It’s ok, at least you won’t have to take care of them when they are old and immobile. It is blessing in disguise because they won’t be a burden later on. When they crawl back, tell them where the senior homes or streets are.
You did the right thing brother. Fear not for you have no sin in heaven, but your parents will. Let's grant your dad his wish, for the next three life time he will bear no children, no matter what.
I’m so proud of you and your siblings for what you have accomplished. If your parents don’t except you back, that’s their problem. You have made a family for yourself and just keep loving your family and the siblings. Karma will hit your parents anytime soon. For me, I will never leave my kids behind for an abusive husband.
My dad did the same thing to my mom when I was 8 and I called the cops, I'm glad my dad/parents were not narrow minded like these two awful parents. Instead it taught my dad a great lesson and he went to anger management and never once hit my mom again after that and he never hated me. I was more of a daddy's girl and closer to my dad than I was to my mom.
That’s how parents who love their children should do. Take it as a lesson learned rather than hating your children. This couple was obviously toxic and never cared for their children to go that route
Kudos to you for standing up for your siblings and yourself. Your parents are toxic to you guys anyways, you’re not the bad one here. If those others don’t want you guys either then forget them too. You don’t need all that hate and negativity in your life. You’ve already been through hell on your own it wouldn’t make a difference. You just work hard and take care of your siblings, be independent and never rely on those that blame you. They’re cold blooded and selfish to blame and disown you. When they’re sick and helpless they turn to you just to feel pity for them.
That's the big problem in our community even though someone do wrong we aren't supposed to call the law til it's too late. I am shocked how this mother abandoned her own kids 😢
I remember hearing this story. I feel bad for these children but if their parents and relatives are this shallow they need lots of education. I'm appalled by the decision of this mother. She has no motherly instincts. Also no one understands what these kids went through as children witnessing domestic violence and the fear of their father killing their mother!!Those father and mother are heartless.
Oh my, i cant believe parents can be this cruel. Especially a mother. Anyone in their right would call the police if you witness someone about to kill your mom or dad. Brother, i feel so sad for you. Focus on the family you created with your spouse. God bless you and your siblings. No karma will ever come to you. But your parents will recieved their karma.
I am so sorry for what you and your siblings went through. It's a domineering father and weak mother that left you in a horrible situation. I am glad you are doing well, and best wishes for you and your sibling. I have adopted kids where their parents abandoned them, too. I understand pain and struggles that abandoned kids went through. My oldest still have separation anxiety issues after decades.
Your parents are at fault for their toxic marriage, but put the blame on you and your sibles ...... SHAME ON THEM 😡!!! You better your life because of them and I know it's sad but you don't need them because they abandon you guys. I WILL PICK MY CHILDREN OVER AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND ANY DAY!! So sorry that you guys had to go through it all but it my you guys a better and strong person. May the Lord bless you 3.
The Hmong saying goes, You raise your kids to take care of you when you old, if the parents didn't raise the kids, the kids have no obligation to take care of the parents when they are old. They left you and your siblings to child services, you just leave them to assistance/senior living facilities. No hard feeling there. Don't think too much about your parents, just take care of your little family and the ones who love and took care of you.
I’m so proud of you and your siblings. You grew up loving each other & became successful even when your BAD parents abandoned you. Forget about them and continue living your lives loving each other. You don’t need them in your life.
Wow! I never knew that there were Hmong people like these parents existed, but I guess I was wrong!! God bless you! I hope you n your wife love each to the end!!
So sad, I’m crying 😭 because your dad still is holding a grudge on you even after all those years. What a stubborn old man. Hope you and your siblings continue to love one another and forgive and forget for a peace of mind.
Such a sad story. I’m glad you are not taking your parents in to take care of them. This is thing that can never be forgiven and forgotten especially abandon you and your sibling. Don’t love your clans and uncles them as well.. how could they not take you guys in instead of letting your parents put you and your siblings in foster care. I’m glad you made the right choice to get your phd and love your siblings.
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv cias li npau taws rau cov niam cov txiv lub siab tawv tso tau yus tej me nyuam li no ma yog ib qho tu siab tshaj hlub nej kawg thov kom nej ua tau ib siab tso nkawv mus 20 tawm lub xyoo nkawv tsi noog nej moo ce yeej tsi mob plab yug li ma
You did nothing wrong. You made the best of your situation. I hate “parents” like your birth parents. They don’t deserve your love, they don’t deserve your help, they don’t deserve the ability to reproduce. When things gets hard, my child was my motivator. My fuel to succeed. My child has everything my child wants, all my love and my family’s love. I can’t believe what your parents did, especially your Mom.
The pain was too deep can't be recovered! Glad you and siblings survived and had a great life! May God continues to bless you all with many happiness 😊
Koj hais yog kawg, vim lo lus, lawv tsis xaiv yus, es lawv xum xaiv lwm tus, mas tu siab tshaj plaws. Txawm yog niam txiv, me tub me nyuam los xij, tu siab tshaj. However, you did the right thing. If I was you, I would do that to protect my mom too, but it's her lost, not yours.
You are doing the right thing. If you don’t love them no karma is going to cast on you. Just take care of your wife and kids so they have better life than what you have. I’m so proud of the man you have become.
