Maya I just want to say thank you making these videos. I have always put everyone's needs before my own. I don't know if it's because I was an only child and felt I need ppl. But thru your videos and vlogs I'm learning that it's ok to do things alone. I'm with someone that started out wanting to provide but now he's really tight with money. If we have date night it's usually Netflix and chill.🙄 I like getting dressed and go to a nice dinner. Chile 🤦🏽
I love the direction your going with your channel. I really enjoy these type of series. It keeps me in check when I drift off. It’s like a wellness check for me oddly lol 💆🏾♀️ I enjoyed this video! ☺️❤️
I told a guy I wont have sex before marriage and this dude got the nerves to tell me that, if I do not allow sex before marriage then i will be 45 years and still be single.....I just looked at him and burst out laughing because I saw the mind games he was tryna play by putting pressure on me to lower my standards but he must not know about me becasue am ready for whatever it takes to hold my standards no matter what.... ladies let's all be firm with our standards and see the shift in the kinds of men that will come our way.
We love a surprise video! 👏🏽 also So many women forget the importance of romancing yourself ❤️. I’ve recently thought about how I could raise my standards so perfect timing!
This hits so close to home. I never thought of myself as one of those women until I became that woman. And I think that pride and low self respect caused me to stay for almost 3yrs. I have lived learned and raised my standards first with my self love self respect. This is great video that many won't admit that they have or ate that woman.
Yess you must have standards due to not wanting any type of man coming into your life. First and foremost is to love yourself and have the upmost respect for yourself. Hsve a personal relationship with God. Have goals in life you want to achieve.
Preach, Maya!!! 👏👏👏 I loved this vlog. So many people told me my high, God-given standards were too high and that I needed to lower them. I held tight to them knowing that God will fulfill them in His time. Let me tell you...God not only had my husband meet my standards, but surpass them! I know He will do the same for YOU in His perfect timing.🙏
My standards were so low that now I look at my ex and was like “ Damn I must have lonely as hell and desperate to deal with you”!! This dude is a solid 2 on a good day but thank God I am delivered!!!
I used to be so scared to eat out by myself. Now I enjoy it. You can literally get up and go. No waiting to get everyone's schedule in line. Just you and your own company. Cheers
Love the topic. Having standards for yourself is so important because it allows you not accept anything lower than you have set your standards too. It allows you to embrace yourself, uplift your confidence, and put yourself first. You should have a podcast❤️
I’m married and this video still touched me. Me and my husband have 4 kids and so we are always on the go!!!! He loves me no matter what but what you said about being a standard for yourself is so true. I have to feed into myself so I can be what I need as a wife and mother. Keep letting God use you !
Thank u for this ❤️ I recently I got turned down for a job opportunity because I raised my standard as to what I expected from the company, and unfortunately they couldn’t comply..I have been feeling guilty about it. But this gave me hope that I shouldn’t feel bad about wanting more for myself and have a standard in ALL areas of my life 🙏🏿
I’m back for a testimony. So the job called me back today and gave me the offer I was looking for 🙏🏿🙌🏿 Ladies if you’re reading this DO NOT SETTLE IN ANY AREA. What God has for you will be for u PERIOD ! To God be the glory
I haaate when my friends tell me I'm too picky! I'm so glad that you said this. God gives me discernment so I'll know exactly when the time is right. Just because everyone else excepts trash, doesn't mean I need to 🤷🏾♀️
Love this. I definitely need to raise my standards. I need to build it back up. I really settled and lowered my standards so bad 2019 and we broke up the end of 2020. I don’t think you should lower your standards. That’s how we end up not having reciprocity. Beautiful makeup💕
Girl! The Holy Spirit just be sending me confirmations right before my eyes. I literally just had this conversation with my girlfriend last night and we were just expressing how we need to start enforcing boundaries and break the cycle of falling back into old habits when it comes to these men. I woke up and saw this video and you just further confirmed that the time is now or never for me to take things seriously. I'm a newbie subscriber and I absolutely love your content because I see so much of myself in you! I be like "Dang... am I watching myself on video?" But besides that, you really help to motivate me!
It's important that we realize our role in how others treat us. Yes, if they're unkind, lying, entitled there's something wrong with them, but if we accept/tolerate it that's on us. Hard lesson learned. Don't let anyone convince you that your standards are too high because if you lower them you're the one living with your decisions; the one who said 'lower your standards' isn't facing the consequences. Good things are worth waiting for. I have friends who found "the one" in their late 30s or 40s & that's okay; they now have someone who treats them like queens instead of like an afterthought. Beautiful dress, beautiful makeup, and the solo dates are inspiring.
I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are representing women that sincerely want to have high standards while pleasing God. I personally relate. I am in the season of raising my standards high for my self, my children and to please my Daddy! I nine out of ten fall into sexual relationships in the first session of dating because I didn't know better. I have learned a lot over time. I am genuinely implementing what I have learned to myself, relationships regardless of rejection. Keep going. You stay in the right position in your relationship with God and your husband will find you! You are a Good Thing! So beautiful inside and out! Stay on top no matter how hard it feels! God got your back. Trust Him you will never lack.
i have to say even as a man I enjoy watching your videos and personal growth and how you carry yourself as a woman and just a person in general. I think that even though you say these things from a woman's perspective the way you hold yourself I can use to relate this to my own world in my own ways. Keep up the good work! I appreciate your videos and you!
