Life As A Married Nigerian Woman 🇳🇬& Mum in Her 30’s| Making Sure To Properly Take Care Of My Home

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  • @Mstemitope
    @Mstemitope 45 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Well said, Bomsy... We all need to pray for ourselves as women. Women do a lot. This is just a reminder and wake-up video for women. Welldone Bomsy

  • @akarueseoludewa9187
    @akarueseoludewa9187 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless you Boma. People need to hear this.

  • @rosesmith6654
    @rosesmith6654 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Preach !

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You have said it all sis👌👌we should not forget ourselves and put yourself first in everything and anything❤

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
    @somoyesimileoluwa2283 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You see the lady at the background that said and you too to the bride when she was making that prayers chaiii may almighty God bless her❤❤❤❤

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen 🙏

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Every woman should put herself first because women go through a lot . Thanks, my darling.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen 🙏

  • @jumokefasaye4215
    @jumokefasaye4215 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well said ma❤💯

  • @uzopearl3848
    @uzopearl3848 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lol! She knows she needed the prayers too , I see nothing wrong in a woman praying for her husband , her only crime is that the prayer made it to social media which alot of us will not perceive it right. It is not that serious. We all pray for ourselves and our loved ones.❤

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There is even no crime in the prayers and I never said something is wrong with the prayers. , please don’t quote me out of context!!.. I went further to say I’m even guilty of always putting everyone else above me but I stop to think when do we women just start praying for ourselves as much as we do for the other people in our lives”.

  • @asmauhalidu1167
    @asmauhalidu1167 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Boma

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your welcome

  • @OlyoUdeoye
    @OlyoUdeoye วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really needed to hear this thanks mama

  • @okaforchisomofficial
    @okaforchisomofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks bomsy for finally speaking about this because i wonder too.
    Some men are now making it mandatory that their wives or girlfriends should" better be praying for me, if i blow then i go marry you or buy things for you".
    And when they eventually did not blow they will now say" this lady/ woman is a badluck in my life"
    .........
    Before i pray or impact on any man, i must invest in myself first incase if the man starts behaving abnormal, Atleast i will have somethings to fall back on.
    ..........
    Some men can be ungrateful 😢.
    We have to be very careful.
    I no a lady that always saves alot of money to buy gifts for her man( boyfriend) but can't buy common pants and bra for herself 😢, and at the end of the day the man left her saying" you are a very dirty girl"
    ......
    Bomsy i love you 3much
    You are just talking direct to me in the video and i pray God gives me the best man as husband tomorrow 😢. A man that will also pray for me not only me praying❤😢.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's so important to take care of ourselves first ❤️. This is such a valid response and it sheds more light into how society has conditioned us to take care of our men and forget ourselves.

  • @chinwenduejezie8699
    @chinwenduejezie8699 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Why does everything have to be on social media… and yes pray for yourself and your husband to… let the marriage be a blessing to you both oooo

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      The marriage is surely a blessing to both parties involved

  • @cheftoothpick
    @cheftoothpick 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Preach!!!! Preaaaach!!!!❤❤❤

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
    @somoyesimileoluwa2283 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bomsy you have said it all more wisdom ❤❤❤❤

  • @OlyoUdeoye
    @OlyoUdeoye วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The beauty wearing that fringe wig on the thumbnail just drew my attention 😩. You’re so pretty Bomsy.
    Back to the topic of the day, it’s sad that marriage favors men more, we have to learn to not lose ourselves cause it can happen so easily.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I know, but we got this sis! 🙌🏽

  • @VictoriaSm20
    @VictoriaSm20 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this message God bless you and ur family happy new month to you and ur family in Jesus Christ mighty name Amen

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! You too 🙏🏽

  • @NenyeTheBrand
    @NenyeTheBrand 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It is funny that I was literally having this conversation with someone just yesterday marriage favors the men more than the women I mean, we women we have a lot to lose we lose our body. We lose our freedom to actually do things that we like our life literally focuses on the man and, the children. 😊

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Like it’s truly sad, makes it so easy to loose ourselves, that’s why we are such in a constant battle to stay afloat

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes we women needs de prayer more

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Women need prayers more than men. God bless you for saying the truth .

  • @carolinehaynes7653
    @carolinehaynes7653 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This topic was spot on 👌🏾

  • @Precious_Nynth
    @Precious_Nynth 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bomsy, I totally understand where you are coming from, and why women put themselves behind is because by default we are nurturing beings. I tell people marriage is carved in a way where the women sacrifice more for the survival of a marriage. BUT in all DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT forget yourself ooooo.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly, we are so conditioned to look after everyone else asides ourselves.

  • @egobaby09
    @egobaby09 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is a very important lesson. Do not lose yourself as an individual.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh yes I agree

  • @theresaopokuma-fs3qs
    @theresaopokuma-fs3qs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you my dear, pray for your self good talk ❤❤❤

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen! 🙏🏽❤

  • @bolou_ere16
    @bolou_ere16 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don't ever lose yourself no matter what.

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bomsy I learned a lot 😘

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me I have 5 children in de Uk here but I don’t know myself hmmm it is well

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wooow! Sending you hugs n love

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These days, women should try and work to support the family. Take good care of yourself.

  • @toviaaustin
    @toviaaustin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @--sarahitodo
    @--sarahitodo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @olereigbanor7512
    @olereigbanor7512 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @jennifercookey6688
    @jennifercookey6688 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