I've appeared UPSC interviews thrice. Left preparation now. The most important factor in my failure is the distraction caused by relationship. Not blaming anyone here, but building a relationship takes lot of energy, efforts. A failed relationship can crush your soul for a long time. *My elderly advice to young aspirants: AVOID this as far as you can. Control your love hormones. Be very firm about this. Because once get into it, the return is very difficult. Those who are already in relationship, please build trust, understand each other's space. Follow Bhagavadgita, for it can give you the necessary clarity, if ever you face a break-up! Take care.
I have not expected such kind of maturity from a upsc teacher, after seeing vikas and ojha videos of promoting nibba nibbi culture, this kind of thoughts are really appreciable mam said correct.. even khan sir enllight students always about focusing on goal more instead of doing such nibba nibbi stufff....
You can't say that boys distract you.... You can have boys as friends instead of completely keeping distance from that... This proves that you are afraid that if u make boys as friends you may Fall in love with them.. Am I correct?
Don't know how ..people nowadays ridiculously connect upsc and break ups..as if upsc is the medium of taking revenge from their ex...they even are unable to realize the significance and responsibilities associated with the post
Y❤ I define love as three thing's (1) it's when you like someone's personality (2)it when you respect their values and(3) when you want to commit to healping then achieve their goals that is love in action, that's love in practice, that's love in reality I believe in balance between both ❤+📕
BROTHER I THINK SOME OF THE PEOPLE GO TO MUKHERJEE NAGAR AND ORN ONLY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP INSTEAD OF SAYING THAT DIRECTLY THEY USE THE TERM UPSC PREPARATION
If u r a player before your preparation then u can handle the relations during prep.. But if u r new the u r going to definately waste your time and emotions
Teachers to aur bhi hai, but the main reason is deep knowledge and abilities to share that knowledge in very simple terms with story or examples so that a small child can understand very easily. I think 🤔...I love to listen to him
My ex gf broke up with me 7 months ago. But I still think about her. And I am now preparing for UPSC CDSE. This break up effects badly in my preperation a lot
Exactly mam u r right kb kon chala jaye koi bharosha nhi hai....😂😂Maine isse 1 week pehle hi dekha hai 😢main aur depression me jane wali thi ak to pdhai ka ka tension 😂
To all my brothers preparing for upsc or state pcs , do not watch these videos , it's a trap . They have reduced the vacancy and now they don't want us to even prepare for what we want . What they want us is to work for those corporates for 20-30k per month or better sell pakodas . Brothers work hard and crack this exam or any other govt exam. All the best . Stay motivated . If they don't want to give jobs we don't want to give votes then , enjoy your time happily in a hung parliament , the way we perished without jobs from last 10 years let you too perish without mandate .
bro after reading what you have written I am literally laughing.... it means gov should make every one IAS so that all of them caste vote,,, any way best of luck stay motivated...
@@mahapatra4851 oh Sorry madam. I thought you are from odisha. Cause in my odisha max people are with Mohapatra surname. Actually mere bhabi v Mohapatra surname ke he. So me socha aap Odisha se ho. Sorry for the misunderstanding 😇
But there're couple not only in upsc preparations but of other competative exams too who succeed together and get success together . It depends on how you choose your partner.😅
Celibacy is only key to success not relationship in the time of preparation because semen power is most strongest Power in the time of relationship semen loss process increases due to which your failure percentage also increase
First thing that distraction is just a game of mind ... Secondly , this hype of sacrifice. Yess upsc requires sacrifices.. But a lot of people who fail in exam blame it on their relationship because of their inability to handle things .. And these are mostly men ... And if u are witha person who values u more than just being an aspirant of upsc ... That means they value you as a person and look at you more broadly.... What these single minded people end up like Abhilash and sandeep bhaiya .... Witha lot of regrets ... I have read the stories of people who are highly successful and know how to balance and use energies .. Highly boxical advise
My Views if u r Preparing fr UPSC plz Avoid Relationships Bcz If a Boy Qualify IAS not Girl thn Boy Always Support But But But But, If a Girl Qualified IAS not a Boy Thn Girl Betrayed Tht Boy it's a 100% Truth, Specially Guys Love Urself ur GF is Only n Only UPSC Bcz Girls have many Options but We don't Have
I don't know why people don't read kamasutra when it is FREELY available on GOVT website. And these same upsc aspirants give advise to every body to follow govt sources. Hypocrisy at it peak.
