How to Remove Negative Thoughts? Sadhguru Jagadish Vasudev Answers

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  • @sadhguru
    @sadhguru  ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
    How to Remove Negative Thoughts? Sadhguru Jagadish Vasudev Answers
    Full episode link :
    podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000604026877

    • @larbielaouni4092
      @larbielaouni4092 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amazing participation love it 🌷🌺

    • @paulareger9195
      @paulareger9195 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am giving up!

  • @lifeinspiredacademy5095
    @lifeinspiredacademy5095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16067

    "I pray that whoever reads this and is going through a difficult time, don't give up, good things are coming for you, you will achieve your dreams in this lifetime"

    • @propig4989
      @propig4989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      many people might think that you are doing this for likes but yeah i am actually going through a bad time and reading this do helps....

    • @subtheman2136
      @subtheman2136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      IM TIRED OF THIS! Just go tell your parents all your bad thoughts. If that doesn't work, keep doing it. If it still doesn't work get therapy (if the situation is severe register for therapy first-DO NOT WAIT). Therapy is always the final option. Just go bother your therapist and everyone about your bad thoughts if there is a very rare chance (I think 1 percent) that you might still have bad thoughts after all the help and it's still serious. Eventually it would go away with pressure then.

    • @Rose-rl9kq
      @Rose-rl9kq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@subtheman2136 Thank you, I needed this confirmation to ask my parents. I had enough waiting with the bad thoughts to go away, but now is the time to take action to stop it.

    • @kebabremover6024
      @kebabremover6024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you

    • @sen.9297
      @sen.9297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      amen

  • @Galaexius
    @Galaexius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5381

    When you’re really ready to listen to the universe, you find this guy.

    • @Galaexius
      @Galaexius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @TheRed FOX lmao. Yeah

    • @AbhishekKumar-kj7ry
      @AbhishekKumar-kj7ry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @TheRed FOX really you are true hater bro you hate him or love him but you can't ignore him

    • @jdjewellpa
      @jdjewellpa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Truth!

    • @codysanders7449
      @codysanders7449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The universe? Check again

    • @elianeg1973
      @elianeg1973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You’re so right

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1609

    “Remove expectations from people and you will remove their powers to hurt your feelings. If you don’t like something, just take it away, it’s only power is your attention.”🙏🏽

  • @vedangsawant1361
    @vedangsawant1361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    One thing I have learned being am overthinker is... Don't fight the thought ....let it flow... And it will stop

    • @TherapyToThePoint
      @TherapyToThePoint 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes, many times acceptance of the thought gives it less power.

    • @Arabiscuits1
      @Arabiscuits1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Spot on! I kept arguing about a certain case. And then it just went away! What a joke

    • @hellcatfrosty
      @hellcatfrosty ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll try.

    • @bryanfurious6100
      @bryanfurious6100 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      How do you even do tht ? am soo lost I have negative thoughts and me questioning my thoughts, I now literally question everything like literally everything am soo drained and scared

    • @user-zo5jb7xm6z
      @user-zo5jb7xm6z ปีที่แล้ว

      So thankful to this comment

  • @mastermeditation4890
    @mastermeditation4890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1643

    I wasn’t planning on writing this but reading some of the comments made we want to do this. I am letting the universe take all the negative energy around me and replace it with positive energy. If you are reading this I wish the same for you

  • @SilentChirps
    @SilentChirps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3719

    "We are alive! That's the most important thing right now." - Sadhguru

    • @rjs6663
      @rjs6663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Agreed 👍🙏

    • @eh1911
      @eh1911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My husband always reminds me when I’m not right.❤️

    • @asambeeyoutubers2804
      @asambeeyoutubers2804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This always gives me peace

    • @vijaybhatt1708
      @vijaybhatt1708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's from india

    • @boi7644
      @boi7644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vijaybhatt1708 ok and? Lol

  • @silencethemind3572
    @silencethemind3572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3097

    Thoughts are just visitors, watch them come but don't make them stay. You are simply the observer of these thoughts never identify with them.

    • @nuclergaming9969
      @nuclergaming9969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      How to not let them stay??

    • @Bouz1iane
      @Bouz1iane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sir thank you so much for this !

    • @Bouz1iane
      @Bouz1iane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@nuclergaming9969 just observation don’t identify with them ;)

    • @Badz_B34chst4r
      @Badz_B34chst4r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@nuclergaming9969 Trying to send your visitors away IS making them stay. Conversing with them, arguing with them, resisting them, querying or questioning why they came are all making their stay longer. You hear Sadhguru suggesting meditation (Isha Kriya) as an option to experience that "you, the aliveness" and "your thoughts and emotions" are not the same; some people come to that realization through some other way and some people express that same awareness using other words.

    • @s.smilla63
      @s.smilla63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nuclergaming9969 you clearly didn’t get the memo of this video

  • @PhilosophyWithLilly
    @PhilosophyWithLilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    "There is no subtraction and division in the mind, only addition and multiplication." Genius.

