I think it’s important to recognize that personality disorders (including npd) doesn’t make someone a abuser. There are good ppl with these disorders and it’s completely down to the person for deciding to be a bad person
I'm waiting for Alex to come out and say he has NPD or BPD and it's just adding to the stigma and as someone with BPD, it's just ridiculous lol He's not a loser because he has a personality disorder, he's a loser because he acts like a loser
@@serenegenerally he's done it in another video too and like,,, bro does NOT know enough about a stranger to diagnose them for the reason of they're shitty
Thank you for saying this. It’s been hard to watch videos about this subject Bcz they’ll call him a narcissist most of the time and I’m like. No he’s not. Even if he was, blaming that is giving an excuse. But I never see any delusions of grandeur or anything that would even SUGGEST npd. I only see abusive behavior.
Remember guys, people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are not evil demons. That disorder is not what makes Alex bad, that is all Alex. I’m sure the disorder played a part in the way he acts, but those actions are still his and not those of a mental disorder. He has no one and nothing to blame but himself because he is responsible for his actions.
Sadly, I don't know what it looks like when someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder isn't evil. I know it's not fictitious, but I can't picture it.
I've never met someone who showed traits of NPD and wasn't abusive. Obviously they exist (mental healness on TH-cam for example is a narc in therapy and he's great) but the symptoms of NPD are inherently antisocial and it's okay to say that.
also, imallexx threatened to kill her cat and theres a video (mainly audio) recording of him yelling at her. in the video, shes putting her phone in her pocket to secretly record, and you can see him following her up the stairs, which is honestly disturbing, knowing how he is. im so glad she got out of that relationship.
im absolutely disgusted. Alex has commented on so many terrible situations when behind the scenes he was doing horrible things to his partner. I hope he loses his platform because he doesn’t deserve anything. I hope Alice is okay and gets the support she needs
I think Elmslie's place is in a psychiatric prison. He deserves to be taken to court, and the best verdict he should get is acquittal specifically by reason of insanity, so he might not necessarily ever get released.
i have diagnosed NPD, and i just want to be clear that me having it doesn’t make me excusable to be a bad person. me having NPD does NOT and will NOT EVER justify my wrongdoings. if i were to hurt someone, i would not EVER use it as an excuse. (btw this isn’t a jab ar lewis, it is just saying that even if allex does have NPD it would not justify him being a bad person.)
@@Jellywolf-conansversionhe was one of the people that contributed to the allegations against slazo, Which would be proven to be false, you can look it up to see for yourself.
Something I noticed and that makes me devastated abt commentary ytbers is that they’ll constantly be talking about the things they hate and don’t respect, but later on something gets posted about them or they post it and turns out the stuff that said they « hate » or « won’t ever do » is them doing it. I genuinely can’t be the only one who sees it.
If I had my own TH-cam platform, I might have a different yet almost as heinous problem. I'd catch a perpetrator in the act, then pick drama with them over it, out of both outrage at the offence and sympathy for the victim, then put forth halfhearted effort not to let it take the low road to something worse.
Just a reminder that having a Cluster B Personality Disorder (Narcissistic, Borderline, Antisocial, Histrionic) does not make you an inherently terrible, evil, or abusive person; It's your actions that make you a bad/abusive person. Love from a person with BPD and AsPD. 💚
People with ASPD inherently abuse other people as a means to their ends, it’s literally one of the main symptoms of the disorder. Of course it’s inexcusable, but that’s what they do because of how their brains works and it’s best to avoid them as much as possible in life.
omg I didn't know you could have two personality disorders at once! I have bpd as well:) Also intentions matter too. Someone could have done no abvsive actions but really want to, that's really bad too.
the fact that alices document was 82 pages long made me cry. im so happy that people are talking about this, he deserves to lose his followers and his platform.
I’m pretty sure he’s buying subs, cause I’ve heard multiple people say they I subbed from him, and when they looked at his change again, they saw they were subbed again
I was an Eboys fan, (and still am to a degree, I watch the other 3 to this day) and I can say the warning signs were always there. Alex always put me off. People forget how many "Alex you can't say that" (s) were included in George's videos over the years
i liked him until that one episode of the eboys pod where they were talking about james thinking he was having a heart attack and alex wanted to finish his game before taking him to hospital? and he was saying things like oh no you’re going to expose me like mate that’s not the problem 😭
I've seen other TH-camrs' videos where they say Alex has BPD and will probably use that as an excuse for why he did this, but we must remember that most people with BPD are not like this! And it is not a justification for him to treat his ex-girlfriend in such a way, and Alex is simply a bad person! Also, I've always thought Alex was weird because whenever he does a video with his friends, I feel like he takes suggestive jokes too far or simply yells at them, and this happens in every collaboration video he does.And I've also heard from some other TH-camrs that did a video on this saying that most of his TH-camr friends aren't associating with him anymore
Yep! I have BPD, and while I have had moments of being a pretty shitty person to other people, I acknowledge that while there was a reason for what I did, there wasn't an excuse and what I did was wrong. Similarly, I learned to recognize that behavior in myself and put a stop to it before it goes any further. Even if he does have it, that isn't an excuse for his behavior. He is just a prick, honestly.
