Living Without a Stomach-Steve

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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Steve, a cancer survivor in Marin County, California. Here’s a link to Steve’s book: www.amazon.com/Killer-Graces-...
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  • @irwinmarant6014
    @irwinmarant6014 หลายเดือนก่อน +481

    Great Story!! I’m a pancreatic cancer survivor. (9 years now)

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I love hearing that. I lost my dear friend from it 9 years ago

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@keeper6458There is hope! I lost a very dear friend to pancreatic cancer. His only symptom was lower back pain. He went very quickly.
      RIP Fred❤

    • @nhlibra
      @nhlibra หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Awesome. I know that you know that you are in a VERY small group. ❣

    • @pamelachandler1813
      @pamelachandler1813 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Amazing, congratulations 🎉

    • @pamelachandler1813
      @pamelachandler1813 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Steve is proof that an addict can recover. Wow, what a story! 🙏🏻

  • @TheAnthoula14
    @TheAnthoula14 หลายเดือนก่อน +529

    This gentleman, who's been through utter hell, cancer and all, still says that withdrawal from opiates is the hardest thing he's ever done. This hopefully will reach someone out there that doesn't understand why people struggle so hard with them...doesn't matter how it started, whether you were a pain patient, cancer patient, or just picked up a heroin habit, you're still fighting the same insanely hard battle...

    • @magyarmainer4692
      @magyarmainer4692 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      So true. It HAS to be. I have never experienced addiction to opiates and I'm so thankful for that but obviously people don't want to be put in that position and from everything I've heard on soft white underbelly and through friends and friends of friends. It is a very, very painful difficult often times impossible situation.

    • @Mooonchild711
      @Mooonchild711 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      He’s 100% correct.
      I’m a recovering addict with 13 years and four months’ sobriety.
      Kicking booze was hard, but the physical withdrawal is only a few days. Kicking opiates _(sometimes as much as thirty Norcos per day)_ was the absolute hardest thing I’ve ever been through. The physical withdrawals can last months, but the cravings and depression can last _years_ as mine did.

    • @mark-ge2wm
      @mark-ge2wm หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I want to applaud everyone fighting an update addiction. It is a fight for our lives that we must battle every day. Keep on fighting

    • @bayoubabe6698
      @bayoubabe6698 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I was an alcoholic, drug addict, mentally ill girl by the time I was 18. In no way would I ever make comparisons with this guy. It’s hard AF to get our lives in order and then add all his physical health problems-He’s a champ, a living miracle. His story was amazing!! Be well and walk with the Angels🙏

    • @MiaMarie420
      @MiaMarie420 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I'm fourteen years off of opiate addiction and a breast cancer survivor.

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.197 หลายเดือนก่อน +639

    My husband just finished 1 year of radiation and chemotherapy and today he is cancer free. God is Good

    • @UnitedStatesNational
      @UnitedStatesNational หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cancer is not what you think it is and being cancer-free means your body is not detoxing anymore. His diet is the problem and if he doesn't change that that cancer will reappear cuz it never went away. It's called systemic acidosis. Look it up.... Doctors have no idea what they are doing and they are practicing on all of y'all!

    • @danameeh1568
      @danameeh1568 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yay ❤

    • @SourCat420
      @SourCat420 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

      I’m glad to hear but why would god give it to him in the first place?

    • @TheDivaShiba
      @TheDivaShiba หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Congratulations! Very true. I wish you both the best.

    • @heatherh.197
      @heatherh.197 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @SourCat420 God didn't give it to him. He allowed it.
      1 Peter 5:10 In-Context
      10 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.

  • @rickevans831
    @rickevans831 หลายเดือนก่อน +567

    Kind of hard to believe someone can live without so many vital organs and with a positive attitude is truly amazing story

    • @danameeh1568
      @danameeh1568 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Right!!! Wowza

    • @danameeh1568
      @danameeh1568 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      This is my favorite! Hes so optimistic and you really wouldn’t know his struggle ! What a guy

    • @ChristinaUniverse-lq1ex
      @ChristinaUniverse-lq1ex หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Anything is possible and humans are extremely resilient, especially with a positive attitude

    • @FLBeautyQueen
      @FLBeautyQueen 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      That would have been a better title, “Living without vital organs” b/c I almost skipped this 5 star interview

    • @txsam2802
      @txsam2802 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Idk about this one. A pick line in that area of the body is to direct drugs to the heart I’ve been through some shit and will leave it at that. Now can someone tell me if there is one I don’t know about or if this guy is possibly full of shit because I caught that very quick. Been through medical for 15 years kinda hard for me not to notice small details like that. He said it was to feed him that goes in your nose.