One of the WORST pain is not caused by the one that punches you with the knife but instead, by the one that is watching and doing absolutely nothing about it. You and your siblings were being betrayed physically, emotionally, and mentally by your parent. People that do not have accountability will point fingers at others instead of themselves and your parent did just that to you and your siblings.
Brother, pab Hlub nej cov nus muag heev os. Txhob tu Siab heev heev os. Lub ntuj yuav muaj Koob hmoov rau nej. Forget your parents. If they loved you, they will not abandon you all at such a young age. Love yourself, your wife, your kids and your siblings. Best wishes to you all.
Tsev neejtsa thiab tsev kwvtij rau tus nus leejniam thiab leejtsiv yog neeg phem ob Tso noob No yeej yog noob tsis zoo. Lub ntuj lim nej 3 nus muag khais Nej OUT mus pib ib ces hmoob zoo hlub nkauj muam nraug nus, paub tshaw kwv tshaw Tij txawj tse nyob muaj meej mom. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO SHELTER BLESS U N UR SIBLINGS.
Brother koj ua yog kawg lawm. Cov laus lawv xav yuav kev lawv thiaj tsis hlub tsis pab nej cov nus muag los hnub no nej tiav niam tiav txiv lawm leej twg hlub yus ces yus hlub tus twg xwb mog txawm koj tsis muaj kwv tij lawm los tsis txhob nyuaj siab yog yus muaj nyiaj lawm ces cov phooj ywg los yog yeej muaj neeg pab yus xwb money is the power..yog yus tsis muaj nyiaj ces txawm muaj kwv muaj tij los luag tuaj txog ces nug nyiaj ua ntej xwb yog yus tsis muaj nyiaj ces tej kwv tij yuav hais tias yog tsis muaj nyiaj ces lawv tsis paub yuav sab laj thiab pab yus li no xwb es mus church li ko los yog ib qho zoo mog..Nrog nej cov nus muag tusiab kawg.
Vuag ua cas yuav nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaws lis ov me tub aws koj yeej ua yog kawg lawm nawb tab sim koj niam koj txiv yog ob tug ua lub neej yuam kev loj tshaj plaws nyob rau nkawv lub neej tiam no ov koj yog tus zoo lawm Vaajtswv yuav sam fwj koj lub neej mog vim koj ua zoo thiab hlub koj cov yau ne ua niam ua txiv rau cov yau tib sim Vuag cas yuav nrog tu siab rau ob niag niam txiv siab phem es yug tau los tsi hlub tej menyuam lis naws yog tias tuag tas lawm no mas tseem muaj lub quaj thiab os yog phem lis kom mas tu siab tshaj qho tu lawm thiab tsi paub hais lawm me tub aws kuv hlub koj nrog rau koj pab yau tib sim mog
I cannot imagine the incredible heart break and trauma these kids have to live through with parents like this and then going through the foster care system. My heart hurts for the kids in this story.
They weren’t there for you when you grew up and through you to foster care, when they come back - you have zero responsibility - there’s senior housing and the streets, cuz that’s where they left you! Karma…
Yog kj tseem mu hlub nkawv dua ce yog kj tsi tau tu siab txaua os tsi ta nug moo li lawm os nej niam nej txiv yog ib nkawm niam txiv ua siab phem tshaj plaw li😭😭😭
Cov me nyuam tsis muaj kev hlub ntawm niam thiab txiv yeej txawj xav dua cov mes nyuam muaj niam muaj txiv hlub. To the brother in this story, it was your hardships that makes you appreciate your life today. Accept what life gives and don’t look back.
Me tub, koj niam&txiv coj cwjpwm phem los cov kwvtij & niamtais yawmtxiv lawv yeej tsis muaj 1 tug zoo li thiab. Cas tsis cia nkawd sib tua tuag kom muaj lub ntxa, txiv nyob nkuaj tag sim neej? Txhob cia nkawd nyob, tseem muaj cai hais. Nej twb tsis tuag, muaj neej tag ces txhob hmov tshua, tsis lees paub nkawd.
This is the most sad story I’e heard. So sad. Your parents are one of the most evil parents living on earth, abandoned their kids like buried them alive. Your parents don’t deserve your forgiveness and love as they never admitted their wrong doing. God bless you and your family.
Txhob TU Siab os mi Brother aw,koj Niam thiab koj txiv CES tsuas txawj sib ua kom muaj nej xwb nkawv yeej tsis xav txog nej Cov mi nus muag es koj txiav txim Siab Tau li ko CES yog lawm nawb mog, zoo Siab Tias koj muaj neej lawm Tus kwv tus tij twg hlub yus CES hlub Tus ntawv Xwb os mog❤
It's not your fault. When things happen like that, in your mind, you just want to be safe. You did the right thing. Parents now day, think they're your parents everything they do is right. But the real world, even if you're a parents you can be wrong. I'm a parents myself, I sometimes say the wrong stuff to my kids. I'm happy to have them to remind me. It's ok, rau rau siab ua neeg mog. Your parents abandon you all you don't own them anything.
