Unless you’re paying for my dress 1. Dont try to sway my decision 2. Don’t make me go over my budget. If you want something different then give me the money to pay for it.
That last one with the best friend seems like the beginning of a horror film. "It should be me..." giiiiirrrrrlllll get your s--t together and focus on your FRIEND'S happiness. Jealousy is such an ugly color on you!
The fact the mothers were pressuring their daughters to nearly doubling there budget and not even willing to chip in was horrible. It's one thing to give an opinion, and another to say "spend more even though you can't afford it and take care of it later". That's just plain bad financial advice!
She was just trying to help her because we all know the dresses she wore were the ugliest she just said her again and again to just Try it once stop over reacting no parens want bad for their children at the end she was glad that she tried it and didn't persuade her to buy that but to just put on if she likes it or can have something similar to that
no thing Yes but what is she ended up loving the $6000 dress? Then she’d suffer because she couldn’t afford it. Just because the mother just had to have things done her way, even with the risk of hurting her daughter, because otherwise she wouldn’t feel “respected” enough
Barnes Barnes It's very sad that she treated her friend like that. She isn't a true friend if she can't be happy for her. Like wtf is her deal? Maybe you're not getting married first cuz you're a horrible human being.
I’m just mad she compared her boobs to the brides as if that was important. Like how unnecessary was that? You have completely different bodies and figures.
I honestly adore Randy. He gives the brides so much respect. He respects their wishes and their budgets and works to keep the family in check while trying to make the bride feel as calm, happy and comfortable as possible.
6:15-6:23 really like are you a friend ?? Like what do you mean look at her she is getting married not you so obviously look at yourself again girl. 😑😑
Shambolic Rhetoric uhhhh nope. The second dress was awful i think she might drown in her own puke if she were to wear the exact same dress. The friend is a bitch, talking bout how her boobs are bigger than the bride's on tv. Fuck her and her fat obesed ass
Shambolic Rhetoric did she really have to say that her boobs are flat and compares it to her own boobs like bitchhhhhhh u just jealous that she got a flat chest but got married first 💀💀
guurrl, that there is a TOXIC friend, get rid of her she will only lead you astray in your life. also, that mother, Jesus! if you're going to suggest a dress wayyy over the bride's budget then you should at least offer to pay for the extra. dayymn.
That second bride's mother is... kinda mean. Like if she picked a $6000 dress which is triple the bride's budget, then she should pay if she so desperately wants her daughter to wear it.
@@sleepysalsw She s being more disrespectful. She is wasting everyone's time on something the daughter clearly does not want. It's the bride's wedding, not hers.
@@sleepysalsw Yeah... I agree. Her mom is going to lose her daughter, letting her go to make her own family. She asked her to try the dress, doesn't mean she will force her to buy it. Her last days together with her beloved daughter is just in the count of your fingers. She just wanted the best for her girl, if she can't afford it, why must she be so rude? Just try it on... trying it on doesn't mean you'll buy it, right? What's the matter with following your mother's last wishes? You don't know when she'll... leave.
@@noniwidjaja3622 Her daughter is no more lost to her than she was for the years she's been living out of home already (in fact if she does have kids soon after the wedding the focus on family will make her closer to her mum than when she's single or partnered with no kids focusing on her partner and her friends). I see her respecting her mother's opinion by working to find a dress very similar to what her mum chose but within her budget. She took her mother's criticism of the first two dresses on board, saw what her mum wanted and chose something very similar in style but at a price she could afford.
That first group pissed me off. The guy didn't approve of the brides budget but he sure the heck wasn't willing to pitch in to make it happen. Now Mommy dearest for the second bride I would have been telling her that when figures out how to put on her makeup correctly then and only then can she try to tell me how to dress. And don't get me started on the last bride's so called best friend.
My mom doesn't really like going overboard budget on anything, but she believes that it what I want is crucial to me and will make me happy, she's willing to oblige.
She's clearly one those people who's only ever happy for someone who has what they have. Not the other way around. She'd probably try to steal the groom because she's so damn jealous. I hope the bride disinvited her after watching this. She looked like she was gonna cry.
