Allah سبحانه وتعالى said, (Interpretation of the meaning) Have you seen the one who takes his own lust (vain desires) as his god? And Allah knowing (him as such), left him astray, and sealed his hearing and his heart, and put a cover on his sight. Who then will guide him after Allah? Will you not then remember? And they say: "There is nothing but our life of this world, we die and we live and nothing destroys us except time (Ad-Dahr)." And they have no knowledge of it: they only conjecture. [Al-Jaathiyah 45:23-24]
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said, (Interpretation of the meaning) And they will be set before your Lord in rows, (and Allah will say): "Now indeed you have come to Us as We created you the first time. Nay, but you thought that We had appointed no meeting for you (with Us)." And the Book (one's record of deeds) will be placed, and you will see the Mujrimun (criminal polytheists disbelievers) fearful of that which is (recorded) therein. They will say: "Woe to us! What sort of book is this that leaves neither a small thing nor a big thing, but has recorded it with numbers!" And they will find all that they did placed before them, and your Lord treats no one with injustice. [Al-Kahf 18:48-49] And there will become apparent to them from Allah what they had not been reckoning. [Az-Zumar 39:47] And each Nafs (self, soul, person) will be paid in full of what it did; and He is Best Aware of what they do. And those who disbelieved will be driven to Jahannam (Hell-Fire) in groups, until when they reach it, the gates of it will be opened, and its keepers (angels) will say: "Did not the Messengers come to you from yourselves, reciting to you the Ayat (Signs) of your Lord, and warning you of the Meeting of this Day of yours?" They will say: "Yes, but the Word of torment has been justified against the disbelievers!" [Az-Zumar 39:70-71]
@@RogerMellie-yk3gw The juicies and shaytan created a war against their men for the western woman. My approach of solving that Fitnah would be to accommodate the women by listing everything that is Halal (lawful) for them, and then accommodate that for her. Like own elevators, transportation, work spaces. Entire parallel soceity. This way plotters would not be able to weaponize her into a traitor.
The important thing about life Kate is to be who you are and not worry about what others think. At the end of the day, you make a difference in people's lives around you; then you've done your job. Leaving a legacy behind, well, that's something that transcends what life is all about. You live the life you want, not what others want you to. Beyond that . . . life is too short to worry about non-consequential things. I love you, my sister; let us not worry about the little things but rather focus on how we can insight othrs to become something bigger than who they are to instill greatness in others by the contributions we make: when we insight others to do great things, we'll we've done it haven't we 😊 Between the two of us, we are instilling change; that's what's important: nothing ventured, nothing gained. May the road rise up to greet you with safe and happy travels along life's journey !! I Love You My Sister in Spirit ! Krazy Kris ❤️
Except women do have those labels for men. As well as additional labels such as height, hairline, income, and social standing. Besides, are we saying slim people aren’t a ‘real shape’ anymore? 🤔
Yeah they're applied to everyone. And everyone needs to reject them, because this isn't about men or women right or wrong it's about being a human and loving oneself with gentle compassion and honest accountability and extending that gracious love to each other with the appropriate healthy boundaries so everyone can live on this earth to the very best of their ability for the time we are all here. All best wishes to you and yours.
Disagree with first point as men are judged very harshly by women, but women are judged even more harshly by women! Can guarantee there's more men out there who couldn't care less 😂 fully agree with the rest of the clip and something we should all run with, too many people wasting precious moments of their life sitting around worrying about things and they'll regret it later in life
"...Slap these labels on women that we just don't have for men"- labels for men do exist, fewer & using different words. Society at large though does the same thing. Regardless, show business has always be ruthless & always will be.
@@LGrianYou seem to be implying women aren't able to make intelligent choices about what they read. If you play the victim you rob yourself of agency. Nobody is forcing women's reading on women. What a patronising notion to think men could do that to "the poor little dears"!
@@LGrianWomen buy and read that shit. We don’t make you read it! When are women going to stop blaming men and start being accountable for their own BS actions. You poor little victims who also apparently “run the world” and are brave and empowered and can do anything - exactly men are oppressing you. Which is it… 🙄
Thanks Kate the Great! Our unhealthy obsession with being too thin! Along with our obsession with youth, our youth culture! We all get old, we all have a variety of shapes! Variety is the spice of life!