I’ve been watching your vlogs for almost a month now and as someone who doesn’t usually watch vlogs, I’m hooked! I love your authenticity and your solo dates. I’m inspired ❤️
I’ll be 24 next month and there are so many things I’m trying to work out as far as what I want in my life. I often feel like I’ve fallen behind my peers as far as my career and life experiences. Your videos have helped me tremendously in recognizing my uniqueness and the standards that I have for myself and the people that I allow in my life are here to protect me and the Devine purpose over my life. I always enjoy your videos, it’s like listening to my big sister lol but I wish you every happiness Maya! 🙌
I so needed this today!! I received a job offer at an amazing company... they connected with me looking for my help, I didn't even have to apply. They were sold on me! But I am not too happy with the compensation. I need to stand my ground and know my worth. Thanks for the reminder! xx
You’re so right about when you don’t know what your standards are, you can’t enforce boundaries. I also love when you mention how you thought about/did things in your early 20s compared to now! It’s inspiring to me as a 24 year old knowing I will grow into myself and what I need/want. God will give me that wisdom in time! ❤️
Maya's smile and laugh 😍 Thank you for this. It can be challenging keeping up with the standards you set for yourself but the rewards are definitely worth it. By the way that dress was giving what it's supposed to give☺️ the way you present yourself inspires me to also be more intentional about my look. It's a standard that is challenging to enforce but we are slowly but surely getting there. Thank you for dropping gems as always
New subscriber! I was beginning to get bored of YT and same old same old influencers but there's something just so normal and relatable yet inspiring about Maya. A mother who encourages other women to take care of themselves and look after themselves. A great permission for us to invest in OURSELVES AS WELL as our children. Thanks Maya xx
Lockdown had me looking crazy. Constantly in a headscarf with my TaTa's swinging in a t-shirt and trackies. Now I have my first solo date booked in next week! ☺
I lovvveeeddd this video! Lately I’ve been telling myself “ I am deserving of the standards I’ve set by the Grace of God” and man, has it changed my life! This video, especially as it pertains to dating is something I’ll be watching (apart from reading my Word), every time I start to feel weak.
Great topic Maya!!! I remember I expressed to my grandfather that people often call me picky when it comes to dating men and he told me “no baby you’re not picky. You’re selective. And you should be.” I remember that always and it’s so important for us to have high standards. Thank you for being transparent and sharing your journey as well! Blessings and abundance! 💕
Maya I am LOVING your self-care/levelling up videos. I turn 30 this year and I'm going through a self-healing journey. I am finding these videos enjoyable and helpful. Keep them coming please sis.This solo date outfit is GIVINGGG! You're such a baddie when it comes to style😍
This video came at the perfect time. Were my standards not tested today. God knows I have dishonored them. But today I was so intentional about it cause no dusty formed against shall prosper. I am so proud of myself. Ladies it is possible.
Wow!! Omggg GIRL!!!! You are doing amazing! I told you the growth was coming! Wait no…God did! Millions are coming! You’re amazing! So happy watching your videos! They make me feel so glamorous and luxury!
Sis, I love surprises!!! Very unexpected video; but who’s complaining?!?!?! Not me!!!! You look amazing Maya! The one thing I’d like to comment on after watching this video is that once a woman realizes and knows who she truly is; in God’s eyes and through her own eyes; only then will HE show her and release to her what she purposefully deserves and has been waiting for. It is then when she’s ready to receive. I’m so happy to see the developments and elevations you’re going through. Even in your talk…..it’s more confident and direct! God bless you sis❤️❤️❤️
I’m so glad I found your channel. Your videos are so helpful and I’m learning so much just by listening to and just by you giving your testimonies. This year I’ve decided to learn more about me and what I want and do want in my life and personal space.
Your solo date days when you just speak to us from your heart gets better every time you do them. Raising your standards is the next step in whatever you want to do whether it be relationships, jobs, etc.
I appreciate your candor. My ex had bum behaviors: lazy/unmotivated while I was in 2 schools trying to become an RN. I let him live with me, etc. I appreciate you sharing your experiences, I enjoy your channel and your content.
I love your solo dates.💕 I’m learning so much about myself lately and although I’m still in a relationship I’m seeing the changes in myself and I’m realizing that I might be in a dead in relationship. Regardless, I’m excited for the future and who I’m becoming. The more I discover about myself, the more confident I feel in my decision making. I also agree with not doing the live in thing again. I never want to live with another man unless he is my fiancé. I don’t see why we need to cohabit if we don’t have plans for building a family together and making a commitment before God. All it does it make it harder to leave the relationship when it’s time. It’s one thing to talk about being together and wanting a future together but it’s another thing for a man to actually ask for that commitment and furthermore be able to check off most, if not all of my boxes/requirements
Whew chile. Say it louder for the ppl in the back sis lol!! What’s the point if we aren’t going anywhere with the relationship!? The math aint mathing.
Yes I love her solo dates also. Im 58 years old. I lost my husband 2 years ago. Her solo dates are important to us regardless of how we became single. I pray I can start solo dates I'm still greaving.
Hey lady ◇♡♡ kudos to you for the glow and grow up!!! Praise God!!! Yes I totally agree - first we have to know who we are and what we are bringing to the table, before we require it of others. Have been enjoying your videos - even as a happily married mama of 5! Came across your channel a few weeks ago. Your style is so chic and relatable ♥️God bless you and your sweet girl! Too pretty!
This video was simply beautiful. I loved the way you broke down having standards within relationships AND with yourself. Your content truly speaks to my heart because I always feel so FULL after watching your videos. Thank you MAYA ;)
You are such an inspiration and so beautiful! I’m on a very similar life path as yours right now. It’s really encouraging to see another Christian woman walking in righteousness. Your husband is on the way, God bless you!