    • @CreeperKiller420
      @CreeperKiller420 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is what stuck out the most to me too. It sounds like something everyone must hear. The key to controlling your life!

  • @PSingh-do8vc
    @PSingh-do8vc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2687

    Let the negative thoughts come & go, don't add your emotions & energy to it & it will be cleaned by itself.

    • @psychictruth5037
      @psychictruth5037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      💯👏👏👏

    • @utkarshbhadouria4230
      @utkarshbhadouria4230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🙏

    • @aditya007242
      @aditya007242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True

    • @parvathipal2920
      @parvathipal2920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Some things are easy said than done

    • @Bkpmys
      @Bkpmys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      The information you collect leads to thinking which leads to emotions and feelings which eventually make you act. So thoughts become true most of the time. Thoughts doesn't come and go, it's just us who might be consciously or unconsciously think. The emotions are by product of thoughts. So think what makes you happy if at all you have to think

  • @IremQueen3211
    @IremQueen3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    This guy is my grandfather that I never had.
    I took all his advices to the next level of my life.
    His words are like an oxygen for every individual.
    Makes us calm and keep going.

    • @huntergaming2256
      @huntergaming2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can I get ur IG

    • @naresh2604
      @naresh2604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excuse me

    • @SydMountaineer
      @SydMountaineer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, he teaches what our family should've been able to teach us, but they weren't taught themselves, so it's not their fault, it just is that way. So, people like Sadhguru are much needed, especially due to how our society is these days, we've lost what ancient civilizations used to make a normal, everyday part of their lives.

    • @issavibez394
      @issavibez394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SydMountaineer yes he has a pure purpose he found many years ago

  • @Tungkinhphatphap_
    @Tungkinhphatphap_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Everytime i have a bad day i listen to this and read the comments. It is so amazing how I see strangers trying to heal others through the comments section. You guys literally made my day. I hope everyone is having an amazing day💕 Remember guys, there is nothing that you can do to change your past, all we can do is to forgive ourselves and be better.

  • @runjunhazarika9237
    @runjunhazarika9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    " Don't try to remove the negative thoughts ,don't go in this direction because thn it'll become your nature and you'll always act on it ."....this is something which hit me so hard that i replayed this part again. I've been experiencing the same thing ..sometimes my thoughts make me so confused that i even forget who i actually am , what type of a person i am ?..i always find myself stuck in this loop of thoughts and it becomes so hard to get rid of them
    - a teenager

    • @santoshkumardas4467
      @santoshkumardas4467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Beautiful

    • @justchill3723
      @justchill3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have experienced the exact same thing and became a victim to my negative thoughts

    • @HI-pi1er
      @HI-pi1er ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zoloft

    • @hanaagovic-cc7wq
      @hanaagovic-cc7wq ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same! You aren't alone and especially in this society everything has a certain name for what helped me is really just saying "I am" and literally no words after but still I am dealing with myself a lot but when everyone tells you being a teenager is very beautifull, the best time of your life. Yes, It is for the opportunities that you have but for the things that's going in your mind It really isn't but that's just what means growing up and you will get experience from it, get stronger. You will be dealing with yourself your whole life so start now, start knowing yourself and just get through things and as you will get through it, you will get stronger. We teenagers are very pressured (not only from school) we just want to be kids again but trust me you aren't alone. Wish you the best!

    • @turinawejeremiah3182
      @turinawejeremiah3182 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @prokurbah
    @prokurbah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1218

    I Woke Up. I Have Clothes To Wear. I Have Running Water. I Have Food To Eat. LIFE IS GOOD.

    • @karthikeyanps2372
      @karthikeyanps2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That's my boy

    • @liaaye3126
      @liaaye3126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen Amen Amen

    • @JJ-gm2qm
      @JJ-gm2qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think the idea is that even if you didnt you could still be happy or blissful.

    • @m.g5796
      @m.g5796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏

    • @jaylamariah1042
      @jaylamariah1042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God is good

  • @joey_bruno
    @joey_bruno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1685

    I will listen to this daily! Anxiety hits me hard lately.

    • @sachin1399
      @sachin1399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Breathing exercises and meditation brother , practice wonderful breathing exercises calmly.

    • @RaphelAnime
      @RaphelAnime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sachin1399 thank you

    • @RaphelAnime
      @RaphelAnime 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Snöw Shëën what is that?

    • @floralics
      @floralics 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      bless youuu

    • @altay6274
      @altay6274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Everything is gonna be okay just work on yourself

  • @thedottedpresent
    @thedottedpresent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1511

    Whoever is reading this, negative thoughts are an illusion, let them float into the air and let them disappear and let them transform into the beautiful thoughts you appreciate. Har Har Mahadev! ❤🔱

    • @RaphelAnime
      @RaphelAnime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nobodyandirine
      @nobodyandirine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So ur saying negative thoughts are just thoughts nothing more, plz respond

    • @barrybergisch1
      @barrybergisch1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      how do you do that?

