Good morning team LN. Thank you so much for tuning in. What message do you have for Idah? This video is proudly powered by Optiven, to own a property with them, please reach their customer desk on 0790 300 300 or directly call Faith Esther on 0740 290 619. Feel free to also connect with us via lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com Thank you so much for watching:)
Hello Lynn . If you can be able to bring Gaterina of the famous show in Inooro Tv she's a great lady having passed through depression and a lot to teach us especially through fame and down due to life issues tu. Thanks in advance
I am so proud of you .it's taken you years to heal 😭. Thank you for saving lives because I know you are .I love you so much 🙏. Lynn we love you so much,God bless you for this platform.
She a strong person ...l like that she has set an example to the young persons who don't know what to do in the same situation...she has taught us to stand up to what we believe
I am so overwhelmed by all the love and encouragement! It’s crazy that most of us have the same story with abuse! I pray that each and every one of us is able to get past it and reclaim our joy! We deserve better! We’d rather be called names and ridiculed for leaving than be a hashtag after we’ve lost our lives! I truly thank all of you for being so gracious and Lynn for such an amazing platform! God bless you all ❤️
She is a very good storyteller between the crying and laughing this was a roller coaster. But I am thankful to God for the strength He has given Idah to share this with us. As a young lady I am educated and inspired ! Thank you Idah and Lynn.❤
She said that because she was 21 she did know enough to see the sign and her ignorance caused her to put up with it for way to long and to not listen to her own mother's advice.
One thing that stands out in this conversation is that no matter what Idah went through with her marriage and the church, her relationship with God is still intact. 🙏🙏
I can't imagine I've cried throughout her whole story, I'm turning 21 on Thursday and I've learnt alot, atleast you've helped me not to make mistakes, and you have a very beautiful voice btw, I also want to be an actress 🥺🥺I just don't know how to start... But thanks for your touching story... I love you already
Her voice is beautiful and strong Her command of English language is wonderful And her story makes us all empathetic Teaches us to remove the veil of the church and know God on our own
God bless Idah's strength and courage. She went through the fire and survived and now thrives. I'm truly glad she told her story! You never know what ears they may reach to those who need to know 1. Do not feel shame 2. You are not alone and most importantly 3. You have every right to walk away! Peace with you. ❤️
Triggers going off everywhere! Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. I was blessed enough to dodge a bullet. We live. We grow. We learn. Spirituality over Religion. You are so bubbly and life giving, no one should ever dim that light.
Idah is such a beauty in and out.Havi ng interacted with her during childhood I also asked the same question she asked,Idah mwenye nilikuwa najua utotoni would not take this bulshit sorry to say coz alikuwa kinda tough,but I thank God for the woman she is today,coz out to the hard times,a gem came out.She is such an inspiration to many,I included.
Just watching this after getting out of a one year relationship with a mental, emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend, he only started showing this side to him when she moved in together in the beginning of the year, the fact that your story just got recommended to me is a big sign that I made the right decision. Thank you for sharing your story and standing up for you. I wish you all the happiness you can get cause you deserve it
She's so eloquent I love her vibe I remember watching her wedding in wedding show with Nonny Gathoni. .... anyway coming home from a failed marriage is better than coming home in a coffin
Who else is laughing and crying the same time ,she has gone through so much but is still full of humor,and her voice is iconic,Thank God your at a better place idah ❤️
Yess and she narrates it in humour. Lyn too had a great flow with her. I just love happy women. As for the man who had married her may he never know peace.
This is what most women go through in their relationships. They suffer in silence. I'm glad that Idah was able to speak up on behalf of all those women.
Idah thanks for sharing this very touching story of your life. Many women are staying in abusive marriages for 'the sake of children' without understanding how much damage they are doing to themselves n the children as well. This is very enlightening. May God continue to uphold you by His grace.
I listened to Pascal Tokodi's wife when she called off her first wedding...when I see Grace Ekirapa today....I feel it was worth it. I won't get myself into something Iam still doubting. Thank you Ida for coming out.
Thank you Idah Alisha - I have learnt a new phrase from you - "Trauma Bonding" - i will include this in the counselling sessions we give to singles wanting to be in a relationship and couples planning to wed
Hey Kim, glad to know you have a chance to help people to avoid such suffering. It would be nice if you study trauma in detail. It's not just a phrase but a complex phenomena, a reason why the majority stick in domestic abuse. You can't just apply, you need to understand. Trauma healing should happen beforehand. During premarital counseling such patterns should be applied. Unfortunately most people don't get that kind of help. They first get into trouble only to learn later
If you do this regularly, please read and always have on hand: 1.Things I wish I'd known before we got married by Gary Chapman 2. Jesus, the gentle parent 3. Leslie Vernick's books 4. Lundy Bancroft's inside the minds of angry and controlling men 5. The body keeps the score 6. Esther Perel books/content 7. Non violent communication Marshall B. Rosenberg 8. Whole Again by Jackson Mackenzie Nimemaliza... For now 😂😂😂. Usinichukulie vibaya but I find that we Kenyan family, friends and the church in particular hatujielimishi kwa mambo haya. We should not continue perishing for lack of (readily available) knowledge. And I hope one or 2 may also benefit from these. Baraka kwako na Mungu abariki kazi ya mikono yako Kimani
Also was married at 18 to a narcissist but ithank God i finally got the courage to walking away,am 23 now and a mom to a five year old and my choice was the best gift i ever gave myself and my daughter.
