Tus sister. Yog kawg, you made the right decision. I was once in a relationship like that as well. Fortunately I left when we only had one child. I am glad that you left him when you did because things would never have changed and you could have died at any early age from working hard, being a mother, father and wife. I am truly happy for you. I hope that your story encourage other women to leave toxic relationships. Your health and mental health are more important than any pag pag. Best of luck to you and your new husband.
100% right. I agreed women need help with household chores when it's necessary. A couple has to share everything in both good and bad times. Not only on the bed😂
txawm pojniam Txiv neej los yeej zoo ib yam li...vim kev aib ua yog muaj los tuav kev feeling ntawm ob niam txoj kev pw tom txaj xwb ..tsis yog yuav siv los ua pag pag tas li es yuav tsis mus nrhiav noj nrhiav haus ...qhov ntawm yuav mus tsis txog twg li..❤❤🎉🎉
The man you married is a baby boy. You don’t need a person like this in your life. Yeej yog li koj hais don’t matter if it’s men or women, if you have a spouse that nagged all day long you have no feeling to sleep with them. Cem cem yus paum tu siab tag.
Txiv neej ces lawv xav tias yog sib ua tas li ces yog hlub lawm no Tab sis peb poj niam tsis xav li ntawd Peb ntshaw kom sib hlub , sib pab , thiab sib nkag siab.
You know what I dont really understand about that phrase, they expect to get treated like a king but what they don't understand is that even a king has so many subject working for him and yet these narcissistic men expect ONE single person to serve them 🙄🙄🙄
Pojniam hmoob siv tus cwjpwm 75 ces tsis hais nyob lub tebchaws twg yeej mag cov txiv dev liam tsuj. Nej tsis hloov nej tus cwjpwm 75 ces tuag tsis tuag xwb las as. Tsis lam muaj tibneeg pab tau nej ib zaug yog nej tsis rov pab nej
Kuv tsis siab nej cov tuaj cem cem neij txij nkawm phem phem, tiam sis yog vim li cas nej ho tsis kam nrauj? Neeg yeej muaj cov phem tas mus li, yog ntxub npaum no xes nrauj es mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Yog tsis kam nrauj, txhob tham tham. Tham ntau neeg yuav rov thuam yus xwb.
I was annoyed at the story at first. Annoyed, her mother advised her not to be too lazy 🙄 instead of telling her son in law to stop being so lazy. I'm glad u woke up and walked away from the marriage. I hope this story inspired women in the same situation to walk away from useless husbands. Most of all, I hope Hmong men learn a thing or two from this story and don't act like this loser king.
Ua cas lub ntuj yuav tsis muaj qhov muag li os. Muaj ntau khub niam txiv, tus niam zoo los tus txiv tsis zoo, tus txiv zoo los tus niam tsis zoo es nim yuav ua lub neej khuam ntab khuam ntuv li os 😢
Nws muaj dab tsi zoo cas koj ho nyiam ho mus yuav nws maj? Lawv tej laus ib txwm hais tias noj nceb yuav tau taug cav, mus yuav txiv yuav tau xaiv neej saib tsav no ne…Koj twb ua ke nrog koj tus txiv ntev npaum li cas lawm koj mam li mus yuav cas koj ho tsis pom nws txoj kev siab phem lim hiam? Yog yus nyob tsis taus nrog nws lawm ces ua lub good bye xwb os nawv nyob los pauv tsis ntxiv, qub neeg qub siab yuav hloov tsis tau mus rau txoj kev zoo.
Sis, your kids are so naughty because you your didn't did his job as a father for his children. He act like a King but don't know how to be a King. He just a dumb, dumb tried to be a King.
Aib thaub ruam aw. Ua lub PAG PAG tsis yog Kev hlub os. Yog Kev koj khaus qau dhau lawm xwb. Ua cuag lis yuav tsis tau sib txiag ntxiv lis lawm. Cias KOM ua ua KOM dej txiv neej tag es yuav tuag sai sai os. Neeg tub nkeeg es tsuas txawj sib aim xwb os.
Peb nyob mes kas no es cas koj ho tsis txawj qhia cai rau koj niag txiv siab phem ko es nws thiaj tau ua nai/king lawm. Yog koj pheej nyoo nws es cia nws ua nai li ko ces koj yeej yug los nkim tiam lawm xwb os. Txhiaj yam no yog tim koj xwb.
Mloog mas neb khub niam txiv ko tub nkeeg Liam sib xws. Nyuag tais dias xwb es nim ntxuav tsawg xuab moos naws. Ib tug poj niam tus vaj tus tsev musb me nyuam Das dej ua noj us haus. Ib tug txiv tsev txoj haujlwm kho vaj tsev txiav nyom kho tsheb. Neb tub nkeeg sib xws. Peb es me nyuam tuab tuab 2 leeg ua haujlwm full time kuv tus vaj tsev ua noj ua haus txhuas khaub ncaws tus saib me nyuam. Koj los khib khib ho koj niag txiv los nkees nkees neb sib xws tub nkeeg ib yam .
Typically, traditional dating; short dating without knowing one another well. Plus, traditional Hmong men don't like to do house chores. It's too bad, but I'm glad many men are moving away from that now.
