The situation with Vanja and BoZo - I think he did so much lying about his career and his life that he couldn’t face her and was on the defense with “I’m just not feeling you” to save face.
He has nothing to offer her, his room at moms? He bragged he goes business to business daily like a stray dog and they give him things to eat. And he plays pick up basketball. Suddenly here is a real, overbearing woman in his face ready to collect on his promises he cant fulfill. At least he isn't in her bed making more false promises. Ugh.
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎🥰
💯 Agree! Vanja just dodged a bullet! Bozo had no job and lived with his mother & aunt - while Vanja had four jobs and led a successful life in the U.S. Bozo is very immature (he himself mentioned that his ex-girlfriend left him due to this) & very insecure about himself.
😂 Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
Vanja ended up in a shite situation and it really sucks. But it's better to just cut your losses sooner rather than later and enjoy the rest of her vacay in beautiful Croatia. Who knows, maybe she will meet someone along the way. Chin up, girlie.
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️😎🥰🙃
Honestly, if I was her at the moment that happened I would’ve set out to make production follow and share me meeting other people. Maybe she would’ve met someone else and got to be on another season
Ingrid keeps being surprised dont know why, he has lied about everything, he is proud about all the engagement and marriages, he smiling why he says it
I think bozo didn’t like Vanja in person. I have seen it happen that you talk online like each other a lot and when you meet you feel different. It gets worse if one person is pushing too much. He had asked for time May be to adjust to her pink or May be …Matilda Matilda forcing it like there is no tomorrow. Veah and Rory are still dating they are using sunny to be on TV. The guy on wheelchair is such a creep, magna Magda magna 😅Loren omg 😳
Ingrid needs to stop ignoring Brian’s 99 red flags 🚩 he has consistently lied and withheld stuff from her that’s why his other collection of wives and finances got out of there cus they started to see him for what he is
In an interview before they were shown, vanja said just wait, the show saved the most exciting and dramatic moment for them. Saying it was going to be explosive! ...yall werent that exciting to watch turns out haha.
I feel so bad for Sunny, he needs someone more mature and grown up. Veah needs to go figure out her life and become an adult before marrying anyone. Loren is disgusting and forcing someone, just anyone to help him find a way for him to get citizenship there. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
I feel so bad for Vanja but he did gave her big red flags before she went down to meet him. Does bozo really think she is ugly, what is it to think about, she is a catch and she wanted you. He is ruined the whole trip. It could have been a amazing 3 weeks but he is making everything weird.
“ Stop talking right this instance, I need a few moments”😮😮😮 Well damnnnnn daddy😂. I don’t know whether to be taken aback, or impressed😂. If he is having a hard time during this verbal argument, what happens when she doesn’t stop talking? What happens if she gets louder and in his face?
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏
As an African, one that comes from a modern family I feel the need to educate people on the Matilda situation. Miles is on the wrong here and it’s a clear example of what happens when u don’t educate yourself about your partners culture! An engagement is a big deal in Africa no matter what tribe u come from, u just don’t go propose to someone for the sake of proposing here ! Most people marry within a year after getting engaged! Also, postponing a weeding (specially the traditional one, which is super symbolic ) it’s a big deal, it’s a sh@me to her and her family , specially when u look at the reasons He should have educated himself before he did what he did and she has all the right to being m@d and let’s not forget he kept lying to her time after time I honestly feel he uses his disability to shy away from taking accountability, whe he seems to be extremely smart
Within a yr is fine .. But she's not even giving him that .. She wanted it during this trip, which should be a trip for the purpose of meeting and seeing if they're compatible .. They've only been engaged for a few months , so as much as he needs to understand her culture , she also needs to understand a lot of things about him and his culture .. he's not rich , he took on a extra job just to afford the trip
Jessica you are right. I’m Ghanaian, married to an American. And an Akan just like Matilda but from the Nzema tribe so the culture is very similar. We don’t wait a whole year to do an engagement. The engagement is the traditional wedding. If you’re not ready to get married don’t even bring it up to her because then you will be leading her on for no reason. My husband did the knocking and was given the list for the bride price and a date. When you go for the knocking, and you are accepted, the family gives you the date to bring the items on the list and that’s the day for the traditional wedding. Mine happened two weeks after the knocking ceremony. She’s not wrong to feel upset.
