@@DebilShurlik charlies comments are a good example what the rest of youtube comments looks like. But here the bots are really easily to identify because of there stupidity.
I wrote my girlfriend a poem the very first time I ever talked to her. She thought it was sweet and unconditional, but I thought it was cheesy and cringe. Now that I’ve seen this guy, I gotta say, I feel a lot better. Edit: My girlfriend read this recently and I have confirmed I have autism real bad
My dating advice is to not take dating advice, because if you treat love and relationships as a set of steps that you have to follow instead of doing things naturally, I find that things don’t work well.
No wait you don’t understand if I don’t have literally every breathe and every step I make illustrated in vivid detail for every woman in existence I will never find love it’s impossible (/s)
4:43 "People just love to throw money at someone they percieve to be an expert on a problem that they're doing the bare minimum to solve in the first place, like not getting dates" This is actually a pretty fuckin great quote ngl
For real. id say take whatever money you were going to throw at these fraud "experts" and get a gym membership, get some sleep, and put some effort into basic hygiene and youll get way further
@@ky_jellybean kek dubayoo, I'm perfectly sane, I need not therapy to impress those woman things. I only need crunchy muskulls and the sex will gravitate towards me. Especially with the overly fragile ego and rage will the female things coming to me. I would prioritize therapy and all the progress that could happen from that, rather than go for physical needs (I think it's just my preference). Physical & mental health are attractive after all. If you want to cheat you can learn the mental shortcuts that brains take to determine if one is "healthy looking".
Yeah, it's sad to see how many of them think of lesbians as "experimenting" or doing it for for "attention" If someone tells me they are Lesbian, then they are Lesbian.
An obvious note: If she's saying stuff like "yeah, maybe, haha" she isn't into you, she's just trying to make the conversation end so you stop creeping on her and she can enjoy her night without fear of you getting aggressive. Ask me how I know.
I actually appreciate when guys are quick and to the point. At the store this guy came up to me and straight up said " you're super pretty and I figured I'd just give it a shot and ask you out on a date." I have a partner so I said sorry I'm in a relationship. And he responded normally with something like oh sorry! And I was like np and it ended. Less than a minute of time and no awkwardness. It was extremely plesent and I was flattered. That's how it's done. You just need confidence and not get weird when it doesn't go your way.
It happened one time at my job where a random customer was trying to ask me out for dinner, and when I told him no, he assumed that I was a lesbian and asked if I had a girlfriend. I'm not, but that just confirmed to me why I shouldn't go out with him. The dude seemed so self-absorbed that he assumed that me specifically turning him down must've meant I was gay lol. He wasn't bad looking either, I just genuinely wasn't interested. Not everyone is constantly looking for a relationship or whatever and is fine with being single at the moment.
Not many people could believe in this... Especially not giant ego males who need an object to fill their needs... Sorry to spread my pessimism, I'm just very sexist towards males lol.
@@hunterlg13 It's true, there's so many bad guys out there and I've ran into my fair share of them, but I hope that one day we can all move away from sexism. Hate is still not the answer, it only makes more hate. I'm just pointing out something that I can relate to what Charlie was showing in the video. Hopefully it helps others see the way they shouldn't act.
I had a friend who would hang around outside the ladies toilet in a bar and ask them when they came out “Have you had a nice poo?”, strangely enough this never worked out well for him and he never quite understood that hanging around outside a ladies toilet is just creepy af. He’s still single.
Yeah, because Avery is a good dating coach. He actually recognises that women have their own struggles with dating. Charlie is being a bit of a dick in this video.
@@undercovertakodachi4301 that is the obvious step to take. Hell that is the ONLY healthy step to take in this situation. Sadly most guys who buy into this shit usually are taught to "never take NO for an answer" so they'll keep persisting, or just straight up ignore the telltale signs of not being interested, because for all their ultra-knowledge on body language and eye contact, the gurus propably forgot to tell them the obvious fucking sign like that.
"Smart. Trustworthy. Attractive" and 100% legitimate convo screenshots from the guy who just admitted to paying for a bot boost on all of his dating app profiles and having photoshopped pictures. With pick up lines like his, I'm hoping his book comes with a free fedora with proof of purchase if they attend his meet ups.
You can't blame the guy for that though. The apps themselves literally won't give you any result unless you pay and have a perfectly curated profile (as a man). I still blame him for choosing to use those apps, the more people use them, the shittiest the dating scene becomes.
That's true, unless they're an actual guru in the original sense of the word, but in most cases online, it's mostly just these crappy dating gurus and "make $20,000,000,000 a second by doing nothing" losers. They're so annoying.
I'm on the spectrum and even I have always noticed how **profoundly uncomfortable** the women are in these kinds of videos. They're acting kind and smiling because they're unsure if they're about to be assaulted and are doing their best to de-escalate the situation by seeming both kind and busy. Unless these men are more autistic than me, they know exactly the situation they're putting these women in. Just go to parties, meet people, treat women like you would your male friends. It's not hard! Even I can do it!
I think with these kind of people it's due to being isolated and lacking social experience. They struggle talking to anyone and making friends let alone partners. I knew a guy who was raised by a sexist mom, went to an all boys school and never socialised until he got to uni. And he started spewing everything Andrew Tate said. And then he wondered why no one likes him, especially girls.
Even when I was a socially stunted teenager (got a lot better now as an adult) I always understood these kinds of things. These guys are so pathetic honestly..
I appreciate this. I tend to make up excuses for weird dudes like this “maybe he has a disability or lacks social skills” nope usually it’s entitlement and lack of empathy.
They mostly just dumb down women to a generic stereotype and try to score as fast as possible. From what I've seen it seems mostly about getting quick sex, not about how to find someone you're compatible with
@@ddduuunnngggObviously this isn’t about finding compatible partners. Most men don’t want a relationship-they want easy sex. Men are hardwired for that; it’s women that usually want to settle down. Men don’t have to deal with pregnancy, so they lose nothing by “pumping and dumping”, whereas women often get stuck with the result. It’s only natural for women to want the guy to stick around once that happens, and it’s only natural for men to prefer spreading their seed rather than stay in one spot.
@Emma what a sad, sad way to look at people. Not to mention outdated and stereotypical. There are lots of women who want non committed, casual sex and there’s plenty of men who want to settle down in a monogamous committed relationship with one person. Men are not “hardwired” for casual sex, nor can you say they all want to “spread their seed”. While yes the woman often ends up being “stuck” with the “result” of having sex that doesn’t mean she “wants” the man to stick around for any other reason than taking up his share of the responsibility. It takes two to create that result, both should be held accountable.
If you have alot of experience dating, that also means you have no experience in a committed relationship. The goal is to spend as little time as possible in the "dating" zone.
well depends on semantics. Some would disagree with your definition of dating. Being in a relationship can be considered ongoing dating. As for meeting people, it's not necessarily a bad thing. Especially if you are looking for something specific and not just any old somebody.
People who give dating advices while not having a stable one themselves are just cringe. 💀 Edit: Didn't mean to start a war in the comments. What I meant was that if you can't FOLLOW your own dating advice on for example "how keep a man" then why you giving other people advice on it. I also understand that a lot people who are single have great dating advice.
I actually met my gf through Facebook dating, and she’s the most amazing thing to ever happen to me. I plan on proposing later this year when our finances are in better order
I got dumped by a cheater last month and I don’t regret that relationship because that sack of bastard showed me your channel and I’m so glad to be here
i think a lot of guys have warped their priorities so badly that they psyop themselves into a fake choice - either be a lonely loser piece of shit or a cool successful awesome guy who has a gf to the point they view getting a girlfriend as the one thing that will make their life worthwhile
General Payton: Alright listen up. Lieutenant Salvo we heard you were single, in need of bed warming. Nights been mighty cold for that alpha body of yours. {Other soldiers laugh} Salvo: Yes sir. General: Well Lieitenant Salvo, Today's the day you get what you deserve. At 2000 the mission begins. Simple, tactical and deadly. The first lady who isn't dressed like a nun is your target. Nuns are the bad eggs in the omelet. We don't need such distractions. Next you follow her for a while, pick up the speed if she isn't near you and when you are close you give her the payload. The key is C-O-M-P-L-I-M-E-N-T-S. The boys back at Washington have run the numbers. Said it's the closest way to getting your cold bed warm. Don't disappoint me Salvo. Salvo: Yes sir. General: Alright move out.
@@bruhman5829 I agree with this sentiment, but would like to further add that this seems to be a result of the effect of an extremely interconnected - yet very socially distant (and I mean even before COVID) 21st Century society. Think about it, we live in a world where the internet has granted us the ability to remain connected with various social circles literally twenty four hours a day, a type of communication network that has never before been seen through human history. Yet at the same time, loneliness coalescing with depression (for both men and women, because as much as people like to think it's only men that go through this, it's not, even if it may be to a lesser extent) has never been more of a problem throughout our history. To pretend that there is no connection between these two things is to be willfully blind. What I feel we need to be doing is looking for a way to bridge the gap somehow. I won't deny that this issue is primarily a Millennials and Zoomers issue, but it remains an issue our generations need to deal with all the same. Interconnectability has come great lengths, but meaningful human interaction has more or less fallen by the wayside.
@@brontebell7748 Not all of them are like this. Just like there are men who do actually generalize women, this statement is also a generalization of the very same sort.
Okay so maybe there are some people out there that would be flattered by a stranger telling them they're the most beautiful person they've ever seen (or something similar), but personally, that's coming on WAY too strong.
Not to mention it is most likely a lie... your average person is never going to be the most beautiful person you've ever seen. It takes getting to know someone and finding things about their personality that you find attractive to put them at the top of the scale.
You know damn well this guy is absolutely infuriating to be friends with. He’s the type to try & school a married man on why his marriage is suffering, even though he’s single.
