It's a personal choice which frankly should be made more affordable. But also, guys, adoption is a thing? Again I'm not discounting someone's desire to have a biological child but do you have to through ALL that when you could adopt. It doesn't make you any less of a mother/father. A kid is a kid.
Also if having kids at 38 or 40, personally I think it's a little too old?? you'll be 60 when they are in college and might not even be alive when and if they marry....Like it's bad for the kid too, loosing parents in their late 20s and early 30s With adoption you can adopt a 5 or 10 year old after 35 and it'll still be the same as having a kid at 29 Like personally, I wouldn't want to have a biological child after 35....Think about the kid too, they'll have 70 yr old parents at 35....Old parents need money for healthcare and all, and at 35, you barely have started saving money
@@sup4818 hmmm, actually I don't think that's a problem? Because my own grandmother had my dad very late in life (after 4 other children). So I know you can definitely have kids later in life and it not be an issue. It's just if you decide to do that then you have an added duty to be healthy so that you can keep up with rhe kid and be there for them for a long time. It's definitely possible, considering people can live up to 80-90 easily these days.
@@anteater9408 exactly....I'm not against egg freezing or being a mother later in life but adopting an older child is better than being 60 65 when the child is just 20
@@nirajsingh8403 her sense of humour might not appeal to you, but that’s your opinion, so if anything, leave a positive comment or leave nothing at all.
I don't get it, it's exhausting to have a kid when you are in your 30s and I mean you're still young and yet it's hard to wake up in the middle of the night, running everywhere, carrying heavy bags of diapers..., but have one when your eggs are all used, like when you are 45 or 50 ? Are they warriors ? Or is there a secret like if you didn't have kids at 50 you don't need to sleep and you're in your best shape ever ?
having kids and not having time for them sucks... making time for kids but not enough to succeed at what you want also sucks... so making kids after everything is ready is a much better choice
@@elyeliza8287 I don't agree, first your career is never done, you will still evolve and have a lot of work even in your 50s. I think it's a good example as a mother to show your children that a woman can have a great career. And second, time is good but what about energy ? Can you run after your kid during hours when you are old ? Well my mother is exhausted after half a day with her granddaughter. Younger your body can survive to sleep deprivation, but when you're older ? Are you sure you won't get angry at your kid because lack of sleep ? And even if maybe we will live longer, you won't see your grandkids or you will be to old to enjoy time with them.
The problem is that there are very few live births resulting from egg freezing. You have to know the statistics before you make the financial commitment. You have to take the risk that if you delay pregnancy you might never be able to have a child. Fertility drops fast after 35.
@@Sara-qw7lc Yes, but fertility still drops. Pregnancy becomes way more brutal because your skin and muscles are less elastic than before. So its not a guranteed solution. People need to know that. That's all.
@@rairadio7119 everyone who over 30 do. You really believe women isn't reaminded that every day ? The moment you over 30 only q you get are when you having kids. Not everyone even want them.
@@Sara-qw7lc People speak of the happy stories not about the unhappy ones. On average at age 35 half of the eggs have chromosomal errors and at 40 only 1 in 8 eggs is healthy.
I think it's naive to say that egg freezing is giving women more control over their lives. If anything, it's putting more pressure on a woman to have kids. If you spend $10k-$15k just on the egg freezing process, it'll be so much harder to justify not having kids. Also, the whole concept is still pushing women into having kids.
Lilly is in her element. Hilarious and it flows so naturally, while talking about current issues. Well done Lilly.
It's a personal choice which frankly should be made more affordable.
But also, guys, adoption is a thing?
Again I'm not discounting someone's desire to have a biological child but do you have to through ALL that when you could adopt. It doesn't make you any less of a mother/father. A kid is a kid.
Also if having kids at 38 or 40, personally I think it's a little too old?? you'll be 60 when they are in college and might not even be alive when and if they marry....Like it's bad for the kid too, loosing parents in their late 20s and early 30s
With adoption you can adopt a 5 or 10 year old after 35 and it'll still be the same as having a kid at 29
Like personally, I wouldn't want to have a biological child after 35....Think about the kid too, they'll have 70 yr old parents at 35....Old parents need money for healthcare and all, and at 35, you barely have started saving money
@@sup4818 hmmm, actually I don't think that's a problem? Because my own grandmother had my dad very late in life (after 4 other children). So I know you can definitely have kids later in life and it not be an issue.
It's just if you decide to do that then you have an added duty to be healthy so that you can keep up with rhe kid and be there for them for a long time. It's definitely possible, considering people can live up to 80-90 easily these days.
@@sup4818 though yeah, I'm very pro-adoption. Children need parents and some people want children! I only see solutions!
@@sup4818 ikr! Why do people have such disregard for the KID. In marriage and motherhood it ain't all about YOU.
