I feel like people forget that success isn't making money, success is leading the life you dream of living. Money is just an enabler. Like i know what i wnat to do in life, i have a purpose and know that the job i want is achievable and my dream job even though it's no fancy one. Success is being happy
My whole life people never believed in me my teachers, at the beginning my parents, fellow students etc. But this was actually the fuel that motivated and drove me to prove them wrong to become something better than them and now I am at the beginning of my career as an Investment Banker in M&A the hardest field in Finance to get in... Never let someone talk you down, it does not matter what others think about you as long as you believe in yourself!
Thank you for this. I've been really struggling with my apprenticeship as a car painter for the past two years. I constantly wonder if this is what I want to do in the future, and I think about quitting 10,000 times a day because of the toxic environment at my workplace. Don't get me wrong-once you get the hang of the job, you can really enjoy the flow of your work. But my boss and every other 35+ year-old boomer working there have really distorted my sense of self-worth. This video made me realize that I do have the potential to succeed. Contrary to what they all say about me, I believe I’m pretty good at what I do. I just need to get through this last year, ace the exams, and everything will be alright. Thank you again for reigniting hope in me :)
Hey, I don't think it's even appropriate to call 35 yo boomers, I took it personally 😂 If it's only the skill issue, then of course you will make it! As long as you believe that it's "yours", you can do it. You can always try another paint shop, I guess? Anyway, I as a 31yo "boomer" believe in you 😁
Hey! It’s not really about actual age; it’s about your mindset. You know, sticking rigidly to outdated ways of doing things or tearing someone down when they suggest an idea that could save time or resources-it’s just unproductive. Honestly, almost every single one of them is your stereotypical boomer, laughing hysterically at crude sexual jokes, making inappropriate comments to minors, and just saying the most messed-up stuff you can imagine. Some of the things I’ve heard in the paint shop are among the foulest things I think a human could say. I could go on and on about the toxic stuff I’ve dealt with there and the toll it’s taken on my mental health, but it’s a bit personal for me, haha. At least I’m proud I’ve endured it for this long, and I’m finally feeling hopeful about the future. I’m sorry my comment left you feeling this way. At 31, you’re still so young, with so much life ahead of you and endless opportunities to explore :)
I hope my response helped clear some things up, and thank you for your kind words. I’ll definitely give another paint shop a try once I’ve finished my exams and my SO and I finally move out. I just really hope not every workplace is like this one!
@@z3rck754 Thank you too for your kind words 🙏 Np, I understand what you mean. Speaking of the auto businesses, I actually had some experience working at a body shop and at a general repair shop, and both of them were same as you described yours. Even though the body shop had younger dudes, they were from lower class and had everything that came with it (constant cursing, yelling, spitting and arguing for dumb reasons). I'd guess it's the norm in this kind of business. But of course there are better and more representative ones (I tried getting into one of them, but they had full staff). So don't get discouraged! 😉
What if one is broken in their childhood and further developing in life, they notice they have no personality, nothing they like or hate, nothing they love, absence of actual joy.
So you start off the video without even discussing what "success in life" is to you, and never even explain where you got the 99% from. At around 7:20, you finally define what success in life means to you: "Real success is achieved through years of sticking to the same field, battling hopelessness, ignoring the opinions of others, believing in oneself and going all the way." If I grew up being told I should do what I want, as long as i am happy. So I end up getting a 9 to 5 at a call center, solving the same few problems over and over again. I am very depressed, have no loved ones left, no friends. I stick to the same job for years, because I believe in myself and I believe I can make millions in this situation. This is to you a successful person (or at least in the future)? My point is: it is impossible for one person to define success and failure in life for anyone else. I believe the definition of success is something everyone needs to find out for themselves. For me personally, I one day, i might feel like I am on the path to success, while the next, I feel the opposite. This would implies that it is completely irrational to make up a percentage of people who "failed" in life, as it is not objective. Also, this video feels a little paradoxical as well when you tell people not to listen to others to become successful.
Take something you can easily succeed in daily, for example new diet. Once you are successful you will gain confidence that you can do more, next you can fix your sleep and at that point you will be mentally improved and then you will have the energy to know you can make it.
Being passionate is not enough. The world tends to enshitificate anything, including your passions. Also, yes you could still try again and again, but failing won't feed you.