Matilda is wrong. She could have educated Niles about the culture before he came. I got hoodwinked by my Sierra Leone family. And there is not a lot of information online about the culture there. The little information online, my husband says it's a bunch of lies
For everyone who liked Niles: he is a psycho unfortunately and even though he has autism he could become dangerous. He is already gaslighting Mathila in her community..and when she wants to talk about it he aggressively tells her to stop talking. I fear for her.
Omg! Niles and Matilda! Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
@@nineteenfortyeight His sort is particularly devious. I have recently been financially betrayed by just so an austic person., ho used it as a tool to fraud me out of money she owes me. It disability does not have anything to do with personal integrity.
Wow, we now got a psychiatrist who can diagnose people online hahaha. It's true that Niles didn't handle the situation well and fails to communicate, but it's Matilda who talks aggressively
I lost respect for Veah, because she treats Rory - her supposed "best friend" - like s***. She does not seem to care about how he feels at all, she just literally ran after Sunny! She is desperate. And is probably going to lose a good friend because of her actions. Rory seems like a good guy. IS RORY SINGLE??? 😁😍
Lol 😂you feel sorry for the ex-boyfriend? He should have NEVER gone to South Africa with her. He should have stayed out of her business. She's also awful for dragging him in, it's Sunny I feel sorry for right now.
He knows that. He's scheming to stay there because he doesn't want to go back to the U.S. if he marries mom but dumps faith he can still stay. That's his plan.
Shes got to be and Aries. They are too Alpha, too in your face and wants everything yesterday. She needs to find a partner exactly like that or it will never work. That Bozo didnt even have a job!!
Wth is wrong with loren. why his first go to response to any problems/situations always comes inappropriate and unsettling. I'd rather stay single then to end up with a man like him he is such a creep
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎🥰
Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️
You mean Niles? He is on the spectrum. He has autism. And he’s dealing with it better than someone without having that. Do you know anything about being on the spectrum or autism? Most people do t even talk or speak and are non functioning. He is doing an admirable job especially co so seeing the situation this chick has put him through and all the lies she’s spewing.
@Danielle_Neithardt just because someone has autism does not mean they can't be a bad person. Is this kind of stereotype that makes people ignore early signs
@@Danielle_Neithardt so it’s right for people with autism to gaslight, lie and manipulate people ? He’s bad and never wants to take the blame for anything, he never apologised all he did was try to convince Matilda that he once told her that he doesn’t want a wedding which was a pure lie. Also the comments he made regarding Matilda’s home were awful . Let’s stop using autism as an excuse. If this is how he is then he should be single the poor girl Is going to suffer
@ I’m a special education teacher and know most about those who unfortunately are on the spectrum. No disrespect but you wouldn’t be saying what you’re saying about Niles if you knew more about autism and what its characteristics were and what is considered normal and not normal with those whom have it. It’s not using excuses, it’s having an understanding about the disability, which it is one, and giving grace and having an understanding and some compassion about it. It’s not excusing the person but knowing where they’re coming from and why their behavior and their actions are what they are. Niles is actually a very high functioning person with autism. However, those who have the disability express their emotions or lack there of, in a different way than those who do not. He is displaying the typical characteristics and symptoms of one with it. They are usually unaware of what others are experiencing and their effects on them as they don’t have the capacity to feel like we feel, or express themselves in what we consider typical ways. That’s exactly what autism is and does. They don’t understand or have the capacity to express themselves in a manner which is what we would consider acceptable. Are you going to claim that a person with a physical disability and is in a wheelchair to still be able to walk or not let them take an elevator for their disability they have? No, we wouldn’t expect that bc we know it’s not possible and the same goes for those with certain mental disabilities, challenges, and illnesses. Just like a person who should have knowledge about and not be ignorant to this shouldn’t be making assumptions and judge others based upon their disability or not understanding first what the topic is they are commenting about. It shows lack of empathy, consideration, knowledge and respect to those who are different than you. Whatever it is that you think is the correct and matter of fact way for someone like Niles to be like, or how his reactions and emotions should be, you’re completely wrong about this and you should be able to make it a point to actually be