I can understand feeling a bit jealous, but your main emotion should be happiness for your friend even if there is a hint of jealousy, she's not a friend though she's a bully... 'look at her then look at me' who the hell does she think she is? I think I'd rather look at the bride than her friend... especially with a disgusting attitude like that 🤢
When my best friend got engaged she'd been dating about a year, I had been dating my bf for nine years. I sure did feel jealous, as in I wanted that for me but I never ever felt that at the expense of my friends happiness! My friend and I also have vastly different tastes when it comes to clothing styles but when I went shopping with her for her bridal gown I knew her style. I wasn't looking to put her in a dress I would wear, it wouldn't be her AND I only gave feedback if my friend asked about whether some part of the dress was flattering or whether white or cream looked better etc. (I ended up engaged not long after her wedding - same bf - both of us are still friends and still married to our significant others 18 years on.)
That girl Vanessa has the guts to go on camera and say that about her best friend and to her fiancée clearly proves she has no shame or respect for anyone
That girl who thought “I should get married first” Well to bad, you didn’t find the right one. You shouldn’t rush into marriage to be first anyhow. You would probably get divorced anyhow
I don’t like that she has those thoughts and I definitely don’t think that’s the appropriate place to share them (her focus should be on her friend having a great bridal appointment and coming away with the best dress). However, I think it’s better to have friends who are honest/trying working through things then friends who are nice to your face but are boiling with resentment behind your back. I don’t think the bride would be friends with her if she didn’t have some redeeming qualities
That last “friend” is low key a snake, talking about her body like that. I used to have fake friends like that that were never happy for me and only thought about how jealous they were whenever anything good happened to me, they would even try to talk me out of it or tell me it wasn’t as good as I thought it was. GET RID, the girl deserves better.
I unfortunately had a friend like that who was one of my maid of honors. She was extremely toxic. And a lot of the people in my wedding party couldn’t stand her and they were all warning me too that she was jealous, narcissistic, self absorbed, and loved being the victim, I had to end our friendship a year after the wedding, it was just to much to handle.
I thought the first dress looked stunning on the bride but her envious fake friend said it didn't do anything for the her out of pure envy ! Who wants a " friend " like that one ?
Honestly, that $5600 dress didn't look even a $1000. And why was the mother wanting her to get such an expensive dress? Nobody at the wedding is going to care how much the dress costed. Lol as long as the bride and groom are happy
There are dresses that cost a fraction of that simply only need slight alterations for like $150 😂 also every wedding dress looks the same if you were put pictures side by side.
Oh no, I wouldn't have made it till after the appt was over I would have booted her out right in the middle of it, actually the way the bride said she's jealous of me, I would have NEVER brought her along in the first place!!! Very toxic and dangerous person right there!!!
That "best friend" knew she was being filmed and that the bride would see it sooner or later and she still said those nasty things. Can you imagine what she could say in private?!?
If my Mom did this to me, I'd tell her to leave and go home until she had RESPECT FOR MY DECISION!!! I CANNOT STAND Mothers who MANIPULATE their daughters Wedding Dress dreams!!! I love how she said "I'm glad she respected me enough to try on the dress" LADY how about YOU SHOWING RESPECT to your daughter and HER DECISION for a dress SHE'S BUYING?! Get the HELL over yourself My daughter is getting married this June and I swear I will respect whatever decision she makes!!
The mom who was telling the girl to put on the dress she wants even tho she already said yes, that mom said that she supports her daughters decision only because she realized that it's actually really ugly 😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing: I would have sent her out. Nobody is putting down the dress that makes me happy! I have to go try on wedding dresses next week and I did not invite my mum yet...I'm thinking of doing so, but I will be warning her: MY CASH MY CHOICE.
Why show respect to someone who is not respecting you and your choices at the time? Though, she could say "Mom, either you respect my choice and my budget, or you can leave. End of discussion."
Dear Vanessa, I get it. Both of my sisters were married before me. I’ve been in the longest relationship between the three of us. I am jealous because of it. But instead of letting jealousy take control, I learned from it. I learned everything that goes into a wedding so I can get ideas and plan ahead/be ready for when the time actually comes. I wore a pretty bridesmaid dress, then an ugly one that was ordered offline. I smiled and remembered “I will not be the bridezilla” because I watched and learned from their engagements. I think you should do the same.
Took my Mom with me. Big mistake. After she said a tiara was going to make 5'2" tall me taller than my 6' fiancee, I said Thank You to the consultant, walked out, and shopped for a dress bringing only my best friend with me. Bought the dress--and tiara--of my dreams.You don't need that negativity when bridal gown shopping, and I don't care who that person is, do not bring them along. You are getting married, you are a big girl now. IMHO
LOL! Mom didn't like the dress and told me so. She also told me right before I walked down the aisle that the lace on my dress was yellow compared to the silk of the dress. Way to go, Mom. No matter what I did it wasn't right in her eyes, so I did what I wanted. Boom.
