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- What happened to girlhood? 10 year olds dominating Sephora & 12 year olds making thirst trap tiktoks are just a scratch to the surface.
The idolization of a romanticized "womanhood" is getting out of hand.
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What was YOUR childhood like?🧸 Also what do you think is happening to girlhood?
Heyy lol i luv ur vids idk u slay zoe
When I was 10 I was playing fairy and making mud potions
my ass was playing with barbies up until i was 12 😭 i had fun tho bc i didn’t feel pressured to grow quick like these lil kids
(I wanted to post it here idk where else i posted this lmaoooo )No idea what to tell you, when we we're kids like 10-13, me sister, and many girls on the street would go outside and steal our parent makeups lol. They would do a big gathering on the street, and the girls would start to make up each other, like very very red lip stick, and even puting birth mark like Marlyn xD, lmao, foundation was too expensive, so there was like 1 girl bring it ,and not even use it lots. The single different thing now is that those products are even more accesible for kids, and i don't think is that nice to be used by kids on a daily basist, but let's say if is for a joke, you can "close" eyes a bit of it, but still honestly, the world is so gone by now that i can't even tell what is right and wrong.
the first time *I* went to sephora was when i was 14 to get makeup for a school play 😭
The main problem is children are being sexualized on the Internet and nobody seems to think it’s wrong
Not just on the internet either. Don’t forget some middle and highschools allow girls to actually dress like this, meanwhile they dress code some guy for wearing a hat inside!
@@OmniNeon900 i've never heard of any middleschool or highschool allowing girls to dress like this, i've only heard the exact opposite. at my old school girls get dress-coded for showing your knees, while the boys could show their knees as much as they wanted.
@@3ylit4aa It’s the total opposite at my school, then again schools are different from state to state. My high school is a bit more liberal but overall centered. There are a few “cross dressers” but it’s not too conspicuous. It’s become a practical culture at my school for guys to rant about getting pulled aside in the hall for having their hood or hat on, meanwhile they just saw a girl with a bed hair scarf on. My redneckfriend got his cowboy hat taken away and at the same time I saw a girl with a bed scarf on. :/
A lot of girls at my school wear ripped jeans and sometimes the holes are not in the most appropriate places but the black guys get pulled aside for wearing dew rags. Earlier in the year girls were wearing long shirts and short shorts to look half naked and they’ve stopped that since it’s gotten cold but then it gets hot again and the cycle starts all over.
The only thing that people in general get dress coded for is wearing pajamas on non-spirit days or dragging their blankets with them across the halls.
The ratio might be equal with guys getting pulled over for hats and mostly girls for blankets/pajamas but there is never really a sensible reason like the clothing causing a distraction or having offensive words on it. (This is just my school btw)
@@OmniNeon900FR!!! Some girl gets to wear a shirt a pr0situte would wear while I get dress coded for wearing a dress??
@@3ylit4aaNow it's more like the schools stopped trying. It was 30 degrees outside and girls were in school with crop tops. I've seen guys with tank tops too.
The parents of these girls are at a huge fault here. No matter how much money they earn, they should not expose their kids to adult platforms.
Edit: not adult but social media platforms
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@user-ml2oq8et9q thats true also
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भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्गं मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु* .
@rainbowcake3254 I think what they meant is , there are already so many kids doing the trend already , school girls will expose it to your kid soon too. If you were to limit their social media or watch over their social media. Kids with other parents would still exist and be mean about it. When a trend occurs and if you have bad friends you will likely have kids be mean to you if you don't know it, I still recommend to watch over their media and not allow them to watch stuff like that but kids with bad parents are going to exist.
@user-ml2oq8et9q I went to school with mostly neglected rich girls who fell to trends, never had the urge to participate, cause my parents actually raised me.
It's not about the exposure to the fact of the trends happening, it's about the fact that these parents are buying skincare with the money that could be spent on activities for their child's intelectual development and self exploration. Which I assume they don't because a child given that wouldn't be obsessed with skincare to begin with
As a twelve year old, I'm fine with my lego, paper books, water skincare and fish necklace.
same
I mean, skincare's good for you. obvs not just the kind with 20 products that takes half an hour, but I'm trying to get into skincare to deal with acne and basically all the videos I've been binging for teen skincare and skincare in general just recommend a facial cleanser, some sort of moisturizer and sunscreen. this stuff is just crazy, and mostly marketing tactics. but yeah as a twelve-year-old? legit just remember to put on sunscreen when it's bright out and you're set, plus no-one even thinks of that as really a skincare thing, just a general health thing. what's a fish necklace tho that sounds cool.
Awesome! enjoy your childhood!!
A fish necklace?! It must be really cute
I made it because my older sister told me that fish bring luck (i was 4) so i made a fish necklace and she told me that if i took it off i would be dragged into the sea by fish while i was sleeping and that i would be drowned. I didn't take it off for a week, and as the autistic person that i am i now always wear it and it's a habit lol.
People nowadays act like being mature is based on how you look or dress, when in reality, maturity is based entirely on experience, worldview, and perspective.
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I’m mainly worried about online predators and grooming. Like no 13 year old should be posting “thirst traps”. And where tf are the parents!
And the 13 year olds that think it's cool that older guys are hitting on them
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भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्गं मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु* .
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
i saw a child doing that belt trend on tiktok. the comments were disturbing so i tried warning the kid but i got blocked.
Exactamundo!! They are gonna be the victims of human trafficking!!
that's just the death of childhood in general lmao
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Fr it's sad
@@zoeunlimited source: me (american sophomore in hs)
Seeing little kids throw away their youth when I was forced to grow up early is so sad and infuriating...
Boys do not have to deal with this. This has always been a misogynistic issue, and with the rampant misogny these days, it only makes sense that this iteration of the same problem is so much worse.
Im 14 and i still get excitement when going in a kids toy store. That is supposed to be normal😕
im also late gen z and own like 80 stuffed animals and personally i think we should normalize this and enjoying toys (^)
@@user3-tw8hm YES🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Same!
ikr i have obsessions for random things like ecosystems,mini things,space,nature .lol
I'm 16 about to turn 17 and I still get excited seeing stuff toys and toys that I used to play when I was younger.
I was a big ass tomboy at 10 and wanted all of the boys in my class to fear me so they wouldn't bully my friends 💀💀
Me too. Except all the boys wanted to be friends with me because I kicked there @ss in previous years.
thats actually so cute not even gonna lie
Same
That was 6 year old me because other girls wouldn't let me play with them anyway.
Did it work?
the saddest part is that these 8-14 year old girls have the most to lose and creepy men have the most to gain
I know, right? So much of body positivity is about exposing yourself, how attractive you are to others and all that. It should be about loving yourself despite all that. And then little girls so thirst traps online as the only form of confidence and beauty so then they do it too so that they can feel better about themselves.
It. Is. A. Trap.
Yup, it's so sad to see this happening.
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भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्गं मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु* .
@@ville__ cringe
I'm a 11 year old girl and ur so true we r pressured to stand out like pre teen r now 20 or 21
when I was 10... my favorite song was gangnam style and I thought that sephora was a hospital 💀
HELP I THOUGHT SEPHORA WAS A SINGER 😭
I didn’t even know Sephora existed XD
Same lol @@kcthefrogusedyt8319
I thought Sephora was a paint store 💀💀💀
I thought Sephora was like a giant choir 🥲
Truly it is on the parents. My younger sister did want makeup, but my parents told her she was WAY too young to wear actual makeup. Instead we bought a flip phone with a mirror and lip glosses from Claire's , and she loves it.
amazing move on the parents part there :D
my daily skincare routine:
water
soap (optional)
I have never stepped foot in a Sephora.