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said, (Interpretation of the meaning) Have you seen the one who takes his own lust (vain desires) as his god? And Allah knowing (him as such), left him astray, and sealed his hearing and his heart, and put a cover on his sight. Who then will guide him after Allah? Will you not then remember? And they say: "There is nothing but our life of this world, we die and we live and nothing destroys us except time (Ad-Dahr)." And they have no knowledge of it: they only conjecture. [Al-Jaathiyah 45:23-24]
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said, (Interpretation of the meaning) And they will be set before your Lord in rows, (and Allah will say): "Now indeed you have come to Us as We created you the first time. Nay, but you thought that We had appointed no meeting for you (with Us)." And the Book (one's record of deeds) will be placed, and you will see the Mujrimun (criminal polytheists disbelievers) fearful of that which is (recorded) therein. They will say: "Woe to us! What sort of book is this that leaves neither a small thing nor a big thing, but has recorded it with numbers!" And they will find all that they did placed before them, and your Lord treats no one with injustice. [Al-Kahf 18:48-49] And there will become apparent to them from Allah what they had not been reckoning. [Az-Zumar 39:47] And each Nafs (self, soul, person) will be paid in full of what it did; and He is Best Aware of what they do. And those who disbelieved will be driven to Jahannam (Hell-Fire) in groups, until when they reach it, the gates of it will be opened, and its keepers (angels) will say: "Did not the Messengers come to you from yourselves, reciting to you the Ayat (Signs) of your Lord, and warning you of the Meeting of this Day of yours?" They will say: "Yes, but the Word of torment has been justified against the disbelievers!" [Az-Zumar 39:70-71]
What nonsense! It's so ridiculous how women think there are beauty standards just for them and that men aren't affected by it. Have you ever looked for underwear or swimming shorts online? For every model without a six pack, I'll buy you a scoop of ice cream. Of course you have to be muscular and go to the gym 6 times a week and of course you should be tall, at least 6" and not bald. Oh and please be successful in a job with an annual salary of over 100,000 k.
Women consider men under 6 feet tall to be subhuman, and men have no control over that. So don't act like it's unreasonable for fatness to be sexually unattractive
BMI is not good. It includes muscles. Fat % is what healthy weight should be more about. Too much weight even if it's muscles gets harmful at some point too tho
Jesus, there’s so much on our emotional & psychological plates To hell with worrying about this crap Why do people always assume a person is seeking out someone’s affirmation
Because you can not worry about it while still wanting to make yourself feel pretty. Look up “Kate Winslet L’Oreal I Am Worth It” and you will see she doesn’t mind removing the makeup. She wore no makeup for her show Mare of Easttown in 2021.
"That we don't have for men." Really? Have you ever heard of "dad bod"? It's not a compliment. Chris Pratt, Leo Dicaprio, Ben Affleck Russell Crowe. These are just a few guys who I've seen get absolutely roasted for gaining weight, and I don't even follow celebrity media. Stop thinking that just because something happens to you, you're the only one going through it. Get some perspective, and you'll learn that life is just shitty in general.
I think they got roles even after aging and gaining weight after their 30s wheras women that old started loosing them it's mostly career and body image related
Be overweight if you want to, but please stop trying to normalize it in a way that makes people who are actually at a healthy weight feel like freaks of nature. We are not; I assure you that our shape is very real, and we will not be erased just because what used to be normal is no longer the norm.
I was thinking that here it is about maybe 20, 25 pounds above ideal weight, nothing very unhealthy. After menopause, it might be the new normal for many...
How many people developed eating disorders and body image disorders cause its pushed in your face everyday because of the media. It doesn't discriminate.
@@roadwayronaI hope that there will soon come a day when every woman has a gynecologist who’s up to speed on the newest research on HRT. Many are not, and because of that there’s a lot of misinformation, fear-mongering and outright shaming if you seek HRT. Every cell in our bodies needs balanced hormones to function at optimal levels. Being on HRT doesn’t mean we won’t age; it just means aging healthier. Of course it’s not for everybody, but if women decide to opt out they should be able to base their decision on actual facts, not outdated opinion.