Completely agree, I have bpd and Ive done shitty things but I took complete responsibility for it. Never this shitty though. My bpd might be a reason, but its not an excuse. Its still my actions.
Yes exactly! I saw that video too and as someone with bpd we couldn't be more different. Before people accusse abvsers of having bpd at least google what bpd is AT LEAST. The stigma is helping no one. We are not abvsers actually I have been abvsed cause my bpd makes me more seseptable to abvse. Thank you for saying that btw. I love when people stand up against ableism!
It only seems weird or out of the blue because we don’t know them personally. They can easily put on a facade or fake face to appear good. I’ve come to the conclusion to not get too attached, or idolize influencers and celebrities. You can still like or watch, but remember that anyone is capable of being a bad person even if they’ve done good.
very happy that so many people in the comments are mentioning how npd/bpd/disorders as a whole doesnt equal abusive. its refreshing as someone with multiple personality disorders
as someone who has OCD, ever since Alex's video about Howie Mandel years ago, I've been turned away from him for a while. Thank you louis for covering this ily
I mean British people more than anyone else have a history of being horrible 🤷 historically he is well claimed I'm not saying ALL British people are hor/rible tho but a lot of them were for a long time
Thank you for covering this, it was awful to look through Alice’s statement. It made me sick. I can usually take quite bad things but I felt like throwing up while watching and reading all of it, I ended up just breaking down. It’s so awful.
This is actually horrifying. I really hope Alice is safe now and receives all the support she needs. Even if Alex does have NPD or BPD, conditions in which are already often wrongfully stigmatized, it's absolutely inexcusable to act like this or do these disgusting things. He needs to be deplatformed.
Louis uploaded. My day is significantly better now :) thank you for bringing situations into light and giving your insights to the situation. You're amazing!
i used to be a fan of imallex, because i saw somebody to relate to (bi, mental issues) but oh my god, i never knew he could be so horrible. he seemed like such a funny and charismatic guy on the surface. i guess you never know what people are doing behind the scenes. thanks for this video louis, you're a really cool guy :)
bro this is a trip because seeing you react so strongly to this situation when it's the exact same as the things I've been experiencing is insane to me. good for alice for getting out of that, getting out of that situation is so hard. knowing that the situation is similar, it's so weird that I hate alex for what he did but I also still miss the relationship I ended a few weeks ago even though watching the clips is like a fever dream. crazy.
if you need help with a relationship like this, please reach out for help!!!!! there are so many support and crisis lines for people in these situations. it seems hard and daunting but once you get help you won’t regret it :-)
I think this is one of the few places where I’m seeing people collectively agree that having a personality disorder doesn’t make you inherently evil or abusive.
I literally only discovered your content today, and this is only the 3rd video I’ve watched but I am loving it, you’re already one of my favourite TH-camrs lmao
Dude. He better not use bpd as an excuse. I have bpd & bad anger issues, but I also care deeply about the people in my life and I know that my emotions shouldn’t be taken out on them. I learned ways to cope or seperate myself if I know I’m not in the right mind to act how I should. Even if they’re wrong and I have every reason to be mad; there’s a mature and better way to go about things. What he did was inexcusable and the best explanation is that he’s a terrible, immature person with little to no consideration about other people’s feelings and wellbeing.
Oh absolutely And I don't know if he even has npd it's just a possibility y'know. Could explain how he might justify himself treating others this way, not that he has any right to y'know.
@@Louis_McClung I guess I haven’t seen any confirmation on the bpd thing but in another creator’s vid it was stated that he does, maybe he’s said he has it at some point. It could definitely explain a lot but does not excuse it
You're so right. There's so muvh stigma around this disorder, and bad people (maybe I'm not to judge, but I think some people are just bad) are using it as a excuse. Many people are afraid to admit to having it, because of so much misinformation and hate on the internet. I also have BPD and would die for my partner. Yes, sometimes I'm/was the "bad stereotypical BPD" but it's rare, I'm working on it, I'm in a therapy. And the most important thing, I know others are humans, have their own feelings, etc. I knew this before I started to heal, because, well, BPD isn't sociopathy or psychopathy.