able to understand and learn about this particular person and anyone else who is different than what you consider normal or expect when you clearly are ignorant to it. And I don’t blame you in the fact that you obviously didn’t have the opportunity or maybe chose not to be more aware and empathetic and having a clear understanding about people that are different than you or what your expectations are of others when you don’t even know them or what or why their actions, feelings, etc are as they show or appear. And I didn’t want to make this a long sounding lecture but please at least try to understand where I’m coming from and why and how passionate I am about this due to my background. Not only did I go to Graduate school for this, but I’ve also experienced it for myself as I have ADHD, anxiety, and many health issues that can be considered to be disabilities as well. Hence, my knowledge (as these are not my opinions but are facts) of this subject matter is not just from schooling and education but also real life. Like I said, no offense and no disrespect. Just trying to be clear and honest and an advocate and teacher for these individuals, though what I mentioned above, should also be applied to all human beings. Remember, we are not talking about some criminal or anything like that. These are real human beings who have the same rights and freedoms as the rest of us. I just hope you gain a better understanding of this matter and I am sorry that this is how you feel and what you believe, maybe will learn to grow if you’ve been big enough to actually take the time to get to know the facts and learn from this. Hopefully you are mature and smart enough to be able to do that. God Bless! 🙏🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️✌️🫱🏼🫲🏽👩🏼🏫🧐🧠❤️🩹
@@mimiad397 You mean Niles? I am a special education teacher and have a couple of disabilities myself. These are facts not my opinion. Every human being deserves to not be judged especially due to ignorance of others or their own expectations. Most people who are ignorant to this and still assume someone is bad or whatever when they don’t know them and assume things or expect them to be like you. One needs to have knowledge about what they’re commenting about, as well as have some compassion, empathy, and understanding what and why his reactions and feelings and emotions may come off as unacceptable. But his brain is completely different than most of us. Those with autism lack what I mentioned above nor do they know how to express themselves in an always appropriate manner and seem to lack empathy for others and understanding of all this. But that’s why it’s a disability. And it’s not making excuses, it’s just not being an ignorant know it all, and realizing Nyles and others like him as we all are human beings with feelings and emotions and have the right to not be judged, especially in this situation, and to enjoy the rights and freedoms we all have.
Online and offline îs different. This guy îs not obliged to like her. Actually, i think he îs mature on this. If You want a life story with somebody, You need to take your time at the beginning. Atraction and just having conversations are not reasons to Say You want to spend your life with a person.
Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️
Its sooo different in real life .. I was in bozos shoes in 2017, so I find him to be making the right decision by telling her .. only reason he's having to be so blunt , is because she's not being reasonable and can't accept how he feels .. also, bringing up their issues to everyone she meets, is not helping. So I say wtg bozo.. cuz when it happened to me , I didn't manage to say anything , and I tried to force it for 2 weeks instead , since this guy was staying at my house for 2 weeks , I didn't wanna kick him out and him having to pay a couple thousand $ for a hotel for 2 weeks, so good for bozo for being real
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I’m glad the elder called Matilda out. She wanted to prance around the whole village with this elaborate knocking ceremony when in fact , it’s supposed to be her nuclear family and his nuclear family and a simple breakfast or dinner in which the bride pays for. Making a living selling plantains at .88 a piece and asking for 300$ to have the sister cater is crazy. That’s their salary for two years.
It's not just a nuclear family. In Africa, aunties and uncles are involved and they are a crucial part of the nockdoor ceremony. For context, my grandfather had 24 children, some of those children had upto 10 children. I'm not sure how big Maltida's family is, but it's quite easy to have a room of 90 people who are all family. $300 really is nothing. I mean, if he was dating in the US he could easy blow through that on a date night. Matilda has been very reasonable in her ask.
@JustMe-ug3mk , impossible. Then if that’s the case no one would get married over there . Dudes is living on 2 dollars a day. Matilda and her phat sister are sleeping on the floor in destitute . Miss me with the 300$ isn’t nothing. Over there , 300$ is a bunch. And Matilda even said that Niles gives her money all the time . She could have saved for this . She wants to be show off that she’s on a tv show marrying this American dude. And then the 300 $ doesn’t include the wet bar.