  • @zachp7684
    @zachp7684 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +111

    When life gives you lemons..... this guy made all the fucking lemonade!!! Inspiring.

    • @lydiamoore142
      @lydiamoore142 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mouth wash !,

    • @zachp7684
      @zachp7684 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ??

  • @bayoubabe6698
    @bayoubabe6698 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Steve, I forgot to talk about your mood and aura. You are still smiling and appear happy despite your major setbacks. Bravo🥰

  • @bethslaughter7283
    @bethslaughter7283 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Drug addiction survived on my 3rd year free of drugs. I was addicted for 22 years! Belive in yourselve! Your stronger than u think!

    • @zeeeena
      @zeeeena 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      You are an inspiration!

    • @bethslaughter7283
      @bethslaughter7283 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@zeeeena thank you so much! Never get tired of hearing that!!♡

    • @glennteasdel7424
      @glennteasdel7424 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hell yeah, you're doing great!! That is amazing to hear!

    • @debbiebarrow7557
      @debbiebarrow7557 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your message 🙏💙🇬🇧🔥💯

    • @bethslaughter7283
      @bethslaughter7283 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@glennteasdel7424 thank you so very much my friend♡

  • @desireeluvaul6257
    @desireeluvaul6257 หลายเดือนก่อน +310

    My dad has stage 4 cancer. He found out in december i pray he is also a survivor because he’s always been my rock❤❤❤

    • @lialacombe71
      @lialacombe71 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Prayers to your father Desiree! Nutrition first🙏

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Many prayers. My mom was stage 4. She beat it!

    • @Gabriele-xk6zg
      @Gabriele-xk6zg หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @foxyroxy7189
      @foxyroxy7189 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please look into soursop tea, issaiac tea and apricot kernels …. It will heal the cancer. your father can do it with his treatment or do it alone without the modern treatments i.e. radiation

    • @CarefulWithThatAxeEugene
      @CarefulWithThatAxeEugene หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Prayers for your dad. 🙏🏻♥️

  • @rachelmazza4079
    @rachelmazza4079 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    What a sweet guy. I love his delivery, he’s calming to listen to. He has like an extra good vibe.

  • @AntiPlatitude
    @AntiPlatitude 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    What a champ. All that suffering but still such a positive dude.

  • @allnaturaledgedesigns
    @allnaturaledgedesigns 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +71

    I just finished a year of chemotherapy and radiation 2 months ago for stage 3 cancer
    Cancer Free today praise God

    • @kellyganey5032
      @kellyganey5032 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      HALLELUJAH!! GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!!
      I'm SO, SO HAPPY for you! I will pray for your continued remission. ❤

  • @semmaville
    @semmaville หลายเดือนก่อน +291

    I'm a survivor! I imagined my cancer was a little girl and we held hands and walked the journey together. We each had a job to do and were best friends. I was her first, so I was confident that I would be the victor. And yes, in the end I won. But I knew she learned a trick or two and would be stronger with the next one. For those that are scared, cancer was one of the happiest years of my life because of the nurses. I was desperate for love and attention and that's exactly what the nurses gave me every visit. It was glorious. God Bless Nurses ❤❤❤

    • @PM-dg7dz
      @PM-dg7dz หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Look for the helpers

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      The beauty in finding the positive during a negative time, yet..not even giving the negative any attention at all. AT ALL. ❤

    • @bonniekaye
      @bonniekaye หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      *You have a very beautiful story!*
      *Thank you for sharing!*
      *Much love!*

    • @janewise2547
      @janewise2547 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Great interview Mark. ❤

    • @Sunnybrook69
      @Sunnybrook69 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ❤ You are truly a very inspiring person! I am completely in awe of your ability to strategically cope with your diagnosis, stand strong with your friend, learn along the way and complete the journey by teaching the valuable lessons learned to the next person (s). May you remain beautifully healthy in mind, body and spirit. God bless! ❤

  • @NadineMiller1974
    @NadineMiller1974 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    My heart goes out to you!
    I was on a feeding tube for 5 years before my total gastrectomy, partial intestines removed and my esophagus atrophied so it had to be rebuilt. I was so malnourished that my cavity free teeth began to crumble like chalk and had to be removed. I had a bone graft done last year but I cannot afford the $40k for implants. I need to be able to chew food. I do have a chest port to get nutrition and fluids every 2 weeks and vitamins as needed. After 33 major surgeries in 8 years and over $4mil in meducal bills I am truly blessed to still be here.
    When I left the hospital after 6 months in 2015 they slapped a patch on my chest and sent me home. At the time they said that only I could touch it and be careful with it...that patch was fentanyl. I along with my Doctors help made the decision to taper off it and in September 2023 I used my last patch. Going off that horrific drug was extremely tough and yet the best thing I did. I will live with chronic pain because I wasn't living being on fentanyl. I have a better understanding of how people can get so hooked on something so deadly.