Mitub tu siab ntau uas nej cov nus muag yuav los raug lub neej zoo li no ua ib simneej xwb yus yeej xav kom yus muaj niam muaj txiv li luag tej txawm yog li no es koj thiaj li try to save koj niam thiab txiv peb txoj kev kawm ces yog thaum zoo li no ces kawg yuav tau hu authorities tuaj pab xwb koj yeej tsis muaj kev txhaum dabtsi yog koj txiv ho tsis zam txim los nyob ntawm nws xav xwb kuv paub tias nej cov nus muag tu siab heev uas tsis muaj leej twg yuav kam lees paub nej tiam sis kuv hlub nej cov nus muag heev txhob tag kev cia siab muaj ib tug uas hlub nej tshaj tus ntawd yog tus tswv yesxus caw nws los nyob hauv koj lub siab los kav koj nws nrog nraim koj thaum koj need nws ces cia li thov nws yuav pab koj nws tsis xaiv leej twg ntsej muag tus txomnyem los sis tau zoo tus uas yog tub ntsuag tsis muaj niam txiv hlub tsis muaj kwv tij pab thov caw koj los nrhiav tswyesxus nws yuav hlub koj thov caw koj mus nrog peb cov xibfwb hauv koj lub zos tham nws yuav coj koj los ua kwvtij thov vajtswv pab rau koj kom koj yuav tiv taus txoj kev tu siab no
Rather not have parents who does not love you unconditionally than to have parents like that. You have your siblings who love each other and that is a great blessing.
Me tub uaca koj tsi mus ntseeg VAJTSWV cov ntseeg ua yog hmoob lawv yeej txau siab pab cov me nyuam txom nyem li nej cov me nyuam ntsuag li koj os me tub.
So sad for you 3. I have a group of siblings as foster kids, and we love them just like our own. We encourage them and love them to be the best they can be. Thov peb cov Hmoob open our homes to love these beautiful kids whether they are Hmong or other nationalities.
You’re parents are the worst in the world! Give birth to you, abandon you and call you the bad guys when all you wanted to do was keep your mom safe. You didn’t ask to be born. You owe them nothing! You are their blood and flesh and they chose themselves. YOU OWE THEM NOTHING!!!! You’ve learned to be strong and independent all on your own. Good for you. I’m so happy for you. They won’t forgive you and blame you for their fallout. It’s them! Not you.
nej cov me nus muag yeej txom nyem txaus lawm tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub nim no nej peem2 nej tsim txiaj tag lawm nej tas yuav nco txog ob niag niam txiv dab noj nyoog haus txia lim hiam ntawv lawm mog thaum nej tseem me2 yeej tsis hlub tsis nco txog nej lawm nim no niag laus2 yuav tuag muaj mob ho yuav rov los rau nej tu thiab nej so quav no ua li cas Sawv daws yuav pab niag maum dev ntawv txaj muag ua luaj li os hmoob
To the brother of this story, I think you’re a hero! You saved your mom’s life that day, but she’s too ungrateful to understand. I’m proud of you and your siblings and wish you all the best! Your parents were awful.
Peb ua neeg nyob ces mua ib co leej niam ces lawv yeej xaiv tus txiv xwb tab sis muaj ib txhia lawv xaiv lawv cov me nyuam xwb, vim peb ua neeg nyob nyias muaj nyias siab nyias plawv ib tug tib tsis tau ib tug. Tab sis nej nyias twb ua nyias neej lawm tsis tas yuav quav ntsej txog nkawd li lawm os nkawd txawm yuav ciaj yuav tuag los xij nkawd ib yam li thaum nkawd tso nej tseg es nej yuav yuav ciaj yuav tuag los nkawd twb tsis care txog nej ned,
You are not in the wrong. I’m so glad you and your sibling thrived and have supportive friends and their family. Nothing but blessings to you and your siblings.
I’m so sorry you had to suffer for your parents stupidity. They were able to have you and your siblings but they let their selfishness ruined their family. You grew from this problem and overcame so many things in life. You deserve your achievements.
Me nus nej cov nus muag tsis txhaum os mog nej twb tsis tau ua li cas rau nkaw. Nkaw muaj nkaw kev chim es nkaw sib ceg sib ntau sib tua ces koj pab cheem li koj hais xwb qhov tseeb tiag nkaw yeej tsis xav yuav nej. Txhov tu siab os mog ua li cov laus 1 txwm hais os nyuj ntsuag tsis tuag es nyuaj ntsuag hlob tiav pwj, nej cov me nus muag ntsuag tsis tuag es hnub no nej loj hlob kawm txawj nte tag laum ces kav tsij hlub tus hlub2 nej lawm xwb. Nej niam thiab txiv ces forget about them now you don't need their help any more.
