@@az21bob666you assume, to think, that there’s no standard to earn the money even if coming from wealth. Especially given her character. She didn’t just have an endless bank account she could draw from. Furthermore, she chose him in spite of his mediocrity. He chose himself, and that is what’s actually funny.
@az21bob666 Well, her ancestors built generational wealth, so their kids don't have financial struggles. Also to maintain what she has takes certain capabilities. Don't be jealous.
Don't do that for a man, a woman, or for anyone else. I made this mistake to the sake of two friendships of two female friends of mine, who felt inferior towards me and were always complaining that they didn't have the degrees or the intelligence that I have. I've limited myself interacting with shallow and uneducated people to please them. My life just went downhill after that.
Same. Worrying about triggering someone else's inferiority complex and not being yourself is EXHAUSTING for your own self esteem and mental health. They will always try to put the blame on you and play the victim while putting you down.
The best line for me was "I have 14 apartment buildings that I own....." it's not that I support bragging, boasting or flexing about your generational wealth. Astrid was clearly the kindest, most elegant and soft spoken cousin and she was supportive. I wish to be strong like her, yet kind and gentle and maybe own a couple of houses too by making my own money 😅.
It sounded nice but would be overly dramatic in real world. He shouldn't have married her also means she shouldn't have married him. It goes both ways. If she found someone to cheat with, she would have. She didn't have options to marry to begin with so she married him. He got options to sleep with, he went ahead and was liking it. What's wrong with that..I do think marriages don't work as expected. It is a faulty design..
Two people shouldn't marry if they don't have similar lifestyles and habits. We stick to habits. They are hard to form and very hard to leave. People with similar habits only can survive together. If we think alike or similar it gets lot easier. Cheating is more due to sexual needs and less due to other needs. One can't fulfill else's sexual needs no matter what. It is something that will make people cheat till the end of the time..if two cheaters can't have sex I am sure their extra marital won't last longer than it is supposed to be..AIDs was a disease people feared and found ways around it. But seriously two people that are engaged in extra marital won't really stick together if it has no physical aspects to it. It is as simple as that and easier to break if one stopped enjoying that physical element for some reason with other woman or man.
I agree. Well said! I always say, when a woman is done. DONE! It’s an accumulation of hurt and disappointment. That is the driving force. We stop talking, we walk out and leave everything.
She was also such a sweetheart throughout. Plenty of the other women in the movie could be catty and mean, but she was kind and generous. Glad she got this moment in the end. She deserves someone who loves her!
I had exactly the same conversation with my ex. He told me that I stole his financial luck and killed a man inside him…just because I became pretty successful and he didn’t manage to catch up
I hope you said something like this to him as you walked out the door. Someone who truly loves you is always happy you're successful because they are there with you as well when you were struggling. Your win is their win & vice versa ❤
This scene is legendary ❤. When a good woman is taken for granted and pushed to the extreme, you bring out the beast in her and she takes total control of not just herself but everything else.❤
They bring out the beast in good women for a reason- it helps lot of other women that don't mind not being good and get the men, the pants, and every thing else too. I don't trust women. They can make it all about themselves. Keep crying not knowing where their limits end. Sure because they don't have personal parameters of success. They are copying men and what has been done before. They will never be satisfied.
Wish I'd said things like that to my ex. "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not." Ouch. YES❤!! I'm going to hold onto that one.
The last words is so powerful...I just realize... It's NOT my job to make you feel like a man... I can't make something you are NOT! Man with only his penis, doesn't work with the marriage, bro!
Regardless of gender never dumb yourself down for anyone. If they are insecure because of your strengths because of their own weak egos, or insecurities and refuse to embrace and value yours. RUN!!!!
She was a powerful image of what marriage means for integrate women in conservative societies. Even a woman of means gets treated like trash doing everything right eventually.
Let's be honest, her British accent made it sound kinder than it was meant to be and makes it so that anyone on the receiving end would not want to respond.
I love this! I love this. She walked into her power and her strength. Finally. She tried to make herself small for him and she saw it got her nowhere. I love this scene.
