad mere outer looks se nhi mujhse pyaar krta ho. But I get panic attacks now. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up. Aur wo ladki sb jnte huwe bhi mujhe gaali dekt block krdia. Aur us cheatet ke saath ab phirse relationship m hain. Enn logo ko koi regret nhi hain. Aur main yaha roz roti hoon.. Jeene ki jaise koi umeed hi nhi hain.
@@Msharma30 dont do that mate...1st accept that you r in pain.cuz jb tk accept nhi kroge tb tk move on nhi kr paoge....nd u r nt alone jiska breakup hua ho..mje to 5 yrs tk emotionally use kia gya...yha tk maine us ldki ki 3 baar shadi rukavi nhi to uski 21 yrs me hi ho jati shadi. nd opotunistic nikli or chli gyi . hr koi prblm me hai . just accept that pain.nd agr environment tmhe pain de rha hai or tm jhel le gyi to smjna vo tmhe khi bht aage le jana chahta hai.
same here spoorti a person left me for another person nd said u r nt able crack the exam in 2 yrs of prepration nd blamed me for nt giving clerical level examination which was nt accepted by me. she started ignored me from jan.nd finally on this holi she said i m going to engaged nd that person have 2 houses from which he earns lots of rent nd have agricultural land. she was with me since my graduation 2nd year. i was in so much pain as she treated me as an option from last 5 years. everytime she was left me for other guy nd when her marriage nt fixed she came back to me by saying i love u alot plz dont left me nd everytime i came in her excuses. but now when she finally left me i m in so much pain. dont know how anyone would be so opportunistic.
@@Msharma30 dear as ur last line ki unko regret nhi hai...uska ansr ye hai ki...kuch logo ko 2nd person ko pershan dekhkr bht accha feel hota hai cuz vo jante hain ki mere bina rh nhi skta. unke andr ka swabhaav hi aisa hota hai negative type. asise log kisi ki bhi life me jayenge use pain hi denge.accha hua vo chla hi gya 2hi yrs ka elation tha image kro aise ke sath agr 40-50 yrs rhne pd jate tb kya hota. u got a better one this time.
Sir apne Jo v tips Diya use Mai 2 saal se follow kr rhi hun khud ki understanding se but Mera break up nhi hua tha balki mujhe khud kisi se dur hona pda family ki Khushi k liye. I can't hurt my family so I'm hurting myself & also to him.😔😔
Needed this video. Watching for the 3rd time :) I will get over that person surely ✌🏻now I wanna be committed to my goals not to any human on this earth
Jai hind sir same mere saath bhi yahi hua infact sir log struggles mai saath nahi dete hain fir new excuses hote hain bla bla ,so I have just forget ,the show must go on ,Army officer bn na hai sir .I firmly believe in u sir ,Hope n confident sir mai jld hi apne aap or apko apne exam nikalne ki good news share karunga
Sir maine jab se apake video dekhne shuru kiya hai tabase mera attitude hi change ho gaya hai life me... i am very positive about my life. Thank you so much sir from bottom of my heart🙏🙏🙏
Is video ko maine phle like kiya phir coment kr rha hu or ab dekhunga Kyonki is video ki jaroort bhoot jyada hi thi but mai bol nhi paa rha tha mera break up to bhoot phle hi ho gya tha but preparation time pr uski yaad jaati hi
sir me engg background se hu same case hua tha mere sath.colg me .in 2016 but maine usae +ve point me liya becoz mere dil me aag lag gye uss tym par...maine bi thaan liya kuch karke hi dekhao ga uss girl ko.. ab 2019 me sir i have qualified railway J E exam..ab jab usae pta chle ga usko bhut regret hoga...galat kar diya mko chod kar... mere jitne bi frnds jinke sath aise hua vo kabi akele feel na kre usko +ve point mann kar kuch krke dekhao...i think success is the best revenge of anything .👏👏👏
Sirji bhot bdia seekh dedi aapne aaj. I can promise you that i am going to clear my both exams i.e. on 14th and 21st April. Along with that i am going to loose my weight as well ( as of now i have lost 7 kgs from 98 to 91 via HIIT and clean diet since Jan 19). I can promise you i will come back to this comment and will update you with my results. Jai Hind!!