When I was 3 years old my dad thought it was ok to leave me sleeping in the car. Someone reported him and he got arrested in the store. My parents still blame me to this day. They have always guilt trip me until I had children of my own to realized he was wrong the entire time. I so small I had no idea it was his fault for leaving me there. I no longer feel any guilt, I was never their favorite because of that. You were young and scared brother. All these hmong parents should change their ways, and can't judge you because you were so young when you made that call.
tu me tub aw koj niam thiab koj txiv ob ntsej muag dab ko tseem phem tshaj dab lawm thiab tshawj xeeb tshaj yog koj niam koj niam yog ib niag poj niag xuab tshaj plaw yog ib niag neeg tsi muaj siab ntsw tsi muaj paj hlwb hlo li tsi txhob mu quav ntsej txog nw kiag koj niam yog ib niag neeg npam tsi txhob thab kiag, thaum nej tseem me me nej twb tsi tuag tam sim no nej twb muaj neej ta lawm yu tau zoo nyob ce nyob twb ywm xwb tsi txhob muab nej cov taub hau mu nkag rau nkawd txoj niag kev npam tsam nej ho npam raug nkawd thiab cia nkawd npam nkawd tu kheej xwb os mog 😭😭😭😭😭
Khub niam txiv no tuag los tau lawm.. ntxim ntxub tshaj.. twb tsi hlub nws cov me nyuam es hos yug ua dab tsi.. leej niam los tsi yog ib leej niam zoo li.. tsi xaiv me nyuam hos xum xaiv niag txiv dev liam li no
Awe this is so sad. Just want to give you and your siblings a hug. You did the right thing. You protected your mother. Too bad she didnt see that. Your parents are not good parents. They dont deserve any kids. May you find peace and closure. One less thing to worry about. They didnt raise you so, you dont owe them anything. Be proud of your accomplishments and the life you build with your own two hands. Gob will continue to bless you.
Me tub Aw koj niam ces yog ib tug maum dev xwb os zoo li koj niam ces cia kom koj txiv muab tua kom tuag zoo dua os zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv ces muaj ib hnub kawg yuav ua qab ke Luag xwb kuv li kuv yeej ib txwm xaiv kuv cov me nyuam xwb me nyuam yeej yug tau Los mas tab sis tus txiv xwb twb yuav tau thiab Nev tus txiv twb tsis yog kuv li roj ntsha mas haj yam tsis sib hlub os!
This is the sadest life of these 3 brothers and sister. I have tears in my eyes can not stop. You childreb did real good, leave your parents one day they will regret n they will look for you. Just ignore them like they ignore you is the best
Me tub tsis yog koj kaw koj txiv os yog koj cawm nws txoj sia xwb yog cia koj txiv tua kiag koj niam tuag lawm ces koj txiv haj yam nyob nkuaj tag nws ib sim naw,
It’s ok, at least you won’t have to take care of them when they are old and immobile. It is blessing in disguise because they won’t be a burden later on. When they crawl back, tell them where the senior homes or streets are.
You did the right thing brother. Fear not for you have no sin in heaven, but your parents will. Let's grant your dad his wish, for the next three life time he will bear no children, no matter what.
Tus pojniam no yog lubsiab dabtsi es ho xaiv nws niag txiv dev, es ho tsis xaiv nws cov menyuam?
I’m so proud of you and your siblings for what you have accomplished. If your parents don’t except you back, that’s their problem. You have made a family for yourself and just keep loving your family and the siblings. Karma will hit your parents anytime soon. For me, I will never leave my kids behind for an abusive husband.
My dad did the same thing to my mom when I was 8 and I called the cops, I'm glad my dad/parents were not narrow minded like these two awful parents. Instead it taught my dad a great lesson and he went to anger management and never once hit my mom again after that and he never hated me. I was more of a daddy's girl and closer to my dad than I was to my mom.
That’s how parents who love their children should do. Take it as a lesson learned rather than hating your children. This couple was obviously toxic and never cared for their children to go that route
That's great to hear.
Kudos to you for standing up for your siblings and yourself. Your parents are toxic to you guys anyways, you’re not the bad one here. If those others don’t want you guys either then forget them too. You don’t need all that hate and negativity in your life. You’ve already been through hell on your own it wouldn’t make a difference. You just work hard and take care of your siblings, be independent and never rely on those that blame you. They’re cold blooded and selfish to blame and disown you. When they’re sick and helpless they turn to you just to feel pity for them.
That's the big problem in our community even though someone do wrong we aren't supposed to call the law til it's too late. I am shocked how this mother abandoned her own kids 😢
You know what hmong og’s say… Ua siab ntev! Yeah, until it’s too late. It’s ok, their generation is dying.
Txhob tus siab zoo ob niag niam txiv dev ho abandoned nej lo zoo. koj niam tsi sawm zoo.
@@ooinkssies1142if he on the same spot he be calling the cop too but he just trying to make you look bad.
The mom is the kind of person who you would help, but then turn around to help the abuser. I know people like that.
@@ooinkssies1142because the OG ain’t smart like you are right.
I remember hearing this story. I feel bad for these children but if their parents and relatives are this shallow they need lots of education. I'm appalled by the decision of this mother. She has no motherly instincts. Also no one understands what these kids went through as children witnessing domestic violence and the fear of their father killing their mother!!Those father and mother are heartless.
Oh my, i cant believe parents can be this cruel. Especially a mother. Anyone in their right would call the police if you witness someone about to kill your mom or dad. Brother, i feel so sad for you. Focus on the family you created with your spouse. God bless you and your siblings. No karma will ever come to you. But your parents will recieved their karma.
I am so sorry for what you and your siblings went through. It's a domineering father and weak mother that left you in a horrible situation. I am glad you are doing well, and best wishes for you and your sibling. I have adopted kids where their parents abandoned them, too. I understand pain and struggles that abandoned kids went through. My oldest still have separation anxiety issues after decades.