    • @angelaberni8873
      @angelaberni8873 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I'm so very sorry that you had and still are going through so much pain and suffering 💔

    • @liveandletlive8804
      @liveandletlive8804 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That’s a lot to deal with!

    • @NJK-777
      @NJK-777 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Best wishes and blessings to you sir

    • @nataliemadrigal899
      @nataliemadrigal899 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are inspiring! 💪

  • @timothymcdaniel6121
    @timothymcdaniel6121 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    My aunt had stage 4 pancreas cancer. They hit the blood supply to her stomach during surgery and her stomach died. She lived a normal life for 9 years with no stomach. Doctors said she was a walking miracle.

  • @Birdtoes
    @Birdtoes 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    What an amazing man. I've had a lot of chronic health problems, but this man makes me realize that the level of pain I live in is small in comparison to him. Bless him and his family.❤

  • @medickaisu
    @medickaisu หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    I had my stomach removed in June of 2020 and remain cancer free. My cancer journey after the diagnosis was tough, but nothing close to how hard Steve has had it. The fact that he remains positive and productive and vital blows my tiny mind. What an inspiration.

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      God bless you 🙏

    • @medickaisu
      @medickaisu หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@keeper6458 Thank you. You too.

    • @BooBoosPalace
      @BooBoosPalace หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Congratulations! I am a breast cancer survivor, and the chemo., surgery, and radiation were tough! Pardon my ignorance, but how do you eat without a stomach? I was hoping Mark would ask, but he didn't. ❤

    • @medickaisu
      @medickaisu หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@BooBoosPalace Congrats for beating the beast! I too was pretty amazed that you can live a nearly normal life without a stomach. My esophagus is connected directly to my small intestine, so everything that goes into my mouth hits the digestive system like a ton of brick, I eat just like everyone else, however, there are many issues to be aware of. Right after the surgery, I could only manage 1/3 to 1/2 a cup of anything. Calorie goals for the first month were 400 - 600 a day. At about 6 weeks post op, my system started adjusting. I now eat about 1200 to 1400 a day. At 5'11", this keeps me pretty svelte. I cannot do too many sugars or carbs at a time. I get reactive hypoglycemia and something called dumping syndrome. I am very lucky. Many people have a much tougher time of it. Thank you for your interest.

    • @BooBoosPalace
      @BooBoosPalace หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@medickaisu Amazing!!! So happy you're doing well! ❤❤❤ And thank you for answering my question 🙂

  • @kathiwright4849
    @kathiwright4849 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    i have had a life of physical and mental trauma, and at 71 don’t have any good parts left. now a lung tumor darkens my horizon, and a needle biopsy cannot determine malignancy or not. so i feel a kinship with your story. so much has happened, but the flip side is grand. what a life, steve and what a great attitude. congrats on the kids graduating!

  • @lily-dq9rp
    @lily-dq9rp 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    “the smile on my face, and the excitement i have for life, is not without everyday challenges right now” - gold . Thank you for this amazing interview Steven

  • @tammyblocker825
    @tammyblocker825 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Awesome Steve! You're one of the best speakers I've ever heard.....

    • @stevemelen6832
      @stevemelen6832 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I really appreciate your comment. Thank you.

  • @brandonsamson6278
    @brandonsamson6278 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This is what a strong man is. He’s trying to be a better person every day and he spent a lot of time suffering in silence to keep a peaceful happy family environment.

  • @Brandy_Marie
    @Brandy_Marie 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This man is strong as hell

  • @Beepinsqueekin
    @Beepinsqueekin 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This man is one of the most fascinating fellows I've listened to. Very well spoken and full of energy! My husband is a cancer survivor, too.