The actress girl just got pressured by her entourage and they straight up said they weren't paying for jack. All of those are toxic people. Jealous friend, get rid of her ass. She feels her friend is less deserving than her. Made me so mad.
6:20 It's bad that her BEST FRIEND Vanessa is talking like that about her, but bro John. You're just as bad for laughing at it and not defending the bride 🤦♀️👎
That mother wanted her to put on the more expensive dress, then everything she said to customize it would make it look more like the dress she picked. I'm glad the bride put her foot down, and got the dress she wanted.
5:09 "it makes me feel good that she respects me and tried the dress on" ...lady that's not respect that's getting you to shut the hell up. Respect would have been you listening to what your daughter wanted and not berating her to do something she doesn't want to
I don't understand these mothers with "their" visions for their daughters' wedding gowns. I get it, but You had your day, and your vision should be what your daughter feels beautiful in and what expresses her own taste and personality. It's not about YOU , it's about her, so stop with the power b.s. and get over yourself. My goodness, it's so unnerving to watch these mothers with such derogatory, controlling personalities, especially the ones that use that same manipulative line: "Well if I'm paying for the dress, I have the final say". I think that is awful. Yes, you should have your opinions, and your daughter will take them into consideration, but don't shame them into getting the dress that YOU want. She will regret it in the long run.
There’s an episode where the bride’s brother wanted her to go over budget and *OFFERED* to pay the difference; that’s the only time you should encourage a bride to go over!
“This is your wedding! It’s a once in a lifetime event.” Yeah, meaning she shouldn’t have to pay $2k more than she wants to for a dress she’s only going to wear once!
Our older daughter is getting married next year and I would never suck the life out of my daughter's sails by crushing her dreams. Mother's should be their daughters biggest supporters and, when it comes to something as important as a wedding gown, support your daughters choices. Dump the friends who are envious. They'll never be happy for you.
"what woman doesn't want her mother's approval?" well if the dress she picks is triple of my budget and if you're not paying for it then no I don't need her approval
when a friend is jealous it's a no no and the way she was acting it's not true friend because in the future when you will be successful and she will not be she will be very jealous and and this is not true friend because friend supposed to be happy when you are happy and supportive of your choices.
The first bride is Amy Rutberg, she plays Marci Stahl on Daredevil! She is a fantastic actress with a great attitude. Best of luck in love and life. ❤️🍀
Heavens. Don't the friends and family understand the bride has a dress budget because she still has to pay for alterations, a veil, shoes and the proper undergarments for the dress? That extra $1500 would cover that.
Honestly if I had opinionated people like that, I wouldn't invite them to my dress finding. Rather go alone. And the friend getting all jealous should have stayed home.
A WEDDING is a once in a lifetime event....even tho there's a chance she could get divorced in the future, I doubt if she married again she will have another wedding that's why most ppl just elope
That person needing to look at divorce numbers would be you! Since 2016 divorce rates have decreased. Per 1000 married women, the divorce rate is 16.9% which is down from 22.6 percent in the early 80s. I know there are idiots who say, "2/3rds of all marriages end in divorce..blah blah blah." That statistic is very old and was always wrong to begin with.
Scary friend. It amazed me that she was willing to say that on TV more than one time. She seems like the type that would try to sleep with her friend's husband behind her back as revenge.
omg the first dress looked perfect on her but i totally agree with what she is saying. its a dress you are only going to wear once so i wouldn't want to spend too much money on it either. but man she looked amazing in that first dress. she should have just taken a picture of it and then tried finding a cheaper version of it (or getting someone to make it for her)
"I can't believe she's getting married. I'm jealous. I always thought that I would get married first. I feel that it should be me." And that's the reason why you're single.
There was something Randy didn't mention: If you're married but you didn't get the wedding you wanted, don't try to live vicariously through the bride's wedding by trying to project on her what YOU would want to wear. It's her wedding, not yours. If you didn't get the wedding you wanted, too bad. You had your chance; this is hers.
That's more than jealousy, it's hate. Get rid of her. Now.
S.L. Presley yo the minute that “best friend “ started talking I was shook
That's more of "girl you need help".... Just...unbelievable.