Don't feel bad brother, you did the right thing when you called 911 and now you abandoned your parents also the right choice. Happy for you ❤
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Your parents are at fault for their toxic marriage, but put the blame on you and your sibles ...... SHAME ON THEM 😡!!! You better your life because of them and I know it's sad but you don't need them because they abandon you guys. I WILL PICK MY CHILDREN OVER AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND ANY DAY!! So sorry that you guys had to go through it all but it my you guys a better and strong person. May the Lord bless you 3.
Tim ob tus laus xwb. Tsim nyog ob tus laus tseem yuav los thov txim qhov nkawv muab nej cov menyuam tso tseg. Good story. Thank you for sharing.
The Hmong saying goes, You raise your kids to take care of you when you old, if the parents didn't raise the kids, the kids have no obligation to take care of the parents when they are old. They left you and your siblings to child services, you just leave them to assistance/senior living facilities. No hard feeling there.
Don't think too much about your parents, just take care of your little family and the ones who love and took care of you.
Txhob tu siab os me tub koj niam koj txiv nkawv ua yuam kev loj dhau 😢
I’m so proud of you and your siblings. You grew up loving each other & became successful even when your BAD parents abandoned you. Forget about them and continue living your lives loving each other. You don’t need them in your life.
Wow! I never knew that there were Hmong people like these parents existed, but I guess I was wrong!! God bless you! I hope you n your wife love each to the end!!
tu siab heev lis os
Tu siab tshaj li tab sim pab nus muag koj keej tshaj li xu xu os ❤
Just the beginning of the story and already sad!!!! Screw the parents!!!
So sad, I’m crying 😭 because your dad still is holding a grudge on you even after all those years. What a stubborn old man. Hope you and your siblings continue to love one another and forgive and forget for a peace of mind.
Such a sad story. I’m glad you are not taking your parents in to take care of them. This is thing that can never be forgiven and forgotten especially abandon you and your sibling. Don’t love your clans and uncles them as well.. how could they not take you guys in instead of letting your parents put you and your siblings in foster care. I’m glad you made the right choice to get your phd and love your siblings.
Zoo heev li o kuv tuaj koom koj lawm o
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv cias li npau taws rau cov niam cov txiv lub siab tawv tso tau yus tej me nyuam li no ma yog ib qho tu siab tshaj hlub nej kawg thov kom nej ua tau ib siab tso nkawv mus 20 tawm lub xyoo nkawv tsi noog nej moo ce yeej tsi mob plab yug li ma
You did nothing wrong. You made the best of your situation.
I hate “parents” like your birth parents. They don’t deserve your love, they don’t deserve your help, they don’t deserve the ability to reproduce.
When things gets hard, my child was my motivator. My fuel to succeed. My child has everything my child wants, all my love and my family’s love. I can’t believe what your parents did, especially your Mom.
The pain was too deep can't be recovered! Glad you and siblings survived and had a great life! May God continues to bless you all with many happiness 😊
Koj hais yog kawg, vim lo lus, lawv tsis xaiv yus, es lawv xum xaiv lwm tus, mas tu siab tshaj plaws. Txawm yog niam txiv, me tub me nyuam los xij, tu siab tshaj. However, you did the right thing. If I was you, I would do that to protect my mom too, but it's her lost, not yours.
With that kind of parents, I'm glad the kids were given a blessing in disguise. Had they stayed with the parents, their lives probably worst off.
Bitter sweet story.
Nej zaj dab neeg tu siab tshaj li os peb cov ntsuag caij no ce yuav tau be strong os mog 😢
You are doing the right thing. If you don’t love them no karma is going to cast on you. Just take care of your wife and kids so they have better life than what you have. I’m so proud of the man you have become.
nrog koj Tu siab heev os Tu nus😢😢😢😢
Me tub aw!!! Koj ua yog kawg lawm txhob tu siab os
Ntuj os ntuj aw cov me nyuam aw pab nej cov nus muag tu siab kawg nkaus os mog txij no mus ua ib siab hlos los hlub koj poj niam me nyuam xwb os mog
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yeej yog li koj hais lawm os
One of the WORST pain is not caused by the one that punches you with the knife but instead, by the one that is watching and doing absolutely nothing about it. You and your siblings were being betrayed physically, emotionally, and mentally by your parent. People that do not have accountability will point fingers at others instead of themselves and your parent did just that to you and your siblings.
Brother, pab Hlub nej cov nus muag heev os. Txhob tu Siab heev heev os. Lub ntuj yuav muaj Koob hmoov rau nej. Forget your parents. If they loved you, they will not abandon you all at such a young age. Love yourself, your wife, your kids and your siblings. Best wishes to you all.
Tsev neejtsa thiab tsev kwvtij rau tus nus leejniam thiab leejtsiv yog neeg phem ob Tso noob No yeej yog noob tsis zoo. Lub ntuj lim nej 3 nus muag khais Nej OUT mus pib ib ces hmoob zoo hlub nkauj muam nraug nus, paub tshaw kwv tshaw Tij txawj tse nyob muaj meej mom. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO SHELTER BLESS U N UR SIBLINGS.