@@Louis_McClung how is it a possibility. he shows no traits😭😭 like unless you're his psychologist or something you really shouldn't be talking about the possibility of him having a personality disorder or not based off of the fact that he's abuser. People with npd already suffer enough and the stigma surrounding the disorder doesn't make it any better. And you're attributing to that stigma right now. Like making it out like you have to be an abuser to have npd makes it nearly impossible for us to get better or professional help. because people like you make it seem like we're all abusers. Alex is not a narcissist, just an abuser.
I thought everyone knew he was an untrustworthy weirdo after the slazo situation. I can't believe people are so willing to shrug her off, esp with the evidence we have now.
He does apparently have BPD, which does make me sympathise with the outbursts on occasion but NEVER would I (someone who also has BPD) EVER do that to my partner. that's insane
It does remind me a tad of myself whenever I have split, but like... Why was he acting like this? Literally, no reason. Even if there was a reason, he is a vile human being.
i have bpd and its completely controllable to not have outbursts. with therapy or medication. this guy could have all the diagnoses in the world i do not sympathize with this abuser.
i absolutely love how you sign off your videos. it’s such a nice little detail that feels super friendly! and you’re definitely right, i should get some laundry done 😬
I don’t know if this makes me sound horrible, but it’s hard for me to take those clips seriously when the person making all the threats sounds straight out of Don’t Hug Me I’m Scared.
Hey Louis, I’ve been a fan since 60-80k (not sure which), but I would like to thank you for your amazing content, you have helped me through my depression and your videos help with my self harm urges. I never forget to tidy things up while watching your videos, not to mention I love drawing while watching your videos. I cannot thank you enough because you have literally saved my life, the night I had a plan I discovered your channel and watched your videos instead. Thank you so much, you’re the absolute best. Keep doing what you do❤
Oh the amazing jumpscare of hearing one of ur favorite commentary creators compliment your art after hearing abt yet another horrible person, that little compliment makes me feel a little more positive after hearing abt shitty people :D Thx Louis
watching this while journalling and feeling icky about myself and the end of the video made me feel better!! thank u and i WILL be doing that laundry soon bc u rly called me out 😭
My ex was so much like Alex. I hate to see who he'll be when Alex is my exes age if he doesn't get therapy. I knew Alex was a horrible person when he doubled down on the Slazo shit. Then backstabbed INabber with a podcast (which I'm pretty sure doesn't even exist anymore) His commentary is so surface level.
I’m a person with bpd and I can say that it is absolutely vile behavior to exhibit this behavior regardless of whether or not you have bpd. If he uses bpd or npd or whatever as an excuse that’s gonna piss me off because it just increases the stigma
I was a really big fan of Alex. I was pretty much devastated when all this stuff came out. It sucks that he's an awful person. I guess that just shows that you can't trust everything you see on the internet.
Hey, louis, as a fan, probably don't make a "crash course" on NPD. It adds to the stigma that having a mental illness or personality disorder is a wacky evil thing that evil people have. Yikes.
I actually cant express in words the way im feeling right now. Best I can do is tell you that I had to check if you were talking about alex, same alex i enjoy watching. That guy genuinely comforted me so I always waited for his videos to drop. He was like a commentary ytber I listened to whilst doing chores and such in the backround. This genuinely makes me feel so disappointed and sad you have no idea.
Love ya Louis, but having NPD does not make somebody an abuser. Armchair diagnosing somebody with a personality disorder for being a shitty person just furthers the stigmatization of the disorder. - Sincerely a person with a cluster b personality disorder.
Good to see more people talking about this, i personally don't have a personality disorder but as someone who has various mental disorders (including possible ptsd/c-ptsd) its so tiring seeing people conflate mental disorders to being an evil person
WHAT!! no no no, I was saying he's acting like someone with npd and if he does then that's just how it is, it's not why he's a bad person I didn't even diagnose him, just said he's acting like it yo
@@Louis_McClung Thats still saying NPD traits make you a bad person. Being an abusive person makes you abusive. People with disorders can be abusive but not every narcissist is abusive.
@@Louis_McClung I totally get you don’t have any ill intent - there’s definitely an argument to make about how calling someone a narcissist isn’t the same as saying they have NPD - but it kinda is a little ehhh to say a bad person is comparable to personality disorders ;3; no hate! Again I totally get it’s just poor wording just keep in mind for the future !!!!!
i used to watch him a lot since he reminded me of 2D from gorillaz along with relating to some of his trauma- but when i found out about what allex did, i legit felt so sick to my core :( edit: kinganu also came out about the abuse (they dated for a year i think
I think it’s important to recognize that personality disorders (including npd) doesn’t make someone a abuser. There are good ppl with these disorders and it’s completely down to the person for deciding to be a bad person
I'm waiting for Alex to come out and say he has NPD or BPD and it's just adding to the stigma and as someone with BPD, it's just ridiculous lol
He's not a loser because he has a personality disorder, he's a loser because he acts like a loser
@@Stoop_Girl fr 😭🙏 like I have bpd and I can confirm it does not make me abuse my girlfriend!