Mood. And I'm 21
pov: you're 20, can't process it and still feel like a 12 years old vs them acting like they are much older than you
Regret losing a huge chunk of childhood will sink in to them... I guarantee it. 😂 And then the parents will point fingers and say, well, you wanted it, you let it happen. "You" could be anyone in that argument.
I'm turning 24 this year and right now I'm watching Bluey and coloring an anime themed coloring book, feeling like I've never even grew up since I was 14... not sure if it's normal and adults (which, gosh, I am considered one) really are pretending that their lives are under their control like all the time or I truly haven't yet learned how to be mature :/
@@hipsta26please i turned 22 recently.. the best thing i´ve heard about adulthood the last few months was: "you´re 22.. you´re only a 1 year old adult, your whole life adhead of you, still learning so much, still having to learn so much."... i would never hold the same standards for a 3 year old than i would for a 13 or 23 year old, you shouldn´t either!
consuming things marketed towards or traditionally used by children does also not mean that you´re not mature. rather view it as taking care of your inner child, which almost every adult carries with them, but chooses to ignore.
i love childrens shows and colouring books and picking up little critters, inspecting them and showing them to my mom. i´m not immature for any of that, though some people might view it that way.
you´re good. you´re never alone. don´t worry.
I'm in my 30s and I dont remember ever acting like this at any age.
@@anticherries thank you for the kind words ❤️
I'm 16, and when I was 10, ALL I cared about was slime, fidget spinner, cat scraddle and my friends. I'm so grateful that I could enjoy childhood
i’m 16 and same i still played on the playground. i didn’t care how i looked.
I'm 16 and I still can't do makeup, I couldn't imagine doing it at 10
Literally same
I know this is gonna sound so dumb. But I love using makeup and skincare. (Im eleven this sounds terrible) But its good enough that I do understand its an issue and Im glad I didn't start using makeup till middle school. Also most of my makeup and stuff are received at chirstmas and other holidays and some random crap my mom doesn't want. Rarely am I ever getting anything that's not a gift or something kinda trash. I am grateful for it though and tbh I hate the big brands. Smaller drugstore brands are kind of better.
@@SmoochThePook It's okay to love makeup/skincare kiddo, but what's not okay is to get so into it, that you lose your childhood. So do what you love, but put on you skin just how much you need and not a whole adult routine as that's harmful for your and even my skin, since I'm just 16
As a twelve year old, I’m still sitting here making bracelets on my bed and building off-brand Lego sets.
for me im drawing and begging my parents for lps
Slay 😍
For me I was playing Roblox titanic
As a 13 year old in middle school, it’s not easy. I look much younger than my peers and I just seem behind trends when I stand next to them. I feel very ugly and I often forgot that my acne and growing body is normal. The “awkward teen stage” just isn’t a thing anymore and I feel like the only girl going through it. Bring back being an awkward teenage girl.
If you can’t tell me the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell you don’t need to wear $40 foundation.
True 😅
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Good one 😂😂😂
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I knew that when I was 7 because of memes not a great point,but I agree!
Parents are the main problem here. But also, it's terrifying how much these kids want to grow up fast. SLOW DOWN. You'll have ALL the time to do make up when you'll be older. You'll have ALL the time to be "grown up". Kids enjoy your childhood once you have it, 'cause once it fades away forever, you'll want it back.
I think children always wanted to grow up quickly. The problem is that now the parents let them do it
Exactly! My school life is almost about to end and I just wanna stop time and live this a little more longer. I don't understand the obsession with looking older than you actually are.
I look way younger than I actually am, Yes at times I have been insecure about it cause girls younger than me look more mature than me but Im grateful for my strict parents to never let me do those stuff.
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
@@Certified_E_Kitten thankfully tiktok is already banned in our country
@@Certified_E_Kittenyou sound 12…
As a 13 year old in this generation I am so glad I got raised by a strict normal mom cause what is this....skincare at 10 and younger is crazyyy
I’m 13, im not trying to mature fast. I do use makeup but not the way people think. I use drugstore because IM SCARED OF SEPHORA. Also I’m the “emo kid” in my school so I wear eyeliner. I pay for my makeup as well. My mom put restrictions on the things I can get. I don’t try to age fast. I don’t think kids/pre-teens should. Just today I was in art class and the “populars” were talking about someone paying 50$ for a i think was an inappropriate picture of someone.
You don't need all that. Focus on having new experiences or learning something new. If we talk about looks try to learn your contrast ,body shape (tho i think it's at least 3 years early for this) , your colors etc. You said that you are more like emo , try learning about art , drawing and especially color theory, while still being in learning proces and kid phase that knowledge will be good for you when it is time for that. You will know more about make up and outfits that your other spoiled peers. Not to mention the important thing in art, drawing, painting,make up and so on is not how good and expensive the product are ,but how well can you use the worst ones .
For me is most horrific how they can't even talk properly and hold a pen properly but they still putting makeup for grown ups and act like they have every right to do so 😭
And most of the time they are using the products wrong or in damaging ways so its even more of a waste for the parents
I feel like it wouldn't be a problem if it was just kids "playing grown-up" trying to mimic their moms, if it was just them and maybe some friends safe at home. I got my grubby little hands on a rouge container and dolled myself up until it looked like I had a bad fever when I was 9ish. That's just the normal clown phase of pre-teen existence. (note: this was in the late 90s and the rouge experiment culminated in mom putting her makeup on a higher shelf and it would take another two years until I got my hands on some mascara)
What scares me is seeing these kids making videos about it on sites where they shouldn't even have accounts yet. You should be at least 13 to have an account on a site where you can interact freely with other users. IMO the age limit should be at least a bit older on the major social media sites, because of the non-existent moderation on those sites.
An avatar dress-up site with a forum is relatively safe, those usually have staff or volunteers that can step in if someone's behaving inappropriately. The social media giants don't give a single fuck about the well-beings of their users and will never have enough moderators to keep up with the massive amounts of users. You could organize a genocide on facebook and no one on facebook's staff would even notice as long as you don't post in English, and the-site-formerly-known-as-twitter *would* notice the genocide when the hashtag starts trending but would probably still let it happen as long as it generates engagement.
@@helenanilsson5666 i agree, kids shouldn't be allowed in makeup stores nor own anti-aging or just generally any kind of skincare. Like i used to play with foundation on my mom because and dolls because it was funny.
@@Keithinnie why would any kid use anti-aging products? Do they want to look like a fetus? 😂😂😂
@@ejenplitobarces probably😂 but all jokes asides it’s mainly the fact kids are growing up too fast and Think they’re “Old”
i feel like i matured really fast but instead of spending $1000 at sephora i was reading crime and punishment
omg. Yes !😭😭
Not me listening to true crime Videos while falling asleep at the age of 13 (10 years ago) 😂
Real but american psycho
real asf
No way same! I’m fourteen and there are ppl with 20 step beauty routines (nothing against selfcare at this point, selfcare is important!! ) and I’m here reading Dostoevsky, Kafka and Marx lol
I’m 13 rn and literally don’t find any of the Sephora stuff entertaining. My friends started calling me a pick me one day because I said I don’t like doing a skincare routine or makeup, I told them I still wear makeup like mascara. The only reason I even have a phone is because of my parents divorce, I’m super grateful for my phone but I still get off of it too go swim at practice or do some skating. Sometimes I even walk to my local playground just to swing
I hate it so muchhhh every time i see any girl trying to dress older than her age to impress and gain attention thinking it would make them more mature and "cool". Cant their parents guide them? Or make them just live their childhood
girl when I was 10 I was making mud and grass soup 😂
why does that sound so fun 😭
Yum
I did that too!