Lol right that's what I'm saying smh
Ikr she wore a fake smile through the entire thing
Ikr you can’t call someone like that your friend 😂
Unless you’re paying for my dress 1. Dont try to sway my decision 2. Don’t make me go over my budget. If you want something different then give me the money to pay for it.
Andrea Munoz Legit. Why act like someone's made of money when they're damned clear about a budget. Like bye
I agree with you! Besides, that would be my special day, not yours! So, let me decide and choose the wedding dress that I adore.
Andrea Munoz makes a lot of sense
Andrea Munoz I totally agree
When I gonna try my wedding dress my mom not gonna be there’s. Why? She as to much opinion.
That last one with the best friend seems like the beginning of a horror film. "It should be me..." giiiiirrrrrlllll get your s--t together and focus on your FRIEND'S happiness. Jealousy is such an ugly color on you!
The fact the mothers were pressuring their daughters to nearly doubling there budget and not even willing to chip in was horrible. It's one thing to give an opinion, and another to say "spend more even though you can't afford it and take care of it later". That's just plain bad financial advice!
She was just trying to help her because we all know the dresses she wore were the ugliest she just said her again and again to just Try it once stop over reacting no parens want bad for their children at the end she was glad that she tried it and didn't persuade her to buy that but to just put on if she likes it or can have something similar to that
no thing Yes but what is she ended up loving the $6000 dress? Then she’d suffer because she couldn’t afford it. Just because the mother just had to have things done her way, even with the risk of hurting her daughter, because otherwise she wouldn’t feel “respected” enough
The mother behaved so bad at the beginning
The mother would’ve paid for it off she liked it, watch it again.
That girl is not a true friend.. she was so jealous that is was SCARY!😯
Barnes Barnes Horrible friend. should of not bought her.
Barnes Barnes It's very sad that she treated her friend like that. She isn't a true friend if she can't be happy for her. Like wtf is her deal? Maybe you're not getting married first cuz you're a horrible human being.
Being jealous a bit isn't bad but wishing to be married first and insult the bride.
I’m just mad she compared her boobs to the brides as if that was important. Like how unnecessary was that? You have completely different bodies and figures.
Pink Heart she didnt chose her look at behind the scenes the show chose hee
I honestly adore Randy. He gives the brides so much respect. He respects their wishes and their budgets and works to keep the family in check while trying to make the bride feel as calm, happy and comfortable as possible.
Eww. I hope the last bride finds less jealous envious friends.
6:15-6:23 really like are you a friend ?? Like what do you mean look at her she is getting married not you so obviously look at yourself again girl. 😑😑
She needs to be kicked to the curb. If I were a bride, I wouldn't want her in my wedding party.
Well ... you have to admit that the first dress did look awful on her. The second dress was defo better than the first but the last one was the best.
Shambolic Rhetoric uhhhh nope. The second dress was awful i think she might drown in her own puke if she were to wear the exact same dress. The friend is a bitch, talking bout how her boobs are bigger than the bride's on tv. Fuck her and her fat obesed ass
Shambolic Rhetoric did she really have to say that her boobs are flat and compares it to her own boobs like bitchhhhhhh u just jealous that she got a flat chest but got married first 💀💀
U can tell how uncomfortable the guy is😬
This "best friend" will be killing you one day
Apmau #apmau are you serious
Apmau #apmau wauw
Maybe not killing her...just sleeping with her husband and prob. getting pregnant.
Oh yeah. Killing her and wearing her skin trying to take her life.
Envy is real.
guurrl, that there is a TOXIC friend, get rid of her she will only lead you astray in your life.
also, that mother, Jesus! if you're going to suggest a dress wayyy over the bride's budget then you should at least offer to pay for the extra. dayymn.
That second bride's mother is... kinda mean. Like if she picked a $6000 dress which is triple the bride's budget, then she should pay if she so desperately wants her daughter to wear it.
And then she still critiques the dress SHE picked out!
She just wants the respect of her daughter. Her daughter is quite disrespectful towards her mother.
@@sleepysalsw She s being more disrespectful. She is wasting everyone's time on something the daughter clearly does not want. It's the bride's wedding, not hers.
@@sleepysalsw Yeah... I agree. Her mom is going to lose her daughter, letting her go to make her own family. She asked her to try the dress, doesn't mean she will force her to buy it. Her last days together with her beloved daughter is just in the count of your fingers. She just wanted the best for her girl, if she can't afford it, why must she be so rude? Just try it on... trying it on doesn't mean you'll buy it, right? What's the matter with following your mother's last wishes? You don't know when she'll... leave.