@@smartguy360 HIS is, the fact that he keeps lying and this is his reaction to being called out is scary; she's mad he lied, why is HE mad in that situation? Because she won't 'shut up' (ie; stop expressing her emotions)? Autistic or not, the issues that seem to be arising from him feel enabled by his condition, not because of it.
No matter what this man does or all many red flags there are Ingrid will always forgive him… you know why because she’s like all the rest of them they just wanna come to this country the USA
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎
I feel so bad for Sunny, he needs someone more mature and grown up. Veah needs to go figure out her life and become an adult before marrying anyone. Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏 Loren is disgusting and forcing someone, just anyone to help him find a way for him to get citizenship there. Magda is just using Joe. So many red flags.. Seems like she wants to get married and have kids, move to USA, get citizenship, then divorce and get half of everything and child support and be in America all she wants. She needs to just enjoy it and let the relationship flow naturally, she making a damn schedule to be in America and be married to him before 2024 ends or something before even making love to the man.. Geez. Omg! Niles and Matilda! Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
Thank u! Cause I see nothing but facts Specially about the Matilda situation as an African I can tell u, he did disgrace her, he could have just told her the truth And Vanya should definitely see what’s up with Bozzos friend 😹
The situation with Vanja and BoZo - I think he did so much lying about his career and his life that he couldn’t face her and was on the defense with “I’m just not feeling you” to save face.
Maybe he really feeling her. it is different when you meet someone in person. Perhaps she was too glamorous and rich looking for him.
Vanya must be desperate, the dude left her for another woman then is back 2 months later and she takes him back, that is desperation
He has nothing to offer her, his room at moms? He bragged he goes business to business daily like a stray dog and they give him things to eat. And he plays pick up basketball. Suddenly here is a real, overbearing woman in his face ready to collect on his promises he cant fulfill. At least he isn't in her bed making more false promises. Ugh.
You deserve so much more Vanja, get on the next plane and leave.
Leave this Bozo behind.
@@smartguy360I think she was just stupid in love. Most of us have been there!!
Oh Faith, don't! Just don't! You're out of his league and worth so much more.
Loren is disgusting and forcing someone, just anyone to help him find a way for him to get citizenship there. 🤦♀️🤢
Vanja should be thankful it didn’t work and get away from that looser.
Just because a man doesn’t want you doesn’t mean he’s a loser, he treated her very nice they just weren’t meant to be
@ He is a looser. living with His Mom , no
job or future
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎🥰
💯 Agree! Vanja just dodged a bullet!
Bozo had no job and lived with his mother & aunt - while Vanja had four jobs and led a successful life in the U.S.
Bozo is very immature (he himself mentioned that his ex-girlfriend left him due to this) & very insecure about himself.
@@JM-wn1gr True. But if he's 38, still living with his mom, and never held down a job then that definitely makes him a loser😂
That’s right producers, start calling these people out. If you don’t know your girlfriend’s name you are not a real couple.
Loren is such a creeeeep
And so is Brian.
Niles pulls up anime moves when he’s angry😭
That boy was sittin there straight cookin! 😤😠😡🤬
😂 Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
What did he lie about? Mathilda is angry. I don't understand what happened
Someone please kick loren out of the show
Vanja ended up in a shite situation and it really sucks. But it's better to just cut your losses sooner rather than later and enjoy the rest of her vacay in beautiful Croatia. Who knows, maybe she will meet someone along the way. Chin up, girlie.
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️😎🥰🙃
I reckon basically all of his friends are so she's got that going for her.
Honestly, if I was her at the moment that happened I would’ve set out to make production follow and share me meeting other people. Maybe she would’ve met someone else and got to be on another season
Ingrid keeps being surprised dont know why, he has lied about everything, he is proud about all the engagement and marriages, he smiling why he says it
Right 😩
Yeah I believe her gut is telling her nooooo...
I think he's smiling because he thinks she's jealous, so he thinks for a split second she has feelings for him. But she's repulsed!!!!
And they way he gaslight her when she reacts. I can't stand him!