Yeah it’s really ignorant for Louis to say that sort of thing bc well it just heightens the stigma! Kinda gross
@@serenegenerally he's done it in another video too and like,,, bro does NOT know enough about a stranger to diagnose them for the reason of they're shitty
Thank you for saying this. It’s been hard to watch videos about this subject Bcz they’ll call him a narcissist most of the time and I’m like. No he’s not. Even if he was, blaming that is giving an excuse. But I never see any delusions of grandeur or anything that would even SUGGEST npd. I only see abusive behavior.
why does alex argue with his girlfriend like a podcaster on an "alpha male" podcast
That's such a great description dude...
Was just about to say I got Andrew Tate vibes when he was shaking his fists at the microphone.
Remember guys, people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are not evil demons. That disorder is not what makes Alex bad, that is all Alex. I’m sure the disorder played a part in the way he acts, but those actions are still his and not those of a mental disorder. He has no one and nothing to blame but himself because he is responsible for his actions.
Its not the disorder that defines the person, it will never be
@@Louis_McClungTHAT IS TRUE
THANK YOU OH MY GOD THE MOST SANE PERSON ON THE INTERNET ILY
Sadly, I don't know what it looks like when someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder isn't evil. I know it's not fictitious, but I can't picture it.
I've never met someone who showed traits of NPD and wasn't abusive. Obviously they exist (mental healness on TH-cam for example is a narc in therapy and he's great) but the symptoms of NPD are inherently antisocial and it's okay to say that.
also, imallexx threatened to kill her cat and theres a video (mainly audio) recording of him yelling at her. in the video, shes putting her phone in her pocket to secretly record, and you can see him following her up the stairs, which is honestly disturbing, knowing how he is. im so glad she got out of that relationship.
He'd be a goner if he threatened my babies.
@@roxassora2706and he wanted to SA the cats like Shane Dawson
@@MastaBaitaAmbatukam Ew. Two words, Brazen Bull.
@@MastaBaitaAmbatukam Ew.
Ew he’s so gross and bad😭 I hope she’s okay
Fingers crossed Louis doesn't have horrible secrets...
Praying he’s an innocent humble kind guy.
Knock on wood, don't jinx it
He’s secretly Spider-Man
I doubt it, he seems so genuinely mad about this
@@Magz_stuff love your pfp lol
You remind me of one of those dogs with long ears
The dog breed I think of is a cocker spaniel 😅
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A bloodhound?
@@rolexkaard134The its Wednesday dudes guy??😭
im absolutely disgusted. Alex has commented on so many terrible situations when behind the scenes he was doing horrible things to his partner. I hope he loses his platform because he doesn’t deserve anything. I hope Alice is okay and gets the support she needs
Fr. He commented on people who ALSO suck💀 I really hope Alice is good too
I think Elmslie's place is in a psychiatric prison. He deserves to be taken to court, and the best verdict he should get is acquittal specifically by reason of insanity, so he might not necessarily ever get released.
i have diagnosed NPD, and i just want to be clear that me having it doesn’t make me excusable to be a bad person. me having NPD does NOT and will NOT EVER justify my wrongdoings. if i were to hurt someone, i would not EVER use it as an excuse. (btw this isn’t a jab ar lewis, it is just saying that even if allex does have NPD it would not justify him being a bad person.)
I couldn't agree more
I guess you can say ✨Karma✨ is a Bitch, considering what he did to Slazo.
What he do to slazo?
@@Jellywolf-conansversion He was a backstabber during when Slazo was falsely accused of shit like this
@@Jellywolf-conansversionhe was one of the people that contributed to the allegations against slazo, Which would be proven to be false, you can look it up to see for yourself.
He should’ve known better
@@pinkdragon4830 Bet that if he 'had a wish he would've never messed around'
Something I noticed and that makes me devastated abt commentary ytbers is that they’ll constantly be talking about the things they hate and don’t respect, but later on something gets posted about them or they post it and turns out the stuff that said they « hate » or « won’t ever do » is them doing it. I genuinely can’t be the only one who sees it.
i hate how much of hypocrites most of them (and people in general) are
@@w1steri4 real
If I had my own TH-cam platform, I might have a different yet almost as heinous problem. I'd catch a perpetrator in the act, then pick drama with them over it, out of both outrage at the offence and sympathy for the victim, then put forth halfhearted effort not to let it take the low road to something worse.
