PLEASE READ TILL THE END: Ok this is officially my longest video! Lol I got soooo many questions from you guys! It’s a long one but it’s raw and honest and I tried very hard to answer as many questions as possible. I hope you enjoyed getting to know me better, it’s always a bit scary and nerve racking sharing personal details. However I’m so glad I made this video and I too also want to learn more about my #faMELy! Pls comment one fact or anything about yourself you want to share with me. It can be as personal or as random as you want. As so many of us are quarantined right now let’s take the time read each other’s comments and even get conversations going. I love our community, our family. I love and appreciate you all so much! We are all in this together! Stay safe and a big big virtual hug from me to you xo Mel
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us ❤ it is truly lovely getting to know you better 😘 I want to recommend strathberry handbags to you. I have two and they are lovely quality and very durable (I use them as my everyday handbags) 👜🛍 lots of love xxxx
Hi Mel! This was definitely your best video! When you talked about your son I felt so emotional... Thank you so much for sharing all this personal things with us: I'm form Italy and especially in this time I'm so happy to have one of your video to distract from the situation... Can't wait for the part two! I send you a visual hug! Marta
That was the best Q&A I’ve ever watched. So honest and didn’t dodge difficult questions. We appreciate you Mel. Because let’s be real you don’t owe us ANSWERS.
Seeing you put in so much time pining all the questions up, make me wanna appreciate so much. Mel, even though I dont commment much, but you are definetly so inspiring, beautiful, cheerful to watch.Your honesty and genuiness are gold to all of your followers. Thank you for doing the video!
This is officially the BEST Q&A I’ve ever seen on TH-cam. I just graduated and got a full time position with a company I love, all your advice are absolutely amazing... I’m not living in the same country as my family at the moment, and this video really did warm my heart, it makes me feel less alone. ❤️
I teared up when you spoke about your son... you described him as your "SONshine." I can see the love that you have for him. Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable, Mel. You don't owe us anything yet you still opened up. Love you and your channel. Hope you and your family are well!
Mel, you’re literally so humble and i can only pray you never change (or if you do for the better!). The BEST and rawest Q&A i’ve ever watched and never felt once that this was an hour long! I was so giddy when you were sharing how you met your hubby, it was so cute!!! Thanks Mel for sharing your life with us. You reminded me exactly why it’s important to have God to be the centre of every relationship. God bless you more!
Just watch the full thing! It's funny cause im not even into luxury and would probably never buy a designer bag (not that i don't find them very nice or whatever), but i just love who she is! I think she's so nice and kind! I do catch myself often comparing and thinking that these people have more income than me, or these people have a nicer relationship or they have it all (money, wedding, family, happiness, health, etc). But she is so humble she makes me appreciate whatever i have, which is already a lot! Stay yourself, i'll keep listening! :) And to anyone watching: You are beautiful and i'm proud of what you achieved, whatever it is!
I got married at age 19 and now I am 59 and still love my husband as much as I did when we were very young and our eyes met 'across a crowded room'!. In fact in some ways we love each other more now because we have a whole shared history of life adventures together. I think that being Christians has helped us stay together because the Bible perspective of what love really is has been a good foundation for us. 1 Corinthians 13. Difficult to do but very rewarding.
Rosalind Mason thank you for sharing! I agree with you, I don’t think we would have survived if it wasn’t for God and understanding what true unconditional love is. Love is a choice xx
Hi Mel. It is so good to see a youtuber to share realistic financial ideas. I see so many younger women obsess with luxury goods and would go into debt for them. I really hope influencers can educate the younger generation about priorities and how to obtain luxury items sensibly.
Um, who else saw the video length and was like “I’m not sure if I can commit that amount time”. Who then proceeded to watch the entire thing? 🙋🏻♀️ Loved getting you know you more Mel. You had a lot of challenges in your past and present, and you handled everything so well and on top. Inspiring and loved your poem at the end. ❤️
These kinds of videos and your honesty is why we have this community here. I love how you don't shy from the hard questions, and your approach to the harder parts of life is admirable - don't let anyone tell you different.
@@MelinMelbourne it's tough times out there, and even when the world is acting "normal" seeing how genuinely happy you are when you add to your collection is infectious in the best kind of way. It's us who should be thanking you.
Love your story! We got married at 19 (also finished a year of college first) and will be entering in year 21 married this year & 24 together. It definitely gets better and better with age. We have collected multiple degrees, nurtured a career and built a family of character together. I love & look forward to entering into the next phase of empty nest life soon. Parenting young teen adults is the new challenge but so far so good but it is hard letting go.
Mel can I be totally honest with you - you video is so calming and soothing, thanks so much for sharing all these stories and your life journey with us. I appreciate your genuine answer and transparent attitude to all the questions raised. I enjoyed this 54 mins video and it literally feels like you are an old friend to me... thanks again for sharing all these. Women power and community bond!