    • @thedottedpresent
      @thedottedpresent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@barrybergisch1 You cannot bind your emotions with negative words. You are a positive person but if you are willing to focus on negative than positive, then that is on you. Focus on the positive instead of the negative, because there are so many positive thoughts that can uplift you. You know the truth, and if the truth hurts, accept it and change that pain into what you desire and what you love. But no matter how negative the ocean is, your ship won't sink, because you didn't let the water in. But also remember, that by forcing yourself to be happy. you will end up mire in despair. Hope I was able to answer your question.

    • @barrybergisch1
      @barrybergisch1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thedottedpresent thank you very much.
      that is very difficult for me because i have a lot of angry feelings. very emocional, proud and easily hurt.
      breathing exercises tend to help me.

  • @RahulRoy-wl2id
    @RahulRoy-wl2id 2 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    You don't have to control your thoughts you just have to stop letting them control you❤️🙏

    • @nylakhan5658
      @nylakhan5658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How do you stop intrusive thoughts

    • @HoneyDropsForever
      @HoneyDropsForever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@nylakhan5658 You don't. Just kind of allow them but look at them like cats running around. They are cats and will do what they do. If you try to stop them they will scratch you. Let them do their thing and the cats eventually settle down or go to sleep. The more you try to stop them the more they pounce. Eventually, they will just kinda be background noise that you occasionally notice. It can be hard to do but rewarding with practice. I have CPTSD and this really works for me.

    • @nylakhan5658
      @nylakhan5658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@HoneyDropsForever thank you very much for your comment I like to change my inner dialogue reprogram my mind show gratitude try my best to think positive.
      Have you had any help and support Wishing you all the love and support you need to feel better soon have faith in God he will heal your pain.

    • @Rose-ol2jc
      @Rose-ol2jc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome thanks to reminding!!! ❤️ u

    • @xyzxyz10xyz76
      @xyzxyz10xyz76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really it is very helpful

  • @OracleKristina
    @OracleKristina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    I am alive. I close my eyes and remind myself that I am alive. I strive to live joyously. Joy creates distance from negativity. I am joy.

    • @preciousphiri563
      @preciousphiri563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Am watching you from Africa Zambia I love you teaching

    • @preciousphiri563
      @preciousphiri563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Am Rachael chama watching from Africa Zambia

  • @aashisubodhtiwari1620
    @aashisubodhtiwari1620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    "your thoughts and imagination are your making, if you don't create them they do not exist" SADHGURU

    • @YaTut169
      @YaTut169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
      Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are unconditional love. Love love

    • @customarynakhas4114
      @customarynakhas4114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true...i love this

    • @shankarchougala6445
      @shankarchougala6445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can't create/make ur/ any thoughts, u just gathered all those which r already present.

    • @shankarchougala6445
      @shankarchougala6445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Elitist A**hole this is not about recycling thoughts and imagination this is about how to get rid out of them.

    • @shankarchougala6445
      @shankarchougala6445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Elitist A**hole if u want to get rid out of them just avoid those which are disturbing u. This is what Sadguru is saying.

  • @sarahhogue7932
    @sarahhogue7932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    I remove negative thoughts by listening to Sadhguru 💚

    • @bikashsahoo4896
      @bikashsahoo4896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same but it does not remove it just stop popping for sometime

    • @vishalraghavan3217
      @vishalraghavan3217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As he told it's diversion. Just like a painkiller. So that's why it good to focus on your breath.

    • @as_if
      @as_if 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Misses the whole point of the video 😂 like he said, doing ramram, shivashiva u can temporarily stop the thoughts; u are just doing Sadhgurusadhguru that's all.

    • @subhampal8915
      @subhampal8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you didnt got what he said

    • @parvathipal2920
      @parvathipal2920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pray

  • @minghui5199
    @minghui5199 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I'm really struggling with negative thoughts right now. Thank you for your help.

  • @ScarySnippet
    @ScarySnippet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I cry watching him cause wow. I’m going through so much. Everything he said in the beginning about positive & negative thoughts is so true. He’s right! Thank you. 🙏 I wish one day to meet this man. ❤️

  • @armonia339
    @armonia339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    I don’t know if this comment will ever reach you but I just want to express my gratitude , listening to you has helped me so much and even brought tears of joy , I am sending you a big virtual hug . Thank you for your presence in our lives .

    • @ChetanAdventureDairies
      @ChetanAdventureDairies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊

    • @sayadeifiori4300
      @sayadeifiori4300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay strong 💪you will make it🌸🌸🌸 wish you all the best and congratulations for your fullfilled life🌸🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @alagahinorondez8525
      @alagahinorondez8525 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely terrific given us all wisdom that believes in will be ❤we all need this now miss mama's besti for her love light 🎤🎺🎷so impt.i def. Embrace

  • @ammieehiggins6767
    @ammieehiggins6767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I been struggling lately with intrusive thoughts and stuff really getting me down judging myself as a person as Iv not always had them only the past 6-7 months watching this made me realise and all psychiatrists should recommend this man

    • @praneshchhajed
      @praneshchhajed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How are you now? Are your intrusive thoughts gone?