Same 😂
omg me too. I did it in the bird bath in my back yard with my neighborhood friend.
The concealer tip is bigger than the child's eye. It's insane
You’re so right 😨
Ikr? 😅
I'm scared for the generation I'm in😭😭
@@Yuki_Official_777 just do your own thing and have one or two close friends who get you, and you are ready to go into adventure!
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
i'm 17 yr old girl and came to know about sephora for the first time
and when i was 10, i used to read books, play outdoor games and was never interested in makeup and my biggest worry at that time was what would i do if my teacher changed my seat in class😅
Even though I'm 14 I still know better even with the influence of my older brothers and the early 2010s internet. I think I dodged a bullet here and I'm very proud of myself.
I think younger children-preteens experimenting with makeup is ok but going into makeup stores, disrespecting workers and ruining samples isn't.
Exactly. Personally, I never had an interest in makeup as a kid, but if a kid over the age of 10-12 wants to experiment with makeup AT HOME, go for it. Just don't wear it out lmao.
One thing is experimenting a little, and another completely different one is getting a whole different face every day with makeup they don't even need. Like, why the heck do they need anti-aging skin care??!!
@@xynium. Agreed.
As a kid I never did my own makeup, I only wore it when I'd have dance recitals and my mom would do it for me 😂
Yes, absolutely. I'm a teen, and the most I've ever worn is eyeshadow and lipstick. But I think that people (especially young people) should use makeup as a form of self-expression or to feel good, not this. And harassing and disrespecting workers is never ok, no matter how old you are.
I’m 14, and I absolutely despise these trends (at least for young teens and pre-teens). However, it’s insanely difficult to avoid them. A couple days ago I was at a friend’s house in my usual sweat pants and hoodie, with zero makeup and only a simple gold necklace my grandma gifted me. These ‘friends’ of mine are 13-14, and they full on said to me, “y’know, you would be pretty if you became a basic white girl like us, it’s cool and stuff. No guys want a girl who hides her body.” And I went silent. The fact they even care about that- We’re not even in high school yet, like, come on- and that they can’t even accept me without me wearing a bunch of makeup and having a twenty-step beauty routine is insane. It’s so hard to live like this, but I don’t want to throw away my childhood yet, because I know that in a few years I’d wish I didn’t. Luckily I’ve found a couple close friends who think the same, but there are far too many who oppose my thinking, saying I’m ‘immature’ for not swearing every three words and ‘cheap’ for refusing to buy thousand dollar makeup things. But, I’m living, and I won’t let them break me.
Part of this is probably because I have older parents who didn’t hand me a phone until I actually needed it- less than a year ago- and the fact I still can’t access many social media sites.
Not gonna lie, I wish I was older than I am. I’m glad to be a Gen Z, but I hate being so young and trying to grow up with all the girls around me doing this stuff.
Let me tell you what you are; You're in a phase of self-discovery. And my dear, you're progressing so well than your peers. I want you to listen to the inner you, not to the voices around you. You'll thank yourself for that. And if anyone gave me the choice to either "blend in" or "stand out", then I'll choose to stand out and be different.
The criticisms you might be getting now is absolutely normal. It shows you are special. Very special. Physical appearance is the least of value to humans. What's inside is actually what matters ..
Hey, don't listen to them sweetie. I'm 20, and I was the hoodie-sweat pants-tomboy girl when i was in secondary and high school. I had my 1st phone at 16, I had plenty of time to develop my hobbies, go outside and all. People were making fun of me because I was "weird", always reading, talking about movies and games and drawing when they were doing flames on snapshat and dancing on musically. I was seen as an alien no living in her era, but fast forward to now, those girls who were making fun of me got their heart broken 10 times bc they started dating at 13, lost contact with their friends when I have loyal friends and my first boyfriend who loves me for who I am.
Keep being who you are, be authenthic, be kind and empathethic, be curious about the world and eager to learn about everything, you'll make a difference
As 26 the fact that a kid said to expose herself freak me out.
It's okay sweetie you're doing great. You only got your childhood once, and it's a short period. Play to your heart content. Dont let your friend and internet ruin you with weird idea.
When I was kid I dont have any boyfrient till in my college year, and my first boyfriend become my husband now. We dont even doing sex before married. Dont expose your self, dont sell yourself cheap. You're worth more than that ❤
Hey, maybe you could try to look for hobby groups that are NOT associated with social media. I'm sure that you'll find a Tolkien club or a gaming shop or a crafting group or anything else you might be interested in.
Of course every space has it's own weirdoes, but I still want to think that most people are just happy to share their hobbies with others.
Of course this won't "solve" the problem of not fitting in (coming from someone who's an expert at being an outsider), but it could give you a supportive community on top of your good friends to lift your mood up a bit when you start to question if maybe you're the crazy one.
I'm 24 and want to tell you this isn't just an age thing. You NEVER have to start swearing, wearing makeup or change yourself to try to make yourself appealing to guys. What you do should be what YOU want at whatever age it you feel comfortable doing it. If you only start dating at 30, if you never have a relationship, if you don't wear any makeup ever, if you wear "too much", it's up to YOU and what works for YOU. It's the 21st century, you don't have to go along with your peer's expectations, you can be yourself!
Me being 15 years old and acting like a kid.
I still like sleeping with my mom, watching cartoons/TH-cam videos everyday, and not using any kind of makeup. Meanwhile, many kids are acting like adults.
Tf is wrong with this world
I am 12 years old and I have never set foot in Sephora or have had Tiktok. This terrifies me so much 😣
I’m 16. I don’t feel like a young adult or even a teenager. Still feel like a kid. These 8,9.10,11,12,3,4,5,6,7 year olds acting like they’re in their 20s drives me insane. I KNOW I’m not ready for all of that so how can these girls already be ready NOT EVEN 15 SECONDS OUT OF THE WOMB
ITS THE PARENTS !
@@kaataklyssmjcbetherens yeah and being a teen is still being a kid, i am seventeen and im still a kid, even though i am also a teen, im just confused
@@Itskam.tocawrld true , I mean these days everyone wants to be a model/influencer n when they become parents , they got nothing to teach their kids
Can just agree and I'm going to be 18 this year :')
I turned 18 on December and I couldn't agree more
!!!!!! Attention Gen Z!!!!!!
We can end this with our kids. It starts with us to teach our daughters that they are beautiful and have inherent value by simply existing. Let’s be better parents.
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
As a young millennial who probably won’t have kids, I really hope Gen Z learns from the mistakes of millennial parents. Millennials tried to “do better” than Gen X/boomers, and as we can see the pendulum has swung in the opposite direction. 😩
@@Certified_E_KittenI don’t like Tik Tok either but banning it isn’t gonnna do anything. All the content on there will just seep into other medias…the way it already is.