Aww thank you so much Angie! That is such a compliment, I wanted to answer everything brutally honest lol as we all go through our trails and tribulations. So glad you felt it was like we were old friends sharing. Thanks so much for watching the whole video my dear xx
Mel, I absolutely love how you're such an incredible guiding figure. Too many youtubers out there are young and rich and spend their money frivolously without ever talking about their low points, creating very warped ideas of what is normal to young viewers. I love how you're a literal mum so you give such amazing advice regarding things like finance, managing time etc. I dont even personally see myself being a luxury collector, but you have such amazing energy that draws me in and I see you as such an amazing role model. I just moved from SG to study in Monash, so hopefully I can continue walking in footsteps similar to yours and find my own definition of happiness :)
During this difficult time for everyone going through this virus, for me personally feeling very emotional as Im going through a tough time in my career and nearly made me cry hearing your personal challenges (mine is accepting compliments being so awkward about them) and journey and reminds me to not just think about the now and seem like its a dead end but looking long term at our careers, life in general as a journey until our very last breath it will than stop. I truely teared hearing your story and thankful that people like you exist and felt a connection being isolated and part of a community with you, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. We love you xxx
I've just discovered your channel, and I'm so glad to hear your answers. I rarely see someone as humble, authentic, and warm person. Keep up the positivity 💕😊
Watching your video while studying my lectures! I'm a second year university Chemistry student from the Philippines, also eldest girl of six kids and I can relate to your fam story! Watching your videos help me blow off steam from my heavy academics, and also serve as my inspiration to work harder because I wanna help a lot of people and do a lot of shopping and travel when I'm older :) Cheers Mel, keep safe 💕
Aww i felt that when she explained how she met her husband. When she said they were looking at eachother and felt sparks i literally got teary eyed lol aww Mel
ah mel, this type content is the probably the best part of watching you. it's so nice to know your background and makes me love u more. you seem like a genuinely lovely person and I'm glad you have a great life from all your hard work.
Hi Mel, I'm not usually drawn to Q&A but I have been following you for quite a while and always enjoyed your videos. I felt compelled to drop you this note after watching this video because of your honesty and genenousity, sharing your life with the world just touched me. Thank you for being so sincere and genuine, and a role model for us on TH-cam. The world could definitely use more of you!
Hi Mel, I came across Charis' chanel about a bag collection collaboration with you and I thought I'd check out your channel as well and this is the first video of yours that I've seen so far. I just wanted to say, from one woman/mom/wife to another, who have very similar family background, who love fashion and OMG luxury bags lol, I commend you for being real, honest and vulnerable. There's a ton of fake people out there and It's a breath of fresh air to see organic people. I truly appreciate it. ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with starting a family really young (we did too :) as long as the kids are taken care of and most of all we're happy. I can't wait to see your other videos. I've got time since we're quarantined for a while. Bless you and your family and MORE and MORE power to you. Stay healthy and safe. Your friend from Canada ❤️💕❤️
I love how organized you got with this especially since these are personal questions you had the right to refuse to answer. Thank you very much for sharing more of your story and I would say that you are one of the best TH-camrs out there!
I had my daughter at 17, she is 16 soon and we are still together and also have a 12yo. The simplified version is that i got my fairytale, the chapters just got mixed up. I can not stress how much support matters to thriving.
Hey Mel, This video was amazing. I sat in living room watching and felt like I was sitting across from you having a conversation. Your a beautiful soul and now understand your nurturing nature due to your large family. Can’t believe your nearly 40, you look great. Loved getting to know you more and thanks so much for letting us into your world and for all tips and advice . #faMELy. Hope you and your family are staying safe, the poem was very touching Mel and look forward to part 2. ❤️
We were 19 years both. He was still studying at university. We had a baby girl 15 months after married. Today it’s 63 years married we had 2 girls and 1 boy. No regrets and very happy. 3 kids in 18 months.
The way how God works in our life is really unbelievable. And I'm really glad that you shared everything from your struggles to your successful life in this Q&A. Love and Blessings from Hong Kong to you and your families! Stay safe! Xx
It is so evident how God's hand was throughout my whole journey. Still learning to TRUST in him more, now more than ever. Sending you much love and blessings right back lovely xo
Mel, this video is the best Q&A I've seen anywhere. So honest, so heartfelt. Your values and love for your family is inspiring! Please keep doing what you do!
The respectful and affectionate way you talk to and about your family is so impressive, and I love the videos where they appear. This video was excellent- you work hard to produce high-quality uploads, and it shows. Love that you’re going to focus the channel a bit more on your family life.
thank you for taking the time out to do this video. being vulnerable, stepping out of your comfort zone, sharing more than usual. we all really appreciate it thank you for your life lessons and financial TIPS! love you to bits!
Thank you for sharing your story! My sister had a surprise pregnancy as well she was pregnant while she got married at 19. They are still together and have 3 beauty kids together!
Didnt feel like an hour though! It was like chatting with a girlfriend! Mel thanks for your honesty and for sharing your personal life. Thats not easy putting yourself out there. Thats brave! Forget about the haters - theyre honestly just jealous! You worked hard for everything you have now so dont let them put you down! Youre so humble and kind! I got teary when you talked about your marriage and got giddy hearing your love story. I can see how much love you have for your family and life! I have more respect for you now Mel! May you and your family stay blessed, happy, healthy and safe! God is good ❤️
Thank you for that feedback. Yes we wear many hats and honestly I struggle with all that but I really appreciate your feedback and I'm so glad I shared this with you all x
I love that you started with the most asked question, most people hide it inside of the video for longer views, but that just made me decide to watch the whole video 😍🥳
I felt the sincerity comes out on her mouth that makes her standout to some luxury vvlog..That’s why you and Charis(lvcclover) heart evangelista, jaime chua and producet michael my favorite vvlog. Who inspired everyone in your journey and content of vvlog. Its not about glamour but the relevant of every content you have that people should be thankful for in every effort you showcase for us.. thank you for sharing your inspiring, truthful, and very lovable life. God Bless Mel..❤️😊💫
The way you speak about your family always warms me so much! Thank you for being so open, you sound like such a supportive mum, wife, friend etc 💜 also hearing about you and your son is so sweet and makes me reflect on my relationship with my mum as I'm similar age ( coming up to 21 in August!) We run the house together but I would love for us to be closer rather than just "business partners". Hopefully we can get to the stage of having dates together :')
Loved your video Mel,what i learnt from this video is you are well raised and responsible individual right from your teens. As a couple you both worked hard and created 8 to 9 sources of income to afford luxury items you showcase in video. This is not just limited you owning items you worked more than 10 years on luxury products and hencforth collecting it is part of your work and passion. Your values on donation rasing kids well,sharing close bond is impeceble. Thanks for this lovely video...i learnt a lot from you. Staying humble,kind, abd working hard to achive sucess was the best lesson. Stay smiling always!