I just love her voice and the way she is expressing herself with the correct choice of words. Na fans wa lynn ebu wacheni wivu ,if you like it crown it .
I really resonated with you when you said,"if you are raised up in an abusive family,you either become an abuser or a victim." Girl am genuinely happy for you. You are an overcomer and so much more.
I love Idah's career story. What I have learned from her is that when an opportunity arise I need to give my all 'cause you never know how far your ideas will take you. More to that, I love her personality. She is a strong Lady.
U can listen to Idah 365 days over n over again,she is such a vibe.I have really learnt alot from her.Thanx alot for sharing,much💖Thanx Lynn for letting this gal pour her heart ❤️
This is so encouraging, l love Idah energy and confidence ,, Lyn please talk about ladies who have children, trying to make things work in a relationship but they are not working as expected even after giving their best
I understand why zulu says the reason as why a lady should start thinking marriage when you are past 25 yrs.Makes alot of sense now .Sorry for what you had to go through and thank God you are stronger and sharing to inspire lot of people.
This is so encouraging at the right time.. thanks for sharing your story Idah, truly love can mess someone mentally when they dealing with a narcissist . keep soaring high beautiful
my ex was the same way, he used to slap me kwa road nikisalimiwa na mwanaume, I left the moment he took a harmer to beat me but it knocked the wall ... its now one year after i left and I also used to dream of him attacking me but i thank God he restored me am now happy and strong...Can never allow someone abusive in my life kama huniwezi tembeza
I'm 21 and Idah I love your story. You showing up and talking about this has really made me realize that marriage and church don't have to mean everything in life and from here onwards I'm confident enough to say No I don't want marriage if I'm not ready. God bless
This here in my story.. unfortunately it broke me, I got mental disorder but through the pain God still is faithful. I walked away just as she did with my two sons.... His family told me "tumekupa 6 months ukule shida! Njaa itakurudisha...." Its been years and God ni yule msee
i went through GBV for 3yrs in my marriage til he almost killed me the day i left i never looked back. Thanks Idah for leaving and saying leaving is very ok
Idah has walked in faith and turned out to be the best version of herself may God continue taking her to greater heights ❤❤❤❤❤Lynn & Idahs friends may God bless you all ❤❤❤
I've been through exactly the same, got married at 21 to the most narcissistic man I've ever known. To make matters worse he was the one making money and I had no job. I also had to move out of Kenya coz he was stalking me and even harassing my friends. I know better now! Thanks @Idah Alisha for sharing your story.
my story too ,married at 22 he was 29 n was soooo abusive for 9 good years wah its now 6 years since i left n wah this life u can just loose your life for society
Hey Lynn it's a pleasure to listen to Idah, especially now that she's our heroine, she a representation of some of us who also walked out at a very young age. At your own time, I'd like to tell my story on your channel and encourage young women on the importance of moving out. I personally lost myself, my child taken away, suffered with depression and ended up in drugs. Being married to a cop character debeloped me real bad. I am doing better now and no longer depending on alcohol
This is such a beautiful story even though full of pain and tears. This gal Idah has a big heart full of gratitude and the sky will not even be her limit. God bless you two.
Idah's story is so enlightening and a great inspiration to many ladies who have been made to question their worth and are in toxic relationships. I pray that ladies find the courage to walk out of toxic relationships. And of course, having a great support system like Idah's is the best blessing in life.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words and that's what your friends did to you I salute them all
My sister went through something like that, years of emotional abuse and months of physical abuse. She has two boys, when she decided to leave, her life changed. First thing I noticed was how shocked she was by her support system, especially our mum. Our mum is a single mum as well and she never knew what my sister was going through, but the minute she did, she was so supportive. I don’t know what my sister was expecting, but the support surprised her. As Africans, we shy away from emotional conversations, even telling family we love them and we'll be there for them no matter what. I think this needs to change. This may be why people go through hell for years, all alone.