I second a lot of what Charlie says. Be normal around people, crack safe jokes that you actually find funny, and share your passion for your favorite things in life and plenty of people (male, female, or any other gender) will enjoy being around you. That's how you get dates. By being chill and fun to be around.
Personally, i would say to be socially appropriate for the occasion and not be a creep, that will get you laid faster than the BS these pick up artists are peddling.
Can confirm, this is how I fell in love with my husband. He just acted like a normal person, and treated me as another human being worthy of respect. He never made any romantic moves towards me until it was clear we were both ready to move in that direction. Being geniune and just treating other people as your equal is WAY more effective than whatever BS pickup artists try to sell to desperate men.
IF A GIRL SAYS “MAYBE” when you’re in her face while she was minding her business in public cause you popped out from behind her….SHE IS NERVOUS AND ANXIOUS and just said that to not hurt your feelings or to get away from you safely. JFC how he didn’t pick up on her body language and nervous inflection immediately when he has a “psychology” degree is insane.
Or she just might mean "maybe" lol. Like a "do you feel like watching this movie that has 6/10 stars?" maybe. Unless you're speaking with experience, in which case you're shitting on a guy who does the same thing as you. I know Im in trollsville rn but jeez can you at least try not being so cringe with your terrible logic?
@@simonhakon3447 i was taught no means no, as well as yes means yes. There is no 'grey area' to consent. If you don't get clear, explicit consent, park your brakes
@@20dabarr58 then go report his dating guru to police then, quick quick. What are you waiting for 🤡🤡🤡? Go buy a ticket plane to LA, he lives there. Go there and report him. See how that goes for you. I am sure police will arrest him and I am sure you won't embarrass yourself 🤡🤡🤡
Since my company seems to have attracted a lot of "businesses" with this sales tactic, I can tell you most of them are just one or two people taking out a loan, hiring someone to "write" a book on their behalf (where most of the book will actually have a mishmash of psychology, philosophy and the "authors" life story sprinkled around in a loosely connected fashion) and set up a website where they peddle that stuff. It's the same for pickup artists, sex gurus, self-help gurus, "specialized" psychology experts, etc. Most of them just try it out for a couple of years and try to bank on the charisma, but usually have no idea on how to run a business, so they just waste the money and end up with returning to daily jobs while paying out that bank loan, and keeping the lights on at a minimal level on what then becomes a very stagnant side hustle.
Unfortunately this pathetic dating guru crap is nowehere near as lucrative as onlyfans. Anyway, male losers are a perpetual cash cow for ethots. Sleezy pick up artists try to get in on the act but can't hope to compete
Here's some dating advice: be clean lmao. I knew someone who had bad oral hygiene. Our group at the time had to push him into brushing his teeth. He also had to be convinced to have a basic skincare routine to have healthier skin. Acne isn't bad but intentionally picking your skin won't help.
I love how he is constantly reminding us about the semental he is, and how he could steal physically and metaphorically, any women’s heart. That totally doesn’t scream “insecure”.
@msmeggacha7701 there is something far worse than being a bot on TH-cam and that's replying with a bot comment and not even being counted as a reply. That's honestly hilarious.
Then they also start off their sentences with "most guys don't realize blah blah..." making people think they're getting ahead of the league or something.
Based. They and their approach are very disliked by actual girls. Like. I don't know what kind of mental gymnastics bois need to use to think that this kind of behaviour will be accepted and treated as normal. They are cringe and predatory af. They are not treating any woman as an individual. Maybe even if an initial connection will click, it'd be a dead end anyway.
I met one of these during a zoom class, as my student. They were practising how to talk in the past tense with the topic of their teenage years (spanish class). The guy was in a breakout room with me and at least four other women and he goes "I'd tell my younger self that women like bad guys, he could have had so many of them if he had been more aggressive". There was an awkward silence and the others, poor saints, kinda laughed it off and tried to convince him that while some girls do like the bad boy trope, it will all depend on the girl, and you can't be always playing the part. They even mentioned their types (I think in hopes of keeping this as a funny convo) but he just... Wouldn't listen. He even said something like "you say that but evidence proves that what women really want is different". With four women there literally telling him what they wanted. It's extremely confusing.
Don't be yourself, be how the guru tells you to be! That way when the mask eventually slips because its hard to pretend to be something your not for any extended period it will be even more awkward and hilarious 🤣 😂
But what if being yourself means being too shy to talk to girls? Like you need to go against your natural instincts. Be yourself is an advice for date.
His opening line, "There's something about you that really caught my attention" is the exact same verbage I was taught during a summer job I spent trying to sell god damn windows to home owners going door to door. I imagine the success rate is exactly the same, too.
@MSMEG IX techno been dead for 4 months and you're still botting accounts to spew out your bs and I can't stop laughing because you're wasting your life
Facebook dating is actually pretty decent. Maybe not in the USA, because it's practically an "old people" app now. But in certain places in the world like in Southeast Asia for example, it's pretty effective because the general population still uses it. Plus it's completely free (except for the data you send Zucc the Lizard Man)
No it doesn't. That's most stupid piece of advice I've ever heard. What helps with (true) confidence is approaching women and getting rejected, ONLY, not some bullshit outside factors (cologne, alcohol, drugs, parties). Your directness and bluntness helps with overall interactions, nothing else. Sorry to break it down for you. Please don't give any more advices.
@@T8USD I’m sorry your personal experience with fragrances has been negative. But for most people it is an integral part of who they choose to be/how they present themselves. For those who can efficiently use fragrances to better their interactions it’s a great tool. I’m speaking from my own personal experience but I appreciate your opinion on the subject.
@@ryancurry5376 I am using fragrance myself. Of course it's an integral part of how they chose to present themselves. But it has nothing to do with confidence increase of any sort (referring to your original comment) I am comparing it to alcohol or literally any outside factor which MAY build up fake confidence. If you received any additional confidence while wearing cologne, sorry to break it down for you but those are not valid confidence points. Same as if you would be approaching under the influence. It's an outside factor and therefore any confidence you think you might have while having fragrance/under the influence is completely invalid and should not be used as a reference point. A man earns confidence points by approaching women and being direct and blunt about it and by getting rejected numerous times. You can wear fragrance, but that shouldn't be a critical component for your confidence. Not even as an add-on to an already existing confidence you may have while approaching women. That's my two cents about it.
I'm a woman, and for some reason the idea of ever actually persuing a guy who initiated contact via approaching me on the street sounds... terrifying? The way I've always known solid relationships to form is usually via mutual friends, or hanging out with a group of people and randomly meeting a friend of a friend, or meeting them in school/college, at a dance class, or other hobby-related place? Because in this circumstances YOU KNOW you have something in common and can get an idea of what the other person is like. When you just approach them on the street you only somewhat-know their appearance, and if that's enough for you to initiate a date then you're probably not looking for something serious right?? Or am I just weird
You're just weird. Before the smart phone era, people met all the damn time in random places like the grocery store, a park, or off the street. Only nowadays do we consider it "creepy" because we've normalized dating apps while making cold approaches taboo when it used to be the other way around.
Nah I agree with you, idgaf how people used to meet, if I'm out and about minding my business or with my friends I don't want some stranger coming up to me. And I wouldn't want to be with the sort of guy who thinks it's acceptable to go around bothering girls in public either.
@@LeeEverett1 facts, I don’t understand why people think cold approach in itself is so wrong. The idea of it nerve racking? I can understand that but it being immoral is just a coping mechanism for guys who are too afraid to go and actually talk to girls
@@Lickmytoe Then take yourself out of the dating pool. If you're shaming guys by saying that we're "bothering" you by simply saying hello then you've got issues and need therapy for your lack of social skills and how you view the opposite sex. What are men supposed to do? Women don't approach and most men don't stand a chance on dating apps or even at bars/clubs due to stiff competition in these places, so how is a normal guy supposed to ever date? Because every friend or boyfriend you've ever had was a stranger at one point.
@@thewitchfindergeneral4015 Women are the only ones who think cold approaching is wrong. Majority of men don't stand a chance on dating apps or in the clubs, so they're either left with dating a coworker which is almost always a bad idea, or cold approach which men are now being shamed to do. I agree it's cope if a guy makes excuses, but to be fair alot of guys are so nervous with approaching due to hostile women trying to embarass or shame them for talking to her.
I’ll tell you the same thing I tell my little brothers and younger men at work- Everyone is talking about “how to get women” what ever happened to having a crush on a specific woman? It’s like some young men are just trying to appeal to everyone. If you don’t have a woman that you’re actually interested in, why are you trying to date anyway? Shouldn’t you be focusing on something else? Like what good does it do you as a man to just go out blind and then not even know the qualities that you want in a woman? Once you’re living as your true self and continuously working on yourself you’ll naturally start to find the women that are right for you.
Literally: all it takes to get a date (or just have good relationships with others in general) is to be secure with yourself. Have a solid, healthy self-concept. Healthy boundaries. Take genuine interest in others. That's it y'all.
@@jeremiahcarraway6419maybe if men were like women they would get dates. men are the most disgusting things on the planet yet think they deserve something so bad. if a woman is ugly like how i am i just try to love myself. dress how i want, do makeup. so many guys say they don’t love themselves and think they are ugly YET DO NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN. and y’all hate women anyway why go after us just for sex. y’all be fake and even kill us for saying no and want to be mad at women for shit men caused
"Yeah, but being myself is hard and doesn't give me instant gratification, therefore I need to obtain answers from these 'authorities' on the subject". I think one "cheat" that people don't realize is to turn one's personality into their own schtick. That way, it feels like a comedic routine instead of putting forth vulnerabilities of one's own (stinky risk)
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 look around u, so many ugly guys are in long term relationships with beautiful and successful women, it really isnt about looks most of the time
Advice from a woman: Don't tell her she's beautiful the first time you talk. It's creepy because she's heard it from creeps a million times. My guide to dating: Confidence. Dress well. Respect yourself and the other person. Be chill, hang out.