Step 1: Just don't put your kids through the misery of public school. It is fr not worth doing anymore
i'm planning to do this :) i work now as a preschool teacher which is my part in undoing the harmful effects of social pressure. i am so excited to see how my own children lead by example, after years of uplifting others and working to instill value and self worth. they may not have phones at 13 but they will have confidence, integrity, empathy, intellect, and faith. 🤍🕊
I'm 23 and still feel shy/embarrassed when I go into any makeup shop. Wow
The only thing that I think about when seeing these types of videos is how these same kids will never understand what it's like having a childhood, while Gen Z tries to cling to their childhood, I feel like Gen Alpha will feel empty because of their lack of childhood
Nobody has brought up how the quarantine, not being able to go to school and socialize, might have had a pretty significant influence on this.
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yeah maybe but parents should have been more strict
as someone who was still in secondary during covid - covid was like 1-2 yrs ago everyone has gotten over it and it is no longer an excuse for like anything
It’s less of an “excuse,” more like a reason. I know for a fact that COVID will affect me for the rest of my life. I’m not *blaming* quarantine for how I act, but I know that the two years of missing real social interaction from school and stuff has subconsciously changed how I see people. Seeing nothing but filtered faces and emotionless-seeming comments in place of real people pretty early in my life HAS to have made an impact, and I can see it in my friends.
this was also common like 12 years ago when I was 12, they just started to get to it sooner, as they are exposed to it sooner thanks to social media... and who let them go there this early? if we are bringing covid to the chat, we better just say, just cause they were stuck at home together, doesn't mean parents were not supposed to parent...
Bruh im 15 n i swear to god I would cry if I had my pre teen years as that. All I wanted was snacks, cartoons, family time n friends.
If you are not into make up why you are here We got you.
I'm 15 and i love makeup but when I was a child? No.@@SuitedSkaterLion
Same
@@SuitedSkaterLion I am now
I’m 15 too and honestly at 11 years old I was still wearing sequin changing clothes and the only “makeup” I wore was chapstick unless it was a special occasion. I feel bad that kids these days feel pressure to act like they’re 20 years old. I’m glad I got to experience what childhood should be.
as a 14 year old.. i myself am traumatised with the 1:27 LIKE GIRL PLS and how in the world did she got permission to wear those huge ass nails my parents would kill me
I really love how you explained this.. and being a teen girl, its evident on how peers and influencers are trying to be better women?
I'm 14 years old and the girls at my school exclude me because I don't look like a 20 year old girl
Don't listen to them, enjoy it while it lasts 💪😂
Girl, I'm 22 and I don't look like an "adult", but I am one. Those people are just insane. Take care of yourself and don't let them drag you in their sh*t
Im also 14 and I am also bullied. Reason: because I'm "different" and "werid"
@@Guineapigzz Same here! Like at this point why can’t people accept that everyone is different.
Exactly! I’m 14 as well and I don’t understand why me and a whole bunch of girls out there are getting bullied just because we don’t dress or do makeup the way people my age shouldn’t. I don’t really mind if they do makeup and stuff but the reason why they do it kinda sad. Most people are doing it to impress others and to fit in with the younger adults but it’s getting out of hand.
As a teen I hate the fact that some girls feel so pressured to change them selves and meet certain standards so they “fit in”.
True
That's what I feel (But don't want to do) I'll have to do next year (I'm going into 9th grade next year) to fit in cuz aside from pk-1st grade and 5th grade (cuz quarentine) I've suffered enough emotional abuse at the hands of my classmates. I don't wanna die before I turn 18
Shut the fuck up bitch! At least they’re doing something with their lives
I have been guilty of this actually...
My mother would put pressure on me to do the house chores and dress in a more "mature" way, until thankfully my older sister would come and tell me, that I don't need to force myself to grow up.😢
My sister understood me because she had similar expectations, coming from her. Until we finally became older as adults and both started to finally understand more each other.
So true, if youre not in trend youre are not part of anything, thats so sad cuz we have to be ourselves, not follow this hypersexualize trend
i'm a gen alpha. I was raised by protective parents and a brother who was a gen z. I didn't really get attached to all this stuff that 12-years old did now, thanks to them. However, my friends did, and i was surrounded by that environtment. The standards really changed here, and because I didnt 'match' with them, I felt kind of left out. Like, I'm not allowed to spend money on beauty products (except when my mother says that I really need it), i'm not allowed to hang out in a mall, etc. So they never really asked me to hang out. This pressured me deeply. I'm afraid maybe sooner or later I'll eventually became on of them.
When I was 10, I was obsessed with Glow in the dark Slime, not makeup.. I didn't even care what I looked and the amount of relief that gives you is unmeasurable!!
I’m so glad I had an actual childhood before all this happened
I wish 😢
A kid’s skincare should be just water💀
body lotion: 🏃🏾♀️💨
Don't forget soap
believe it or not, some people get acne very young. It really depends on their situation. its obviously unnecessary to have a vanity full of products, but some people really needed at least a bit of skincare (doesn’t apply to this video)
All I use as of now is noxema, and I’m still pretty young
@@nalinakha yeah, if you are like 11 and get acne (like me, I'm not 11 btw lmao) a gentle cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen should be their skincare, but putting on a 12 step skincare is wayy too much, even worse for a 7 year old who can't even say "mommy" yet💀
I am 16 and i am happy i lived my childhood like a kid not like a adult
i think it’s really sad to see how young kids want to grow up faster and not cherish their time as a kid. i’ve seen my 8 yo sister wearing makeup and it makes me upset to see even someone as young as her is already getting into makeup.
The fact that using anti age products when you are young make the skin get old before the time
and make up too ruin young skin
Makeup in general clogs up your pores and chokes your skin, more product = faster aging. All you really need is face wash, moisturizer, and sunscreen. People who have really bad acne that won't improve with good hygiene and a good diet can see a dermatologist for specialized products. That's it.
@@rottencupcakess Exactly! I avoid makeup aside from sunscreen (which is more of a necessity, especially if you're on the paler side and get freckles, MUCH higher risk of skin cancer--even darker skin can get it, but the incidence rates are fortunately much lower) and lipbam. I just use a face wash (also necessary to, y'know, get the sunscreen off completely.) Rarely, some rosehip oil or rose otto oil to gently moisturize.
@@pinokosthewife exactly i also don't put much make up because i know this thing and also we are beauty natural. just mascara and lipstick some time eyeliner but in my skin i don't put foundation i have acne problem and make up up is even worse for the skin if u have that problem so.. not all the products are good for the skin ^-^
agreed they want to look grown up now but by the time they are 20 they will look 30
When i was 12 i was reading and dreaming of becoming a MAGICAL FAIRY
ME TOO
REAL
literally me
idc why people are so mad about 10 yr olds wanting to wear makeup... who cares???
Its not just that its them DESTROYING things that dont belong to them. Were not saying not to wear makeup, but were saying not to wear it at such a young age. So yes we HAVE to care@@tree2-qq7ed
I couldn't wait to grow up when I was a child... And now, as an adult, I miss my childhood. I didn't have to worry about jobs, money, college, or worldly issues back then.
When I was 10 I was obsessed with those fidget spinners which my mom bought me when it first came to my country. Now I am 16 years old and It hurts to see younger ones ruin their skins and mature too quickly...