I am starting to think that they are projecting when they say rhat cause damn...
As an Alex/Alexander, we do not claim this man.
As an Aleksander i couldn't agree more 🤫🧏🏽
Alexander Hamilton?
Ah yes, the love child of kurtis Conner and film cooper makes another video.
Soyboy central
Oh god you’re right
Cliff burton too😭
Just a reminder that having a Cluster B Personality Disorder (Narcissistic, Borderline, Antisocial, Histrionic) does not make you an inherently terrible, evil, or abusive person; It's your actions that make you a bad/abusive person.
Love from a person with BPD and AsPD. 💚
People with ASPD inherently abuse other people as a means to their ends, it’s literally one of the main symptoms of the disorder.
Of course it’s inexcusable, but that’s what they do because of how their brains works and it’s best to avoid them as much as possible in life.
omg I didn't know you could have two personality disorders at once! I have bpd as well:) Also intentions matter too. Someone could have done no abvsive actions but really want to, that's really bad too.
And that not every evil person has a disorder. That's pathologizing evil and it misses out the point.
the fact that alices document was 82 pages long made me cry. im so happy that people are talking about this, he deserves to lose his followers and his platform.
I’m pretty sure he’s buying subs, cause I’ve heard multiple people say they I subbed from him, and when they looked at his change again, they saw they were subbed again
I was an Eboys fan, (and still am to a degree, I watch the other 3 to this day) and I can say the warning signs were always there. Alex always put me off. People forget how many "Alex you can't say that" (s) were included in George's videos over the years
true! alongside how he stopped appearing less and less in their content. hes disgusting
i still watch memeulous and old eboys videos but i cannot STAND alex, i never could
@@numin0sityy exactly, I could never stand Alex in the old content
i liked him until that one episode of the eboys pod where they were talking about james thinking he was having a heart attack and alex wanted to finish his game before taking him to hospital? and he was saying things like oh no you’re going to expose me like mate that’s not the problem 😭
i’m watched like 100 videos on this but i’m so glad i got a louis version
REAL
Hehe same😂
what other creators made videos on this ? this is only the second one i’ve seen
gir gir gir
louis version is like premium
I've seen other TH-camrs' videos where they say Alex has BPD and will probably use that as an excuse for why he did this, but we must remember that most people with BPD are not like this! And it is not a justification for him to treat his ex-girlfriend in such a way, and Alex is simply a bad person!
Also, I've always thought Alex was weird because whenever he does a video with his friends, I feel like he takes suggestive jokes too far or simply yells at them, and this happens in every collaboration video he does.And I've also heard from some other TH-camrs that did a video on this saying that most of his TH-camr friends aren't associating with him anymore
Yep! I have BPD, and while I have had moments of being a pretty shitty person to other people, I acknowledge that while there was a reason for what I did, there wasn't an excuse and what I did was wrong. Similarly, I learned to recognize that behavior in myself and put a stop to it before it goes any further.
Even if he does have it, that isn't an excuse for his behavior. He is just a prick, honestly.
Completely agree, I have bpd and Ive done shitty things but I took complete responsibility for it. Never this shitty though. My bpd might be a reason, but its not an excuse. Its still my actions.
Amen 🙏
Yes exactly! I saw that video too and as someone with bpd we couldn't be more different. Before people accusse abvsers of having bpd at least google what bpd is AT LEAST. The stigma is helping no one. We are not abvsers actually I have been abvsed cause my bpd makes me more seseptable to abvse.
Thank you for saying that btw. I love when people stand up against ableism!
I mean, he has those 2 Ls for a reason...
OMG YES
2 L’s make a L²
*that mind brainwashing spiral shit whatever spins*
Say it all together. *“We all love Louis.”*
*levitates*
We all love Louis.
We all love Louis.
We all love Louis.
We all love Louis.
We all love Louis
an oddly huge amount of creators i watched as a kid end up being horrible people. it's... interesting
It only seems weird or out of the blue because we don’t know them personally. They can easily put on a facade or fake face to appear good. I’ve come to the conclusion to not get too attached, or idolize influencers and celebrities. You can still like or watch, but remember that anyone is capable of being a bad person even if they’ve done good.
Self-entitlement
@@marievirgo7972 yeah but their body language says a lot if you read it. But sadly it becomes noticeable after they are exposed.
very happy that so many people in the comments are mentioning how npd/bpd/disorders as a whole doesnt equal abusive. its refreshing as someone with multiple personality disorders
I'M VERY HAPPY FOR YOU!!! I'm glad you can find people who believe in you all over the place!!!