We certainly slap labels on men too. By Women and Men. Women aren't interested in men under 5'10. Men and women expect all men to be tough. We simply do. She's not seeing it as she doesn't experience it. Same with men.
Women are the harshest judges of other women. Men just want someone nice that's not duplicitous and unkind. Also I find myself in a world where men are women and women are men. It's hard to find a scapegoat in a world where reality has been abandoned.
I love the idea but just try to keep men out of it. Isnt there like dozen more genders now ? Use those. Or dont use any comparison. Just say women shouldnt worry about shape.
After years of signalling an expected Hollywood body shape crying Kate who can now only audition for grandma rolls is now fine with any female body shape 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it’s laughable.
The suggestion that maybe we shouldn’t have little girls worried about if they’re a “pear” or an “apple” makes you want to shake your head? Just say you hate women dude
Kate is so down-to-earth person, beautiful inside and out and humble too❤
At the end of our journey we will only wonder if we loved our people enough💝💔
I’ve always loved Kate Winslet! I appreciate how clear she is about what matters!
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
(Interpretation of the meaning)
Have you seen the one who takes his own lust (vain desires) as his god? And Allah knowing (him as such), left him astray, and sealed his hearing and his heart, and put a cover on his sight. Who then will guide him after Allah? Will you not then remember?
And they say: "There is nothing but our life of this world, we die and we live and nothing destroys us except time (Ad-Dahr)." And they have no knowledge of it: they only conjecture. [Al-Jaathiyah 45:23-24]
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
(Interpretation of the meaning)
And they will be set before your Lord in rows, (and Allah will say): "Now indeed you have come to Us as We created you the first time. Nay, but you thought that We had appointed no meeting for you (with Us)."
And the Book (one's record of deeds) will be placed, and you will see the Mujrimun (criminal polytheists disbelievers) fearful of that which is (recorded) therein. They will say: "Woe to us! What sort of book is this that leaves neither a small thing nor a big thing, but has recorded it with numbers!" And they will find all that they did placed before them, and your Lord treats no one with injustice. [Al-Kahf 18:48-49]
And there will become apparent to them from Allah what they had not been reckoning. [Az-Zumar 39:47]
And each Nafs (self, soul, person) will be paid in full of what it did; and He is Best Aware of what they do.
And those who disbelieved will be driven to Jahannam (Hell-Fire) in groups, until when they reach it, the gates of it will be opened, and its keepers (angels) will say: "Did not the Messengers come to you from yourselves, reciting to you the Ayat (Signs) of your Lord, and warning you of the Meeting of this Day of yours?" They will say: "Yes, but the Word of torment has been justified against the disbelievers!" [Az-Zumar 39:70-71]
She's a bit behind the times, though. What she's describing has been happening for a good 15 to 20 years
@@RogerMellie-yk3gw The juicies and shaytan created a war against their men for the western woman. My approach of solving that Fitnah would be to accommodate the women by listing everything that is Halal (lawful) for them, and then accommodate that for her. Like own elevators, transportation, work spaces. Entire parallel soceity. This way plotters would not be able to weaponize her into a traitor.
She's my hero
Well said, imperfection makes us unique
Love ❤️
She's the realest actress i can relate and look up to
She looks great!
I don't know if she's had any work done, but less is definitely more ❤
it is other women that make you feel awful for being normal.
When did she say otherwise?
@@CianMcsweeneyTrue!!! Men are much less judgmental of your clothes and body and accessories…etc!!!!
The important thing about life Kate is to be who you are and not worry about what others think.
At the end of the day, you make a difference in people's lives around you; then you've done your job.
Leaving a legacy behind, well, that's something that transcends what life is all about. You live the life you want, not what others want you to. Beyond that . . . life is too short to worry about non-consequential things.