Maya I just wanna say not to sound corny but you have taught me so much im on a self-love journey and evaluating my life and making changes I've been though similar relationships not having a father in my life and mother passing at a young age I never had guidance with these things or what I should expect or what standards you have taught me a lot in a little but of time and opened my eyes thank you!! You are a testimony and can help so many women!! Much love❤ I think you are in your calling🙏🏽
This is so true because what you give is what is get. Sometimes as women we see the red flags in a person but we ignore it and end up in a worse situation. I can testify of this and relate to this and allow myself to make better decisions and get more in tuned with myself and my worth
Sundays are for Maya!! Thank you for this video Maya. Standards are an ESSENTIAL! I also think they are key part of accountability and respect for self and others. They should apply to all relationships I believe. Yesterday I went on a dinner date and the MN was late👀. For me being on time is an incredibly important thing because it shows that you respect the person's time and company. And we're not talking 5/10 mins late, more like 30 mins. During the date I realised that he generally doesn't respect people's time, he shared he's always late for work too😒 and didn't see it as a problem at all. Beyond this, he doesn't converse well, I tried raising the conversation but to no success. While sitting at the table I realised there's no way I'm having 2nd date with him,because as you said, the basics were just not there and I'm not willing to overlook this😂. Glad you covered the friends topic too, it's really importa8to have standards for them too.
I love you Maya and the women that you’ve become. My prayer for you is that you continue to grow and glow in grace, also that you find the special someone God has destined for you
This video just strengthened me so much. Thank you for being bold and being a good influence and letting God use you. We need more videos like these online in this dark world
You said so much that I appreciate in this video. I’m asking myself what do I want for myself in every aspect of my life. Right now I’m in a relationship and asking myself why because there truly is no benefit in any other area besides sex and that’s wavy at times. You did an amazing job at explaining your wife. I too look forward to the day I can date myself and find out what I want and making myself happy. I too want to refrain from sex until I’m married and I believe when I make those necessary changes in my life, God will send me husband but I have to know that if he never shows up, I’m ok. I love your videos. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Period! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I have almost the same standards as you, especially regarding being a Christian, waiting until marriage, and what I want within a relationship and friendship. I’m working on BEING the standard that I expect from others. ❤️ Thanks for this video!
The whole time watching this video I'm over here like , wow Same girl! , SAME!. YES to self worth and knowing your standards. A lot of what your saying mimics my life exactly lol.
Yes! Maya has posted! Happy Friday! Sis hope all is well! Here and ready! Skin is glowing you look so beautiful!❤Us as ladies we have to raise our standards yes! I love it!😍
Love your make up. So true to have high standards. Love it. Thank you. And rejection is not nice but still have high standards and not let the low standards in.
Girllll I be watching your channel like it’s TV lol I love your blogs and makeup tutorials. Your “makeup for beginners” video got me started in makeup, and your solo date series inspired me too! #GaloreGang 💛
I love your dress & love that you talked about this. Having standards is not a bad thing . You know what you want & the man that god has for you as well as mature men, will respect that . It’s so amazing to hear other women especially us black women who are waiting until marriage before having sex . I’ve chosen & is stern on waiting so it’s good to know I’m not the only one . Nothing against those who are still having sex prior to marriage by ANY means .
I really enjoy your channel. You are giving me inspiration to solo date. The art of loving myself. Having standards and not compromising. Christianity ✝️ is a tough road but watching you gives me hope. Holds me accountable. I feel myself looking in the mirror and saying I come first ( well after God)
You are such an inspiration for women, so glad I came across you channel❤️❤️😘 When I say this video hits home to me because I’m going the the exact thing you said you went through with your ex but it’s my kids father which makes it no better and when I say I’m tired of feeling like I have no help when clearly it’s an entire human being besides myself in the house, I have finally made my mind up to not take it anymore and work on me and being the best mom I know how to be to my children, and when I see women like you pour into yourself and love on yourself like no one else can it makes me start to do the same for myself and makes me realize I’m worthy of so much more than I am allowing ‼️‼️ Thanks for such encouraging words and wisdom to us women love always🤞🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤️❤️
MY FAVORITE EPISODE THUS FAR!!!! U are such an inspiration!!! Ty ty ty! For not giving up on ur vision! Thank u for stepping into this new journey! Keep the vlogs coming sis!! Much love from Jersey!! God bless! ❤❤❤
New subscriber to your channel. Congratulations on getting pre approved for your home!! Your doing a AWESOME JOB!! May God continue to bless you and your daughter, family,friends and career! This channel is an accent to women love your style and content. Be blessed beautiful!!
‘He lived with me’ - tell em again 👏🏽 The idea of solo dates as a mother is very attractive but feels impossible…would love to know how you are able to make time chile cos I miss loving on myself
Definitely try your best when the kids are away or at school. Or try to get them to bed early and have yourself a solo date night at home and romance yourself!! Wine, candles, vibes. the whole 9
I love this season I'm in. you've inspired me so much I been taking myself on dates going to the gym consistently and just getting more in tune with myself. Ty ❤
Love your channel. I started solo dates last year ( momcations once a month) but recently have moved to a weekly experience. This video is right in line with where I am in my journey. Thanks for sharing *subscribed* And you didn’t miss with the wrap dress! Super cute…definitely giving wife…PTA president 😉
Loved this! New subscriber, I'm older than you and you are well on your way! I could relate to so much that you said and I didn't even come to some of those realizations until recently. God bless!