Its especially uncomfortable for the women when a random dude suddently walks next to her and then he starts complimenting. Im not women expert, but i highly doubt that women like someone following them and puking compliments line theyre doing
I've had two different dudes approach me with that very strategy within the same week, both of them requested a hug after getting rejected😒Like being followed and love bombed isn't annoying and creepy enough. Pick-up artists are the worst.
"If you are so down bad you are going to Facebook dating, you need to take a hard look in the mirror and start reevaluating some choices." - Wise words from Charlie
Most of finding a date is literally just going out to public events, meeting new people, and being yourself. You are going to eventually find someone you get along a lot with and who you may end up dating. This is especially easy if you go to events or activities related to an interest you have since it makes for a great conversation starter. Then you also already know that the two of you have something in common, and you can both partake in that common interest to get closer and maybe start dating. Also personally for me, I've found the most success at finding someone to date when I wasn't actively looking. Edit: Clearly the Tate dickriders can't stand me, because Big Daddy Tate told them that they're only allowed to think with their dicks.
@@austinbatton4849 I've been single for a few months, but not lonely. By the way, I actually just met a woman a few days ago exactly how I described in my comment, we vibed really well, and we've got a date planned for this weekend. :)
Yea okay. Being myself got me broke. like your not meeting new people when your on welfare. half the people in these comments are but they are too pathetic to admit it.
This is the most basic and truest advice honestly. Just gotta put yourself in the right social situations and find common interests with people. People who refute this advice would rather make excuses than actually try to put in effort and improve.
@@misscandle you say that as if men are the picky gender when the reality is that 80% of women choose the top 20% of men, and that hypergamy (dating up) is only a woman thing.
@@BULD0SIS Men are picky too. One little cheat that people do is "Wat's ur type?" which is... being picky. I won't list all the other problems with coming up with "types" to be attracted to, but meh.
What always kills me is that some guys are willing to pay for this bs thinking they'll learn anything, instead of listening to women's experiences and perspectives for free
@@hunterlg13 I don't think you understood what I meant in my comment. Let me rephrase it: It's stupid that many men pay for bs "dating advice" from scammers because they want to learn about women, when simply talking to women would teach them all they want to know and much more, and they wouldn't have to pay anything.
The first line I used on the girl I got engaged with was literally ”I’d like you better dead and I’m better off alone.” and she got the reference. Not really the most romantic thing to say, but it’s about individual and their taste and personality. It always amazes me how these ”guru’s” manage to sell these idiotic courses for sad people like there’s some magic formula to every woman. Don’t these guys who buys into this shit realize that women are individuals as well?
@@MedievalSolutions @tomlxyz Both could be true and are fair points. My assumption would be that they’re either so socially awkward that they don’t know how to initiate the convo/shot their shots and thus trusting on this kinda guys to get pointers how to do so or possibly had just so poor experiences that they seek some tips on what they’re doing wrong. But both of you guys could be 100% correct. I have no idea.
@@nick1752 the problem is only men get the smear for this kinda thing like why would you care anyway ? thats what so contradictory about this whole thing its like the try to hyperbolize any cringe interaction to paint them in a bad way
I like how he mentions Facebook dating. In my area there is a group of people using Facebook dating posing as underage decoys to catch pedos. They have made 27 arrests so far in like 7 months.
Here's the real advice, which overlaps quite a bit with making friends in general. Vibes are everything because they transcend words. In other words, as the old adage says: the best way to not get along with others is by being ill at ease with yourself. So you really need to learn to properly love yourself (because how can you properly love anyone else if you dont even know how to love yourself?). Even if it means creating ways to love yourself: like habitually doing hobbies that you love, pursuing childhood dreams, doing things to make mirrors more kind to you; basically, doing things that keep your spirit alive. Then, when you're finally comfortable in your own skin, everyone will know it. Without words. Be candid. Be kind. Maintain good hygiene and wear clothes that fit you, and aren't shabby. And the key to being a great conversationalist is being a great listener. That is all for now.
I'm sorry but you're wrong here as that is only your subjective view of what an "ideal" male would look. Frankly for every woman it's quite different that's why if you change how you look or whether you keep your hygiene good or not, whether you wear some fancy-schmancy clothes, that doesn't change the outcome of whether a girl will reject you or be receptive. It's a numbers game. If there's 100 women in the room and 7 would exchange numbers with me with the way I dress, look and present myself right now. That number doesn't go drastically up or down if there is a change to my appearance. You only filter yourself for women which have different standards. Also, you're most comfortable when you're in your comfort zone. That's not a way to go on and approach. Approaching women really gets you out of your comfort zone and no just by being comfortable, inside your world without saying anything will get you nowhere. And if by some chance a man manages to find a girl that way, that's pure luck. I would say there's a 0.0001% of that ever happening.
@EscapeT8 Matrix my main point, was that desperation and insecurity and self-negligence are the most unattractive things on the planet. And no, you don't necessarily need to straight cold approach. If you're at a place where people want to meet, women will make themselves available to you if they're actually interested (sorry to say, but women are quite superior socially, and will have already scanned the room and have taken a list, before you realize it, if they're on the prowl). In other words, if they're bold, they'll meet your eye. But stares aren't everything. They might simply move somewhere close by so that you won't have to work too hard to meet them. And if you are talking to them, their eyes will tell you everything you want to know. And, on the surface level, it's not about what you say, but how you say it. And unfortunately, art is simply not a science. And that's all I will say for now.
While I agree on your main point. Desperation, neediness, insecurity is a complete turn off for a woman. If woman is in a place where she expects an approach ("place where people want to meet"), the approach itself is not impressive to her. Because she is anticipating it already. I've approached thousands of women, the less a woman was expecting an approach (0% or close to 0%) the more she was impressed with the approach. Which is not the goal but I'm just making a point. I want to argue a point that cold and bold approach is most definitely a way to go. Reason being not because a woman you approach will necessarily like boldness or directness, that's not relevant and in man's eyes it simply does not matter what you, her, your friend I approach thinks about it. It's because it builds my confidence and nothing else matters. Getting a girl's number, taking her on a date and spending time dating her is just an extra. Like I said, the way you present yourself directly filters out who you'll pair with. The reason why directness, cold and blunt approach are a necessity for a man's approach is because it builds undeniable confidence over constant and constant approaching. I agree it has nothing to do what you initially say as long as you say it confidently and with intention.
Just like Charlie trying to give advice when he himself has a butt ugly girlfriend 💀💀 lol yea guys listen up to your neckbeard idol if you want a gf like him
"Just don't be weird" I'm actually not weird, however I am unable to pick up signals or make moves, its just not something I can do, I'm not too shy to talk to women or anything, it's just I've never gotten into "dating" aside from one relationship. Lets just say, I haven't spent valentines with anyone since 2018. So I don't think "just not being weird" is all it takes.
True, but it's a good starting point. Try going to events that are focused around an interest you have and be social if you can (without only talking to the gender you're attracted to, if youre het)
Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they’re advice isn’t gonna help you, they’ll just shame you any chance they get for wanting to be better with women
Hey man, sorry to hear that. It sucks and it sucked for me. Of course "just not being weird" is not the right advice. It's not even an advice. I've been in the same spot 2.5 years ago. I made my first approach and I was terrified but I kept on going and pushed through my shyness. As of this moment I'm still approaching ~40-50 women/on a good day, give or take around 15k per year. for two years And I'm not bragging about it in any way shape or form. I just want you to know that I myself was in the same position. I know exactly how you feel. Please don't spend money on approach gurus. They'll get you nowhere and you'll lose money for nothing. I just published my e-book called The Direct Male and if you don't feel like investing money with me either, that's fine. What I can give you from this comment is that the only way to overcome your initial shyness is by pushing through it. When you see a cute girl in the park, store, on the street. Come up to her and introduce yourself. Say that you find her attractive and that's all you need. Bear in mind you will most likely get rejected and that's not something you should be afraid of. Confidence is built by being rejected, constantly, on and on and on and on. Out of 30.000ish approaches I made so far, I got rejected 28.000 times let's say. It's nothing to worry about. If you truly want to get back into approaching women, get in touch with me. I don't charge hundreds of dollars. It's barely a restaurant dinner cost for my e-book. You'll see the change in short amount of time. Your confidence will skyrocket and I'm not exaggerating. Happy hunting :)
8:38 If a girl says "Oh, uhm... maybe" like that is fair to think they are not interested, but want to avoid conflict just in case and/or couldn't think of an excuse.
Softening the blow yeah. Can't tell if the dude will take it badly. It sucks because there's a lot of shy women who will genuinely be interested but give off uninterested signals
This comment section is like a collection of terrible takes on cold approaches by people who've never done or witnessed a cold approach in their life. When women aren't interested, they'll say "Sorry, I have a boyfriend", "Sorry, I have to go somewhere" or "Sorry, I'm not interested". 99% of the time it's the first one, because it's incredibly safe and easy. If you're doing a very direct cold approach where you state your intent as early as possible, what you're hoping for is some version of "maybe" which is an invitation to keep engaging - attractive women aren't going to jump your bone within 10 seconds of meeting. If your intent is to say that you're not interested, and to end the interaction, it makes absolutely no sense to give an ambiguous answer which leaves the conversation wide open without even an off-ramp. Your brain is so scrambled from lapping up Charlie's demonstrably erroneous narrative on this guy that you think is how a conversation goes: Him: "Can I take you out for coffee?" Her: "Maybe" Him: "Ok, bye"
I tapped into the pick-up scene many years ago and it helped me meet my current wife. It more or less helped me with my awkward social skills more than approaching women.
When I used tinder and such I got plenty of matches and dates but there was never any chemistry or real interest when we met and that's (at least for me) where the problem is. Just writing to a girl on a tinder "hey, you look interesting let's meet up" is the easiest step but to succeed on that date is the challenge.
