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  • Hey guys! In today's video I am doing a question and answer session with my husband Trey! It has been a while since we have done a video together and we are answering all of your questions! Thanks so much for watching!
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  • @judirosadowood1243
    @judirosadowood1243 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    It’s so refreshing to see a healthy couple being honest about what marriage is like! Thanks for sharing. Also, your husband’s commentary was hilarious.

  • @TheDiligentMama
    @TheDiligentMama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you for answering my question! Although coaching is stressful on the family at times - I want to encourage our husbands that they are doing such an honorable job molding GOOD characters into young men of our future! Prayers for both our husbands 🙏🏽🤍

  • @priscillabohn4621
    @priscillabohn4621 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    got married at 20 years old hubby was 24 and we were poor college students had a baby quickly married 44 years this year. You will have your ups and downs but You both are so grounded and adorable. You can love your spouse but sometimes don't like them feelings come and go so you gotta hang onto the truth you love each other.

  • @kristinlarsen7263
    @kristinlarsen7263 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Loved watching! Your happiness is glowing when you’re with your husband!

  • @angiesaenz-valencia8343
    @angiesaenz-valencia8343 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Marriage is absolutely a choice, but it can also be such a blessing from God and you both have that. It’s not easy, it isn’t ever fair, but you have a partner to go through life with. God bless your marriage and family. Thank you for sharing your life with us and all of the great content you put out every week. ❤

  • @joprado3835
    @joprado3835 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great description of married life from Trey, he’s absolutely correct. Marriage and family take you through many phases and being a team is what it’s all about.

  • @rebekagoodmanson8004
    @rebekagoodmanson8004 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    That was awesome! It's fun to sometimes get a glimpse of the relationship. Love the authenticity and genuineness in in your videos.

  • @tammifields4142
    @tammifields4142 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was such a Pleasure to watch!🙏🤗🙏 You two are very Intelligent,Well Spoken and Genuine 😊 wishing you many more years of Marriage!!💕🩷💕 Love your Chemistry and Honesty!🫶💪🫶

  • @tarrynpitts6538
    @tarrynpitts6538 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I loved the marriage answers! I was reading a book recently that was describing marriage as not just a feeling of love but you are choosing to love that person everyday. And that person changes over time, we suffer, we go through difficulties, these things change you, we all evolve....and you choose to love your spouse everyday. Growing with each other and as individuals. It's a beautiful testimony of a love that will be a great love story when you are old and grey 💖 as always, love your videos ❤️ 🙌

    • @junec.rodriguez1115
      @junec.rodriguez1115 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing

  • @9001012
    @9001012 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Loved your video. The kids are getting so big !! Trey should watch your videos, they are testament of how much you work and how difficult it is to stay on top of things.

  • @mexicancookingwithgaby6589
    @mexicancookingwithgaby6589 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video. It was so cool to hear how much he loves you!❤ I married young as well I was 20 years old. And we have 4 kids. Been married for 22 years and still so much in love with my hubby. Prioritize your dates those are very important!!!

  • @mom2blessings_sadie
    @mom2blessings_sadie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Being home for your children as much as possible is so bibical lots of evidence thay shows much benefit to husband and children , but I also think it's definitely os a decision each individual needs to make based on circumstances. I have 8 and have tried to always be a sahm to be able to be available as much as possible but mostly it was God who helped us make the decision but many women need to work which is understandable as well. God bless ❤

  • @Jesusistheloveofmylife
    @Jesusistheloveofmylife 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great video!! Age 3 was my favorite for both my kids. Age 6 has been the hardest for me. Excited to get married and do things God's way this time around. Love the realistic view. Cute family pic. Also patience has been hard for me as well. Really diving into the Bible and asking God to help me love more and have His peace on me when stressful days come. Spending that quality time with them even if it's only 10 minutes I notice really "fills their bucket" and helps them behave better. Thank you for all your videos, especially the budget kids friendly meals & family vlog ones they really help me and I enjoy them.