This video was so honest and reinforced why you’re one of my favourite youtubers and love watching your videos. I see so much of myself in you from you’re childhood, to your personality, interests etc. I also love The 5 Love Languages (Gifts and Acts of service is both what I love to give and receive) and the Purpose Driven Life! Thank you Mel for being so raw and giving is us a small escape from everything that’s happening ❤️❤️❤️
I could imagine how hard it was for you to have your son at that age, and judgement from all uncles/ aunties that you broke “Asian expectation” when you got pregnant and married early. I just knew your Channel today and have been watching most of your videos (of course already subscribed your channel). I ❤️ your personality and honesty. I’m your fan now from 🇺🇸
51:01 is so raw and beautiful and supporting coming from you! Agree though Luxury is nice but it is not everything. Good to hear such supportive things coming from you Mel! Great video!
Mel - you are such an inspiration! I love how grounded and humble you are, yet you also love the finer things in life. You're unapologetically you and you should feel so proud of all that you have accomplished. It's well deserved! : )
This video put tears in my eyes. I found your channel by accident because I recently started to love luxury items. Your video was so heartfelt and honest. I love your story. Even thought I am 10 yrs older, single and childless I feel motivated to do the things that brings more joy into my life. The joy you exude has motivated me to find my purpose in my life. Thank you thank you.
That was the most honest and sincere Q and A I have ever watched.... I watched you since the beginning and you truly are an incredible woman. Thank you showing us such grace ❤️❤️
At first I thought that you were just another businessman's wife on TH-cam, but you seem as a very hardworking and centered person. I hope your channel grows more and more! 👍
I got married at 19, we are celebrating 10 years soon. We just wanted to be together, nothing rushed us, we have had ups and downs but we are much stronger together now.
I really love that you prioritize your children over work. Some parents would work and work without trying to find time for their children. I know that work is important, but children do need the love and time with their parents as well. Having a special bond with your children is very beautiful. I admire you for having such a special relationship with your husband and kids while still be successful in your career.
Malaysian here!! Love love love the way you talk! Just with humbleness in your voice and it really is amazing seeing how far you have come. You really inspire me
It's NOT boring at all! It's the BEST video of you! Your life journey is so inspirational. My favorite part is when you talk about your marriage and your most difficult time, and also when you said you're a Believer. I like it that you said "Enjoy the journey" in the end of the video. Yes I was really enjoyed watching every second of this video. Thank you for sharing. Bless you
It’s good to hear that you only have 1 credit card. That’s the correct way! My hubby and I don’t have any credit cards at all. We decide not to apply for credit cards. We only use debit cards 😁
No wonder I adore your vibe. We are in completely different worlds but so similar personality, values, upbringing, family priorities. Both 80s babies and the oldest siblings. Thanks for doing this video. We aren't entitled to all this info but it's been really nice to see! Take care.
This is why I love watching you!! So open and honest, you really touched on things that you didn’t have too. I loved how you lit up talking about hubby and your kids. You seem very sweet and genuine and anyone would be happy to call you a friend.
Mel, really really appreciate your most humble and honest way to share all your past, your husband, your kids, and even your financial situations. This is the best Q&A video I have ever watched so far, like you said raw and honest. Your end of video poem really really touched my heart 💓, especially in this difficult moment all around the world. Bless you Mel and your family, stay safe😘😘👍
You talking about getting married young and finishing your degree with a baby is so touching. I agree that God was with you all the way in planning and executing that wedding.
hi Mel!, fellow Sibu fella here, good to see people from a small town making an impact on the global platform - Kudos! Similarly I moved to Melbourne also!
You are an inspiration and spiritual! I was a young bride too - married and had my first child at 20. It's trying and scary but we do what we have to do - we want it all - just a little earlier than expected but it's all good. My 'kids' are now 41, 38 and 27! All are successful and happy. I actually retired early and loving watching your vids. Carry on! I'm now 62 but feel 40 and carry the bags - go us!
I got married at 21 and became pregnant 6 months later and we never regret our decision. When we got married we had nothing and everyone told us it will be a mistake but we wouldn’t listen to them. We worked hard for everything and we have a beautiful life with our 2 amazing kids. This year we will be married 13th years ❤️.
Thank you for your bravery and honesty in making this video! As a fellow Virgo and bagaholic, I understand your obsessions and admire how you turned what you love into a career. We both know how determined us Virgo girls are! ;) Please keep doing what you do on TH-cam! Your fans really look forward to what you have to share!
That is the COOLEST career being a buyer for department store!!!! And it fits so well with your love for fashion and it shows!!!! I love how passionate you are.
After hearing your story about your family life, it is clear why you and your husband are so blessed. May you continue to receive blessings that overflow
It was so adorable how giddy you were when you told the story of how you met your husband and it's funny how you say one of your style icons is audrey hepburn because she's so elegant, be cause you also seem so humble and elegant!!