@zoolikuv Traditional Hmong man do a lot of things around the house This dude is a lazy good for nothing like his white male counter part in America Traditional Hmong men ain't nothing like him
Tus sister. Yog kawg, you made the right decision. I was once in a relationship like that as well. Fortunately I left when we only had one child. I am glad that you left him when you did because things would never have changed and you could have died at any early age from working hard, being a mother, father and wife. I am truly happy for you. I hope that your story encourage other women to leave toxic relationships. Your health and mental health are more important than any pag pag. Best of luck to you and your new husband.
Yog Lo…. 💯💯💯
Yes, I agree 100%. sister 👍🏻🙏🏻
Txiv tub nkeeg thiab phe, tiam sis koj nyiam nyiam qhov pag pag koj thiaj tsis kam nrauj
100% right. I agreed women need help with household chores when it's necessary. A couple has to share everything in both good and bad times. Not only on the bed😂
Txitub nkeeg thiab phe, tiam sis koj nyiam nyiam qhov pag pag koj thiaj tsis kam nrauj
100% how women feel. The spousal support is love. Men need the pagpag to feel and get love 1st...
Aiiiyahh!!
Yeej yog lus kawg nkaus li.
Hais yog tshaj plaw li os!!! tsis pab hauj lwm nruab hnub ces hmo ntuj tsis muaj kev hlub. Txhua yam shut down tiag.
Hais yog kawg...cov txiv neej ib txhia yeej tsis paub txog pojniam lub Haibhaib li ho..kuv pom li ntawm ho...
Sister kuv nkag siab koj kawg kuv lub life ces zoo li koj lub thiab ua lub neej zoo li no mas tu siab tshaj plaws li
txawm pojniam Txiv neej los yeej zoo ib yam li...vim kev aib ua yog muaj los tuav kev feeling ntawm ob niam txoj kev pw tom txaj xwb ..tsis yog yuav siv los ua pag pag tas li es yuav tsis mus nrhiav noj nrhiav haus ...qhov ntawm yuav mus tsis txog twg li..❤❤🎉🎉
Wow koj mas tau ib niag txiv huab tais tiag lau!! Kev sov siab tom txaj chaw tsis txais tias yog kev hlub tag nrho nawb hais rau cov txiv tiam 75 paub os!
Story of my life. I need to find a new husband 🙄
Yes you go girl!!!
U do the right thing i a man but i do everything and help my wife my self after work i come home 1st thing in the kitchen
Peb muaj ntau khub niam txiv yeej muaj cov teeb meem no mas ..ua cov tsis kam tus niam cov hauj lwm lub neej nyuab kawg kiag .
Kuv yog ib tug Txiv tsev kuv ua hauj lwm txhua yam pab kuv tus poj Niam ho.
He is super man! U lucky
The man you married is a baby boy. You don’t need a person like this in your life. Yeej yog li koj hais don’t matter if it’s men or women, if you have a spouse that nagged all day long you have no feeling to sleep with them. Cem cem yus paum tu siab tag.
😂
😂😂😂😂right!
Yg kv ce kv yeej 5 yuav 1 tug txiv li ko li o
Nrauj kiag xb o yg niag txiv 5 hloov tiag na.
When i read the title i already knew it was about the “typical hmong men” 😂😂😂
Txiv neej ces lawv xav tias yog sib ua tas li ces yog hlub lawm no
Tab sis peb poj niam tsis xav li ntawd
Peb ntshaw kom sib hlub , sib pab , thiab sib nkag siab.
You like pa! Pa!! Why complain. 😂
Your husband is the king.
Some Hmong Men are Kingsss
You know what I dont really understand about that phrase, they expect to get treated like a king but what they don't understand is that even a king has so many subject working for him and yet these narcissistic men expect ONE single person to serve them 🙄🙄🙄
They are kings because some women train them that way. So why complain afterward.
The philosophy said" to move a mountain is easier than to change human being habit" the law of marriage is not jus one way street .
Yog lawm os
Aaaaaannnddd.....you're still married to him. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Pojniam hmoob siv tus cwjpwm 75 ces tsis hais nyob lub tebchaws twg yeej mag cov txiv dev liam tsuj. Nej tsis hloov nej tus cwjpwm 75 ces tuag tsis tuag xwb las as. Tsis lam muaj tibneeg pab tau nej ib zaug yog nej tsis rov pab nej
Kuv tsis siab nej cov tuaj cem cem neij txij nkawm phem phem, tiam sis yog vim li cas nej ho tsis kam nrauj? Neeg yeej muaj cov phem tas mus li, yog ntxub npaum no xes nrauj es mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Yog tsis kam nrauj, txhob tham tham. Tham ntau neeg yuav rov thuam yus xwb.
What a lazy guy…and still wanted more kids…idiot would think like that…😩!
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Cov niag txiv muaj2 sij hawm ua lub pag2 ces yog cov niag txiv tub nkeeg tsis muaj hom phiaj xwb peb poj niam tsis ntshaw tus txiv zoo li no na.