Fail fail fail fail. There is no possibility of "success" without having failed thousands of times before. Either way, both "failure" and "success" are just concepts to have a perspective of the situation, but the perspective alone shouldnt be enough reason to stop trying. Sadly, its the actual reason why most people stop trying, because they, both internally (their own mind) and externally (other's opinions), feed a false feeling of always failing, which supposedly will result in "wasted time". The ironic thing is they will end up wasting that time in vices, unhappy jobs and so on, because they didnt chase their dreams in fear of being judged for constant failure
Im a student rn and i think art is my thing but...i also need money when i grow up to pursue my art...so i was about to choose ai engineering as my career as i thought i could manage having a job and pursue my dream at the same time but after watching this video i think otherwise...im, i dunno...stuck? Like what should i do now...i am scared of failure...do you think i should still go for ai engeneering? Cause my gut feeling says i should...or should i focus comoletely on art because i see nowadays artists are being replaced by ai...and i dont want to waste my life away like that...i dont want to live in the regret that "i should have just went for ai engeneering".
I don’t know if it helps you, but I’m student aswell and I’m kinda in a similar position, but for me it’s music. It would be my dream to make a living out of that, but it’s very hard. So, my solution was to "branch out" into the sphere of sound/sound design itself which is more likely to make a living out of. So now I’m editing podcast, sound designing videos, editing/mixing/mastering and other stuff. It still a creative work to some extent, I’m working with sound and have time to pursue music with that. Maybe something like this can be apllied to art but I don’t know. Hope this helps
Hello 👋 mindful editor here ! So I was in quite similar situation, cause I was about to choose film editing, but for me it didn’t work out , I had problems with my family and moving to another country, so I ended up choosing engineering and math , I can’t say I regret my choice , cause I like what I study and have no problems with learning , and at the same time I continue doing editing for TH-cam , but jumping from one thing to another sometimes greatly affects the quality of the video or my studies .I want to ask you a question, are you going into AI engineering because they pay a lot there or do you like it? And I personally want to remind you that nothing will ever stop you from changing your faculty . I hope my story helps you a bit . Have a great day!
@@M1ndful-Main damn I didn't realise soo many people went through the same thing, I think I am kinda interested in ai engeneering but it's mostly money, and btw listening to your story does help me feel a bit better and less overwhelmed so thanks man
This video is cheap feel good motivational slop that completely fails to take into perspective the circumstances of life. You more often than not HAVE to do what is necessary. Most people don't have the luxury to chase their dreams. You may be an amazing painter and love painting with all your heart, if you live in a village in Africa nobody will buy your paintings and you can't eat dirt, or maybe you will get lucky and a kind person will buy one in a blue moon, but you won't be able to sustain yourself that way. And when you have a family to provide for and things happen in life that requires you to invest time and money and attention, suddenly your passion goes at the bottom of your list of priorities. Then, there is also the marching of time, the older you get the harder it will be for you to do anything really, so no, people failing in life just because they didn't follow their passion is laughable.
I do hear what you say, and unfortunately there are many kids growing up in the world with little or no opportunities to chase their dreams and truly develop into who they want to be. Nonetheless, a lot of us do have wonderful opportunities but fail to recognize them or spend our lives chasing fake, unfulfilling desires, which come from copying others. Overall, all of us should work on creating more opportunities for others. I appreciate you sharing your honest thoughts.
@@M1ndful-Mainwhen passion become your work, and then it turns out you cant even much money out of it, they morph their passions to monitize it desperarly thus leading to ruining the passion, instead you can have a safe job and have set time every weekened to do what you are truly passionate about without any expectations or need to monitize it.
I feel like people forget that success isn't making money, success is leading the life you dream of living. Money is just an enabler. Like i know what i wnat to do in life, i have a purpose and know that the job i want is achievable and my dream job even though it's no fancy one. Success is being happy
This video has given me the confidence to pursue my passion for gambling
Everything on red 🔴
My whole life people never believed in me my teachers, at the beginning my parents, fellow students etc. But this was actually the fuel that motivated and drove me to prove them wrong to become something better than them and now I am at the beginning of my career as an Investment Banker in M&A the hardest field in Finance to get in... Never let someone talk you down, it does not matter what others think about you as long as you believe in yourself!