I love you, my sister; let us not worry about the little things but rather focus on how we can insight othrs to become something bigger than who they are to instill greatness in others by the contributions we make: when we insight others to do great things, we'll we've done it haven't we 😊
Between the two of us, we are instilling change; that's what's important: nothing ventured, nothing gained.
May the road rise up to greet you with safe and happy travels along life's journey !!
I Love You My Sister in Spirit !
Krazy Kris ❤️
Women will say you're too skinny and getting too big in the same breath..women have been scarred. 😢
lovely
Winslett is a fantastic person
Except women do have those labels for men. As well as additional labels such as height, hairline, income, and social standing. Besides, are we saying slim people aren’t a ‘real shape’ anymore? 🤔
Don’t forget that a man is judged often by the type of car he drives.
Yeah they're applied to everyone. And everyone needs to reject them, because this isn't about men or women right or wrong it's about being a human and loving oneself with gentle compassion and honest accountability and extending that gracious love to each other with the appropriate healthy boundaries so everyone can live on this earth to the very best of their ability for the time we are all here. All best wishes to you and yours.
It's true we do have to often face so much from society and expectations
❤ Well said Kate ❤ xx
Disagree with first point as men are judged very harshly by women, but women are judged even more harshly by women! Can guarantee there's more men out there who couldn't care less 😂 fully agree with the rest of the clip and something we should all run with, too many people wasting precious moments of their life sitting around worrying about things and they'll regret it later in life
Yes that’s right. Men only care about appearance when selecting a potential mate, women seem to care all the time!
We have “dad bod”, “paunch”, “beer belly” for men 😊
Kate Winslet is goated....😊
❤
"...Slap these labels on women that we just don't have for men"- labels for men do exist, fewer & using different words. Society at large though does the same thing. Regardless, show business has always be ruthless & always will be.
Also, interestingly enough, both women are showing how a real face ages. Cheers to the Brits!
Well said :-) ❤so true
not sure why people say she’s so real. She’s obviously had work done and she obviously watches her weight
Good for you Kate, you always have, beautifully, and your acting talent didn't need to be bolstered by skinny limbs like some others.
Certified British actress 👍 tell the empowering gals that they're perfect the way they are,!
A recipe for disaster
"We" don't slap any labels on women...WOMEN slap labels on women! Men don't typically read or write the fashion magazines or fashion blogs etc...
Who do you think the executives were behind those magazines historically, hmm?
@@LGrian women
@@LGrianYou seem to be implying women aren't able to make intelligent choices about what they read. If you play the victim you rob yourself of agency. Nobody is forcing women's reading on women. What a patronising notion to think men could do that to "the poor little dears"!
@@LGrianWomen buy and read that shit. We don’t make you read it! When are women going to stop blaming men and start being accountable for their own BS actions. You poor little victims who also apparently “run the world” and are brave and empowered and can do anything - exactly men are oppressing you. Which is it… 🙄
True.
Thanks Kate the Great! Our unhealthy obsession with being too thin! Along with our obsession with youth, our youth culture! We all get old, we all have a variety of shapes! Variety is the spice of life!
♥️♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Amen! This realization hit me at 45, and what a gift it is to lay that burden down!😅
Thats totally true man who cares size 0 or not ? 😅
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
(Interpretation of the meaning)
Have you seen the one who takes his own lust (vain desires) as his god? And Allah knowing (him as such), left him astray, and sealed his hearing and his heart, and put a cover on his sight. Who then will guide him after Allah? Will you not then remember?
And they say: "There is nothing but our life of this world, we die and we live and nothing destroys us except time (Ad-Dahr)." And they have no knowledge of it: they only conjecture. [Al-Jaathiyah 45:23-24]
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
(Interpretation of the meaning)
And they will be set before your Lord in rows, (and Allah will say): "Now indeed you have come to Us as We created you the first time. Nay, but you thought that We had appointed no meeting for you (with Us)."
And the Book (one's record of deeds) will be placed, and you will see the Mujrimun (criminal polytheists disbelievers) fearful of that which is (recorded) therein. They will say: "Woe to us! What sort of book is this that leaves neither a small thing nor a big thing, but has recorded it with numbers!" And they will find all that they did placed before them, and your Lord treats no one with injustice. [Al-Kahf 18:48-49]
And there will become apparent to them from Allah what they had not been reckoning. [Az-Zumar 39:47]
And each Nafs (self, soul, person) will be paid in full of what it did; and He is Best Aware of what they do.