It's really weird for me to see many 12 year old girls worrying so much about skincare, vaping and doing those kind of stuff while my friends and I used to play with my little ponies and just dance! I think they want to "grow up faster" and act like they were mature adults but in the end they're just pretending to be something that they're not yet. The influence of social media and the lack of control of their parents is really sad :(
I think they should only go for pimple patches and Actual skincare they need.
@@Toca_preppy24agreed. My mom didn’t let me wear makeup until I was 11, but nothing more than powder, mascara, lipstick, yk, stuff that was somewhat appropriate for my age. Around 12, she let me wear whatever I wanted, but I still didn’t wear it on a daily basis.
they wanna be like us that are 20+ , because they think our life is cool
@@SleepDeprivedSEUNGBERRY143for me it was like 15-16☠️
@@Toca_preppy24yeah they only need maybe a light and clean moisturiser and maybe eye cream
but gotta also remember that when they become 13 they can start doing a bit more skin care, it’s actually advices to start skin care for not aging early because the earlier u use wrinkle prevention creams the more it will prevent the wrinkles from coming later, like some people do get wrinkles when they’re already 20😬
My parents sold cosmetics/dermatological products when I was a child... and at 10 I thought an antiaging cream would make me dissapear (because it promised to erase 10 years of aging haha).
😂😂😂
The antiaging cream would have made us look like newborns or even fetuses LMAO
@@ejenplitobarces True haha, if it accomplished its promise.
You should have tested it, turned into a baby and do all the baby things you missed out on- no wait thats weird
You really hit the nail on the head with this video. I can't stand watching these young girls try to grow up so fast and do these things to themselves 😢
I’m almost 13 but I’ve been struggling with acne for almost 3 years so I use skincare but I never put anything that would harm my skin in the long run . I buy makeup because it’s a hobby of mine and I only wear makeup out if I’m going somewhere special .
I would also like to add that I began to go to a gymnastics summer camp to leave the house and do something and the first day these 8-9 year olds were talking abt how they’re on TikTok and listen to artists like Nicki Minaj,drake,carti,21 savage. And then 3 days ago another 8 year old girl started twerking bc of a song she liked started playing (it was some popular tiktok song )
As a young gen z my class is full of gen alpha girls and yes i can confirm, they're getting boyfriends, talking about sex, vaping. And im just like "damn. I wanna go home bro."
And i understand how being chronically online can suck, hell i struggled with hypersexuality disorder because of it, but i feel like parents should start caring about their children.
Its not that hard to prevent things like this. Just take the phone dude
wtf, gen alpha and talking about sex/vaping? they're not even legally allowed an unsupervised google account 💀
Taking the phone won't instantly take away the ignorance. In fact, it will just cause the child to be even more naive, and bring sneakiness inside the equation.
Parents need to actually practice parenting and teach/educate their kids on dangers of early sex, social media, drugs, etc. Taking away the phone only takes away small access to certain media, without the phone they still perform the acts they do.
@@priojong i understand that but I'm talking about how it happened to me and how i think it should have happened to me to prevent it idk man :/
I was wondering if this was just kids with influencer parents, but I guess it is a more general issue. I've never been more thankful for being homeschooled 😂. Best of luck 🫶
dont take their phone perms away, instead, blocks social apps from their phone, and if they want to watch youtube, dont install youtube kids. theres still creepy things in that app
All I cared about at 10 was horses, hanging out with my dog and writing stories. Heaven help the future.
Same. 😅
its so silly how we are all acting like the boomer generation already. back in my dayyy
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
me too but I wish I never had acne at age 8 ... rlly matured me and the acne worsened so much my face was ambushed
@@Certified_E_Kittenstop spamming this everywhere lil bro
I'm very concerned of the girl who is saying "all blendy up". This is most likely a 3-5 year old ON TIKTOK and using makeup. Now the possibility of the makeup being her mother's is high but still being allowed to be on TikTok is very concerning to me.
0:40
"What was your life like at ten?"
I'm gonna be completely honest, I was watching k-dramas with my mom during quarantine.
it took me 5 months of courage to ask my mom for just a lipgloss as a teen, these kids be getting 10 bags of makeup💀💀
When I was 10,no makeup either 💀💀 man these newer gens scare me
I never wore skin products till my skin actually GOT DRY 💀💀
I still don't have the courage
no srsly i had to secretly use my mom's lip balm at 14 cuz i knew she'd never allow me one😭
As a black girl, I’ve been sexualized way too early because I’ve had the misfortune of hitting puberty as early as ten and getting a huge growth spurt and major body changes such as boobs growing and hips widening within my tween years. I was easily given the age of 16/18 when I was just 12 and easily 18/20 when I was just 14. At first, I was just insecure of looking so different from my girl friends, boys my age were not interested in me because I was taller than all of them and I just constantly wished to be short and cute. But the worst part came when older men made me hyperaware of how they saw my new body, and these men included random strangers, older boys but also teachers (!!!) and other authority figures of my life at that time. People praised me for “being” mature when they actually meant “looking mature” and I felt the pressure to act the age I looked because otherwise I would be called childish (I remember once a random lady scolding me to get off a playground because it “was not for my age” when I was still within the age limit required for it). Somehow it even managed to skew my parents’ perspective, I was striving so hard to be up to the expectation of being older that even they deemed my normal tween behavior as not appropriate. Just this year I’ve hit my 21th birthday and it doesn’t feel special at all because I’ve felt 21 for years now. I would give a lot to experience a normal full childhood again because I can feel how the trauma affects my relationships and body image now as a young adult. Please cherish being a kid and being perceived as kid and as a society we have to try a lot harder to protect our young girls as much as possible from this predatory society and give them plenty of time to become well-balanced adults.
Omgg the playground part is crazy… I’m now 16 almost 17 and I remember still playing at a playground around the age of 14/15…
Oh girl, you went through real sh*t , we know you could not enjoy your childhood but I'm sure the adult life is worth living for even if there's lots of limits, well I'm sure your already used to that. Nonetheless i wish you happiness,,,
😢😢😢
I have large bust I always wanted to put on jackets and stuff too. I'm so sorry u had to go through that.... I really wish we all could do something and protect these younger girls especially with the rising pedophilia.
I feel you all the way, I’m 11, about to be 12, and because of my height (5’6) people constantly think I’m between the ages of 14 and 17, MY OWN COUSIN (that to be fair, I’ve never met before) THOUGHT I WAS 16. and grown men constantly look at me even though I have basically no curve other than my small(ish) waist, I’m scared to go out in a crop top without an undershirt because of those creeps, heck! I’m scared to show too much of my legs! But at least I’m not sexualizing myself like these 12 year olds today, I feel stuck in the middle even though I’m not like them at all, I know I’m not a Sephora 10 year old with all the makeup ever in my hands, but I’m not a 12 year old sexualizing myself in dances, and I don’t want to be but I’m going into the age where people now group all the kids nowadays in that age as the same, I’ll never be that, and I know it, but because I’m between the two ages, I’m getting grouped into kids that are “maturing” way too young. I live in Tennessee so I go to bonnaroo (the biggest festival after Woodstock) and last year my brother and I were playing a game where we guess people’s age and then ask them, well it was my turn and I went over to this woman to check if my guess was right, I was close but I then asked her to guess how old I was, you know what she guessed? 19. That woman guessed I was 19, I wasn’t even dressed like a 19 year old! But I don’t see how someone’s height can determine how old they supposedly are, and like you said, they ALWAYS say “well it’s because you’re so mature!” …..I have the maturity of a 7 year old in the 1990s. But I feel you😢
this is the first time I stumble upon your channel but I literally love the way you speak and the way you break down the issue?