Picking up girls is easy. Just give them some space and say: Pardon mine own interjection m’lady and I pray these words fall not harshly upon thine ears but I simply must declare your appearance hath captivated my eyes. Tis as though we has’t been connected by the red thread of fate.
These are all the things that will land you the woman of your dreams: Magic Cards, Trilbys/Fedoras, Neckbeards, Bent glasses, Dragon posters, Alienware, Funko Pops, Renaissance fair, Virginity, No deodorant, Goodwill suit jacket.
The worst part is that interaction around 8:25 was like…actually relatively normal? Usually the "gurus" are the bane of my existence but he walked up, complimented, made a brief small talk, and then dismissed himself without overstaying the welcome, she kept self-agency to continue if she wanted to without him being overbearing? Am I absolutely insane for thinking that wasn't awful?
or you could just... you know be yourself so you meet someone compatible for you rather than acting like someone else to get a bunch of dates you won't like.
I love how Charlie exposes the worst and best stuff. Like, seriously. I think, instead of dating apps, how about just throwing your coffee on somebody and say sorry. Story of my life, dude.
In a logical standpoint, who would listen to someone who hasn’t found their love of their life, I’d much rather hear advice from someone in a 12 year relationship than someone spitting game on dating apps
@@RobKaiser_SQuest I think most people in general don't know the difference... The "modernness" of relationships has infected the integrity and longevity of them to the point that divorces are probably more common than marriages somehow lol.
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I have 218 restraining orders so far a week after finishing a $10,000 course, may not have anymore money but eventually one girl will say yes
Amateur,everyone know that Alpha men would have atleat 6969 restraining orders after a week.
You are all lightweights! I have over 11,000 restraining orders
@@darthgroot9130 Bitch please, I've got restraining orders from women I've never seen not to mention men and animals.
PERSISTENCE PAYS! DONT BE A QUITTER
. . . I don't know what currency it pays in, but apparently it pays guys.
They WILL say yes
Charlie should start his own dating course. Moist dating
K-pop better + I’m the ultimate k-pop defender ☝🏻🤓
you struck a goldmine with the amount of bots within the first 5 minutes of your comment (5, in case they’re deleted later)
@@ayeeffvee8173 fr tho
Critical Moist Theory: The Art of Dating
If "Filthy" by the Gentle Men isn't in the orientation, I will be upset.
''sometimes they'll have a boyfriend, or theyre a lessbian''
i expect a lot of women tell him they are lesbians AND have boyfreinds.
What the fuck with all the bots in the comments
"I'm lesbian, have a boyfriend, am married, am actually a minor your creep, this is my death certificate, you can't date me" - is a natural response
@@DebilShurlik charlies comments are a good example what the rest of youtube comments looks like.
But here the bots are really easily to identify because of there stupidity.
@@DebilShurlik yeah, it must to be some kind of new bot wave, love gurus broke the gates of youtube's security love :D :D
@@MedievalSolutions only boyfriend???? :O you forgot your HUSBAND to mention :P :D
I wrote my girlfriend a poem the very first time I ever talked to her. She thought it was sweet and unconditional, but I thought it was cheesy and cringe. Now that I’ve seen this guy, I gotta say, I feel a lot better.
Edit: My girlfriend read this recently and I have confirmed I have autism real bad
Nerd
@@davidhasselhoff8683 ok David Hasselhoff, i bet you're not even the real David Hasselhoff
@@davidhasselhoff8683 Ya done good Hasselhoff, ya done-
ow
And yet you did it even though you found it cheesy
@@7yep4336dfgvvh I’m a sucker for her lmao
This man is saving relationships because if you see your partner paying money for “dating advice” that’s a clear sign to leave
I spent 8 years with a woman I met on Facebook and yes she was always crazy
If your partner is paying for dating advice. You need to think about your life decisions, you're the one dating them.
@@nathanielcooke1902 true but I already know my worth, if someone is dating me they low key inside the deepest pit imaginable in life
Wait why would someone in a relationship be paying money for tips😂guess you’re technically correct
save the relationship by leaving amiright boys
My dating advice is to not take dating advice, because if you treat love and relationships as a set of steps that you have to follow instead of doing things naturally, I find that things don’t work well.
No wait you don’t understand if I don’t have literally every breathe and every step I make illustrated in vivid detail for every woman in existence I will never find love it’s impossible (/s)
If i dont listen to your advice am in the right or in the wrong
@@cactusman7661 yes
High school relationships in a nutshell:
Yup.
If she’s walking away from you the entire time you’re talking to her, she’s probably not interested.
Yea, that would fall under the category of chasing, which just leads to fight or flight response lol
4:43 "People just love to throw money at someone they percieve to be an expert on a problem that they're doing the bare minimum to solve in the first place, like not getting dates"
This is actually a pretty fuckin great quote ngl
Facebook dating lol
For real. id say take whatever money you were going to throw at these fraud "experts" and get a gym membership, get some sleep, and put some effort into basic hygiene and youll get way further
@@RoamingIRaccoon what about therapy
@@ky_jellybean if you need it you need it
@@ky_jellybean kek dubayoo, I'm perfectly sane, I need not therapy to impress those woman things.
I only need crunchy muskulls and the sex will gravitate towards me.
Especially with the overly fragile ego and rage will the female things coming to me.
I would prioritize therapy and all the progress that could happen from that, rather than go for physical needs (I think it's just my preference). Physical & mental health are attractive after all.
If you want to cheat you can learn the mental shortcuts that brains take to determine if one is "healthy looking".
To his credit, this is the first dating guru I’ve ever seen acknowledge the existence of lesbians😂
Good point. This guy actually respects some women are lesbians and off limits. Baby steps.
Yeah, it's sad to see how many of them think of lesbians as "experimenting" or doing it for for "attention"
If someone tells me they are Lesbian, then they are Lesbian.
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@gary grep I agree with you, since the alternative is that she already has a boyfriend.
An obvious note: If she's saying stuff like "yeah, maybe, haha" she isn't into you, she's just trying to make the conversation end so you stop creeping on her and she can enjoy her night without fear of you getting aggressive. Ask me how I know.
Ok
May I ask how you know?
@@CoolDudeNumeroUno I would have thought that was obvious... 😉
Absolutely, it's the costumer service fake laugh that they don't pick up on.
Yeah maybe, haha
I actually appreciate when guys are quick and to the point. At the store this guy came up to me and straight up said " you're super pretty and I figured I'd just give it a shot and ask you out on a date." I have a partner so I said sorry I'm in a relationship.
And he responded normally with something like oh sorry! And I was like np and it ended.
Less than a minute of time and no awkwardness. It was extremely plesent and I was flattered. That's how it's done.
You just need confidence and not get weird when it doesn't go your way.
I’ll never get tired of Charlie’s straight faced sarcastic dry humor, it legit kills me every time.
"dry humor" implies the existence of wet humor
Moist humor
@@eviljellyspook9548 water you talking about ?
@@retro4962 Silly that the moist man has the dry humor
@@eviljellyspook9548bro thinks he’s a philosopher 💀
It happened one time at my job where a random customer was trying to ask me out for dinner, and when I told him no, he assumed that I was a lesbian and asked if I had a girlfriend. I'm not, but that just confirmed to me why I shouldn't go out with him. The dude seemed so self-absorbed that he assumed that me specifically turning him down must've meant I was gay lol. He wasn't bad looking either, I just genuinely wasn't interested. Not everyone is constantly looking for a relationship or whatever and is fine with being single at the moment.
Not many people could believe in this... Especially not giant ego males who need an object to fill their needs...
Sorry to spread my pessimism, I'm just very sexist towards males lol.
@@hunterlg13 It's true, there's so many bad guys out there and I've ran into my fair share of them, but I hope that one day we can all move away from sexism. Hate is still not the answer, it only makes more hate. I'm just pointing out something that I can relate to what Charlie was showing in the video. Hopefully it helps others see the way they shouldn't act.
“a *normal* guy with a *normal* approach” screams “I AM NORMAL AND CAN BE TRUSTED WITH A WEAPON”
"Please let me join the US Air Force. I can totally be trusted around military aircraft"
So basically dan bilzerian?
"TRUST ME, I AM YOUR FRIEND!" -Rick Shades
@@sage6708 i am very trustworthy and i should be trusted around nuclear weapons and javelins
I am normal and can be trusted on school grounds
I had a friend who would hang around outside the ladies toilet in a bar and ask them when they came out “Have you had a nice poo?”, strangely enough this never worked out well for him and he never quite understood that hanging around outside a ladies toilet is just creepy af. He’s still single.
…did you ever tell him off?
How
Hey, it must have worked once.
Alright, but to be fair, the one girl that does work on is a keeper.
you must be lying no way hes single my go to pick up line is did the poo feel nice? and im a international playboy
To be fair, he did actually say "If she says she already has a boyfriend, just move on. It's not going to happen."
Yeah, it's good to hear since I suspect it might not be obvious to everyone who buy into this sort of thing.
Yeah, because Avery is a good dating coach. He actually recognises that women have their own struggles with dating. Charlie is being a bit of a dick in this video.
I mean What will you do If a Woman Told You that?
wouldn't you just move On?
yeah women never ever ever cheat, we all know this
so lets not tell your friends about our date
@@undercovertakodachi4301 that is the obvious step to take. Hell that is the ONLY healthy step to take in this situation.
Sadly most guys who buy into this shit usually are taught to "never take NO for an answer" so they'll keep persisting, or just straight up ignore the telltale signs of not being interested, because for all their ultra-knowledge on body language and eye contact, the gurus propably forgot to tell them the obvious fucking sign like that.
"Smart. Trustworthy. Attractive" and 100% legitimate convo screenshots from the guy who just admitted to paying for a bot boost on all of his dating app profiles and having photoshopped pictures. With pick up lines like his, I'm hoping his book comes with a free fedora with proof of purchase if they attend his meet ups.