Brother koj ua yog kawg lawm. Cov laus lawv xav yuav kev lawv thiaj tsis hlub tsis pab nej cov nus muag los hnub no nej tiav niam tiav txiv lawm leej twg hlub yus ces yus hlub tus twg xwb mog txawm koj tsis muaj kwv tij lawm los tsis txhob nyuaj siab yog yus muaj nyiaj lawm ces cov phooj ywg los yog yeej muaj neeg pab yus xwb money is the power..yog yus tsis muaj nyiaj ces txawm muaj kwv muaj tij los luag tuaj txog ces nug nyiaj ua ntej xwb yog yus tsis muaj nyiaj ces tej kwv tij yuav hais tias yog tsis muaj nyiaj ces lawv tsis paub yuav sab laj thiab pab yus li no xwb es mus church li ko los yog ib qho zoo mog..Nrog nej cov nus muag tusiab kawg.
koj haig yog lawm.phem npaum kom. xum mug zeem tug saib nraum zoo dua.2niag niam txiv dev muaj nej ib pab tsw yog log ntawm txoj kwv hlub. log ntaem txoj niag kev khaug xwb.nub no tsw tas hlub2 tsw npam nej li cia nyiag peem ciag ib ntug as.
Pab hlub koj kawg li os tus brother
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Vuag ua cas yuav nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaws lis ov me tub aws koj yeej ua yog kawg lawm nawb tab sim koj niam koj txiv yog ob tug ua lub neej yuam kev loj tshaj plaws nyob rau nkawv lub neej tiam no ov koj yog tus zoo lawm Vaajtswv yuav sam fwj koj lub neej mog vim koj ua zoo thiab hlub koj cov yau ne ua niam ua txiv rau cov yau tib sim Vuag cas yuav nrog tu siab rau ob niag niam txiv siab phem es yug tau los tsi hlub tej menyuam lis naws yog tias tuag tas lawm no mas tseem muaj lub quaj thiab os yog phem lis kom mas tu siab tshaj qho tu lawm thiab tsi paub hais lawm me tub aws kuv hlub koj nrog rau koj pab yau tib sim mog
Kj niam twb g tau kaw kj txiv cas kj ho kaw kj yeej yuav paub ib hnub
Nyob zoo os
May God bless you and your 2 siblings!
I cannot imagine the incredible heart break and trauma these kids have to live through with parents like this and then going through the foster care system. My heart hurts for the kids in this story.
They weren’t there for you when you grew up and through you to foster care, when they come back - you have zero responsibility - there’s senior housing and the streets, cuz that’s where they left you! Karma…
Yog kj tseem mu hlub nkawv dua ce yog kj tsi tau tu siab txaua os tsi ta nug moo li lawm os nej niam nej txiv yog ib nkawm niam txiv ua siab phem tshaj plaw li😭😭😭
Mloog tu siab pab hlub cov meyuam. Niam txiv lub siab phem lawm thaum yuav tuag ce ho km cov meyuam taken care fwm dhau lawm xwb.
Txhob tu siab os me nus aw kuv los twb ibyam li koj thiab tab sis yus mam peem yus thiaj yog yus muaj peev xwm tiag es xuj xuj nawb mog
Cov me nyuam tsis muaj kev hlub ntawm niam thiab txiv yeej txawj xav dua cov mes nyuam muaj niam muaj txiv hlub.
To the brother in this story, it was your hardships that makes you appreciate your life today. Accept what life gives and don’t look back.
Me tub, koj niam&txiv coj cwjpwm phem los cov kwvtij & niamtais yawmtxiv lawv yeej tsis muaj 1 tug zoo li thiab. Cas tsis cia nkawd sib tua tuag kom muaj lub ntxa, txiv nyob nkuaj tag sim neej? Txhob cia nkawd nyob, tseem muaj cai hais. Nej twb tsis tuag, muaj neej tag ces txhob hmov tshua, tsis lees paub nkawd.
I could never leave my kids like that
This is the most sad story I’e heard. So sad. Your parents are one of the most evil parents living on earth, abandoned their kids like buried them alive.
Your parents don’t deserve your forgiveness and love as they never admitted their wrong doing.
God bless you and your family.
God bless you and your siblings brother.
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Txhob TU Siab os mi Brother aw,koj Niam thiab koj txiv CES tsuas txawj sib ua kom muaj nej xwb nkawv yeej tsis xav txog nej Cov mi nus muag es koj txiav txim Siab Tau li ko CES yog lawm nawb mog, zoo Siab Tias koj muaj neej lawm Tus kwv tus tij twg hlub yus CES hlub Tus ntawv Xwb os mog❤
Live on live life without looking back!!! You guys dont owe them anything Period....
Cov kwvtij yuav tswm totaub tias yog hu police rau thaum tsis tau muaj neeg tuag tseem nyob nkuaj luv. Thaum muaj neeg tuag lawm tus txiv neej ntawv yuav tau mus nyob nkuaj tag ibsim neej. Tus siab nyoos ces twb yog lawv txiv ntag.
It's not your fault. When things happen like that, in your mind, you just want to be safe. You did the right thing. Parents now day, think they're your parents everything they do is right. But the real world, even if you're a parents you can be wrong. I'm a parents myself, I sometimes say the wrong stuff to my kids. I'm happy to have them to remind me. It's ok, rau rau siab ua neeg mog. Your parents abandon you all you don't own them anything.
Kwv tij koj ua tau zoo kawg os, tam sis yog kuv ces yuav pab niam os.