Awsm session sir.. Things are very simple to understand but we are trapped in our own fantasies.... I hope this session will work out for our Indian youngsters...
I do not know...sir .... I am lucky not to have someone in my life as I know I am too emotional to hold all those things .....or I am in loss not to have BF ......Main apne junior's ke Rona dekh kar to soul tak dar 😨😱jaati thi ....but now after watching it I am sure about my confusion .🙏
Eye opening session sir 🙏 har koi success chahta hai.girl ho ya boys.. love ka MATLAB hamesa kisi Ko pana nhi hota hai 🙏🙏mujhe to lagta hai sir ki ham log excuses banate h rather than focusing on our responsibilities.. thank you very much sir 🙏 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💞🙏
@@GauravKaushal thank you very much sir 🙏🙏🇮🇳 ap aise hi motivation dete rahiye..AJ morning m regular days se jyada exercise with higher intensity.uske bad jo Sukoon tha which cannot be expressed in words. I m thankful to God ki ap TH-cam par recommend vedio m aye ....ap jo work kar rhe h isse liye ap Ko Dil se Salam...I m trying to improve myself daily....with the due respect.. Love you 💖💖sir as an elder brother 🙏, motivator 👮...Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 one day I will definitely meet you as a government employee🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🏻🙏🏻👍👍
Thank you so much sir. Working out for an hour had made me more confident and after gym and nutrition i feel more focused in studies. God bless you. From ASSAM❤
Some lines really hit me,because they are so relatable.I was wasting my time all these days being depressed but I understand now I have to do it and make him regret. Thank you so much sir ji🙏
I love 'you tube', because now i can hear the IAS officers , it was a dream For me before this. Thank you sir, you are so simple dawn to earth person . i like your fitness too.
Thank you sooo much sir,maii bhi fil haal esi situation se gujar raha tha,aur Etna depressed tha ki suicide krne vala tha,but mere friends ne muze samzaya aur jis ldki se love krta hu usse job hasil karke marriage krne ka solution dila,maine bhi job hasil karke marriage krne ka decision liya but study par focus nhi kar pa raha tha hmesha kuch na kuch thinking mind me shuru rhti thi ,but aapka ye video dekhne ke baad I'm feeling positive towards my aim,ab jab bhi mai low feel krunga aapka ye video fir se dekhunga, thank u sooo much sir for this help
Today I found out that my ex got married last November 2020 and now I am preparing myself for BCS (Bangladesh Civil Service) which might happen next July 2021. I don't know if I can manage to keep my head cool. Let's see!!
Thank you so much for giving me a wonderful session ,sir ab zindagi m bht bada kuch achieve krni h ,ye time avi aise character ko play krne ka h jisse main apna aapko ek best place de saku is world main .
I m also depressed. Tomorrow is my exam and i m here to know how to overcome. How to forget her.. Really i m cheating myself. I m not going to luv anyone again. Thank you so much sir..
Bro... Accept the situatn n move on... Jb ap situatns ko accept krna or kisi s axpect krna chod doge... Apki life ezy ho jaegi.... Ye chije hme strong bnati h... Ye smj kr agee bdho
Bs ye socho aaj se 6 mahine bad kuch matter nahi krega, you will cry hard, you will be depressed and you have to go through that coz you loved them so just think this will hardly matter in coming 6 months or 1 year.