Hi, Mel! I’ve watched some of your videos, but not familiar with who you are. I’m glad I watched today, I’m amazed with your honesty and genuine sharing. How you talk about your struggles makes you just so real. Love how grounded you are in your faith and family life. I believe the world needs more influencers like you. 💖
I do not understand how anyone could be leaving you hate comments. You are the most genuine person I have ever seen on this Platform. Please do not listen to them, you are the best and keep living your best live Mel!!!
Aww thank you for your sweet compliments. Unfortunately this is one of the downsides to youtube. You do get some horrible comments but honestly I CHOOSE to focus on the positive and that is more than 95% of you all being so supportive like yourself. Thank you! xo
i felt you so honest, your videos i like it because you dont show off about have money, you really enjoy shopping naturally and honest, sorry for my english im study now
Hi Mel! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. You truly are a genuine person and that’s why i love watching your channel. Something about myself: I’m also an introvert. I love luxury goods especially bags. I like to dress well and be presentable. I am an interior designer. However, i also love outdoor activities such as camping, biking, golfing and skiing. As much as I love to dress well when i get home, i change to my lounge clothes right away to relax and decompress. Your poem is inspiring and uplifting. Stay safe and keep in good spirits.
just now watching this, and I was so moved by your comments about the measure of success as the relationship and fluid communication with your kids. Wow. Couldn't be more true. We have twin sons who are 18, and feel so blessed that they feel free to talk to us and we can all relate to each other as well as we do. It feels like the biggest success we have ever achieved. Our family dynamic is relaxed and respectful. They've moved to college and are nearby, and are doing so well on their own. This is another thing we celebrate every day. Thanks for the candid answers. The stretch mark commentary made me smile--twins make some interesting stretch marks when they are 7lbs apiece. haha. I just consider it a reminder of what my body can do. And i'm proud of it. Cheers, Mel. Really enjoying your vids.
Gosh, that was lovely! I know lots of happily married couples that married young and met in high school or jr. high. You are lucky! I love The Five Love Languages too. Great book!
Hi I just started watching your videos really love it thts why I follow you in Instagram as well. you are so honest with Everything.Really love it keep it up ❤️
omg mel, youre amazing! thank you so much for being so open and honest with us in answering all our Qs. I definitely appreciate the time and effort you put into this video! This almost 1 hr video didnt feel that long at all! sending lots of love to you, hubby, ms S and your son-shine!
Helen S thank you so much Helen! I appreciate you watching the whole way through. It was definitely time I opened up and as a result I honestly feel closer to you guys. Xx
Mel what a candid, beautiful and authentic Q&A. You dont look 'almost 40' from a 'just turned 50' year old. I love your content(I am a kiwi) and also love Melbourne. Congrats on your success as mum, wife, business woman and you tuber. I shed a wee tear when you talked about your son, and the pride you show in your family, and the blessings of your faith. I love our community too :)
PLEASE READ TILL THE END: Ok this is officially my longest video! Lol I got soooo many questions from you guys! It’s a long one but it’s raw and honest and I tried very hard to answer as many questions as possible. I hope you enjoyed getting to know me better, it’s always a bit scary and nerve racking sharing personal details. However I’m so glad I made this video and I too also want to learn more about my #faMELy! Pls comment one fact or anything about yourself you want to share with me. It can be as personal or as random as you want. As so many of us are quarantined right now let’s take the time read each other’s comments and even get conversations going. I love our community, our family. I love and appreciate you all so much! We are all in this together! Stay safe and a big big virtual hug from me to you xo Mel
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us ❤ it is truly lovely getting to know you better 😘 I want to recommend strathberry handbags to you. I have two and they are lovely quality and very durable (I use them as my everyday handbags) 👜🛍 lots of love xxxx
Its very nice to see a more personal side from you Mel! Fact: I always show your OOTDs and Bags and SLGs to my girlfriend as an inspo for her!
Hi Mel! This was definitely your best video! When you talked about your son I felt so emotional...
Thank you so much for sharing all this personal things with us: I'm form Italy and especially in this time I'm so happy to have one of your video to distract from the situation...
Can't wait for the part two!
I send you a visual hug!
Marta
Mel in Melbourne such a lovely msg through the poem ! ❤️❤️❤️
The poem ❤️
How her eyes are twinkling while reminiscing how she and her hubby met. So sweet.
Marjorie Motil-Ramos 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
hehe xo
We love you mel. Take care and God bless!
Her smile got bigger and bigger as she told the story, so sweet.
So true but cute
That was the best Q&A I’ve ever watched. So honest and didn’t dodge difficult questions. We appreciate you Mel. Because let’s be real you don’t owe us ANSWERS.
Brooklyn Londoner agreed! Mel is so honest and genuine. Love her!
Awww thank you sooooo very much!! I appreciate YOU all so so much! xoxo
@@MelinMelbourne We appreciate you Mel.
Seeing you put in so much time pining all the questions up, make me wanna appreciate so much. Mel, even though I dont commment much, but you are definetly so inspiring, beautiful, cheerful to watch.Your honesty and genuiness are gold to all of your followers. Thank you for doing the video!
This is officially the BEST Q&A I’ve ever seen on TH-cam. I just graduated and got a full time position with a company I love, all your advice are absolutely amazing... I’m not living in the same country as my family at the moment, and this video really did warm my heart, it makes me feel less alone. ❤️
Chen Yang wow thank you so much! What a compliment! I’m glad I could brighten your day and please know you are NEVER alone xx
I teared up when you spoke about your son... you described him as your "SONshine." I can see the love that you have for him. Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable, Mel. You don't owe us anything yet you still opened up. Love you and your channel. Hope you and your family are well!