  • @izzydeadyet7336
    @izzydeadyet7336 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    This guy enlightened me about something.. the last few years ive done nothing but stress! And my stomach has been non stop an issue.. getting nauseous, vommiting, cramping, diarrhea just unwell gut, that causes me to miss appointments and procrastinate and its a vicious cycle because it leads to more stress and more nauseousness! I could end up where he was and i need to calm down and find a way to manage all the stress before it literally eats me alive! This guy deserves all the good hes obtained after all the suffering he endured! Im an opioid addict as well so i know how truly strong he is

    • @nhlibra
      @nhlibra หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      If you were my friend, I would talk to you about a couple of things that you can do for self-care and management. 1) Deep breathing (get into the habit, every day); 2) Grounding. Kick those shoes off and touch your feet to the ground, the beach etc. Mother Earth is powerful and is in the ready position for any of us to assist in healing. 3) If you suffer with any acid stomach problems, read up on apple cider vinegar (it's inexpensive).
      Information is online. I hope you get to a better place with your stress. Practice not being so hard on yourself, that will help too. ♥

    • @susankeith326
      @susankeith326 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Have you tried meditation? It's immensely helpful.

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If you were my friend, I would strongly advise you to gather a team of counselor and physician. I nearly collapsed 5 years ago and had those awful symptoms. My doctor helped with gut medication, and my counselor helped with my sanity. PS the opioid addiction is a huge factor in your misery, but you already know that ... be ready to confront this to get well.

    • @shiningstar5919
      @shiningstar5919 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Meditation will save your health and your life

    • @norriskp
      @norriskp หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I've been where you are. I'm sorry, I know its awful & feels like you're trapped. That's how I felt, anyway. I know for me, it all originated with untreated mood issues and traumatic experiences. Which I then "treated" with the opioids. Which helped immensely at first... until they very nearly killed me. I can 100% promise you that the first thing I had to address was the addiction, because until I dealt with that, there could be no clear picture of what my underlying issues were, nor would I have been able to work on them effectively. I finally got help getting clean and sober, I went to a LOT of meetings and a LOT of therapy, and things turned around in amazing ways. The suggestions in the other replies are good too, but it all begins with getting clean. Just my experience.
      FYI - detox is SO much more comfortable if withdrawal symptoms are managed correctly, which included clonidine (alpha blocker which works miracles for withdrawal), Bentyl (antispasmodic for GI stuff), as primary meds. No methadone or suboxone needed. That's my experience, and I'm now 23 years clean and sober. I'll say extra prayers for you, my friend, and wish you all the best.

  • @samigirl1853
    @samigirl1853 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    This is by far my favorite. What an amazing, resilient, grateful, and self reflective human being. Thank you.

    • @user-zh5up3gr3n
      @user-zh5up3gr3n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How did he eat

    • @user-zh5up3gr3n
      @user-zh5up3gr3n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did they make him a stomach

    • @user-zh5up3gr3n
      @user-zh5up3gr3n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How much does he weigh now

    • @user-zh5up3gr3n
      @user-zh5up3gr3n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A pick line is also for medicine s

    • @user-zh5up3gr3n
      @user-zh5up3gr3n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God has a purpose for you

  • @julieharden8671
    @julieharden8671 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I am so happy you came into my life! I don't know you personally but the happiness you possess is striking.. Best of luck with your life Steve.❤

  • @coreymims7541
    @coreymims7541 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I’ll tell you this, these stories never cease to entertain, amaze, and humble.

  • @CrystalDimensions5
    @CrystalDimensions5 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    This man is a walking miracle. He has been to hell and back and possesses the strength and resiliency of 100 men. What an inspiration for us all. Thank you for sharing your story and I wish you all the best. May you continue safely on your journey and be invoked with the strength of body, mind and spirit. Be Well Steve and thank you Mark for your channel.

    • @Brandy_Marie
      @Brandy_Marie 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well said

  • @briank8353
    @briank8353 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Good on you bro! I'm one of the last ones standing from my friend group that made it through the oxycontin/government initiated opioid epidemic. I also reconnected with a wonderful woman from high school days and we will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary 6/17 of this year. It all really has been a crazy dream.

    • @tiffanybruner7705
      @tiffanybruner7705 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      2009 hs graduate here wondering if you are near the same age as I relate completely with the opioid comment you made.

  • @apriliniguez3661
    @apriliniguez3661 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    What a awesome story , I thought mine was crazy . I'm a cancer survivor and spinal cord injury survivor and I have Ankylosis spondylitis .what a testimony!! I tell myself I'm blessed!!