I really love this channel and Maya!!! You are so beautiful inside and out. I always look forward to watching your videos. Thank you for always bringing us amazing content 🤎✨
I feel my smile is one thing that stops and holds me back with my confidence .I’m a new follower so not sure if you ever had your teeth done any suggestions on building confidence or can suggest good doctors? I’m very much ready and would love to get a new smile this year ☺️.Also gurl yes I been young and dum before and my ex did the bare minimum never again deserve way better.
Absolutely loved this Vlog, I literally stumbled upon it just browsing TH-cam videos.. So inspiring for me as small youtube vlogger, also your just so authentic so present absolutely absolutely loved it and the advise is exactly what women today need to know..i love the fact that i can see a bit of myself in You.. ❤️I just subscribed!
I love this n it’s exactly what I needed to hear….. she’s like my big sister now I have to watch maya every night after I put my children to bed to remind myself to stay grounded
I love loooooove the dress. You look gorgeous. I was just having a conversation with a friend about romanticizing one’s life. It’s also important to check the company we keep. I believe the people we keep around also have a role in the standard we have for ourselves… I’ve realized it’s so easy to internalize how they see and what they think of us and if it’s the negative you end up seeing yourself in their perspective. Know who you are, what you want, how you want to be treated in both platonic and romantic relationships then constantly work on achieving those standards.
I love this entire message and video!!! Standards are so IMPORTANT especially when you’re thinking about bringing another person in your life!!! I didn’t know that you’re from the Midwest!!!! So am I, do you mind dropping the name of the restaurant you went to. I’m getting a list (planning) on trying to go to new places when everything is a bit safe to go out. Great Video!!!
Maya girl, there are some amazing YTubers on here.. but only a handful of vlogs can keep my attention. I remember coming across your channel a couple of years ago, but your growth and your range had me spinning the block! I'm newly subbed and I've been shamelessly binging on your videos -your honest ENERGY is refreshing and RELATABLE. You're humble yet aware of your of what you bring to the table and Unapologetic about it. I can see that your baby girl reflects that same light, and want to let you know you're doing an phenomenal job with that. You have such an encouraging sister/friend Tribe and it's really beautiful seeing Black women in their glory. Maya continue to hold and pray over your standards, celebrate every hard-earned increase coming your way, catch all that light, and NEVER EVER dumb it down for anyone. ONLY YOU know what it took to get to your growth! We appreciate you girl!
TH-cam Mother loves loves loves this video. Yes, please set standards. We usually keep dating the same man over and over because they usually come at our most vulnerable time. We must take time to heal.
Omg, omg, omg, I just found your content and I love it ❤☺ I've really been struggling with keeping my standards and attract the wrong people. I really love your advice, and every woman should be into this kind of self-care. And omg again because I don't see a lot of influencers in STL.🥺 Definitely a tuff one dating/making friends out here. 😬
Surprise video anyone!? 🙃 Hope you enjoy today's solo date vlog babes! See you Sunday!
Maya I just want to say thank you making these videos. I have always put everyone's needs before my own. I don't know if it's because I was an only child and felt I need ppl. But thru your videos and vlogs I'm learning that it's ok to do things alone. I'm with someone that started out wanting to provide but now he's really tight with money. If we have date night it's usually Netflix and chill.🙄 I like getting dressed and go to a nice dinner. Chile 🤦🏽
I was literally just sitting saying man , I want to watch a maya vlog and I was like I gotta wait til Sunday lol … this was a pleasant surprise !
I love the direction your going with your channel. I really enjoy these type of series. It keeps me in check when I drift off. It’s like a wellness check for me oddly lol 💆🏾♀️ I enjoyed this video! ☺️❤️
Wow. I LITERALLY just said this to myself yesterday!! If perfect timing was a person 😫🤣. Thank you so much for this girl!
Could you a eye makeup tutorial using the eye shadow lipstick?
Shout out to all the ladies who value themselves and don’t depend on other people to make them happy 😃
Yesss!!!
I told a guy I wont have sex before marriage and this dude got the nerves to tell me that, if I do not allow sex before marriage then i will be 45 years and still be single.....I just looked at him and burst out laughing because I saw the mind games he was tryna play by putting pressure on me to lower my standards but he must not know about me becasue am ready for whatever it takes to hold my standards no matter what.... ladies let's all be firm with our standards and see the shift in the kinds of men that will come our way.
Whew chile 🥴 Ive had those men too. It’s the mind games for me 🙄 There are DEFINITELY men out there who have the same standards!! We gotta stand firm
I love that you’re being honest about this , there are so many Christian women who are afraid to set these standards
Preach! I am in my 40's and unmarried because I refuse to compromise my standards for companionship and a ring
We love a surprise video! 👏🏽 also So many women forget the importance of romancing yourself ❤️. I’ve recently thought about how I could raise my standards so perfect timing!
Yess!! It’s so important! 🙌🏾🖤
@@MayaGalore ll
This hits so close to home. I never thought of myself as one of those women until I became that woman. And I think that pride and low self respect caused me to stay for almost 3yrs. I have lived learned and raised my standards first with my self love self respect. This is great video that many won't admit that they have or ate that woman.
Same. Stayed for almost 4 years. Never again!
Yess you must have standards due to not wanting any type of man coming into your life. First and foremost is to love yourself and have the upmost respect for yourself. Hsve a personal relationship with God. Have goals in life you want to achieve.
Preach, Maya!!! 👏👏👏 I loved this vlog. So many people told me my high, God-given standards were too high and that I needed to lower them. I held tight to them knowing that God will fulfill them in His time. Let me tell you...God not only had my husband meet my standards, but surpass them! I know He will do the same for YOU in His perfect timing.🙏
Whew. This is confirmation for me. Thank you sis!!!🙏🏾❤️
@@MayaGalore You're very welcome! 💖
My standards were so low that now I look at my ex and was like “ Damn I must have lonely as hell and desperate to deal with you”!! This dude is a solid 2 on a good day but thank God I am delivered!!!