@@noniwidjaja3622 Her daughter is no more lost to her than she was for the years she's been living out of home already (in fact if she does have kids soon after the wedding the focus on family will make her closer to her mum than when she's single or partnered with no kids focusing on her partner and her friends). I see her respecting her mother's opinion by working to find a dress very similar to what her mum chose but within her budget. She took her mother's criticism of the first two dresses on board, saw what her mum wanted and chose something very similar in style but at a price she could afford.
That first group pissed me off. The guy didn't approve of the brides budget but he sure the heck wasn't willing to pitch in to make it happen. Now Mommy dearest for the second bride I would have been telling her that when figures out how to put on her makeup correctly then and only then can she try to tell me how to dress. And don't get me started on the last bride's so called best friend.
@Tammy exactly
I don't know about y'all but my mother would NEVER encourage me to go over budget on ANYTHING, whether it be groceries or wedding dresses.
My mom would would actively be looking in the bargain bin...especially for a wedding dress, lol.
My mom doesn't really like going overboard budget on anything, but she believes that it what I want is crucial to me and will make me happy, she's willing to oblige.
lnmfao groceries
Love your name
Lol my mom and I would be either sticking to budget, or being thrifty and checking the sale rack
I loved when Randy called out the second brides mom "I work for your daughter" lmao 🤣👌😂
The last girl is not a true friend at all!!! If it was my bestfriend, id be very happy for them!!
Alexie Kiana over time I’ve learned two things. 1) jealousy is a very real emotion and 2) in just about every case you shut it down and shove it aside
She's clearly one those people who's only ever happy for someone who has what they have. Not the other way around. She'd probably try to steal the groom because she's so damn jealous. I hope the bride disinvited her after watching this. She looked like she was gonna cry.
Mehar Daudi-Naeem that happened to me :(
I can understand feeling a bit jealous, but your main emotion should be happiness for your friend even if there is a hint of jealousy, she's not a friend though she's a bully... 'look at her then look at me' who the hell does she think she is? I think I'd rather look at the bride than her friend... especially with a disgusting attitude like that 🤢
When my best friend got engaged she'd been dating about a year, I had been dating my bf for nine years. I sure did feel jealous, as in I wanted that for me but I never ever felt that at the expense of my friends happiness!
My friend and I also have vastly different tastes when it comes to clothing styles but when I went shopping with her for her bridal gown I knew her style. I wasn't looking to put her in a dress I would wear, it wouldn't be her AND I only gave feedback if my friend asked about whether some part of the dress was flattering or whether white or cream looked better etc. (I ended up engaged not long after her wedding - same bf - both of us are still friends and still married to our significant others 18 years on.)
That girl Vanessa has the guts to go on camera and say that about her best friend and to her fiancée clearly proves she has no shame or respect for anyone
That girl who thought “I should get married first” Well to bad, you didn’t find the right one. You shouldn’t rush into marriage to be first anyhow. You would probably get divorced anyhow
Maria Olga Liukin-Nikova and she’s like “look at me and look at her” ewwwww
Nikki ASMR with that jealousy I think she would get divorced no matter she get married first or not.
You like the word "Anywho", I can tell
I don’t like that she has those thoughts and I definitely don’t think that’s the appropriate place to share them (her focus should be on her friend having a great bridal appointment and coming away with the best dress). However, I think it’s better to have friends who are honest/trying working through things then friends who are nice to your face but are boiling with resentment behind your back. I don’t think the bride would be friends with her if she didn’t have some redeeming qualities
@@lendavkanguru3520 You can't read, I can tell.
That last “friend” is low key a snake, talking about her body like that. I used to have fake friends like that that were never happy for me and only thought about how jealous they were whenever anything good happened to me, they would even try to talk me out of it or tell me it wasn’t as good as I thought it was. GET RID, the girl deserves better.
High key*
I unfortunately had a friend like that who was one of my maid of honors. She was extremely toxic. And a lot of the people in my wedding party couldn’t stand her and they were all warning me too that she was jealous, narcissistic, self absorbed, and loved being the victim, I had to end our friendship a year after the wedding, it was just to much to handle.
Damn...green is not a good color on u girl....do u even have a boyfriend?
same here. My best friend was like that . I had to get rid of her.
I thought the first dress looked stunning on the bride but her envious fake friend said it didn't do anything for the her out of pure envy ! Who wants a " friend " like that one ?