Sir i don't know you but you're really an altruistic person I appreciate your way of handling things. I wish I will work being a government subordinate of yours.. salute you sir👍
Sir u r a genuine mentor ,youtube par bhut saari vdo mil jayengi is matter pr but aaap always dil se baat krte ho not only this topic but also all others topic ,thanks a lot 🙏 , baise mera aisa koi matter nhi hai love life type but fir bhi mai is topic pr apko sunna chahta tha 😄 ,and i will try my best to give u a good news after prelims ☺️
Library m hu or usne mujhe abuses kiya nd mera bilkul padhi ka mn ni ho rha tha mai bht ro rhi thi washroom m jakr nd jb fir library ayi to apki video dekhi thanku ❤
Same here but u have to recoll the thing's how he hurt u and he how make u cry he kills urs smile Just recoll the pain given by him then u will goning to forget him 👍
Jo janatha oo bhaggeya acha hua abb thumare pass new opportunity he tum 1st carrier banao. Ladki kya ladki baap maa ayege, Or 1st tum woo tention se bahar anaa heto gym exercise yoga karna padega, 21 din ke bad sab change ho jayega. Ea mera bada,, no time waste and welcome you new happy life, (( mera bat achha laga too please replay)) by 🏃♀️
Thanku so much sir Aap ne sahi disha di hai muje Thanku so much sir muje or meri life ko bachne kai liyi Thanku sir thanku👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😊😊😊👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉🎉👍👍👍👍
One thing love doesn't exist it's utopia..and if there lies your goal you will wake up so self mentoring is what one should do. When we heal ourselves post death of near ones..break up pain is lesser than that. Being emotionally sensitive soul can empathize how negatively it takes a toll but one has to let to go it take days or years to evolve so curb your feelings and just go ahead. Should be mantra.
To everyone who are facing this, just listen this if you had a breakup recently it means you still have more than millions of options just one is reduced from that. Stay focused everyone, build yourself physically and mentally. Be a warrior chill at your life and study consistently.
A big THANK YOU for this video. I was really in need of it. You are really such a nice person. You are really doing a good job. You have touched my heart. Mmuuaahhh! 😘
*I THINK -*
*BEING SINGLE IS AN ANOTHER LEVEL OF SUCCESS*
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@@ujjawalv8248 ha 😂😂😂😂
@@ujjawalv8248 aa gye seeting karne aapna, itna lecture se kuch samjh nhi aaya
Exactly brother 😎
Absolutely true!!!
Breakup = The Greatest factor to start the journey towards Dream💯💯
yes...right
Yes👍
Makeup karo hi nahi Breakup karne ki naubat hi nahi ati😂
Khud breakup kerke dekho tab maja ayega
Absolutely right
First thing kisi ko kuch dikhane ke liye mat bano , Jo chhod ke Chala gaya just forget about them , na nafrat rakho na pyar rakho bas apne goal par focus Karo . Feelings he mat rakho life mein kisi ke liye except parents
Oye hoye.. Ladki badi ho gyi aaj😂
I feel the same
Ohh app bol rahe ho ki parents bohot ascha hain ... parents ke liye vi kai bar , musibat ho jate hain , ... khud ke liye parents bohot ascha hain ... lekin dusre ke liya , kabhi kavar bura vi ho sakta hain .... app aisa bolo ki selfish logo se dur banaye rakho ...
True..This is what I want to achieve in my life along with my career goal but can you please explain how to do it practically.
Ye kehna asaan h but jisko hota h na tab pta chalta h..
Mature Civil servant hats off to you sir🙏🙏
जो कुछ भी हुआ हमेशा एक सकारत्मक रुप से स्वीकार कर ये निर्णय ले की आपको दुखी करने का हक केवल आपको हैं
A break up in love is wake up in life...
Bahut ro Liya hai , bahut kuch khoya vi hai , kuch baki nahi hai, bas ab aur nahi .... Ab to mujhe wo din Lana hai jis din mere liye uske akhno mei ashnu na aye Sahi Lekin pachtana jarur hoga use mere liye . Fir vi khus rakhe khuda usko.
Ryt
Fr b khush rkhe khuda usko... Dil chu liya
@@PriyankaSingh-cg6lg shi kha bilkul
I cannot defeat in my life in any stage bcoz I feel very blessed that I have a mentor like you... U r my real hero Sir...Lots of love and respect to u Sir❤️
Thanks for your love & support.. I am always here for all of you.. my best wishes & blessings for you.. keep working hard 👍🏻💪🏻
Gaurav Kaushal thanku so much Sir feeling very blessed to get appreciation from u
If someone hurts you then God will definitely hurts them very badly...so please starts new journey and feels the beauty of life and nature...