    • @ntombiyakhemasoeu6146
      @ntombiyakhemasoeu6146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@praneshchhajed i also had intrusive thoughts, but they no longer as intense as before

    • @humbleisme2381
      @humbleisme2381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.. 😞

  • @chillingmusic7613
    @chillingmusic7613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The best lesson I learned from meditating is treating and imagining your mind as a road, and the thoughts are just a traffic crossing your mind, they keep moving. You and only you decide to stop a specific car and focus on it without letting it flow and continue it’s road.
    “I am not the body, I am neither the mind”.
    Have a nice day!

    • @jackwilliamson2640
      @jackwilliamson2640 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve never thought of it like that. That makes so much sense. Thankyou

  • @nijntje3601
    @nijntje3601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    My thoughts is not who I am. I am my soul. And my soul speaks when my mind is empty.

    • @Indrayavam
      @Indrayavam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mind cant be empty because its not a container. It reflects what it is facing. When you turn mind to Self / Soul it reflects the soul.🙏

    • @chaitanyareddymuthyala2967
      @chaitanyareddymuthyala2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Indrayavam , yes mind is like a river , we can't stop the flow of thoughts , but by regular meditation we can gain control over this river

    • @nijntje3601
      @nijntje3601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chaitanyareddymuthyala2967 empty of poison

    • @loremipsum980
      @loremipsum980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, the Soul might peak into the Mind for a few moments and observe its thoughts and ideas, but the Soul is NEVER and can NEVER be the Mind, for they are two separate facets. Problems and sufferings arise when we allow our Soul to identify as the Mind and become attached to its thoughts, knowledge, and intellect, so when those mental elements are disturbed, we also are disturbed. Only when we can distance them from each other and view life from an objective point of view do our anxieties and worries go away, and do we find inner peace.

    • @ixdebojeetroy7094
      @ixdebojeetroy7094 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But my mind is Thinking Negative Thoughts and Bad Things -_-

  • @anubisiii4384
    @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    “Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.”

    • @1963pipo
      @1963pipo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Be careful of what you wish……..you might get it !

    • @gogreen3895
      @gogreen3895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I remember wishing I had this or that and then realizing later that I was glad I didn't get it.

    • @thabreaka
      @thabreaka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've gotten those things then realized I never needed them until the exact moment that they came into my life. So instead of focusing on what I didn't have I just found creative ways to achieve my goals without worrying about it being "perfect".

    • @yung_takeoff
      @yung_takeoff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dont understand

  • @sukhmankaurkhaira
    @sukhmankaurkhaira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    the way he adds humor to such things that's the reason why people love listening to his teachings.

    • @human6729
      @human6729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is wise enough to know that people without a bit of entertainment wouldn't stick

    • @franklinudeh3719
      @franklinudeh3719 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank u Sir 😊🙌💓

  • @abigailrodriguez5916
    @abigailrodriguez5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I cried during part of this I closed my eyes and just listened to his words and they are beautiful

    • @digidrum2003
      @digidrum2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are on your way.......takes time.

  • @carla5452
    @carla5452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Somehow this channel popped up at the exact moment I needed it. Thank you.

    • @mallakatani3918
      @mallakatani3918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😊❤️💯

    • @naresh2604
      @naresh2604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi carla

    • @kavyahr4612
      @kavyahr4612 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly same thing happend to me just now when am low

    • @anithabenedict5970
      @anithabenedict5970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would always be a good opportunity 😊🎉

  • @amatueroutdoorsman9146
    @amatueroutdoorsman9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Really focusing and trying hard go figure out how my mind actually functions and is able to work has been driving me crazy. What he is saying makes so much sense, the more you try to figure it out and analyze the mind the more anxiety its going to bring.

  • @josephblack5359
    @josephblack5359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    One of the Most Enlightened Messages . The reason of suffering in Mental Level is Nagativ Thought & Beavhior upon a person ,a Group of People , Ideology,System of Beliefs. The More you struggle & Fight against - The More You become Mentally I'll.
    The rule of the 3.
    It's All about Karma. Once you In peace with your environment - Peace will Come Within.
    Your Energy Most Be Positive upon Your Environment. Thank You - Sadhguru

    • @0anant0
      @0anant0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you plz explain what u mean by 'Rule of the 3'? Thx

  • @HoneyDropsForever
    @HoneyDropsForever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ohhhhhh, how I needed this. Wisdom from the ages. My eyes heart and soul needed this. I thank you eternally.

  • @neerajsaxena
    @neerajsaxena 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Each time I listen to you, I get filled with energy, peace, and an agenda for the life.