Yall, I remember when Louis’s members would just slowly roll down the screen. So happy that he’s able to run them faste
yeah it’s very sweet!
OUR NEWS REPORTER HAS POSTED BE 🤫 QUIET
Indeed
Im sorry im such a douche but ,, *quiet
Quite
@@XenoDragn7 omg im really sorry auto correct. No my tone wasn't sarcastic
@@Emo.s-notdead why are u apologizing? XD I was just correcting u like the goober I am
as someone who has OCD, ever since Alex's video about Howie Mandel years ago, I've been turned away from him for a while. Thank you louis for covering this ily
why what did he do? I have ocd too and now I'm curious
WHAT DID SHE DO CLASS?
“SHE BEAT HIS ASS AND SUED FOR CUSTODY”
AS SHE SHOULD
AS SHE SHOULD 💅
12:14 Alex sounds like a 6 year old whos mom didnt let him play minecraft for another 10 minutes 😭
the amount of threats he used is so sickening
“Thank you for today’s sustenance Father Louis” *we say in unison*
As a British person we do not claim this man in any way
I mean British people more than anyone else have a history of being horrible 🤷 historically he is well claimed
I'm not saying ALL British people are hor/rible tho but a lot of them were for a long time
I have BPD but never have I even THOUGHT of threatening my loved ones. I’d literally never forgive myself if I did.
You have a conscience, that’s a good thing
yeah I feel it's the opposite for us. Cause I would do anything to protect my favorite people, even putting myself in danger. (I have bpd too)
Thank you for covering this, it was awful to look through Alice’s statement. It made me sick. I can usually take quite bad things but I felt like throwing up while watching and reading all of it, I ended up just breaking down. It’s so awful.
0:39 it's a part of our culture, most kids have sworn multiple times at a very young age, tbh we're quite desensitized to it.
“We all love and support Louis” *We all say in unison*
Yes 🤑
I WAS WAITING FOR YOU TO SAY SOMETHING!
I always think, eh, ill wait until you cover it because if i look into it myself im going to cry.
I hope Alice and his other exes can find peace and he just goes away into obscurity
0:05 heyyyy 😇 lol
This is actually horrifying. I really hope Alice is safe now and receives all the support she needs. Even if Alex does have NPD or BPD, conditions in which are already often wrongfully stigmatized, it's absolutely inexcusable to act like this or do these disgusting things. He needs to be deplatformed.
bpd and npd are complete opposites. That's not bpd that's very obviously npd but even so he is abvsive and having a disorder doesn't excuse abvse
The you're not that guy pal energy is off the charts today Louie keep it up
Louis uploaded. My day is significantly better now :) thank you for bringing situations into light and giving your insights to the situation. You're amazing!
i used to be a fan of imallex, because i saw somebody to relate to (bi, mental issues) but oh my god, i never knew he could be so horrible. he seemed like such a funny and charismatic guy on the surface. i guess you never know what people are doing behind the scenes. thanks for this video louis, you're a really cool guy :)
bro this is a trip because seeing you react so strongly to this situation when it's the exact same as the things I've been experiencing is insane to me. good for alice for getting out of that, getting out of that situation is so hard. knowing that the situation is similar, it's so weird that I hate alex for what he did but I also still miss the relationship I ended a few weeks ago even though watching the clips is like a fever dream. crazy.
if you need help with a relationship like this, please reach out for help!!!!! there are so many support and crisis lines for people in these situations. it seems hard and daunting but once you get help you won’t regret it :-)
I think this is one of the few places where I’m seeing people collectively agree that having a personality disorder doesn’t make you inherently evil or abusive.
Your face was so funny when Allex said “Louis” lol
15:49 Louis "clean your room"
me: i've already hooverd my room today, great success!
I literally only discovered your content today, and this is only the 3rd video I’ve watched but I am loving it, you’re already one of my favourite TH-camrs lmao
Dude. He better not use bpd as an excuse. I have bpd & bad anger issues, but I also care deeply about the people in my life and I know that my emotions shouldn’t be taken out on them. I learned ways to cope or seperate myself if I know I’m not in the right mind to act how I should. Even if they’re wrong and I have every reason to be mad; there’s a mature and better way to go about things. What he did was inexcusable and the best explanation is that he’s a terrible, immature person with little to no consideration about other people’s feelings and wellbeing.
I’ve watched a lot of vids on this and I just hope he doesn’t go with the mental health excuse
Oh absolutely
And I don't know if he even has npd it's just a possibility y'know.
Could explain how he might justify himself treating others this way, not that he has any right to y'know.