And those who disbelieved will be driven to Jahannam (Hell-Fire) in groups, until when they reach it, the gates of it will be opened, and its keepers (angels) will say: "Did not the Messengers come to you from yourselves, reciting to you the Ayat (Signs) of your Lord, and warning you of the Meeting of this Day of yours?" They will say: "Yes, but the Word of torment has been justified against the disbelievers!" [Az-Zumar 39:70-71]
What nonsense! It's so ridiculous how women think there are beauty standards just for them and that men aren't affected by it. Have you ever looked for underwear or swimming shorts online? For every model without a six pack, I'll buy you a scoop of ice cream. Of course you have to be muscular and go to the gym 6 times a week and of course you should be tall, at least 6" and not bald. Oh and please be successful in a job with an annual salary of over 100,000 k.
???????, No labels for men???????. Completely lacking any connections to reality. Zero accountability.
Women consider men under 6 feet tall to be subhuman, and men have no control over that. So don't act like it's unreasonable for fatness to be sexually unattractive
Yes that's so true man
So are naturally slim women not a real shape? 🤔
What is her definition of a "Real Shape" if it in the healthy BMI range I agree with her.
BMI is not good. It includes muscles. Fat % is what healthy weight should be more about. Too much weight even if it's muscles gets harmful at some point too tho
BMI has been a crutch but not overly useful
Jesus, there’s so much on our emotional & psychological plates
To hell with worrying about this crap
Why do people always assume a person is seeking out someone’s affirmation
If she doesn't worry then why is she wearing make up
Because you can not worry about it while still wanting to make yourself feel pretty. Look up “Kate Winslet L’Oreal I Am Worth It” and you will see she doesn’t mind removing the makeup. She wore no makeup for her show Mare of Easttown in 2021.
Maybe because she wants to look pretty for herself? 🙄
"That we don't have for men." Really? Have you ever heard of "dad bod"? It's not a compliment.
Chris Pratt, Leo Dicaprio, Ben Affleck Russell Crowe. These are just a few guys who I've seen get absolutely roasted for gaining weight, and I don't even follow celebrity media.
Stop thinking that just because something happens to you, you're the only one going through it. Get some perspective, and you'll learn that life is just shitty in general.
I think they got roles even after aging and gaining weight after their 30s wheras women that old started loosing them it's mostly career and body image related
Im just gonna enjoy my hundred million quid amd make the most of it.. good on ya kate..!
We just call me fat and we do it constantly. We try to be nice by dressing it up when we develop terms for women.
I just hope that my first born ends up looking like lizzo
Easy said when you've got all the money you'll ever need. Try not worrying when cashing in your giro
Be overweight if you want to, but please stop trying to normalize it in a way that makes people who are actually at a healthy weight feel like freaks of nature. We are not; I assure you that our shape is very real, and we will not be erased just because what used to be normal is no longer the norm.
I was thinking that here it is about maybe 20, 25 pounds above ideal weight, nothing very unhealthy. After menopause, it might be the new normal for many...
How many people developed eating disorders and body image disorders cause its pushed in your face everyday because of the media. It doesn't discriminate.
@@roadwayronaI hope that there will soon come a day when every woman has a gynecologist who’s up to speed on the newest research on HRT. Many are not, and because of that there’s a lot of misinformation, fear-mongering and outright shaming if you seek HRT. Every cell in our bodies needs balanced hormones to function at optimal levels. Being on HRT doesn’t mean we won’t age; it just means aging healthier. Of course it’s not for everybody, but if women decide to opt out they should be able to base their decision on actual facts, not outdated opinion.
@@K3r0411 Lord, help us. Please think about this some more. Why would we "need" that?? Do we absolutely want cancer rates going up?
I think she's against toxic standards that exist
♀️♀️Women keep figuring out that men ain't worth the trouble. ♀️♀️
How about women focus on themselves
Men have already figured out that women aren't worth the trouble.