    • @dirtydog2813
      @dirtydog2813 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some of the nicest comments I’ve ever read on this post. Thank you to all of you. It’s so encouraging. Peace to everyone

  • @BESTVOCALS4U
    @BESTVOCALS4U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Never seen his videos before, he is giving off insane high vibrational energy!everyone’s goal, should be aligning with your higher self. He’s a great example of doing the work.

  • @captainaizen4866
    @captainaizen4866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    When ever I am down, I think of this man and all that he has taught us. And I am fine again.

    • @ashishbarjatya2983
      @ashishbarjatya2983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with me

    • @parvathipal2920
      @parvathipal2920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think of God because that's my real father

    • @rajat6528
      @rajat6528 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too🙏

    • @symoneg3057
      @symoneg3057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@parvathipal2920 The only father I have

    • @musicisthelanguageofthecos8266
      @musicisthelanguageofthecos8266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is wrong-Sadhguru should not be your walking stick...he should be your stepping stone...a motivation to transform yourself into a joyful and free being !

  • @pragyasaxena3074
    @pragyasaxena3074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    For all whoever is going through tough time Stay positive and be strong . Will get through this .

  • @bilamontecristo
    @bilamontecristo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    The very meaning of his speech is simple. Be happy that you're still alive.

  • @untunglaksito2389
    @untunglaksito2389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thankyou Sadhguru. My Psychiatrist told me that I always searching for answers. I think from now on I'll spend my time accepting and enjoying whatever (it is or they are) rather than wasting my time analysing over and over to find the answer as to what I should enjoy.
    Gratefully yours.

  • @MaggieBurgerSmit
    @MaggieBurgerSmit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Namaste Sadhguru 🙏 I have tested the strategy to focus on "I am still alive" which I got from another video of yours. My calmness and being present has increased a lot 😁 thank you!

  • @subliminalsublime9771
    @subliminalsublime9771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the best video for those who thinks constantly and can't control it ..by controlling thoughts and identifying them as positive and negative is giving them more power and energy.. so PLZZ don't identify it as negative or positive ..just detach from it as if it never happened and if it came also then it wasn't u . It was ur mind and u and ur mind are not same... U r not ur mind

  • @rahulkumarjha5556
    @rahulkumarjha5556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In virtual attachment with Sadguru, I perfectly understand that complete detachment from the external world, and living in solitude through meditation on the self must be the only way to be free from "OCD "(obsessive compulsive disorder )which originates from negative and absurd paranoid thought and behaviour. I am very much grateful to Sadguru who spiritually encourages many people including me about the art of living in happiness trancedentally.

  • @emjei6123
    @emjei6123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I am obsessed in listening this. Positive mind is everything!

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. You sound single minded. Have you any idea what a negative mind can accomplish.?
      Name me one thought of positive mind, and one of negative mind.
      please.

    • @barrybergisch1
      @barrybergisch1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      so vague. positive mind.
      fantasy dreamworld.

    • @naresh2604
      @naresh2604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi

  • @aivelu2737
    @aivelu2737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The only person that can calm the mess in my mind, he’s full of wisdom and his words are always well organized.
    Very appreciate your videos mister Sadhguru 🌷

  • @keetzb2615
    @keetzb2615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you Sadhguru for reminding me and whoever listens and hears your words. I’ve listened to hundreds of hours of your videos (with headphones 🎧 usually while doing something or sitting) You have changed my perception on so many things in this life the last 2 years and I don’t think I’ve ever commented! You’ll probably never get this comment but I am SO GRATEFUL to hear 👂 things that I thought but was too embarrassed to express and also have learned other things! Right when I listened to your first whatever it was I just nod my head and say “Yes that’s right” lol. You’ve inspired me in so many ways even tho you say we shouldn’t look up/down to anyone 🙏🏼 Also not “raising” our children. You have inspired at least me and changed my life!🙌🏼

  • @hoswayhouse7342
    @hoswayhouse7342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of my favorite hobbies and things to do is running. When I’m running I feel and hear my heartbeat. I am also focused on my breathing and feel every breath go in to my lungs. I admire nature and what surrounds me when I run. Eventually once I’m in a few miles I get that runners high. In a way I feel like it’s my consciousness being fully present. Thoughts do come and go but they’re just like clouds. I feel so a live that nothing matters to me. I simply enjoy my run, myself and the world that surrounds me. I hope someday I can master something like this with meditation as well. Namaste 🙏🏻

  • @PlanetKaylah
    @PlanetKaylah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Even though a lot of us may come from all over the world, it is relieving to know there are others taking control of their life and minds in this way 💛💛 wish you all the best on your journey and that you find what you are seeking

  • @shangarab
    @shangarab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So many years I was looking for the answer. I knew the reason but did not know the solution. Now I know. Sadguruji you are marvelous.

  • @VikCalo
    @VikCalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Lately my choices have been awful. Today I feel like trash. I’m tryin to heal myself but I get panic attacks because of the remorse. I pray tomorrow is better.

  • @holistic_memory404
    @holistic_memory404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    The end of suffering is to create a space between your mind and body...