Mel, you’re literally so humble and i can only pray you never change (or if you do for the better!). The BEST and rawest Q&A i’ve ever watched and never felt once that this was an hour long! I was so giddy when you were sharing how you met your hubby, it was so cute!!! Thanks Mel for sharing your life with us. You reminded me exactly why it’s important to have God to be the centre of every relationship. God bless you more!
Just watch the full thing!
It's funny cause im not even into luxury and would probably never buy a designer bag (not that i don't find them very nice or whatever), but i just love who she is!
I think she's so nice and kind!
I do catch myself often comparing and thinking that these people have more income than me, or these people have a nicer relationship or they have it all (money, wedding, family, happiness, health, etc). But she is so humble she makes me appreciate whatever i have, which is already a lot!
Stay yourself, i'll keep listening! :)
And to anyone watching: You are beautiful and i'm proud of what you achieved, whatever it is!
I second that.
I got married at age 19 and now I am 59 and still love my husband as much as I did when we were very young and our eyes met 'across a crowded room'!. In fact in some ways we love each other more now because we have a whole shared history of life adventures together. I think that being Christians has helped us stay together because the Bible perspective of what love really is has been a good foundation for us. 1 Corinthians 13. Difficult to do but very rewarding.
Rosalind Mason thank you for sharing! I agree with you, I don’t think we would have survived if it wasn’t for God and understanding what true unconditional love is. Love is a choice xx
Beautiful!
Love that "foundation of God" for a successful marriage. You are always dropping powerful gems!
Thank you so much! I wouldn''t be where I am without HIM....stay safe my dear xo
@@MelinMelbourne Thank you and you as well. Your message came exactly when I needed it, take care!
Hi Mel. It is so good to see a youtuber to share realistic financial ideas. I see so many younger women obsess with luxury goods and would go into debt for them. I really hope influencers can educate the younger generation about priorities and how to obtain luxury items sensibly.
This has to be the most honest and heartfelt Q&A I’ve ever seen on YT. Loved hearing you talk about your kids and husband. :)
Thank you so much my dearest xo
Um, who else saw the video length and was like “I’m not sure if I can commit that amount time”. Who then proceeded to watch the entire thing? 🙋🏻♀️
Loved getting you know you more Mel. You had a lot of challenges in your past and present, and you handled everything so well and on top. Inspiring and loved your poem at the end. ❤️
SueMae Everyday thank you so very much my dear XX
Me too, thought im not able to finish it.
These kinds of videos and your honesty is why we have this community here.
I love how you don't shy from the hard questions, and your approach to the harder parts of life is admirable - don't let anyone tell you different.
Thank you so so much. That mean more than you know. xo
@@MelinMelbourne it's tough times out there, and even when the world is acting "normal" seeing how genuinely happy you are when you add to your collection is infectious in the best kind of way. It's us who should be thanking you.
Being authentic and vulnerable to TH-cam community, bravo to you.
Love your story! We got married at 19 (also finished a year of college first) and will be entering in year 21 married this year & 24 together. It definitely gets better and better with age. We have collected multiple degrees, nurtured a career and built a family of character together. I love & look forward to entering into the next phase of empty nest life soon. Parenting young teen adults is the new challenge but so far so good but it is hard letting go.
The picture of you on your wedding is so beautiful. Not just facially (duh) but the happiness.
Mel can I be totally honest with you - you video is so calming and soothing, thanks so much for sharing all these stories and your life journey with us. I appreciate your genuine answer and transparent attitude to all the questions raised. I enjoyed this 54 mins video and it literally feels like you are an old friend to me... thanks again for sharing all these. Women power and community bond!
Aww thank you so much Angie! That is such a compliment, I wanted to answer everything brutally honest lol as we all go through our trails and tribulations. So glad you felt it was like we were old friends sharing. Thanks so much for watching the whole video my dear xx
Mel, I absolutely love how you're such an incredible guiding figure. Too many youtubers out there are young and rich and spend their money frivolously without ever talking about their low points, creating very warped ideas of what is normal to young viewers. I love how you're a literal mum so you give such amazing advice regarding things like finance, managing time etc. I dont even personally see myself being a luxury collector, but you have such amazing energy that draws me in and I see you as such an amazing role model. I just moved from SG to study in Monash, so hopefully I can continue walking in footsteps similar to yours and find my own definition of happiness :)
During this difficult time for everyone going through this virus, for me personally feeling very emotional as Im going through a tough time in my career and nearly made me cry hearing your personal challenges (mine is accepting compliments being so awkward about them) and journey and reminds me to not just think about the now and seem like its a dead end but looking long term at our careers, life in general as a journey until our very last breath it will than stop. I truely teared hearing your story and thankful that people like you exist and felt a connection being isolated and part of a community with you, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. We love you xxx
Thank you for your heartfelt response. I truly appreciate it and I'm so ever thankful for our little community! Sending much love right back. xo
I've just discovered your channel, and I'm so glad to hear your answers. I rarely see someone as humble, authentic, and warm person. Keep up the positivity 💕😊
Watching your video while studying my lectures! I'm a second year university Chemistry student from the Philippines, also eldest girl of six kids and I can relate to your fam story! Watching your videos help me blow off steam from my heavy academics, and also serve as my inspiration to work harder because I wanna help a lot of people and do a lot of shopping and travel when I'm older :) Cheers Mel, keep safe 💕
Aww i felt that when she explained how she met her husband. When she said they were looking at eachother and felt sparks i literally got teary eyed lol aww Mel
honey demayo aww thank you so much! Xo
ah mel, this type content is the probably the best part of watching you. it's so nice to know your background and makes me love u more. you seem like a genuinely lovely person and I'm glad you have a great life from all your hard work.