😂❤mi tub aw Koj yog Leej twg os CAs Koj tu siab ua luaj li os
You don't owe them anything. You did the right thing. They are terrible parents.
Cas Tej niam Tej txiv taubme nyuam zoo ho tsis txawj yuav tsis txawj hlub
Tej niam Tej txiv zoo me nyuam ho tsis xav hlub.
Mitub tu siab ntau uas nej cov nus muag yuav los raug lub neej zoo li no ua ib simneej xwb yus yeej xav kom yus muaj niam muaj txiv li luag tej txawm yog li no es koj thiaj li try to save koj niam thiab txiv peb txoj kev kawm ces yog thaum zoo li no ces kawg yuav tau hu authorities tuaj pab xwb koj yeej tsis muaj kev txhaum dabtsi yog koj txiv ho tsis zam txim los nyob ntawm nws xav xwb kuv paub tias nej cov nus muag tu siab heev uas tsis muaj leej twg yuav kam lees paub nej tiam sis kuv hlub nej cov nus muag heev txhob tag kev cia siab muaj ib tug uas hlub nej tshaj tus ntawd yog tus tswv yesxus caw nws los nyob hauv koj lub siab los kav koj nws nrog nraim koj thaum koj need nws ces cia li thov nws yuav pab koj nws tsis xaiv leej twg ntsej muag tus txomnyem los sis tau zoo tus uas yog tub ntsuag tsis muaj niam txiv hlub tsis muaj kwv tij pab thov caw koj los nrhiav tswyesxus nws yuav hlub koj thov caw koj mus nrog peb cov xibfwb hauv koj lub zos tham nws yuav coj koj los ua kwvtij thov vajtswv pab rau koj kom koj yuav tiv taus txoj kev tu siab no
Rather not have parents who does not love you unconditionally than to have parents like that. You have your siblings who love each other and that is a great blessing.
Me tub uaca koj tsi mus ntseeg VAJTSWV cov ntseeg ua yog hmoob lawv yeej txau siab pab cov me nyuam txom nyem li nej cov me nyuam ntsuag li koj os me tub.
So sad for you 3. I have a group of siblings as foster kids, and we love them just like our own. We encourage them and love them to be the best they can be. Thov peb cov Hmoob open our homes to love these beautiful kids whether they are Hmong or other nationalities.
Leej Niam the Txiv no lub siab phem heev 😢😢😢
You’re parents are the worst in the world! Give birth to you, abandon you and call you the bad guys when all you wanted to do was keep your mom safe. You didn’t ask to be born. You owe them nothing! You are their blood and flesh and they chose themselves. YOU OWE THEM NOTHING!!!! You’ve learned to be strong and independent all on your own. Good for you. I’m so happy for you. They won’t forgive you and blame you for their fallout. It’s them! Not you.
nej cov me nus muag yeej txom nyem txaus lawm tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub nim no nej peem2 nej tsim txiaj tag lawm nej tas yuav nco txog ob niag niam txiv dab noj nyoog haus txia lim hiam ntawv lawm mog thaum nej tseem me2 yeej tsis hlub tsis nco txog nej lawm nim no niag laus2 yuav tuag muaj mob ho yuav rov los rau nej tu thiab nej so quav no ua li cas Sawv daws yuav pab niag maum dev ntawv txaj muag ua luaj li os hmoob
Tus me tub koj ua yog lawm os koj niam thiab txiv nkawd ua tsis yog lawm txhob rov mus coj nkawd los nrog neb nyob tsis zoo qhov twg lawm thiab tsis yuav nkawv los yeej tsis npam nawb .
😭😭😭😢😥
Cov niam txiv no txawv tiag2 li
Wow. That’s so sad. So much resentment and anger. Some parents are so disappointing and so are some children.
To the brother of this story, I think you’re a hero! You saved your mom’s life that day, but she’s too ungrateful to understand. I’m proud of you and your siblings and wish you all the best! Your parents were awful.
Very sad indeed, made me cry 😢...
Peb ua neeg nyob ces mua ib co leej niam ces lawv yeej xaiv tus txiv xwb tab sis muaj ib txhia lawv xaiv lawv cov me nyuam xwb, vim peb ua neeg nyob nyias muaj nyias siab nyias plawv ib tug tib tsis tau ib tug. Tab sis nej nyias twb ua nyias neej lawm tsis tas yuav quav ntsej txog nkawd li lawm os nkawd txawm yuav ciaj yuav tuag los xij nkawd ib yam li thaum nkawd tso nej tseg es nej yuav yuav ciaj yuav tuag los nkawd twb tsis care txog nej ned,
Lawv Tsi yuav yus los kiav liam mog yus peem yus os cov niam cov txiv zoo li ko kuj Tsi txog twg os
me kwv aw... koj ua yog lawm mus lawv dab es tsis txhob teev tiam haiv laig cov niag tsov tom phem ntawd lawm,
You are not in the wrong. I’m so glad you and your sibling thrived and have supportive friends and their family. Nothing but blessings to you and your siblings.
Kav tsij mus church xwb kom nej thiaj li nyob muaj pab pawg
Txhua yam pov kiag rau txoj hmoo xwb es thiaj ua tau yus kaj siab os tus me kwv tij. Nco ntsoov nyias yeej nqa nyias daim ntawv los ua neej xwb.