We shy away and sometimes it's because not everyone will be understanding and supportive. In my case I was the talk of the family. Most of my relatives would see me and give me that disapproving look, talk about me without regard for my feelings and the fact that I had turned to alcohol was their only focus. No one wanted anything to do with me even after all the support I had accorded them through the years. My aunts would tell their grown up children not to hang out or talk to me cos nitawafunza tabia mbaya ( meaning watakua alcoholic kama mimi) . All in all God healed me and now I am happily single, healthy and wiser.
@@nekesamapesa I'm happy for you. My family, that is our other sister, mum and I enveloped our sister and nephews with so much love and support. Alafu we didn't even tell the extended family, she told whoever she wanted to know. Mtu akijaribu sijui nini, tunamkomesha. Extended fam will of course be messy and nasty abt it, but if your parents especially, are there for you. I saw with my sis that it really helps. I'm sorry for the crap you went through and I'm glad and proud of you for prevailing. Hug from an internet sister 🤗
I really relate to you both i have been there the beating even in front of my kidz this sad I'm happy you left i too left n am grateful to my pastor, bff Mariam n sharleen n mum who were my support till date thanks for sharing
I wish mom could support me..i was to live today morning...i packed my belongings n called to know if she could pick my kids from town,,cz was reporting to work but oops...my family had changed their mind.Am told i need to stay for my kids to have a father, this is the same father who is abusive to my kids emotionally..He told my First born ww utakua na maisha mbaya Sana..Mimi c Baba yako😭😭
Wooow wooow extremly proud of u Idah thnx for sharing .ive learnt alot may God ol women out there strong enough to leave from thos toxic marriages .glad u did. Wooow am amazed .
Lynn as you keep gracing us with such moving yet educative stories, I suggest you purpose to see your therapist atleast once a month or after every story that weighs you down. You are human and traumas, anxieties, stress and depression are real. The public loves you and over 90% of those that visit your channel resonates with your content with appreciation. It's not good to lose you to anything that can affect you negatively. I love you and your content 100%. Keep it up gal
I can't believe she was going through all that and she managed to appear on our screens ❤ thanks for sharing your story Olive🖐let's show love her love team LNN❤
This is more like my story but mine was worse , I couldn’t stop crying listening to this and the part that you hit the rock bottom and you can only rise up from there , am great full I left too and I left the country too , it’s a healing process a day at a time , thank you Lynn for the platform
She is so beautiful,and eloquent. Brave of you to have shared this Idah. It is sad,that the bodies put in place to help victims fail them so much. Some police officers will even joke to you about it.
Its been two years since i left my baby dady and toxic relationships does nt mean physical only but emotional and mental. I really needed to be the best version for my son and i felt i was drowning mentally from my relationship. Thank you Idah for sharing your story
Idah's story has relieved me in one way or another.Nothing feels bad like getting married to a narcissist.The world will judge you like they did to me but i chose peace for the sake of my daughter.I'm a divorcee and i don't regret.. happier being a single mother rather than being married to a toxic person 💯
As you have said. You have God's favour. That's why you had challenges. Your future is much brighter. Being on screens looked beautiful on you. Your friends are great too. Have more peace.
Hi sis proud of you,am asingle mum of 2 and had a narcissist husband for 8 years wooii I lost my sanity but am happy now and very peaceful after he kanyangad kubwa kubwa
I love how Lynn said we take our time to forgive this pastor. I love your energy Lynn. You are 100%. Thank you Idah for being so genuine and authentic in your sharing. I'm so happy for your healing.
I love the show🔥, I love her vibe, I love her voice, I can listen to you all day long. Idah girl! You are authentic. I appreciate the vulnerability . You are amazing!
For those of us who can relate with so much. Those of us who were harshly judged by society for walking out of marriage. The silent battles we had to fight and still put a fake smile to just show the world we are doing okay, salute!
I always enjoy watching your videos. I have not ndergone any form of abuse or been in an abusive family,but I have learned A LOT from your stories.Can't wait to hear your story Lynn. Please do something 😊
Idah Alicia…. You are a wonderful person and I’m really grateful to lynn n you. What stands out is Alicia’s boldness in telling her story and how she has overcome. Love you guys.😘😘
I have been bitten before with a person who raped me at 16 for saying that he was my boyfriend, got raped again at 21 I don't see men the same, am afraid of them. I got born again and stood till now. Idah this is so inspiring am very sorry for what you went through, you are so beautiful and pretty to go through that am very sorry. I got a fiancee when I met him I healed a lot he is in Qatar very young, handsome and kind. I 💖 him, it's a journey to heal. Thank you for your inspiring story God bless you.😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏😇😇
By far this has been the best interview i have watched in a while and has really been an eye opener. Thank you so much Idah for being vulnerable . You have really inspired me cz i was really at my lowest mentally!! God bless you!
Good morning team LN. Thank you so much for tuning in.
What message do you have for Idah?
