Yes always. I feel we always tend to blame ourselves or our circumstances. But many times, it's also just the intensity of the system that makes us feel what we feel.
@@BrandonHilikus No, I don't think that's particular to the Irish. All over the world, we've been socialised to believe that showing vulnerability is a sign of weakness, so we hide it. And we end up showing the world that we have it all together instead of just being honest!
Welcome to Ireland Neha! How are you doing now? Wow, what a brave and beautiful video. Fellow overthinker and former migrant. My family are Irish. They plus extended family like to converse about what they did, who is doing what, and what is planned next. They like to talk about family, friends, holidays, memories too sometimes. So they are quite clannish and parochial. They rarely/never discuss feelings, so you may be craving emotional connection. A feeling of being known, seen, welcomed, cherished, supported, loved, belonging. Good luck with your PhD. I tutored many international PhD students with their research and data analysis. They were here in Ireland 4-5 years. They all missed Ireland when they left, but mainly for those friendships/supportive people who helped them through the PhD and international student experience, and I miss them too. Life is to be shared, so thank you for sharing your experience here with us.
It's soo beautiful too hear a entirely different versions of loneliness. Loneliness sometimes hit us badly and shatters us in peices but we've to collect those peices and find peace within... Sometimes loneliness comes to create a better version of ourselves.. they're our best friend in dark time. Thank you for sharing this perspective too Neha 🌺
OMG......I can tottaly relate to you. I just feel like its me talking. I feel the exact same way. My sadness and depression comes like a wind suddenly and I become better only the next day. I wish for immense strength love and properity to you sister. Lots of Love back from India
Everywhere could be lonely. But Europe’s weather and culture makes loneliness worse. I live in Europe and it’s great as a tourist place, but I realise it could be a really lonely place
Tired of the global capitalism machine that is driving my depression I truely believe that’s a big reason.
Yes always. I feel we always tend to blame ourselves or our circumstances. But many times, it's also just the intensity of the system that makes us feel what we feel.
@@NehaTetali do you feel the Irish have trouble being vulnerable?
@@BrandonHilikus No, I don't think that's particular to the Irish. All over the world, we've been socialised to believe that showing vulnerability is a sign of weakness, so we hide it. And we end up showing the world that we have it all together instead of just being honest!
@@NehaTetali ahh true!!
Welcome to Ireland Neha! How are you doing now? Wow, what a brave and beautiful video. Fellow overthinker and former migrant. My family are Irish. They plus extended family like to converse about what they did, who is doing what, and what is planned next. They like to talk about family, friends, holidays, memories too sometimes. So they are quite clannish and parochial. They rarely/never discuss feelings, so you may be craving emotional connection. A feeling of being known, seen, welcomed, cherished, supported, loved, belonging. Good luck with your PhD. I tutored many international PhD students with their research and data analysis. They were here in Ireland 4-5 years. They all missed Ireland when they left, but mainly for those friendships/supportive people who helped them through the PhD and international student experience, and I miss them too. Life is to be shared, so thank you for sharing your experience here with us.
This is like a mindblowing poem 👏👏👏
I have no words for this ... It's just amazing how you can put everything into the words and others can relate with that too ....
Thank you so much. Means a lot!
Beautifully said 😌
Lots of love and hugs from India ❤️🙏
Thank you! Hugs to you too♥️
Loved your honest perspective on loneliness!! Sending you good wishes and more strength to face loneliness! And I hope you have more happy times!
Thanks Aena! ♥
I love listening to your voice about such relatable stuff..soothing video
Thank you ♥️
It's soo beautiful too hear a entirely different versions of loneliness. Loneliness sometimes hit us badly and shatters us in peices but we've to collect those peices and find peace within... Sometimes loneliness comes to create a better version of ourselves.. they're our best friend in dark time. Thank you for sharing this perspective too Neha 🌺
Thanks Gaurav! It feels better to sometimes think of something that breaks us as having a helpful aspect too! 🙂
You gave me strength to bear with this seasonal loneliness in UK.
Your have a euphonious voice!
Please keep on uploading such videos!
It helps 🥺💕
Thanks a lot! It's tough, I can imagine. Hugs to you! ♥
I could totally feel whatever you said Neha. I could not express in words like you beautifully did! So thank you for this and more power to you! ❤
Thanks Nehal! Hugs to you😘
I moved to Dublin a month ago and lonelines is really starting to kick in
AMAZING VIDEO
OMG......I can tottaly relate to you. I just feel like its me talking. I feel the exact same way. My sadness and depression comes like a wind suddenly and I become better only the next day. I wish for immense strength love and properity to you sister. Lots of Love back from India
Thanks Himani! Yes it can be unpredictable sometimes. But we’ll get through it. Loads of love ❤️
Nice to see you and hear your voice again🥰💜
Keep uploading 💖
Thanks so much!🙂
Lovely video, Neha! 👍👏
Thanks ☺
Your words are so heart touching ♥
Thanks so much!
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Everywhere could be lonely. But Europe’s weather and culture makes loneliness worse. I live in Europe and it’s great as a tourist place, but I realise it could be a really lonely place