At 13:28 I gotta say that there is already a kpop Idol TWO years younger than chiquita, cuz that is crazy
This makes me so sad. Childhood is one of the best times in my life. I mean, we didn’t even have a lot of money or anything. My siblings and I would just go outside, or play with the toys that we owned. Gone is the time of not only childhood, but imagination.
Yes! Kids aren’t given unstructured play anymore and it’s really damaging to the development of their imaginations. These are gonna be the next generation of artists and creators and they’ve hardly even played with toys.
When I was ten years old, I was outside climbing trees, getting my knees scraped, and playing with Barbie’s 😂
As a 17 yo Gen Z, I'm so glad that I experience both the park(the games we play with other kids that we instantly be friends), DVDs, boardgames, good movie series, and toysrus and so on to the online games, social media and trendy stuff. I rlly hope Gen Z will learn from the mistakes that the Millennials make and raise a better child.
I'm 21 and I have faith in my generation to restore the balance!! I'm so happy to have experienced these as well. I also didn't have internet growing up- still don't- and sometimes I'm thankful for that. I only got my first phone with data when I was 12 because I had volleyball practice after school, so I needed to have communication with my parents. However, I was only allowed 1 gig of data. I don't understand why more parents cannot make these limitations. It's like they don't even want to be parents :(
@@lilyblake5409 Yeah, I was twelve when I got my first phone because I was going to summer camps and I needed communication. It was my moms old iPhone 6 with 2 gigs of data, and I'm honestly glad they did that
just enjoy your childhood guys trust me.
@@rottencupcakessyeah I’m 17 and I still collect stuff I loved when I was younger. Plushies for life.
loll same, im 14 btw 😭😭
At ten i was in love with books , gaming on roblox , having press on nails for dress up games and doing play makeup that dint even work. Never stepped foot such shops .
As a 14 year old it always makes me sad to see people my age or younger act or feel like they should be older. I know I have been influenced as well but I feel lucky enough to understand there is no rush to grow. I have time to be a kid and learn more about who I want to be from the people in my life rather than people I don’t know showing an unrealistic lifestyle on social media. I hope that people start to recognize this and that my girlhood lasts forever (or until I’m ready to move on) ❤❤
I was crying because I got a B in maths when i was 12 and watching my winx club
yesss! I loved winx club!
Yess and then i would pretend to be flora and fight evil with my stuffed animals hahhahaa
womp womp
I love Winx club too! I remember I played a lot of Winx club online games and my little pony games with my sister
WINX CLUBBB
I can’t believe I’m at the age to say “when I was younger we did…” and it’s actually different than today. Like I was the justice kid, swinging on wingers with bright clothes from justice 😭
Fr, my birthday rlly soon and it feels weird to say "When I was a kid" cuz technically I still AM a kid
I still have my Justice tops from when I was a tween, and I'm in my late 20s... somehow the last decade flew by so fast.
My birthday was 2 days ago-
The main reason I suspect is not because you’re so old, but because there has been so much recent change. Least that’s the case for me. It’s unrecognisable from only a few years ago.
@@angelelida4680 Not the OP, but I feel like somehow everything was so long ago and like yesterday at the same time... In my case I believe it's because I haven't changed much at all, but everyone and everything around me did, so it's like my mind is stuck in 2014-2018, but everyone else has moved on very fast. Sometimes I feel the same I did in 2017-2018 despite being 6-7 years ago, and most of my friends are already on other stages of life and I'm stuck there.
7:01 that's a literal baby-
I used makeup and skincare when I was around 7. Skincare was literally just sunscreen, and that one peach scented peel off mask. Makeup was just my mom letting me borrow some of her makeup, chapstick and eyeshadow, I barely used them. All of the makeup that were *mine* were all from Claire’s. I never actually wore that makeup anywhere, either. I only did it at home only to instantly wash it off because I don’t rlly like the way makeup feels.
I think we also need to talk adout how womanhood is sexualized, teenage boys also want to be seen as grown up at some point but they don't need to sexualized themselves to be seen as more mature.
Yeah, that's exactly the reason why girls need their mothers, who can expose them the truth about women.
And boys need guidance from men, because they are what they naturally become.
Toxic boy moms and toxic girl dads, created these disfunctional relationships with their children.
As a boy, I think the real conversation is about how culture became much more centralized around sex. Movies, clothes, social media, pictures, videos, songs have all explored sex appeal intensively in the past few decades and these things do end up affecting children.
Even though it's not as noticeable as it is for women, the understanding of adulthood to some boys is also centered around sex. They don't sexualize themselves, but sometimes their way of looking grown up is to talk about the size of their intimates or about how they watched stuff they don't have the age to, which also includes p0rn, which comes with its own set of psychological effects. In fact, I believe there's a mutual correlation between what's happening with young boys and young girls.
@@justcommenting5117 Young boys and girls have similar traits, but they are not behaving in the same way.
Both like to discuss about the attractiveness of the other gender. Males talk in a more RAW way about what they like in females. Females are SNEAKY, when they talk about the things they like on an attractive male.
@@missstranger7697 but I didn't say they behaved the same way, I said both are being affected from a young age by the sexualization of culture. But anyway, I do agree overall that males speak in a more raw way, while females are more sneaky.
I’m a 14 year old girl and this made me think about the way society sexualizes us from such a young age. At the beginning of freshman year, I was wearing baggy shirts, baggy jeans, no makeup. But later into the year I started to wear more tight fitting things, like shirts and started wearing makeup bc I thought it made people like me more and made people notice me. Even though I hated wearing all this stuff, I was willing to sexualize myself so that I could please others and get boys to notice me. I finally took a step back and looked at what peer pressure and society has turned girls into, and it made me sad. Thankfully I’m wearing less makeup and feeling happier with dressing like myself.
@@sofijones5048 I know, it just opened my eyes a little and made me realize i wasn’t comfortable with how I acted
I'm muslim, so I dress more modestly. I don't even wear t shirts or anything short sleeves, at some point, I did want to wear a crop top, but I eventually realized that growing up to fast SUCKS i barley use any skin care products i do use moisturizer but was only bc i have eczema my little sister has more make up products then me she has a toy make up kit but it's actually good quality . But anyways I don't even have foundation or concelar. So it's so weird seeing kids buying and using so much adult products on their skin and even start swearing and disrespecting others at kindergarten
and man is blame for that?
@@uniquex89000 The comment says "peer pressure and society," her peers would be girls of her age, and society is both women and men. How'd you extract that she's blaming just men 😭
@@sukriti7213 nop nop! woman sexualizes self and young girls are coping them, I have no problem woman wearing red lipsticks at work or wearing too tight cloths as sport thing , but am 100% sure there are no influence by man , woman does that cos they want and cant tell why they wearing to short cloths , to ask them they just want to look as they want and its not about being sexy for man , but man might stare woman's body because its reproduction thing , one reason why male and female exist is to they attract each other and reproduce , and its very hard for man to not like and express his attention on good looking female , young girls need mothers attention to explain everything , but I wouldn't boil man in that topic
i’m 12, i just got my first skincare yesterday and it’s a moisturizer and a cleanser, from cvs
i really like this video because of how calm you made the commentary and not necessary dissing on the children but also addressing what is happening to our generations and what possible might happen in the future. I really hope that this video will reach the right audience
As an 11 year old, I'm more focused on studying and playing with my friends than putting on anti aging stuff. Oh, I forgot to say, I'm literally making friendship bracelets-
Haha, I'm glad.