Boys should avoid relationship because if boy not get selected most probably he loose his love as well because girl left boys if he not succeed but if girl not slected then chances of betrayed is negligible boy still love her
@@gamingverse7292 for girls boys money matter thats why they leave him in struggling time and about girls beauty so girls look beautiful bwcause of makeup 🤣if they see original face then he would not come in relationship and for girls also physical appearance matter like height , body, good looks i mean gilrs want all in one along with money, but money is her periority thats why for girls age of 20-40 can marry with 70 year old guy as well🤣#gold digger woman (modern woman)
@@Msharma30Exactly I agree with Madam. Even 12th fail mai v Pandey name ka Character Manoj ko bola tha ki ladki khud selection lekar chali jayegi par tum ehi reha jaoge.
She is there for a reason and u r where u r.....she is a professor of Delhi University one of the top colleges in India .... Also she is a professional debater and has won almost 500 debates at various level....
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I've appeared UPSC interviews thrice. Left preparation now.
The most important factor in my failure is the distraction caused by relationship.
Not blaming anyone here, but building a relationship takes lot of energy, efforts.
A failed relationship can crush your soul for a long time.
*My elderly advice to young aspirants: AVOID this as far as you can. Control your love hormones. Be very firm about this. Because once get into it, the return is very difficult.
Those who are already in relationship, please build trust, understand each other's space. Follow Bhagavadgita, for it can give you the necessary clarity, if ever you face a break-up!
Take care.
Umpteen Thanks for your advice.
Bro can i contact you. Actually I need your help bro. Jo personal me keh skta hu so. Can i contact you??🙂
Behti ganga mein haath dho raha bhai 😂😂@@Inspectorakvlogs
@@yourbro454 qn ky hogya aisa.. .
Still following a religion in 21st century
That's enough to say you are a failure
Don't blame a woman for everything
Tq so much .
It helps me more
She was speaking 100% pure fact and reality, Totally agree with Ma'am
I have not expected such kind of maturity from a upsc teacher, after seeing vikas and ojha videos of promoting nibba nibbi culture, this kind of thoughts are really appreciable mam said correct.. even khan sir enllight students always about focusing on goal more instead of doing such nibba nibbi stufff....
A person who is always there with you and knows your emotions is amazing during the ups and downs of the preparation 😊
@@Aspire_Wings 😂😂😂
Her CLARITY of thought is as clear as her skin
Avoide it now so that no one shall avoide u later
Exactly 🙌
If you read the 12th fail,Manoj sharma got failed in 2nd attempt due to chasing for love.
Yes it is not possible to be in a relationship while you are preparing for upsc.
12th fail has romanticized it.
Avoid hoti hai ... avoide nahi
What a comment.. wahhhh 💥
I go to library ,I've a rule ,not to talk to boys. Itz been 2 months ,and I've only female friends. Itz a great funda to focus on ur studies.
You can't say that boys distract you.... You can have boys as friends instead of completely keeping distance from that... This proves that you are afraid that if u make boys as friends you may Fall in love with them.. Am I correct?
Are u in orn too?
@@Mirror9191 what??
I'm not.... I'm still in Kerala 😂
Lesbian?
I also feel she is right
She is absolutely right
Depends on level of maturity. Right kind of person can bring best out of you 😊
Mam apki thought bilkul realistic h❤thank u
Don't know how ..people nowadays ridiculously connect upsc and break ups..as if upsc is the medium of taking revenge from their ex...they even are unable to realize the significance and responsibilities associated with the post
Bcz of movies like shaadi me jaroor aana ,aur royal entry videos...
Relationship is possible and successful for extraordinary people in preparation but im a ordinary student so i will avoid it
Y❤
I define love as three thing's (1) it's when you like someone's personality (2)it when you respect their values and(3) when you want to commit to healping then achieve their goals that is love in action, that's love in practice, that's love in reality
I believe in balance between both ❤+📕
Most students in orn are more interested in relationship than studies
Ha bhai mene dekha 😂
Me tha karol bagh me ... Jta tha orn ghumne aur park me bhi 😂
BROTHER I THINK SOME OF THE PEOPLE GO TO MUKHERJEE NAGAR AND ORN ONLY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP INSTEAD OF SAYING THAT DIRECTLY THEY USE THE TERM UPSC PREPARATION
Specially boys
Not true for everyone
@@WandaVision19 for most yes
She is completely right
simple se baat hai jeevan me kuch nahi bane to kuch nahi milne vala hai.....
Thank u very much sir , ma'am for this video,i had a doubt about relationship and UPSC,now it has cleared ❤❤
If u r a player before your preparation then u can handle the relations during prep.. But if u r new the u r going to definately waste your time and emotions
Teachers to aur bhi hai, but the main reason is deep knowledge and abilities to share that knowledge in very simple terms with story or examples so that a small child can understand very easily. I think 🤔...I love to listen to him
Yes ma'am you are absolutely right no relationship no love no depression 😐
100% correct Ma'am.
She is right.