@@James-st9uu how about that's what she was saying.
Why bring men in to it then? Catching strays for no reason.
Real women wouldn’t pass the Bechdel test.
Celebrate not being fat.
She's too busy celebrating not being lonely, unknown and poor.
Mate, a man can be a fat slob and not a word is said about it. He still thinks he's God's gift. But women have it hard with horrible comments made.
She’s celebrating not being a judgmental dick
As a teacher I saw this male push back, in 9-10 yrs old males! And it was a Native American tribal school, where women owned the property!😮
🎶"I'm no diplomat but you look better fat, Kate Winslet."🎵
-The Silver Brazilians
yeah easy to say now your past the line , wasn't saying that before , yeah not buying it ,( yeah i dont worry ANYMORE ) oh you used to worry
In fashion catalogues, plus size women are very large. Plus size men are muscular rugby players. How's that fair?
Do you want to see muscular women rugby players in these magazines you look at?would that be fair?😂😂😂
@@garyb1036they already got lingerie football for a reason
@@garyb1036 Where are fat men ever celebrated by women ?
Why do you worry then whether men has those labels or not
Goodo.
And I think it should be emphasised that the Titanic sunk because it hit an iceberg.
Yep, good luck tell that to your best friend Leo .
It ain’t men doing it to women…. & we don’t cause women to worry
The wall.
What about the whole label if "Dad Bod" Come on Kate... at least try and be impartial.
We certainly slap labels on men too. By Women and Men. Women aren't interested in men under 5'10. Men and women expect all men to be tough. We simply do. She's not seeing it as she doesn't experience it. Same with men.
Really, this makes the news ?
She’s right, but I did notice a little bit of a double chin beginning to appear.
The wall was unyielding.
Who cares . She is loaded and living the rich life. she succeeded and she is already older and looks pretty dam good. Everyone gets old.
@@christinajose285he's a miserable incel
@@christinajose285 It's just ironic you revel in your youth and beauty and monetize them while young then say they don't matter when they fade.
Amen! I’m all in favor of women being in real good shape!!
Millionaires whining about life 😢
Its women that create all the labels
if they want a carbon tax why not a fat tax?
‘Life is too short’ when you’re physically unhealthy🤣
Brave and inspiring
Just kidding what is this trash
DAYUM! she old
Omg another feminist complaining wah wah wah get over yourselves
I’m sure men like you would gladly live off the taxes she pays … am I right.
@@welshlady212000 not every thing is about money
@@welshlady212000 what a bizarre comeback
Women are the harshest judges of other women. Men just want someone nice that's not duplicitous and unkind. Also I find myself in a world where men are women and women are men. It's hard to find a scapegoat in a world where reality has been abandoned.
@@KentRoadstry going a few days without it.
I love the idea but just try to keep men out of it. Isnt there like dozen more genders now ? Use those. Or dont use any comparison. Just say women shouldnt worry about shape.
how about starting by giving up cosmetic
Shape they mean: 450lb
Kate Winslet is 450lbs?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
After years of signalling an expected Hollywood body shape crying Kate who can now only audition for grandma rolls is now fine with any female body shape 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it’s laughable.
"audition for grandma roles" I don't think so. She's a beautiful woman & very talented. You sound jealous.
@@Erin.C.G She's 50 , no more young mother parts for her I think 😂😂
@@donreeves60 I think it's a safe bet that she isn't seeking young mother parts now. Given her enormous success, I'm sure she's fine.
Women the eternal victim. I would say men have a lot more hoops to jump through than women when it comes to finding partners.
So badly done to,aren't you - give it a rest.
Next time, check your comment before you post. One sentence & you f*cked it.
@@Erin.C.G fckd what ? -Your sensitivity? I think YOU have posted to the wrong person.
These feminists rambling are a waste of time. People can’t pay their bills or pay for medication what are you doing about that!!!??
Feminism smh
The suggestion that maybe we shouldn’t have little girls worried about if they’re a “pear” or an “apple” makes you want to shake your head? Just say you hate women dude
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