  • @amandaj579
    @amandaj579 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was great, I loved hearing from Trey too since we don’t get to see him often. ❤

  • @terrichinrock8866
    @terrichinrock8866 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I loved this video. Like your other videos you are candid about the hard things but it’s obvious that your focus is on the longstanding impact that a faith based family will have on your future. As a 59 year old woman I can still remember the crazy days of staying home with children. My husband also had a highly demanding job that left him with little time but he made sure to spend all that time with us. We camped our entire lives together. First as a couple on the back of a motorcycle, then as a family with a travel trailer and now we travel full time in an RV (sometimes with our two grandchildren). All this to say - keep focusing on the relationship with your husband and in a short time you will have the opportunity to enjoy the trips and leisure while reminiscing about those “crazy days” 😊

  • @savanah1407
    @savanah1407 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing! I’m sure it must be extremely tough at times and I’m not telling you something you don’t know-but these are the good days you’ll miss. Speaking as the mother of a teen. ❤

  • @luella2897
    @luella2897 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this Q & A, cause it shows that you are both nice and "normal" people and parents!! That is a compliment! Really enjoyed "meeting" your husband.

  • @russlaur5786
    @russlaur5786 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this video…real life and great parents. ❤❤ keep up the great work!

  • @Nona0510lary
    @Nona0510lary 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So amazing your relationship! Thanks for sharing

  • @kkcm53
    @kkcm53 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤Aww, thanks for doing this, Trey! Y'all are just the sweetest! I married when I was 20 and hubby was 21. We had 3 children. Love is a feeling, but always a choice is so true❤God Bless ❤️

  • @brandibrockway5002
    @brandibrockway5002 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was hands down the best husband and wife interview I have seen. I loved how you were truthful and real. You are correct that marriage is tough and you need someone that will fight the fight with you. None of us are perfect Abby, lol I may or may not up have thrown something at my husband lol.

  • @beckyatkinson7283
    @beckyatkinson7283 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys balance each other well!

  • @laurenv.165
    @laurenv.165 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trey is Matt Saracen vibes and I’m here for it.

  • @josephl.7
    @josephl.7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was good to see her we her family camping

  • @gailjackson4923
    @gailjackson4923 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved it! Thanks Abby and Trey. ❤

  • @shawnsmith3335
    @shawnsmith3335 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a really good video, and you two complement each other well. One piece of advice. I heard you say a couple of times "We will do that when the kids get older." Not trying to be negative, but tomorrow is promised to no one. Do as much as you possibly can NOW. Certain things may come easier when the kids get older, but there is no guarantee you'll get the chance.

  • @adventureswithlola5330
    @adventureswithlola5330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really enjoyed this video! 😊

  • @bigal4101985
    @bigal4101985 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate all the honesty. It's one of the reasons I've followed you for the past 3/4 years.

  • @Kit_and_audie
    @Kit_and_audie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The most realistic interview lol!! I feel both yall. Yall are doin great. Keep it going ❤

  • @susannsmith690
    @susannsmith690 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved that you guys did this video. Trey isn’t in them often and it was nice to see you interact with each other. You see definitely see the love is still there between you both. 💗

  • @pamelasanders5657
    @pamelasanders5657 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video! You all are a great team!

  • @glendaberka
    @glendaberka 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved the Q&A! Y’all are so cute together. Just love your little family!❤❤❤❤

  • @kcall526
    @kcall526 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a very sweet family! You both are doing an amazing job with your family!

  • @anne_cox
    @anne_cox 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this! Appreciate how honest and genuine you both are. I couldn't think of any good questions, but I love the ones you answered. I think we're close in age and also got married at a young age. Unfortunately we have quite a few close friends who are now divorced. It's so nice to see a couple our age with kids and it's evident your love for each other and how well of a team you are together. Blessings to you and your sweet family. ❤️

  • @amandaj1634
    @amandaj1634 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    From one coach’s wife to another, I totally feel you on getting frustrated, especially during football season. I, too, am like you. I think it is a totally normal feeling! I like to think of it as….if I can do this, I can do anything….

  • @annjohnson543
    @annjohnson543 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Speaking from experience, the adolescent and teen years CAN be difficult. They think they know EVERYTHING. Be prepared. LOL.

    • @JamieLC82
      @JamieLC82 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree

  • @lorimcmahan5683
    @lorimcmahan5683 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic! Enjoyed it.

  • @reginab6011
    @reginab6011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband and I will be married 25 years tomorrow! We each have our strengths, and we come together when we need to. We are an awesome team!!🤜🤛 Also, you can tell Trey is a coach he has that coach voice! 😊

  • @shellimorris1367
    @shellimorris1367 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how real and down to earth y’all are!

  • @sandrap3047
    @sandrap3047 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trey seems like a great husband! He’s a cutie too!