Ex:- Collector Shahiba( Angel)
Wo fictional book h
@@NishantKumar-yk6yznhi wo sab shi h
@@pushpabishnoi2403 kisne bola Maine to khud interview me dekha hai or book me bhi likha hai fictional book hai
Kuch dialogue bohot achhe hai book mein🙂
Well said 👏❤
What a amazing clarity of thought¡Thank your raj for bringing maam to podcast
Pls translate in english bro
I like her thoughts super❤ she is really very mature ❤ salute to such beautiful and positive personality ❤
Thank you so much
Great ❤
Sir please add English subtitles
My ex gf broke up with me 7 months ago. But I still think about her. And I am now preparing for UPSC CDSE. This break up effects badly in my preperation a lot
Bhai intkam dekhegi wala ganna suno daily subh sham 😂
😂😂@@DevaJangid_
@@DevaJangid_😂😂
@@DevaJangid_bhaii suggestion to sahi di hai aap ne 😊😊
Kisi ka break up majak na banau bhai , mentality physically bhoot hi painful hain@@DevaJangid_
Can you provide English subtitles please , so that non-hindians could understand, and intake the whole content
She is right ...i am facing it...
Same
Exactly mam u r right kb kon chala jaye koi bharosha nhi hai....😂😂Maine isse 1 week pehle hi dekha hai 😢main aur depression me jane wali thi ak to pdhai ka ka tension 😂
Dhanyavad 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Choti bandne wala Ishwarchandra Vidhyasagar the Bengal se ❤
Exactly 💯
भैया और लाए upsc पर वीडियो, लाखो upsc aspirants wait कर रहे है
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Plz call Dr. Vikas Divyakirti Sir ..
Exception is not a rule
Right ❤
Mam is right logically
To all my brothers preparing for upsc or state pcs , do not watch these videos , it's a trap . They have reduced the vacancy and now they don't want us to even prepare for what we want . What they want us is to work for those corporates for 20-30k per month or better sell pakodas .
Brothers work hard and crack this exam or any other govt exam. All the best . Stay motivated .
If they don't want to give jobs we don't want to give votes then , enjoy your time happily in a hung parliament , the way we perished without jobs from last 10 years let you too perish without mandate .
bro after reading what you have written I am literally laughing.... it means gov should make every one IAS so that all of them caste vote,,, any way best of luck stay motivated...
Wo Bengal ki pride haa Isharchanda Vidyasagar ❤
Pride*
Pride হবে
Thik bolecho
@@iamShuvam 🥲 arey it's okay na...meaning bujhlei holo...
@@Mishti-ni8sv হা
That person was not any Rishi... He was Iswarchandra vidyasagar
He was not a student Mam, He is Ishwarchandra Vidyasagar .
That rishi is Ishwarchandra Vidyasagar by whose effort widow remarriage act, 1856 was passed.
Thanks for the knowledge sister. And i think you are From odisha. Right. (Just for your surname i said
I am from that rishi's district Paschim Medinipur, West Bengal.
@@mahapatra4851 oh Sorry madam. I thought you are from odisha. Cause in my odisha max people are with Mohapatra surname. Actually mere bhabi v Mohapatra surname ke he. So me socha aap Odisha se ho. Sorry for the misunderstanding 😇
Such a great person he is 😊
@@Inspectorakvlogs koi baat nahi 🙂
But there're couple not only in upsc preparations but of other competative exams too who succeed together and get success together . It depends on how you choose your partner.😅
1 percent ki baat nahi hori aur probablity of you being in 1percent is even less lol
Mera vala / vali alag hai.. 😂😂😂😂 yahi khna hai kya .... Sabka katega ....
@@nodeofranvier222 are you from survey of India ?? Cuz you've mentioned that 1 % or even less ??
@@factsandgk6412 soch kr hi yahi chaloge to definitely katega bhai 😂
@@vidushisingh6494aap ka jab kateega tb pata chaleega ......😅😅
After my study hour i play game on pc. For 2-3 hour its ok ?????
Celibacy is only key to success not relationship in the time of preparation because semen power is most strongest Power in the time of relationship semen loss process increases due to which your failure percentage also increase
First thing that distraction is just a game of mind ...
Secondly , this hype of sacrifice.
Yess upsc requires sacrifices..
But a lot of people who fail in exam blame it on their relationship because of their inability to handle things ..
And these are mostly men ...
And if u are witha person who values u more than just being an aspirant of upsc ...
That means they value you as a person and look at you more broadly....
What these single minded people end up like
Abhilash and sandeep bhaiya ....
Witha lot of regrets ...
I have read the stories of people who are highly successful and know how to balance and use energies ..
Highly boxical advise
Can u explain it in detail .