Hi Mel, I'm not usually drawn to Q&A but I have been following you for quite a while and always enjoyed your videos. I felt compelled to drop you this note after watching this video because of your honesty and genenousity, sharing your life with the world just touched me. Thank you for being so sincere and genuine, and a role model for us on TH-cam. The world could definitely use more of you!
Hi Mel, I came across Charis' chanel about a bag collection collaboration with you and I thought I'd check out your channel as well and this is the first video of yours that I've seen so far. I just wanted to say, from one woman/mom/wife to another, who have very similar family background, who love fashion and OMG luxury bags lol, I commend you for being real, honest and vulnerable. There's a ton of fake people out there and It's a breath of fresh air to see organic people. I truly appreciate it. ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with starting a family really young (we did too :) as long as the kids are taken care of and most of all we're happy. I can't wait to see your other videos. I've got time since we're quarantined for a while. Bless you and your family and MORE and MORE power to you. Stay healthy and safe. Your friend from Canada ❤️💕❤️
Mel youre so well-spoken and have such a soothing voice. I think those two characteristics have really helped your channel grow
LEBRON THE DAWG I agree!
LEBRON THE DAWG I fully agree and give a 👍🏻!
Thank you sooo soo much! That is such a compliment! I really appreciate it! :)
Mel, you are a very kind person. It was extremely generous of you to be so vulnerable and so honest. Sending lots of love from Santa Monica.
Sending much love right back xo
She’s so honest I felt that annnnd I cried with her.
I love how organized you got with this especially since these are personal questions you had the right to refuse to answer. Thank you very much for sharing more of your story and I would say that you are one of the best TH-camrs out there!
That is such a compliment! Thank you very much! xo
I had my daughter at 17, she is 16 soon and we are still together and also have a 12yo. The simplified version is that i got my fairytale, the chapters just got mixed up. I can not stress how much support matters to thriving.
Omg, it’s wonderful how your eyes shine when you talk about your story with your husband.💕
Hey Mel,
This video was amazing. I sat in living room watching and felt like I was sitting across from you having a conversation.
Your a beautiful soul and now understand your nurturing nature due to your large family.
Can’t believe your nearly 40, you look great. Loved getting to know you more and thanks so much for letting us into your world and for all tips and advice .
#faMELy. Hope you and your family are staying safe, the poem was very touching Mel and look forward to part 2. ❤️
You're such a genuine, warm and honest person. I hope we can see more of this on the internet world.
Thank you so so much for such a lovely compliment xo
We were 19 years both. He was still studying at university. We had a baby girl 15 months after married. Today it’s 63 years married we had 2 girls and 1 boy. No regrets and very happy. 3 kids in 18 months.
The way how God works in our life is really unbelievable. And I'm really glad that you shared everything from your struggles to your successful life in this Q&A. Love and Blessings from Hong Kong to you and your families! Stay safe! Xx
It is so evident how God's hand was throughout my whole journey. Still learning to TRUST in him more, now more than ever. Sending you much love and blessings right back lovely xo
@@MelinMelbourne Amen! ♥️
Mel, this video is the best Q&A I've seen anywhere. So honest, so heartfelt. Your values and love for your family is inspiring! Please keep doing what you do!
The respectful and affectionate way you talk to and about your family is so impressive, and I love the videos where they appear. This video was excellent- you work hard to produce high-quality uploads, and it shows. Love that you’re going to focus the channel a bit more on your family life.
Love ur humility and honesty ❤️ it’s hard to see authentic people in youtube nowadays
thank you for taking the time out to do this video. being vulnerable, stepping out of your comfort zone, sharing more than usual. we all really appreciate it
thank you for your life lessons and financial TIPS! love you to bits!
Mel, I just wanted to say that I was really touched by how you spoke about your children and your family. I hope you all stay safe!
I graduated in ‘80...man I feel old, I’ll be married 42 years old. Met him when I was nine...13 yrs difference in my daughters ages
Thank you for sharing your story! My sister had a surprise pregnancy as well she was pregnant while she got married at 19. They are still together and have 3 beauty kids together!
Love hearing these stories too! xo
Didnt feel like an hour though! It was like chatting with a girlfriend! Mel thanks for your honesty and for sharing your personal life. Thats not easy putting yourself out there. Thats brave! Forget about the haters - theyre honestly just jealous! You worked hard for everything you have now so dont let them put you down! Youre so humble and kind! I got teary when you talked about your marriage and got giddy hearing your love story. I can see how much love you have for your family and life! I have more respect for you now Mel! May you and your family stay blessed, happy, healthy and safe! God is good ❤️
Thank you for opening up your story. Made you more than a youtuber...you are a daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother and a real and genuine person.