@@anteater9408 exactly....I'm not against egg freezing or being a mother later in life but adopting an older child is better than being 60 65 when the child is just 20
$10-$20K?! No thanks. I’ll just be a dog mom 😂
Can we petition to change her name to Cringe singh
@@nirajsingh8403 wtf why how is this related to anything
Yeah it is pretty savage.
@@nirajsingh8403 her sense of humour might not appeal to you, but that’s your opinion, so if anything, leave a positive comment or leave nothing at all.
'It's aunty entering the chat'🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"it's nice to be able to hit snooze" 😂😂
Que incognito mode bcuz I'm about to do me 👏🏿👏🏿🤣🤣🤣 Nice
"winter outdoor brunch" 😂
Yes Lilly THANK YOU for talking about this!
Comfy pact crusade 💯🔥😂
Yes queen talking about actually relevant topics💕
I should be asleep, but I CANT :/ XD
Look at Nemo! lmao
Okay, THANK YOU for discussing this!! You are a Goddess and we appreciate you repping like a ...Bawse. 😁
I'm doing me 💀
Wow
They don’t get extracted from uterus, they get extracted from the ovaries & yes this video is completely relatable!!!🙂
If I had the cash I would definitely do it!!
Grt topic Lilly thanks for video and eggs are Extracted from ovaries I think .
If you freeze your 🥚 how you gonna eat scrambled 🥚 or fried 🥚 with your toast or 🍳 🥞 waffles sausage 🥓
First lilly is the best
I personally like Third lily
Amazing! Imma freeze my eggs imma freeze my eggggggggggggs! 💃💃💃
I would like to, but its too expensive
Tbh i knew about egg freezing before hand because of swaddle
I'm here so early!!!!
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Omg so true! Not just aunties entering the chat..its my mother entering the chat 🙄😒
Everytime you watch Finding Nemo😂
Welcome those who are early here
Me me !!
Holy shit. How'd u even comment BEFORE the vid got released
@@kath8992 I commented after 1 second of release
Random, but does freezing all your eggs mean you don't get your period? Because I'm all for that.
No
Your body releases only one viable egg per month. There is no bulk delivery.
@@rairadio7119 ok, i thought they removed the eggs from the ovaries. whoops
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what do you want from me Ferrell.. either way ,,, I need something real what u got that will end this
The cake joke was so perfect, it was genius
Before having kids, lilly, it's also good to know that eggs aren't harvested from the uterus, that's not where they hang out hahaha
How many comments are there for u for meh it’s 12
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I would just rather have my husband save his seed and get a vasectomy. It’s so much cheaper.
I don't get it, it's exhausting to have a kid when you are in your 30s and I mean you're still young and yet it's hard to wake up in the middle of the night, running everywhere, carrying heavy bags of diapers..., but have one when your eggs are all used, like when you are 45 or 50 ? Are they warriors ? Or is there a secret like if you didn't have kids at 50 you don't need to sleep and you're in your best shape ever ?
having kids and not having time for them sucks... making time for kids but not enough to succeed at what you want also sucks... so making kids after everything is ready is a much better choice
@@elyeliza8287 I don't agree, first your career is never done, you will still evolve and have a lot of work even in your 50s. I think it's a good example as a mother to show your children that a woman can have a great career. And second, time is good but what about energy ? Can you run after your kid during hours when you are old ? Well my mother is exhausted after half a day with her granddaughter. Younger your body can survive to sleep deprivation, but when you're older ? Are you sure you won't get angry at your kid because lack of sleep ?
And even if maybe we will live longer, you won't see your grandkids or you will be to old to enjoy time with them.
freezing eggs like water
Shit i am, early
Jokes probably.
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The problem is that there are very few live births resulting from egg freezing. You have to know the statistics before you make the financial commitment. You have to take the risk that if you delay pregnancy you might never be able to have a child. Fertility drops fast after 35.
Doesn’t it depend on genetics too! I know a lot of women who had kids after 35 and their kids are perfectly healthy!
@@Sara-qw7lc Yes, but fertility still drops. Pregnancy becomes way more brutal because your skin and muscles are less elastic than before. So its not a guranteed solution. People need to know that. That's all.
@@rairadio7119 everyone who over 30 do. You really believe women isn't reaminded that every day ? The moment you over 30 only q you get are when you having kids. Not everyone even want them.
@@Sara-qw7lc People speak of the happy stories not about the unhappy ones. On average at age 35 half of the eggs have chromosomal errors and at 40 only 1 in 8 eggs is healthy.
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I think it's naive to say that egg freezing is giving women more control over their lives. If anything, it's putting more pressure on a woman to have kids. If you spend $10k-$15k just on the egg freezing process, it'll be so much harder to justify not having kids. Also, the whole concept is still pushing women into having kids.
Not really. It's gives women who want kids bigger time limit. Women who don't want kids not paying that much money to freeze eggs.
What really no no no no