  • @laceyaguilar4651
    @laceyaguilar4651 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your hubby is a cutie and so are you! You guys are such a cute couple! :)

  • @Stellaperez658
    @Stellaperez658 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! You guys are never without your kids. It has to be hard! Thanks for taking the time.

  • @marisa5159
    @marisa5159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That is exaclty what I tell my husband and kids. When the kids are older, mom and dad will be getting a camper we can drive and travel everywhere. Those are our retirement goals. We are around the corner now...haha!! My younger one which is in 8th grade says...please take me with you...haha.

  • @krazymammaw3040
    @krazymammaw3040 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your love grows stronger as years go by it takes 2 to make a marriage work .talking everything out .we got married I was 15 10 days later 16 had baby at 16 I wouldn't change nothing we have been thru alot we grew up together we didn't stop we kept going we made it work and im still married to my husband of 42 yrs we have 3 kids and 9 grandchildren ..most if all my love grows stronger everyday. He is the my life besides my grandkids ❤

  • @shannonmills4042
    @shannonmills4042 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You both were great and realistic answering all of those questions. Marriage and kids are work.

  • @kristyandz
    @kristyandz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a sweet video really think your hubby is a gem y’all makes great team

  • @tmgreenawalt9554
    @tmgreenawalt9554 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish there was a ❤ button. This was great. Love all your videos!

  • @LornaRoberts11
    @LornaRoberts11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was fun to watch. Hope you do it again soon!

  • @edpugh4516
    @edpugh4516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are awsome.

  • @kathylabanca6534
    @kathylabanca6534 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a happy fun and loving couple and family! I enjoyed the Q&A very much ❤❤

  • @Trees_mountains_rivers
    @Trees_mountains_rivers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are so real! Refreshing!!

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me and my 1st husband had 4 kids together too... and he worked 2 jobs... and divorced me bc I stayed at home and didn't work !!!! Swear to God that was his reason bc I didn't work 😖

  • @dianabenefiel541
    @dianabenefiel541 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello you guys, thank you for being true to self. I married my high school sweetheart very young. We too had our children when we were young. Happy and sadly our youngest graduates this May 🎉....our goal is to visit every state in the country via RV and several places in the world. Hang in there you guys! Y'all are doing a good job and the time will come when you actually miss the stage you are in at this time. However, marriage is exactly everything you said. You look after one another always and work as a team.

  • @nikkiguida1986
    @nikkiguida1986 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are the cutest!! Love it😊

  • @bethanyg153
    @bethanyg153 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I stressed a little as a first time parent like when she got sick, but for the most part I was sleepy and bored and then life got faster when the second came along.

  • @megameg6038
    @megameg6038 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a fun video. Like Treys response to hate comments. 😂 Hope yall had a good time camping!

  • @brittanykeith9561
    @brittanykeith9561 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was adorable ❤ y'all are fun 🤩

  • @bethanyg153
    @bethanyg153 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a 13 and 14 year old and they still don’t just go lay down for bed. They have to have one last argument and string it out for 45 min, snack, drink, brush teeth, oh I forgot to do devotions, let me find my PE uniform, I have an assignment I forgot about. 😂

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Both husbands told me that love wasn't a factor in getting married. Boy-----I was a FOOL.....My Dad told me that before I got married the first time---He was as right as rain !!!

  • @bethburton1260
    @bethburton1260 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey there Abby! Love this!!

  • @lizphone3822
    @lizphone3822 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this!💕

  • @user-lp8im4nh6v
    @user-lp8im4nh6v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Road trip videos! Those would be great!

  • @maryfreese280
    @maryfreese280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice to meet your hubby you are a cute couple and a beautiful family 😊

  • @danellelarks5065
    @danellelarks5065 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love this video, thanks for sharing!

  • @Fawn62312
    @Fawn62312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trey is a gem! 😊

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My first husband I met in Junior High Sch. Got married at 19. Lasted only 6 yrs.

  • @paularussell7535
    @paularussell7535 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your family! Beautiful family!

  • @myrnatorres3120
    @myrnatorres3120 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My family and I did the dna ancestry and found out my grandma had an affair and my dad found out he had a different father. It was pretty crazy, we didn’t get the results till after my grandma passed away so he hasn’t gotten many answers about it. But when my husband saw all this go down he was like nope my family is not doing it lol! 😆 it is neat to see all the parts of the world your family came from though.