YES! SAME! :D
You go girl!
:DD but please don't share your age online!! there are alot of gross people online, make sure to stay safe 💖💖💖
@@zainab_hashmiii thank you for worrying but im very safe online, don't worry❤️
Gen Alpha makes me feel grateful I grew up in the 2000s
Same 😢
True at least I played with ACTUAL TOYS 🧸
Tbf its your generations fault a little bit. Like saying the way kids talk nowadays and say shit like skibidi toilet and stuff was all stuff gen z made. Ofc little kids are going to see what you guys say or do and get influenced by it 🤷🏻♀
@@piperburns6804 it's mostly the parents fault. They just shove an ipad in they're faces in which exposed them to the internet.
@@King_of_sirens there’s nothing completely wrong with the internet in general though. as long as you consume healthy amounts of it. what’s wrong is them seeing stupid content that others are making and being influenced by it. which it’s not like the people making it are realizing that kids are seeing it but I’m just saying.
I live in Canada, and I havent seen any sephora kids that are really obsessed.I think it might mainly in the US or in more populated cities.
When I was 10 I was playing with mud,
I’m 14 now, like I LOVED playing with like mud and yk that stuff.
This is so sad. I didn't even think about any of this at 10 years old. I was too busy playing video games, being outside & just being a kid. It's really unfortunate that they are skipping this period of life.. the carefree time..
*Don't translate..
भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्गं मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु* .
I can still remember going to trick n treat with my cousin, cause Halloween isn't a big thing in Asia, and this still sticks with me 10 yrs or so later.
I spend most of a weekends visiting my grandparents throughout my late childhood to teen years and I as well as them loved it, I was often curious about what my life would be like when I'm an adult but never felt obsessed about already acting like one just so that less people looked down upon me or made me feel weird for basically having my own unique personality and interests that I still had all the time in the world to work on developing over time while enjoying the present moment. People shouldn't be desperately rushing from childhood to adulthood but then dread the idea of getting older and older untill they might reach elderhood one day, in this day and age it's driving too many people nuts it's not even funny.
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
@@Certified_E_Kitten just make one reply no need to spam every comment under the damn sun.
this is making me EXTREMELY anxious like, how am I supposed to raise my kid?
Just let them be a kid and make sure they learn the important life lessons, don't let the internet influence them and make sure to check up on their mental health often and make them feel safe to come to you when they have issues. Do all those and you're pretty much a great parent!! Good luck dude :D
Keep them away from the internet no matter what. No matter how hard you try they will want to see everything that’s out there because they know they can with a single click. There’s nothing more curious than a child and if you think you’ve got your computer locked down, they’re a step ahead. Soo many kids ended up traumatized from being first introduced to the internet with no parental witnesses
Also like she said in the video, TV!!! Rerun those old Baby Einsteins and cartoons from Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network
NO TIKTOK thats a given. Be invested in your child, be a constant safe person for them to go to, catch them if they fall, dont scare them just love and guide them. You'll be fine, children are very intuitive so don't worry so much and enjoy the journey.
@@BunnyKip but won't they feel peer pressure? and tbh it's definitely going to come at them.
i have a 9yo sister , honestly im glad she doesnt even know what sephora is
Im 15 and im proud to say i had a great childhood played outdoors by myself and with friends, trued making slime lol , loved goong outside to buy toys, loved drawing and coloring, come home from school and wait for my fav Cartoon and watch it, collect those small toys from kinderjoy, play with mud /sand build sandcastles, etc even playing those online games like subway surfers , templerun ✨🥺😭 it was so fun i never used skincare products or anything that time i didn't even know what sephora was...
I started doing skincare recently cuz of the puberty reasons and stuff and my skin gkt oily and stuff and acne made me to do skincare but i just use 3-4 skincare products like facewash,serum, moisturizer(aloevera gel) , sunscreen, lipbalm i dont use any makeup also this is all it. As a genz i hope we dont make mistakes in parenting and raise a better generation, we shouldn't make the same mistake as millenials and spoil the next gen like gen alpha(ipad kids)
Edit: ik there are alot of mistakes in my typing cuz i typed really fast sorry 😐
I agree 100% , when I was 10 I used skincare, not drunk elephant. I used clean & clear, ONLY because I had really big breakouts. Seeing girls with perfect skin having to use expensive skin care and makeup is crazy.
I used a small brand called wash with water. I got bullied for not using bigger brands like damn 💀💀
I use soap and glory and stuff that are gifted to me
Yeah, seeing girls do elaborate makeup/skincare routines at 10 years old is so insane to me. At 10, I'm pretty sure I was still washing my face with bar soap, I didn't even have a facewash or something.
this 6th grade pick me ik has drunk elephant and always makes it aware to me and my friends, even though a) she has clear skin and b) literally no one cares.
im a teenager and i only use a designated face wash whenever i break out around that time of the month, otherwise i use warm water and body wash. why would kids 6 years younger than me be using more skin care than my mother (who is sorta obsessed with looking younger lol)?
This sad i am 13 and i have anxiety just because at my school girls bully me because i don't know what trends are going on or because i don't use makeup i just wanna draw and play
I just want this generation that i am
apart of to see the light because I'm really scared
Keep on being true to yourself! I know it’s hard, I was always the weird kid in school but now as a 52 yo woman with kids in their 20’s, I have great skin (because I didn’t smother it in makeup), I draw, paint, play piano, knit, sew clothes, crochet, dye my own yarn, build stuff…..and I’m happy. Those bullies will be the ones left behind when you soar past them! Be kind to yourself and take care.
@@battlewriter thank you for the kind words and I hope you have a wonderful day
I'm 13 and I have anxiety too :')- no social media or makeup. I grew distant with one of my childhood friends bc she just changed.. like a lot- she would always point out my insecurities, make fun of me in front of her 'friends' and sometimes just ignore me completely- but I'm glad that I've found better friends that genuinely care about me. Just don't change yourself or listen to those girls! 💕
same I dont even have an identity anymore I just wanna hang out and talk about normal things not abt bad stuff,sex or trends and theres an inside of me that stills wants to play with dolls.
I feel this.
Don't let rude people get to you, just think about the good things.
i think another thing that has made me "mature" faster is like not even the internet but like my friends and the kids in my grade too
At 10 I was still playing with LPS and watching my little pony 💀
8 year olds shouldnt be using make up. but 12 year olds should be able to use skincare and light make up, like some blush lip gloss, i feel like most people forget 12-13 is the age were puberty and pimples and acne start up. sure they shouldnt walk out with a giant face of makeup thats ready for met gala 2024. just simple and light is ok.
I mean, yeah it's natural to want to look pretty for a girl, so tinted lip balms and that sort of stuff make sense for a 12 year old. Also, Acne control skincare comes under the 'medication' category, so it's not really related to the Sephora kids.
Exactly
I was 8 when I started skincare because my acne was BAD. But I didn’t use like anti aging or anything, just stuff my dermatologist recommended. I’m 13 next month 👍
In Turkey, do that sh*t, you will work 10 years to pay one product.