Thank you for that feedback. Yes we wear many hats and honestly I struggle with all that but I really appreciate your feedback and I'm so glad I shared this with you all x
I love that you started with the most asked question, most people hide it inside of the video for longer views, but that just made me decide to watch the whole video 😍🥳
I felt the sincerity comes out on her mouth that makes her standout to some luxury vvlog..That’s why you and Charis(lvcclover) heart evangelista, jaime chua and producet michael my favorite vvlog. Who inspired everyone in your journey and content of vvlog. Its not about glamour but the relevant of every content you have that people should be thankful for in every effort you showcase for us.. thank you for sharing your inspiring, truthful, and very lovable life. God Bless Mel..❤️😊💫
I just loved how u were blushing when you were talking about your husband and how u met with him
The way you speak about your family always warms me so much! Thank you for being so open, you sound like such a supportive mum, wife, friend etc 💜 also hearing about you and your son is so sweet and makes me reflect on my relationship with my mum as I'm similar age ( coming up to 21 in August!) We run the house together but I would love for us to be closer rather than just "business partners". Hopefully we can get to the stage of having dates together :')
Loved your video Mel,what i learnt from this video is you are well raised and responsible individual right from your teens. As a couple you both worked hard and created 8 to 9 sources of income to afford luxury items you showcase in video. This is not just limited you owning items you worked more than 10 years on luxury products and hencforth collecting it is part of your work and passion. Your values on donation rasing kids well,sharing close bond is impeceble. Thanks for this lovely video...i learnt a lot from you. Staying humble,kind, abd working hard to achive sucess was the best lesson. Stay smiling always!
This video was so honest and reinforced why you’re one of my favourite youtubers and love watching your videos. I see so much of myself in you from you’re childhood, to your personality, interests etc. I also love The 5 Love Languages (Gifts and Acts of service is both what I love to give and receive) and the Purpose Driven Life! Thank you Mel for being so raw and giving is us a small escape from everything that’s happening ❤️❤️❤️
I could imagine how hard it was for you to have your son at that age, and judgement from all uncles/ aunties that you broke “Asian expectation” when you got pregnant and married early.
I just knew your Channel today and have been watching most of your videos (of course already subscribed your channel). I ❤️ your personality and honesty. I’m your fan now from 🇺🇸
51:01 is so raw and beautiful and supporting coming from you! Agree though Luxury is nice but it is not everything. Good to hear such supportive things coming from you Mel! Great video!
thank you soooooo much Jeslyne! xo
Mel - you are such an inspiration! I love how grounded and humble you are, yet you also love the finer things in life. You're unapologetically you and you should feel so proud of all that you have accomplished. It's well deserved! : )
This video put tears in my eyes. I found your channel by accident because I recently started to love luxury items. Your video was so heartfelt and honest. I love your story. Even thought I am 10 yrs older, single and childless I feel motivated to do the things that brings more joy into my life. The joy you exude has motivated me to find my purpose in my life. Thank you thank you.
My mom got married at 18. She had me at 20. She's a teenage bride too, and an amazing mom as you are.
I got married at 30. ❤
That was the most honest and sincere Q and A I have ever watched.... I watched you since the beginning and you truly are an incredible woman. Thank you showing us such grace ❤️❤️
At first I thought that you were just another businessman's wife on TH-cam, but you seem as a very hardworking and centered person. I hope your channel grows more and more! 👍
Mel after this video and the final poem you have left me speechless... All I can really say right now is that you are an inspiration for me!
The best compliment I could receive. Thank you so much my dear xo
I got married at 19, we are celebrating 10 years soon. We just wanted to be together, nothing rushed us, we have had ups and downs but we are much stronger together now.
I really love that you prioritize your children over work. Some parents would work and work without trying to find time for their children. I know that work is important, but children do need the love and time with their parents as well. Having a special bond with your children is very beautiful. I admire you for having such a special relationship with your husband and kids while still be successful in your career.
So genuine. So precised and honest in answering the questions. So inspiring! ❤️
thank you so much lovely! Just released part 2 I hope you find that informative too xx ❤️
Malaysian here!! Love love love the way you talk! Just with humbleness in your voice and it really is amazing seeing how far you have come. You really inspire me
Am I the only one who felt the video was so short?😭😭 I’m so glad that you decided to share a little bit of you Mel.💕
Visa ́s I’m so glad I did too! I feel closer to you all xx
I really liked the transparency in this video. It’s like you told us just enough without giving away too much private details. Much appreciated❤️❤️❤️
It's NOT boring at all! It's the BEST video of you! Your life journey is so inspirational. My favorite part is when you talk about your marriage and your most difficult time, and also when you said you're a Believer. I like it that you said "Enjoy the journey" in the end of the video. Yes I was really enjoyed watching every second of this video. Thank you for sharing. Bless you
Thank you for being so honest, you made me cry when you talked about the hardest thing you’ve ever gone through.
It’s good to hear that you only have 1 credit card. That’s the correct way! My hubby and I don’t have any credit cards at all. We decide not to apply for credit cards. We only use debit cards 😁
No wonder I adore your vibe. We are in completely different worlds but so similar personality, values, upbringing, family priorities. Both 80s babies and the oldest siblings. Thanks for doing this video. We aren't entitled to all this info but it's been really nice to see! Take care.
This is why I love watching you!! So open and honest, you really touched on things that you didn’t have too. I loved how you lit up talking about hubby and your kids. You seem very sweet and genuine and anyone would be happy to call you a friend.
Such a compliment Debbie, thank you so much! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch. xo
Impressive years during uni. Your personality is what got you through where others drop and never make it back.
Thank you so much Tracy! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment xx
Mel, really really appreciate your most humble and honest way to share all your past, your husband, your kids, and even your financial situations. This is the best Q&A video I have ever watched so far, like you said raw and honest. Your end of video poem really really touched my heart 💓, especially in this difficult moment all around the world. Bless you Mel and your family, stay safe😘😘👍
You talking about getting married young and finishing your degree with a baby is so touching. I agree that God was with you all the way in planning and executing that wedding.
hi Mel!, fellow Sibu fella here, good to see people from a small town making an impact on the global platform - Kudos! Similarly I moved to Melbourne also!