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Instead, close it.

    • @Sulam2490
      @Sulam2490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anubisiii4384 How to close it?

  • @himal_pillay
    @himal_pillay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2918

    *Who else loves Sadhguru?*

  • @BROKENDEMON
    @BROKENDEMON 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I love the fact that whatever he says is thought provoking.

  • @tigressnsnow
    @tigressnsnow ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a negative thought comes I think of a beautiful thought instead such as looking up to the SKY. Contemplate a cloud. Be thankful for all that you love in the world. List them out loud. Be grateful for all things. When you meditate, that’s why you concentrate on your breath. To distract from all those pesky thoughts of the everyday.

  • @smuccilicious
    @smuccilicious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This is so good! What wisdom this man has.

    • @yadavmonukumar3858
      @yadavmonukumar3858 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He read bhagwat geeta many ancient sculpture Vedas sister jai shree krishna 🙏🙏

    • @amandajoseph262
      @amandajoseph262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like your comment

  • @mathehanyane6246
    @mathehanyane6246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    If only the education system had engraved onto our minds these powerful teachings, the world wud be so easy and beautiful to inhabit.

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Removing negative thoughts can be a challenging process, but it's important to remember that you have the power to change your thought patterns. Start by recognizing negative thoughts when they arise and challenging them with positive affirmations or realistic counterarguments. Focus on the present moment and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with positive people and engage in self-care regularly. Remember, removing negative thoughts is a process, but with practice and perseverance, you can cultivate a more positive and fulfilling inner dialogue.

    • @gagneet2199
      @gagneet2199 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @divakuer4375
      @divakuer4375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thankyou for this !💎

    • @soul-eternal777
      @soul-eternal777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's reprogramming your subconscious mind. And when negative thoughts come don't show them no emotion just let them pass

    • @thisarchanabahuguna
      @thisarchanabahuguna ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem is not with negative or positive thought. The problem is of “attachment”. Positive is not good and negative is not bad. No Labeling is what we should aim at. It is the preference or the judgment that gives us trouble. So just looking at thoughts as thoughts and nothing else- no stories, no beliefs, no views, no good or bad, right or wrong- that only liberates us. This is taught by Buddha. Sadhguru is copying these concepts. Earlier he used to speak incorrectly about all this. Now he has changed. He does not speak from practice, he reads up from here and there and speaks. But anyways, the essence of happiness is rooted in nonjudgmental observation.

    • @Nairaj444
      @Nairaj444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But why do some experience a build-up of negative thoughts?

  • @ioannisathanasiou3865
    @ioannisathanasiou3865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Basically, the guru explains mindfulness technique: focus on something stable that keeps you alive (your breath-physical dimension) and observe any negative thought that arises (psychological dimension). That way you don't let the two dimensions interact with each other.

  • @jmg2888
    @jmg2888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sadhguru, you exude love. I have cried several times just thinking about how much unconditional love I have for you and how much you have helped me. That is powerful! I don't even know you but I can feel your love. Thank you for your existence.

  • @REDSIDEofficial
    @REDSIDEofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4446

    i feel like i am getting Addicted here

    • @punith8205
      @punith8205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Am already

    • @Canute87
      @Canute87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@punith8205 yup

    • @manojkumar-cg7sz
      @manojkumar-cg7sz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      dont be such
      and just dont be blind,dig deeper about what he says

    • @g8672
      @g8672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Already addicted 😎

    • @JG-vo8ey
      @JG-vo8ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah, time to start practising some sadhana!

  • @angelasasssno1815
    @angelasasssno1815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dear Sadhguru, ,You answered my question very clearly , this was on mind yesterday , n look how the answer came up today for me to know , thank you from my truly contrite heart

  • @QuantumQuest-c6y
    @QuantumQuest-c6y ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Sadhguru ji,
    I bow my head unto your feet
    I have been listening to you for ages. You have changed my life. Because of you, I'm what I'm now. I owe you so much ❤.

  • @yangkida7100
    @yangkida7100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How funny, i felt very calming after nausea sick from anxiety. And first time I listen property and i slowly understand. I may be young. Thank you sir. "We are alive" is important thing that we own our life and the fact we are alive.

  • @janiemaldonado1711
    @janiemaldonado1711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm gonna try this starting this instant. Think about life, how am I alive.... thank you!

  • @sanaajawadi8873
    @sanaajawadi8873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you this reminder is on time. I am in my first weeks of pregnancy and I feel the world sitting in my chest with all its unpleasant feelings, and it is hard to ignore the heavyweight in my heart and negative words in my mind. I will do my best to separate me and the feelings in my body and the words I ponder in the mind, so I can feel at peace again and have my baby in a healthier way .

    • @amysho2192
      @amysho2192 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations!! ❤

  • @kuthuruamritha625
    @kuthuruamritha625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The world need more and more of such spiritual teachers and healers. Proud to say that he is from India.........a home of SPIRITUAL TECHNOLOGY.