@@Louis_McClung I guess I haven’t seen any confirmation on the bpd thing but in another creator’s vid it was stated that he does, maybe he’s said he has it at some point. It could definitely explain a lot but does not excuse it
You're so right. There's so muvh stigma around this disorder, and bad people (maybe I'm not to judge, but I think some people are just bad) are using it as a excuse. Many people are afraid to admit to having it, because of so much misinformation and hate on the internet. I also have BPD and would die for my partner. Yes, sometimes I'm/was the "bad stereotypical BPD" but it's rare, I'm working on it, I'm in a therapy. And the most important thing, I know others are humans, have their own feelings, etc. I knew this before I started to heal, because, well, BPD isn't sociopathy or psychopathy.
@@Louis_McClung how is it a possibility. he shows no traits😭😭 like unless you're his psychologist or something you really shouldn't be talking about the possibility of him having a personality disorder or not based off of the fact that he's abuser. People with npd already suffer enough and the stigma surrounding the disorder doesn't make it any better. And you're attributing to that stigma right now. Like making it out like you have to be an abuser to have npd makes it nearly impossible for us to get better or professional help. because people like you make it seem like we're all abusers. Alex is not a narcissist, just an abuser.
Feeding us again Louis, thank you.
Your videos are by far my favorite things to watch when I am doing a nebulizer treatment, thanks for always taking about this stuff
11:53 my SIX YEAR OLD brother has said basically those exact words. He's acting like a literal CHILD
I thought everyone knew he was an untrustworthy weirdo after the slazo situation. I can't believe people are so willing to shrug her off, esp with the evidence we have now.
the intros will never stop giving
He does apparently have BPD, which does make me sympathise with the outbursts on occasion but NEVER would I (someone who also has BPD) EVER do that to my partner. that's insane
It doesn't justify how he treats people though y'know, I know people with BPD they are all very capable of not acting this way.
@@Louis_McClung of course !! that’s why i’m saying that what he’s doing is insane 🙂↕️🙂↕️
It does remind me a tad of myself whenever I have split, but like... Why was he acting like this? Literally, no reason. Even if there was a reason, he is a vile human being.
i have bpd and its completely controllable to not have outbursts. with therapy or medication. this guy could have all the diagnoses in the world i do not sympathize with this abuser.
I have bpd and I have never acted like that are you sure he has it? Cause I feel like there is no way that's not bpd behavior at all
wake up babe new louis mcclung video dropped
12:03 is like a kid saying “ur not invited to my birthday party” except a lot worse lol
i absolutely love how you sign off your videos. it’s such a nice little detail that feels super friendly! and you’re definitely right, i should get some laundry done 😬
I don’t know if this makes me sound horrible, but it’s hard for me to take those clips seriously when the person making all the threats sounds straight out of Don’t Hug Me I’m Scared.
My dad has Narcissistic Personality Disorder so I grew up listening to my dad act like this to my mom thinking it was normal
The flames of Louis banishing terrible people to Loser Hell will always brighten my day, figuartively and physically
Hey Louis, I’ve been a fan since 60-80k (not sure which), but I would like to thank you for your amazing content, you have helped me through my depression and your videos help with my self harm urges. I never forget to tidy things up while watching your videos, not to mention I love drawing while watching your videos. I cannot thank you enough because you have literally saved my life, the night I had a plan I discovered your channel and watched your videos instead. Thank you so much, you’re the absolute best. Keep doing what you do❤
Oh the amazing jumpscare of hearing one of ur favorite commentary creators compliment your art after hearing abt yet another horrible person, that little compliment makes me feel a little more positive after hearing abt shitty people :D Thx Louis
Me - starts to draw when Louis uploads cause dopamine points
Him- says it
Me- ☺️ thank yoi
watching this while journalling and feeling icky about myself and the end of the video made me feel better!!
thank u and i WILL be doing that laundry soon bc u rly called me out 😭
let’s go louis videooo my day is exponentially better now
HIM ACTING LIKE ALEX WAS SO FUNNY IDK WHY 12:41
So jealous of your hair😭🙏🏻
11:42 I’ve had almost the exact same conversation with my 6 year old nephew
The threatening to bash his ex's head in with a brick is so horrible, i was prepared for a jerk but this is beyond disgusting
thank you father
Stop telling me to clean my room, dad! I no wanna!
Unrelated, but I absolutely love your Squishmallows. They bring me joy 😊
My ex was so much like Alex. I hate to see who he'll be when Alex is my exes age if he doesn't get therapy.
I knew Alex was a horrible person when he doubled down on the Slazo shit. Then backstabbed INabber with a podcast (which I'm pretty sure doesn't even exist anymore) His commentary is so surface level.