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Thank you so much for watching:)
Idah your beautiful 🥰
Hello Lynn . If you can be able to bring Gaterina of the famous show in Inooro Tv she's a great lady having passed through depression and a lot to teach us especially through fame and down due to life issues tu. Thanks in advance
Sad story and also funny 🤣🤣🤣😳
I am going through the same and looking for a way to overcome. Everyone says I have a problem in the mist of many toxic people
Idah you are beautiful inside and outside ♥️
I am so proud of you .it's taken you years to heal 😭. Thank you for saving lives because I know you are .I love you so much 🙏. Lynn we love you so much,God bless you for this platform.
and Kate you have been a true friend to her!
We need friends like you Kate you did a great job May God bless you🙏🏻
Friends like Kate ❣️
Hi Katey 😘
Kate actress receive all the love 💜💜
Who else lowkey loves Idah's voice?😍😍
Meeee🤭🤭🤭
It's literally obsessive
Yooh😍
not low key for me,I love such voices, beautiful
It's obsessing
I went through the same with a youth chairman for 2 years, it's God that I'm here writing this. We thank God for you Idah!
Hope Idah will know that she has just saved thousands of lives.
❤️❤️❤️
She a strong person ...l like that she has set an example to the young persons who don't know what to do in the same situation...she has taught us to stand up to what we believe
I have been there still am.....I completely agree. More women need to come out by God's grace. May God heal whoever reading this
I am so overwhelmed by all the love and encouragement! It’s crazy that most of us have the same story with abuse! I pray that each and every one of us is able to get past it and reclaim our joy! We deserve better!
We’d rather be called names and ridiculed for leaving than be a hashtag after we’ve lost our lives! I truly thank all of you for being so gracious and Lynn for such an amazing platform!
God bless you all ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story ❤.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️it's very inspiring
God bless you Idah! Thank you for being brave with your story. You have touched many souls🤝
Your story 🥺is just so inspiring. Thanks for sharing it🥺❤️.You are truly the real definition of "strong" 🥺❤️.
Thanks for sharing.
Her English is bomb... Talk of her voice... Let's all agree we can listen to her speak all day
She could be a good voice on radio too if not yet there already.
Kuongea n humor ka za cate kabisa
It's like am watching cate they have alot in common
You know aaaaw sweet 😊
She's a whole vibe!!!
She is a very good storyteller between the crying and laughing this was a roller coaster. But I am thankful to God for the strength He has given Idah to share this with us. As a young lady I am educated and inspired ! Thank you Idah and Lynn.❤
Abuse didn't happen because you were 21,it actually happened because the man was abusive.
She said that because she was 21 she did know enough to see the sign and her ignorance caused her to put up with it for way to long and to not listen to her own mother's advice.
'Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.' - Maya Angelou
True
Powerful peace beautiful
I love this
True
Amen
One thing that stands out in this conversation is that no matter what Idah went through with her marriage and the church, her relationship with God is still intact. 🙏🙏
very key
wow....
Church people can be evil but not God. It's important to understand that.
True
Her mum raised her in Godly ways
You don't know how much your opening up has done to the world.thanks Idah thanks Lynn
I can't imagine I've cried throughout her whole story, I'm turning 21 on Thursday and I've learnt alot, atleast you've helped me not to make mistakes, and you have a very beautiful voice btw, I also want to be an actress 🥺🥺I just don't know how to start... But thanks for your touching story... I love you already
Nakwambia am also 21 but it’s good we are out here getting what we need
Her voice is beautiful and strong
Her command of English language is wonderful
And her story makes us all empathetic
Teaches us to remove the veil of the church and know God on our own
I love 💕 to be like u
Why is this lady not on radio? Her voice just wants you to keep listening 🎧.
True😃
English please English
Ako radio huko majuu.....
Very true
And vibes too
God bless Idah's strength and courage. She went through the fire and survived and now thrives. I'm truly glad she told her story! You never know what ears they may reach to those who need to know 1. Do not feel shame 2. You are not alone and most importantly 3. You have every right to walk away! Peace with you. ❤️
Triggers going off everywhere! Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. I was blessed enough to dodge a bullet. We live. We grow. We learn. Spirituality over Religion. You are so bubbly and life giving, no one should ever dim that light.
Power to all the women who walk away from abusive relationships. Love should never be toxic.
Same to men
Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣 ntakufa nkiwa 78
Aki this is so my story
@@leahwanjiku3566 This is why men do not and will never come out and say their shit because all they get is ridicule :) .
Idah is such a beauty in and out.Havi ng interacted with her during childhood I also asked the same question she asked,Idah mwenye nilikuwa najua utotoni would not take this bulshit sorry to say coz alikuwa kinda tough,but I thank God for the woman she is today,coz out to the hard times,a gem came out.She is such an inspiration to many,I included.