I think the same way 😭😭😭😂
Chile me too 😭🥴😂
Girrrllll this hit me to my core. I feel you my ex was a definitely a negative 0 lol. Thank God he delivered me.
I used to be so scared to eat out by myself. Now I enjoy it. You can literally get up and go. No waiting to get everyone's schedule in line. Just you and your own company. Cheers
Love the topic. Having standards for yourself is so important because it allows you not accept anything lower than you have set your standards too. It allows you to embrace yourself, uplift your confidence, and put yourself first. You should have a podcast❤️
Yesss to all of that!!
I’m married and this video still touched me. Me and my husband have 4 kids and so we are always on the go!!!! He loves me no matter what but what you said about being a standard for yourself is so true. I have to feed into myself so I can be what I need as a wife and mother. Keep letting God use you !
Thank u for this ❤️ I recently I got turned down for a job opportunity because I raised my standard as to what I expected from the company, and unfortunately they couldn’t comply..I have been feeling guilty about it. But this gave me hope that I shouldn’t feel bad about wanting more for myself and have a standard in ALL areas of my life 🙏🏿
That’s right! Don’t feel guilty babe. If they couldn’t respect your boundaries and standards, You did the right thing
I’m back for a testimony. So the job called me back today and gave me the offer I was looking for 🙏🏿🙌🏿 Ladies if you’re reading this DO NOT SETTLE IN ANY AREA. What God has for you will be for u PERIOD ! To God be the glory
I haaate when my friends tell me I'm too picky! I'm so glad that you said this. God gives me discernment so I'll know exactly when the time is right. Just because everyone else excepts trash, doesn't mean I need to 🤷🏾♀️
Love this. I definitely need to raise my standards. I need to build it back up. I really settled and lowered my standards so bad 2019 and we broke up the end of 2020. I don’t think you should lower your standards. That’s how we end up not having reciprocity. Beautiful makeup💕
Yess I agree!!!
Girl! The Holy Spirit just be sending me confirmations right before my eyes. I literally just had this conversation with my girlfriend last night and we were just expressing how we need to start enforcing boundaries and break the cycle of falling back into old habits when it comes to these men. I woke up and saw this video and you just further confirmed that the time is now or never for me to take things seriously. I'm a newbie subscriber and I absolutely love your content because I see so much of myself in you! I be like "Dang... am I watching myself on video?" But besides that, you really help to motivate me!
It's important that we realize our role in how others treat us. Yes, if they're unkind, lying, entitled there's something wrong with them, but if we accept/tolerate it that's on us. Hard lesson learned. Don't let anyone convince you that your standards are too high because if you lower them you're the one living with your decisions; the one who said 'lower your standards' isn't facing the consequences. Good things are worth waiting for. I have friends who found "the one" in their late 30s or 40s & that's okay; they now have someone who treats them like queens instead of like an afterthought. Beautiful dress, beautiful makeup, and the solo dates are inspiring.
I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are representing women that sincerely want to have high standards while pleasing God. I personally relate. I am in the season of raising my standards high for my self, my children and to please my Daddy! I nine out of ten fall into sexual relationships in the first session of dating because I didn't know better. I have learned a lot over time. I am genuinely implementing what I have learned to myself, relationships regardless of rejection. Keep going. You stay in the right position in your relationship with God and your husband will find you! You are a Good Thing! So beautiful inside and out! Stay on top no matter how hard it feels! God got your back. Trust Him you will never lack.
This video was ON POINT! Thank you for being honest with us girlies. Maya I love you!
So happy you love it sis!!! 😘😘😘
i have to say even as a man I enjoy watching your videos and personal growth and how you carry yourself as a woman and just a person in general. I think that even though you say these things from a woman's perspective the way you hold yourself I can use to relate this to my own world in my own ways. Keep up the good work! I appreciate your videos and you!
Wow. Thank you for sharing that! And thanks for watching!
It’s giving grown woman, classy and decisive! Yes girl🙌🏽🙌🏽
I loved this video. Love from the UK 🇬🇧❤️
I’ve been watching your vlogs for almost a month now and as someone who doesn’t usually watch vlogs, I’m hooked! I love your authenticity and your solo dates. I’m inspired ❤️
Aww thank you!! So glad you enjoy them!!!
I’ll be 24 next month and there are so many things I’m trying to work out as far as what I want in my life. I often feel like I’ve fallen behind my peers as far as my career and life experiences. Your videos have helped me tremendously in recognizing my uniqueness and the standards that I have for myself and the people that I allow in my life are here to protect me and the Devine purpose over my life. I always enjoy your videos, it’s like listening to my big sister lol but I wish you every happiness Maya! 🙌
I so needed this today!! I received a job offer at an amazing company... they connected with me looking for my help, I didn't even have to apply. They were sold on me! But I am not too happy with the compensation. I need to stand my ground and know my worth. Thanks for the reminder! xx
You’re so right about when you don’t know what your standards are, you can’t enforce boundaries. I also love when you mention how you thought about/did things in your early 20s compared to now! It’s inspiring to me as a 24 year old knowing I will grow into myself and what I need/want. God will give me that wisdom in time! ❤️
Maya's smile and laugh 😍
Thank you for this. It can be challenging keeping up with the standards you set for yourself but the rewards are definitely worth it. By the way that dress was giving what it's supposed to give☺️ the way you present yourself inspires me to also be more intentional about my look. It's a standard that is challenging to enforce but we are slowly but surely getting there. Thank you for dropping gems as always
Yess slowly but surely! Thanks babe 🥰
New subscriber! I was beginning to get bored of YT and same old same old influencers but there's something just so normal and relatable yet inspiring about Maya. A mother who encourages other women to take care of themselves and look after themselves. A great permission for us to invest in OURSELVES AS WELL as our children. Thanks Maya xx
Lockdown had me looking crazy. Constantly in a headscarf with my TaTa's swinging in a t-shirt and trackies. Now I have my first solo date booked in next week! ☺
You’re so welcome sis!! And Girl that was all of us 😭😂
I lovvveeeddd this video! Lately I’ve been telling myself “ I am deserving of the standards I’ve set by the Grace of God” and man, has it changed my life! This video, especially as it pertains to dating is something I’ll be watching (apart from reading my Word), every time I start to feel weak.