Honestly, that $5600 dress didn't look even a $1000. And why was the mother wanting her to get such an expensive dress? Nobody at the wedding is going to care how much the dress costed. Lol as long as the bride and groom are happy
GiGi. C ya that’s so true
*Cost.
Agreed. Unless you’re gonna give me the extra money, respect my budget.
There are dresses that cost a fraction of that simply only need slight alterations for like $150 😂 also every wedding dress looks the same if you were put pictures side by side.
and to not offer to offset the extra cost. That $5600 dollar dress looked horrible to be honest. I liked the bride's choice better
You could tell the middle woman was so used to dealing with her mom. She handled it really well, I don't think I could've!
Oh when that "friend" started talking shade I almost fell out me chair I was so mad
HittheTARDIS d3 😂😂😂
“Look at her then look at me” like bitch tf all I see is a downgrade fuck outta here.
HittheTARDIS d3 *The shade was real!*
Be like "well b****, it ain't your day and you're uninvited"
Love Randy he is incredibly talented as a designer and respectful as a consultant.
If that was my best friend, our friendship would've ended When my fitting was over.
I know how sad is it that thats her best friend...?
With me it would end at the fitting...
Oh no, I wouldn't have made it till after the appt was over I would have booted her out right in the middle of it, actually the way the bride said she's jealous of me, I would have NEVER brought her along in the first place!!! Very toxic and dangerous person right there!!!
That "best friend" knew she was being filmed and that the bride would see it sooner or later and she still said those nasty things. Can you imagine what she could say in private?!?
What is wrong with that friend???
Jesus
Could you be any more jealous???
😡
ikr!? Maybe if she weren't so shit, she might've married earlier lol who cares who marry first ffs..
@Jacqueline Filo you are
# Chandler
Jealous Friend: "Look at her and then look at me"
Me: and look who got the ring, not you.
Exactly! She’s not getting married because of her attitude
And the guy friend just laughing with her 😒
The last lady had such an inconsiderate and insulting "friend". She looked great in the first dress, who cares if it's not a ball gown?
If my Mom did this to me, I'd tell her to leave and go home until she had RESPECT FOR MY DECISION!!! I CANNOT STAND Mothers who MANIPULATE their daughters Wedding Dress dreams!!! I love how she said "I'm glad she respected me enough to try on the dress" LADY how about YOU SHOWING RESPECT to your daughter and HER DECISION for a dress SHE'S BUYING?! Get the HELL over yourself My daughter is getting married this June and I swear I will respect whatever decision she makes!!
That girl who was jealous. She’s needs to shutup she ain’t getting married 😂😂
She said she was jealous. It shows
Ever.
Definitely not with that attitude
I died when he asked "so you guys are going to chip in?" 😂
Oh my god that “friend” is such a tool. She needs to just go away and be alone without friends.
The mom who was telling the girl to put on the dress she wants even tho she already said yes, that mom said that she supports her daughters decision only because she realized that it's actually really ugly 😂😂😂
It wasn't ugly tho... It was prettier than the one she choose, but more expensive
@@everythingsfinett3903 I thought it was hideous and she looked much better in the dress she chose
That snide comment: “She doesn’t ask me, but that’s okay....” was just nasty.
If I was the bride that had the mom making all the decisions, I would have asked her to shut up and leave.
Christine Mullen Same.
I was thinking the same thing: I would have sent her out. Nobody is putting down the dress that makes me happy! I have to go try on wedding dresses next week and I did not invite my mum yet...I'm thinking of doing so, but I will be warning her: MY CASH MY CHOICE.
Christine Mullen I m shocked u would say SHUT UP.. U could use more respectful words for your mom
Why show respect to someone who is not respecting you and your choices at the time? Though, she could say "Mom, either you respect my choice and my budget, or you can leave. End of discussion."
lakmi Chinto just because she’s her mum doesn’t mean she should respect her if she isn’t being respectful
Dear Vanessa,
I get it. Both of my sisters were married before me. I’ve been in the longest relationship between the three of us. I am jealous because of it. But instead of letting jealousy take control, I learned from it. I learned everything that goes into a wedding so I can get ideas and plan ahead/be ready for when the time actually comes. I wore a pretty bridesmaid dress, then an ugly one that was ordered offline. I smiled and remembered “I will not be the bridezilla” because I watched and learned from their engagements. I think you should do the same.