Thanks for the laundry bit, gotta finish matching up my socks
As a British person I apologise for this behaviour 😭
I acc don’t know why us brits curse sm it’s actually terrifying
I’ve seen the clips of alex so many times but I am always left with my jaw dropped. It’s just so disgusting
It makes me viscerally angry seeing him threaten to beat his partner with a brick. Calling her a dog should be added to the list. Ugh.
I love the outros on all his vids so much they always make me smile 🤩
New louis McClung vid? Well, time to beat my art block and create another masterpiece
i saw things about this on twitter but couldn't find alot about it so im glad ur making a video on it
I was watching him not even a week ago, AND THIS? HOLY- Its hard to look up to people now.. :[
I used to have a friend that would talk to me in a similar way. It’s really degrading and makes you feel bad. I’m glad she got out of there.
Your majesty, you have dropped this: 👑
don't ya love it when you have a comically large bag of chips to watch Louis? I sure do :D
Im so glad you did video about this situation!
Ty Louis! For real, we luv you sm
15:42 "You look great today, you're beautiful." how'd he know??
I’m a person with bpd and I can say that it is absolutely vile behavior to exhibit this behavior regardless of whether or not you have bpd. If he uses bpd or npd or whatever as an excuse that’s gonna piss me off because it just increases the stigma
I was a really big fan of Alex. I was pretty much devastated when all this stuff came out. It sucks that he's an awful person. I guess that just shows that you can't trust everything you see on the internet.
*sighs* the Brit’s are at it again 😔😢 first Wilbur now Allex my god
I SWEAR WE ARENT ALL LIKE THAT
@@LouisaIrwin-up1yvWe know.
@@LouisaIrwin-up1yvliterally we’re getting such a bad name omg 😭
@@LouisaIrwin-up1yvyes you are. all my UK ex's are the most unhinged weirdos i ever met
@@boyonline1 IM NORMAL PLEASE
This is literally insane oh my god, after all his videos I've never assumed he'd be so terrible himself
The king has posted once again 🙏
12:09 I was genuinely waiting for him to say “you’re not invited to my birthday party anymore 😡”
I genuinely wanna cry because he was one of my favorite TH-camrs, but fuuuuuuck I can’t just ignore some like this. Alex wtf?!
I'm very sorry
Hey, louis, as a fan, probably don't make a "crash course" on NPD. It adds to the stigma that having a mental illness or personality disorder is a wacky evil thing that evil people have. Yikes.
Hey, you're never a bad person for having npd, he just might have it, that's my point.
@@Louis_McClung and he might have it because...?
Every time you post and I watch it I get a little burst of seritonine ❤❤
Ont i checked if you made a video abt him yesterday and here it is
I actually cant express in words the way im feeling right now. Best I can do is tell you that I had to check if you were talking about alex, same alex i enjoy watching. That guy genuinely comforted me so I always waited for his videos to drop. He was like a commentary ytber I listened to whilst doing chores and such in the backround. This genuinely makes me feel so disappointed and sad you have no idea.
i dont usually comment, but i rlly wnated to say that i apreciate the way you handled the situation!! love ur vods!!
Love ya Louis, but having NPD does not make somebody an abuser. Armchair diagnosing somebody with a personality disorder for being a shitty person just furthers the stigmatization of the disorder. - Sincerely a person with a cluster b personality disorder.
Good to see more people talking about this, i personally don't have a personality disorder but as someone who has various mental disorders (including possible ptsd/c-ptsd) its so tiring seeing people conflate mental disorders to being an evil person
WHAT!! no no no, I was saying he's acting like someone with npd and if he does then that's just how it is, it's not why he's a bad person
I didn't even diagnose him, just said he's acting like it yo
@@Louis_McClung Thats still saying NPD traits make you a bad person. Being an abusive person makes you abusive. People with disorders can be abusive but not every narcissist is abusive.
@@Louis_McClung I totally get you don’t have any ill intent - there’s definitely an argument to make about how calling someone a narcissist isn’t the same as saying they have NPD - but it kinda is a little ehhh to say a bad person is comparable to personality disorders ;3; no hate! Again I totally get it’s just poor wording just keep in mind for the future !!!!!
i find the sound effects so funny
" Fu- " *titan roar*
i like this louis guys hair,its pretty. haircare routine dropping when????
He’s mentioned before that he literally just washes it & it looks fire. Check out his Q&A.
i used to watch him a lot since he reminded me of 2D from gorillaz along with relating to some of his trauma- but when i found out about what allex did, i legit felt so sick to my core :(
edit: kinganu also came out about the abuse (they dated for a year i think