I’m so sorry you had to suffer for your parents stupidity. They were able to have you and your siblings but they let their selfishness ruined their family. You grew from this problem and overcame so many things in life. You deserve your achievements.
Koj niam koj txiv tsis yog niam txiv zoo nawb mog. Kuv tus kheej kuv yuav xaiv kuv me nyuam nawb hos tus txiv ces second choice. Koj niam yog ib tug poj niam tsis hlub tej me nyuam, nws xum xaiv nws niag txiv dev txiv tsis tsim txiaj. Tus nus koj txiv thiaj yog ib tug dab noj nyoo haus txias xwb hos koj tsis yog nawb mog. Hos koj cov txiv ntxawm los yog ib co neeg siab phem siab tsis zoo es thiaj tsis pab koj thiab, cov neeg zoo li no tsis tas mus saib lawm.
Me nus nej cov nus muag tsis txhaum os mog nej twb tsis tau ua li cas rau nkaw. Nkaw muaj nkaw kev chim es nkaw sib ceg sib ntau sib tua ces koj pab cheem li koj hais xwb qhov tseeb tiag nkaw yeej tsis xav yuav nej. Txhov tu siab os mog ua li cov laus 1 txwm hais os nyuj ntsuag tsis tuag es nyuaj ntsuag hlob tiav pwj, nej cov me nus muag ntsuag tsis tuag es hnub no nej loj hlob kawm txawj nte tag laum ces kav tsij hlub tus hlub2 nej lawm xwb. Nej niam thiab txiv ces forget about them now you don't need their help any more.
Yog koj zam tau txim no los txim zam tsis tau los npam tsis khaum. Koj yeej ua yog lawm txhob muab koj niam koj txiv tus cuj los coj
When I was 3 years old my dad thought it was ok to leave me sleeping in the car. Someone reported him and he got arrested in the store. My parents still blame me to this day. They have always guilt trip me until I had children of my own to realized he was wrong the entire time. I so small I had no idea it was his fault for leaving me there. I no longer feel any guilt, I was never their favorite because of that. You were young and scared brother. All these hmong parents should change their ways, and can't judge you because you were so young when you made that call.
tu me tub aw koj niam thiab koj txiv ob ntsej muag dab ko tseem phem tshaj dab lawm thiab tshawj xeeb tshaj yog koj niam koj niam yog ib niag poj niag xuab tshaj plaw yog ib niag neeg tsi muaj siab ntsw tsi muaj paj hlwb hlo li tsi txhob mu quav ntsej txog nw kiag koj niam yog ib niag neeg npam tsi txhob thab kiag, thaum nej tseem me me nej twb tsi tuag tam sim no nej twb muaj neej ta lawm yu tau zoo nyob ce nyob twb ywm xwb tsi txhob muab nej cov taub hau mu nkag rau nkawd txoj niag kev npam tsam nej ho npam raug nkawd thiab cia nkawd npam nkawd tu kheej xwb os mog 😭😭😭😭😭
Khub niam txiv no tuag los tau lawm.. ntxim ntxub tshaj.. twb tsi hlub nws cov me nyuam es hos yug ua dab tsi.. leej niam los tsi yog ib leej niam zoo li.. tsi xaiv me nyuam hos xum xaiv niag txiv dev liam li no
The parents do not deserve your love and support now. Let them live the life they have always wanted…
My heart breaks hearing your sad story. Your parents don’t deserve your love. May God bless you and your siblings.
Awe this is so sad. Just want to give you and your siblings a hug. You did the right thing. You protected your mother. Too bad she didnt see that. Your parents are not good parents. They dont deserve any kids. May you find peace and closure. One less thing to worry about. They didnt raise you so, you dont owe them anything. Be proud of your accomplishments and the life you build with your own two hands. Gob will continue to bless you.
Me tub Aw koj niam ces yog ib tug maum dev xwb os zoo li koj niam ces cia kom koj txiv muab tua kom tuag zoo dua os zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv ces muaj ib hnub kawg yuav ua qab ke Luag xwb kuv li kuv yeej ib txwm xaiv kuv cov me nyuam xwb me nyuam yeej yug tau Los mas tab sis tus txiv xwb twb yuav tau thiab Nev tus txiv twb tsis yog kuv li roj ntsha mas haj yam tsis sib hlub os!
Koj niam koj txiv tsis tas nug txog.
This is the sadest life of these 3 brothers and sister. I have tears in my eyes can not stop. You childreb did real good, leave your parents one day they will regret n they will look for you. Just ignore them like they ignore you is the best
Me tub tsis yog koj kaw koj txiv os yog koj cawm nws txoj sia xwb yog cia koj txiv tua kiag koj niam tuag lawm ces koj txiv haj yam nyob nkuaj tag nws ib sim naw,
Koj niam koj txiv mas lim hiam tshaj plaws!!! Koj tsuas pab cawm kom koj txiv txhob mag mus kaw tag tiam no hos kom koj niam tseem muaj txoj sia! Tu siab nrho yus nyob yus tsis kkk txog os! Qhov zoo tshaj ces txhob ntshaw nkawv ua niam ua txiv os lawm muab xav tias nkawv twb tuag xwb!!
Just. Wow.