*Be strong and chase your dreams even in a stronger way....*
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Remember: "मुश्किल वक्त, कमांडो सख्त..." 🔥
Ninja hathodi 😂😂
Stress door krne ki ninja technique...😄🔥
Good one😂👍
Muskil waqt mahakaal bhakt mast
Love this one 👍😅
World is a ruthless place so be ruthless over your emotions to survive .
We see the world as we are.
There is no one sitting there with an IAS tag to offer you with sympathy for you just because you had a mess in your life ....You have to earn everything ...Thats why world is ruthless.
So true..
Seriously...i think there are few human being alive in this world with good heart...🌟
Sab APNI Fav. Quote likh rhe.. 😂 😂 😂
As it is wisely said -
Either you Pay now and Play later,
Or Play now and Pay later.
Awasome sir, thank you so much for much needed motivation
The point is... Be like Sattu (Satyendra) of Shaadi me zarur aana.... All the Aarti Shuklas will surely regret Later... ;)
All the best everyone
Ma'am sorry to say this, but arthi Shukla did a right thing.. she is marring to a person who's mother asking dowry 4lack... It's better to leave such person.. but yes, she took this decision in very bad movement only this thing is acceptable.. but she did right thing.. Another one thing is I'm definitely agreed to you in sattu's matter..better to being sattu instead of devdass..
But if any girl who is arthi then she never going to have regration but any girl who is gold digger then surly she will regrate for what she did to a innocence decent person.😊
😀😀😀
Exactly 😂😂😂🤘🤘
Ryt!!
@@chaithraprabhu1610 no she was cheater use rukk bat krni chhiye thi satu se
Depression is not a choice. It is not temporary sadness that happens for a week and then go away. Depression is the State of mind when someone has lost his control over his mind. It needs medical and psychological help to recover. Taking advice and listening to someone only help when a person is not really depressed, instead he or she is just sad because of something. There is a thin line between sanity and insanity, and when you are depressed you have crossed that line long ago. Now you need help because you can't do much on your own.
So, I think people should see a doctor. if they need medication, they should get it. Along with medication, they must also acknowledge it deeply that their inner most is not strong enough, so they should work on that with help of spirituality, meditation and yoga. Even I have cured my depression with the help of meditation, I learnt it from a reputed place, but I believe if your condition is very bad then you should see a doctor first.
True
Yesss u are right..
Very true....
Agreed
Sir aapki ye line dil ko chhu gyi,,""ye yaad rkhna agr aap unsuccessfull hue ya fir kuchh ni kr paye to aap us insaan ko sahi feel kra rhe h jo aapko ek wqt me chhorkr chala gya".
1. Where your focus goes, Ur energy flows.
2. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Only can b transformed.
So use Ur energy wisely
Sir m jb depressed Hoti hu is reason s tbhi apki video sunti hu aake ..to Apne upr hassi aati h ....ki sch m hum kr kya rhe h ..ek boost up milta h
Guys both break up and start up during any exams are equally dangerous .....😂😂 one breaks up mentally in that moment while other will break u after some time mentally and physically...avoid these during any exam
Mera jo bhi time bechta hai wo to aapki video ur mahan gyan se mujhe mental fitness milti ur physical fitness to aapne bol bol ke kerwa diya sir. Main aap ke guidance me kai sari habits change kiye aur modify kiya.thank u .ur rehi baat life partner ki to mujhe koi saadi hi nahi kerni.
Last line is osm sir,, aapne sahi kaha chhd k jaane k baad toh aur zazba paid hona chaiye ke kuch krk dikhaye,,aaj k time pe aankh bnd krk kisi p bharosa maat kro na depends raho love me b ,be focus on ur careers banjaoge toh wahi banda aage se sochega mene kia khodia, khus raho storng raho,
25 August ko mera breakup hua aur 27 ko apki video mili.
Thank you for ur motivation.
Abhi smbhlna hai.
Thank you sir
Thank you sir .... I was going through anxiety, loneliness due to this coz my 6 year relationship was over ,...in next 4 months I have my examination .... I want to change this feeling of guilt pain sadness and anger so that I can focus on my goal and u helped alot ...♥️
How did your exams went?