Great topic Maya!!! I remember I expressed to my grandfather that people often call me picky when it comes to dating men and he told me “no baby you’re not picky. You’re selective. And you should be.” I remember that always and it’s so important for us to have high standards. Thank you for being transparent and sharing your journey as well! Blessings and abundance! 💕
Maya I am LOVING your self-care/levelling up videos. I turn 30 this year and I'm going through a self-healing journey. I am finding these videos enjoyable and helpful. Keep them coming please sis.This solo date outfit is GIVINGGG! You're such a baddie when it comes to style😍
This video came at the perfect time. Were my standards not tested today. God knows I have dishonored them. But today I was so intentional about it cause no dusty formed against shall prosper. I am so proud of myself.
Ladies it is possible.
Yes! I took the day off, I can watch on time!!! Can't wait to see what girly wisdom will be dropped on me today! Love you girl! ❤
Yay!!! Happy off day sis! Enjoy! 😘😘
Maya, I see you writing a book someday… you articulate your thoughts so well!♥️🌹
Thank you!! 🥰
Sharing this with my daughter…. Hoping she will receive this… lord knows I have tried to express this to her….
I pray so!! It took me a while 🤦🏾♀️ lol
Wow!! Omggg GIRL!!!! You are doing amazing! I told you the growth was coming! Wait no…God did! Millions are coming! You’re amazing! So happy watching your videos! They make me feel so glamorous and luxury!
Sis, I love surprises!!! Very unexpected video; but who’s complaining?!?!?! Not me!!!! You look amazing Maya! The one thing I’d like to comment on after watching this video is that once a woman realizes and knows who she truly is; in God’s eyes and through her own eyes; only then will HE show her and release to her what she purposefully deserves and has been waiting for. It is then when she’s ready to receive. I’m so happy to see the developments and elevations you’re going through. Even in your talk…..it’s more confident and direct! God bless you sis❤️❤️❤️
A word!! Say that sis! And thank you🥰❤️
I’m loving the solo date vlogs! I’m so inspired to start doing them myself.
Yes!
Maya so beautiful naturally. she is talented with makeup and fashion!!
I’m so glad I found your channel. Your videos are so helpful and I’m learning so much just by listening to and just by you giving your testimonies. This year I’ve decided to learn more about me and what I want and do want in my life and personal space.
Yesss I love to hear it!! Thanks you babe!! 🥰
That wig, Looks so natural. I totally agree, being equally yoked is a must!
Thank you babe!!
It's the personal conviction, for me. The standards and you sayin it wit yo chest, sis. Love!
Your solo date days when you just speak to us from your heart gets better every time you do them. Raising your standards is the next step in whatever you want to do whether it be relationships, jobs, etc.
I love how open and honest you are! I can’t wait to watch you become a wife. I loved everything about this 😭
OH my God!!! You’re at almost 400k!! I remember when you were at 2000!!!! YESSS!!!!! So happy for you!! GIRL!! Millions!!!!!
Maya really creates a space that makes me feel safe and vulnerable. 💕 I’m thankful i found this channel last year.
I appreciate your candor. My ex had bum behaviors: lazy/unmotivated while I was in 2 schools trying to become an RN. I let him live with me, etc. I appreciate you sharing your experiences, I enjoy your channel and your content.
I'm extraaaaa too! All the time. Hehehe! Yep - I started wearing cute lounge wear around the house and my hubby appreciates it for sure! 🥰
I love your solo dates.💕 I’m learning so much about myself lately and although I’m still in a relationship I’m seeing the changes in myself and I’m realizing that I might be in a dead in relationship. Regardless, I’m excited for the future and who I’m becoming. The more I discover about myself, the more confident I feel in my decision making. I also agree with not doing the live in thing again. I never want to live with another man unless he is my fiancé. I don’t see why we need to cohabit if we don’t have plans for building a family together and making a commitment before God. All it does it make it harder to leave the relationship when it’s time. It’s one thing to talk about being together and wanting a future together but it’s another thing for a man to actually ask for that commitment and furthermore be able to check off most, if not all of my boxes/requirements
Whew chile. Say it louder for the ppl in the back sis lol!! What’s the point if we aren’t going anywhere with the relationship!? The math aint mathing.
Yes I love her solo dates also. Im 58 years old. I lost my husband 2 years ago. Her solo dates are important to us regardless of how we became single. I pray I can start solo dates I'm still greaving.
@@tinacarroll9029 prayers to you 🙏🏽✨ you’ll get there, one day at a time
I just moved to STL & I'm on the same journey! Definitely following so I can find some hot spots to take myself out on solo dates
Hey lady ◇♡♡ kudos to you for the glow and grow up!!! Praise God!!! Yes I totally agree - first we have to know who we are and what we are bringing to the table, before we require it of others. Have been enjoying your videos - even as a happily married mama of 5! Came across your channel a few weeks ago. Your style is so chic and relatable ♥️God bless you and your sweet girl! Too pretty!