Took my Mom with me. Big mistake. After she said a tiara was going to make 5'2" tall me taller than my 6' fiancee, I said Thank You to the consultant, walked out, and shopped for a dress bringing only my best friend with me. Bought the dress--and tiara--of my dreams.You don't need that negativity when bridal gown shopping, and I don't care who that person is, do not bring them along. You are getting married, you are a big girl now. IMHO
enterprisebaby You go girl!
I love this!!!! I would kill to know your mom’s reaction when she realized what you did.
LOL! Mom didn't like the dress and told me so. She also told me right before I walked down the aisle that the lace on my dress was yellow compared to the silk of the dress. Way to go, Mom. No matter what I did it wasn't right in her eyes, so I did what I wanted. Boom.
enterprisebaby congratulations. I admire that you stood up for yourself.
Great pos and so true
No wonder Vanessa isn’t the one getting married lol.
Listen, whoever is reading this, stay away from such a friend. Its better to have a 100 enemies than a friend like that.
Shaista Sadaf That "friend" equals 1,000 enemies alone. Let alone calling the bride flat-chested.
The actress girl just got pressured by her entourage and they straight up said they weren't paying for jack. All of those are toxic people.
Jealous friend, get rid of her ass. She feels her friend is less deserving than her. Made me so mad.
Why did the Consultant bring out a $5000 dollar dress when the Bride had a budget of $3000?
girl, drop vanessa asap
i love how Randy always works for the bride and makes sure she’s happy.
I can’t believe that friend was so open about her jealousy. Very petty and un classy lol
Not to forget pathetic
What a rude woman that Vanessa is 😡
3:43 so glad she said yes to that dress, it's so gorgeous and flattering for her in every way
Randy is a class act all around. Gotta love that guy!!
I think I see why the “best friend” in the last clip may not be married “yet”....
6:20 It's bad that her BEST FRIEND Vanessa is talking like that about her, but bro John. You're just as bad for laughing at it and not defending the bride 🤦♀️👎
That mother wanted her to put on the more expensive dress, then everything she said to customize it would make it look more like the dress she picked. I'm glad the bride put her foot down, and got the dress she wanted.
10/10 that ‘friend’ already tried some shady sh*t with the fiancée and got rejected. Hard.
Bitterness and jealousy ages you.
Yeah ew that "look at her and look at me" comment. Gross. Such insecurity and pathetic behavior.
5:09 "it makes me feel good that she respects me and tried the dress on"
...lady that's not respect that's getting you to shut the hell up. Respect would have been you listening to what your daughter wanted and not berating her to do something she doesn't want to
Best friend...You can get the ball gown when YOU are married!!!!
I don't understand these mothers with "their" visions for their daughters' wedding gowns. I get it, but You had your day, and your vision should be what your daughter feels beautiful in and what expresses her own taste and personality. It's not about YOU , it's about her, so stop with the power b.s. and get over yourself. My goodness, it's so unnerving to watch these mothers with such derogatory, controlling personalities, especially the ones that use that same manipulative line: "Well if I'm paying for the dress, I have the final say". I think that is awful. Yes, you should have your opinions, and your daughter will take them into consideration, but don't shame them into getting the dress that YOU want. She will regret it in the long run.
There’s an episode where the bride’s brother wanted her to go over budget and *OFFERED* to pay the difference; that’s the only time you should encourage a bride to go over!
“This is your wedding! It’s a once in a lifetime event.”
Yeah, meaning she shouldn’t have to pay $2k more than she wants to for a dress she’s only going to wear once!
WOW that last one...who needs enemies when you got a "bestfriend" like that
Mom,don’t force your opinions on the bride .Try letting her be in charge.
Love that line🥰
Our older daughter is getting married next year and I would never suck the life out of my daughter's sails by crushing her dreams. Mother's should be their daughters biggest supporters and, when it comes to something as important as a wedding gown, support your daughters choices.
Dump the friends who are envious. They'll never be happy for you.
"what woman doesn't want her mother's approval?"
well if the dress she picks is triple of my budget and if you're not paying for it then no I don't need her approval
Love Randy's response to everything ! That girl at the end is not a good friend. I would NOT want two face fake friend like that. Wow!
That "best friend" is probably there for the AC
Jealousy is a curse!
when a friend is jealous it's a no no and the way she was acting it's not true friend because in the future when you will be successful and she will not be she will be very jealous and and this is not true friend because friend supposed to be happy when you are happy and supportive of your choices.
That wasn't jealousy - that was envy... she needs to ditch that friend ASAP
These people are dreadful - dump them
I love him "it's above 3,500...