' Giving up is the birth place of regrets ' .. b strong ✊✌
thank you gaurav ji. i am going through a similar phase in life feeling completely shattered. your video has given me some hope.
My dear friends, i want you to know that none wants to be around or in a relationship with hard workers...people only want a successful person. So it's not your fault, it's their problem and their lost. I lost mine just recently for i couldn't give much time for romance... there'll be lots just like me. I pray we'll get through this together.
Whosoever u r i connected with you babes, since so long i was mad about my relationship it affected me a lot, and i think he got overwhelmed when i used to share what i wanna do in my life.. he didnt wanna motivate me more.. or support me more i could sense that. I did breakup, todsy i met him to return his books n stuffs, and its just hard.. but thanks for ur comment 🙃
It is true... No one needs a true relationship...
In this video Every word has a great meaning..One word summarise for this video ~BE PRACTICAL~..... Salute Sir...Jay Hind
Tqsm sir for this video..
Due to the break up, I quit this year's prelims... which is held next month...
But I will definitely sit n plan for the next year...
I worked very hard for the last 10 months ...but these 3 months...I quit studying...I tried my best to study..but i couldn't..
you know main aaj jo phase m hoon I wish koi aise situation apne life m kbhi face na kare. I feel hopeless and helpless. Bachpan se chubby bcchi thi lai g mazak bnate the school m college m mera highest weight 100kg tak pohoch gya tha. Roz roti thi koshti thi apne aap ko ki mere saath hi aisa kiyu ho rha hain. Main kbhi ess waja se frnds nhi bna payi log mujhe bully krte the. Lekin phir ek aisa ladka aya mere life m jo mere weight ko lekr kbhi judge nhi kara. Mujhe laga etne saal lonely rehne ke baad finally koi mere life m aya jo shayad mere outer looks se nhi mujhse pyaar krta ho. But I get panic attacks now. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up. Aur wo ladki sb jnte huwe bhi mujhe gaali dekt block krdia. Aur us cheatet ke saath ab phirse relationship m hain. Enn logo ko koi regret nhi hain. Aur main yaha roz roti hoon.. Jeene ki jaise koi umeed hi nhi hain.
@@Msharma30 dont do that mate...1st accept that you r in pain.cuz jb tk accept nhi kroge tb tk move on nhi kr paoge....nd u r nt alone jiska breakup hua ho..mje to 5 yrs tk emotionally use kia gya...yha tk maine us ldki ki 3 baar shadi rukavi nhi to uski 21 yrs me hi ho jati shadi. nd opotunistic nikli or chli gyi . hr koi prblm me hai . just accept that pain.nd agr environment tmhe pain de rha hai or tm jhel le gyi to smjna vo tmhe khi bht aage le jana chahta hai.
same here spoorti a person left me for another person nd said u r nt able crack the exam in 2 yrs of prepration nd blamed me for nt giving clerical level examination which was nt accepted by me. she started ignored me from jan.nd finally on this holi she said i m going to engaged nd that person have 2 houses from which he earns lots of rent nd have agricultural land. she was with me since my graduation 2nd year. i was in so much pain as she treated me as an option from last 5 years. everytime she was left me for other guy nd when her marriage nt fixed she came back to me by saying i love u alot plz dont left me nd everytime i came in her excuses. but now when she finally left me i m in so much pain. dont know how anyone would be so opportunistic.
@@Msharma30 dear as ur last line ki unko regret nhi hai...uska ansr ye hai ki...kuch logo ko 2nd person ko pershan dekhkr bht accha feel hota hai cuz vo jante hain ki mere bina rh nhi skta. unke andr ka swabhaav hi aisa hota hai negative type. asise log kisi ki bhi life me jayenge use pain hi denge.accha hua vo chla hi gya 2hi yrs ka elation tha image kro aise ke sath agr 40-50 yrs rhne pd jate tb kya hota. u got a better one this time.
Sir apne Jo v tips Diya use Mai 2 saal se follow kr rhi hun khud ki understanding se but Mera break up nhi hua tha balki mujhe khud kisi se dur hona pda family ki Khushi k liye. I can't hurt my family so I'm hurting myself & also to him.😔😔
Chanakya of 20th century.