I'll buy the fucking fedora for sure. Screw the rest of the offer, just gimme the tacky hat.
Bot boost or Tinder Boost?
To be far, he said he “bought boosts” not “bot boost”, confusing because they were talking about “bots” like five seconds earlier in the video
You can't blame the guy for that though. The apps themselves literally won't give you any result unless you pay and have a perfectly curated profile (as a man).
I still blame him for choosing to use those apps, the more people use them, the shittiest the dating scene becomes.
M'lady
The more dating gurus or any online guru loses the more humanity as a whole wins
@MSMEG IX Shut up
@msmeggacha7701 the funny thing is techno would probably find it funny that people are trying to use his death for money
That's true, unless they're an actual guru in the original sense of the word, but in most cases online, it's mostly just these crappy dating gurus and "make $20,000,000,000 a second by doing nothing" losers. They're so annoying.
@Don't Read My Profile Picture there is a bomb in your mailbox
@MSMEG IX What the fuck man?
I'm on the spectrum and even I have always noticed how **profoundly uncomfortable** the women are in these kinds of videos. They're acting kind and smiling because they're unsure if they're about to be assaulted and are doing their best to de-escalate the situation by seeming both kind and busy. Unless these men are more autistic than me, they know exactly the situation they're putting these women in.
Just go to parties, meet people, treat women like you would your male friends. It's not hard! Even I can do it!
I think with these kind of people it's due to being isolated and lacking social experience. They struggle talking to anyone and making friends let alone partners. I knew a guy who was raised by a sexist mom, went to an all boys school and never socialised until he got to uni.
And he started spewing everything Andrew Tate said. And then he wondered why no one likes him, especially girls.
mood
Craft a Supreme playlist for the people you care for
Even when I was a socially stunted teenager (got a lot better now as an adult) I always understood these kinds of things. These guys are so pathetic honestly..
I appreciate this. I tend to make up excuses for weird dudes like this “maybe he has a disability or lacks social skills” nope usually it’s entitlement and lack of empathy.
I love the pricing on the bonus options. Dude's really putting that psych degree to use by including 7 in every number.
Dating gurus are hilarious bc they're never actually happily married or anything and they're rarely even generally likeable
They mostly just dumb down women to a generic stereotype and try to score as fast as possible. From what I've seen it seems mostly about getting quick sex, not about how to find someone you're compatible with
@@ddduuunnngggObviously this isn’t about finding compatible partners. Most men don’t want a relationship-they want easy sex. Men are hardwired for that; it’s women that usually want to settle down. Men don’t have to deal with pregnancy, so they lose nothing by “pumping and dumping”, whereas women often get stuck with the result. It’s only natural for women to want the guy to stick around once that happens, and it’s only natural for men to prefer spreading their seed rather than stay in one spot.
@Emma what a sad, sad way to look at people. Not to mention outdated and stereotypical. There are lots of women who want non committed, casual sex and there’s plenty of men who want to settle down in a monogamous committed relationship with one person. Men are not “hardwired” for casual sex, nor can you say they all want to “spread their seed”. While yes the woman often ends up being “stuck” with the “result” of having sex that doesn’t mean she “wants” the man to stick around for any other reason than taking up his share of the responsibility. It takes two to create that result, both should be held accountable.
Nobody is happily married
Are u describing ur moisty life?
If you have alot of experience dating, that also means you have no experience in a committed relationship. The goal is to spend as little time as possible in the "dating" zone.
well depends on semantics. Some would disagree with your definition of dating. Being in a relationship can be considered ongoing dating. As for meeting people, it's not necessarily a bad thing. Especially if you are looking for something specific and not just any old somebody.
not my goal. lol
Yeah but what if I want 5 girlfriends at once?
@@personmcdudeguy you have 0 game I’d change that quick before you die alone and a guy who has to pay for sex
@@gvd72 Solution: Go to Afganistan
People who give dating advices while not having a stable one themselves are just cringe. 💀
Edit: Didn't mean to start a war in the comments. What I meant was that if you can't FOLLOW your own dating advice on for example "how keep a man" then why you giving other people advice on it. I also understand that a lot people who are single have great dating advice.
I mean, they know how to date, not how to stablish a long term relationship /s
Thats a dumb comment
@@sigmamale4147 no it isn’t lmao
@@sigmamale4147 ur name is sigma male no one takes u srs
im horny.. who wants to date me send me a pm over youtube a/s/l , hot girls only
I actually met my gf through Facebook dating, and she’s the most amazing thing to ever happen to me. I plan on proposing later this year when our finances are in better order
Aw, how sweet im happy for both of you! Hope she says yes.
Congrats!
Damn you love to hear it. Congrats man
Aww, that’s really sweet. I met my boyfriend on Facebook dating as well, and it’s going really well. Hope she says yes 🎉
hope she says yes! :)
I got dumped by a cheater last month and I don’t regret that relationship because that sack of bastard showed me your channel and I’m so glad to be here
Upgrades 👍
Go girl go 🏃♀️
ayy lmao, let's go 😂
@MSMEG IX I like how your being ignored
You’ve been moist-pilled
They all treat like getting a girl is like a god tier difficulty mission 💀💀.
i think a lot of guys have warped their priorities so badly that they psyop themselves into a fake choice - either be a lonely loser piece of shit or a cool successful awesome guy who has a gf
to the point they view getting a girlfriend as the one thing that will make their life worthwhile
General Payton: Alright listen up. Lieutenant Salvo we heard you were single, in need of bed warming. Nights been mighty cold for that alpha body of yours.
{Other soldiers laugh}
Salvo: Yes sir.
General: Well Lieitenant Salvo, Today's the day you get what you deserve. At 2000 the mission begins. Simple, tactical and deadly. The first lady who isn't dressed like a nun is your target. Nuns are the bad eggs in the omelet. We don't need such distractions. Next you follow her for a while, pick up the speed if she isn't near you and when you are close you give her the payload. The key is C-O-M-P-L-I-M-E-N-T-S. The boys back at Washington have run the numbers. Said it's the closest way to getting your cold bed warm. Don't disappoint me Salvo.
Salvo: Yes sir.
General: Alright move out.
@@bruhman5829 yeah because they view women as something to acquire (trophy if you will lol) and not just another person like them self
@@bruhman5829 I agree with this sentiment, but would like to further add that this seems to be a result of the effect of an extremely interconnected - yet very socially distant (and I mean even before COVID) 21st Century society.
Think about it, we live in a world where the internet has granted us the ability to remain connected with various social circles literally twenty four hours a day, a type of communication network that has never before been seen through human history.
Yet at the same time, loneliness coalescing with depression (for both men and women, because as much as people like to think it's only men that go through this, it's not, even if it may be to a lesser extent) has never been more of a problem throughout our history.
To pretend that there is no connection between these two things is to be willfully blind. What I feel we need to be doing is looking for a way to bridge the gap somehow. I won't deny that this issue is primarily a Millennials and Zoomers issue, but it remains an issue our generations need to deal with all the same. Interconnectability has come great lengths, but meaningful human interaction has more or less fallen by the wayside.
@@brontebell7748 Not all of them are like this. Just like there are men who do actually generalize women, this statement is also a generalization of the very same sort.
Okay so maybe there are some people out there that would be flattered by a stranger telling them they're the most beautiful person they've ever seen (or something similar), but personally, that's coming on WAY too strong.
Not to mention it is most likely a lie... your average person is never going to be the most beautiful person you've ever seen. It takes getting to know someone and finding things about their personality that you find attractive to put them at the top of the scale.
@@allenbocephus idk why you just went with "its most likely a lie"
@@allenbocephus mate beauty is subjective. For someone that person could truly be the most beautiful he/she ever encountered in their life.
I've been told that a few times in my life. It's really sweet and not scary at all as long as it's genuine
@@avatorres5371 nah that shits weird and corny lol
You know damn well this guy is absolutely infuriating to be friends with. He’s the type to try & school a married man on why his marriage is suffering, even though he’s single.
I second a lot of what Charlie says. Be normal around people, crack safe jokes that you actually find funny, and share your passion for your favorite things in life and plenty of people (male, female, or any other gender) will enjoy being around you. That's how you get dates. By being chill and fun to be around.
@Penguinz_05_ :o
Personally, i would say to be socially appropriate for the occasion and not be a creep, that will get you laid faster than the BS these pick up artists are peddling.
That's good advice. I would also add that being honest about your feelings when you find someone really lovely is often a good course of action.
Can confirm, this is how I fell in love with my husband. He just acted like a normal person, and treated me as another human being worthy of respect. He never made any romantic moves towards me until it was clear we were both ready to move in that direction. Being geniune and just treating other people as your equal is WAY more effective than whatever BS pickup artists try to sell to desperate men.
@@MrKuemmelbrot Enbi people exist though.
I've found that not treating women like prey is a pretty good way to go 👍👍
Truly this is a *NO MAIDENS* moment.
@MSMEG IX
silence yourself now
obnoxious automaton;
you are maidenless!
IF A GIRL SAYS “MAYBE” when you’re in her face while she was minding her business in public cause you popped out from behind her….SHE IS NERVOUS AND ANXIOUS and just said that to not hurt your feelings or to get away from you safely.
JFC how he didn’t pick up on her body language and nervous inflection immediately when he has a “psychology” degree is insane.
Or she just might mean "maybe" lol. Like a "do you feel like watching this movie that has 6/10 stars?" maybe. Unless you're speaking with experience, in which case you're shitting on a guy who does the same thing as you. I know Im in trollsville rn but jeez can you at least try not being so cringe with your terrible logic?
@@arjunholmie They love to say 'no' means 'no', but as soon its some other word, the logic disappears. The level of bs is insane.