This video was simply beautiful. I loved the way you broke down having standards within relationships AND with yourself. Your content truly speaks to my heart because I always feel so FULL after watching your videos. Thank you MAYA ;)
I love watching your grwm chit chats! 🤎 It feels like a talk with my big sister. You’re always dropping gems. 💬 I could listen to you talk forever!
Awww thanks babe!!!
You are such an inspiration and so beautiful! I’m on a very similar life path as yours right now. It’s really encouraging to see another Christian woman walking in righteousness. Your husband is on the way, God bless you!
Thanks so much!! I receive that 🙌🏾❤️
Maya I just wanna say not to sound corny but you have taught me so much im on a self-love journey and evaluating my life and making changes I've been though similar relationships not having a father in my life and mother passing at a young age I never had guidance with these things or what I should expect or what standards you have taught me a lot in a little but of time and opened my eyes thank you!! You are a testimony and can help so many women!! Much love❤ I think you are in your calling🙏🏽
Wow. Thanks for sharing this sis! So glad to be able to help you in that way 🥲 that means the world to me
@@MayaGalore you are very welcome!
This was such an AMAZING video!! I too have struggled with showing up for myself. This has inspired me so much, thank you for keeping it real.
Thank you sis!! 🥰
This is so true because what you give is what is get. Sometimes as women we see the red flags in a person but we ignore it and end up in a worse situation. I can testify of this and relate to this and allow myself to make better decisions and get more in tuned with myself and my worth
So true!
Sundays are for Maya!!
Thank you for this video Maya.
Standards are an ESSENTIAL! I also think they are key part of accountability and respect for self and others. They should apply to all relationships I believe.
Yesterday I went on a dinner date and the MN was late👀. For me being on time is an incredibly important thing because it shows that you respect the person's time and company. And we're not talking 5/10 mins late, more like 30 mins.
During the date I realised that he generally doesn't respect people's time, he shared he's always late for work too😒 and didn't see it as a problem at all. Beyond this, he doesn't converse well, I tried raising the conversation but to no success. While sitting at the table I realised there's no way I'm having 2nd date with him,because as you said, the basics were just not there and I'm not willing to overlook this😂.
Glad you covered the friends topic too, it's really importa8to have standards for them too.
I love you Maya and the women that you’ve become. My prayer for you is that you continue to grow and glow in grace, also that you find the special someone God has destined for you
This video just strengthened me so much. Thank you for being bold and being a good influence and letting God use you. We need more videos like these online in this dark world
I love the solo dates and the advices. Having Standers protect you from a lot of things.
Yes!!
You said so much that I appreciate in this video. I’m asking myself what do I want for myself in every aspect of my life. Right now I’m in a relationship and asking myself why because there truly is no benefit in any other area besides sex and that’s wavy at times. You did an amazing job at explaining your wife. I too look forward to the day I can date myself and find out what I want and making myself happy. I too want to refrain from sex until I’m married and I believe when I make those necessary changes in my life, God will send me husband but I have to know that if he never shows up, I’m ok. I love your videos. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Period! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I have almost the same standards as you, especially regarding being a Christian, waiting until marriage, and what I want within a relationship and friendship. I’m working on BEING the standard that I expect from others. ❤️ Thanks for this video!
The whole time watching this video I'm over here like , wow Same girl! , SAME!. YES to self worth and knowing your standards. A lot of what your saying mimics my life exactly lol.
Yes! Maya has posted! Happy Friday! Sis hope all is well! Here and ready! Skin is glowing you look so beautiful!❤Us as ladies we have to raise our standards yes! I love it!😍
Happy Friday my love!! 😘😘🙌🏾
I’m always solo dating I love it ...a great way to fall I love with yourself
Love that dress. It is giving rich auntie vibes! HERE FOR ALL THAT!
Am in love with the new makeup products and you looking great ❤ my roll model
Love your make up. So true to have high standards. Love it. Thank you. And rejection is not nice but still have high standards and not let the low standards in.
Soooo addicted to your videos and content! Standards and solo dates are still critical after you get married too! 💕
Girllll I be watching your channel like it’s TV lol I love your blogs and makeup tutorials. Your “makeup for beginners” video got me started in makeup, and your solo date series inspired me too! #GaloreGang 💛
Awww thanks babe!! 🙏🏾😘
I love your dress & love that you talked about this. Having standards is not a bad thing . You know what you want & the man that god has for you as well as mature men, will respect that .
It’s so amazing to hear other women especially us black women who are waiting until marriage before having sex . I’ve chosen & is stern on waiting so it’s good to know I’m not the only one . Nothing against those who are still having sex prior to marriage by ANY means .