Salute sir
After getting successful in life i wil meet you(living Avatar)..
Sunkar achha laga...its hard to overcome but i will give my best
Needed this video. Watching for the 3rd time :) I will get over that person surely ✌🏻now I wanna be committed to my goals not to any human on this earth
Thank u sir. Such me kuch log 5 min ki bhi attention deserve nhi karte.
I UNDERSTAND EVERY SINGAL LINE
NO ONE IS WITH YOU IF YOU ARE NOTHING
SO FIRST ACHIEVE SUCCESS THAN ENTER IN RELATIONSHIP ETC..🙏🙏
Your videos always ease my pain🥺.. u r really a guardian angel to me. ❤️
Jai hind sir same mere saath bhi yahi hua infact sir log struggles mai saath nahi dete hain fir new excuses hote hain bla bla ,so I have just forget ,the show must go on ,Army officer bn na hai sir .I firmly believe in u sir ,Hope n confident sir mai jld hi apne aap or apko apne exam nikalne ki good news share karunga
Yes you will definitely make it 👍🏻👍🏻 my wishes & blessings for you 👍🏻
Sir maine jab se apake video dekhne shuru kiya hai tabase mera attitude hi change ho gaya hai life me... i am very positive about my life. Thank you so much sir from bottom of my heart🙏🙏🙏
I m single,simple ... Can't afford these things
Jaroorat bhi ni h😂😂
Pyar hona apne hath hota sir to kya bat thi...
Is video ko maine phle like kiya phir coment kr rha hu or ab dekhunga
Kyonki is video ki jaroort bhoot jyada hi thi but mai bol nhi paa rha tha mera break up to bhoot phle hi ho gya tha but preparation time pr uski yaad jaati hi
Single is a greatest blessing for me from God, hope it carry on for so long 😂
sir me engg background se hu same case hua tha mere sath.colg me .in 2016 but maine usae +ve point me liya becoz mere dil me aag lag gye uss tym par...maine bi thaan liya kuch karke hi dekhao ga uss girl ko.. ab 2019 me sir i have qualified railway J E exam..ab jab usae pta chle ga usko bhut regret hoga...galat kar diya mko chod kar...
mere jitne bi frnds jinke sath aise hua vo kabi akele feel na kre usko +ve point mann kar kuch krke dekhao...i think success is the best revenge of anything .👏👏👏
Great bro
Usko b koi na koi accha mil jayega yr...
Sub Ko koi na koi mil jata h
Tumko b mil jayega
@@kishangoyal8207 han but uske chod kar jane ke baad kbi kuch galt decision nhi liyaa....mil jaye toh bhut vadiya ha.bhai..no problm ab..
Sirji bhot bdia seekh dedi aapne aaj.
I can promise you that i am going to clear my both exams i.e. on 14th and 21st April. Along with that i am going to loose my weight as well ( as of now i have lost 7 kgs from 98 to 91 via HIIT and clean diet since Jan 19).
I can promise you i will come back to this comment and will update you with my results.
Jai Hind!!
Awsm session sir.. Things are very simple to understand but we are trapped in our own fantasies.... I hope this session will work out for our Indian youngsters...
And i hope the person who betrayed me, oneday will come across this message and realise what he had lost.
All the best
best part.......yad karna hi h to exercise time me kar lo.....bat to thik h😂
I wish I would have watched this video 5 years back so that I wouldn't have wasted my graduation years and have saved my 2 years of dropout.
I do not know...sir .... I am lucky not to have someone in my life as I know I am too emotional to hold all those things .....or I am in loss not to have BF ......Main apne junior's ke Rona dekh kar to soul tak dar 😨😱jaati thi ....but now after watching it I am sure about my confusion .🙏
All r fake in this world ...they just give u emotional pain nothing else ..so just give your 100% in your career ...