Watu wenye tulifanya Kifo kisimani, Utengano and The River Between 💯 pita na like 👍. It was awesome ✅
Best set books
@@lindagatwiri869 yess
Just watching this after getting out of a one year relationship with a mental, emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend, he only started showing this side to him when she moved in together in the beginning of the year, the fact that your story just got recommended to me is a big sign that I made the right decision. Thank you for sharing your story and standing up for you. I wish you all the happiness you can get cause you deserve it
Pole kagendo
Walking away from abusive marriage is always the best decision
Coz this people never change no matter how many times they apologize
They even have a lovely way to package the apology nkt!
A broken engagement is better than marrying the wrong person.
A broken marriage is better than lying in Langata.
Kudos for walking away!!
You can say this again I relate a lot to this story but thank God the wedding never happened 🙏🙏
That's true
Be blessed with this th-cam.com/video/ppPIiGHhSO/w-d-xo.html
What about prostitution and cheating??? 🤷♀️
@@kathleendonna5550 why are Soo bitter have read your comments it's about time you understand that abuse is real stop demonizing the victim
She's so eloquent I love her vibe I remember watching her wedding in wedding show with Nonny Gathoni. .... anyway coming home from a failed marriage is better than coming home in a coffin
Idah, you are the defination of STRENGTH. Thank you for shairing your story it has really inspired me
Oh Ida😭😭, your story is really inspirational, thank you for sharing, we all are healing ❤️
The fact that her relationship with God is still intact after all that is everything!
I also love that. Her faith is Intact ❤️🙏
Who else is laughing and crying the same time ,she has gone through so much but is still full of humor,and her voice is iconic,Thank God your at a better place idah ❤️
Yess and she narrates it in humour. Lyn too had a great flow with her. I just love happy women. As for the man who had married her may he never know peace.
Me here mehn she is strong
I 💯
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true
As young,and stunning she is,some men
This is what most women go through in their relationships. They suffer in silence. I'm glad that Idah was able to speak up on behalf of all those women.
Women should have the courage to get out to listen to the society
Idah thanks for sharing this very touching story of your life. Many women are staying in abusive marriages for 'the sake of children' without understanding how much damage they are doing to themselves n the children as well. This is very enlightening. May God continue to uphold you by His grace.
I listened to Pascal Tokodi's wife when she called off her first wedding...when I see Grace Ekirapa today....I feel it was worth it. I won't get myself into something Iam still doubting. Thank you Ida for coming out.
Recently a Nigerian lady called off her wedding and refunded all expenses used
Where's the interview, I would love to listen to it?
Leaving/quitting marriage is the hardest but worthy decision. Thank you both Lynn for the platform and Idah for sharing your story
Thank you Idah Alisha - I have learnt a new phrase from you - "Trauma Bonding" - i will include this in the counselling sessions we give to singles wanting to be in a relationship and couples planning to wed
Involve me
@@faithmwendwa9276 - how can i involve you? How can i reach you
Hey Kim, glad to know you have a chance to help people to avoid such suffering. It would be nice if you study trauma in detail. It's not just a phrase but a complex phenomena, a reason why the majority stick in domestic abuse. You can't just apply, you need to understand. Trauma healing should happen beforehand. During premarital counseling such patterns should be applied. Unfortunately most people don't get that kind of help. They first get into trouble only to learn later
If you do this regularly, please read and always have on hand:
1.Things I wish I'd known before we got married by Gary Chapman
2. Jesus, the gentle parent
3. Leslie Vernick's books
4. Lundy Bancroft's inside the minds of angry and controlling men
5. The body keeps the score
6. Esther Perel books/content
7. Non violent communication Marshall B. Rosenberg
8. Whole Again by Jackson Mackenzie
Nimemaliza... For now 😂😂😂.
Usinichukulie vibaya but I find that we Kenyan family, friends and the church in particular hatujielimishi kwa mambo haya. We should not continue perishing for lack of (readily available) knowledge. And I hope one or 2 may also benefit from these.
Baraka kwako na Mungu abariki kazi ya mikono yako Kimani
Also was married at 18 to a narcissist but ithank God i finally got the courage to walking away,am 23 now and a mom to a five year old and my choice was the best gift i ever gave myself and my daughter.
I just love her voice and the way she is expressing herself with the correct choice of words. Na fans wa lynn ebu wacheni wivu ,if you like it crown it .
There's so much resemblance between Idah and Cate especially how they both speak and i totally love these two women , it is good to hear her story
This is the comment I was looking for
Me too. I was wondering why no one is seeing the resemblance
My thoughts exactly
Exactly, I noticed the same before reading the comments
My thought too. Hadi humor ni zile tu za cate na kuongea kiuk in btwn conver
I love the fact that she embraces the simple things in life. That's how it should be.
