My main ick is when women ask subtle but probing questions to assess your financial status (yes, Christian women do this too). I've figured out just a few years ago that dating for some ladies is apparently not just about love, romance, respect, compatibility, etc.
I understand that. Women want to make sure that you can provide at some point, but I strongly believe there are a lot of women that take that way too far and care more about money and status than anything else.
Seeing you guys smile and listening to your wholesome laughter after what you've been through, fills my heart with pure joy. May you always rest in God's joy and peace. I love you Sam and Sadie❤
Absolutely love you both for being so encouraging, open, and honest about singleness and marriage and to relate to those struggling with issues surrounding these seasons of life!
It makes me happy to see you guys laughing and smiling together despite the circumstances you’ve been through recently. That’s the Lord strength pulling you through it!! Love y’all!!
I mean, I am a guy who shaves my armpits and chest (but keeps all the arm and leg hair untouched) hits me personally with that comment. I have persistent acne for over 10 years since I was a teenager that abscesses, and that needs to be treated directly on the skin with the antibiotics and other skin products. It’s more of an unseen skincare and disease that I am embarrassed to admit to a stranger rather than a preference to shave my armpits and chest. Needless to say, have some understanding and compassion people instead of just judging others and avoiding them out of an “ick” because Jesus teaches to imitate him when he went to the lepers, healed their skin physically, emotionally healed their trauma and rejection, and spiritually showed them the love of God through his actions.
I completely understand you being frustrated about that being an “ick” for somebody. The truth is, that everyone has different preferences, and I’m sure there are plenty of people that have the reverse ick of hairy armpits. I completely understand being self conscious about things, I used to have horrible ticks that made my face spasm a lot and it would have definitely hurt to feel like someone thought it was an ick. Whatever the case is, not everyone is gonna like everything about us, so it’s best to have a sense of humor about it when we can!
I have no money no home nothing to my name... I'm currently a nobody that live's of their parents. Used to be an alcoholic and somewhat of a drug addict. Found Christ a in the end of last year. It's hard to become a normal human being again. I can't find work but i'm doing a voluntary job mostly to gain experience so i can hopefully start making money some day. I'm also farming my granpas back yard, I've been tryin to make it productive so i can feed my family and repay them in that way. I do understand why that's a big ick... I'm just gratefull for all that christ and my family have done for me.
One of my biggest icks besides being full of yourself is a bit of a silly one. When people breathe through their nose and you can hear it whistle. It drives me insane 😂
My picks are in hygiene, if they have obsessive possessive behavior, masculine behavior from a woman. Since I’m a man, I love feminine women with a bubbly personality, if they show up not all dressed up. If they are showing up in sweats,I feel like they aren’t even trying to make a good impression, they just want to hook up or want something casual.
Most men's deodorant gives me a bad headache. Obviously bad BO is problematic, but we actually make choices based on pheromones so it's kinda Russian roulette if you're masking your real smell all the time.
Oh yes! So agree with you!!! Obviously you don’t want him all stinky but natural smells are so much better. Plus all the chemicals in the fake smelling ones are so bad for the health!!
Women only care for money, status, power and whether or not you're hot and attractive. Unless i win the lottery im looking at life alone. I also want a virgin despite not being one myself. Some people would claim being alone is better and i respectfully disagree. Those people tend to be married already and look at singles as lepers. Money, status, power and looks. Thats what gets you a date much less a marriage. If you have none then like our ancestors, natural selection will win. Survival of the fittest. Only the strong genetics carry on, the rest are stamped out and forgotten.
My main ick is when women ask subtle but probing questions to assess your financial status (yes, Christian women do this too). I've figured out just a few years ago that dating for some ladies is apparently not just about love, romance, respect, compatibility, etc.
I understand that. Women want to make sure that you can provide at some point, but I strongly believe there are a lot of women that take that way too far and care more about money and status than anything else.
Seeing you guys smile and listening to your wholesome laughter after what you've been through, fills my heart with pure joy. May you always rest in God's joy and peace. I love you Sam and Sadie❤
We love you too!! This was definitely a fun and refreshing video to record! 😃
Absolutely love you both for being so encouraging, open, and honest about singleness and marriage and to relate to those struggling with issues surrounding these seasons of life!