Or are u in a good relationship
She says the truth 😊😅
Fact to yahi ye ma'am sahi bol Rahi he
101%true
Thats what reality shows in the kota factory season 3
Her voice is so awesome ❤
She is absolutely correct❤
He was Ishwarchandra Vidyasagar.
Like dr gitendra singh and Ma'am of biomentors
100℅ agree hu mai.
I also want to crack upsc for love
My Views if u r Preparing fr UPSC plz Avoid Relationships Bcz If a Boy Qualify IAS not Girl thn Boy Always Support But But But But, If a Girl Qualified IAS not a Boy Thn Girl Betrayed Tht Boy it's a 100% Truth, Specially Guys Love Urself ur GF is Only n Only UPSC Bcz Girls have many Options but We don't Have
It' is billion like questions and answers 🎉 Mam
Sir , where I can meet you ?
Sir Please add English subtitles 😢
ऋषि वाला example बड़ा unique हैं❤ !!
Bhoot khub ma'am
She is right❤
It was Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar who tied a bit of his hair to the lamp post.
Hello Madam, aap jaisi behen har ek bhai ko hona chahiye....yehi meri dua hai....
100%True mam
Right mam ❤❤
I don't know why people don't read kamasutra when it is FREELY available on GOVT website. And these same upsc aspirants give advise to every body to follow govt sources. Hypocrisy at it peak.
Boys should avoid relationship because if boy not get selected most probably he loose his love as well because girl left boys if he not succeed but if girl not slected then chances of betrayed is negligible boy still love her
Because for girls it's stability matters and for boys it's beauty matters
😂😂😂
@@gamingverse7292 for girls boys money matter thats why they leave him in struggling time and about girls beauty so girls look beautiful bwcause of makeup 🤣if they see original face then he would not come in relationship and for girls also physical appearance matter like height , body, good looks i mean gilrs want all in one along with money, but money is her periority thats why for girls age of 20-40 can marry with 70 year old guy as well🤣#gold digger woman (modern woman)
Basically goal is more important than a hole🤞
তিনি ঈশ্বরচন্দ্র বিদ্যসাগর।।
Sb dhokha hai.....Sirf padho likho....
TRUE
UPSC tough selection clear karke bhi corrupt bad politician ki under hi kaam karna hain karke bhi kya faida
Agree
Companion chapri hua to ias k journey m lode lag jayge 😢
Mam Maine Dekhi hai photo
💯
Neet ki taiyari bhi akele he karni hai
We want dr . Vikas Divya kirti sir.
Mam, my bf left me before 7 days of prelims😭
Sorry bro. Tc.
Tum date kase karlete ho yaar humare toh ghar wale he nahi jane dete kahi😂😂😂
Ryt 😂😂😂😂@@rajarambhadana6294
That person was Iswar Chandra Vidyasagar. That is why he is called VIDYASAGAR, because of his dedication to gain knowledge and wisdom ❤
voice out of sync
Khud ne kya kiya tha ye btao😂😂
Doosre ko gyan do khud kuch aur kro
Ex कलेक्टर साहिबा ( एंजेल)
लेखक एवं प्रेमी - कैलाश Manju विश्नोई
yaarr
I have crush on the whole world, not on any boy... I am 24 year old I don't believe on any one specially boys ✌️✌️✌️✌️.......
But in dp you are posting a boy picture.
What a Hypocrisy
I'm not interested in upsc 😂 to phir -ma'am ko dekhne aaya hu
Don't sacrifice your relationship for this fraud exam
yeh madam kaun hai ?kaha ka product h?
Madam. Ap jaise cute lady ko dekh lenge to kaise relationship me ane ka Mann nhi karega.😬
Be goal digger
U get what u focus on ⛰️
मुझे तो मैम से प्यार हो गया 😍😘😘😘
A wise man said a successful man either have a supportive partner or no partner at all
HaS she prepared for UPSC ? NO
She is not even a UPSC Teacher
She just take interviews
A complete misleading idea about UPSC Preparation
Tum nibba nibbi hi krte rhe joage mam bilkul shi bol rhi h
@@Msharma30Exactly I agree with Madam. Even 12th fail mai v Pandey name ka Character Manoj ko bola tha ki ladki khud selection lekar chali jayegi par tum ehi reha jaoge.
She is there for a reason and u r where u r.....she is a professor of Delhi University one of the top colleges in India .... Also she is a professional debater and has won almost 500 debates at various level....
@@vshiiq Exactly Bro. Lot's of respect for Madam 🙏🏻
She is not a professor. Just an ad- hoc ( contract basis ) Assistant Professor
I like her thoughts super❤ she is really very mature ❤ salute to such beautiful and positive personality ❤
Sir , where I can meet you ?