Eye opening session sir 🙏 har koi success chahta hai.girl ho ya boys.. love ka MATLAB hamesa kisi Ko pana nhi hota hai 🙏🙏mujhe to lagta hai sir ki ham log excuses banate h rather than focusing on our responsibilities.. thank you very much sir 🙏 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💞🙏
Jai Hind 👍🏻💪🏻
@@GauravKaushal thank you very much sir 🙏🙏🇮🇳 ap aise hi motivation dete rahiye..AJ morning m regular days se jyada exercise with higher intensity.uske bad jo Sukoon tha which cannot be expressed in words. I m thankful to God ki ap TH-cam par recommend vedio m aye ....ap jo work kar rhe h isse liye ap Ko Dil se Salam...I m trying to improve myself daily....with the due respect.. Love you 💖💖sir as an elder brother 🙏, motivator 👮...Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 one day I will definitely meet you as a government employee🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🏻🙏🏻👍👍
Thanku so much sir ....apke har words maine 10 times sune now Mai Puri tarike se apni studies pe concentrate karungi thanku so much for this video
Thank you so much sir. Working out for an hour had made me more confident and after gym and nutrition i feel more focused in studies. God bless you. From ASSAM❤
Sir...aaj hi mera breakup hua hai...aur mera upcoming exam UPSC EPFO hai...apka vedio dekhne k baad...mai confirm hu exam PASS kr lungi.... Thnks ❤😊❤😊❤
You are simply great SIR. Please continue to motivate us.
The fire that breakup ignites in you is of only a few days....but the fire that ignited with the purpose will remain till death
Some lines really hit me,because they are so relatable.I was wasting my time all these days being depressed but I understand now I have to do it and make him regret.
Thank you so much sir ji🙏
Yes me too i will take revenge on him by achieve IAS
I love 'you tube', because now i can hear the IAS officers , it was a dream For me before this. Thank you sir, you are so simple dawn to earth person . i like your fitness too.
Thank you sooo much sir,maii bhi fil haal esi situation se gujar raha tha,aur Etna depressed tha ki suicide krne vala tha,but mere friends ne muze samzaya aur jis ldki se love krta hu usse job hasil karke marriage krne ka solution dila,maine bhi job hasil karke marriage krne ka decision liya but study par focus nhi kar pa raha tha hmesha kuch na kuch thinking mind me shuru rhti thi ,but aapka ye video dekhne ke baad I'm feeling positive towards my aim,ab jab bhi mai low feel krunga aapka ye video fir se dekhunga, thank u sooo much sir for this help
TQ for supporting youngsters Like us...
We youngsters need someone to tell us what to do and what not to do..
Today I found out that my ex got married last November 2020 and now I am preparing myself for BCS (Bangladesh Civil Service) which might happen next July 2021. I don't know if I can manage to keep my head cool. Let's see!!
Saare lover aa gae comments me😂😂😂😂😂😂
u r also one of them.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Thank you so much for giving me a wonderful session ,sir ab zindagi m bht bada kuch achieve krni h ,ye time avi aise character ko play krne ka h jisse main apna aapko ek best place de saku is world main .
Sir always rocks with great words
Thank you so much sir for providing us this beneficial session. ♥️
आग लगे बस्ती मे और हम हमारी मस्ती मे...
#CELIBACY IS THE PATH OF LIFE .
Tnq so much... for showing the path.. i am a changed person after watching ur videos....
Watching this two months before prelims
I m also depressed. Tomorrow is my exam and i m here to know how to overcome. How to forget her..
Really i m cheating myself. I m not going to luv anyone again.
Thank you so much sir..
Ravikant Dubey sme to you...plz suggest how to overcome as you do
Bro... Accept the situatn n move on... Jb ap situatns ko accept krna or kisi s axpect krna chod doge... Apki life ezy ho jaegi.... Ye chije hme strong bnati h... Ye smj kr agee bdho
@@PriyankaSingh-cg6lg vippasana mediation karo bhai sach mein sab kuch aacha ho jayega jab app apne dard ko dekhoge dard appne app chala jayega
Bs ye socho aaj se 6 mahine bad kuch matter nahi krega, you will cry hard, you will be depressed and you have to go through that coz you loved them so just think this will hardly matter in coming 6 months or 1 year.