  • @reneerummage2467
    @reneerummage2467 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got married when I was 22 yrs old and still with him, with two girls. Been married for 28 yrs

  • @belindaroberts3090
    @belindaroberts3090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohmygosh. Yall are so cute together.

  • @user-nn2jq3fl6h
    @user-nn2jq3fl6h 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been married 43 years, three kids. My husband was in LE and was gone all the time. On 24 hour call back. It was hard,?I always said I was married but a single mom.!

  • @iww6994
    @iww6994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you both. I have watch you having 3 kids. How is life now? Greetings😉🌷

  • @user-pb6rl8tp9d
    @user-pb6rl8tp9d 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    good talk. real life. 🙏

  • @rachelbolick
    @rachelbolick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Friend, Happy Tuesday. I like a schedule job and knowing what I’m doing everyday as well. I’m a behavior technician so I like to know what clients I have each day and what times ahead of time but it’s not always possible. 😢❤ I’m glad that you are mostly similar with parenting styles because sometimes parents don’t agree and kids will pin them against their parents. 😮😢 Marriages are hard and it can be mental draining at times especially if you rush into marriage when neither one of you are ready and don’t have a plan like you guys have mentioned. I’m not going to lie I got married at 22 and I thought it would be easy but I was wrong and now me and my husband are separated. 😢❤

  • @crystaldon4995
    @crystaldon4995 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Teach your kids to be kind to special needs kids. My son has autism and is so social but doesn't know how to be. Even saying hi back or saying do you want to play with us even if they don't answer. Ty

  • @madikeck1029
    @madikeck1029 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes come visit Wyoming :)

  • @Gramaron1313
    @Gramaron1313 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow 20 is not young!!!🎉 I got married at 18 and we eloped 46 years ago.... 7 children 16 grandchildren ....the Lord has Blessed us so much!!!!❤ I wouldn't change a thing! The Lord is the main thing in our lives!!!❤ that's the most important!!! I believe in God our Father.... I Believe In Christ the son .... I believe in the Holy Spirit ....our God is three in one.... I believe in the resurrection that we will rise again..... I believe in Jesus... Amen !❤❤❤🎉

  • @ourtribbletribe
    @ourtribbletribe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks y'all!

  • @kaellyrab3338
    @kaellyrab3338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The older Trey gets the more he talks just like Uncle Pierce 🤣

  • @pattycorm
    @pattycorm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video!

  • @itsafamilything5872
    @itsafamilything5872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been 6 years married still feels like the first year lol 😂❤ (not easy street but i still love hin rhe same way ) also mom of 5 😂

  • @rebeccaweinstein6560
    @rebeccaweinstein6560 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    what are you eating?

  • @ter8330
    @ter8330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hubby seems so ez going!

  • @sarahg1735
    @sarahg1735 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was going to say wait until you have pre teens and teenagers. I would take a 3 year old anyday 😂😉

  • @tiajo44
    @tiajo44 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to go to Wyoming or Montana also

  • @Angela-xv6yf
    @Angela-xv6yf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ love this

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was given an allowance by my 1st husband. My 2nd husband Never worked So I had to get a job and I've had that job for the last 29 years.👍

    • @imaamericangirl1406
      @imaamericangirl1406 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry you have had a rough go of it with both your first and second marriages.

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have my Piggy in my home and I clean her room and litter box once a week.

  • @gracec8573
    @gracec8573 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohhh I feel you on the three year old
    Comment! Phewwww

  • @aprilknutson2809
    @aprilknutson2809 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree!! 3 year olds are HARD!!!

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im Hungarian, Irish and British 😁

  • @JamieLC82
    @JamieLC82 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would never think you are a spender. 😂

  • @Rothbergor94
    @Rothbergor94 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️❤️

  • @kimpatterson8741
    @kimpatterson8741 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wha''cha all chompin On 🤔

  • @mrs.n.7314
    @mrs.n.7314 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @rebeccaweinstein6560
    @rebeccaweinstein6560 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trey is fine

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was married 2x--- 7 kids ltr....NEVER AGAIN 🤬 No Man gonna tell me how to act, think, or live my life 💪 ps. bad choices 😞

  • @PenelopePeppers
    @PenelopePeppers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hahaha----W A I T FOR IT !!!! TeenAgers.......W A I T FOR IT 😧😳😲😯 went thro that 6x .....still going threw that with my 32 old who's married 😫

  • @ktrayan1
    @ktrayan1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chickens really aren’t that much work.