I've had this revelation last year as a 21 yr old....tbh the reality is I came to the conclusion yes we want a nice person w a good heart but that person just gotta show u they have a backbone so u can respect them, as a girl I want someone nice but with a backbone that's all, show me ure busy at the start and u have an independent life, don't give ur heart all away but don't be too distant..just that perfect balance it has to be there.
I've had this revelation last year as a 21 yr old....tbh the reality is I came to the conclusion yes we want a nice person w a good heart but that person just gotta show u they have a backbone so u can respect them, as a girl I want someone nice but with a backbone that's all, show me ure busy at the start and u have an independent life, don't give ur heart all away but don't be too distant..just that perfect balance it has to be there.
this is actually really good advice from a girl perspective.