Sir i don't know you but you're really an altruistic person I appreciate your way of handling things. I wish I will work being a government subordinate of yours.. salute you sir👍
You will work at a great position.. Keep working hard 👍🏻
Sir u r a genuine mentor ,youtube par bhut saari vdo mil jayengi is matter pr but aaap always dil se baat krte ho not only this topic but also all others topic ,thanks a lot 🙏 , baise mera aisa koi matter nhi hai love life type but fir bhi mai is topic pr apko sunna chahta tha 😄 ,and i will try my best to give u a good news after prelims ☺️
Library m hu or usne mujhe abuses kiya nd mera bilkul padhi ka mn ni ho rha tha mai bht ro rhi thi washroom m jakr nd jb fir library ayi to apki video dekhi thanku ❤
Right sir, time hi nhi bachta👍👍👍
Waah Sir...u have told everything in a short video
Sir, whenever I start studying my mind always goes there! All of a sudden I start missing her so deeply and this makes me feel weak
Same here
Same here but u have to recoll the thing's how he hurt u and he how make u cry he kills urs smile Just recoll the pain given by him then u will goning to forget him 👍
Same here ..but when I feel a closer feeling with him ..I put the earphone ..start listening ..motivational song ..
Jo janatha oo bhaggeya acha hua abb thumare pass new opportunity he tum 1st carrier banao. Ladki kya ladki baap maa ayege, Or 1st tum woo tention se bahar anaa heto gym exercise yoga karna padega, 21 din ke bad sab change ho jayega. Ea mera bada,, no time waste and welcome you new happy life, (( mera bat achha laga too please replay)) by 🏃♀️
@@anandaryavaibhav1850 in my case it's she!
Thanku so much sir
Aap ne sahi disha di hai muje
Thanku so much sir muje or meri life ko bachne kai liyi
Thanku sir thanku👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😊😊😊👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉🎉👍👍👍👍
When we are in relationship we lost a real enjoyment of life so being a single
Nice motivated video 👍👍👍
One thing love doesn't exist it's utopia..and if there lies your goal you will wake up so self mentoring is what one should do. When we heal ourselves post death of near ones..break up pain is lesser than that. Being emotionally sensitive soul can empathize how negatively it takes a toll but one has to let to go it take days or years to evolve so curb your feelings and just go ahead. Should be mantra.
To everyone who are facing this, just listen this if you had a breakup recently it means you still have more than millions of options just one is reduced from that. Stay focused everyone, build yourself physically and mentally. Be a warrior chill at your life and study consistently.
Love my goal only and focus for UPSC 2023 sir
Thanks sir..
We people are really facing this problem
Thankxx for motivating ..
Yehhhh... Sir me doctor ban ke aapse jrur milne aauga... Because aapne mere ko bhut sahi time pr vaps motivate kr diya hi😊
Best Wishes 👍🏻
Very relevant topic...👍Thank u Sir
Crisp and clear... thank u sir...
A big THANK YOU for this video. I was really in need of it. You are really such a nice person. You are really doing a good job. You have touched my heart. Mmuuaahhh! 😘
Thank you Sir... Needed this at this point of time in my life.
Apki hr baate 101% right h sr thnku
Best wishes 👍🏻
@@GauravKaushal 😀😀
Sir aap aache civil servant tho ho hi par aap bhut aache motivation speaker bhi ho you have many talents....
Thanks for appreciating 🙏🏻
Thanks sir for taking initiative by discussing on this topic..because such emotions may hinder our progress
Jab jao tak savera im in new awatar now tnx sir love u
Thanks for your love & support 🙏🏻
So humble u r sir..btw thankx for d lesson ...really needed this type of motivation. .u r amazing...
Sir I'm also not concentrate on my study thanks sir ap bhut ache ho iss topic par video bnyaa
Thank you soo much sir... Aaj k din mujhe yeh motivation k bhaut zarurt the.. Thank you soo much sir ...thanks🙏
Thank u sir 🤗 usko yad karna hi Nhi hai Kbi bi
I agree with you! Much needed !
Thanku sir
I needed this..
I m going through this situation
Great person in the world sir
Great video sir 💯
Wah..thanku so much sir...👌👌👌👌❤️❤️❤️