I think bozo didn’t like Vanja in person. I have seen it happen that you talk online like each other a lot and when you meet you feel different. It gets worse if one person is pushing too much. He had asked for time May be to adjust to her pink or May be …Matilda Matilda forcing it like there is no tomorrow. Veah and Rory are still dating they are using sunny to be on TV. The guy on wheelchair is such a creep, magna Magda magna 😅Loren omg 😳
Ingrid needs to stop ignoring Brian’s 99 red flags 🚩 he has consistently lied and withheld stuff from her that’s why his other collection of wives and finances got out of there cus they started to see him for what he is
Yeah I believe her gut feeling at the beginning she ignored and now she is seeing why she had that gut feeling
Does Loren not understand that's illegal 😂😂😂
Loren is insane
He sickens me to my core. I cant even eat my dinner and watch him.....
Bozo is still in love with his ex. Feeling so sorry for Vanja! She's very respectful and beautiful.
In an interview before they were shown, vanja said just wait, the show saved the most exciting and dramatic moment for them. Saying it was going to be explosive! ...yall werent that exciting to watch turns out haha.
Maybe we haven't seen the last of them yet... 😏😮🧐 Or they will be at the Tell All later on. 🤔😳😎
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Faith and Sunny ruuuuuuuuuuuun!!!!!!!!
I feel so bad for Sunny, he needs someone more mature and grown up. Veah needs to go figure out her life and become an adult before marrying anyone. Loren is disgusting and forcing someone, just anyone to help him find a way for him to get citizenship there. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
I feel so bad for Vanja but he did gave her big red flags before she went down to meet him. Does bozo really think she is ugly, what is it to think about, she is a catch and she wanted you. He is ruined the whole trip. It could have been a amazing 3 weeks but he is making everything weird.
Because He knows He is a looser.
Faith you are pretty. I know its hard to find someone. But Loren is a NO!!!
Faith hit the nail on the head saying that Loren is more invested in staying in the Philippines then being with her
Vanja looks great in the thumbnail
I just don’t understand the leaving the USA looking for love thing?!!! We have people here from around the globe!!!
Because it's a choice some people choose to make. Relax it wont affect your life one bit.
Not everyone who's in a long distance, was looking for it
6:03 omg he just keeps lying to her lolll
“ Stop talking right this instance, I need a few moments”😮😮😮 Well damnnnnn daddy😂. I don’t know whether to be taken aback, or impressed😂. If he is having a hard time during this verbal argument, what happens when she doesn’t stop talking? What happens if she gets louder and in his face?
I think you should appreciate his honesty. Better to be hurt now than later. Brian is a creep!
She's lucky he doesn't call her "magma"
😆
girl explore croatia date some one better
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏
As an African, one that comes from a modern family I feel the need to educate people on the Matilda situation.
Miles is on the wrong here and it’s a clear example of what happens when u don’t educate yourself about your partners culture!
An engagement is a big deal in Africa no matter what tribe u come from, u just don’t go propose to someone for the sake of proposing here ! Most people marry within a year after getting engaged! Also, postponing a weeding (specially the traditional one, which is super symbolic ) it’s a big deal, it’s a sh@me to her and her family , specially when u look at the reasons
He should have educated himself before he did what he did and she has all the right to being m@d and let’s not forget he kept lying to her time after time
I honestly feel he uses his disability to shy away from taking accountability, whe he seems to be extremely smart
Within a yr is fine ..
But she's not even giving him that ..
She wanted it during this trip, which should be a trip for the purpose of meeting and seeing if they're compatible ..
They've only been engaged for a few months , so as much as he needs to understand her culture , she also needs to understand a lot of things about him and his culture .. he's not rich , he took on a extra job just to afford the trip
Jessica you are right. I’m Ghanaian, married to an American. And an Akan just like Matilda but from the Nzema tribe so the culture is very similar. We don’t wait a whole year to do an engagement. The engagement is the traditional wedding. If you’re not ready to get married don’t even bring it up to her because then you will be leading her on for no reason. My husband did the knocking and was given the list for the bride price and a date. When you go for the knocking, and you are accepted, the family gives you the date to bring the items on the list and that’s the day for the traditional wedding. Mine happened two weeks after the knocking ceremony. She’s not wrong to feel upset.
Matilda is wrong. She could have educated Niles about the culture before he came. I got hoodwinked by my Sierra Leone family. And there is not a lot of information online about the culture there. The little information online, my husband says it's a bunch of lies
Omg. Vanja.... 😢❤
For everyone who liked Niles: he is a psycho unfortunately and even though he has autism he could become dangerous. He is already gaslighting Mathila in her community..and when she wants to talk about it he aggressively tells her to stop talking. I fear for her.