That’s a great story! Have a great day!
Thank you for bringing this issue to the surface and raising awareness!
This is so real
Thank you for this.
I've been really struggling with my apprenticeship as a car painter for the past two years. I constantly wonder if this is what I want to do in the future, and I think about quitting 10,000 times a day because of the toxic environment at my workplace. Don't get me wrong-once you get the hang of the job, you can really enjoy the flow of your work. But my boss and every other 35+ year-old boomer working there have really distorted my sense of self-worth.
This video made me realize that I do have the potential to succeed. Contrary to what they all say about me, I believe I’m pretty good at what I do. I just need to get through this last year, ace the exams, and everything will be alright.
Thank you again for reigniting hope in me :)
We are very pleased to hear that our video made a good impact on you! Have a great day !
Hey, I don't think it's even appropriate to call 35 yo boomers, I took it personally 😂
If it's only the skill issue, then of course you will make it! As long as you believe that it's "yours", you can do it. You can always try another paint shop, I guess? Anyway, I as a 31yo "boomer" believe in you 😁
Hey!
It’s not really about actual age; it’s about your mindset. You know, sticking rigidly to outdated ways of doing things or tearing someone down when they suggest an idea that could save time or resources-it’s just unproductive.
Honestly, almost every single one of them is your stereotypical boomer, laughing hysterically at crude sexual jokes, making inappropriate comments to minors, and just saying the most messed-up stuff you can imagine. Some of the things I’ve heard in the paint shop are among the foulest things I think a human could say. I could go on and on about the toxic stuff I’ve dealt with there and the toll it’s taken on my mental health, but it’s a bit personal for me, haha. At least I’m proud I’ve endured it for this long, and I’m finally feeling hopeful about the future.
I’m sorry my comment left you feeling this way. At 31, you’re still so young, with so much life ahead of you and endless opportunities to explore :)
I hope my response helped clear some things up, and thank you for your kind words.
I’ll definitely give another paint shop a try once I’ve finished my exams and my SO and I finally move out. I just really hope not every workplace is like this one!
@@z3rck754 Thank you too for your kind words 🙏 Np, I understand what you mean.
Speaking of the auto businesses, I actually had some experience working at a body shop and at a general repair shop, and both of them were same as you described yours. Even though the body shop had younger dudes, they were from lower class and had everything that came with it (constant cursing, yelling, spitting and arguing for dumb reasons). I'd guess it's the norm in this kind of business. But of course there are better and more representative ones (I tried getting into one of them, but they had full staff). So don't get discouraged! 😉
On the theme of destiny I would recommend a book: The Alchemist
This book is one of the most impactful books you can read at any point in your life. Truly a phenomenal read.
i remember watching the first video on this channel, the content and editing keeps getting better and better :D
Thank you for kind words! Have a great day!
I agree 100%
What happened to your past videos? I love 'em! Can you provide me the Google Drive links or something so I can quickly download them?
problem arise when financial constraints come into play when you talk about chasing your passion
What if one is broken in their childhood and further developing in life, they notice they have no personality, nothing they like or hate, nothing they love, absence of actual joy.
So you start off the video without even discussing what "success in life" is to you, and never even explain where you got the 99% from. At around 7:20, you finally define what success in life means to you: "Real success is achieved through years of sticking to the same field, battling hopelessness, ignoring the opinions of others, believing in oneself and going all the way." If I grew up being told I should do what I want, as long as i am happy. So I end up getting a 9 to 5 at a call center, solving the same few problems over and over again. I am very depressed, have no loved ones left, no friends. I stick to the same job for years, because I believe in myself and I believe I can make millions in this situation. This is to you a successful person (or at least in the future)? My point is: it is impossible for one person to define success and failure in life for anyone else. I believe the definition of success is something everyone needs to find out for themselves. For me personally, I one day, i might feel like I am on the path to success, while the next, I feel the opposite. This would implies that it is completely irrational to make up a percentage of people who "failed" in life, as it is not objective. Also, this video feels a little paradoxical as well when you tell people not to listen to others to become successful.
How does this guy not have a million subs!?
i guess in future
Finally!! Tho ,I am late myself. And again , it is a good one .Can see improvement in it than the last one.