  • @pamelachandler1813
    @pamelachandler1813 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Steve is a well spoken, well adjusted young man... for all he's been through😢 He was one of the "lucky" ones, really. Bless his heart, Best of luck, to you, Steve. ❤

  • @suikiemiyazaki5503
    @suikiemiyazaki5503 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Steve is so positive. His story brought
    Her tears to my eyes but also joy. A lot to take from this interview

  • @karenmegert5872
    @karenmegert5872 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have severe neuropathy in my legs, feet, hands and arms. I am on a pain medication and I totally understand the withdrawals from the pain meds. I had the DTs from the pharmacy not giving me an emergency amount of meds because my Dr. made a mistake on the date on my prescription. Ended up in the hospital from the pain from withdrawals. I am super structured and disciplined with my meds. Some people need pain medication to just function physically daily. I so appreciate this gentleman and his story. He has the most incredible story. My ex abused me when I became sick because I was not "normal" anymore. I could not work, I could not function as a mom or ride my horses because of the pain I was in... My pain is NOTHING to this guy's.. I can't even fathom what pain is compared to this gentleman's. Ty for telling your story. Your such an inspiration to so many who struggle with addiction... It doesn't matter if it's Street drugs or medically induced dependency... Cheers sir.

  • @dougstiehl3133
    @dougstiehl3133 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Wow this man has gone thru so much but still has a positive attitude. So happy for him.

  • @DS-uw8vc
    @DS-uw8vc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    2 days before your cancer surgery, I was having mine. Congratulations on your recovery. You're an inspiration!

  • @davidpridmore9051
    @davidpridmore9051 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    As a current survivor under quarterly tests, this video was incredible. The way he described the emotional toll and changing relationships with family and friends right on. Great story! Good luck and God bless him!

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Wow! Excellent interview. And he survived this very deadly cancer. He seems like a good person. His optimism isn’t cloying. I’m a twenty-five-year survivor of breast cancer. Very pessimistic from birth. I’m glad to have “met him” here, and I wish him all the best.

  • @larrypalmer2415
    @larrypalmer2415 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    So, so inspiring! All I have is a spinal chord injury from 9 months ago, and learning to walk again. My recovery will be a piece of cake...Thank you Steve for your message of positivity.....

  • @Hintedbymarina
    @Hintedbymarina หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    As someone who has just been diagnosed with Cancer I've really been enjoying these uploads lately.....cheers to you Steve!

  • @kuyembo
    @kuyembo หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Steven's story is remarkable. He is indeed a survivor.
    Thank you Mark for curating this.

  • @jennymcbain486
    @jennymcbain486 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    What a story - most of us never have to go through a twentieth of this. Excellent indeed Mark.

  • @catheirs
    @catheirs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    You are a light, Steve! God bless you!

  • @birds771
    @birds771 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Considering how much this guy has gone through, he worked a ton to get it together in the worse of circumstance and look at how cool he is today. His speech is perfect, he is composed, he is authentic and he knows himself so much more than the majority of other folks. Congratulations Steve, well done, gold stars!

  • @heathertays89
    @heathertays89 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    My mom had stomach cancer. She was diagnosed, and four months later, she died. You are very fortunate.

    • @paulettebrooks6688
      @paulettebrooks6688 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Stomach cancer can be genetic. I know. DNA test.

  • @Dee-fitz83
    @Dee-fitz83 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good interview , I lost my husband stage 4 esophageal cancer what a beast! Happy you are a survivor and living your life!

  • @TerrieJohnson731
    @TerrieJohnson731 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    They have found masses in my abdomen. I don't want to be more specific but I was in remission for 33 years. I'm going to have to find hope where right now I am fearful and insecure. I'll befriend my medical carers as I don't have close family nearby and start watching videos. Thank you 💖

  • @christinacutter6032
    @christinacutter6032 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    What an amazing man. He’s gone through so much and still has the best outlook on life

  • @tinadzienny1929
    @tinadzienny1929 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Wow! We have similar backgrounds. Both born in January, rough childhood, diagnosed with cancer in our 30s, amazing how we can bounce back with resilience. 💕👊

  • @amccann7
    @amccann7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’ve had the exact same diagnosis and surgery as this guy. It’s an inspiration to see that he is doing so well now.

  • @allanaquino6454
    @allanaquino6454 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Hand's Down 1 Of The Best Interview BY far...Thank You For Sharing Your Story Steve And Thank You Mark For Sharing This Interview....Take Care Steve And God Bless

  • @Grace_steiner
    @Grace_steiner หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This was the most interesting story, my goodness. And also for anyone who has never gone through withdrawals, whatever you imagine it to be….it’s about 100 times worse than that. 10 years clean and so glad.