He uses autidm as an excuse for lying. He's a manipulator. People think if someone is pathetic they must also be good. It's not true
Omg! Niles and Matilda! Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
@@nineteenfortyeight His sort is particularly devious. I have recently been financially betrayed by just so an austic person., ho used it as a tool to fraud me out of money she owes me. It disability does not have anything to do with personal integrity.
Wow, we now got a psychiatrist who can diagnose people online hahaha. It's true that Niles didn't handle the situation well and fails to communicate, but it's Matilda who talks aggressively
Sunny is behaving like a typical Zulu man, it’s him or nothing … I think he knows his worth , and doesn’t wanna get played
I lost respect for Veah, because she treats Rory - her supposed "best friend" - like s***. She does not seem to care about how he feels at all, she just literally ran after Sunny! She is desperate. And is probably going to lose a good friend because of her actions. Rory seems like a good guy. IS RORY SINGLE??? 😁😍
Lol 😂you feel sorry for the ex-boyfriend? He should have NEVER gone to South Africa with her. He should have stayed out of her business. She's also awful for dragging him in, it's Sunny I feel sorry for right now.
@Pollyanna_Nielsen I feel bad for him because he is a good guy, he obviously cares about Veah, and I think she is using him too as a crutch.
There is no divorce in the Philippines. The mom will be legally tied with him forever if they marry. No way! 😂
He knows that. He's scheming to stay there because he doesn't want to go back to the U.S. if he marries mom but dumps faith he can still stay. That's his plan.
Vanja is so sweet and pretty im sure she’ll find someone way better, shes out of his league
I find Vanja to be too much
Shes got to be and Aries. They are too Alpha, too in your face and wants everything yesterday. She needs to find a partner exactly like that or it will never work. That Bozo didnt even have a job!!
Wth is wrong with loren. why his first go to response to any problems/situations always comes inappropriate and unsettling. I'd rather stay single then to end up with a man like him he is such a creep
Faith may settle because they think that marrying an American is a dream.
Especially Philippino's she will think shes won the golden ticket!!
These cast members ain’t it !!! the lying the scheming …just horrible
ewwuughh Loren cmon
his scheming eyes
faith wtf
MagDA thank god hes kinda cute cause he seems to suck at everything else 😅
What does she see in him?? An hes already cheated and broken her trust. Why bother..
... and thus, bozo the clown was born DUN DUN DUNNN!
Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎🥰
As a normal Philippine citizen just letting you know that we all see these weird tooooooo. Looool
Vanja is too much for his personality, she pushed everything, maybe try other colors besides pink, she is too much in presence
Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️
Miles is scary. He's a psycho
You mean Niles? He is on the spectrum. He has autism. And he’s dealing with it better than someone without having that. Do you know anything about being on the spectrum or autism? Most people do t even talk or speak and are non functioning. He is doing an admirable job especially co so seeing the situation this chick has put him through and all the lies she’s spewing.