@@simonhakon3447 i was taught no means no, as well as yes means yes. There is no 'grey area' to consent. If you don't get clear, explicit consent, park your brakes
@@20dabarr58 then go report his dating guru to police then, quick quick. What are you waiting for 🤡🤡🤡? Go buy a ticket plane to LA, he lives there. Go there and report him. See how that goes for you. I am sure police will arrest him and I am sure you won't embarrass yourself 🤡🤡🤡
@@20dabarr58 taught by who? Women? Lmao buddy
I wonder if dating gurus ever date each other, or that they would cancel each other out.
Real recognize real
Ey.
Since my company seems to have attracted a lot of "businesses" with this sales tactic, I can tell you most of them are just one or two people taking out a loan, hiring someone to "write" a book on their behalf (where most of the book will actually have a mishmash of psychology, philosophy and the "authors" life story sprinkled around in a loosely connected fashion) and set up a website where they peddle that stuff. It's the same for pickup artists, sex gurus, self-help gurus, "specialized" psychology experts, etc. Most of them just try it out for a couple of years and try to bank on the charisma, but usually have no idea on how to run a business, so they just waste the money and end up with returning to daily jobs while paying out that bank loan, and keeping the lights on at a minimal level on what then becomes a very stagnant side hustle.
that explains a lot. no wonder this stuff is so vapid and poorly thought through
Unfortunately this pathetic dating guru crap is nowehere near as lucrative as onlyfans. Anyway, male losers are a perpetual cash cow for ethots. Sleezy pick up artists try to get in on the act but can't hope to compete
This is why I don't buy into anything labeled as "self-help."
One of my numerous reminders that the internet is killing us slowly
@MSMEG IX there’s the next reminder
Here's some dating advice: be clean lmao. I knew someone who had bad oral hygiene. Our group at the time had to push him into brushing his teeth. He also had to be convinced to have a basic skincare routine to have healthier skin. Acne isn't bad but intentionally picking your skin won't help.
Apparently more than half of people i know have terrible breath.
If something is there to be picked at, I'm picking at it until it is no longer pick atable
I knew a dude who never brushed his teeth and they apparently had 'crust' on them
He still got laid
"Just be clean bro"
@@painunending4610 prolly no strings attached laid. Hygiene is incredibly important, it displays basic self care and discipline
I love how he is constantly reminding us about the semental he is, and how he could steal physically and metaphorically, any women’s heart.
That totally doesn’t scream “insecure”.
Now that you mentioned, he kinda looks like Jesse Pinkman.
Only I know how to steal hearts. I have a collection in my basement 😃
@msmeggacha7701 there is something far worse than being a bot on TH-cam and that's replying with a bot comment and not even being counted as a reply. That's honestly hilarious.
It doesn't scream insecure.
It screams narcissist
Bih said semental
as a woman, every time i see one of these guys describe how to get a date, i’m either horrified, confused, or both. usually both.
Then they also start off their sentences with "most guys don't realize blah blah..." making people think they're getting ahead of the league or something.
Not sure if any of it is *supposed* to work on guys as well but it sure wouldn't, I'd pretend to be straight in response most likely
@@Brass319 they're so focused on traditional gender roles, I think you're safe, at least in that regard 😂
Based. They and their approach are very disliked by actual girls. Like. I don't know what kind of mental gymnastics bois need to use to think that this kind of behaviour will be accepted and treated as normal. They are cringe and predatory af. They are not treating any woman as an individual. Maybe even if an initial connection will click, it'd be a dead end anyway.
I met one of these during a zoom class, as my student. They were practising how to talk in the past tense with the topic of their teenage years (spanish class). The guy was in a breakout room with me and at least four other women and he goes "I'd tell my younger self that women like bad guys, he could have had so many of them if he had been more aggressive". There was an awkward silence and the others, poor saints, kinda laughed it off and tried to convince him that while some girls do like the bad boy trope, it will all depend on the girl, and you can't be always playing the part. They even mentioned their types (I think in hopes of keeping this as a funny convo) but he just... Wouldn't listen. He even said something like "you say that but evidence proves that what women really want is different". With four women there literally telling him what they wanted. It's extremely confusing.
Don't be yourself, be how the guru tells you to be! That way when the mask eventually slips because its hard to pretend to be something your not for any extended period it will be even more awkward and hilarious 🤣 😂
Ngl but people in the hood act like this way too much which is getting everyone killed because of stupid mindsets like this
But be yourself is just lazy advice. Dr K, NotSoErudite and Destiny, QOVES give much better dating advice.
name 1 time where the dude in this video told you to be something you're not.
in any case, Be yourself is cringe advice.
Be a respectful, considerate version of yourself. If that’s fake to you, you have some inner demons to deal with before trying to date.
But what if being yourself means being too shy to talk to girls? Like you need to go against your natural instincts. Be yourself is an advice for date.
His opening line, "There's something about you that really caught my attention" is the exact same verbage I was taught during a summer job I spent trying to sell god damn windows to home owners going door to door. I imagine the success rate is exactly the same, too.
If I heard that from some rando on the street, my first two assumptions would be that they're either trying to get in my pants, or sell me something.
*knock knock knock* (door opens) Patrick: "I love you" *door slam*
Ahahahhahahaha damn brutal lmaoooo, what was your closing rate, 1-2%
Charlie’s not just ranting, he’s our psychologist.
Now that’s sad
To bad psych has less than 1 percent peer review rate . And isn't classified as a real science .
That implies you need help with dating gurus
Dating gurus are cringe
@Don't Read Profile Photo _DONT TELL MY PARENTS IM THIS MUCH OF A LOSER ONLINE_
Cringe gurus are dating
Don’t read my username
Don't read my- nah I'm just kidding I'm not a bot
Is water wet?
Charlie’s the only Guru I ever need or listen to in my life.
Simp
@MSMEG IX techno been dead for 4 months and you're still botting accounts to spew out your bs and I can't stop laughing because you're wasting your life
That's honestly sad. I honestly feel really sad for yoh
Facebook dating is actually pretty decent. Maybe not in the USA, because it's practically an "old people" app now. But in certain places in the world like in Southeast Asia for example, it's pretty effective because the general population still uses it. Plus it's completely free (except for the data you send Zucc the Lizard Man)
I met my girlfriend through Facebook dating, and we’re happily 6 months in and counting.
Its how my uncle met his current fiance lol.
I love how cologne advise is never a standard tip with Gurus. It really helps with confidence and overall interactions.
No it doesn't. That's most stupid piece of advice I've ever heard.
What helps with (true) confidence is approaching women and getting rejected, ONLY, not some bullshit outside factors (cologne, alcohol, drugs, parties).
Your directness and bluntness helps with overall interactions, nothing else.
Sorry to break it down for you. Please don't give any more advices.
@@T8USD I’m sorry your personal experience with fragrances has been negative. But for most people it is an integral part of who they choose to be/how they present themselves. For those who can efficiently use fragrances to better their interactions it’s a great tool. I’m speaking from my own personal experience but I appreciate your opinion on the subject.
@@ryancurry5376 I am using fragrance myself. Of course it's an integral part of how they chose to present themselves. But it has nothing to do with confidence increase of any sort (referring to your original comment)
I am comparing it to alcohol or literally any outside factor which MAY build up fake confidence.
If you received any additional confidence while wearing cologne, sorry to break it down for you but those are not valid confidence points. Same as if you would be approaching under the influence. It's an outside factor and therefore any confidence you think you might have while having fragrance/under the influence is completely invalid and should not be used as a reference point.
A man earns confidence points by approaching women and being direct and blunt about it and by getting rejected numerous times.
You can wear fragrance, but that shouldn't be a critical component for your confidence. Not even as an add-on to an already existing confidence you may have while approaching women.
That's my two cents about it.
@@T8USD I respect that.
@@ryancurry5376 Thank you very much Sir
I'm a woman, and for some reason the idea of ever actually persuing a guy who initiated contact via approaching me on the street sounds... terrifying? The way I've always known solid relationships to form is usually via mutual friends, or hanging out with a group of people and randomly meeting a friend of a friend, or meeting them in school/college, at a dance class, or other hobby-related place? Because in this circumstances YOU KNOW you have something in common and can get an idea of what the other person is like. When you just approach them on the street you only somewhat-know their appearance, and if that's enough for you to initiate a date then you're probably not looking for something serious right?? Or am I just weird
You're just weird. Before the smart phone era, people met all the damn time in random places like the grocery store, a park, or off the street.
Only nowadays do we consider it "creepy" because we've normalized dating apps while making cold approaches taboo when it used to be the other way around.
Nah I agree with you, idgaf how people used to meet, if I'm out and about minding my business or with my friends I don't want some stranger coming up to me. And I wouldn't want to be with the sort of guy who thinks it's acceptable to go around bothering girls in public either.
@@LeeEverett1 facts, I don’t understand why people think cold approach in itself is so wrong. The idea of it nerve racking? I can understand that but it being immoral is just a coping mechanism for guys who are too afraid to go and actually talk to girls
@@Lickmytoe Then take yourself out of the dating pool. If you're shaming guys by saying that we're "bothering" you by simply saying hello then you've got issues and need therapy for your lack of social skills and how you view the opposite sex.
What are men supposed to do? Women don't approach and most men don't stand a chance on dating apps or even at bars/clubs due to stiff competition in these places, so how is a normal guy supposed to ever date? Because every friend or boyfriend you've ever had was a stranger at one point.
@@thewitchfindergeneral4015 Women are the only ones who think cold approaching is wrong. Majority of men don't stand a chance on dating apps or in the clubs, so they're either left with dating a coworker which is almost always a bad idea, or cold approach which men are now being shamed to do.
I agree it's cope if a guy makes excuses, but to be fair alot of guys are so nervous with approaching due to hostile women trying to embarass or shame them for talking to her.
5:26 = "If I wanted to, I could've gotten alot more than just 5 dates"
Uh Huh.