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would never wish them on my worst enemy. I wanted to die

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      5 years clean for me

    • @Grace_steiner
      @Grace_steiner หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keeper6458 that is awesome 👏🏻

  • @peggyjohnson1848
    @peggyjohnson1848 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What a fantastic story. Wow he went through so much Feel for him. Glad he survived and get to see his daughter go through school.

  • @victorianidetch
    @victorianidetch หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    What an amazing story, I too have survived cancer and yes the small blessings of life are what matter most with the people you love.

  • @boost7983
    @boost7983 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This guy is so inspiring, the epitome of the 'glass half full' attitude. Very honest, and wise. Thanks for sharing this story.

  • @freedomfan1412
    @freedomfan1412 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you, Steve! Congratulations on your sober anniversary and retaining the hope and humility to now be a grateful and kind father, husband, son and ex husband etc etc. I’ve been through a bizarre host of cancer surgeries and health issues and so so grateful to now appreciate how hope, positivity and gratitude for the little things just keeps bringing the good luck and blessings my way - and giving back to others is the key! Good fortune to your Tanya, too. It’s great that you both reconnected and keep growing your relationship every day.

  • @angemosen334
    @angemosen334 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    wow your attitude of being positive is gold. the need to live. all the best Steve with your future

  • @danameeh1568
    @danameeh1568 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This was one of my favorite interviews.
    I actually remember going to toys r us to pick out a Barbie house!
    I may have been 5:) we all have memories. Thank you for this ❤I’m 38 now 🩷😊

  • @aimeeburch8329
    @aimeeburch8329 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    What an amazing life this man has had
    So glad that he is happy and in a good place now

  • @vsavage9773
    @vsavage9773 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Very inspirational. At 72 yr old I just completed FLOT chemotherapy 3 months ago, and was just released from the hospital for surgery on my cancerous esophagus and cancerous stomach yesterday. I am now being fed, hydrated and medicated through a J tube. When strong enough I will be going through another scheme of FLOT chemotherapy. It’s just plain frightening, the cure that is, vs the untreated outcome. But I would still like to spend some more time with my wife of 42 years. Also survived the horrors of opiate withdrawal 15 years ago after MD prescribed 10 years of opiates (OxyContin and Fentanyl). Non of it has been fun, but it beats the alternative. People like Steve here give me hope and pure inspiration of what is capable given a positive attitude. Mark, for me this has been the most timely and important video you have conducted. All my thanks, sir. I also had a strangled intestine in the 2010’s. That was the 10 out of 10 on my pain scale. Worst pain I’ve ever had.

  • @truesavings1988
    @truesavings1988 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Steve you’re a blessed man, a breath of fresh air!

  • @jeanetteparrish8167
    @jeanetteparrish8167 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Steve, thank you, for your story . My father passed on from cancer.i really thought he would be able to have the chance to make it. Im happy you made it through and through it all you're living your life to the fullest. Looking ahead and loving the loved ones you have. God Bless. Thank you, Mark, for these interviews.😊

  • @alwaysstraitup
    @alwaysstraitup 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    As someone who lost vital organs (My kidneys due to a genetic disease), at age 28, after 12 years of dialysis and 2 kidney transplants, gastroporeisis, stopping of my bowels, I can attest that everything Steve has said and experienced, everything, is 100%true and correct! Go Steve go!

    • @arupdebbarma4420
      @arupdebbarma4420 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had Anterior fundoplication
      2023/11/1
      But doctor cut my anterior vagus nerve
      Now I have anterior vagus nerve damage
      Now. I have many symptoms
      Like blur vision... nausea.... headache.....
      Very hard for me

  • @patriciakelly1744
    @patriciakelly1744 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What a happy ending story ~ Bless you Steve, what a wonderful inspiration you are for SO MANY of us !!

  • @markshapiro9013
    @markshapiro9013 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I absolutely LOVE this guy Steve!...He really is brilliant!...What a STORY!!!...COURAGE!!!...INSPIRATION!!!...Thank you SO much for ALL of your work too Mark!...This video is a "share" and a "relisten!"...One Human Family!!!👍😊❤️

  • @Gram72534
    @Gram72534 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Congratulations on 5.5, mil subs!!! You earned and deserve each and every one!!!!