THATS TRUE LMFAO
I'm Greek and that bottle of perfume thee toddler was squeaking about "omg it took me a WEEK to earn this!!!!" Costs more than 1/3 of my monthly wages 😂 I wish I was a spoiled murican toddler like that 😂
i feel you as a half greek half turkish person the economy sucks:/
@@AzathothTheGreat
Rich people do exist, even in turkey
Lan yorumlarda bunu beklemiyordum KEŞFQŞFWŞLDŞDLD
the world needs people like you
I’m a gen z but like 5 years ago when I has 10 I ALSO wanted to be more” grown up” so I got fascinated by skincare, outfits, makeup and like just being pretty in general to appear more grown up so like I think it’s just a phase
i started vaping n smoking weed when i was 9 because of a friend who was also 9. now im 13 n have gone through n continue to go through rehab. due to my incredible dad who knew how to take action and help me, im one month clean today but i hate how i can see the problem of this generation in myself
glad ur slowly healing :'D big props to ur dad
ayy I'm proud of you
very proud of you
I’m so proud of you❤ you’re doing great!
The worst part is the way this will also create a generational gap between gen z and gen alpha. They are not to blame, it's clearly their parents fault for underestimating and neglecting parenthood, but the way these kids are being made fun of and ridiculed by everyone will ultimately push them further into this endless cycle of sexualization and consumption. It's really tragic to think about all the mental health problems this will lead too for many of these poor girls.
And again, I am absolutely disgusted by the parents lack of self awareness and "don't care" attitude...
At least gen Z still had a bright childhood. I was a teenager during their childhood era and we watched the same cartoons like danny phantom, fop, kids next door, and all those good things
Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!🤨 like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
#BanTikTok
(Sorry, kind of long comment. I just got a lot to say. If you read all of this, I really appreciate it!)
It sickens me as a Gen Z young adult to see. You're right. But honestly? Some of these comments do, as well. Whole fifteen year olds already snarkingly talking about "back in my day."
While I understand that yes, many of gen alpha's parents are severely neglecting parenthood, that's the issue. The *parents.* None of the kids deserve to be mocked and ridiculed.
I have four little cousins, and from what I know of, one of them threw away her dolls and really just wants all this makeup and such. She's about thirteen. But when I heard of this, I didn't ridicule her for it. I didn't make her feel inferior because at my age, I was still playing with dolls and was widely possessive over them.
Instead, I ask her for makeup tips, and let her ramble to me about her newfound passion of makeup. She actually looks up to how her mom does makeup, and tries to mimick it and wants to one day surprass her mom in makeup skills.
I'll never understand how she got into skin care so early, though. Even her mom doesn't encourage that part. I could say it was social media's influence.
But I support her, anyways. And do my best to lift her self-esteem. Because she already gets a lot of flack for her age. And as a result of the major bullying she's faced for not fitting in with the latest trends from classmates, or actually acting her age from adults, she has a *very* low self-esteem.
"The girls kept calling me a gorilla for not shaving my legs yet/mom said I need to act my age and check my attitude," and hearing the many grown adults talk about how back in their days, they didn't have iphones and drank from water hoses.
No matter what generation you're in, the younger ones will always be mocked and looked down upon no matter what they do. It's a cycle that's gone on for centuries, that gen alpha *will* do to the generation after them.
Not to say that generations aren't free of criticism. They all have their major flaws. Including gen alpha. But, like... that's also kind of the point. If I see another "I hate nowadays! I wish we could go back in time," I might snap.
*TL;DR:* If I ever hear that I made my little gen alpha cousins feel inferior, that would shatter me. As you said, there's enough of a divide between Gen Z, Millennials, and their generation already. The last thing they need is their big cousin falling for that trap, too. Go ahead, my little gen alpha cousins. Teach me that weird TikTok dance you mastered.
I loved to read your comment, and I can relate a lot to what you said!
I also have a younger cousin who is very fascinated by make-up and fashion. Sadly her mom isn't very nice about it, which is just horribly sad. Especially since it's due to her lack of monitoring on her daughters consumption of social media. And yeah, it's exactly as you said it, making them feel bad about it and themselves won't solve a damn thing. I'm always really torn between anger, frustration and sadness when thinking about this. AND YES. This trend of generations making fun and talking down on the younger generations drives me absolutely NUTS. I'm also a young adult of gen z, and how much shit did we get from millennials? And honestly most of all the previous generations just because we are the first generation who started to have technology at a young age. So it's really sad to see our generation do the same to the new one. WHEN IT'S THE PARENTS FAULT (as we've established lots of times by now hah, but they deserve that we hammer it in).
The comment probably doesn't make a lot of sense and has a lot of repetition, sorry about that! @@DelilahDarling17
i feel like you all are forgetting the youngest of gen z is 2012.. gen alpha are like covid babies n/m!!
I’m 12 I’ve only been to Sephora once and people say I’m polite but Im mainly from a country that doesn’t normalize this
When I was 10 (not rlly long ago) I was doing sports and athletic (still am) and was reading Dork diaries and dairy of the wimpy kid all day 😭 I also would be painting my nails multi coloured 🙃
I was preyed upon from 11y/o for looking older than I was without the need for makeup or revealing clothes and it ruined my life. Still coping with the SA trauma at 25. To top it off, I'm autistic.
I just know this shit is a child predators wet dream and it churns my stomach. End time vibes are strong.
Im sorry to hear that I wish you nothing but healing and peace in your life 💓 💗
as a victim of s/a, i hope you can heal healthily and happily :)
i’m so sorry for you love. being a girl in this time is so hard,. sending love, i hope you heal and feel happiness
I thought the same damn thing! I see so many underage kids in booty shorts and crop tops alone in malls, public spaces etc. I wanted to dress like that when I was young but my mom would whoop my a$$!!! Where are there parents??? Disgusting
Grow up, by 25 you should already be over it. I bet you’re gonna be 30 with wrinkles and still crying about it
My sister said that so far in her school a few people have already been starting to wearing makeup and revealing clothes, and at one point a fire alarm went off because someone was smoking inside of a bathroom.
Shes in middle school.
isnt wearing makeup in middle school like a common middle school experience?
Bro I'm in middle school and they be vapin so hard
They also wear a lot of makeup, nails, heels
They also did drugs this year
On insta they're all filtered and '' sexy'' for whoever the fuck they' re being sexy
And I've been commented for not wearing makeup and other stuff that are as superficial
Disgusting
@@tfisitsobrightfor-kr8yp sort of...i...guess? but not really for me since in my school people starting smoking and being um (horrible people thinking they're awesome) unique and saying bad words and makeup at 9th,10th,11th and 12th.
@@overnightcreationsbyme8504. Ik it seems annoying rn and some of them might just be bad people, but trust me its probably just adolescence causing a school to look like a food chain. Oh yeah, and middle school, that’s like….6th grade to 8th grade or smth like that? So 11-14 years old? Well i would say that’s pretty normal behaviour for kids that age who want to look “cool” and “tough”. It’s not new to this generation
i'm 23, when i was in middle school 2011-2014 kids totally wore makeup and smoked in bathrooms and had sex and all the crap you get up to even worse in high school. someone below said kids didn't start "saying bad words" til 9th grade.... dawg what planet do YOU live on
My skin care when I was 12 was mostly a face wash and a classic nivea cream in the blue packaging. It's insane how much products some kids are using these days.