⚠️Leave it to a cheater to blame the one they cheated on, for cheating😑. HE disrespected her, to latch out at his inherently wealthy wife. The RESENTMENT he held for her, made him see her positive traits as a shortcoming & something negative. He needed something to justify his betrayal, & the resentment he had for his wife & mother of his child. He didn't want to accept that her lack of inquiries & poking around in his business. Was simply her wanting to wholeheartedly TRUST HIM & giving him her unconditional support. Instead, he saw it as "she doesn't love me enough to care if I'm cheating or not, because she's always too complacent about things that don't add up. Her image as a calm & collected wealthy women, is more important to her than her husband sleeping with another women. So she DESERVES to be brought down a peg or two. Her nonchalant behavior drive me to cheating , it's her fault too"🙄😑🤦🏻♀️.
“I can’t make you something you’re not.” That applies to everyone; we’re what we make ourselves. It’s not someone else’s job to make us who or what we want to be. We have to do that work ourselves.
Rightly said, a lot of times in order to express Love one gives in more than necessary and that is where the fissure appears and the chasm develops It's not your fault being from an affluent lineage, but on the contrary the lesser mortal also needs to rise up to the occasion and be more giving and equal in sentiments, which is completely one sided as it seems in this Short Video Love is giving not just receiving ♥️♥️♥️♥️💯
I was literally in her shoes and it is not your job to make a man he has be one in himself. Also i didnt own several apartments 😂. I did own my home which i worked hard for me and my son so he would inherit someday. Keep your head high the light at the end is something to aim for and worth it. ❤
did the cheating made him DUMB too asking his rich af ex-wife ‘where shes gonna go’ bruhh im so glad she hit him with that 14 apartment buildings line lmaooo 😭👏🏼
I admire her for her decision, speaks eloquently, elegant and with.dignity. So many lines so loudly spoken and all coming from hidden hurts and pain. Bravo ❤
Absolutely 💯 be ourselves , be genuine and real... We cannot make something someone who is not them...we cannot fake things to make them who they are behind doors...
I can totally understand feeling insecure in your financial earnings and generational differences, but that still isn't an excuse to cheat.. Regardless if you're man or woman, that is indeed cowardly behavior and a severe lack of trust in your partner.
The BEST line ever, " It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not". Ohhh the burnnnn!!😂
☝️that's how truth is.🤔😁⚡.go girl!👍😎
A one-two punch straight to groin😮😮
Yeah for real 😧 bruh
Wow, wow.... best line ever
One of the best lines ever
She is the hidden star of this movie, a true gem!
FACTS❤
Truth.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Lol, isn't her name Gemma Chan?
@@carameldoll96 Yes!
"Where you gonna go?"
"I have 14 apartment buildings that I own, so probably one of those."
Well, that backfired. 😂
I honestly didn't believe he asked that question. Her family literally owns Singapore!!!!! Total tool, that one
im baffled he even asked in the first place lmaooo the wife really reminded him who ‘wore the pants’ in the rs 🤭
@@jdchy6181"pants are overrated"
@@jdchy6181EXACTLY
This is a modern relationship problem. When material possessions become center stage in relationships.
When I saw this in the cinema and she said that final line, the whole audience roared!
Yeay😊
Films are so convinient these days and cinema experiencee has become rare for me...miss this😢
Yes, same experience. Everyone in the cinema roared and had to wait for like 2 minutes for everyone to quiet down. It was epic, this scene. ❤
SAME EXPERIENCE HERE
It’s not my job to make you feel like a man
"It's not my fault that I cheated and was insecure you had so much more money than me."
Funny part it not like she earn the money.
@@az21bob666you assume, to think, that there’s no standard to earn the money even if coming from wealth. Especially given her character. She didn’t just have an endless bank account she could draw from. Furthermore, she chose him in spite of his mediocrity. He chose himself, and that is what’s actually funny.
she did not earn her money she was born very rich and was given to her,
and he not medicity he was a self made millionaire,
@@az21bob666 he’s not self-made. He took advantage of her family’s money too if we’re going to use your logic.
@az21bob666 Well, her ancestors built generational wealth, so their kids don't have financial struggles. Also to maintain what she has takes certain capabilities. Don't be jealous.
Never make yourself less than for your man. It's not worth it. Speaking from experience.