1a
I'm so sorry for what Idah went through. I thank God she has healed and able to tell her story. She is such a strong woman.
I really resonated with you when you said,"if you are raised up in an abusive family,you either become an abuser or a victim."
Girl am genuinely happy for you.
You are an overcomer and so much more.
I can connect
God is great .you are so beautiful am happy for you coz you never loss hope. I like the show.
No one is taking about her voice weeh💖💯🥳
Thats wonderfully God is good am happy for you go gal that is a testimony all this yrs God was there with you know you are here be still am God
She speaks so beautifully and she's such a character, a whole vibe. So much love.
I love Idah's career story. What I have learned from her is that when an opportunity arise I need to give my all 'cause you never know how far your ideas will take you. More to that, I love her personality. She is a strong Lady.
U can listen to Idah 365 days over n over again,she is such a vibe.I have really learnt alot from her.Thanx alot for sharing,much💖Thanx Lynn for letting this gal pour her heart ❤️
I love that Lynn is such a keen and avid listener. She's also empathetic, she always have a place in her heart for everyone. God bless you so much.❤️
A whole story told by a beautiful soul with a beautiful voice...Mothers should live forever to receive us back when we cannot take it anymore🤲
Ameeen
This is so encouraging, l love Idah energy and confidence ,, Lyn please talk about ladies who have children, trying to make things work in a relationship but they are not working as expected even after giving their best
Wow! Idah, your story! its so inspiring and will heal many hearts, am proud of you. May God carry you through the next seasons of your life!
I understand why zulu says the reason as why a lady should start thinking marriage when you are past 25 yrs.Makes alot of sense now .Sorry for what you had to go through and thank God you are stronger and sharing to inspire lot of people.
Grew up watching her on TV . She’s so beautiful.. it’s so sad hearing what she went through. Glad she’s at a better place now ♥️
Yeah May God fight for us 🙏🙏
Yes she looks familiar aki 🤔
Hi my favourite couples
Wow Annette nice seeing you here kwa Lyn 😀
Hey Annette good to see you here ulitoka ushago ☺️
This is so powerful🔥🔥I am 21 too currently and I also feel young to get married...
You are really enlightening many of us Ida..
And your voice🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is so encouraging at the right time.. thanks for sharing your story Idah, truly love can mess someone mentally when they dealing with a narcissist . keep soaring high beautiful
my ex was the same way, he used to slap me kwa road nikisalimiwa na mwanaume, I left the moment he took a harmer to beat me but it knocked the wall ... its now one year after i left and I also used to dream of him attacking me but i thank God he restored me am now happy and strong...Can never allow someone abusive in my life kama huniwezi tembeza
To every woman who've walked away from an abusive marriage,just know you are so brave and strong... congratulations to us all... it's well😍
We deserve medals 🏅 sis with God and prayers we will be fine 🙂 🙏 🥰😍
@Furaha...ooh Yes, He's a faithful Father.
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I'm 21 and Idah I love your story. You showing up and talking about this has really made me realize that marriage and church don't have to mean everything in life and from here onwards I'm confident enough to say No I don't want marriage if I'm not ready. God bless
You are a wise lady
Qqqq,,,
@@hannahwanjiku1930 I was gonna say that...She's really wise.
Keep pursuing wisdom Ann...You are a wise young lady😇
Thank you so much 🥰
So Beautiful! It's my second time watching it one year later. I am just so impressed by Idah! She is just an original.May God bring you to the peak
This here in my story.. unfortunately it broke me, I got mental disorder but through the pain God still is faithful. I walked away just as she did with my two sons.... His family told me "tumekupa 6 months ukule shida! Njaa itakurudisha...." Its been years and God ni yule msee
Only weak men do this,,,keep winning honey
God is so faithful,watangoja sana
Amen
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 proud of you
May you always have enough for your sons.
i went through GBV for 3yrs in my marriage til he almost killed me the day i left i never looked back. Thanks Idah for leaving and saying leaving is very ok
Idah has walked in faith and turned out to be the best version of herself may God continue taking her to greater heights ❤❤❤❤❤Lynn & Idahs friends may God bless you all ❤❤❤
Wow, Idah you are such a strong woman. Thanks for sharing this liberating story. Hoping to see you in our screens in a major role.
Her story is a voice to many suffering in Silent. That was a Brilliant interview. Thanks both💖
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I've been through exactly the same, got married at 21 to the most narcissistic man I've ever known. To make matters worse he was the one making money and I had no job. I also had to move out of Kenya coz he was stalking me and even harassing my friends. I know better now! Thanks @Idah Alisha for sharing your story.