Them still pushing
"Oh so your gonna help buy then"
They avoid eye contact
Yeah uh huh they need to shut up
damamn that best friend was a trip... lol
That mom needs to flipping chill and that “best friend” needs to go away
So selfish “I want what she has” oh god I hope she got her out of her life fast before anything horrible happens
I'm so proud of Nicole for sticking to her budget! I hope that last bride kicked her "friend" out of her life!
6:09 that look tho
Hunny that girl is NOT your best friend if she gets that jealous and doesn't support you because of it.
The first bride is Amy Rutberg, she plays Marci Stahl on Daredevil! She is a fantastic actress with a great attitude. Best of luck in love and life. ❤️🍀
The brides ‘friend’ in the last one was absolutely disgusting. Who wouldn’t be happy for her friend getting married!?
The last girl, her poor friend john is just so uncomfortable with vanessa, he's just laughing.
"I'm glad she respects me and tried on the dress I wanted despite my not respecting her and her budget"
Wow that "friend" is such a snake like..... I'm speechless
They’re the kind of people that think just because it’s expensive it’s better
“What woman doesn’t want her mother’s approval” I know I don’t care for it. 😂 I don’t care for anyone’s opinion on my dress but my own.
Better watch that 'friend '. Her jealousy may cause her to attempt to sabotage your marriage.
Heavens. Don't the friends and family understand the bride has a dress budget because she still has to pay for alterations, a veil, shoes and the proper undergarments for the dress? That extra $1500 would cover that.
I live that the bride finally said she has the final say and that she stuck up for herself
Girl, you don't need a best friend like that!
'It should be me' says who?? And if the bride knows she's jealous why bring her at all.. I wouldn't want that 'friend' anywhere near my wedding
I couldn't stop looking at that lady's lip liner!
That friend is wicked
Honestly if I had opinionated people like that, I wouldn't invite them to my dress finding. Rather go alone. And the friend getting all jealous should have stayed home.
I love Randy he is always super respectful of the budget. How it should be. "It's your wedding day" people can shut the hell up!
once in a lifetime event... laughing my a... off !!! Somebody needs to look at divorce numbers lately !
A WEDDING is a once in a lifetime event....even tho there's a chance she could get divorced in the future, I doubt if she married again she will have another wedding that's why most ppl just elope
bleumarin1968 Well, hopefully it will be a "once in a lifetime event" if made decisions based on the marriage rate, no one would get married.
That person needing to look at divorce numbers would be you! Since 2016 divorce rates have decreased. Per 1000 married women, the divorce rate is 16.9% which is down from 22.6 percent in the early 80s. I know there are idiots who say, "2/3rds of all marriages end in divorce..blah blah blah." That statistic is very old and was always wrong to begin with.
For the 2nd story, I’m glad the bride chose the gown she wanted and not her mother’s choice. Her choice looked so much better. Shame on mom.
What kind of best friend is that?
Scary friend. It amazed me that she was willing to say that on TV more than one time. She seems like the type that would try to sleep with her friend's husband behind her back as revenge.
She’s not a real friend.
6:59 this dress has been tried and picked soooo many times. It is beautifull and the price is good, under 1500, as I remember.
omg the first dress looked perfect on her
but i totally agree with what she is saying. its a dress you are only going to wear once so i wouldn't want to spend too much money on it either.
but man she looked amazing in that first dress. she should have just taken a picture of it and then tried finding a cheaper version of it (or getting someone to make it for her)
That girl should not have even been there. Jealousy isn’t a part of a brides looking for her dress
"I can't believe she's getting married. I'm jealous. I always thought that I would get married first. I feel that it should be me." And that's the reason why you're single.
There was something Randy didn't mention: If you're married but you didn't get the wedding you wanted, don't try to live vicariously through the bride's wedding by trying to project on her what YOU would want to wear. It's her wedding, not yours. If you didn't get the wedding you wanted, too bad. You had your chance; this is hers.
I rent a dress, because wedding dress only once wear
The last jealous friend I wanted to keep asking her “ARE YOU EVEN IN A DAMN RELATIONSHIP?!?!?” Why did she keep saying “I thought I’d be first”
“Respects Me” you mean “obeys.”
Precisely!
The mom was like "I'm so glad she respects me and tried on the dress for me" well love u sure as heck don't respect her to make her...
If you pressure a bride into going over her budget, you best help her pay for it 🙄
randy to the rescue!!