Don't do that for a man, a woman, or for anyone else. I made this mistake to the sake of two friendships of two female friends of mine, who felt inferior towards me and were always complaining that they didn't have the degrees or the intelligence that I have. I've limited myself interacting with shallow and uneducated people to please them. My life just went downhill after that.
@@keldealmeida5768I’m proud of you for getting out of that mess. You don’t need their negativity in your life.
Same.
Worrying about triggering someone else's inferiority complex and not being yourself is EXHAUSTING for your own self esteem and mental health.
They will always try to put the blame on you and play the victim while putting you down.
😂 that’s sounds like an excuse for simply not being a woman…
So a woman is inherently less than? Your comment makes no sense@@abdula16
The best line for me was "I have 14 apartment buildings that I own....." it's not that I support bragging, boasting or flexing about your generational wealth. Astrid was clearly the kindest, most elegant and soft spoken cousin and she was supportive. I wish to be strong like her, yet kind and gentle and maybe own a couple of houses too by making my own money 😅.
Isn’t her name Astrid?
Good luck to you! I hope all of your dreams come true!
@@Spaceystace Hey, thank you dear. Hope you achieve all you want in life and more. Best wishes ❤️
I love that the FL and the ML both said that they wanted to be like Astrid when they grew up. LOL
Aamiin
Ouch!😮 She is savage.." I can't make you something you are not!"..and I love it!!
Bravo!!🎉🎉
She is not savage, but truthful. And the truth can be harsh.
TRUTH
It sounded nice but would be overly dramatic in real world. He shouldn't have married her also means she shouldn't have married him. It goes both ways. If she found someone to cheat with, she would have. She didn't have options to marry to begin with so she married him. He got options to sleep with, he went ahead and was liking it. What's wrong with that..I do think marriages don't work as expected. It is a faulty design..
Two people shouldn't marry if they don't have similar lifestyles and habits. We stick to habits. They are hard to form and very hard to leave. People with similar habits only can survive together. If we think alike or similar it gets lot easier. Cheating is more due to sexual needs and less due to other needs. One can't fulfill else's sexual needs no matter what. It is something that will make people cheat till the end of the time..if two cheaters can't have sex I am sure their extra marital won't last longer than it is supposed to be..AIDs was a disease people feared and found ways around it. But seriously two people that are engaged in extra marital won't really stick together if it has no physical aspects to it. It is as simple as that and easier to break if one stopped enjoying that physical element for some reason with other woman or man.
When a woman is done 😊 nothing can change her mind , women are like mirror beautiful but dangerous when broken
I agree. Well said! I always say, when a woman is done. DONE! It’s an accumulation of hurt and disappointment. That is the driving force. We stop talking, we walk out and leave everything.
You're a poet😂 thats the truth.
@@sandyweir6375💪💪
Poetry indeed.😊
Love the analogy🙂
The movie theater I was in stood up and started cheering when Astrid hit him with "I can't make you something you're not."
Her voice is so elegant to hear
Powerful statement "it's not my job to make you feel like a Man. I can't make you something you are not!"
Her final words dismantled all of the lies & excuses he concocted in his head, to justify himself. Burn of the century, YES QUEEN 👸🏻🙌🏼👏🏻👏🏻😂
She is so elegant and eloquent. ❤
Agreed
So true💥💥💥
she made her writers proud!
She was also such a sweetheart throughout. Plenty of the other women in the movie could be catty and mean, but she was kind and generous. Glad she got this moment in the end. She deserves someone who loves her!
Probably deserved that love before marrying this boy kid.
Bam! She told him! 🤣 this was a great movie! Crazy rich Asians!
I loved this movie!!
I had exactly the same conversation with my ex. He told me that I stole his financial luck and killed a man inside him…just because I became pretty successful and he didn’t manage to catch up
Waah... Next level gaslighting
Such insecure prick😂
😂
I hope you said something like this to him as you walked out the door. Someone who truly loves you is always happy you're successful because they are there with you as well when you were struggling. Your win is their win & vice versa ❤
@@cecew.1303this is so true
This scene is legendary ❤. When a good woman is taken for granted and pushed to the extreme, you bring out the beast in her and she takes total control of not just herself but everything else.❤
So agree, make sure to have plans so he doesn’t get the upper hand.