I really enjoy your channel. You are giving me inspiration to solo date. The art of loving myself. Having standards and not compromising. Christianity ✝️ is a tough road but watching you gives me hope. Holds me accountable. I feel myself looking in the mirror and saying I come first ( well after God)
I SO look forward to these videos!! Yesss to all of this. We need to raise our standards unapologetically
You are such an inspiration for women, so glad I came across you channel❤️❤️😘 When I say this video hits home to me because I’m going the the exact thing you said you went through with your ex but it’s my kids father which makes it no better and when I say I’m tired of feeling like I have no help when clearly it’s an entire human being besides myself in the house, I have finally made my mind up to not take it anymore and work on me and being the best mom I know how to be to my children, and when I see women like you pour into yourself and love on yourself like no one else can it makes me start to do the same for myself and makes me realize I’m worthy of so much more than I am allowing ‼️‼️ Thanks for such encouraging words and wisdom to us women love always🤞🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤️❤️
MY FAVORITE EPISODE THUS FAR!!!! U are such an inspiration!!! Ty ty ty! For not giving up on ur vision! Thank u for stepping into this new journey! Keep the vlogs coming sis!! Much love from Jersey!! God bless! ❤❤❤
Awww thank you babe!!! So glad you love it🙌🏾
New subscriber to your channel. Congratulations on getting pre approved for your home!! Your doing a AWESOME JOB!! May God continue to bless you and your daughter, family,friends and career! This channel is an accent to women love your style and content. Be blessed beautiful!!
‘He lived with me’ - tell em again 👏🏽 The idea of solo dates as a mother is very attractive but feels impossible…would love to know how you are able to make time chile cos I miss loving on myself
You can do it while the kids are in school or if you have a day off and kids are in school. That's an easy way 🙂
Definitely try your best when the kids are away or at school. Or try to get them to bed early and have yourself a solo date night at home and romance yourself!! Wine, candles, vibes. the whole 9
I love this season I'm in. you've inspired me so much I been taking myself on dates going to the gym consistently and just getting more in tune with myself. Ty ❤
Yess I love to hear it sis!!
Love your channel. I started solo dates last year ( momcations once a month) but recently have moved to a weekly experience. This video is right in line with where I am in my journey. Thanks for sharing *subscribed*
And you didn’t miss with the wrap dress! Super cute…definitely giving wife…PTA president 😉
Loved this! New subscriber, I'm older than you and you are well on your way! I could relate to so much that you said and I didn't even come to some of those realizations until recently. God bless!
I really love this channel and Maya!!! You are so beautiful inside and out. I always look forward to watching your videos. Thank you for always bringing us amazing content 🤎✨
I feel my smile is one thing that stops and holds me back with my confidence .I’m a new follower so not sure if you ever had your teeth done any suggestions on building confidence or can suggest good doctors? I’m very much ready and would love to get a new smile this year ☺️.Also gurl yes I been young and dum before and my ex did the bare minimum never again deserve way better.
I just took my 1st solo trip this past weekend! Definitely stepping my standards up!
I really enjoyed this vlog! I am married and I thought the topic was helpful and amazing.
Aww thank you!! Glad that it also resonated with married babes as well 🙏🏾
Absolutely loved this Vlog, I literally stumbled upon it just browsing TH-cam videos.. So inspiring for me as small youtube vlogger, also your just so authentic so present absolutely absolutely loved it and the advise is exactly what women today need to know..i love the fact that i can see a bit of myself in You.. ❤️I just subscribed!
This vlog was so necessary! Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable ❤️❤️❤️
I love this n it’s exactly what I needed to hear….. she’s like my big sister now I have to watch maya every night after I put my children to bed to remind myself to stay grounded
I love loooooove the dress. You look gorgeous. I was just having a conversation with a friend about romanticizing one’s life. It’s also important to check the company we keep. I believe the people we keep around also have a role in the standard we have for ourselves… I’ve realized it’s so easy to internalize how they see and what they think of us and if it’s the negative you end up seeing yourself in their perspective. Know who you are, what you want, how you want to be treated in both platonic and romantic relationships then constantly work on achieving those standards.
I love your channel ❤️ just discovered it yesterday and can’t stop watching them.. Thank you for all you do Maya….
Big facts from start to finish! And that dress is everything 😍
I love this entire message and video!!! Standards are so IMPORTANT especially when you’re thinking about bringing another person in your life!!! I didn’t know that you’re from the Midwest!!!! So am I, do you mind dropping the name of the restaurant you went to. I’m getting a list (planning) on trying to go to new places when everything is a bit safe to go out. Great Video!!!
Maya girl, there are some amazing YTubers on here.. but only a handful of vlogs can keep my attention. I remember coming across your channel a couple of years ago, but your growth and your range had me spinning the block! I'm newly subbed and I've been shamelessly binging on your videos -your honest ENERGY is refreshing and RELATABLE. You're humble yet aware of your of what you bring to the table and Unapologetic about it. I can see that your baby girl reflects that same light, and want to let you know you're doing an phenomenal job with that. You have such an encouraging sister/friend Tribe and it's really beautiful seeing Black women in their glory. Maya continue to hold and pray over your standards, celebrate every hard-earned increase coming your way, catch all that light, and NEVER EVER dumb it down for anyone. ONLY YOU know what it took to get to your growth! We appreciate you girl!
Omg so glad I came across your channel !! Love this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
I look forward to watching your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love it
TH-cam Mother loves loves loves this video. Yes, please set standards. We usually keep dating the same man over and over because they usually come at our most vulnerable time. We must take time to heal.
So true. And don't think that it takes another man to heal you. Broken people attract other broken people
This is a great vide! New subbie and you look beautiful 💕
Great tips! You look gorgeous in that outfit! Very classy 😍💕
Agreed! You should LOOK like your standards/like you HAVE a standard! PERIOD! Oan: Yep, the coat went perfectly with the outfit.
I loved this video Maya. So happy you chose this topic. It's so necessary to have standards set for all areas of our lives
Omg, omg, omg, I just found your content and I love it ❤☺ I've really been struggling with keeping my standards and attract the wrong people. I really love your advice, and every woman should be into this kind of self-care. And omg again because I don't see a lot of influencers in STL.🥺 Definitely a tuff one dating/making friends out here. 😬