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good morning, Gram! Let's get this Monday goin'
      Yeah, 5.5 mil. Crazy! I've been here sence before 100,000

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@wesleyalan9179 I know crazy right! Same to you my friend!!!!!!

    • @frenchfry5675
      @frenchfry5675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PewDiePie has 111M.

    • @aprilsmith3683
      @aprilsmith3683 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed...🇿🇦

    • @still_becoming
      @still_becoming หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@wesleyalan9179same, I remember this channel being a bit awkward and unusual

  • @J54.
    @J54. หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    What a cool person. I love his story and attitude. He is unique. Watching this made my evening. This is the guy you want to be around. Very inspiring.

  • @desireeluvaul6257
    @desireeluvaul6257 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Its kinda fucked up his original mom lied to his dad and said he died in a car accident then gave him away without telling him wow

    • @seanm3226
      @seanm3226 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That was my first response. But possibly the birth mother knew how disruptive/intrusive for the child it would have been, for the biological father (and family) to get involved.

    • @aimeekubik8803
      @aimeekubik8803 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      if your parents are shit, let them go. Life ys too short to give people that are abusive the time of day.

  • @kristiclifton3974
    @kristiclifton3974 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Steve is truly an inspiration!! His positivity radiates out of him and his kindness shows in his eyes!! I appreciate him sharing his life story!🥰

  • @cindytackett7106
    @cindytackett7106 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Age 68, after 25 tests, images, transfusions etc. Dr's stated they are unable to find cause for internal bleeding ? They did find a giant hiatal hernia that is 35% of my abdominal volume. Add that to severe scoliosis with 77* degree curvature. Like this kind man I remain positive and will the live the final chapter in life on my terms. Here on the Oregon coast surrounded by amazing beaches,, crystal clear lakes/rivers, enchanted forests and family. I have found peace of mind here. Steve you are loved

  • @kelco64
    @kelco64 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Truly a positive, and inspirational story! Continued health and wellness!

  • @nnekadbp5730
    @nnekadbp5730 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    😮 wow ! I will never complain again when I bump my toe! What a positive human ! God bless you

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He went through a horrible time with his health. I'm so glad to see how happy he is. Congratulations on surviving cancer. It's not easy.🎗

  • @ashlynncooney8766
    @ashlynncooney8766 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Love the movie references throughout his life …I do that with music somehow it has helped me keep track of things that happen in my life

    • @aam652
      @aam652 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally agree! ❤

    • @peacelily64
      @peacelily64 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Certain songs remind of different parts of my life I like to listen to the radio stations because of the random songs that touches me 🥰

  • @nolaflowers6272
    @nolaflowers6272 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Interesting to see the outcome, Nature vs. Nurture. So glad he had a solid childhood to help navigate his challenges. What a Lucky Guy!😀👏👏👏

    • @nolaflowers6272
      @nolaflowers6272 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I wish more people would consider adoption!

  • @1428monsterdrink
    @1428monsterdrink หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Adding this to one of my favourite interviews! This really resonated a lot with me, Steve. Thanks so much ❤

  • @debbie4938
    @debbie4938 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Wow Steve !, I’m a medical professional and find you to be extremely inspiring. Thank you for sharing as your message can inspire many. Prayers and blessings

  • @kellygoesrawr5276
    @kellygoesrawr5276 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I almost didn't watch this but now I'm so glad I did. You seem like a great guy and I think your friends and family realize that. Amazing what you've been through and you still find a way to be positive.

  • @collectivecreators6312
    @collectivecreators6312 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    We all have a story only we can tell. I'm proud of you Steve. You are an inspiration to us all. Awesome interview.

  • @cathy800
    @cathy800 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Great interview Mark!!! Steve had such a powerful message. So so happy, he beat cancer. He seems like a wonderful man. I wish him great health and continued happiness the rest of his life.

  • @tonijohnson5696
    @tonijohnson5696 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Steve, you brightened my day with your interview. Thank you for sharing your life. You are so positive, and everyone needs more of that in this world 💛💌

  • @NotBornYesterday-sq7ld
    @NotBornYesterday-sq7ld 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So glad you survived cancer, regardless of the fact that initially you had been misdiagnosed. My Mom had been misdiagnosed, and I did what I could to make up for lost time, but, she didn’t make it and passed away of ovarian cancer in the early 90s. Your AA and Drug Recovery story is inspiring, as well as your cancer survivorship. Thanks for sharing your remarkable story with us!

  • @KoalaBeer.
    @KoalaBeer. 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My grandmother had 1/2 stomach removed from cancer but lived a ok life till end. Hope he lives a good life.