New video is coming tomorrow)
Take something you can easily succeed in daily, for example new diet. Once you are successful you will gain confidence that you can do more, next you can fix your sleep and at that point you will be mentally improved and then you will have the energy to know you can make it.
Totally agree 👍
Being passionate is not enough. The world tends to enshitificate anything, including your passions. Also, yes you could still try again and again, but failing won't feed you.
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Fail fail fail fail. There is no possibility of "success" without having failed thousands of times before. Either way, both "failure" and "success" are just concepts to have a perspective of the situation, but the perspective alone shouldnt be enough reason to stop trying. Sadly, its the actual reason why most people stop trying, because they, both internally (their own mind) and externally (other's opinions), feed a false feeling of always failing, which supposedly will result in "wasted time". The ironic thing is they will end up wasting that time in vices, unhappy jobs and so on, because they didnt chase their dreams in fear of being judged for constant failure
Im a student rn and i think art is my thing but...i also need money when i grow up to pursue my art...so i was about to choose ai engineering as my career as i thought i could manage having a job and pursue my dream at the same time but after watching this video i think otherwise...im, i dunno...stuck? Like what should i do now...i am scared of failure...do you think i should still go for ai engeneering? Cause my gut feeling says i should...or should i focus comoletely on art because i see nowadays artists are being replaced by ai...and i dont want to waste my life away like that...i dont want to live in the regret that "i should have just went for ai engeneering".
I don’t know if it helps you, but I’m student aswell and I’m kinda in a similar position, but for me it’s music. It would be my dream to make a living out of that, but it’s very hard. So, my solution was to "branch out" into the sphere of sound/sound design itself which is more likely to make a living out of. So now I’m editing podcast, sound designing videos, editing/mixing/mastering and other stuff. It still a creative work to some extent, I’m working with sound and have time to pursue music with that. Maybe something like this can be apllied to art but I don’t know. Hope this helps
Hello 👋 mindful editor here ! So I was in quite similar situation, cause I was about to choose film editing, but for me it didn’t work out , I had problems with my family and moving to another country, so I ended up choosing engineering and math , I can’t say I regret my choice , cause I like what I study and have no problems with learning , and at the same time I continue doing editing for TH-cam , but jumping from one thing to another sometimes greatly affects the quality of the video or my studies .I want to ask you a question, are you going into AI engineering because they pay a lot there or do you like it? And I personally want to remind you that nothing will ever stop you from changing your faculty . I hope my story helps you a bit . Have a great day!
@@M1ndful-Main damn I didn't realise soo many people went through the same thing, I think I am kinda interested in ai engeneering but it's mostly money, and btw listening to your story does help me feel a bit better and less overwhelmed so thanks man
@@viliam1628damn bro that's actually an amazing advice thank you!
@@ZurkKart life is too difficult to pursue art as your main source of income.
Yaaaaay
New videooo
every life is a win.
Not liking the video so i have less competition in road to success
LMFAO
Bro how do you create this images
Can you clarify your question?
This video is cheap feel good motivational slop that completely fails to take into perspective the circumstances of life.
You more often than not HAVE to do what is necessary. Most people don't have the luxury to chase their dreams. You may be an amazing painter and love painting with all your heart, if you live in a village in Africa nobody will buy your paintings and you can't eat dirt, or maybe you will get lucky and a kind person will buy one in a blue moon, but you won't be able to sustain yourself that way. And when you have a family to provide for and things happen in life that requires you to invest time and money and attention, suddenly your passion goes at the bottom of your list of priorities. Then, there is also the marching of time, the older you get the harder it will be for you to do anything really, so no, people failing in life just because they didn't follow their passion is laughable.
I do hear what you say, and unfortunately there are many kids growing up in the world with little or no opportunities to chase their dreams and truly develop into who they want to be. Nonetheless, a lot of us do have wonderful opportunities but fail to recognize them or spend our lives chasing fake, unfulfilling desires, which come from copying others. Overall, all of us should work on creating more opportunities for others. I appreciate you sharing your honest thoughts.
@@M1ndful-Mainwhen passion become your work, and then it turns out you cant even much money out of it, they morph their passions to monitize it desperarly thus leading to ruining the passion, instead you can have a safe job and have set time every weekened to do what you are truly passionate about without any expectations or need to monitize it.
They returned?
i guess my grandkids will watch next video