You are an inspiration and spiritual! I was a young bride too - married and had my first child at 20. It's trying and scary but we do what we have to do - we want it all - just a little earlier than expected but it's all good. My 'kids' are now 41, 38 and 27! All are successful and happy. I actually retired early and loving watching your vids. Carry on! I'm now 62 but feel 40 and carry the bags - go us!
I got married at 21 and became pregnant 6 months later and we never regret our decision. When we got married we had nothing and everyone told us it will be a mistake but we wouldn’t listen to them. We worked hard for everything and we have a beautiful life with our 2 amazing kids. This year we will be married 13th years ❤️.
Diana Smith happy 13th years! I’m so happy to hear stories like yours. I can relate so much too! ❤️
Thank you for your bravery and honesty in making this video! As a fellow Virgo and bagaholic, I understand your obsessions and admire how you turned what you love into a career. We both know how determined us Virgo girls are! ;) Please keep doing what you do on TH-cam! Your fans really look forward to what you have to share!
I was crying when you talk about getting marriage at early age. I feel the struggle and I’m proud of you. I love you 😊😘
Awww thank you my dear. The struggle was worth it thank you so much for taking the time to watch xo
My mom married my dad when she was 19 and she was also pregnant, this year will be 33 years of them married.
So happy to hear stories like this xo
That is the COOLEST career being a buyer for department store!!!! And it fits so well with your love for fashion and it shows!!!! I love how passionate you are.
After hearing your story about your family life, it is clear why you and your husband are so blessed. May you continue to receive blessings that overflow
I couldn’t stop smiling when you were talking about how you met your hubby!!!!
I watched every minute of this & I loved it, thanks for being so open and honest☺️
It was so adorable how giddy you were when you told the story of how you met your husband and it's funny how you say one of your style icons is audrey hepburn because she's so elegant, be cause you also seem so humble and elegant!!
Aww thank you Kara such a compliment! xo
Hi, Mel! I’ve watched some of your videos, but not familiar with who you are. I’m glad I watched today, I’m amazed with your honesty and genuine sharing. How you talk about your struggles makes you just so real. Love how grounded you are in your faith and family life. I believe the world needs more influencers like you. 💖
I do not understand how anyone could be leaving you hate comments. You are the most genuine person I have ever seen on this Platform. Please do not listen to them, you are the best and keep living your best live Mel!!!
Aww thank you for your sweet compliments. Unfortunately this is one of the downsides to youtube. You do get some horrible comments but honestly I CHOOSE to focus on the positive and that is more than 95% of you all being so supportive like yourself. Thank you! xo
clicked straight away and didnt realise it was an hr long 😳😅
Jennifer T When Mel’s video is concerned, is never too long for me.........just ❤️ watching it.
i felt you so honest, your videos i like it because you dont show off about have money, you really enjoy shopping naturally and honest, sorry for my english im study now
Loved this video Mel. The whole story about how you got married and being pregnant with your son was lovely😘
Hi Mel! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. You truly are a genuine person and that’s why i love watching your channel. Something about myself: I’m also an introvert. I love luxury goods especially bags. I like to dress well and be presentable. I am an interior designer. However, i also love outdoor activities such as camping, biking, golfing and skiing. As much as I love to dress well when i get home, i change to my lounge clothes right away to relax and decompress. Your poem is inspiring and uplifting. Stay safe and keep in good spirits.
just now watching this, and I was so moved by your comments about the measure of success as the relationship and fluid communication with your kids. Wow. Couldn't be more true. We have twin sons who are 18, and feel so blessed that they feel free to talk to us and we can all relate to each other as well as we do. It feels like the biggest success we have ever achieved. Our family dynamic is relaxed and respectful. They've moved to college and are nearby, and are doing so well on their own. This is another thing we celebrate every day. Thanks for the candid answers. The stretch mark commentary made me smile--twins make some interesting stretch marks when they are 7lbs apiece. haha. I just consider it a reminder of what my body can do. And i'm proud of it. Cheers, Mel. Really enjoying your vids.
Gosh, that was lovely! I know lots of happily married couples that married young and met in high school or jr. high. You are lucky! I love The Five Love Languages too. Great book!
God bless!! ❤️ Your story of your son “sunshine” just melts my heart. Absolutely beautiful.
Thank you so much! God Bess you too! xo
Mel in Melbourne 😘
Hi I just started watching your videos really love it thts why I follow you in Instagram as well. you are so honest with Everything.Really love it keep it up ❤️
This was so wonderful to watch Mel! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us ❤️ I was secretly hoping we’d see some wedding photos! 😊❤️🌻
oh my, you really worked hard to make sure no questions to be left unanswered. that's really nice of you.
Absolutely beautiful video, your character truly shines through and I really enjoyed your transparency, perspective, and thoughtful advice.
omg mel, youre amazing! thank you so much for being so open and honest with us in answering all our Qs. I definitely appreciate the time and effort you put into this video! This almost 1 hr video didnt feel that long at all!
sending lots of love to you, hubby, ms S and your son-shine!
Helen S thank you so much Helen! I appreciate you watching the whole way through. It was definitely time I opened up and as a result I honestly feel closer to you guys. Xx
Watching this while walking the neighborhood, makes it easier
love everything you shared
Yay, a QnA is peeeerfect in these difficult times we have to spend at home
Mel what a candid, beautiful and authentic Q&A. You dont look 'almost 40' from a 'just turned 50' year old. I love your content(I am a kiwi) and also love Melbourne. Congrats on your success as mum, wife, business woman and you tuber. I shed a wee tear when you talked about your son, and the pride you show in your family, and the blessings of your faith.
I love our community too :)