Kudos to you dear for walking away u definitely made the right choice
Strong Woman
Congratulations for being strong ☺️💪
Same my story 😂😂 woiii ahk
my story too ,married at 22 he was 29 n was soooo abusive for 9 good years wah its now 6 years since i left n wah this life u can just loose your life for society
Hey Lynn it's a pleasure to listen to Idah, especially now that she's our heroine, she a representation of some of us who also walked out at a very young age. At your own time, I'd like to tell my story on your channel and encourage young women on the importance of moving out. I personally lost myself, my child taken away, suffered with depression and ended up in drugs. Being married to a cop character debeloped me real bad. I am doing better now and no longer depending on alcohol
That's true girl...
This is such a beautiful story even though full of pain and tears. This gal Idah has a big heart full of gratitude and the sky will not even be her limit. God bless you two.
Idah's story is so enlightening and a great inspiration to many ladies who have been made to question their worth and are in toxic relationships. I pray that ladies find the courage to walk out of toxic relationships. And of course, having a great support system like Idah's is the best blessing in life.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words and that's what your friends did to you I salute them all
Wow love the words
Her courage to speak up touched me...the church has been made a hiding place by abusers and I think it's time we learnt to move out when it's not safe
Exactly 💯
She has taught me a lot through her experience what she went through, thank you for sharing
My sister went through something like that, years of emotional abuse and months of physical abuse. She has two boys, when she decided to leave, her life changed. First thing I noticed was how shocked she was by her support system, especially our mum. Our mum is a single mum as well and she never knew what my sister was going through, but the minute she did, she was so supportive. I don’t know what my sister was expecting, but the support surprised her. As Africans, we shy away from emotional conversations, even telling family we love them and we'll be there for them no matter what. I think this needs to change. This may be why people go through hell for years, all alone.
We shy away and sometimes it's because not everyone will be understanding and supportive. In my case I was the talk of the family. Most of my relatives would see me and give me that disapproving look, talk about me without regard for my feelings and the fact that I had turned to alcohol was their only focus. No one wanted anything to do with me even after all the support I had accorded them through the years. My aunts would tell their grown up children not to hang out or talk to me cos nitawafunza tabia mbaya ( meaning watakua alcoholic kama mimi) . All in all God healed me and now I am happily single, healthy and wiser.
@@nekesamapesa I'm happy for you. My family, that is our other sister, mum and I enveloped our sister and nephews with so much love and support. Alafu we didn't even tell the extended family, she told whoever she wanted to know. Mtu akijaribu sijui nini, tunamkomesha. Extended fam will of course be messy and nasty abt it, but if your parents especially, are there for you. I saw with my sis that it really helps. I'm sorry for the crap you went through and I'm glad and proud of you for prevailing. Hug from an internet sister 🤗
@@2mw_ke thank you so much. Hugs right back at you
I really relate to you both i have been there the beating even in front of my kidz this sad
I'm happy you left i too left n am grateful to my pastor, bff Mariam n sharleen n mum who were my support till date thanks for sharing
I wish mom could support me..i was to live today morning...i packed my belongings n called to know if she could pick my kids from town,,cz was reporting to work but oops...my family had changed their mind.Am told i need to stay for my kids to have a father, this is the same father who is abusive to my kids emotionally..He told my First born ww utakua na maisha mbaya Sana..Mimi c Baba yako😭😭
Despite all she went through, her humor is everything.
I said the same thing to myself😂
I'm in tears.... Kwani gari ilikuosha
😃 sure
🤣🤣🤣aky..
lyk ulilala kwa gari na ulicome ukismell geisha😅😅really
It takes courage for Idah to share her story and God will take her places. She did the best thing to tive to tell her story. Go girl. Love yourself.
Wooow wooow extremly proud of u Idah thnx for sharing .ive learnt alot may God ol women out there strong enough to leave from thos toxic marriages .glad u did. Wooow am amazed .
Lynn as you keep gracing us with such moving yet educative stories, I suggest you purpose to see your therapist atleast once a month or after every story that weighs you down. You are human and traumas, anxieties, stress and depression are real. The public loves you and over 90% of those that visit your channel resonates with your content with appreciation. It's not good to lose you to anything that can affect you negatively. I love you and your content 100%. Keep it up gal
Yeah. She needs to debrief from time to time.
I agree too ...
So true..
Idah Alisha i guess we share the same story gal but i love how strong u
Very true !
I can't believe she was going through all that and she managed to appear on our screens ❤ thanks for sharing your story Olive🖐let's show love her love team LNN❤
This is more like my story but mine was worse , I couldn’t stop crying listening to this and the part that you hit the rock bottom and you can only rise up from there , am great full I left too and I left the country too , it’s a healing process a day at a time , thank you Lynn for the platform
Wow this story is really touching thank you Lynn you are truly saving lives out here
Love that she can make fun and now laugh about her experience. Her growth is evident.