I’ll tell you the same thing I tell my little brothers and younger men at work-
Everyone is talking about “how to get women” what ever happened to having a crush on a specific woman? It’s like some young men are just trying to appeal to everyone. If you don’t have a woman that you’re actually interested in, why are you trying to date anyway? Shouldn’t you be focusing on something else? Like what good does it do you as a man to just go out blind and then not even know the qualities that you want in a woman?
Once you’re living as your true self and continuously working on yourself you’ll naturally start to find the women that are right for you.
Literally: all it takes to get a date (or just have good relationships with others in general) is to be secure with yourself. Have a solid, healthy self-concept. Healthy boundaries. Take genuine interest in others. That's it y'all.
Dumbest idea I have ever heard. If u are average or below average finding a relationship that benefits you is going to be hell.
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 How do you know this?
@@jeremiahcarraway6419maybe if men were like women they would get dates. men are the most disgusting things on the planet yet think they deserve something so bad. if a woman is ugly like how i am i just try to love myself. dress how i want, do makeup. so many guys say they don’t love themselves and think they are ugly YET DO NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN. and y’all hate women anyway why go after us just for sex. y’all be fake and even kill us for saying no and want to be mad at women for shit men caused
"Yeah, but being myself is hard and doesn't give me instant gratification, therefore I need to obtain answers from these 'authorities' on the subject".
I think one "cheat" that people don't realize is to turn one's personality into their own schtick. That way, it feels like a comedic routine instead of putting forth vulnerabilities of one's own (stinky risk)
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 look around u, so many ugly guys are in long term relationships with beautiful and successful women, it really isnt about looks most of the time
I love how even these seduction masters treat woman like mythical creatures instead of people just like you and me.
@@maynot you cant fool me ive watched enough dating gurus to know theyre ALL mythical creatures!!
“The worst thing she can say is no “
Her: “ew”
Her: "Lol!"
A friend of mine went after this girl and she ran away💀
Advice from a woman: Don't tell her she's beautiful the first time you talk. It's creepy because she's heard it from creeps a million times.
My guide to dating: Confidence. Dress well. Respect yourself and the other person. Be chill, hang out.
That's the base! Like. YEAH!
Its especially uncomfortable for the women when a random dude suddently walks next to her and then he starts complimenting. Im not women expert, but i highly doubt that women like someone following them and puking compliments line theyre doing
How would you start up a conversation though if you don't know anything about her?
I've had two different dudes approach me with that very strategy within the same week, both of them requested a hug after getting rejected😒Like being followed and love bombed isn't annoying and creepy enough. Pick-up artists are the worst.
It's only "creepy" if you don't find him attractive. If a super hot GigaChad told you you looked beautiful you'd probably be blushing
"I can get 5 dates in one night."
And 5 restraining order to go, please. 🤣
"If you are so down bad you are going to Facebook dating, you need to take a hard look in the mirror and start reevaluating some choices." - Wise words from Charlie
Lol already bots on my comments, how funny.
Nope, look at my comment.
Facts though idc if you met ur “current” partner there. Dating sites aint it
Fr like do you think anyone you’re actually hoping to date is even using Facebook dating?
@@Iluvpie6 I dont think so lol
as a dating guru myself i just want to give my 3 tips:
step 1. go on a date
step 2. ?
step 3. profit
what if dating machine broke though
@@thatnekotrapbitch then understandable, have a nice day
2. Collect underpants
I laughed so hard when you mentioned Facebook Dating. I made a profile out of curiosity back in 2020, and now I'm married! Lol
I hate to admit that fb dating actually got me a date over tinder.
Most of finding a date is literally just going out to public events, meeting new people, and being yourself. You are going to eventually find someone you get along a lot with and who you may end up dating. This is especially easy if you go to events or activities related to an interest you have since it makes for a great conversation starter. Then you also already know that the two of you have something in common, and you can both partake in that common interest to get closer and maybe start dating.
Also personally for me, I've found the most success at finding someone to date when I wasn't actively looking.
Edit: Clearly the Tate dickriders can't stand me, because Big Daddy Tate told them that they're only allowed to think with their dicks.
Right says the guy who’s been lonely for how long lol
@@austinbatton4849 I've been single for a few months, but not lonely.
By the way, I actually just met a woman a few days ago exactly how I described in my comment, we vibed really well, and we've got a date planned for this weekend. :)
Yea okay. Being myself got me broke. like your not meeting new people when your on welfare. half the people in these comments are but they are too pathetic to admit it.
Solid advice! All the virgin, losers, and incels in the comments have no fuckin clue lmao.
This is the most basic and truest advice honestly. Just gotta put yourself in the right social situations and find common interests with people. People who refute this advice would rather make excuses than actually try to put in effort and improve.
I remember hearing about a book on scamming being empty. His course might as well be that book.
K-pop better + I’m the ultimate k-pop defender ☝🏻🤓👶🏽
As a woman over 18 i do have to confirm he has kissed every woman because he kissed me my mom my aunt and my grandma 😔
He cant keep getting away with this😔😔
"I'm going to buy a thousand courses for $7 and flip them when their value goes back up." 😂
Once I met a girl through facebook dating and we bonded over how cringe it was :]
I used Facebook dating once and all I saw were fat girls or girls with like 3 kids from 3 different dads.
@@LeeEverett1 Honestly, it sounds like you probably shouldn't be in the dating pool.
@@misscandle you say that as if men are the picky gender when the reality is that 80% of women choose the top 20% of men, and that hypergamy (dating up) is only a woman thing.
@@BULD0SIS Men are picky too.
One little cheat that people do is "Wat's ur type?" which is... being picky.
I won't list all the other problems with coming up with "types" to be attracted to, but meh.
Let me get this straight. His businessplan is people paying him for telling them to go on dating apps and try to get matches?
What always kills me is that some guys are willing to pay for this bs thinking they'll learn anything, instead of listening to women's experiences and perspectives for free
"It's my needs that matter though"
Therefore, listening is useless.
I'm wondering why both partners needs can't be important?
@@hunterlg13 I never said anything about needs?
@@juliee593 Listening is filling another person's needs.
Sorry, lol. My communication is very sub optimal.
@@hunterlg13 I don't think you understood what I meant in my comment. Let me rephrase it:
It's stupid that many men pay for bs "dating advice" from scammers because they want to learn about women, when simply talking to women would teach them all they want to know and much more, and they wouldn't have to pay anything.
@@juliee593 Oh right.
Yeah, I see that. I just brought up something that my brain connected from that that isn't especially important.
The first line I used on the girl I got engaged with was literally ”I’d like you better dead and I’m better off alone.” and she got the reference. Not really the most romantic thing to say, but it’s about individual and their taste and personality.
It always amazes me how these ”guru’s” manage to sell these idiotic courses for sad people like there’s some magic formula to every woman.
Don’t these guys who buys into this shit realize that women are individuals as well?
Answer to the last line: if they did see women as people, they wouldn't be buying guides on how to pick them up.
Their problem is getting that initial connection
@@MedievalSolutions @tomlxyz
Both could be true and are fair points. My assumption would be that they’re either so socially awkward that they don’t know how to initiate the convo/shot their shots and thus trusting on this kinda guys to get pointers how to do so or possibly had just so poor experiences that they seek some tips on what they’re doing wrong. But both of you guys could be 100% correct. I have no idea.
They actually don't! Or at least... gurus are trying to make them think so. You're getting the point. That's why their approach id disliked by women.
@@nick1752 the problem is only men get the smear for this kinda thing like why would you care anyway ? thats what so contradictory about this whole thing its like the try to hyperbolize any cringe interaction to paint them in a bad way
Boy howdy, I sure hope the TH-cam bots appreciate the amount of time Charlie puts into his work.
@Don't Read Profile Photo yes. But, do you anticipate Charlie's work? Tell me bot, I have to know!
@Calvin Lee Vail once again, I have to know about your appreciation of Charlie's content. I'm doing a bot poll and he seems to be popular.
🤣👍👍
@MSMEG IX I redirect you to my bot poll.
4 from 4 in bot replies, well done!
I like how he mentions Facebook dating. In my area there is a group of people using Facebook dating posing as underage decoys to catch pedos. They have made 27 arrests so far in like 7 months.
Ok that's amazing. get them
I loved the days of being an Overage Decoy to be annoying to those.
You can never trust the net.
Goddamn.
Nice, fuck chomos
@@austinbatton4849 ?
Here's the real advice, which overlaps quite a bit with making friends in general. Vibes are everything because they transcend words. In other words, as the old adage says: the best way to not get along with others is by being ill at ease with yourself. So you really need to learn to properly love yourself (because how can you properly love anyone else if you dont even know how to love yourself?). Even if it means creating ways to love yourself: like habitually doing hobbies that you love, pursuing childhood dreams, doing things to make mirrors more kind to you; basically, doing things that keep your spirit alive. Then, when you're finally comfortable in your own skin, everyone will know it. Without words. Be candid. Be kind. Maintain good hygiene and wear clothes that fit you, and aren't shabby. And the key to being a great conversationalist is being a great listener. That is all for now.
I'm sorry but you're wrong here as that is only your subjective view of what an "ideal" male would look.
Frankly for every woman it's quite different that's why if you change how you look or whether you keep your hygiene good or not, whether you wear some fancy-schmancy clothes, that doesn't change the outcome of whether a girl will reject you or be receptive.
It's a numbers game.
If there's 100 women in the room and 7 would exchange numbers with me with the way I dress, look and present myself right now.
That number doesn't go drastically up or down if there is a change to my appearance. You only filter yourself for women which have different standards.
Also, you're most comfortable when you're in your comfort zone.
That's not a way to go on and approach. Approaching women really gets you out of your comfort zone and no just by being comfortable, inside your world without saying anything will get you nowhere. And if by some chance a man manages to find a girl that way, that's pure luck. I would say there's a 0.0001% of that ever happening.