@Danielle_Neithardt just because someone has autism does not mean they can't be a bad person. Is this kind of stereotype that makes people ignore early signs
@@Danielle_Neithardt so it’s right for people with autism to gaslight, lie and manipulate people ? He’s bad and never wants to take the blame for anything, he never apologised all he did was try to convince Matilda that he once told her that he doesn’t want a wedding which was a pure lie. Also the comments he made regarding Matilda’s home were awful . Let’s stop using autism as an excuse. If this is how he is then he should be single the poor girl Is going to suffer
@ I’m a special education teacher and know most about those who unfortunately are on the spectrum. No disrespect but you wouldn’t be saying what you’re saying about Niles if you knew more about autism and what its characteristics were and what is considered normal and not normal with those whom have it. It’s not using excuses, it’s having an understanding about the disability, which it is one, and giving grace and having an understanding and some compassion about it. It’s not excusing the person but knowing where they’re coming from and why their behavior and their actions are what they are. Niles is actually a very high functioning person with autism. However, those who have the disability express their emotions or lack there of, in a different way than those who do not. He is displaying the typical characteristics and symptoms of one with it. They are usually unaware of what others are experiencing and their effects on them as they don’t have the capacity to feel like we feel, or express themselves in what we consider typical ways. That’s exactly what autism is and does. They don’t understand or have the capacity to express themselves in a manner which is what we would consider acceptable. Are you going to claim that a person with a physical disability and is in a wheelchair to still be able to walk or not let them take an elevator for their disability they have? No, we wouldn’t expect that bc we know it’s not possible and the same goes for those with certain mental disabilities, challenges, and illnesses. Just like a person who should have knowledge about and not be ignorant to this shouldn’t be making assumptions and judge others based upon their disability or not understanding first what the topic is they are commenting about. It shows lack of empathy, consideration, knowledge and respect to those who are different than you. Whatever it is that you think is the correct and matter of fact way for someone like Niles to be like, or how his reactions and emotions should be, you’re completely wrong about this and you should be able to make it a point to actually be able to understand and learn about this particular person and anyone else who is different than what you consider normal or expect when you clearly are ignorant to it. And I don’t blame you in the fact that you obviously didn’t have the opportunity or maybe chose not to be more aware and empathetic and having a clear understanding about people that are different than you or what your expectations are of others when you don’t even know them or what or why their actions, feelings, etc are as they show or appear. And I didn’t want to make this a long sounding lecture but please at least try to understand where I’m coming from and why and how passionate I am about this due to my background. Not only did I go to Graduate school for this, but I’ve also experienced it for myself as I have ADHD, anxiety, and many health issues that can be considered to be disabilities as well. Hence, my knowledge (as these are not my opinions but are facts) of this subject matter is not just from schooling and education but also real life. Like I said, no offense and no disrespect. Just trying to be clear and honest and an advocate and teacher for these individuals, though what I mentioned above, should also be applied to all human beings. Remember, we are not talking about some criminal or anything like that. These are real human beings who have the same rights and freedoms as the rest of us. I just hope you gain a better understanding of this matter and I am sorry that this is how you feel and what you believe, maybe will learn to grow if you’ve been big enough to actually take the time to get to know the facts and learn from this. Hopefully you are mature and smart enough to be able to do that. God Bless! 🙏🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️✌️🫱🏼🫲🏽👩🏼🏫🧐🧠❤️🩹
@@mimiad397 You mean Niles? I am a special education teacher and have a couple of disabilities myself. These are facts not my opinion. Every human being deserves to not be judged especially due to ignorance of others or their own expectations. Most people who are ignorant to this and still assume someone is bad or whatever when they don’t know them and assume things or expect them to be like you. One needs to have knowledge about what they’re commenting about, as well as have some compassion, empathy, and understanding what and why his reactions and feelings and emotions may come off as unacceptable. But his brain is completely different than most of us. Those with autism lack what I mentioned above nor do they know how to express themselves in an always appropriate manner and seem to lack empathy for others and understanding of all this. But that’s why it’s a disability. And it’s not making excuses, it’s just not being an ignorant know it all, and realizing Nyles and others like him as we all are human beings with feelings and emotions and have the right to not be judged, especially in this situation, and to enjoy the rights and freedoms we all have.
0:27 They say everyone has a twin that has to be true because he's my ex's TWIN.😯
This host is so strange and robotic... is she AI? literally no expression on her face or in her voice. creepy.
Loren is so cringey the things that come out of his mouth…. Is beyond me faith don’t walk… run!!!
I feel so bad for the one dating borg, she’s in another country alone dealing with her pain from that merk .
How disgusting is this man
Online and offline îs different. This guy îs not obliged to like her. Actually, i think he îs mature on this. If You want a life story with somebody, You need to take your time at the beginning. Atraction and just having conversations are not reasons to Say You want to spend your life with a person.
Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🤷♀️
Its sooo different in real life ..
I was in bozos shoes in 2017, so I find him to be making the right decision by telling her .. only reason he's having to be so blunt , is because she's not being reasonable and can't accept how he feels .. also, bringing up their issues to everyone she meets, is not helping.
So I say wtg bozo.. cuz when it happened to me , I didn't manage to say anything , and I tried to force it for 2 weeks instead , since this guy was staying at my house for 2 weeks , I didn't wanna kick him out and him having to pay a couple thousand $ for a hotel for 2 weeks, so good for bozo for being real
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Faith just wants one thing and one thing only to go to the USA!