I was annoyed at the story at first. Annoyed, her mother advised her not to be too lazy 🙄 instead of telling her son in law to stop being so lazy. I'm glad u woke up and walked away from the marriage. I hope this story inspired women in the same situation to walk away from useless husbands. Most of all, I hope Hmong men learn a thing or two from this story and don't act like this loser king.
Cov txiv neej tsis vam meej thiaj li xav li niaj thaub no xwb os. Nws lub paj hlwb tseem tsis tau qoos thaum xyoo 75 los rau xyoo 2025 no.
Qhov pag pag no tsis ua hauj lwm 100 percent nawb....yog txawj lub pag pag xwb ces pab tsis tau
LOL tej zaum twb g txawj ua lub pag2 tsuas yog ua kom cov kab menyuam tawm Es tau zoo nyob xwb 😅
@@maimoua1371😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣yog tshaj yom!! Koj mas hais yog tshaj li
Ua cas lub ntuj yuav tsis muaj qhov muag li os. Muaj ntau khub niam txiv, tus niam zoo los tus txiv tsis zoo, tus txiv zoo los tus niam tsis zoo es nim yuav ua lub neej khuam ntab khuam ntuv li os 😢
Wear a metal underwear with lock 🔐. The lock can ONLY be open when he helps with the chores. 😂
Why do that when you can divorce him?
Lub pag pag tsis txaus koj xwb os, yog txaus ces koj yeej tsis complain li os, koj yeej luag ntxhi ua txhua yam lawm…
Txiv neej hmoob ruam
Nws muaj dab tsi zoo cas koj ho nyiam ho mus yuav nws maj? Lawv tej laus ib txwm hais tias noj nceb yuav tau taug cav, mus yuav txiv yuav tau xaiv neej saib tsav no ne…Koj twb ua ke nrog koj tus txiv ntev npaum li cas lawm koj mam li mus yuav cas koj ho tsis pom nws txoj kev siab phem lim hiam? Yog yus nyob tsis taus nrog nws lawm ces ua lub good bye xwb os nawv nyob los pauv tsis ntxiv, qub neeg qub siab yuav hloov tsis tau mus rau txoj kev zoo.
Kv ces yg ib tug yuav tau tus txiv cuag huab tais kiag li kj zaj no ntag lau
Sis, your kids are so naughty because you your didn't did his job as a father for his children. He act like a King but don't know how to be a King. He just a dumb, dumb tried to be a King.
Aib thaub ruam aw. Ua lub PAG PAG tsis yog Kev hlub os. Yog Kev koj khaus qau dhau lawm xwb. Ua cuag lis yuav tsis tau sib txiag ntxiv lis lawm. Cias KOM ua ua KOM dej txiv neej tag es yuav tuag sai sai os. Neeg tub nkeeg es tsuas txawj sib aim xwb os.
Tej tus txiv neej tub nkeeg li no ces kav tsij mus ua txiv ntiav xwb os.
Hahah😂
Who wants a lazy husband like that? Not I. U made the right choices by taking birth control pills n leaving him. Hooray!!!!
Peb nyob mes kas no es cas koj ho tsis txawj qhia cai rau koj niag txiv siab phem ko es nws thiaj tau ua nai/king lawm. Yog koj pheej nyoo nws es cia nws ua nai li ko ces koj yeej yug los nkim tiam lawm xwb os. Txhiaj yam no yog tim koj xwb.
Mloog mas neb khub niam txiv ko tub nkeeg Liam sib xws. Nyuag tais dias xwb es nim ntxuav tsawg xuab moos naws. Ib tug poj niam tus vaj tus tsev musb me nyuam Das dej ua noj us haus. Ib tug txiv tsev txoj haujlwm kho vaj tsev txiav nyom kho tsheb. Neb tub nkeeg sib xws. Peb es me nyuam tuab tuab 2 leeg ua haujlwm full time kuv tus vaj tsev ua noj ua haus txhuas khaub ncaws tus saib me nyuam. Koj los khib khib ho koj niag txiv los nkees nkees neb sib xws tub nkeeg ib yam
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The title. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sister koj hais yog kawg li lawm os peb xav tau ib tug txiv pab peb thiab
🤦♀️ boring story
What a toxic hmoob story!
Not the first one.
Our culture is very misogynistic so it’s not surprising that many Hmong families are toxic.
I don't like that word. There are better choices of words. Geeze.
nej cov poj niam mas nquag nquag tab sis tsis txawj ua pag pag los nej yuav bye bye thiab
yog ua lub pag pag los ua lub nploj nploj me?
Why did you marry him anyway from the beginning
Typically, traditional dating; short dating without knowing one another well. Plus, traditional Hmong men don't like to do house chores. It's too bad, but I'm glad many men are moving away from that now.
@zoolikuv Wrong, traditional Hmong men do a lot of thing, they do almost everything
This one is just a lazy as* motherfucccc
Probably like majority of the people, puppy love blinds all. Alot of people marry for just "love" and not personality, mentality, reality.
@zoolikuv Traditional Hmong man do a lot of things around the house
This dude is a lazy good for nothing like his white male counter part in America
Traditional Hmong men ain't nothing like him