  • @DerryShaQreact
    @DerryShaQreact 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1016

    this is amazing ❤

    • @jmg2888
      @jmg2888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      111 likes!!!

    • @tirumalaraoseepana7164
      @tirumalaraoseepana7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Sophia William a chance in the last sem lo

    • @jmg2888
      @jmg2888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pennagosala9028 I don't understand ?

    • @DesiTrendz_Updates
      @DesiTrendz_Updates 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sophia William a

    • @suhalahiri8602
      @suhalahiri8602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you practicing regularly

  • @moreg4612
    @moreg4612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was sinking deep in the shadows of depression and anxiety, thanks to sadhguru I was able to pull myself out and I'm still feeling like a living being🙏🙏

  • @PrinceWesterburg
    @PrinceWesterburg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That is probably the single most useful video I will ever watch - thank you Sadhguru!

  • @jish55
    @jish55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    As someone who's been trying hard to remove all forms of negativity from my life, I've started to see how destructive it is. I've started to realize how poisonous it is, how negativity and pessimism is a monster that's devouring our species whole, crushing us beneath its jaws while we attack each other and belittle each other.

  • @nehapandit444
    @nehapandit444 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you for this Sadhguru😊

  • @SifaaRish
    @SifaaRish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    *I knew his greatness from a long period of time but Today I watched just one his video and it made me consume 2 hours from my ''very strict daily routine''...*
    *But it literally was just Heaven...😊*

  • @oldtruckersneverdie3916
    @oldtruckersneverdie3916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you Sir...your teachings seem to come when I need them most..thank you thank you!!

  • @dksharma5141
    @dksharma5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The word I listened that you are alive, this is the most wonderful thing, I have experienced not only about myself but everyone including animal. All this happened at some time ago in my life.

  • @ashleyhall8589
    @ashleyhall8589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love his honesty with human experiences ❤

  • @pushpayadav2698
    @pushpayadav2698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "There are no Subtractions or Divisions in our mind There is only Addition and multiplication" My Favorite line....
    Great honour to sadhguru you are a great person I listen you every time I take breaks during study 🙏

    • @cuteanimalsbirdspetslife569
      @cuteanimalsbirdspetslife569 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course there is substractions and divisions in your mind..that's why you plan things and forgetting things..and forgive to people..🙏🏽

    • @pushpayadav2698
      @pushpayadav2698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cuteanimalsbirdspetslife569 It's my first time I commented in a video and not expecting that I will get such a positive replay BTW Thanks

  • @dsww7485
    @dsww7485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I needed this...Literally yesterday I was talking about not thinking about something and realized I was persevering on the very thing I didn't want to think about!!!! Thank you Sadhguru!!!!

  • @vikasvermaji6392
    @vikasvermaji6392 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thankyou Sadhguru ji. This session is really needed. Many times we suffer just because our mind thinks the way we dont want even we are aware conciously that its just mind and whatever it thinks dont show our true motive or desire whether its positive or negative.
    What I learnt from this session that dont give power to your mind and thoughts to such extent that they start to dominate you. Realising your true self ( life or soul ) is the end of all sufferings. When you detach yourself from your mind and body your actually also take the 'hurting' power from them too. It sounds simple but takes a lot lot of practice to make this thing a belief.

  • @neilkhan2405
    @neilkhan2405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Every word is so true Guru ji. All the negative thought that we avoid come as dreams which is such a worst feeling. thank you for the right advice

  • @saqibmahmood9857
    @saqibmahmood9857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel like I am getting addicted to you sadhguru.... ❤️ 😊 ☺️ 😊 ☺️ 😊

  • @SumitSoni240592
    @SumitSoni240592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Don't be pushed around by the fears in your mind, Be led by the dreams in your heart..

    • @themanftheworld8439
      @themanftheworld8439 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's easier said than done.

    • @edgarvargas-ue9rm
      @edgarvargas-ue9rm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mastered all psychology doesn't mean you still can't fall prey too hypnotic traps that pull your being into a void of uncertainty and anger

    • @Mymelodyyy888
      @Mymelodyyy888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💜💜💜

  • @shobhabansal4741
    @shobhabansal4741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    We are alive ! And that's the most important thing right now . - Sadhguru ♥️

  • @vinayakpatil8186
    @vinayakpatil8186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This happens with me always.
    It eventually leads to overthinking.
    Thank you Sadhguru for guiding us.
    🙏🙏🙏

    • @vinayakpatil8186
      @vinayakpatil8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tanya Talwar Try doing Isha Kriya guided meditation by SADHGURU. I would highly recommend you to do INNER ENGINNERING and learn Shambhavi Mahamudra Kriya with some basic Yoga.
      Life will become much more fluid.

  • @earthgraduate726
    @earthgraduate726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Honestly, just now i understood what's the meaning of meditation ! Thank you Sadhguru .