Oh my Good
I’m glad the elder called Matilda out. She wanted to prance around the whole village with this elaborate knocking ceremony when in fact , it’s supposed to be her nuclear family and his nuclear family and a simple breakfast or dinner in which the bride pays for. Making a living selling plantains at .88 a piece and asking for 300$ to have the sister cater is crazy. That’s their salary for two years.
Her anger is scary to me, niles either needs to check her now or run
It's not just a nuclear family. In Africa, aunties and uncles are involved and they are a crucial part of the nockdoor ceremony.
For context, my grandfather had 24 children, some of those children had upto 10 children.
I'm not sure how big Maltida's family is, but it's quite easy to have a room of 90 people who are all family.
$300 really is nothing. I mean, if he was dating in the US he could easy blow through that on a date night. Matilda has been very reasonable in her ask.
@JustMe-ug3mk , impossible. Then if that’s the case no one would get married over there . Dudes is living on 2 dollars a day. Matilda and her phat sister are sleeping on the floor in destitute . Miss me with the 300$ isn’t nothing. Over there , 300$ is a bunch. And Matilda even said that Niles gives her money all the time . She could have saved for this . She wants to be show off that she’s on a tv show marrying this American dude. And then the 300 $ doesn’t include the wet bar.
That anger is not scary.
Rayne is scary, Angela is scary. I think you are saying that because she is from Ghana... @@smartguy360
@@smartguy360 HIS is, the fact that he keeps lying and this is his reaction to being called out is scary; she's mad he lied, why is HE mad in that situation? Because she won't 'shut up' (ie; stop expressing her emotions)?
Autistic or not, the issues that seem to be arising from him feel enabled by his condition, not because of it.
Like I said last week date one of his friends it's okay bcuz y'all never had sex so it's fine 😮😮😮
Joe is a little dim.
No matter what this man does or all many red flags there are Ingrid will always forgive him… you know why because she’s like all the rest of them they just wanna come to this country the USA
Faith seems to keep on doing it too! 🤦♀️😒
Vanja girl look 👀 no further than his friends!!!!! lol
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Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏🙃🤷♀️😎
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I mean they’re all good looking and mature no one will judge her
I feel so bad for Sunny, he needs someone more mature and grown up. Veah needs to go figure out her life and become an adult before marrying anyone. Bozo is dumb. Vanja needs to just go home or see what's up with his friends. She shouldn't have left the table when he broke up with her, just turned and said "As a single woman, would any of you gentlemen be interested in acquiring my number before I take my exit?" 😏 Loren is disgusting and forcing someone, just anyone to help him find a way for him to get citizenship there. Magda is just using Joe. So many red flags.. Seems like she wants to get married and have kids, move to USA, get citizenship, then divorce and get half of everything and child support and be in America all she wants. She needs to just enjoy it and let the relationship flow naturally, she making a damn schedule to be in America and be married to him before 2024 ends or something before even making love to the man.. Geez. Omg! Niles and Matilda! Niles knew how important family was in the whole engagement process, both his family and hers, he was supposed to bring his whole family to meet her whole family in the first place to ask her to be his wife and she did tell him that! Now he's disgracing her to her whole town cuz he thinks she's "forcing" him to pay whatever she says he has to. He did not even ask Matilda "Hey, I can do like $100-$150 whatever, and can we maybe cut back on guests? Your uncle's friends don't really need to attend." Instead he went and talked bad on her to a respected member of her community!!! How horrible!! When she clearly states she has never asked for a dime from him before and isn't with him for his money.. So frustrating.. He's comfortable talking to Mr. Arc about his concerns about that big of a knocking ceremony but not his own fiancé first? Grrrr! Niles knew not to talk down on Matilda and make her family or her look like that... I do not think Matilda has ill intentions, she's just happy and excited and wants the big wedding and engagement and everything that every girl dreams of and got carried away. He should have just talked to her first about his concerns, she would have understood. Not like how Magda is using Joe.. or how Brian just wants a caregiver he can bang..
Thank u! Cause I see nothing but facts
Specially about the Matilda situation as an African I can tell u, he did disgrace her, he could have just told her the truth
And Vanya should definitely see what’s up with Bozzos friend 😹