@EscapeT8 Matrix my main point, was that desperation and insecurity and self-negligence are the most unattractive things on the planet. And no, you don't necessarily need to straight cold approach. If you're at a place where people want to meet, women will make themselves available to you if they're actually interested (sorry to say, but women are quite superior socially, and will have already scanned the room and have taken a list, before you realize it, if they're on the prowl). In other words, if they're bold, they'll meet your eye. But stares aren't everything. They might simply move somewhere close by so that you won't have to work too hard to meet them. And if you are talking to them, their eyes will tell you everything you want to know. And, on the surface level, it's not about what you say, but how you say it. And unfortunately, art is simply not a science. And that's all I will say for now.
While I agree on your main point. Desperation, neediness, insecurity is a complete turn off for a woman.
If woman is in a place where she expects an approach ("place where people want to meet"), the approach itself is not impressive to her. Because she is anticipating it already.
I've approached thousands of women, the less a woman was expecting an approach (0% or close to 0%) the more she was impressed with the approach. Which is not the goal but I'm just making a point.
I want to argue a point that cold and bold approach is most definitely a way to go. Reason being not because a woman you approach will necessarily like boldness or directness, that's not relevant and in man's eyes it simply does not matter what you, her, your friend I approach thinks about it. It's because it builds my confidence and nothing else matters. Getting a girl's number, taking her on a date and spending time dating her is just an extra.
Like I said, the way you present yourself directly filters out who you'll pair with.
The reason why directness, cold and blunt approach are a necessity for a man's approach is because it builds undeniable confidence over constant and constant approaching.
I agree it has nothing to do what you initially say as long as you say it confidently and with intention.
Dating Gurus giving dating advice is the blind leading the blind
Just like Charlie trying to give advice when he himself has a butt ugly girlfriend 💀💀 lol yea guys listen up to your neckbeard idol if you want a gf like him
The irony of this is crazy, I just asked a girl out and I have a few days to prepare wish me luck
Wishing you the best!
Good luck!!
Awesome! You can do it!
"Just don't be weird"
I'm actually not weird, however I am unable to pick up signals or make moves, its just not something I can do, I'm not too shy to talk to women or anything, it's just I've never gotten into "dating" aside from one relationship.
Lets just say, I haven't spent valentines with anyone since 2018. So I don't think "just not being weird" is all it takes.
You’re clearly insecure, let that shit go and be a man. Stop doubting yourself so much you overthink it
True, but it's a good starting point. Try going to events that are focused around an interest you have and be social if you can (without only talking to the gender you're attracted to, if youre het)
Don’t listen to anyone in these comments, they’re advice isn’t gonna help you, they’ll just shame you any chance they get for wanting to be better with women
Follow Alex Playing with Fire, his advice has helped me a lot w girls👌
Hey man, sorry to hear that.
It sucks and it sucked for me. Of course "just not being weird" is not the right advice. It's not even an advice.
I've been in the same spot 2.5 years ago. I made my first approach and I was terrified but I kept on going and pushed through my shyness.
As of this moment I'm still approaching ~40-50 women/on a good day, give or take around 15k per year. for two years And I'm not bragging about it in any way shape or form.
I just want you to know that I myself was in the same position.
I know exactly how you feel.
Please don't spend money on approach gurus. They'll get you nowhere and you'll lose money for nothing.
I just published my e-book called The Direct Male and if you don't feel like investing money with me either, that's fine.
What I can give you from this comment is that the only way to overcome your initial shyness is by pushing through it.
When you see a cute girl in the park, store, on the street. Come up to her and introduce yourself. Say that you find her attractive and that's all you need.
Bear in mind you will most likely get rejected and that's not something you should be afraid of. Confidence is built by being rejected, constantly, on and on and on and on.
Out of 30.000ish approaches I made so far, I got rejected 28.000 times let's say. It's nothing to worry about.
If you truly want to get back into approaching women, get in touch with me. I don't charge hundreds of dollars. It's barely a restaurant dinner cost for my e-book.
You'll see the change in short amount of time. Your confidence will skyrocket and I'm not exaggerating.
Happy hunting :)
8:38 If a girl says "Oh, uhm... maybe" like that is fair to think they are not interested, but want to avoid conflict just in case and/or couldn't think of an excuse.
Softening the blow yeah. Can't tell if the dude will take it badly. It sucks because there's a lot of shy women who will genuinely be interested but give off uninterested signals
This comment section is like a collection of terrible takes on cold approaches by people who've never done or witnessed a cold approach in their life.
When women aren't interested, they'll say "Sorry, I have a boyfriend", "Sorry, I have to go somewhere" or "Sorry, I'm not interested". 99% of the time it's the first one, because it's incredibly safe and easy.
If you're doing a very direct cold approach where you state your intent as early as possible, what you're hoping for is some version of "maybe" which is an invitation to keep engaging - attractive women aren't going to jump your bone within 10 seconds of meeting.
If your intent is to say that you're not interested, and to end the interaction, it makes absolutely no sense to give an ambiguous answer which leaves the conversation wide open without even an off-ramp.
Your brain is so scrambled from lapping up Charlie's demonstrably erroneous narrative on this guy that you think is how a conversation goes:
Him: "Can I take you out for coffee?"
Her: "Maybe"
Him: "Ok, bye"
aint no way that man is getting 5 dates this month alone
At least he didn't say to keep going if they say no
I tapped into the pick-up scene many years ago and it helped me meet my current wife. It more or less helped me with my awkward social skills more than approaching women.
I’m so glad we’re back to talking about these guys.
God damn it, no one can have a conversation with a chick without Mark Zuckerberg knowing about it down to extreme details.
K-pop better + I’m the ultimate k-pop defender ☝🏻🤓
why so many bots gawdayum
fb dating is top tier for dating , i confirm
Charlie's dating course if he ever starts one would only have one course and it's free: "How not to be a sleazeball"
Had a friend who loved Facebook dating because it was mostly older women who were happy to be with a younger guy. Genius actually
This guy recommending Facebook Dating is like your doctor recommending healing crystals
8:15 perfect example of a one sided conversation
It's ok to feel lonely and sad but fellas your coping mechanisms💀💀
They say love is a game but damn these guys take it way too literally
They treat sex like pro athletes treat sports! 🤣🤣🤣
When I used tinder and such I got plenty of matches and dates but there was never any chemistry or real interest when we met and that's (at least for me) where the problem is. Just writing to a girl on a tinder "hey, you look interesting let's meet up" is the easiest step but to succeed on that date is the challenge.
If she says she's not into you, shes into you.
Ah yes the floor is made of roof
That sounds a lot like r*pe
NO means yas daddy
If she says she's not into you. She's not into you and you should.move forward and find someone who is.
guys this is sarcasm please
Picking up girls is easy. Just give them some space and say:
Pardon mine own interjection m’lady and I pray these words fall not harshly upon thine ears but I simply must declare your appearance hath captivated my eyes. Tis as though we has’t been connected by the red thread of fate.
These are all the things that will land you the woman of your dreams:
Magic Cards, Trilbys/Fedoras, Neckbeards, Bent glasses, Dragon posters, Alienware, Funko Pops, Renaissance fair, Virginity, No deodorant, Goodwill suit jacket.
9:12 that cut off was fucking amazing 😂😂
3:39 is That " L'Oscurita dell'Ignoto" (Kingdom hearts) that Charlie is hearing?
The only Guru i need his Charlie, i wait for him to have an opinion and i copy my opinions onto him. He is my compass in this mad world.
That's so sad...
0:58 bold of you to assume we have wives
Exactly I have multiple
The worst part is that interaction around 8:25 was like…actually relatively normal? Usually the "gurus" are the bane of my existence but he walked up, complimented, made a brief small talk, and then dismissed himself without overstaying the welcome, she kept self-agency to continue if she wanted to without him being overbearing? Am I absolutely insane for thinking that wasn't awful?
Like the video as a whole was pretty cringe but that specific instance wasn't the worst example I've ever seen
9:05 ☠️ you can FEEL the discomfort in her voice
My main fear is how people could possibly see videos like these and follow them blindly. It’s weird how they don’t notice all the red flags
or you could just... you know be yourself so you meet someone compatible for you rather than acting like someone else to get a bunch of dates you won't like.
I love how Charlie exposes the worst and best stuff. Like, seriously. I think, instead of dating apps, how about just throwing your coffee on somebody and say sorry. Story of my life, dude.
"Hey, the top 3rd of your face looks really good." works never.
you know you should stay far away from someone if they call themself a “master of seduction”.
K-pop better + I’m the ultimate k-pop defender ☝🏻🤓
@Don't Read Profile Photo yay i got bots in my replies!
Charlie: Sits and talking on mic for 10-15 minutes
Bots: “Can we appreciate how much effort he puts into his videos?”
so says the bot
@@j-money8548 what if your the bot....
Maybe the real bots were the friends we made along the way.
@@kingsweus427 well what if you’re actually the bot
"Just don't be weird" charlie must be speaking from experience
Even being a porn addict is better than a pickup artist.
@msmeggacha7701 tf
True porn addicts keep to themselves they understand there place gurus claim to be something special
As a recovering porn addict suffering from extreme loneliness and a desire for a relationship, this is indeed correct.
Eh, how about they are both bad.
Pearch
In a logical standpoint, who would listen to someone who hasn’t found their love of their life, I’d much rather hear advice from someone in a 12 year relationship than someone spitting game on dating apps
These guys don't know the difference between love and lust
@@RobKaiser_SQuest I think most people in general don't know the difference... The "modernness" of relationships has infected the integrity and longevity of them to the point that divorces are probably more common than marriages somehow lol.
@@RobKaiser_SQuestYup! Plenty of people in the world these days equate love and sex as one and the same! 🤣🤣🤣
6:55 even that is not true, I've met girls that actually like me when i'm at my most weirdest...