Facts
They bring out the beast in good women for a reason- it helps lot of other women that don't mind not being good and get the men, the pants, and every thing else too. I don't trust women. They can make it all about themselves. Keep crying not knowing where their limits end. Sure because they don't have personal parameters of success. They are copying men and what has been done before. They will never be satisfied.
Wish I'd said things like that to my ex. "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not." Ouch. YES❤!! I'm going to hold onto that one.
The last words is so powerful...I just realize... It's NOT my job to make you feel like a man... I can't make something you are NOT! Man with only his penis, doesn't work with the marriage, bro!
🎯🎯🎯
"I can't make you something you're not"😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏AMAZING LINE!!!!
I can’t make you something that you’re not!! Wow! That said it all
14 apartment buildings not just apartments but the whole building
I been waiting on Crazy Rich Asian 2 for years. This first one was 🔥
There's going to be the sequel movie as well as a series soon. Forget whether they said the series would be on HBO or Hulu.
Is that the title?
Regardless of gender never dumb yourself down for anyone. If they are insecure because of your strengths because of their own weak egos, or insecurities and refuse to embrace and value yours. RUN!!!!
She was a powerful image of what marriage means for integrate women in conservative societies. Even a woman of means gets treated like trash doing everything right eventually.
Gemma chan is so beautiful 😍
Loved her since humans
Let's be honest, her British accent made it sound kinder than it was meant to be and makes it so that anyone on the receiving end would not want to respond.
I think the opposite. CMIIW, her accent is a posh accent. So it should indirectly amplify how big the gap of their level is.
I love this! I love this. She walked into her power and her strength. Finally. She tried to make herself small for him and she saw it got her nowhere. I love this scene.
I want to own 14 apartment buildings if not more.
Comes with a lot of mental and emotional strife I’m sure. Imagine all the tenant complaints
complaints and maintenance are normally handled by third party companies in such situations
was so scrolling for this comment.. 😅
This was the best line. I have watched this movie multiple times, just for her. ❤
The name 🙏
“Stop talking.” Pause for effect LOL 🙌🏽
To me this is the best part of the whole movie❤️🔥
⚠️Leave it to a cheater to blame the one they cheated on, for cheating😑. HE disrespected her, to latch out at his inherently wealthy wife. The RESENTMENT he held for her, made him see her positive traits as a shortcoming & something negative.
He needed something to justify his betrayal, & the resentment he had for his wife & mother of his child.
He didn't want to accept that her lack of inquiries & poking around in his business. Was simply her wanting to wholeheartedly TRUST HIM & giving him her unconditional support. Instead, he saw it as "she doesn't love me enough to care if I'm cheating or not, because she's always too complacent about things that don't add up. Her image as a calm & collected wealthy women, is more important to her than her husband sleeping with another women. So she DESERVES to be brought down a peg or two. Her nonchalant behavior drive me to cheating , it's her fault too"🙄😑🤦🏻♀️.
in the book he is not cheating. the girlbis his cousin.
She’s the sweetest person ever. I know looks aren’t everything but she even has an amazing personality. Insecurity is real.
You girl, great actor!!! She played her role with phenomenal 👏 passion and skill!!! Great movie!!!!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
She’s so beautiful! And so right…
Astrid was so underrated 😫
“I can’t make you something you’re not.” That applies to everyone; we’re what we make ourselves. It’s not someone else’s job to make us who or what we want to be. We have to do that work ourselves.
that burn was delivered so gently
Rightly said, a lot of times in order to express Love one gives in more than necessary and that is where the fissure appears and the chasm develops
It's not your fault being from an affluent lineage, but on the contrary the lesser mortal also needs to rise up to the occasion and be more giving and equal in sentiments, which is completely one sided as it seems in this Short Video
Love is giving not just receiving
♥️♥️♥️♥️💯
This made my day. I can't stop listening and forwarding. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I was literally in her shoes and it is not your job to make a man he has be one in himself.
Also i didnt own several apartments 😂.
I did own my home which i worked hard for me and my son so he would inherit someday.
Keep your head high the light at the end is something to aim for and worth it. ❤
My favorite part of the whole movie. 🤗👍
Name of the movie??