  • @BedeLaplume
    @BedeLaplume 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In the west we have the cartesian conception of the mind : «I think therefore I am», which can be misleading when dealing with mental health.. Lots of wisdom in this teaching Sadhguru..

  • @adrianawilliams7820
    @adrianawilliams7820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am ready to let the universe take all the negative energy within me and replace it with positive energy. I am ready to let god let me go on the path he made for me 🙏♥️ I hope anyone reading this is okay and that you don’t let the negativity take over and to have a life of peace and love.

  • @amishakesarkar2453
    @amishakesarkar2453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I dont know why.....I just heard his voice and started crying 😭😭 omfg 😭

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe he tricked you,,with his tricks.

    • @thebharatiyasoul
      @thebharatiyasoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's okay.. Just give some time to bad time.. And all the things will come to your way 😇😇😇

    • @68thallabhanusamykya18
      @68thallabhanusamykya18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is awesome and deserves it

    • @varmapower806
      @varmapower806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May be u r most emotional person or he's words r touching ur breaking heart

  • @billydidaskalou3897
    @billydidaskalou3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Our minds are an accumulation of impressions/ concepts that we have gathered, our bodies are an accumulation of food that we have given it. When you accumulate anything, by all means you can claim it, own it, but you cant say it is yours. I am NOT the body, I am NOT even the mind. There is something more fundamental about who we really are that goes beyond the mind and body.

  • @anjupaudel9855
    @anjupaudel9855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have been listening sadhguru from 2,3days and I am already addicted ❤️

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats not good.

    • @abhinavram3964
      @abhinavram3964 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anubisiii4384 His words have really helped me...i can't predict how others hear his words but indeed they are blessed ones...all he says is about the fundamentals of life ...which unfortunately 90% of people in this world are completely unaware of...our mind is the most dangerous yet most efficient weapon...it's about we realize this and start putting a gap between our body and mind like he said...everything will be alright...no actually everything is all right ...it's just the fact that we are unaware of it 😊

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abhinavram3964 Also, he himself, constantly weigh things as good or bad, likeable and not.

    • @abhinavram3964
      @abhinavram3964 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anubisiii4384 thats called human nature bro..in this society everyone cannot change and thats why we have classified certains things as good and others as bad inorder to try and achieve a balanced society but as people are different hence the problem of imbalance still persists in the society

    • @anubisiii4384
      @anubisiii4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abhinavram3964 No, no, its not : ) People today live very much in an artificial enviroment, thats what makes them unbalanced.

  • @lostsoul4317
    @lostsoul4317 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "In short" - Just sit back, close your eyes and try to sense anything that makes you feel alive. Could be your breathing, heartbeat or anything and slowly you'll feel more calm. Thanks

  • @bandanalifevlogs
    @bandanalifevlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have started thinking about negative thoughts...since morning today... I was thinking sadguru tell something... constantly thinking about it... Now I see this .. it's like he understands everything....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @positiveandhealthy2728
    @positiveandhealthy2728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Recognize that it's a process, ups and downs. Break down the big goals to minor ones. Great practical and easily skipped over advice.

  • @fxxxx9
    @fxxxx9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Thanks for introducing us to him Hop!

    • @GoatBoi_NBA
      @GoatBoi_NBA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hopsin brought me here 😌😌

    • @ankitanand3054
      @ankitanand3054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      From insta?

  • @holistic_memory404
    @holistic_memory404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beyond your thought, beyond your closed eyes, beyond your emotions, beyond your happiness.... You still exist

  • @MrTanmaydeepak
    @MrTanmaydeepak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    "Don't hate, but Meditate"

    • @0anant0
      @0anant0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Try not to hate
      ,
      Love your mate
      ,
      Don't suffocate on your own hate
      ,
      Designate your love as fate!
      Mediate
      Clear the state
      Activate
      Now radiate...
      -- INXS

    • @satyapatil8751
      @satyapatil8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I bow sadguru

    • @adhyatmasadhana6080
      @adhyatmasadhana6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meditation is medicine for the soul.

  • @bendaniel7357
    @bendaniel7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i’m going to begin this wonderful journey. so glad ive discovered this

  • @justchill3723
    @justchill3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are such a gift to the mankind!!!
    Blessed to seek wisdom from you 😇

  • @FitRamadhany13
    @FitRamadhany13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As always, just when I asked myself how to stop this thought, the answer is presented in front of my eyes. Well.

  • @kuldeepkashyap138
    @kuldeepkashyap138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I got addicted to Sadhguru's voice so calm.....I simply in heaven when I listen

  • @danielfruhling6023
    @danielfruhling6023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This changed my life forever, thank you so much!

    • @vishavjeetsingh676
      @vishavjeetsingh676 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      how are you now?
      its been 5 months how r u doing now?

    • @jaieditzs142
      @jaieditzs142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vishavjeetsingh676 it's been a year and how are u doing?!

  • @themanftheworld8439
    @themanftheworld8439 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's hard to be positive in a negative world of rejection,failure and letdown experiences for an individual.