Her story acts as an eye opener when choosing a life Partner . She's such an inspiration .GBV must end
GBV must end.
You just touched me! I have cried, laughed and learnt so much, thank you!
She is so beautiful,and eloquent. Brave of you to have shared this Idah. It is sad,that the bodies put in place to help victims fail them so much. Some police officers will even joke to you about it.
Its been two years since i left my baby dady and toxic relationships does nt mean physical only but emotional and mental. I really needed to be the best version for my son and i felt i was drowning mentally from my relationship. Thank you Idah for sharing your story
Proud of you❤️. You are doing amazing
Idah's story has relieved me in one way or another.Nothing feels bad like getting married to a narcissist.The world will judge you like they did to me but i chose peace for the sake of my daughter.I'm a divorcee and i don't regret.. happier being a single mother rather than being married to a toxic person 💯
This was my life 4 years ago. I thank God I got confidence to leave. He saved me
I hope you are okay and healed. Hugs and love to you and your daughter.
As you have said. You have God's favour. That's why you had challenges. Your future is much brighter. Being on screens looked beautiful on you. Your friends are great too. Have more peace.
Be blessed stwie
Hi sis proud of you,am asingle mum of 2 and had a narcissist husband for 8 years wooii I lost my sanity but am happy now and very peaceful after he kanyangad kubwa kubwa
I love how Lynn said we take our time to forgive this pastor. I love your energy Lynn. You are 100%. Thank you Idah for being so genuine and authentic in your sharing. I'm so happy for your healing.
I love the show🔥, I love her vibe, I love her voice, I can listen to you all day long. Idah girl! You are authentic. I appreciate the vulnerability . You are amazing!
Am glad she's free.... Most Pastors should learn to be human surely 😢😢
Ladies you look gorgeous 😍
Good to see u here😍😍
@@Luobeby-254 😅😅😅.. thanks ❤️
For those of us who can relate with so much. Those of us who were harshly judged by society for walking out of marriage. The silent battles we had to fight and still put a fake smile to just show the world we are doing okay, salute!
We are doing okay babe ❤.
We did that
Am the today's version of idah
Everyone here have walked out🤣
I always enjoy watching your videos. I have not ndergone any form of abuse or been in an abusive family,but I have learned A LOT from your stories.Can't wait to hear your story Lynn.
Please do something 😊
Idah Alicia…. You are a wonderful person and I’m really grateful to lynn n you. What stands out is Alicia’s boldness in telling her story and how she has overcome. Love you guys.😘😘
Lyn, I think what stands out for me is your empathy. The ability to get into someone's shoes and feel what they are feeling. You are blessed ❤️
She has a gold heart
she is beautiful and wow ametoka far God is good.
This story relates to this Nigerian Woman who died few weeks ago her name was Osinachi, the greatest gospel Singer may her Soul Rest in peace 😢
I love Ida's voice and the truthfulness in her ❤️❤️
I have been bitten before with a person who raped me at 16 for saying that he was my boyfriend, got raped again at 21 I don't see men the same, am afraid of them. I got born again and stood till now. Idah this is so inspiring am very sorry for what you went through, you are so beautiful and pretty to go through that am very sorry. I got a fiancee when I met him I healed a lot he is in Qatar very young, handsome and kind. I 💖 him, it's a journey to heal. Thank you for your inspiring story God bless you.😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏😇😇
Much love to you dear
@@abigailsozi6412 Thank you dear God bless you 🙏💖💖💝💕
I'm so sorry you went through all this. May CHRIST JESUS HEAL you
@@denisetheur5641 Thank you 🙏🙏😊
By far this has been the best interview i have watched in a while and has really been an eye opener. Thank you so much Idah for being vulnerable . You have really inspired me cz i was really at my lowest mentally!! God bless you!
It gets better❤️
Thanks Lynn for bringing idah on board she motivates many single mothers out here ❤❤
Lyn you are doing a great job people go through so much but we need people like you who listen to us
Thank you for throwing in some English , some of us really needed this message .💕💕
Oooh Lord. I found myself laughing and crying at the same time. I love the energy she has and how she tells her story. Thank you Lynn.
Wow!
She's such a star ⭐✨ she did the best chosing herself over marriage. Big up Idah 👏👏👏💯
Hugs…. I resonate with your story completely.
I hope someday i will tell my story……
Proud of you and look at you and how God has been faithful.
Thanks Lynn for enlighten this story.. hope it will save many more of our ladies
Thank you so much Lynn for bringing this icon all the way from way back in mother in law.
Wooow❤️I was watching this at my weakest and I feel so energised already . Much respect Lynn to you and your guest.
Fly high Idah. May God bless you and thanks to Lynn for such a great platform.