  • @jmarcos1008
    @jmarcos1008 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It's my favorite story to date, and it is very inspirational. Thank you for all you do.

  • @rebeccacarley6986
    @rebeccacarley6986 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Steve you truly are so blessed. The God of my understanding is using you and your life story to touch so many. Philippians 4:13 says “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Notice that’s ALL things, not just some! Continue to share your message with others and share the miracle of hope one day at a time. Thank you for letting me hear your true miraculous life story. You are a warrior and you aren’t done yet! 💜

  • @dchurch3399
    @dchurch3399 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Fascinating life. Shows what a positive attitude and having the right people around can do for you. All the best Steve, and thanks Mark for helping him to tell his story.

  • @lj9524
    @lj9524 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Interesting life story. So many challenges and so much to be thankful for. There are many threads in the tapestry in life. Fighting cancer going through surgery, chemo and radiation is hell. I know as a nurse and cancer survivor. 💕

  • @danakanter9514
    @danakanter9514 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Steve is such an incredible man. Hearing his story and seeing the true happiness in his eyes made me so happy in turn. Keep on, keepin’ on, Steve!

  • @dlittle108
    @dlittle108 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Excellent interview! Steve is such an interesting man with a great attitude.

  • @Amar1338
    @Amar1338 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I love that he's killing it ... AWESOME SHIT!

  • @seedsman02
    @seedsman02 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m fully relating to the withdrawals, talk about bouncing off the walls and tearing my hair out. Sweating and unable to sleep. My brain saying you can’t lay down you go get drugs. I’m with you, I got sick of feeling sick and walked away from it all. Especially the needle.

  • @Alexandra-us3kj
    @Alexandra-us3kj หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good for you Steve ! So well spoken and kind person. May you live a long happy life.

  • @lawsonfamilyhowdy
    @lawsonfamilyhowdy หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    There is so much we can learn from this interview.

  • @amrose250
    @amrose250 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you Steve for telling us your story. You have inspired me to be more positive and look for the little nice surprises in life. Bless you and your family. ❤

  • @marylougeorge1385
    @marylougeorge1385 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please write a book on what you've shared in your interview. It would help so many going through cancer & addiction and on the other side, you'd help so many traveling this journey with someone they love.
    You're so likeable and intelligent that it was easy to listen to and learn from.
    God bless you, from Michigan ❤❤❤

  • @leahnewyork
    @leahnewyork 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So positive and inspiring. Your interviews are important, but very often are extremely trying to witness. This one, like a diamond formed by immense pressure for eons, then cut with patience and skill, gleams with multiply faceted beauty. Thank you.

  • @justmyopinion2
    @justmyopinion2 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I love, love, *LOVE* this man! I needed to watch this right now for inspiration. I am facing the 1 year anniversary of my middle aged son's death. He was mentally ill and homeless, I wrote and wrote about it for years to advocate for a better mental healthcare system trying to make a difference. I'd lost the spark over this last year my heart has been broken and I just didn't have it in me. I need to saddle back up myself and get going, thank you SO much, Steve!

    • @ThesoundofSilenceshh
      @ThesoundofSilenceshh 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wishes for all the best as you honor him and fight for hope for others in his honor ❤😊

    • @justmyopinion2
      @justmyopinion2 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ThesoundofSilenceshh, thank you, that is very kind!

  • @roxyt5549
    @roxyt5549 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you Steve, I enjoyed listening to you tell your life story. Very amazing indeed.
    Thank you Mark

  • @keeper6458
    @keeper6458 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you Mark! Now THIS is a beautiful interview. No more Rebecca.

  • @user-gy7kk4je5r
    @user-gy7kk4je5r 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    WHAT A GREAT GUY!!! He’s still here for a reason.

  • @lj9524
    @lj9524 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    TPN is an abbreviation for Total Parenteral Nutrition. It is administered in the hospital or by the patient at home using an infusion pump. Amino acids, minerals, vitamins and lipids (fats) intravenously - nutrition for people without stomach or absorption / digestion issues.

    • @user-ce1yj1kg1y
      @user-ce1yj1kg1y 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I was on TPN for a year while my small and large intestines healed. I now spend my life with a colostomy bag but I can eat! 😊

  • @harleysgarage327
    @harleysgarage327 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I thought I had it bad with 5 intestinal surgeries resulting in the complete removal of my large intestine. Thank you Mark and Steve for making this video!