Yeah, Sadie looks much more relaxed
Another one of my biggest icks is that when a man comments negatively about a woman’s looks to the woman
Hmmm, what's wrong with carrying a lunchbox? 😂 If he uses it to carry his lunch for work that's better than going out to eat all the time.
Oh I agree 😂 I think I was just envisioning a young child’s lunch box. I personally have just used Tupperware in a backpack lol
It makes me happy to see you guys laughing and smiling together despite the circumstances you’ve been through recently. That’s the Lord strength pulling you through it!! Love y’all!!
I mean, I am a guy who shaves my armpits and chest (but keeps all the arm and leg hair untouched) hits me personally with that comment. I have persistent acne for over 10 years since I was a teenager that abscesses, and that needs to be treated directly on the skin with the antibiotics and other skin products. It’s more of an unseen skincare and disease that I am embarrassed to admit to a stranger rather than a preference to shave my armpits and chest. Needless to say, have some understanding and compassion people instead of just judging others and avoiding them out of an “ick” because Jesus teaches to imitate him when he went to the lepers, healed their skin physically, emotionally healed their trauma and rejection, and spiritually showed them the love of God through his actions.
I completely understand you being frustrated about that being an “ick” for somebody. The truth is, that everyone has different preferences, and I’m sure there are plenty of people that have the reverse ick of hairy armpits. I completely understand being self conscious about things, I used to have horrible ticks that made my face spasm a lot and it would have definitely hurt to feel like someone thought it was an ick. Whatever the case is, not everyone is gonna like everything about us, so it’s best to have a sense of humor about it when we can!
I have no money no home nothing to my name... I'm currently a nobody that live's of their parents. Used to be an alcoholic and somewhat of a drug addict. Found Christ a in the end of last year. It's hard to become a normal human being again. I can't find work but i'm doing a voluntary job mostly to gain experience so i can hopefully start making money some day. I'm also farming my granpas back yard, I've been tryin to make it productive so i can feed my family and repay them in that way. I do understand why that's a big ick... I'm just gratefull for all that christ and my family have done for me.
3:04 BRO I FEEL LIKE I ACCIDENTALLY CHEW LOUD PLEASSSSEEEEEE WE CANT STOPPP
One of my biggest icks besides being full of yourself is a bit of a silly one. When people breathe through their nose and you can hear it whistle. It drives me insane 😂
My picks are in hygiene, if they have obsessive possessive behavior, masculine behavior from a woman. Since I’m a man, I love feminine women with a bubbly personality, if they show up not all dressed up. If they are showing up in sweats,I feel like they aren’t even trying to make a good impression, they just want to hook up or want something casual.
Lunchbox? How else am I supposed to not eat out at work every day? 😂
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Enjoyed watching this!
We’re so glad to hear that Amy! Thanks for watching!
@@samandsadie You are welcome.
I'm laughing so hard at your reaction to my ick 😂
“The biggest piece of cringe.” 😂🤣🤣🤣
The gym, Luch box, and shaved armed pits icks are very insecure. It would be a red flag for me if someone had those icks
Most men's deodorant gives me a bad headache. Obviously bad BO is problematic, but we actually make choices based on pheromones so it's kinda Russian roulette if you're masking your real smell all the time.
Oh yes! So agree with you!!! Obviously you don’t want him all stinky but natural smells are so much better. Plus all the chemicals in the fake smelling ones are so bad for the health!!
7:37 bro what’s wrong with being hairless that’s a win T_T
i can tell this is gonna trigger me
SAME IT ALREADY DID LOLLOL
For me I prefer guys not having forests out of their armpits 😂
But deforestation is bad for the environment.
@@My_God_is_Jahovah Controlled burning is a thing, sometimes it's healthier to remove trees
@tangerinefruit7205 Yes, that is true. But I feel sorry for the forest's inhabitants.
A cringy thing i think is those couples that touch foreheads, arms between them on the chest, whisperimg or giggling. It drives me nuts!!
Women only care for money, status, power and whether or not you're hot and attractive. Unless i win the lottery im looking at life alone. I also want a virgin despite not being one myself.
Some people would claim being alone is better and i respectfully disagree. Those people tend to be married already and look at singles as lepers.
Money, status, power and looks. Thats what gets you a date much less a marriage. If you have none then like our ancestors, natural selection will win. Survival of the fittest. Only the strong genetics carry on, the rest are stamped out and forgotten.