@@syedasadaf8865, really?!?! 🤣🤣🤣 U are silly
@@syedasadaf8865 crazy rich Asians
@@syedasadaf8865 Name 👉 Crazy Rich Asians
@@syedasadaf8865Crazy Rich Asians
Truly my favourite character of this movie.
Astrid’s been my favorite of the book and Movie!!
did the cheating made him DUMB too asking his rich af ex-wife ‘where shes gonna go’ bruhh im so glad she hit him with that 14 apartment buildings line lmaooo 😭👏🏼
😂😂😂😂
Yeah
It was written like that for a “you go girl” moment
I LOOOOOOOVED this movie!!!
THAT’S right!
Love her ❤️ 💕.
She’s my favorite character in this movie !! ❤️🥰
The burn!!!
Her read was on point can we get part 2 of Crazy rich Asians
This my favorite line from the movie !!
I admire her for her decision, speaks eloquently, elegant and with.dignity. So many lines so loudly spoken and all coming from hidden hurts and pain. Bravo ❤
I really love this scene..
Last line was so cold hell froze over
Sometimes we cover ourselves to make someone else feel better about themselves.
Man felt unworthy and it got in the way of his happiness 😢
Loved her character
Gemma Chan knocked it out of the park in this role.
I love that scene. She is beautiful, gracious, and strong. She did her best. Finally, ahe breaks free.❤
I love this scene
😮😮😮🎉😢 TRUTH SHE TOLD HIM
She was such a kind person. It’s 100% his fault that things didn't work out.
She is a BADASS!! She burned him with the statement, "It s not my job to make you feel like a man . I can t make you something your not!" B U R N!
The film name is Crazy Rich Asians
❤❤
🙏🏾🙏🏾💖
Based on this clip alone, I'm going to watch this!
Absolutely 💯 be ourselves , be genuine and real...
We cannot make something someone who is not them...we cannot fake things to make them who they are behind doors...
Ive love Gemma Chan since I saw her performance in Humans
I need a little more fire in that burn: "It's not MY job to make you FEEL like a man. It's YOUR job to BE one..."
I love this scene. She was amazing. Everything she said was TRUE
I have 14 apartment buildings of my own!!!!! 😂😂😂 Love it!!! She's Good bruh!!
Her speech sums up the males we dealing with now.
Boom. My fav character in this movie ❤❤
Really didn't understand his logic. Why would you cheat on your wife to feel more important or secure with your masculinity?
Yazz gurl!! It’s not anyone’s job to make us or make them a better person. It’s our responsibilty and it’s their responsibilty.❤❤
The most iconic scene, even more iconic than the wedding I'd say.
In the book he did NOT cheat on her. I HATE thst they changed that.
Spill the tea lizzy what did he DO ????
@@weekendrad405 He faked an affair so Astrid can divorce him. He never cheated.
@@914gwen bruh did he do it to trigger a reaction cs of his inferiority complex or he just wanted to divorce cs he didn't love her anymore ??
Nice accent, "British?"
It’s Jamaican
Isn’t it Singaporean?
@@gregoryk.tanaka4285 most crazy rich asian went to british schools, no wonder they have a british accent even though they're singaporean
But she's British,
Yes dang gone it she is the real truth 💯❤️
It is true you can not raise man when he is still a boy in a grown body.
Lol he started playing the blame game when he realized she doesn't need him 🤭
I want to be "Astrid" when I grow up.
My mouth dropped when she said the last line 💀👀!!! Damn…..
The best lines ever!
She was so humble to him but he brought it to himself to be belittled 😂😂
This girl is my inspiration. Gentle, wit, loyal, independent.
Love her lines❤
It's not my job to make you feel like a man. What a line!.
In the book. He didn't really cheat on her, but made it look like he did, so that they would divorce
That CUT SO DEEP😅
Spoken like a true star…
Oooooohhhhh 🔥🔥🔥
Let's be real ladies, these type of shows are just promoting 'feminism' and rebellion in us. Be humble.
This is the best line in the movie...and the best character therein.
I had to save this video because that was POWERFUL.
And then she became an Eternal 💚
“I have 14 apartments that I own.” Biggest flex
I can totally understand feeling insecure in your financial earnings and generational differences, but that still isn't an excuse to cheat.. Regardless if you're man or woman, that is indeed cowardly behavior and a severe lack of trust in your partner.
Best line ever